Why I Went Back To Men (with special guest Lanaya) (Ep. 03)

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We appreciate the energy exchange! Y'all comments, views, and likes ARE MAJOR for our expansion, so thank y'all! This makes y'all family!

[@Raqd7]

All due respect she was just a bisexual woman and she chose a side and decided to stick with that side😌

[@kenishas.1360]

Right…not even surprised she went back to a man. Seems like that’s where she wanted to be anyway.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’re respectful enough to allow her to label herself

[@Raqd7]

@@TheShellaSpherePodcast yep , I understand.

[@YondiasHill]

She is a beautiful example of a feminine presenting woman who leads with masculine energy. This is a great convo... Layers on layers on layers!!!

[@matatheartist9554]

Thank you much!🫶🏽

[@daquietone]

With all due respect, I'm not sure this is a gender issue. This is a person issue. As a feminine presenting lesbian, if I am encountering numerous same-sex relationships that are troublesome, men would not be an option for me...as I am not attracted to men. Instead, I would consider why I am having these experiences and do the necessary work on myself. In doing so, I will attract different. You attract what YOU are. Many people expect to attract an energy that they don't even possess. If you are misaligned, unbalanced, and troubled, it's a whole lot to expect for a decent person to deal with you for any length of time...Water will always seek its own level. Deal with YOU and the people you attract and engage with will change...regardless of the gender.

[@wkdslkddeets]

Perfectly said !

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’ve stated this in the conversation.

[@daquietone]

@@TheShellaSpherePodcast My intention with my initial post was to offer a perspective from a feminine lesbian where there is not an option to consider men upon encountering relationship issues with women. It appears that your guest has exercised her options given that she initially had a preference for men and she then expanded her options to include women. Some would label this as bisexual. Nevertheless, she has the space to choose the gender that will allow her to get what she wants out of her lived experience. Whether that be fulfilling her own personal expectations or even selecting the gender that will allow her to obtain/maintain the control desired. There is a direct correlation between the women that your guest experienced and her own frequency/vibration. Thus, women as a whole (whether masc or femme) are not the issue. She ultimately attracted and related to those women to which her own energy entitled her to...and the same can be said for the men that she engages because ultimately...wherever you go there you are. Your guest admitted to possessing personality traits i.e. narcissistic traits and control issues that would impact the type of women that she would interact with...as well as the type of women that would not be available to her due to her own energetic imprint. There are wonderful women out here...but many women do not have access to these quality women due to their own energy. In the end, I do respect and appreciate her perspective as it provides clarity and even confirmation as to why women who are attracted to more than one gender may choose the gender that is more conducive to their own "bottom-line." I hope this has provided clarity to my initial post. ❤

[@Love37768]

Tht!🙌🏽

[@nicole34618]

Amen 🙏🏿 ❤

[@nanettemacon7640]

I’m not going to lie, when your guest started off with, she just wanted to basically try women, I can definitely see how she went back to men. I would like to see the perspective of a woman who dated men, innately attracted to women, then went back to men. I started off with men, but once I started dating women that definitely was my norm. And as much as I say I will start dating men again, because of the negative experiences I’ve had with women, thinking about the intimacy part of it, it’s a no for me. I prefer masculine women, but it’s a woman, so I don’t mind if she acts more feminine at times, even though she wears men clothes, under those clothes, I know it’s a woman. For some women it’s the illusion, they see a woman dressed in men’s clothing and they expect her to perform a certain way. That’s what I get from your guest. And I’m not saying this in a rude manner, it’s just my observation.

[@deeballenger2541]

Behavior MATTERS. When a person SHOW you who they are BELIEVE them.

[@jackieruiz9282]

I just feel like so many masculine presenting women and feminine women need to stop trying to place themselves in heterosexual norms. We’re lesbians or wlw it’s not the same. We cannot continue to expect studs/ masc to act like men ( carry boxes/ throw trash) or fems to act supper feminine. For me I seek balance, feminine and masculine on both sides!!! Or else I would just be w a man, no baby I need a women!

[@indigenousqueen8182]

She expected her stud girlfriend to adhere to traditional gender roles but discovered otherwise.

[@Unbound_Soul7]

💯

[@TheLeslieMichelle]

She's delightfully honest, and the conversation was refreshing. I was looking for y'all to talk about this for a while.

[@Musiq3031]

I was almost at that same breaking point. When someone just ruins you mentally and your mental health is in jeopardy it is absolutely enough to make you leave women alone

[@LinuxHurts]

This has to be the COOLEST guest I’ve listened to on a podcast in a long time-she’s great!

[@Zazen777]

This was an excellent episode. It had humor, facts, lessons and education. I appreciate it.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We definitely appreciate you tuning in!

[@Rita30rage]

Everything is a choice be who you want to be as long as yo making gd choices for yo life. Am proud of her being honest with her self to know who she is and what she wants not easy for most people ❤❤❤

[@nicole34618]

I'm so glad she started dating men again. We have to start listening to women within the first 15 minutes of the conversation. In the beginning, she said, she wanted to tap into and/or explore dating women. Before that, she said, she dated men. Based on listening to her explanation, it sounds like she was exploring dating women so thank you Queen for your transparency.

[@GrowingMindsAcademy1]

She’s a highly intelligent woman and I identify with her as a Capricorn. We don’t allow people to run over us and play in our face. As ive gotten older, I don’t have patience for stupidity. People want you to dumb down for them no, respect me like I respect you.

[@MsJenny993]

I wish we could get an episode that doesn’t mention men. Just once. Lol

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We have a lot of them without men being a part of the discussion coming soon. This is just the order we chose to get those discussions out of the way. Thanks for tuning in!

[@muadhnate]

Same

[@GiGiDupris]

Definitely about energy… know what you need for an equal balance in a relationship… just like there’s a great deal of women that are emotional there are men that are just as emotional… but having someone that has an issue detaching their emotions from their physical realm is what will cause issues… and accountability plays a huge part in that…many call it emotional intelligence which in return is more of a withdrawal from the emotional state because most never internally problem solve… realizing there’s a difference between expressing emotions in a healthy way is not man nor woman… it’s having the ability to separate the internal from external

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Valid statement! Thanks for chiming in!

[@cranialropes]

Soon as I seen that notification. 🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️🏃🏿‍♀️

[@PrettiestGemini]

I think some people forget that you have to vet women just like you vet the men you date. Just because you start dating women doesn’t mean it’s gonna be all ponies and rainbows and it’s unfair to expect perfection from either gender. This is coming from a former bisexual woman who decided to date women exclusively. SN: I haven’t watched the full video yet just gave my thoughts based on the title.

[@HaliSue2009]

I really like this episode 👏🏽 Respect ✊🏽

[@Aroma_1111]

As a femme I’m always thinking it’d be so much easier with men bc truth be told they are so quick to settle down and marry etc. but I’m just not attracted to them no matter how many times I get hurt by women lol. So I feel like women that do this were never truly gay just desiring love from anyone willing to give it and when it doesn’t work out with one gender they swap to the next so 🤷🏽‍♀️ I’m not judging but it’s already considered taboo to be a lesbian and there’s a lot of confused women getting lumped in with us who really can not control who we are solely attracted to and for me it’s always been other women.

[@cranialropes]

This is such a good convo

[@taylorgoodin3513]

It seems like a lot of ppl are taking this personally in the comments but as a masc presenting woman what she is saying is partially true. 1. Just think MOST of us grew up heterosexual households. Learned about of good things about relationships and even more negative things. I wondered why I struggled early on in the relationship dept bc I was intimating something that wasn’t me. 2. There is an imbalance in F/F relationships because plenty of them are mimicking M/F relationships. So even the ones that commit to unlearning behaviors that don’t serve them can’t make or break the bond. The M/F structure has a lack of depth in a lot of areas that’s why it’s easy for folks to fall into the molds that have already been built. 3. If y’all watch these podcasts or just listen to ppl talk off social media you really have a dangerous amount of men who think their wife excelling is her competing with him and at the same time some women think a man who is emotionally intelligent is “sassy” / gay because of patriarchy. 4. Masc women how many times have you engaged with fems that never apologize / or put all the emotional labor on you ? Patriarchy. Women have gotten comfortable in navigating society without having to look in the mirror because men pretend not to have depth. All they gotta do is show and look good. 5. Anytime I dated a woman who has never dealt with men or a woman who she just overall wanted a deeper connection first thing I tell them “ im not sure you’re ready “ They think you’re talking about sex 😭 6. Being emotional is a good thing. Overly emotional is a huge road block. I do find that women can focus more on emotions than logic. I’ve never dated men but it seems they express their feelings in different ways. Men in passing are often hostile towards me. They don’t like seeing me engage with other women. Men are very emotional but they choose who to reveal that to. It’s usually expressed in anger/ sex. Which is probably why some of the comments are saying some of us never had a connection with them. 7. This is in no way disrespect to my brothers because I love them. 8.we like a society / system that is hell bent on convincing lgbt that we are demons / pedos etc. this world caters to heterosexuals. We don’t have a political boat we are on the bottom of the totem pole. Your church / community / family structures are built with them in mind. Why would it be surprising that someone doesn’t want to go against the grain when they put us in these positions on purpose so we conform to their ways. Seems this women was bisexual and explored her feelings. These are her findings. Not a shot at you or the way you date / love.

[@matatheartist9554]

Well said and appreciated. Thank you because some of these comments are nothing short of an attack. Which is what I was saying. We can’t be ourselves or honest because of ppl like that. Every word you said is facts. Thank you for having an open mind.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

This entire message ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@monicabuchanan5444]

​@tammyful109 that's exactly what I got from this interview. I dealt with a woman like this. The manipulation and control tactics don't work as good on women as they do men. Nothing wrong with her choice of gender to date 💛

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

@tammyful109 I'm not sure what comment you are referring to, but I can honestly say it was not removed by us. You make valid points in your statement. The question "how can we do better?" is a valid question, and it opens up a conversation. Even you answered it by stating that we need to start being honest about what we need from them, and being better to ourselves in order to attract better. We are not aiming to keep women that have no desire to be kept. Asking "what did we do to you?" was just a playful way to kick off the conversation. We appreciate you tuning in and chiming in!

[@becominglala9365]

Respectfully - I think her perspective is more based upon gender norms based upon heterosexual relationships

[@kenishas.1360]

This…

[@clarissacj]

Aye this was a good seg! Yal need to have her on here more often! lol Love her honesty and how well she articulated herself!

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

She'll definitely be back! Thanks for tuning in!

[@kdotwayup]

I have some very interesting views on this perspective but I’m sorry I don’t feel like typing all of it 😩 The bottom line is it boils down to preference and what aligns with you and also societal norms. Side note: I would like to see an episode talking about zodiac signs!!

[@the4lightz]

This was a great a conversation that I feel many needed to grasp an innerstanding. Much love to us all. Keep shining ✨️

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

✨✨✨✨

[@bribabe2908]

Very interesting convo. Enjoyed it! Keep it coming with the special guests 😊

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thank you! Will do!

[@ufomechanic11]

Bring Glamazontay on!

[@teresasnow4735]

❤soon as seen the notification I was on here love the way she is honest about things love this podcast & y'all's topics are so relateable but to me id never be with a man again ty for inspiring me you both are awesome much love & respect

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for listening, and thanks for sticking beside us 🤣

[@cosmiccreations13]

Great convo, we’re all here experience, express, and expand back to our higher awareness , our higher selves has already contracted these experiences with different souls for our enjoyment and expansion if your not experiencing your stagnant. Do what makes you happy period.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Absolutely!

[@allahshas4498]

I loved your guest... everything she spoke on

[@queen_jaylo222]

Great interview.. I think the term that should have been used to describe her is dominant instead of masculine. Big difference. 🥰🦋💕

[@KellyPro-r6z]

At 2:36 it makes sense to why she went back to men. It makes sense why she said she like studs. Women of her caliber that like studs are looking for that balance in what they find in men through their discovery to see if a stud can fulfill the presence of a man, which is why lesbian relationships mimics heteronormative relationships. When a fem like this feelings get really hurt by a stud that a man in her past never surpassed, they result back to men and Vice Versa when they cross over on this side of the fence when a man do them wrong. I hear this alot that men are easier because men just follow along their woman. Just because they are easier does not mean that they are the best gender for you. They can be easy and a cheater for example and right now men turning DL is an all time high right now soto go back to men in this day and age is a high risk for a bisexual because a real lesbian will not change turn their love for woman for men. She is a bisexual so to say she went back to men is an oxymoron, her attraction for men never left . She just decided that men are better and thats ok just like bisexual women like women better than men. Most bisexual have a favorite side and she just expressing the side she favors more.

[@Craven.craven]

Loving the pod and the topics thank you 🙏🏾. Also, will you guys address what happened to the last pod …?

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We will!

[@lightitup]

I knew sis was a Capricorn (hey girl, hey♑). Great episode! Could definitely relate to Lanaya's perspective on religion/spirituality. 🫶🏾

[@crystalrios3192]

BEST CONVO SO FAR👏🏼👏🏼💯💯💯

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We appreciate this!

[@marsha_rose]

Great conversation.

[@msgoldi8806]

I love her honesty... i really enjoyed this dialog. yall should definitely have her back again

[@Liquid_Poetry]

This was a great guest!

[@thelifeofshaylove2521]

This was good!❤

[@latashajordan2893]

At the end of the day it's not gonna Matter Rather if a Woman is in a Relationship with another Woman, or a Man, it's either gonna Work out, or not. Life itself has Challenges, & even Ups, & downs. It can either Succeed, or Fail. And it also Depends on the 2 people being together of how both parties View things, or how they are able to Commuinicate, work things out when some things May be Difficult in a Relationship.

[@WonderZoneFree]

Topic was well needed for a discussion 🔥✅

[@allahshas4498]

She hit the nail on the head. My last 2 relationships(aries and Capricorn)really showed and taught me who I was and needed to improve.

[@tmreaves1]

Just show up period. I hate being so vulnerable some times

[@musicallynmc9522]

I love when Lanaya is on the podcast she just adds to the show she should be permanent. Keep up The great work Showing love all the way from Brooklyn NY

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Glad you enjoy it!

[@CurlyVeteran]

32:22 the answer to the question…. “because when they are honest they get bullied” it’s sad how bad it gets too

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

That is sad.

[@sarahbabyj61988]

Oral to oral women are the best overall

[@kellymaresha]

I understand all of what she’s saying.

[@ladyj6732]

Y’all funny as hell😂, awesome show, great conversations.🎉

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Glad you enjoyed! We appreciate you!

[@roshabrister4059]

This was a great episode ❤

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We glad you enjoyed it!

[@sarahbabyj61988]

Definitely depends on the up bringing

[@vivik972]

Honestlyyyy thank you for this beautiful conversations and this level of authenticity, vulnerability and openness. I truly enjoy listening to your discussions its elevated and smart. 👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for tuning in!

[@BVsaceswz]

Caught it in the stories! My bell notifications isn’t working 😢.

[@SugarPlumMamas]

I felt that when she started talking about God and religion. I enjoyed the overall conversation though.

[@shayshay6814]

Such a respectful conversation. People just allowing people to be who they are … 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🫶🏽💪🏽

[@latashajordan2893]

I Agree🗣️💯

[@DoveyTheWriter]

Can we get a different bisexual perspective?🤔😫 Do you all only center yourself around bisexuals who center men and gender roles? I know this is just her perspective and experiences but it’s very much seeped in gender roles and heteronormativity. Which I understand why but a new perspective is needed in regards to bisexual women and I think bisexual men perspectives would be good as well. This why y’all be so jaded but I think the older lesbians have it harder because you all want someone your age and it doesn’t seem like y’all have a lot to pick from that don’t center the things I said. Your guest did make some valid points though.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

That's hard to gage without having the conversations.

[@DoveyTheWriter]

@tammyful109 I’m not even about to dive in deep about how lesbians are literally toxic as hell. Most lesbian relationships involves love bombing,emotional immaturity and many other toxic things. Then y’all blame bisexuals for all that stuff??? Don’t you think if y’all weren’t love bombing and being emotionally immature you wouldn’t be having as much problems as you did? Not even blaming just purely lesbians but y’all know how y’all operate. It’s seen as a joke, cool and fun to move fast because both be women. Yet had y’all not did everything I said and took your time to get to know a person y’all could of avoided everything you all claim bisexuals do. I’m not taking y’all excuses anymore. Y’all either going to wake up and do better and learn to be mature or keep acting like the victim and like most of y’all don’t be causing the drama y’all end up dealing with. Then you want to blame it on someone’s sexuality instead of the person and YOU not being mature enough. That’s another thing. Y’all asses were hopping in and out of relationships at really young ages and getting hurt instead of taking the time to learn yourself. Most lesbians don’t even truly learn themselves until they are much older. It’s a new age and generation. Stop with the excuses and grow up.

[@DoveyTheWriter]

@tammyful109 from my personal experience I’ve been more wounded by y’all than anything y’all ever claimed some random ass bisexual ever did to y’all. I had to deal with the back end of things that ain’t have shit to do with me. I was stuck for a while always needing to prove myself to y’all and I shouldn’t have to do that. I don’t owe y’all shit. Bisexual women don’t owe y’all shit. Now y’all got my ass sitting over here a little jaded. Some of y’all be narcs, and be old as hell being narcs and immature, also coming with a lot of emotional baggage and don’t like therapy. Now something’s I said may not apply to you necessarily but it seems to apply to a vast majority of y’all just like you all seem to think it different things apply to a vast majority of bisexuals. Don’t never want to take responsibility for nothing y’all do. Y’all be wanting these deep ass relationships and never be ready to put in the actual work it takes to have a monogamous relationship. Don’t want to look into yourselves, none of that. Everything you stated could of been avoided for you. You chose those paths and I’m sure you had some warning signs. Y’all think you know monogamy but you really don’t. Monogamy isn’t owning someone or being controlling and possessive. A lot of y’all suffer from that.

[@DoveyTheWriter]

@@TheShellaSpherePodcast because lesbians want a specific narrative to keep being spun so y’all won’t be held accountable. That’s fine.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@DoveyTheWriter]

@@TheShellaSpherePodcast y’all can just ignore me though. Delete my comments if it would be better for you. Already unsubscribed because I feel it’s no use in me coming over here talking to brick walls. Y’all aren’t ready for the major discussions that need to be had with your own community. It’s going to be everyone but y’all like always.🤷🏿‍♀️

[@ainaslifeviews]

I meant to tell Lanaya that when we cheat, we can’t get other women pregnant 🤣🤣🤣

[@matatheartist9554]

Lmao true!😂

[@HonestLeighSpeaking]

So much to unpack. As someone who used to identify as a member of the LGBT community who is also a therapist and is now a Christian, there is so much to unpack in this conversation. 1- Thank you for your levels of transparency and honesty. 2- While I do believe that gender has an energy, Please know that masculinity and femininity is NOT based on how emotionally hard/ controlling or soft/vulnerable that one is. If it was, then we could put on gender like a costume or we could devalue/value ppls gender based on performance; And that’s NOT the case. 3- while I don’t thinks that being a woman or being feminine is completely defined by our behavior, I do believe that we were created with purpose. Part of that purpose is to be what our creator intended for us to be. every human false short and that falling short separates us from the Creator. Yet, Christ provides a way to creator and purpose. I am not saying “Come to Jesus and you will be straight”, nor am I saying “Just continue to do you and God will be ok with it”… I am saying I know a man who is God in the flesh, and can tell you all about yourself and align you with your eternal purpose. For more information I HIGHLY recommend A) PRAY and reading God’s word (start with the book of John, then Romans, Galatians, 1&2 Corinthians and then the rest of the New Testament)… B) read Jackie hill-Perry (gay girl good god) and watch videos on sexuality (Preston Sprinkle, Jackie hill perry, Jude 3 and more . C) Seek Godly community (not the weird everything is a spirit or the rules/ gender performance based community… but one of true love for Christ and His creation. May The MOST HIGH God of all creation protect your mind, body and even family from the plots, plans, schemes, and devices of the enemy. May He draw you with His unfailing and unrelenting Love, Holiness and Mercy. And may your hearts be open to Him and Him only. In Jesus name Amen. Good show and god bless.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We respect your path

[@Officiallykrysball]

First let me just say, I simply enjoy debating and discussion. All love! What if like all other species our natural primitive purpose was just to procreate….and if that’s the case then mission accomplished, we are all existing in our purpose. There’s no way around that.

[@Kozette007]

Ladies may I humbly suggest a Patreon in the near future with maybe exclusive content. 🙏🏽

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We’re working on a members only section

[@sailorguyak4787]

One of the best podcast I watched

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We truly appreciate you for this!

[@nowwhat1434]

3:12 that’s a good topic. I have def seen studs who have that hate and envy of men. I get it but they let it control them sometimes.

[@mardillie]

I can understand where she coming from. I'm just really not interested in men,males. Like, I have no sexual desire or emotional desire to be with them. I just love women esp black women. But, yes live how you want and date who you want,. The world will try and shame u for being you. ❤❤.

[@Unbound_Soul7]

We love you. ❤❤

[@STARZldnlyfe]

Why they leave the other podcast

[@evonneyoung7183]

Hey, got a question for Aina, you say that when you are around men, and they’re in their masculine, you try to give them the space and respect their masculine energy. But do they respect your masculine energy? When you’re around a masculine woman, do you feel the same way, do you feel as though you need to give her the space to be masculine and does your voice drop around that masculine woman as well, or is it only for men? Also, is it possible for you to respect a woman in her masculine energy how you do men. Additionally, do you feel that the men you socialize with respect your masculine energy? It’s as if you can’t be yourself around them, it’s as if you can’t express your masculine side at all around men. We need to see where this stems from. You should be able to express your masculine energy around men if that’s apart of your being.

[@ainaslifeviews]

I’ve been trying to put my finger on exactly what it is for a while and there’s a few things at play when this happens. First, I only do it with men that feel secure in their masculinity. The space has to feel safe for me to do so, which means these same men are respectful of how I exist as well. It’s done only with men because some are still ignorant to our world and how masculinity exists in women as well. It’s a slight coddle on my end (subconscious survival mode) which I am working on no longer doing. As far as doing it with masculine presenting women, I don’t feel the need to do it because without saying it, we already know what it is. The respect comes naturally on my end. I just be happy to see more of us until I get sized up lol.

[@brijohnson8161]

It begins with being real with yourself and being honest around people. Sometimes we as people have to rip the layers apart from within to see where it Derived from We can be our own worst enemy and not even realize it. And sometimes some people do realize it. And they don't care, they keep on yielding the same results asking themselves why. You need to start with the person in the mirror? then you start to eliminate everybody else! Ase' 🌎 Stay 🕯away 🙉🙊🙈

[@khsquad2028]

She lacks a lot of emotional expression which will damage any relationship she’s in men or women..

[@ObservingNdiscussing]

what happened to a space for us

[@taystorm]

I love Lanaya's openess and honesty

[@kandi895]

I love that .I want to control what happen to me..

[@Cable796]

Do you think colorism (light skinned vs. Dark) plays a role in a female tapping into one energy vs. thee other (masc/fem?) Interesting show...yall had me smiling from ear to ear 😁

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

That’s a great question!

[@Unbound_Soul7]

Dark studs definitely get a stereotype.

[@JoyCook]

I’m new to dating women and this TERRIFIES me … yikes

[@matatheartist9554]

Don’t let it! It can be a beautiful experience. As I said in the video this was just some of my experiences but not all! Don’t let fear guide you. Live boo.

[@Soulsoother333]

RUN , it starts off overly lovely and ends horrid . Toxic asf community

[@Soulsoother333]

Run ! Toxic asf twisted community

[@leelee5593]

Great episode

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thank you!

[@LolaBellAa]

I’m literally her same age and all but I prefer women more. I have the same issue with gagging 😅 This was a great episode!!!

[@kenaugustin396]

y'all like twins😂😂😂

[@Bougiesmokee]

Such a Great conversation, Dang Narcissistic Capricorn is the first time im hearing this, as a Capricorn im not denying that there are some like that at all, I will say usually im aware of what i could do but KARMA for me PERSONALLY will not allow it, my KARMA come back around faster than Mexican music..ion even fuck with karma lol aint gone have my world upside down..

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Faster than Mexican music 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@BVsaceswz]

Not a side to the first love 😂

[@nicole34618]

I disagree with one perspective. I don't agree that women or men are lacking in anyway. There are people that are for you and many others that are not. It's important that we recognize whose not for us early on so that we avoid out of alignment relationships. On the other side, we have to know who we are and date people who we are aligned with.

[@lisaafano8719]

Great Convo, I just don't like the term lesbian lifestyle. It makes it sound like it's a choice.

[@CurlyVeteran]

Ya’ll always tell bisexual studs they need to be honest but the few that are get shamed & bullied within their own community…. I should know

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Honestly, we don’t move like that. When we say be honest, is more so for the women they deal with so they won’t rob those women of their freedom of choice. You don’t have to announce it to the world because it’s their business at the end, beginning, and the middle of the day. It starts with them not being ashamed, though. People gon people and there’s no controlling that. Regardless of what it is.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

You said “y’all” and grouped us all in.

[@CurlyVeteran]

@@TheShellaSpherePodcast siya just posted something bullying bisexual studds last year… it’s always been an issue & still is… so yea “ya’ll” studds mainly I lived it, I see it still happening around me… you just made multiple jokes “uploads”?!? Really? How about they don’t make it known because of the bullying & hate they get…

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

@@CurlyVeteran well we apologize if our jokes about what to call the ones that’s robbing women of their freedom of choice came off as bullying. That’ll never be our goal but we still stand on protecting the parties involved. We also mentioned down low men and how dangerous it could be to the parties involved. We can’t control what Siya and others do, but we’ll do better at articulating our views without the jokes.

[@CurlyVeteran]

Copy that. Thank you for the accountability. It is very much appreciated. I am hopeful things will get better ❤️‍🩹 as we continue to have open dialogue with each other about these issues….

[@victoriousvkw]

💖💖💖👸🏾💐💐💐

[@matatheartist9554]

It’s not easy putting yourself on display for the world to see and give their opinion. Some people under here my truth clearly has them triggered 😂 smh ppl should learn to listen for understanding instead of listening to respond. SMH sad!

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

People gon people.

[@khsquad2028]

Any human can mentally break you ..

[@joyceg7859]

Isn’t the one in black an actress or something ??

[@franceshall7127]

lol...

[@kenaugustin396]

When she said the kandle blow out of the cake 😮😂😂

[@proyouservicesltd3652]

No woman is masculine the same way no man is feminine. Dating as a black women at age 41 has gotta be hard for the scarcity of available black men. Remember the dating age formula that says Man's age= 2 x (Woman's Age -7) so she at 41 should realistically should be aiming to settle with a man of about 68.

[@Toni.Latrice1988]

I knew she was a Capricorn. So am I. I can relate to her story but I’m still on the other side lol.

[@banksbanks7596]

Umm great topic but wrong person for interview..

[@chanell_le3]

😂 she was fine

[@chanell_le3]

I'm a Capricorn ♑ 😂

[@YashaSpeaks]

🙋🏾‍♀️ this is just my opinion 🤔 but I think bi women should only date each other 🫱🏾‍🫲🏼 and masc women have to do better at taking our time looking for a ((lesbian)) woman Leave those bi women a lone ❌🙅🏾‍♀️ really good episode tho 🔥🔥

[@duckworth894]

Everyone who ever told me I’m doing to much all did disloyal stuff and shower me they never fwm to begin with so for me anyone who tells me that they are cut off ❤ also this was GREAT 🤎🫶🏾