How To Deal With Emotional Triggers In An Intimate Partnership-Stan Tatkin-Smart Couple Podcast

Clinician and teacher, Stan Tatkin, explains what scientific research is telling us about pair bonding, adult attachment, and how to avoid triggering unwanted reactions.
SHOWNOTES:
Who Is Stan Tatkin? [1:00]
Info On Stan’s New Book ‘We Do’ [4:00]
Going From Me To We Is Not About Codependency [6:00]
What is PACT & Psychobiology? [10:00]
Questions You Need To Ask Yourself If You Had a “Great” Childhood [19:00]
Allostatic Load And The Intersection Between Health and Security [24:00]
How To Start Hard A Conversation [34:00]
A Psychobiological Look At Emotions & Hormones [41:00]
Listener Question: How Responsible Are We For Our Partner’s Feelings? [49:00]
Listener Question: How Does Stan Address Sexual Desire Discrepancies? [55:00]
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[@moniquekagayigayi793]

Waoww This is deep relational intelligence ..hm hm wow Impaired Attachment vs Trauma ... That speaking up directly and not activate our partner was a gem. This information is so much needed. Thank you so so much for this gem loaded conversation. You are amazing teachersAs they say when the student is ready the teacher (s) appear. So grateful🙏

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks for sharing!

[@ms.partida5655]

Thank you Jayson for bringing is this great video! Stan Tatkin is amazing, I admire him so much!!! As a Psychology lover , he has become my inspiration! I would totally subscribe to his school of thought!!! 😍 God bless you all and may he keep giving you the tools, wisdom and opportunity to keep sharing this amazing information that its so much needed in this world right now!

[@peter2f6]

Yes!👍❤🙏 Super useful, Jayson! Thank you to you, Stan and Ellen for conducting such a stellar interview and conversation session. Great questions by the Facebook contributors as well.

[@JaysonGaddis]

thanks

[@JoySpirit888]

I hate fighting yelling Amen 😇 Peace 🕊️ Love Light 🕯️

[@nathangilles2839]

So good ! Life helping ! Reading the book now with my partner!🤩

[@JaysonGaddis]

thanks

[@amiy9825]

Thank you so much. Following the topic on sex: Emily Nagoski’s book “Come as You Are” is very helpful.

[@thebrinksf69]

The first 30 min were hard to understand and get something out of. The last 30 min was simple to understand and invaluable.

[@JaysonGaddis]

glad it served you. thx for the feedback

[@drsandhyathumsikumar4479]

Excellent session

[@JaysonGaddis]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@ericholmes-barthelthebonbo2307]

I'm trying to work out what of these principles can be applied to: life in general, other non-primary relationships and done with a 'mirror' (our relationship with ourselves). Any thoughts?

[@JaysonGaddis]

Eric, i think so. anytime i'm triggered by anything or anyone, it's an opportunity for me to grow and learn.

[@JoySpirit888]

God's blessings to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🙏😇🙏

[@lenavoyles526]

More density! More complexity! Please!

[@JaysonGaddis]

Thanks

[@paulam5864]

Actualized? What does Stan mean by actualized?

[@JaysonGaddis]

hmm. what time stamp?