Jerry Seinfeld's Conversation Hack

[@ScienceOfPeople]

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[@initiatorhater0688]

i wish conversation-skills, conversation-ability, was taught in school in our teens, social-skills, social-dynamics, etc.

[@victorc.4532]

That`s a great warm up! Thanks! People just need to realize that this is just an ice breaker. If they did this the entire conversation, it will look like an interview or like they are beeing nosey hahahaha

[@so9605]

Great tip for an introvert as myself. It’s hard to believe that once, you were a socially awkward person . You give me hope.😅 Thank you.

[@CarlosSilva-xe8mm]

"How many chardonnays you had?" might be a difficult question to answer ;) In magic we use questions for misdirection and we know there's a difference between "internal" vs "external" questions. For example, "is it cold where you're sitting?" would be an external question and "do you feel cold where you're sitting?" would be internal. External questions are easier to answer because they relate to the environment. Another example is when we find a card in a card trick, we ask an internal question “is this the card you’re thinking off?”. And that has more impact than the external question “is this the card you’ve picked?” Do you have similar definitions? And have you study applications of these topics in the context of magic and misdirection? :)

[@augustuscaesar9995]

I like your advice. As for the Chardonnay question, if it’s difficult to answer, then you’ve had too many

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Fascinating! I have not yet studied them in the context of magic...add to my list = )

[@footlongsubzero1128]

This comment has sparked my interest greatly, internal vs external questions. I've gotta find out more on this 🤔. Thanks for bringing this to my attention

[@smallgalaxy7509]

This is great, my mind always goes blank at open ended questions. I freeze. Its good to see i'm not the only one.

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Exactly! You are so not alone = )

[@yurkouki]

Great. From now on I’ll start with number question. And my favorite will be “Hi. What’s your ss number ? “

[@JiyainIzzatKaySath]

Yes, with introverts, it's a great technique indeed.👍💯

[@JiyainIzzatKaySath]

Yes, you are right regarding VIPs as well.👍💯

[@JiyainIzzatKaySath]

@@MasterTalks Thank you.🙏 Stay blessed and protected!🤲 Aamin Summa Aamin!

[@alexandertye3244]

Nice to know that I was doing this unconsciously I loved peeking all the details of someone life to get a good vision about there life so I can give the most effective advice they will ever hear

[@footlongsubzero1128]

I use this often but was unaware it was a numbers question thing. Now that you've brought it to my attention, I'm gonna add a few more to my repertoire. Thanks to you and Jerry

[@CharlesHartman]

Brilliant! I will be adding this technique into my consultation process.

[@paulaa.6833]

Your smile is completely disarming. It makes me smile every time. Thanks! I think smiling is underrated and if done authentically it can be perceived as honest and more approachable. And that's why I watch your videos. Great tip on number questions. Will definitely apply it.

[@marksgameoflife8446]

Love the way you explain thing simple, clear and with examples!

[@sudarshanmahadev4171]

That’s a great tip. Take an initiative with a numbers based question. Then proceed with other questions. Vanessa, can you please make a video on storytelling?

[@ScienceOfPeople]

I will add it to my list!

[@sudarshanmahadev4171]

@@ScienceOfPeople you are the best

[@amanda.doskocil-music]

Love that show and thank you Vanessa. ❤️🙏😁

[@tanyaazarov07]

I love you! You get me and give the most brilliant advice! You help me so much. Thank you!!!

[@humanize.project]

EXCELLENT HACK! Thx Vanessa 👍👍👍

[@royrieder2113]

My gosh, this is a great channel! Lovely content; this tip is the best I've heard all day!

[@Rose-oq2hn]

NEVER ask someone how many drinks they’ve had. They won’t like you.

[@LaurelKashinn]

Great tip! Thank you!

[@a7xfanben]

Thanks for the tips!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

My pleasure!

[@farhanarahaman1975]

Love your every single video

[@tamilagil]

Thank you for such an amazing idea that surely help me a lot ... Love from india❤️

[@sindypetronella]

Amazing

[@FactStorm]

After they answer how long it took them to get somewhere, where are ya left off? LOL..I get the point of this video but there is no hack to the jumping point of conversation..it all comes down to skills & experience.

[@anapatrizcastrillo5360]

Is that also the reason why I love math and I hate essays? Im an introvert...

[@carelschilp8592]

So, when I meet a woman, I should ask "So, how old are you?" ;)

[@alexandrakurapova996]

Tell us after you try it 😆

[@carelschilp8592]

@@alexandrakurapova996 Okay..., How old are you?

[@Candican2]

hahahaha!

[@ScienceOfPeople]

LOL this is so good. While it is a numbers based question, I would chose a DIFFERENT number to ask about ; )

[@carelschilp8592]

@@ScienceOfPeople Hi Vanessa, glad you like it. I enjoy your work on KZbin a lot; keep up the good work. If you want to know more about the underlying mechanisms of things like social anxiety (internal and external considering) and identification, read up on P.D. Ouspensky and G.I Gurdjieff if you haven't already. I can recommend "In search of the Miraculous" Pretty heavy stuff, but it explains human behavior and, after all, humans and that's what we're here for on our journey. Thx. for the comment. Greetings from Holland & Regards, Carel.

[@ToddChandler]

How many numbers questions can you think of?

[@janetstraw191]

What about doctors, dentists and hairdressers??

[@jlingviolin]

Have you ever had a first view? I have now!

[@Kinging76]

try asking age of a women

[@nobodysperfect06]

I assume your husband had to make the first move or ask you out first

[@ganadomutilado1075]

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[@guillefournell4028]

Grat tip ! Thanks 🫶🏽

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Happy to help!