The SECRET To Finding LOVE & The PERFECT PARTNER Explained! | Jay Shetty

[@bahaatamer1245]

1. They respect and value your dreams! 2. They are present with you at the moment! 3. That person is self aware and knows their own self worth! 4. Trust! 5. You dont always need someone to keep the chemistry between the two of you! 6. You can spend time apart, but cant wait to be back! 7. You can disagree! 8. You dont have to like each others' friends! 9. You can be your real self with them! 10. You argue to get to a healthy conclusion! 5 months later and I got 1.9k likes out of nowhere: thanks guys! :)

[@mizyasmin26]

hey ,I agree but not with second one, your partner don´t need to be there anytime and anywhere (because work,school etc) but if you need him than he needs to be present. And the third ,i dont know what does it means.

[@christinewright8670]

@@mizyasmin26 the second one doesn't mean that they have to be with you all the time, it means that when they ARE with you they are ACTUALLY PRESENT in the moment; for example, not on their cell phone or looking around or not paying any attention to you at cetera. And the third one means that they have their own self worth and respect for themselves; because the only way someone can show respect for you is if they have respect for themselves.

[@lianaint1178]

So that means the guy i like is not the one its not love just hope

[@oneten3754]

Explore17 🙏

[@Cecigarcian_n]

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[@alamasama]

You already know the ONE, look in the mirror. It's you!!! Love you and the person you love is complementary to making your life meaningful

[@kristina6087]

this is really beautiful

[@rizzymay450]

Very true

[@farheenkhan5275]

Shut up

[@nancyguardado7709]

I agree 😃

[@Flop9719]

That's called narcissism lol

[@Sr20657]

Someone once told me when I asked them how I would find true love , “ don’t look for true love , look for love that seems good enough to be true “ Man that stuck with me

[@lesegopercyval7703]

Sassy Pohtato dont try to look for love let love find you.

[@melissaannmagee27]

This is so true, if it's hard to believe and seems to good to be real, its real...

[@Emily-sf8wz]

Do you mean that seems too good to be true but us true?

[@hannabie_]

I can say that im lucky because after all the heartbreaks and failed relationships, God gave me my husband and im happily married for 7 years. We are bestfriends.

[@aaliyaholson532]

Last week I found out my spouse had always been texting this woman also. He said she lives in New York but we stay in Houston Tx then I didn't bother after I did some investigation I found out that she lives in Texas too I couldn't just think straight I was hurt and feel like my soul was taking away we have no kiss yet and we have been married for 10 years now when there is not enough money I make sure he finish schooling and got a good job, finding out about his affairs with this woman is not easy for me because have hired a lot of private investigators but Donald help via whats-app [phone] made all this secret came out plainly to me....You can also contact him also on #Instagram FEEDDONALD1 if you want to know more about your spouse and come back thanking me.. Tested and reliable with 100% guaranteed

[@summersunshineillusions2767]

Congratulations! I am yet to reach that point that I hope to get as lucky as you!

[@tzdtuc-pd9yv]

Congrats, you deserve it in the end !

[@ritikak2612]

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[@salmanmehar2613]

hy this for you dear now you can find you lover around the world viral481.com/srv.html?id=5498947&pub=1342606

[@satarupaganguly8553]

When you feel u r not falling in love anymore, instead u are rising in love....Dear u have found the one ❤

[@2enigma8]

LOVE THAT! thanks for sharing

[@sunprincipe4711]

Amen

[@luchitarivs9838]

👍👍👍👍👍💗💗💗

[@sancharisorenmusic1452]

Very true

[@anitamaharjan1108]

❤❤❤

[@ywertz8800]

Video actually starts at 3:15 You're welcome.

[@spitzkopf2128]

pradhan shrestha is _this_ the way to talk to someone?

[@stha03]

@@spitzkopf2128 well i don't know but one thing is for sure that you are a pervert....

[@tinastrouther3842]

Brilliant

[@salvekour4701]

Thanks 🍁

[@exclusivevocab8368]

Thnku

[@KellieKellyCorner]

Some of my ways I knew my husband was the one are; 1. We disagree openly and honestly without taking it personal that we have different opinions. 2. We are completely opposite and because of that we help balance one another. 3. We enjoy our differences because we see it as an opportunity to learn something new 4. We ended up wanting to better ourselves because we could finally see ourselves through each others eyes and knew we deserved to be the best versions of ourselves without being forced. 5. We challenge each other. We force each other to step outside our comfort zone in order to make ourselves acknowledge what we usually try to avoid. 6. We helped each other find our strengths in our weakest moments. 7. We validate each others feelings. We share our goals. We create our dreams and encourage each other along the way.

[@nafizfaruk19]

This is beautiful, sad to say I thought I had a lot of these common with this woman I fell in love with and I could definitely feel her love for me too. But things got messed up between us and her past led to us ending before we even started, especially because we began as friends. But I'll still always be around her to support when I can from a respectable distance. Thanks for sharing Kelly. Beautiful insights that I agree with and feel are also true to what I would want a relationship with a partner for myself to be like. May Allah keep you guys happy and together.

[@yukijkina-vargasaguirre6304]

This advice is quite helpful

[@joanpashinsky-greve8760]

Kellie Kelly Corner I get your comments my husband and I are same way

[@RegumRai]

I always thought 'The One' should have common interest or opinions with you. But this is interesting.

[@eighteror]

@@RegumRai It's not that important! Similar values and morals are more important in the long term. I remember in high school still I would hope that my boyfriend would dress like this and listen to that, since I enjoyed those things and aesthetics. In my now relationship I don't see those things important at all. Surely it is nice if you have some common interest like excersise or traveling, but in grand picture much bigger things matter than what do you think about certain bad or food :)

[@elenabalogova4592]

1. You respect and trust one another 2. You both know how to make each other laugh 3. Both of you want the other person to succeed 4. You love each others flaws 5. He/she makes you feel special

[@bthartneyx]

I met her (Shan) when I was sixteen. I was instantly attracted to her. We hung out for a week and I realised I could be myself around her. She made feel good about being me. I told her at the end of that week that I was going to marry her one day. She laughed. A few months later she left for Scotland to study aircraft engineering. She was away for 5 years and during that time I dated many girls. I was dead inside, I realised one day that it was because I was comparing these relationships to what I had with Shan (Nick name). She came back, we got back together, we got married. It still is amazing, but we have had to work hard at our marriage, sometimes more so than not. I can still be me, I don't have to pretend, I can say whatever I feel, whatever I fear and it's all okay. It's been a hell of a journey and I look forward to any more amazing years.

[@chrissyisateehee._.4855]

MrH im so glad u and her got a happy ending

[@MatthewCSHughes]

MrH really beautiful Brother, thank you so much for sharing ❤️

[@caitlyn8611]

that's so sweet! - happy for you! xo

[@ajaykarthi7760]

MrH Happy for you brother as ya got the girl you like as your life partner , that is the most beautiful feeling and hardest task in life getting married to someone who you love, Wish me luck tooo

[@KJAlways]

That is so awesome!! 💜💚🧡🙏🏽

[@maygordon9019]

If you've ever been hurt by someone you love and the relationship ends, please take time to to heal. Enjoy you, so you can enjoy someone else. Slow down, real love will not run off and leave you. Trust, respect each other and become friends first, because there will be times in your life when you'll need a Friend. That is your real love.

[@Tallonest]

May Gordon so you’re saying to stay friends with your ex?

[@betelhemgetachew6210]

You are the best

[@rubit1626]

Thank you

[@choosiakkiong85]

Like it..!

[@nubuartrashid5350]

Wow💕

[@clw6791]

Best relationship advise I ever got....Your relationship doesn't have to make sense to everyone else, as long as it works in a healthy way for the two of you. That's why it's YOUR RELATIONSHIP and not anyone else's.

[@Thisz026]

How you can deal with someone that lie constantly?

[@teddynkwabi4502]

wilson wilson Amen to that!

[@KJAlways]

sherlijn de windt I would eventually stop wasting my time on a person who is a liar and not trustworthy if they did not stop doing it. Jay say trust must be earned. How can you trust a liar?

[@ShineVizzy]

I needed this

[@treavam5653]

Loved "In a healthy way" -- most important. Otherwise nuclear disaster is just a matter of time.

[@hendyho3240]

You will know he is your true love when your mind and heart have the same agreement. No struggling, no questioning, no confusing.... Inside you just know

[@romanitza24]

Hehe. Good point. True. Totally true.

[@sitifarida3310]

i agree

[@TGIF82]

I just realised I am The One for myself:-)

[@randomnyss2011]

Good....!?

[@nikitadiaz_]

🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@aleksandralazareska5100]

You are not only one 😉😀

[@archanapokhrel5042]

Same feeling 😊

[@qairaandhermagicalworld9333]

😂😂😂

[@lebo5676]

You know you have found the one, when they can still respect (not excuse or enable) you when you are at your lowest of lows. Loosing your job, failing a course, fighting depression. Instead of tearing you down, they can call you to action/encourage you to change and develop. That’s deep love.

[@kikiabdi3194]

true indeed ❤❤❤❤

[@KJAlways]

I love my best friend, who is my ex-boyfriend for 3.5 years now, through it all!

[@Self-actualization123]

Lebo Selemela indeed!

[@crazyleaf257]

Lebo Selemela ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@tanum7158]

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[@cantoscope8966]

Stop looking for true love, just be true and love will find you. 😏

[@basudevadhikari9178]

That's Right

[@ndubuisiifeanyi499]

Yea

[@yash7223]

Have you found one?😂

[@crypto5128]

Yes❤️

[@saniafirdos3474]

Agreed

[@sinahjond7402]

They respect your privacy, your feelings, and they respect themselves.

[@TheIheartweezyfbaby]

1. They value/support your dreams 2. They are present with you in the moment. 3. They know their self worth/own person. 4. Earn your trust 5. You don't need anything to keep the fire burning 6. You can spend time apart but can't wait to be together. 7. You can disagree. 8. You don't have to like their friends. 9. You can be your real self. 10. You argue but so you can come to a healthy conclusion together. It's more of a discussion

[@wealthlibrary]

love you self kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk bless the year

[@emansam1847]

"It's not about who's right and who's wrong,it's about getting to the right conclusion together"

[@tom7083]

eman mb "......and I have the right conclusion!" :P

[@spriya7]

Agree

[@beingthebestemmaicanbe3785]

Your eye colour skin colour combo is absolutely stunning! Very handsome.

[@ClaireRachel]

I met him once at one of his talks and his eyes are mesmerizing! He makes you feel like you're the only person in the room of thousands!

[@Gymnastzz]

Claire Rachel I bet! He seems like an amazing person. And anyone with eyes like that knows how to use them, myself included.😳😁

[@juhishukla5667]

So true !!

[@karishmak1170]

Agreed

[@queenvic83]

Jaemee Gasaway 😂😂😂 Woooord..lol 👍😉

[@omkarrevankar7605]

There is an awsum line in the movie "before we go" which I still believe in - "No one is perfect, and there will be struggles, Its us who choose the person with whom we wanna struggle with". This blew my mind and I feel if both the individuals feel the same, then thats love.

[@ashwanijha7695]

Unfortunately, these days people are so busy in finding the perfect partner, that they cheat on the present when the struggle begins. But the miss being in the journey together, and man that thrill and adventure is absolutely amazing!!. Anyone here felt the same?

[@nithinr3617]

When you find the one, you don't really crave for a relationship with them, you just love them, respect them, care them. You wish for them to have whatever they want in life. You want them to be happy. You wouldn't be interested in someone else when you find the one. You wouldn't give up and move on even when the whole world says you to. Because if you do then that wouldn't be love.

[@fairuzsalsabila9306]

Exactly, the same thing does to me

[@prilmac1329]

exactly..

[@babypriya5602]

Nithin R exactly n thats scared the shit out of me if I found the "one", did every little effort to be together n then not end up together!! It's going to hurt so bad! 💔

[@surajmishra3015]

It's perfectly true! I can relate this very well!

[@icecrystal3255]

You are so right😌

[@diharmony5532]

Jay:"I am so grateful that you're watching my videos..." Me: "No man, it's me who's grateful for you putting out that wisdom here" Also me: Cries in gratitude 💖

[@karenreyes8373]

I'm feeling confused about everything I've been through with the one I thought is the one

[@playfulvisionary7255]

@@karenreyes8373 I'm sorry about the loss. I think they were confused cause that wasn't exactly a response to them either so here's mine

[@deanafromchicago6661]

when your souls connect. the sixth sense kicks in and you both feel each other’s everything like emotions, thoughts, etc.

[@fatimaalzahraa1313]

Not always

[@bookwarmtee7750]

I found my one. It's just simple. Nothing flashy. But without eachother we feel stagnant. It's just two people open to learn and grow together.

[@geezerhull]

avoid the "flashy" ones. Also....modest is hottest.

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk ,,, love your self ,, love you

[@xuanlam8095]

you found the one when you chose to love the person rather than fall in love with the person

[@lemostjoyousrenegade]

EXACTLY!

[@roxannecg5983]

Xuan Lam love that! ❤️🙋🏽‍♀️

[@kshrvpz1587]

Explain

[@sonyaiiis451]

I found the One, 4 years ago. And you know that when you support each other in difficult times and good times. And what about Love between us? it is only growing stronger day by day. ❤

[@mariasilva-ii8oy]

I am 2000 kms apart from him but I still think about it, missing him so much...and we been married for 20 years now...love is a powerful thing!

[@rosemachi5695]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ajay.r7]

So happy for you :)

[@kshrvpz1587]

How's that!?

[@misspriss2482]

You know that you've found the one when you've been through all 4 seasons of life with them and they continue to show up and strive to put you first every day. Only time will tell you that.

[@greatnesskpuke9948]

Hello miss priss

[@w47willrise]

You know when you've found the right one when you only need them to be happy. No money, no material, and nothing else but them.

[@mano-1996]

that could be for a friend as well...platonic love for a guy friend

[@jakefromaustria8096]

Need is never love but obsession

[@afrozsharmin6049]

totally agree with you,you are the best

[@marinangue9105]

Why do you need someone to be happy?? Does your happiness depends on other people??????

[@w47willrise]

You don't need anyone to be happy. Happiness is the deeper understanding of your consciousness. Placing happiness on an external object is bad because then you have no control over your own happiness.

[@angelahamlett8249]

True love feels like a relaxing, soft, calm warm, cool breeze by the ocean. Open communication and earned trust. Not a blazing hot passionate crazy heart pounding fire!!! Holding back feelings and has you wondering, talking to other people is not it.

[@ilovemydog3542]

True

[@secondemail8242]

Hard to find.😌

[@jennifermwah6627]

Me and my husband started dating when i was 12 and he was 14. We dated all the way until his Senior year and then we broke up for about 2 years. He ended up moving to a different state and I dated a few guys but it never turned out. Eventually we started talking and catching up and then we got married! Been married for 2 years now and its been amazing! We're now in our 20s and are happy together

[@petrudejanecek586]

12 and 14? 😬

[@弥生月-d7b]

Omg, what a nice story. I'm motivated by this.

[@Amy-nq5wh]

@@petrudejanecek586 I know right😂

[@truongtruong817]

Jennifer Mwah why did you break up with him?

[@HobeyDator]

@@truongtruong817 Its Probably That Due To Growing Apart Scenario. So We Can Say They Break Up Mutually In Good Terms. And Thankfully, Their Destiny Is Wired To Each Other😍 After Years Of Growing They Found Out That They Are Indeed Worth At Each Other.

[@ramone648]

True love comes from within you..You have to first love and accept your self to be loved in return

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk ,,, love your self ,, love you

[@2states881]

I guess the one thing I'm sure of is when you really are not looking for that someone is the time you actually find them!!

[@naghamlvly6306]

absolutely agree

[@hearteusoftie9415]

👏👏👏😊wish this would happen to me too😀

[@2states881]

@@hearteusoftie9415 For sure and the best part is you won't have to put unnecessary efforts for this 😊

[@2states881]

@AnimusFlux I guess especially when u want someone to come in your life desperately u might choose the wrong person because all u need is someone and u don't care if that person is the One.😀

[@Aryan-sw4ni]

Couldn't agree more absolutely true

[@joyeblessed]

i met her while i was 8th grade but we separated for a about 8 years but we met again and i'm not letting her go again!

[@nonogenagirl4745]

How is this possible

[@fatcat2423]

Ur lucky

[@heluashu6905]

Whoooah!!!

[@justinz.4315]

Madison Schaub dont care about these stuff break the cycle rise above be superior

[@madisonschaub2077]

@@justinz.4315 Thank you!!

[@mirla570]

For me it’s loving myself and treating myself as the one first before “the one” appears .. I also don’t believe you can “find” the one ... I believe that when the right person comes into your life you will know .. and that you have to have an awareness that some people come into your life to teach you great lessons and mold you to who you are ultimately to become and prepare you for “ the one “ some of those experiences may hurt and feel as if it’s a set back or years wasted but in reality everything happens for a reason !

[@axel7801]

mirla570 Exactly! While I do miss my ex and hold a form of resentment or dismay to how we treated one another. Along witg how things ended to soon before we could've grew and worked on our issues... Im accepting that perhaps this was the best way. She's with someone else now and im on journey of self discovery and self love. The break up was truly painful but it has opened my eyes a lot on who I am and life in general

[@lilsahara8812]

Just take care of yourself and you'll always be fine, my friend Greetings from Africa

[@wealthlibrary]

love you self kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk bless the year

[@beastwithbrain560]

👍

[@naturallawhealth9272]

I know I found the one when: 1. they walk on four legs 2. they are furry 3. they cuddles and give lots of kisses 4. they enjoy walks 5. they just like being by my side (I don't have to prove anything to them)

[@rukdogg]

You don't have to ever worry that they won't love you.

[@yash7223]

Aww❣️❣️

[@LL-ht5yc]

That’s bestiality.

[@nom5205]

they shit and you have to pick it up....

[@livingforwhat2172]

a cuddly werewolf that enjoys walking ?

[@michellemiddleton1661]

this isnt explainable its just an inner knowing . a soul deep feeling that brings ultimate clarity on unconditional love . you love this person with all of your being and everything they are and you dont wanna change a thing about them. your frequencies are the same. everything is energy and you just vibe you click you just KNOW.

[@siddharthpatel148]

A true relationship is when your togetherness become more important than anything 😊 Love is a feeling which can't explain in words it is just beyond the limit when u r in love with some 1 u don't need to always talk with them even when u sit with them quietly u feel an amazing joy 😊😊

[@lucyjames8818]

Both are ready for each other. Both are ready for themselves. Time plays a great role in this. And definitely, a real chemistry.

[@wealthlibrary]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk ,,, love your self ,, love you

[@jenniferhansen7925]

I have been with my husband for 10 years and I absolutely agree with this list! We have been through plenty of bad times but we fully support and except each other and raise each other back up! 💕

[@anewloveofficial9137]

You already know in yourself that you found the one if he supports and cares for you no matter what happen. If he accept your worst then he's also deserving to have you at your best.

[@antoinitaviolette4140]

A New Love Official for me is is Jesus says in my heart that this is the one, because not always does it seem like the one, and still knowing all are still growing and need to wait until baggage is gotten rid of, heart is healed, and having peace is a beautiful thing and to wait to experience.

[@allananoynay8651]

❤❤❤

[@LizCalvert]

I agree with you - and I would add that the ‘ONE’ stands up for my greatness and wont let me play ‘small’ in life...

[@dollyrama1132]

In his eyes there will be the most beautiful deep compassion, not just for u...but for the world.

[@caribbeanmermaid5535]

He never said “the only one for you ever in life” - I think the idea is “the one you can be in a healthy, loving relationship with”.

[@Supernova-iz2qo]

Love just happens dont make it complicated Just be careful with obsessions Obsession has nothing to do with love!

[@wondercortney]

This is great!

[@ivywang416]

agree

[@tokn6114]

Agreeedd

[@letisand3689]

This is really great. ..

[@shyamaliroy4081]

Tough to make a difference early in a relationship. By the time you realise the difference the damage already done

[@qrzhang7426]

“Trust should be earned... layers of trust”

[@salmanmehar2613]

try it now hy this for you dear now you can find you lover around the world viral481.com/srv.html?id=5498947&pub=1342606

[@dolphindeerwolf]

I have the most amazing partner. I love him and feel truly blessed to have him in my life. What you said about our exposure to certain media influencing our ideas about love really hit home for me. As a young lady in my 20s I keep getting bombarded with the message (in subtle and not so subtle ways) to marry rich or find a sugar daddy... It's really bad. My partner is not rich but he treats me with so much kindness and love. The messages I have recieved have made me question my relationship and if I have chosen the right person. I have felt inner conflict from mixed messages and it's upsetting. I tuned into my heart more and am resting in gratitude for everything I have in my relationship and everything good my partner brings into my life even if it's not material wealth per say

[@hanneliebremer7692]

Also in my 20's and really relate and needed to hear this... thanks x

[@Luckee94]

An elderly man once told me “ Mary your best friend and it will be the best decision you’ve ever made”

[@chiztruth21]

What if your best friend has a girlfriend😥

[@CIassict]

Really? 🤔

[@MaanChallan]

Michael Clark if he or she is of opzt gender hahahahhabahahha

[@trizawangu8752]

What if my best friend is a lesbian😭😅

[@Luckee94]

Triza Wangu haha good point 😆

[@nouraklieb]

Honestly... this helped me know how to *become* the one

[@floreg1370]

👍😂 Good point of view

[@romanitza24]

Exactly. I actually tried to check who have I been in my last relationship and I have found that unfortunately a lot of them where not my way of behaving with him. Now I do not know about the trust. I could not trust him at all, even from the 1st day, but if the person does not earn your trust, maybe is not only yiyr imagination. Nevertheless I guess he had more boxes checked.

[@diipachuau4938]

When you talk .. I just stared at your beautiful eyes 😍 and I love your English accent 😘

[@KK-bh2xx]

I think so he's a Hindu and an Indian guy..

[@lee-anndraghoender2387]

I love u😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@nyasiae46]

matei Pachuau I was just gunna comments the same way...his eyes and his accent are sexy

[@tanum7158]

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[@Sarah.f2804]

i just realized that I've found the one !! omg, he's exactly everything you said plus our relationship is so healthy. omg, I hope we stay like this forever !!

[@Ladanii]

There's an old saying: 'When you know you've found the One, you just know' That feeling. I had never experienced before. After a few break ups, I thought 'Mr Right' didn't exist and I had to focus on finding 'Mr Right Now'. But boy, lemme tell you, I think I've found The One. That feeling everyone finally kept talking about? I have it. I hate dating, but after the third time I went out with this guy both of us were talking about getting married and our future (!!) Excuse me? Saaay what? What had happened to me? The talks didn't faze me. In fact, I actually look forward to all our dates. I think you know you've found the 'One' when: 1) You encourage each other's dreams and visions 2) You both accept each other as you are, flaws and all and don't want to change each other 3) You can be completely yourself around them. Example: Goofy, make-up free and in your pjs and it's OK :) 4) You talk thru your problems like civilised adults 5) You make each other laugh and get each others quirks 6) You can sit in complete silent; not feel awkward about it and completely enjoy the moment 7) When you see them every time, it feels like the first time 8) You vibe on the same energy levels 9) You appreciate their past, and support their present and future 10) S/He has seen you in every shape and form and still chooses YOU. Stands by you. Doesn't cheat at the first bad hurdle. Acts as a Mother/Father, Brother/Sister, Husband/Wife, Lover/Best Friend when the situation calls for it.

[@Tallonest]

I thought I had that feeling. I didn’t want anyone else. She wanted something else. So fuck me

[@ajay.r7]

I wish my former girlfriend thought like you, she said I was incompatible for those lame reasons like I used the same shirt next day which I used for previous dinner . And she never tried to Walk through the problem instead abrupt silence. And dated someone when we were far. She can't wait it seems. Different extremes :D

[@kirteenagane2276]

That is a really beautiful way of framing it. 😊 I don't really believe in "The One", but maybe I will, when I do find him. 😋 I wish you 2 the very best of your luck for ur _present_ (so you can have an amazing future 😄). Good luck!

[@kshrvpz1587]

I'm still waiting 😭

[@sunprincipe4711]

When I realized that I can't imagine my life without her, I knew that I had found the one.

[@rubiecon6425]

how did u know

[@vsboardza]

Nah that sounds like codependency

[@dawnstonerock884]

Sun Principe perfect!!

[@sivakommireddy1221]

@lihle mtshali it's correct man!!!

[@ryangood4595]

I was married to someone with which I had 0 of these 10. I guess that's why we're no longer married ;) Look here kids, don't do what your mom and dad did unless your mom and dad are doing these things - we gotta stop recreating the mistakes of our parents.

[@olohialli9289]

What made you fall for this person?

[@unreal4u2]

@@olohialli9289 99% certain it's an unplanned pregnancy

[@gerzylcarano-o4847]

Arranged marriage

[@mac9162]

Oleohi Alli sex

[@tanum7158]

Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGHJgIN9fNyEh7s

[@davidjohnpaul7558]

You have found 'the one' when they make you want to be the best person you can be, they make you want to be MORE, they add MORE to your life. You've found the one when you can't wait to talk to them/see them & when all you can do is think about them...Yes, I'm in love & she is beautiful inside & out 💕

[@ilovemydog3542]

David John Paul hello can I be ur friend

[@davidjohnpaul7558]

@@ilovemydog3542 I guess so...are you on Instagram or FB?

[@ilovemydog3542]

David John Paul Instagram

[@davidjohnpaul7558]

@@ilovemydog3542 Find me on Instagram..David John Paul....same photo, you can't miss it..

[@tanum7158]

Extra Marital Affairs, Why People fall in Love kzbin.info/www/bejne/eGHJgIN9fNyEh7s

[@BarbaraMarieLouise]

Well, I think you realize that it’s the one when you feel freedom inside and you are so calm that you don’t know if you are in love at first but somehow you just want to spend time with each other. In fact, you don’t feel dependend on the other. And you know that you can build a life together. So, in fact, the total opposite of a toxic relationship.

[@shaehanahussein4457]

After being married once. Now i know i found the one. Its not just about love. Its how well we get along and respect eachothers views on our individual lives.

[@aiishasow3924]

Few minutes ago I had a doubt about if he is really he one, then after watching the video I can say that yes I can guarantee that he is definitely the one. Thank you so much jay for showing me a way out, I won’t let him go for sure

[@mohamedadam8685]

Hadda maguursatay mise xiriir ayaad wali wadaan ?

[@midheaven8991]

If you need a video to confirm it, then he isn't. Our intuition is the most powerful weapon we have. And you need a random guy from youtube ? Not very solid dont you think ? You don't have to listen to me (of course) but what your intuition is telling YOU? Not your brain , nor your heart. Only your intuition. Best of luck.

[@Bee4Brendan]

I think it's not always about finding the one, but more about making somebody (that you like) the one by working on yourself and vice versa. I think most of these things you can work on if you don't already possess these characteristics. It's about willingness to do better and get better. Some of these you can't create on your own, but some of these, I believe, "The One" will definitely want to get better at.

[@vinayhansda9846]

Seems like when I started focusing on myself after several arguments, I changed my ways of relationship. When I saw this video, I already had all those qualities. I think I am in right direction now. Thanks for confirmation.

[@hadehush4867]

l have not find the one

[@HL-yb6jt]

Idk...I was 17y when I meet the love of my life. we started dating when I was 18y he was 22 we got married a year later.. now 18y later we still going strong!! Anyway I believe we start with nothing...we were just kids...after my 2 beautiful girls was born..he encourage me to go back to school..I became a nurse... I work really hard for 4y so my husband can go back to school...we made each other grow as individuals! Of course nothing is perfect!! But he is my one and only.. n he said “I’m his end n his beginning” Lol I don’t need a man to take care of me! We both are financially independent! Lol we both are kinda attractive ppl...😊n he is smart n kind.. I’m sure if I let him go any girl will snatch him away 😜

[@yasmintuuhe]

H L then don’t let him go 🤣🤣🙏 god bless your family

[@raiyaanhusain3529]

WAO that's beautiful

[@creatorsgroup7337]

Thts nice happy to know a successful love story in which both have their individual identity too..good luck guys may god gift u many more such amazing years together 😊

[@MagicWandsTarot]

H L yay congratulations 🥰🥰

[@scarletheart2766]

That’s a successful and sweet love story of you two. Don’t ever let him go and May god bless the two of you😊😊. We people on YT don’t know each other but reading your comment made me happy and while I was reading I was like’ this is so sweet😍’ . I have never been in any relationships but love stories really fascinate me.

[@carotari4491]

Whenever I feel lonely and discouraged I always found myself watching you on KZbin

[@jennifercurzi4440]

I am fortunate that I have found “the one” 💓- I am from Australia and my boyfriend was born in Estonia and we live in Australia together. We were friends first and fell in love accidentally! For us, we both acknowledge our differences and embrace it as there is so much to learn from each other 🙂🙂 We are each other’s biggest cheerleaders and always support and respect each other’s dreams and goals - no matter what! I want to see him succeed and be his best and he wants the same for me. We talk to each other and find solutions rather than fight. We are both constantly working on our individual self growth and learning each other’s love languages and still growing and learning more each day and it’s so fun and exciting 🥰 We definitely don’t always agree but that’s ok... we love that lol Thanks Jay!! I appreciate all you do and i’m so grateful that you keep sharing these videos 🙏🙏☺️

[@PRIYAJAY-SHETTY]

MUJHE JAY JI SE PYAR HAI🙏💯💐💐🙏🙏💝💝💥💖💖💓💓😍💕💕❣️🌹🌷😘💞😇

[@greatnesskpuke9948]

Hello Jennifer

[@CaliBabyCooks]

Oh my God, your eyes. They’re gorgeous.

[@chakrekatia4909]

Coach Alixandrea lol

[@drlorrie1019]

Handsome. Eyes captivating

[@shriyapochampally8670]

Ikr

[@lamariposadee3493]

They escape the mirror to the soul! Namaste

[@missiemaya]

when you feel inner peace

[@williamsjames3002]

I actually found that too True love is been hard to find I only Hope God Send to me a trustworthy partner Someone I could love and trust God fearing person I am open.. distance is not an issue

[@umaruaru7271]

My girl said she doesn't care I watch anime and read mangas and she said its kinda attractive on how I managed to be truth to myself by doing what i love even though people surrounding me ridiculed and belittled my interest on something, from when i was a 8 y/o toddler up until now (21), that moment when she said that i knew, she's the one and then started dating for a few years but....unfortunately she died from cancer few months ago.

[@highmaple75]

Mr Songsong Well.. I’m sorry for that, but shit happens. Hope you can find a better one in the future 💪

[@ellie2041]

Mr Songsong I hope you find peace and maybe love with another person if she loved you as much as you loved her I believe she’d want that for you and I wish you the best.

[@jenkobruski3183]

I'm sorry man. Good things are coming your way. Don't worry

[@vsboardza]

Oh I'm sorry❤️

[@mizzyuk8697]

Oh man... Didn't expect that... Hope you're okay. Stay strong friend.

[@MariCornell]

I think love is simple. In the beginning. The more time it has to grow and develop, it becomes complex and beautiful.

[@greenblood64]

Someone who loves you for exactly who you are and does not try to change you. Trust. Loyalty. Sense of humor.

[@linelamothe8727]

You have a mutual respect and understanding for each other's boundaries. And he says "Say what is on your mind, we're in this together".

[@ilovemydog3542]

Line Lamothe I really appreciate this

[@linelamothe8727]

@@ilovemydog3542 Thank you. That really means a lot.

[@ilovemydog3542]

Line Lamothe can I be your friend

[@linelamothe8727]

@@ilovemydog3542 Absolutely!

[@ilovemydog3542]

Line Lamothe chat me on hangout [e-mail]

[@KelticLegend]

I should be studying for finals. And I’m single. Alright.

[@shravanijadhav3374]

KelticLegend same bro same

[@rickwatso9271]

Same here

[@tenzinwangden1267]

Here also

[@oendrellamondal1935]

Same 😢

[@tenzinwangden1267]

@@oendrellamondal1935 hey

[@amayapadilla_]

When you find the one you just know and your love for them is constantly growing and expanding

[@christian8657]

Finding the one takes time. People thing they know they’ve found the one instantly But it is realised overtime

[@sakshinegi9117]

1. They should not judge or criticize you because of your past 2. They shouldn't want to change you ..they should always accept you as you are.

[@ashchan0504]

This of " accepting you the way u r" is a myth when the person is abusive.

[@geezerhull]

past counts....big time.

[@aliyabarter]

Jey , all of the things you said above . They are all true ! So thank you for another lovely truthful and wise video ! Love watching it ! I knew I found the one , almost instantly , from the moment he walked through the doors. Like in movies ! I was in hospital for 2 days and - He was the last doctor to see me. He was like my angel . And from the moment I saw him I felt something small like fire , butterflies I took a risk and in the last minute gave him my number . And from there on we never stopped talking every day , and I knew after one week , he is the one . Like all the things that you say , they enhance you , they respect you , they make you grow , they mentally challenge you but also make you laugh when you are annoyed and irritated and kiss you to make you feel calm again. Be with you in the moment and know how to be silly and make fun with you , but also know how to be vulnerable and talk deep with you / cry with you .talking about the bad as much as you talk about 5e good ! When they are exited about life as much as you are , and you find it irresistible to be around them , and literally can’t stop smiling feeling the butterflies ! But also know how to be quite and do your own thing and come back even more exited about him. And every day it gets stronger and stronger ! It just feels like you can be 100% yourself with them and they are with you , and like you found a reflection of you , but still very different from you ... like YING AND YANG Love your videos ! Never stop being your beautiful self !

[@malhunt7]

Trust earned. Be wary time tells all. A lot of doctors are narcs/egomaniacal not all. But some. Time tells all.

[@aliyabarter]

@@malhunt7 you are right. Time tells all . Have you had experiences with doctors ? Any warnings to look for ?

[@malhunt7]

@@aliyabarter trust your instincts! I work at a group practice so yes I have tons of contact with doctors. Narcs are so charming at first it can be difficult to tell if you're dealing with one. Just be observant, you'll know if something is amiss. The key is to not talk yourself out of it if alarm bells ring from deep within. It's all good love. Relax and enjoy this lovely time, let him earn your trust. You're worth it 💓

[@RegumRai]

only one week? thats was quick. Took me a year

[@TECHTalker619]

'You don't have to find love, love finds you' Someone.

[@wealthlibrary]

love you self kzbin.info/www/bejne/eqbIdnR-ZbSkbdk bless the year

[@aaronpanachikal7546]

No way,it doesn't work for me

[@duneece]

It's hard to find "the one". But I won't give up!

[@michaelschneider1351]

Basically you are saying: you can be together with anyone who knows how fulfilling relationships work

[@greatnesskpuke9948]

Hello Michael

[@hehe2819]

And if the one hurts you continuously then he/she is not the one.

[@LenurBatalov]

or he/she needs help

[@mssaigon73]

deepika a m this is so true! I wish more people would realize that !

[@pranitamaindargikar3679]

🙌ur sooo right

[@aliather2574]

Agree

[@katrinaedano287]

Sad

[@jillwylie6767]

A perfect relationship is Love Trust and Respect in it . They do 💗

[@jonihofmann3318]

One of my favorite mantra’s, that works well with relationships, is “Do not look for that which you do not wish to see.“ Try to look for the best in each other and ignore the worst.

[@carlaafilipa]

That is so wrong and a dangerous advice..

[@williamsjames3002]

I actually found that too True love is been hard to find I only Hope God Send to me a trustworthy partner Someone I could love and trust God fearing person I am open.. distance is not an issue

[@williamsjames3002]

@@carlaafilipa I actually found that too True love is been hard to find I only Hope God Send to me a trustworthy partner Someone I could love and trust God fearing person I am open.. distance is not an issue

[@Chesterd2]

Come now, there is no, "one". You may think it's the one, you may be certain it feels like the one, but that's just it. It's nothing but a Feeling in that moment, regardless of how long that moment lasts. But there is no actual one person for you. You simply choose. And if anything. Choose Yourself!

[@lemiemonteverde6400]

You found the one when connection and feeling inseparable.they never leave you in every steps of the way.

[@kimhorne-fortner3938]

Love finds you. Mind did at work 39 years ago. My best friend and love of my life. He passed 5 years ago. But I feel lucky to have had him in my life and hope others find what I was lucky to have.

[@kiz-ichooselovenotfear5106]

Your idea of trust levels is what I call the shelf pyramid. A few if not a single person at the top whom you trust without question & so on down through the layers. I like your points and would only add, I think "the one" is the person who you feel utterly safe with. Safe in terms of expression, emotions, truth, dreaming, goals, support, reliability, personal growth & changes, etc. You just *know* they have your back no matter what. Also, I think "the one" is a person who actively seeks to bring you closer to your true self & is open to receiving guidance from you in return. I think that's the one point that's the clincher for me: my partner & I are committed to gaining self-awareness and self-healing and despite the changes we have undergone through this everlasting process we are still, in fact, probably more so than ever, 100% committed to each other. When someone is *real* and not pretentious, they will inevitably change as they evolve, and "the one" will be by your side throughout this, no question. I feel really lucky to have found "the one" - not that I was looking 😊 (I was walking along a footpath once and my shoe broke. Kneeling down trying to fix it I glanced up and there he was... He asked me "are you ok?" AND THE REST IS HISTORY 🤗☺

[@think363pink]

This is so cute.

[@shristimittal2403]

How do you do the layers of trust

[@maimunatlasisi62]

I agree with all your points and I haven't met the one,keeping hope alive.

[@daniellew3260]

I am in the same boat as you

[@tokn6114]

Same

[@tokn6114]

I’m 17 tho

[@yaanaxtha6945]

I always found myself motivated whenever I see your videos

[@SouthAsianMensSpaceOfficial]

Thanks for this video. The Five Things That Helped me Attract My Dream Partner were: 1) Learning to practice self compassion 2) Learning to be more authentic 3) Putting myself out there and committing to learn as much as I can about the person in front without allowing my judgements to take control 4) Having fun whilst dating 5) Learning to have continue with my own life whilst dating and not making it my sole priority.

[@sheilatischler2197]

Thank you for sharing these tips Jay. It is very level-headed advise. There is no such thing as perfection and we can't expect another human being to be responsible to "complete us." If two healthy, responsible, mature people are fortunate to find each other, just keep individually growing and encourage your partner in their growth as well and let life lead the way. ♥️

[@ella8427]

Am I the only one seeing Steve Jobs on the shelf🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

[@atom906]

😂😂 lol

[@midheaven8991]

No. And is a big negative for me. One of most disrespectful persons of all times in a channel about human soul and internal growth... It's a no-no.

[@ohsobo]

He’s watching us.

[@emilyrose5150]

I would like this comment but it’s at 111 and I’m OCD 😂

[@vishaldhamal2431]

Haha.. it was kinda distracting at times

[@justbrowsing8162]

There is something about Jay Shetty, he is very attractive...When I first laid eyes on him, I thought he was "the one"!

[@corneliacraciun5784]

He's married and although a person might be attractive (physically, mentally) it will not work anyway if you don't know how to love yourself first, be independent and then love and support that one person unconditionally.

[@MandySam13]

Just Browsing Jay is married! :) But you’re right he is very attractive. Not just to look at, but his personality and what he stands for!

[@leahsimiyu3042]

😂😂😂😂this is literally funny.

[@easterjamir7420]

@@corneliacraciun5784 yesyessssss

[@julietflores4279]

😄😄😄

[@zin82e98]

It is so hard for me to accept our differences. Thanks for saying it’s unlikely to find someone who agrees with you on everything. I really need to wrap my head around that it’s okay we’re different.

[@nicksartcafe]

When she entered the classroom my heart bumped and said like "She's the one". 6 years ago

[@Shadow-br3fv]

are you married now?

[@UR_kashinath_yadav]

That is what magic marry her.

[@royalveofficial]

Last point: you have to be attracted to them? Otherwise they’re just your bestie

[@theadventuresofemily_]

This is the problem!!!! 😑😁

[@sahilgangwar3687]

Hey Jay ..it's Sahil here.. and let me tell your content is just.. best !

[@sashapaule7372]

It is just super how you really give details on what you have seen about each category, and most of all, you make us see the slit differences of each, and on what we actually mistake.

[@distant4eva101]

When he said they respect your dreams, Am I the only one that thought of Princess and the frog?

[@shininglightjoi6627]

It's all about the spiritual connection. ..period ❤xxx I've found the one! We get too hung up on star sign compatability etc. Let's go back to basics that there are limitless compatibilities because the soul and spiritual connection is ultimately what makes a relationship strong and powerful and what makes for a powerful connection. Relationships have become too commercialised and channels like these don't help people find true love. It's mechanical and too set in stone. Too many people are influenced by other people's ideas. My partner n I are are very different on the surface but the connection between us is deeper and stronger than can be explained and that doesn't have to be justified to anyone! 😇

[@xw6475]

Beautiful and make sense what you wrote.

[@vaishalivaidya7978]

True...someone who is as interested and invested in your growth as their's. Someone who doesnt require you to make them.feel complete or vice versa bcoz then its just a void thats devoid of Self Love. Trust with vulnerability is so so essential...and yes its earned and built with time. Agreeing to disagree on some aspects is equally important. Most importantly one needs to be in peace, experience peacefulness most days with the other person.

[@khangamer6398]

❤

[@gracejasinthpriyadarsini2489]

One who has good heart is the sweetest heart making life sweet forever.