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Too soon🤨 it depends on who you are dating and expectations you set for dating… money is sometimes spent for as bait.. but outside of taking me out … no big demonstrative gifts until after 90 -120 days… why?! Because I don’t know if 😅 I want to be there👀😎

Loved this conversation ❤. And I loved that you stated that a woman can embody the same qualities as a man when it comes to protection, it’s not limited to a certain gender.

Love the conversation! Trust can be rebuilt IF and only IF both parties make a choice everyday to choose each other and fight for the relationship. With that there must be respect. With no respect it won’t work

She right Dom/top fem

Y’all so funny without even trying🤣😭

It’s always Sears or jcp🤣🤣😭

The authenticity is top tierrrrrr🤣💯

I ain’t even going hold you.. THE PODCAST SONG STUPID FIRE N BEAT GOES HARD IN MY SPEAKERS 💪💪💪

I am just starting my loc journey. How can I be a client of Claud? I know he's busy but I need to jump on the wave, and get his touch on my hair. Im ordering his products now.

This topic was on point! I’m glad y’all exactly talked about it 🫶🏾

I agree, to me the ultimatum was displayed as a dealbreaker or like a non negotiable…what threw it to me was it wasn’t mentioned until a year later? I feel like deal breakers like that should be displayed earlier before feelings and all that sets in… that way you guys would be exchanging wether it would be a compromise or a decline …so it’s not like an obligation thing 💯

Yall hit it on the spot! Thank you! Wish I could share with someone but we no longer talk 😅

What about for those relationships that become stagnant after marriage. I know of someone who is in a same sex marriage because of their relationship with their partners child and simply want to financially support their partner because without them things would go south. Now they are having to deal with infidelity as well because of not letting go. Even with the size of the ring, things are going downhill.

One of The Best Topics Ever! I Appreciate Y'all & the Podcast because I'm Learning from Y'all at this Later Stage of My Journey that, Not having these conversations have left Me Alone & Working to Catch up. This Podcast Gives Me Hope & Understanding When I Connect with My Forever Person. Keep Doing What You Doing FAM! WE LISTENIG!!👂🏾

That peach metaphor had me crying dawg 😭😭😭

Yall done came a long way OGs.. them views n engagements creeping up fasho. I enjoyed the podcast thus far. Yall gave me some game n perspective on things im going thru in my own dating life w the women I deal w. I’m locked in for season 2 n can’t wait til yall back 💯

You two sou d like game players! I listen and would want to be a person in a story like what you all share. I guess I listen but realize none of this is for me!

I believe it’s important to sit with your partner and come to a compromise when it comes to ultimatums. This is especially if you’re speaking on trajectory of marriage. For relationships to work long term, something has to give on both sides as long as your peace of mind and mental health isn’t at stake. Be considerate of each other and lead with compassion. This was a great topic.

18:56 period!

Interesting take! Putting pressure on in relationships is equivalent to forcing an outcome and the outcome isn’t in alignment with the “intention”.😔 I’ve been seeing lately though, People talking about being placeholders in relationships now. The placeholder being the partner right before the next that does get proposed to.

You can always upgrade the ring

4 years married, is more reasonable !! a house in 5 years with two incomes. IS over reasonable. Considering you’re more than likely paying two different rents. That’s Covering 2 different landlord’s mortgages!!!! Anything less you may want that person but you don’t see that person as your wife for whatever reason.

The hetero-belief that the man does the proposing will have a lot of feminine-presenting women in lesbian relationships waiting forever I tell you.

In my 17 year relationship I dealt with a woman who loved to spend money. Didn't really put effort into carrying her share of the financial weight. So I stepped up in order to give her what she desired but then she would complain that I didn't spend enough time with her. Now I only have so much time and energy in a day. Eventually for my well being I had to say make your choice. Step up your game and carry your weight more and you can help us have all those nice things and I can have more emotional energy for the relationship. Keep in mind I'm talking big purchases. Cars a house etc. I came to the point of I'm not burning the candle at both ends anymore. If you love me like you say you do then work with me to help us have that life. We were regular working people. Not super rich. I came to believe she wanted to live a life style above what our finances could support and put the weight of it on me. She could and would spend it faster than I could make. Not match my work ethic then bitch because I didn't spend enough time at home. Eventually I had to say we are separating our finances.

Can I ask the both of you a question.. Do you see yourself getting married and do you want to get married.. I ask that because everyone doesn't want to be married and if you ever feel pressured to do something from the woman your with than don't be in a relationship with a woman who wants a wife in a life goal.. I'll speak more about this topic but I'm interested in what the two of you think about being married and do you see yourself getting married..

I love the podcast. I do wanna know why the original podcast group broke up. Did you guys ever go over that?

Question…were you alls sex drives low in your 20’s as well?

I love the podcast. My post notifications are ON! Lol. I love the dynamic between you two and topics yall discuss. I can’t think of anything different I’d like to see. Just keep them coming. 🫶🏾

Thanks for wearing y'all frames and rings! They look great! Also thanks for the shoutout! Your support is appreciated. I like the organic flow of the show. Wouldn't change a thing. Tonight's topic was a good choice. One of my favorites so far. Much success to you both. Happy 2025!

The money issue will always be a problem for me, we both gotta work so one person wont be overwork. Cause if you working all the time, what type of relationship do we really have..Me myself I'd rather have your time

Very much enjoying the podcast!

Live interactions with the Comments

Some ppl fall in love with the idea of proposing/wedding

Happy new year

WELCOME BACK HAPPY NEW YEAR 🇱🇾✅️🦾🎉💥

Btw, when you're about to fight men and feel like you are "leave your body" to observe the fight as it happens, this is called depersonalization, and it's very much associated with past trauma and PTSD. Great episode as always!

Thank you for this episode ☺️ we can adults about it.❤

Great topic! Can't wait to watch!

I can't wait to hear this

This going to be interesting… bcuz ultimatum are dangerous territory unless you are ready to leave. I like to have talks and make plans😎🫣☺️❤

Studs be dealing with so many straight females that test ya and go back to drive so that's why they don't post that temp partner and in return, I won't post my partner either bc it's embarrassing to be wit a DOM who was used by a straight female

Can't Wait to Tune in!🙌❤️

🔥🔥🔥 Can't wait to hear the perspectives & experiences!

"I can't protect you if you won't listen" I felt that. ❤

I’m with Aina on this one! I can’t be friends with my ex. Nope! Say hey from a very long distance!

Definitely enjoying the conversation I believe protection starts with intellect and how spiritually intuned you are with yourself ❤ keep up the great work looking forward to the next episode of yall dressing up 😅 I thought that comment was wild too lol

He started off somewhat making points about “polygamy”, then it turned into woman sleeps with man = whore, man sleeps with woman = that guy💪🏾😎

31:19 facts

As always I enjoy the conversation. I learn a lot by watching you all. Something big to me in relationships is feeling protected and safe because I didn’t have it a lot has a child. I am excited for what’s to come.