Can We Still Be Friends After Sex? (w/ special guest Lanaya) (EP.07)

[@divasamai2251]

Lanaya is speaks the truth! When people love each other it’s based on a like and the like must be none sexual! You must enjoy the person beyond the bedroom. If you really enjoy this persons company looking forward to text, hearing how there day went and if they get sick you will take care of them it’s a keeper.

[@kellirai35]

“I don’t own anything” speak the truth sis. I love that

[@chunter7782]

Good episode.. ppl have a hard time separating their feelings and expectations when the relationship ends.. friendships after relationships develop best when closure and mature conversations can be had that set boundaries. If you love me, you should always wanna see me happy and Vice versa❤

[@YoThatsJo]

love that NOOK was able to speak about 'HER' friend. lmao no shade tho. Love the podcast , i listen while i work , yall best friend dinamic remind me of me and my bestie no cap. Please keep posting!!

[@Mtsink]

There’s an adjustment period. I think it’s possible to be friends, depending on the people involved and how the situation went. But when the dynamic changes, it takes time for the NEW to be the new. Also, authentic communication. If y’all didn’t have that while dealing with each other, just forget about it. Also, when you decide to stop f**king, don’t let that one night you feeling a little loose off that drank to have you make things messy again! 😂🙃 Loving the natural vibe and realness y’all bring to each episode ❤

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We appreciate you watching!

[@allahshas4498]

Yees 💯💯💯💯💯 the guest, made a great point. Nothing is mine... it took me a while to get to that point with my first love. But she is my best friend now. And it's amazing ❤❤

[@cleobanksmusic]

Yall teaching me things about myself with this episode right here

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

🦾🦾🦾🦾🦾

[@kieba1995]

Im happy I found this podcast ❤ Funny but also real af

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’re glad you found us ❤️

[@the4lightz]

Great discussion and topic. Personally, for my experience I friends with past lovers. It's about the mindset of the individuals from what I've gathered and long term friendship in my inner circle. Love the energy flow as usual. Authentic. Much respect to you all. Looking forward to the members only section and the next episode. Keep shining ✨️

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@ricoswave9310]

I like Nookie and Marquita primarily and having Lanaya as a guest every once in a while. So i can hear Nookie voice more.

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Thank you for turning in!

[@lionessrise]

Loved all the laughter .. the topic when sis (my Leo twinnn) was speaking of the Miami ordeal said to her of dealing with women who see you as something you’re not when you not even that person that she has made up in her mind. You get tired of trying to prove something that has nothing to do with you. Those 2 can definitely stay where they are. I’m the one left trying to get back to myself. Sucks but happens often.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

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[@ericanailor5101]

This episode was so organic & therapeutic! ❤️‍🔥✨

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

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[@chunter7782]

A drunk person speaks a sober mind!

[@getwithcandy]

This was juicy! I had to watch again so I didn’t miss anything. lol

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Did you catch anything new?? 😩😂

[@HellaReckless]

Lmao I was def tryna see what happened to a space for us. You got me.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

lol… Stay tuned

[@cranialropes]

This is a great convo

[@NyrishaThaA1singer]

Nah if we friends we will never have sex, if we have sex we will never be friends. I have always lived by that 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@piscesreign]

Exactly so i choose wisely 😂

[@odylebrizard5868]

I kind of agree

[@nainai91]

Yall irritating for that ending 😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

😩😂😂

[@nainai91]

@@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast yall finna get my money though so I’m not even gon hold you lol

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Thanks for supporting!! Stay tuned

[@miracledavies9925]

These two Needa spin the block 🥰

[@Therealshooter007]

How do yall feel about getting to know/being in a relationship with someone who is friends with multiple exes? Being friends after relations is possible but it takes a certain maturity level for all parties.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’ll add this as an ending question on a future episode. Thanks for tuning in!

[@HellaReckless]

Yall was twisted on this junt 😂😂

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

True True 😂

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’re not drinking anymore blue drinks 😩

[@antmckmom]

Love this💙

[@Rita30rage]

I think It depends on relationship yo in at a time cause yo partner may not like it that way and relationship stands on respect communication so u have to talk about it but if yo not in 😊❤❤❤ relationship it's very OK

[@ladieebee92]

She STEPPED with the Stuart off MADTv leg! 🤣

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@noortaylor]

i miss this video/visual set up

[@mexifilipinahny]

I love a grilled peanut butter, honey, banana sandwich 😅

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

😂 that sounds even better

[@Jaihdasmith]

2months later and this is my take on it, you have to be very self aware of your emotions when it comes to this. Before I got married I would’ve said no 😂 I would’ve caved my wife chest in lol Jk ❤ but yes you can if you both have the emotional maturity. If the friendship is platonically

[@tashiahawkinsdaughter2swee780]

Im finishing this video this morning seeing i wrote 2 much #didIgetthebluedrink 🍷

[@AeliciaMechele]

Great episode!

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We appreciate you watching!

[@tashiahawkinsdaughter2swee780]

Now about them spirits reason why i now stick more to wind i didnt get violent on liqour but talk alot about SA trauma this episode runs deep

[@YondiasHill]

The slippery slope of "endings"....But its a NO for me in MOST cases... Love it though!!! As always great show ladies!!!! I loveeeee y'all sooo much lol 😂

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We love you back! Thanks for watching!

[@DedewRobinson]

Nothings mine!!!! It’s all temporary is it for me!!!

[@chunter7782]

Oh nah yahll got me tight with the ending 😂.. I however did catch that something made Nelcia uncomfortable in which I peeped that on most episodes of a Space for Us..She wasn’t as forthcoming, smiling and open to certain discussions. Those conversations she seemed to be disinterested limiting engagement as perhaps outside of her maturity. Idk just my observation

[@nikag8666]

Uh so how do I become a member 🤔

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

The members only section should be active by next Friday.

[@tashiahawkinsdaughter2swee780]

I would like for me and my girlfriend to come on your show. She's more masculine. I'm feminine and talk about. How we work out together. Me, being a Agresssive fem she lived in Chicago before.

[@Tc696464]

When is the next episode?

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

The podcast is every Friday at 5 PM CST.

[@tashiahawkinsdaughter2swee780]

Im.loving therr chemistry Nookie she may still be the one

[@justjp83]

Why you can’t be friends with your exes ! You love them to perfectly to balanced even when you know they aren’t the 1️⃣ Most Fem energies can’t let that shit go…

[@tatinaanderson8035]

It feels so good to actually watch a pobcast of lesbians having adult conversations instead of all the trashy tv shows only showing stereo types and the ignorant side of the lgbt, im not about to put the whole alphabet lol.

[@ChrissyVelvet822]

You can't be friends if you want more or if you have been hurt too bad or how you broke up with that person. Personally I don't want to be friends for some of the reasons above.

[@ladieebee92]

Add a lil honey to that sandwich and mannnn.... oh wait! You said it.. lol

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

💪🏾💪🏾

[@tashiahawkinsdaughter2swee780]

Not Marqitta Aiana i feel like im there with yall

[@jaysteph3167]

The answer is no😂

[@ReMi-ny4vn]

I want to be on the show too lol.

[@JS2189POOH]

I disagree with that too‼️‼️‼️

[@ElikyaNgoma]

Just to share my opinion, I think the podcast should remain a two person show, primarily, but Lanaya can be a guest that comes in from time to time.

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

💪🏾

[@chanell_le3]

❤

[@viwemagwaza9778]

He'll no, it's not possible.