Change For Yourself, Not Others | by Jay Shetty

[@bvsrohit5393]

"When u become better for yourself, you will naturally be better for someone else"👏👏

[@adityapandey8398]

Well said man!!!!

[@nixralyah4710]

Yeaahh!

[@mayabastola1270]

Agreed

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[@varshinisalian3214]

True

[@yasmitha.j3339]

You don't change for anyone and don't expect others to change for you. That's true.

[@onlyhuman2936]

Acceptance

[@NenaLavonne]

Yasmitha J ♥️

[@jenniferandreas8077]

💖💖

[@bearlytraincot4131]

Well if you live with someone you have to negotiate domestic responsibilities. But most people have an idea what they're going into. It's not like she didn't know in advance that the guy didn't make his bed.

[@jafartemirov7812]

No i dont think that .

[@osse1n]

As long as outside factors dictate our life, we will never be free. *Transformation happens within, in the mind.*

[@kaharshdarling3021]

True

[@osse1n]

@Nini Prasad Salute to you Nini

[@garouuchiha4041]

some people dont change cuz that is how stupid they are cuz some do know they are in the wrong but dont care to change, fact!

[@Poorva-gc1li]

I've seen you in dhar Mann's comment section also everytime

[@eagleyeseagleyes8135]

This channel is just like Dhar Mann You guys should collab sometime

[@InnerVisionStudios]

The only person you can change is yourself. You either want to or not. Don't waste your time trying to change anyone else. Appreciate this video Jay.

[@gabezthangkhiew4192]

That's true

[@vijaygunjal4492]

@Jacob L a

[@ishaanayden2187]

I dont mean to be so offtopic but does someone know of a trick to get back into an instagram account..? I somehow forgot the login password. I would love any tricks you can offer me

[@nilak.s617]

This.

[@nojams4093]

When you become better for yourself, you'll naturally become better for someone else 👌🏼 ... I'm just writing it, so that I can remember this all the time 😔

[@jvibes3280]

Stay strong, much love 💛

[@nojams4093]

@@jvibes3280 thanks💜

[@royalprincess6468]

So true.. Still i dont do it.

[@nojams4093]

@Maleehah Muhammad hey💜

[@nojams4093]

@@royalprincess6468 But we are lucky that we have such great inspiring people, like Jay! At least we can try to work on ourselves, to be a better version of ourselves!👍🏼

[@gurudra]

When love is generated within you for you truly, there is no way you can hate another person

[@jenaprithviraj0433]

What? I don't find the logic. I mean, even though you truly love yourself, you might hate someone else if theyte bad enough. What's your point exactly, Gurudra?

[@LJohann]

@@jenaprithviraj0433 yeah i dont get it lmao

[@jenaprithviraj0433]

@@LJohann I guess I found a probable logic but I'm not sure. So here it is - When you truly love yourself, you genuinely accept your good attributes as well as your flaws. You actually gain wisdom and kind of realize that no one's perfect and, people, including ourselves are just innocent & immature beings striving to be a hero in their own respect. This realization might better help us to cope up with people and decreases our chances of hating/despising them bitterly. What do you think? Makes sense?

[@newbeing3007]

Love find its way 🥰🥰🥰

[@manharsingh658]

Beautifully put. These modern day thinking is all BS. When someone truly loves you, they love you no matter what and irrespective of your habits.

[@ErikaK]

You don't need to change to be accepted or for someone else to appreciate you and love you, you can change to become a greater version of yourself, work on your personal development every day but do it for you, not to please others and be what others want you to be... when you love and accept yourself, others will appreciate you and love you and see your light shining ♡

[@stephaniejordanalbum1478]

Ur word r definitely right. Change starts within coz we cant control d world to adjust for us. We, the one, will adjust because our life is the thing that we can control, not the circumstances.

[@xoliswamthiyane8694]

Change s good

[@ErikaK]

@@stephaniejordanalbum1478 yes !!!! ♡♡♡♡ sending lots of love !!!

[@ErikaK]

@@xoliswamthiyane8694 ♡♡♡ yes ! Have a wonderful day !!!

[@ronojpayeng637]

But now his life is meaningless even if he's changed.. she is a bitch hanging with another guy just right after few days.. Now he will never be happy no matter how much he can earn.. Bcz he lost the biggest thing of his life.. She knows that he was changing

[@genmojica2172]

Don't ask people to change instead make them inspired to change for the better through your example... Mighty change of heart is true...

[@Lea-ov8vq]

This shows that even if you're the perfect person, there will be people that simply won't want us 💔

[@saikureti5924]

You just haven't met them yet

[@sampada614]

when someone leaves it makes us more aware of our negative habits, loved it

[@lialiyull]

But that man's efforts just melt my heart. Come to mama boi. Lol

[@GentlemenJack109]

Don’t change for others, change for you. If someone wants you to change then they don’t accept who you are. If you change because someone wants you to change then your not being true to yourself. People want you to change because they don’t like you. If someone wants you to change then just go away from them because they are not worthy enough to be in your life.

[@noahroberts6946]

“To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson... Although it's sad, it's the truth, society today tells us that in order to be happy, live a good life, and even to survive, we must avoid anything that is socially unacceptable... So we put on masks and play roles just to fit in and be accepted by others rather than doing what we really want to do and acting how we really want to act. To everyone reading this, be your TRUE self! It is only then will you be able to live a truly happy, free and passionate life!! Thank you Jay, you inspire me to follow my life purpose to help others!! Much love! ❤️❤️

[@kierlak]

Yep. Never change for someone else, only for yourself and to have better relationship with yourself. That way you can be a better partner to that person. Changing unhealthy habits is often beneficial however don't try to change your personality, don't change who you truly are. Find out your authentic self and be that person. Be honest as early as possible when dating. It's better to be rejected by being authentic than accepted for the role you've been playing, for the mask you've been putting on. That will just exhaust you in the long run and your relationship will come to an end eventually. Don't fall in love too quickly. Find out what you want in a person, keep looking be patient - there will always be someone who you're be compatible with.

[@parabeshbhusal8892]

"But you are not like the rest, you wouldn't be listening to this if you were"

[@yourijevriend730]

nobody is exact the same in charactar for in those relationship, its how you can fit in to each other with what you have the as him/her and trying from begin to change some flaws

[@chriscristah9178]

Great Message!!! Golden Rule... “Love others as we love ourselves.” Women do communicate, letting men know what’s breaking their heart and give signs of grieving the end of the relationship before they leave. Wanting to be an Intimate Partner, not a Mom. Because of our ego and selfishness we don’t listen then take our Partner for granted... Some of us do sometimes learn the hard way. Be a Partner, not a Burden. This is what True Love does.

[@prabalsarkar3087]

Loved it, but the girl needs to know that someone who can change himself just for her, is a person worth it.

[@Ana-gq7ce]

I think the same. Except when the person changes into someone they don't like or abandon their passion/hobbies just because their partner doesn't like what they pursue

[@violetmujeres1034]

It's weak I think

[@spacebartoloud]

Yea... trying to get someone to change by yelling at them, and then say it was an attempt to get them to "want" too change seems like such a naïve, and manipulative way to get what you (she) want(s). Don't get me wrong those are bad behaviors the guy had, and they needed to change, still it is was a sad way that she attempted to bring change, I am sure she had flaws too, that he probably ignored (as MANY men do) - and in fairness I am sure there were small things that she ignored too during that relationship. (EDIT: In fairness I am not sure what she could have done better to get him to want that change, because it was ingrained into his being/it can be a hard mindset to change, because what we see as a problem others could be like... "eh, it's not too bad.") Either way I do agree a guy who is willing to change himself to make a better life for both parties involved is someone worth keeping around, albeit when we change for the better after the event/trouble that has finally caused something to awaken it is often far too late sadly. :( It comes back to changing because YOU want too, not others, he is so right, love thyself, become better for yourself, and others will realize that confidence and how good you are, and someone better may come along. There is a reason why relationships fail, neither party is entirely innocent when a relationship fails/falters, sure sometimes one party is more at fault than the other, but it still takes two to be willing to try too work it out. I have had a similar experience in my life, I am not changing for her (my ex... or whatever the fuck that relationship was) I am changing for myself, I have no desire to allow her back in my life the way she was before, I am trying to work on the flaws I had, I have accepted partial responsibility for the role I played in that failure, but I am not seeing it as a bottomless pit so too speak, I am treating it as a learning moment, a bump in the road, a wall, I will be better for it in the end, and she wont be around to see the transformation. Still I do wish her the best/hope karma is done with her.

[@jmeigh]

He was trying and that is better than not making an effort at all. The things he was trying to improve on are healthy and good skills to have. I think she needed to acknowledge that.

[@Latifa-ik9uk]

YouCan Motivation Someone who change himself for her will SHOW himself worth it. DOESN'T mean he actually is. Change never comes within a day/a month. This is the biggest trick someone can use to make someone fall in love with him/her. A real change comes from within not because of an outside person/factor. She's right in not going back with him.

[@istahilmustafa764]

"When you become better for yourself, you naturally be better for someone else" Thank you very much jay you're the only one who inspired me to be myself, to move on and to be a better version of myself. Thank you so much I don't even know how to thank to you, you're like an older brother for me love you from the bottom of my heart. Hope you the happiest life for you and your amazing wife. Love you 💖💖💖

[@strng7754]

LOVE yourself and the world will LOVE you. ♥

[@arunlalrajagopal3005]

When you change for others you will feel it hard and doing When you change for yourself you will feel like the whole world is helping you or atleast feel like helping you and you will feel from your heart

[@cynthiamate3237]

Arunlal Rajagopal going through at the moment and it's wonderful 😊❤

[@arunlalrajagopal3005]

@@cynthiamate3237 wow nice Let your journey of changing for your self continue and enjoy every moment of that journey and learn from it We are never late to learn a new things in life nor never experienced enogh not to learn a new things also

[@skarqen]

Always change yourself first, then you may consider to help others to change for the better.

[@nobody3602]

Hi...Dorin I wish you see this and change for yourself...not only for me😘❣️💖

[@katiaTaylor]

I love this, such a powerful message. I have always told my friends, don’t expect anyone to change for you because that change will be temporary. People only change for themselves before the is good reason for it, they are doing it for themselves not for others

[@Liddyart]

It’s very true. It’s one of the reasons that I broke up my relationship with him. I realized he changed so much and so quick to please me. I love that he is trying so hard but I realized that’s not truly who he is. So I’m being with someone who are a completely different person than his true self then what’s the point of being with him? I don’t want him to act like he can’t be himself around me bc he’s not changing for his better self but for me. I let him go and let myself go. (again with other reasons as well)

[@fatimaafifa1561]

Be a talented person, people will themselves be inspired by you

[@vo6172]

This speaks so much to me right now. I'm at this point in my life. So eye opening. Thank you for sharing. Another great video.

[@gszone1923]

When we choose change for OURSELVES 🙇 it gives Real "HAPPINESS" 💝😊 🙏

[@ScarletFever109]

This video helped me realize my former boyfriend and I are too different. I also decided to make changes within myself so I can become a better person.

[@crustcore1457]

Thankyou so much Jay Shetty for making our lives way more better and beautiful . Thankyou for taking us at ease..💜

[@UnrevealedSinger]

"When you become better for yourself, you'll naturally be better for someone else "🤞👏

[@lesiwiko2780]

From what I have observed no matter how you concern for others their opinions don't matter because at the end of it all its your life and what you do you do it for your well-being because you want to be proud of yourself

[@rosesareredandpink6410]

I transformed because I wanted to become a fashion designer. And a fashion designer should always be fashionable.

[@SujathaS-sx3kg]

Exactly right sir! First of all we need to change for ourselves, not for others.

[@immortalmadness680]

Just love my self and do whatever I can to make my future bright. Because I love my self.

[@gabezthangkhiew4192]

Most of us trying to change for others in order to fit in their groups.

[@HonestHomemaker]

Thank you universe for sending Jay Shetty my way 💗💕

[@cozyoluwaseyi1978]

Thanks Jay. I hope many people realize this fact. So that the world can become a better place.

[@akashrai3042]

Because when you become better for yourself you will naturally be better for someone else 🙏 well said

[@muhammedhussain6013]

This is definitely true. I have experienced this. She wanted me to change not for her but for myself, so I could be a better person. However my stubborn nature led into constant fights. I never view from her pov. I was selfish that I only should get my needs fulfilled unaware of what she was going through. It's been almost 2 months since we talked after that fight. I realised that I wanted this change for myself not for anyone else. People what I'm saying is sometimes it's rare to get angels in disguise and make sure you don't take it for granted. Even if you mess up it is a lesson don't worry. Have a great life ahead :)

[@hsfshampoorambutlebat3577]

Thank Allah. This is what I need now jay. Thank you soo much😢

[@baskarelumalai6679]

In India for very useless videos, they gave 1000 advertisements between the videos but for a useful video, just one advertisement at the end of the video. This shows how much u care about the society. LOVE U BROTHER

[@chachars5044]

Being single is the best choice😂

[@jenniferandreas8077]

Yas everyday 🤗❤️

[@electromadness5348]

Agreed

[@chachars5044]

@@jenniferandreas8077 So busy to be in a relationship .☺😂

[@chachars5044]

@@electromadness5348 ☺

[@jafartemirov7812]

But so far... when people get older that time need your next of kin.

[@TheBananaDeanna]

I accomplished a beautiful task change in my life it wasn't easy, but I believed, and my heart & soul smiled deeply! I am grateful that did not give up on me. Grateful for a beautiful & patient teacher who helped. Gratitude & thankfulness at the core.

[@KiritsujuEmiya]

Jay! You are saying pearls May God bless you I wish one day Allah swt Guide you

[@biancawijaya1772]

Knowing each other's values will keep you from wasting your time.

[@contactthisnumberforlovesp1238]

I know of a man who can help you get back your ex love just as him help me get back my ex if you need help text him up on WhatsApp 2 3 4 8 1 4 5 3 9 2 7 2 1 ❤

[@tanushreechaudhury8168]

This is a very powerful message to learn Thank you ❤️

[@raniyuna2930]

It happened to me and then I was trying to be best for him for 8 years. And till moment when I wrote my first book. To impress him...but I don't feel regret...it took me high.🙈💖🙌🏻 It's very good and important lesson!❤🙏🏻

[@philosophiesoflife6186]

*This saved me from falling in a relationship* .. I'm 'bout to approach to my crush today.😥

[@jetomoon]

So did it work?

[@abigiyaworku1671]

You're life changer Jay this is a type of life im struggling with, yeah you right i need to change my self not him😔i relived now🍀🍀🍀☘️☘️☘️☘️☘️and thank you

[@veerendranath7980]

Look at yourself and think What can i change to trust myself What can i change to believe in myself more What can i change to invest in myself more 🖤❤️❣️ loved these lines

[@d2.050]

Yeah I learned this lesson from my experience watching others that you need to change for yourself not for others. Also don’t give up your likes & passion for someone else, don’t watch Netflix show just because someone asked you too. Watch it because you like it sure we can support them & all. But we should never loose self-respect . I learned my lesson hard way tbh being in one sided friendship & crush….

[@priyankachowdhury5322]

BUT THAT GUY TRIED HIS BEST TO CHANGE HIMSELF FOR THAT GIRL!! HE DIDN'T DESERVE THIS :((

[@Ms.Irod2024]

Too little too late

[@shebangart4418]

Indeed. He left all his bad habits. He deserved a chance.

[@sunshinemehta2788]

@@Ms.Irod2024 perfectly put ! stay blessed.

[@sunshinemehta2788]

Priyanka Chowdhury wake up to REALITY ! He fully deserved it ! He had it coming for a lonnng time. He just didnt see it coming ! Wasnt he aware of his bad habits ?? He knew he had to change. He just took the lady for granted. Stretched the relationship too far n didnt hear it break ! He deserved every bit of it ! stay blessed.

[@priyankachowdhury5322]

@@sunshinemehta2788 I do get your point, but still hope he got another chance :)

[@oviyamanoharan8514]

If u truly want a person in ur life...then that change comes very organically without any propulsion....it drives u to do it without any compulsion...and on the other hand acceptance is the key to a happy life...rejecting a person because of his habits is also equally wrong...it should b a mutual effort for both of them to accept and change together to lead a happy life

[@hiranazly627]

*I wish u were my BROTHER* *LOVE u JAY SIR* *You are the only person who motivates me* *THANK YOU*

[@delulusasuke]

Yeah I agree with everything. Change yourself to make yourself better, don't change yourself because of someone ask you to do so.

[@russpeaknuckel9525]

Why would I want to be "better" for someone ? Why can't I just be me ? If someone Loves you, they will accept you as is. Nobody is perfect !

[@pranavkhetan6692]

I think this guy Jay is amazingly confident clear strong and positive

[@dianegiovanniello3948]

Free to be me, embrace your imperfections

[@NenaLavonne]

Diane Giovanniello 👏👏👏😊

[@vickvique3859]

Awesome 🌟💚🌟🌟💚🌟

[@harrymakongwa1147]

If we can quarrel about making up a bed better what about financial stuffs..if we become to emotional than logical our heart start being apart even of are together. ...I can't just believe she broke up with him and soon like she had another Man..Thanks Jay for sharing this ...it got me at right the moment when I came torealize that t even being good is evil and will bring too much pain..

[@royalathena2705]

You are awesome and I love every video

[@tyefreeman7330]

Jay you are the biggest inspiration to me any millions of others I would love for u to video more on how to love ourselves I lack that in me being hurt so much mainly family... please and thank you for your guidance in the real world this one is the best yet... love you and wife... keep them coming I support your truth and respect..

[@sainani8271]

Try to change yourselves if your doing wrong, don't give a chance to someone...(for exposing your bad habits)...

[@woocheongan1437]

I think the content of this video is very good. In today's fast-paced life environment, many people are forced to live a life they don't like. In fact, most people can change the status quo, because there is no other factor other than ourselves. Obstruct our life, insist on a little effort every day, make small changes in goals, and believe that everyone can have the life they like.

[@neharagnihotri1805]

Great work jay .. all the very best ..you inspire me❤

[@limming5589]

Yes always change to get ourself better, not in term of mindset and also our physical health

[@vannessaflaloo8029]

A guy doesn't give up on the one who he really care and love 😥😥😭😭

[@contactthisnumberforlovesp1238]

I know of a man who can help you get back your ex love just as him help me get back my ex if you need help text him up on WhatsApp 2 3 4 8 1 4 5 3 9 2 7 2 1 ❤

[@youtuberbayleexiong908]

Be us unconditionally is so amazing because you can never loose

[@SEA4ENGLISH]

I do agree with you and I have seen great changes around me when I changed myself. Your presentation is awesome 👏🏿 God bless you!

[@pratyakshamalu2255]

Thanks Jay for making people see this...

[@hooikidz]

3:42 that new boyfriend doesn’t look like he’s tidy at all. Lol!

[@insiya4561]

hooikidz it is to show.. people are people. They be who they are. We cannot interfere with their lives to change for them. We should change for us!

[@mishraclasses2718]

Lol

[@dotarea7918]

Fats guy maybe heavy

[@bearlytraincot4131]

Right?

[@bearlytraincot4131]

@@marquezmercado1480 lmao

[@atemkoul9544]

It’s painfully lesson but it can change your life for every like every

[@austere_kore]

I really liked the girl. She's a woman who knows what she wants and get it straight. But, still can't help being sorry for the boy. Poor him

[@austere_kore]

@@marquezmercado1480 haha...right!

[@surajj9401]

If the boy did that,he is controlling and restrictive 😅 But she really cheated him

[@austere_kore]

@@surajj9401 no no. If the boy does that then he will be right too. But, unfortunately men are not like this. They don't know how to be tidy 😂😂

[@austere_kore]

@@surajj9401 yes I kind of felt this is cheating too. Did you see how adorable he is! It broke my heart. She could take him back. But, she's right too

[@jakemf1]

Sorry no, stop trying to change others acceptance is the corner stone of many relationships

[@Soseriouslook]

The most eye opening video I have ever seen but you know what we all have the idea in back of our heads that if we do those things than there is a possibility to get back the person we love and that is the most painful part.

[@r.i.t.i.k.a]

We should change.. If we don't we will become stagnant.. But we should change for ourselves

[@noahroberts6946]

Totally agree! Change is wonderful and necessary! It makes life beautiful and unpredictable! ❤️❤️

[@fee3818]

Its called growing up

[@fee3818]

Or Man-up

[@Icecoldbob]

This is exactly how my relationship went, wow! Thank you for the clarification and values. I wish I saw this before my break up bc I would have maybe realized my fault and saw that I needed to improve and grow to love myself more so I could have loved her even more.

[@rehan174]

Concepts are always on top!

[@SaniyoVlogs]

Whenever we are in a serious relationship we should use our instinct to see what the other person is hating.

[@fahmidaalam9650]

Please make video on removing depression and being cheerful

[@NenaLavonne]

Fahmida Alam Priyanka 😊✨

[@fee3818]

Get help for depression

[@fahmidaalam9650]

Thanks Nena 💚 find ur channel 😍

[@bhawnaklair3681]

That's deep!! Surely it's what every mother should tell to her children when they have a messy room

[@jakemf1]

You change they resent you for that and find you weak and loose attraction, you don't change and they leave because you didn't change welcome to confusion 2020

[@jeandixon990]

So right You have to make change for yourself not others

[@alamischerryanns.5667]

Thanks for this jay. It means a lot to me. ❣️ #selfloveisthekey

[@Pannakoppala]

Thisnis absolutely true. I have been a subject to bullying.i have been morbidly obese with low self esteem.there was a point in my life that came i thought it was enough!i need to change. I changed my life style.lost 70 lbs.i just finished a 5krun in 38 mins i won a beauty peagent people's choice award this year.I feel so powerful now.just because i changed for the better of myself!

[@nina2006nina]

Everybody cannot be organized and perfectionists. Chaotic people also bring in some strenghts. In relationship or at work, important to complement skills rather than asking a person to change the way we want. Not fair.

[@kingfmotivation3048]

You are The only man who's change the other men's to changing the word thank you🔥💥🙏

[@nihalbadiger8922]

3:02 Ntr But a nice lesson to the ppl around the world who r willing to do everything for someone else and nothing for themselves...

[@niagaraphopho6790]

My one guy friend once laughed at me in front of a huge crowd of other friends that I was unknown to. He thought I'll take it as a joke but little did he knew about what was going inside my head those days. I felt terrible that day. I was on the verge of depression on those months but that incident got me totally that day. My all hope got killed. I fell into major depression for 2 years straight and my body starts getting more disfigured because somedays I was over eating and somedays I don't eat at all. But, after those two years, I looked myself back in the mirror and I felt terrible that yeah he was wrong for body shaming me but that incident bought me here today and I stood up for myself that girl you need to change- not because so those people don't laugh at you in future but for your self confidence, for yourself. And today I am loosing my weight while I am still on my antidepressants. But, I'll do it. For the sake of me, because I can.💜

[@Livechemist]

All the best for ur new phase of life 🔥

[@niagaraphopho6790]

@@Livechemist Thanx a lot dear😀

[@rudychan2003]

She is cheating, She is perfectionist, She found someone new, That's just an excuse! 😜

[@tomasmigmon2751]

Oh, yeah she is manipulate him and when he refuse to change, she broke up all really knowing she have a new provider lined up..

[@Fitriyani-qt7dh]

she obviously not cheating :/ she dated the new guy after they broke up. she wasn’t perfectionist cause i would do the same. i dont want a guy who can’t even clean up his own mess, ignore me, drinking.

[@bearlytraincot4131]

Wow. I'm a woman and I thought she was a bitch but this isnt how this scenario usually plays out. Usually the guy is just being as big of pain in the ass as he can be because he wants to be in control. But these two would never be together in real life anyway.

[@Liddyart]

Kitt Songstad she’s not being a bitch. You might not have been in a relationship in her situation bc I have. If the other half are changing because you told them to, it’s only temporary before they bounce back to themselves. This is bc they are not growing to become a better part of who they are, but to keep you in the relationship by acting that certain way. It won’t last long- bc you are in love with the wrong person. It’s a mature decision to realize it and to break it off than dragging it on.

[@OfficialSeth]

Yeah, I think she met someone else that she was interested in and then just looked for reasons to break up with him. I lived with a woman kinda like her but the difference is that she was the lazy one in the relationship and she never cleaned her dishes and she would leave her dirty clothes everywhere. Oh, and she had a cat and she put the litter box in the bathroom so there was always cat litter all over the floor. Imagine taking a shower and then when you get out you have to step in cat litter. So nasty. Then her dad called her out of the blue one day and said he was coming over so she hauled ass to clean up the apartment and the whole time she was blaming me for the place being dirty. I'm like haaaaaaahahahaha seriously? Then a few days later she ended the relationship because I think she met someone new, she had stopped being affectionate with me and wouldn't even snuggle anymore, and then said "we just aren't compatible."

[@padambahadurchetry493]

Hey Jay this is Padam from India... You don't how much this video is important for me.And I can say that I ma awake now. You have been a great mentor . Thank You. Hope to see you someday personally.

[@jevonsims900]

Did anyone catch the fact that the her apartment wasn't that clean? Just goes to show you'll never be the right person for the wrong person.

[@electromadness5348]

She lied just so she could be with the other dude or just to get rid of the old one

[@richasharma5949]

"When you become better for yourself, you naturally be better for someone else". Thanks for this amazing video. It resonates with me for what I am going through right now. We don't need to change our selves completely, just our small bad habits, like being dependent on your partner or being possessive... All your videos are making me think and learn so much...But funnily, not tidying up a room isn't a reason to break up with someone, it is such a minute thing in life that anyone can learn..and the guy showed such a sweet gesture to do that. Hanging out with guy friends over a beer is also not a bad thing, as people do need to socialise. It just gives the couple more time to be with other friends rather than just those 2 people hanging out all the time.

[@troyhagen587]

Move ON PEAPLE out grow each other GREAT VIDEO and INFORMATION THANK YOU. Be the BEST YOU CAN BE ROCKSTAR. GREAT JAY

[@kabilan8418]

Every word Jay speaks is actually healing me from the past❤️

[@Lindsweightloss]

"If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make that change". Guess who's quote is this? ;)

[@chr1staki]

Easy... Donald Trump

[@juanmanuelbasso1224]

Ghandi?

[@whatimhungry2784]

Shrek

[@zionmoses1839]

Mahatma Gandhi...." Be the change that you want to see in this world "

[@devduhh]

My?

[@leas6817]

I need to watch this 3 times a day for a lifetime

[@newbeing3007]

That's why I am single😆😆

[@wansiewdor8135]

Hahahahaha

[@lauramanaf6205]

I can feel you.

[@newbeing3007]

@@lauramanaf6205 ha ha ha

[@hassanhamilton1363]

Fuck relationships 🖕

[@tayanamasanja3952]

Let us be in love

[@bestofsa8621]

Thank you so much jay I don't know how much I get inspired by your words You have magic of words which transform million of peoples When my last breath will come You will definitely come into my lifes flashback there , and I promise I will not get scary... I will give you a million dollar smile🙂🙂🙂

[@brunotheexpert8230]

Changing into something you dont want for someone else is going to make you sad .

[@fiomariajames]

Yes Change for ourselves not for others 💯 Loved it 👍 Thanks Jay for always giving us such a beautiful and meaningful message 🤗

[@prajnash.5477]

The girl needs to know everyone deserves 2nd chance and the guys seems to love her very much.

[@dr.pranalideshmukh8346]

True.. thanks U make my day.. I m the same as u mentioned that we have to change for ourselves But sometimes u got affected by surrounding and u start doubting yourself.. What does matter is ..yes.. u..your progess...how better u r today from yesterday..