New Residents Don't Feel Welcome & More

[@enjoyslearningandtravel7957]

I feel badfor the couple also. I wish them better times. That sort of describes me also. I am a bit younger than the typical person who moves here and people say hi to me, but that’s it usually. I go to many activities and invite people out to coffee or iced tea but they always have a reason not to go usually such as they need to go home to their spouse or they’re busy. I am also a solo here at The Villages and that is unusual. Not looking for romance, but when you don’t have a spouse, they usually don’t want to get know you . Joined many activities, about to give up and feeling down at the villages. 😢

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Are you on Facebook? Do you belong to any of the Villages Facebook groups? We have seen posts like yours many times. And if those people get on Facebook and make a post for instance, that says "I haven't made many friends here yet, I would like to play cards. Does anyone have an opening?" Or maybe you could say "I would like to find someone to get coffee with in the morning would anyone meet me at McDonald's?" I bet you would get some takers. There is nothing wrong with trying to help yourself.

[@enjoyslearningandtravel7957]

@@JERRYANDLINDA yes I’m a member from Facebook groups and clubs and I did try to post but I’m not sure how to always do that properly I didn’t really get a reply that someone could meet. I gave up on the Facebook idea, I don’t see that people in the club check it is often or know how to use it to reply. Thanks for the idea. I have to think of something else.

[@pennyweldon8587]

@Enjoys Learning And travel, Have you thought of joining any clubs or visit any local church’s? We have found tons of people want to make friends here.

[@patalou7843]

@EnjoysLearning I wish I lived close to you! I would certainly love to go to coffee with you! I'm certain there are many that would also. There are so many wonderful people that post from The Villages, I am sure you'll find a group that will bring you much joy!! I will certainly pray for that for you!! God bless you, Enjoys Learning. ♥

[@theideaplace]

Sorry to hear that... it's sad that people are so closed off ...and not willing to meet a range of new people... many have their "type" and don't veer from that... esp as they age... I also think some people think divorce is contagious and are afraid they'll catch it if they are around a divorced person...

[@patrobertson772]

I moved to South Florida right out of college at age 21 and worked with retirees. Ever since the age of 21 I have always wanted to live in a retirement community. I finally turned 55 and last week closed on my first home in The Villages. I’m so excited!

[@noreenn6976]

That is exciting Pat, congratulations!

[@garyxyz4400]

I am jealous.

[@patalou7843]

​@@garyxyz4400 ME, too!!

[@patalou7843]

Congrats!!! ❤

[@patalou7843]

Congratulations!!😊

[@kathmann7402]

I love how Gizmo put his head on your arm. So adorable!

[@josea5949]

Bob and Betty, this is our 2nd home in TV. Neither one had "Welcome etc etc" out front. That kinda burst my bubble but it wasn't a deal breaker. We also had the same experience with neighbors but then again, they were new and also moving in so everyone was kinda busy doing that. What you have to do is take the initiative and when you see them outside, go and introduce yourselves. Don't let that discourage you. Oh, Welcome to the Villages! 😊

[@marybollinger8668]

I know you mention the "salty" comments, however, I wouldn't even give a second of your show to those downers. They don't deserve the attention. You two are the best and I enjoy every video you put out. Keep em coming.

[@deeski3914]

Especially their "I've fallen and can't get up" skit! They are too cute and hilarious!! They got me good with that one!!! 😆 🤣 😂

[@KingoftheNorth56]

Monday morning routine: Brew coffee, pour coffee, get nice and comfortable for the next 30-45 minutes, then get ready to watch Jerry and Linda…btw I really appreciate how you guys always say…We’re not professionals so don’t take our word for it’, kinda wish more doctors would say that.🤣 Excellent video 👍👍

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks Victor, so nice of you to say. ❤❤❤

[@KingoftheNorth56]

@@tombeegeeeye5765 only on paper🤣

[@theideaplace]

That's why it's called a practice... and you're called a "patient"

[@KingoftheNorth56]

@@theideaplace No, I’m not a patient but I am impatient 🤪

[@cydneystephen2814]

Good evening Jerry , Linda and Gizmo. Had a crazy day from 7 this morning with the car in the shop for servicing ending in $415. Just home now at 9pm and finally relaxing to watch and enjoy. Keeping the comments short today. What a lovely SWEET comment. The SALTY 🤦‍♀️. Taken with a grain of salt 🧂. Yes. Need the bloopers 😂. Great question about the 29 yr old. I would think if the home is left to the 29yr old child; if he/she cannot stay re:age requirements that he/she would be allowed to sell. Agree it would be cheaper to eat at home. We love to eat out. After the car servicing we went to the diner and it was $56 with tax. You guys always encourage research. It’s nice to be told info but responsible to get it straight from the source. Sorry about the email from the new villager feeling unwelcomed. It only takes one bad apple. Nice of you to reach out to them so they can meet kind folks. Omg. Look at the cute 🪱. What do they eat? Always appreciate the pics and shout outs. Oh Gizmo. Rolex and Timex 😂. Captain and nestle crunch 😂. Have a great week and see you on Thursday 🤗

[@erin00002011]

I hope you’ll do an update on that couple that is struggling. Sounds like they are sensitive and probably introverted folks. It’s not so easy to “just put yourself out there!” as some of these comments suggest. I’m rooting for them. ❤️

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Yes, we are too. They live in the village of Newell. I did not use their real names. Hopefully they will become more active and reach out to others. We have made friends through our activities here, and maybe that is part of the answer as well. As for everyone reading this, it is a good reminder to be kind to everyone you meet. Some of them need it.

[@badkarma1289]

@@JERRYANDLINDA Maybe organize an informal meet-n-greet, to help them on the path to making friends.

[@erin00002011]

I’m glad they reached out. There is a current that runs through, even in your interviews with friends, that if you don’t like it there then there something profoundly wrong with you. So I’m glad you shared with so much compassion.

[@lauralampe1664]

​@THE VILLAGES FLORIDA NEWCOMERS The Golden Rule is a very good rule to live by. Maybe the unfriendly man Bob & Betty encountered was having a bad day or had just received very bad news.

[@texasmimi5566]

@@lauralampe1664 This does not excuse his language and giving the finger.

[@donnakotoff9949]

Everyone is responsible for gathering their own information! You guys are so wonderful in presenting as much as you do! Buying a home is personal and the buyer is responsible for ALL the information THEY OBTAIN! How in the world can that be your responsibility! So grateful for all the information you do provide and search out for us! It's GREAT and a wonderful base to build on and you showcase so much that we would never have seen before! THANK YOU!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!

[@jeanniek8151]

If the holes are right about counter height, working in the kitchen will do it ( especially a problem for us short girls). You are right Linda, it is friction.

[@kathmann7402]

Exactly!

[@geraldlauters4987]

I agree😂

[@lisa9867]

I always thought it was cheap fabric because that's the shirts I've noticed it on. T-shirts that were from cheaper stores. I don't get holes in my more expensive clothes.

[@susanchristie9322]

After watching you for 4 years, we bought a home here in The Villages this past December; your channel has been NOTHING BUT HELPFUL! I really appreciate all the info you give us followers. ALSO, I’ve never lived near so many friendly people in my life (and we’ve lived in 14 states thanks to the military). This is definitely the best time of our lives!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Good for you, Susan! We are so glad to hear that everything is going great for you. 😁😁😁

[@johnnybq2]

I hope the The Villages management team hears this and gets the message that the little welcome sign on arrival is important … small thing but a friendly nice touch… one that might signal the neighbors to say hi as well.

[@Arty_left]

I can totally relate to Bob and Betty’s experiences here. My wife and I have had a significantly less than a stellar start to our adventure in TV. I’m not quite sure that even the word “heartbroken” can convey our grief strongly enough 🥺

[@carolapostolos8929]

Sorry to hear that. Did you purchase a home in TV? Did you join any activities?

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We always suggest that people get involved. We have found that many of our closest friends came from activities that we did. Golf, bocce, water aerobics, etc. We sure hope things turn around for you. If you are a member of next door, you can advertise that you are looking for people to play cards, or to golf with, or even just to walk or bike with.

[@Arty_left]

@@carolapostolos8929 Oh yes, we take advantage of the various amenities offered. However, when our experiences,(like those of Bob and Betty), are right next door, it is a definite struggle to be happy here.

[@charn913]

If you want a friend be a friend - there are cranky people everywhere- don’t let them steal your joy-

[@mickeymouse4535]

Love your show! Even our 2 dogs stare at the TV looking at Gizmo. We visited TV in December and loved it. We are coming for a lifestyle visit in September, and we can't wait. Hope to see you then.

[@Lucillecat759]

You always have to do your own checking because everyone's experience and expectations are different. But you both always say that. Thank you for a great show

[@theresafulkersin7746]

You both are too cute! I am 50 and just starting to wonder about retirement. I am thankful for your videos. I started watching to become informed but now I think I continue to watch because you both are adorable together. You can feel the love you have for each other and today that is so refreshing to see! Keep up the great work. I appreciate you both.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Awwww... thank you Theresa! ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Hugginsince79]

I’m 43 live in WV and watch you weekly. I’m far from retirement,but I enjoy all your information and adventures. You both are appreciated and loved.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@barbaraebner5889]

Jerry and Linda you are NOT responsible for what other people do, buy, say. You both are just a conduit for YOUR experience. ❤️

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Barbara!

[@emmylou-y4b]

The Villages is so big and seems to be getting bigger every day. It's daunting to start anything new and moving to a new state is stressful. We're not Villagers; and I would call us introverts so I imagine that we would join a few clubs and attend some events but it's hard. I always say it's like we're back in the school yard or cafeteria hoping to get picked for a game or asked to join for lunch.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

You are not wrong. It is big. The saving factor is that each villages are sort of self contained. (Except for shopping) You can stay in your local area as much as you like or you can travel as much as you like.

[@tvjake3202]

We joined an Ohio club and met new friends at the monthly meetings. We had to be proactive also and introduce ourselves. We are enjoying it here I play golf with a group and my wife has met new friends at her workout activities.

[@ASMR4calmmoods]

Love your positive outlook! You make me happy when I watch. Thanks for another great show - and lots of love to Gizmo! ❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Comments like that make us feel great! Thank you.

[@marshakulakowski1588]

I haven't used softener in over 20 years. I put white vinegar in the softener dispenser. Helps with soap removal, softens naturally, keeps colors bright..

[@sharonthetrucker2297]

I started using white vinegar a few months ago. It is great..

[@beckyhowes]

How much white vinegar? I have heard from different sources that fabric softener leaves a build up in your washer.

[@sharonthetrucker2297]

@@beckyhowes I am a truck driver so most of my laundry is done at a laundromat or truck stop but I use one cup per load and my laundry never smells funny and is always very clean. I saw a video from a guy that cleans and works on appliances and he said that waxy residue from fabric softener does buildup in a washing machine

[@nf2885]

Good morning, Jerry and Linda! Love those yellow t-shirts on you both. Good color! I think the story you told about the couple who is having a bad experience as newcomers in TV, pulled at my heart. The Lord says “a new commandment I give unto you that ye love one another as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.” John 13:34. I will pray for this couple that neighbors will open their heart to them and welcome them into TV. Please update us as to how they’re doing when you can. 🙏❤️🙋🏻‍♀️

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you, NF. I did not share their names because of privacy issues, they are not Bob and Betty. They just moved into the Village of Newell and are brand new. Hopefully we can all just be nice to everybody, and that should cover the situation.

[@debbiekeller7818]

I always watch you all until the end.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

SUPERVIEWER!!🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

[@stephannielyman7704]

There is no chance for myself to move to the lovely place you live but so enjoy listening to the both of you . Your humor is the Best. What great info you supply. Also you show people that can afford a change to make a leap of faith and experience a different way of life than what they have been use to . Continued good luck with your channel and I will enjoy listening .

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@georgiapeach23]

Your show is so uplifting, the tidbits you give us are not boring, because you guys have a great attitude!!🏝

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We appreciate you so much, Georgia peach!

[@jomama5186]

You two seem really sweet. I hope you are happy in the Villages. It's not for everyone.

[@milantoombs6696]

Nice show guys, always look forward to Monday 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@beckyhowes]

I feel so bad for Bob and Betty. I hope that you all can help.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

They are new residents in the village of Newell. Bob and Betty are not their real names… If we all just try to be nice to everybody, we will have it covered.

[@terryklinger1648]

"Best Time of My Life", you said it perfectly Jerry, married and first house- Best time of my Life. Birth and raising children- Best time of my Life. Retirement- Best time of my Life, Moving to The Villages- Best time of my Life. Enjoy the Best time of your life at what ever stage you are living. Love my Monday and Thursday morning coffee with Jerry & Linda!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Terry! So nice.

[@spaceshuttle1]

My Monday Mornings are so good with your show and my cup of coffee!!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Trek, so glad you enjoy it.

[@ladyrevivalstudio]

I have the same holes. After my curiosity got to me, I became more aware and discovered it was from leaning against my sink counter doing dishes. There was a tiny screw and my shirt got wet in the same spot also.

[@nanny5301]

This is so funny about your tshirts! The majority of my tshirts have holes just like yours. When I brought this up with some of my friends here in our park, they also had holes too! We all decided it was from our kitchen sink edge while standing at the sink! I put a strip of clear packing tape along the edge and guess what no more holes. The edge tile is rough. I've thrown away so many tshirts but not any more!

[@DisMindy5767]

Cute story. When our oldest daughter was a toddler we lived in Houston. We had a new home with St Augustine grass. The first time our daughter ran on it barefoot she realized how rough it was. She threw down her blankie that she always carried, jumped onto it and put her arms out crying for us to come rescue her from the bad grass!! 😊

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

😆😆😆😆😆

[@terryklinger1648]

We had the same experience when we moved from Minnesota to Texas, our 2 fur babies did not want to walk on the grass, in Minnesota we pull out St Agustine grass because it is considered a weed, however our St Augustine yard is thick and beautiful here in Texas, it does well with the heat and requires watering once a week when it does not rain. I have discovered a "custom" mixed fertilizer from our local nursery mixed particularly for St. Augustine grass and a weed spray called "Image" that controls weeds, my neighbors and visitors always comment on our beautiful weed free yard. We use a lawn service so even with them mowing approximately 100 yards a week we never have a weed problem.

[@noreenn6976]

I love your channel, love that you share.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much!

[@mickeymouse4535]

Hi , I also get holes in my shirts. I believe it is from the washing machine. When it spins on final spin, the material gets caught in the holes in the machine. I don't use fabric softener in my machine only in my dryer.

[@lynneyb2469]

Not only do I watch till the end, but I also sing along to, "Jerry and Linda's mailbag Monday"🎵🎶🎹🎵🎼🎶🎹🎼🎵🎶🎹 🎼! I always watch your show on KZbin on my TV, so unable to comment. This time, logged onto my computer to let you know how much I love your show and look forward to every week. I am aways from retirement age, but look forward to moving to the Villages when possible. 🤩🤩🤩

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We love that Lynney! Thank you for being a superviewer, and thank you for taking the time and trouble to log in to leave us a comment. We really do appreciate it.❤❤

[@pamsacco6299]

Jam packed full Mailbag video! 🎉😊❤

[@garettb7800]

Sir and Madam, great show once again! How many pools are there in a 57 square mile property? I don't like the sound of a crowded pool....

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Would you believe.....over 100?!!!!

[@kaymcabee9487]

Can't wait to meet you on the cruise in January!!! Was visiting my sister in Palm Coast, Fl this weekend. She took us to the Kennedy Space Center!!! Oh my goodness!! If you haven't been there, you absolutely have to go. I am still in awe!! Thanks for all you do! Kay

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Can't wait! It will be here before we know it. 😀😀

[@BettyD3495]

Hi Linda and Jerry. I agree with your theory about your lawn being contaminated by your grass cutter’s mower. Our neighbor used to have a gorgeous lawn. It’s very different now; it’s full of weeds since he started getting it mowed.

[@janetdeniseezell6019]

Had the same problem, Linda. Figured out it is, as you said, friction from seat belts and leaning against the sink, etc. I always pull that part of my shirt out after I buckle up. No new holes.

[@Carol-cd4my]

I watch til the end every time because you always have something really important to tell us!,

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Carol! I mean… superviewer! 🏆🏆🏆🏆🏆

[@carolanncurrid8246]

Hi Linda - remember our mother’s or grandmothers always wearing aprons? I make them and have them but get too lazy to put them on! That and they changed clothes to work around the house, and made us change out of our “school” clothes. I think that’s why our shirts get those friction holes - and we won’t even talk about stains🙄🤦🏻‍♀️ Maybe aprons need to make a comeback! Have a good week and enjoy your nice weather.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Great idea, Carol.

[@janedmn]

My holey tee shirts came from belly rubbing up against my desk when I was still working. Mine,I concluded,were zipper induced mostly. Glad I saved them. Now cut up so I can get shirt on after shoulder last Monday.

[@Madmarvel]

Love the show ❤. On the grass topic. The Bermuda is an evasive grass but it can take the heat better than most all the others and with a little work can almost look like a putting green. It can be cut down to about an inch and with a bare minimum of water thrive where others die. The yard will struggle against the Bermuda and eventually lose to it. About the only real way to fight it is to physically hand pull the Bermuda runners back to the root.

[@tammyoeding8161]

Misleading 😮 they must not do their own research! Just because you guys love it, doesn't mean I will... There are other retirement communities! Crazy how people like that, blame you for them not checking out other areas😢 Love you guys 💓

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Tammy!

[@annekelley8299]

I have recently noticed I had a couple of shirts with holes. I thought it might have been from the washer. Your explanation sounds logical.

[@flybirds2024]

I did all the research before ever coming for a visit to TV. I looked at many different models and even saw a few models on my visit. After that I had decided on one Courtyard Villa model in a particular neighborhood and could not be happier with my home here!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

You did it right, Bob.

[@raymondplodzien7459]

My favorite part of Monday’s and Thursdays are your shows.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Holy cow Raymond… what a nice thing to say.❤❤❤

[@arlenegeiler9294]

I had a similar problem years ago with the holes in my t shirts. I think it was the car seat belts. Took care of it, put a wash cloth in that area on my seat belt, no more holes !

[@vansmack4972]

Leonid and Friends are great. You will really enjoy them.

[@MSimmonsAZ]

I bought in the Villages at 45, my name is the only one on the deed. There is an 80/20 rule. as long as 80% of the owners are 55 or older then 20% can be younger than 55. I know of someone who bought long before I did and was under 55. At the closing they they tried to tell him he couldn't buy the house. He knew the rule and said, "prove to me that less than 80% are younger than 55. He signed his papers a few minutes later. Now I did have to sign a couple of extra forms acknowledging it's a 55+ community. No one under 19 can live in The Villages etc etc. But I had no issues getting my name on the deed.

[@JeffWeymier]

You guys never fail to put a smile on my face on the worst day of the week for non-retired folks like myself. Your banter back and forth and Linda's infectious smile and laugh really have a relaxing vibe and I really look forward to watching the shows on Monday mornings. In regards to the little holes on the shirts. Are you sure that Jerry doesn't mistake you shirt for his sometimes because that navel piercing he has may poke holes in those shirts...........😁😂😉. I hope my goofy sense of humor doesn't rub you the wrong way. Thanks again for taking the time to brighten our day. See you in May.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

If that were true Jeff, wouldn't there be holes on my nipple area? 😆😂😝😂😆

[@carolbradley4845]

@@JERRYANDLINDA lol! Good one Jerry!

[@RayandRita]

Please never stop doing the sweet and salty segment. It just makes our day cause you guys put such a funny spin on the salty comments we honestly can't stop laughing. Plus I stopped using fabric softener too and instead put vinegar in clothes while they are washing. They come out soft. Especially towels. A tip I got from an Instagram influencer I follow.

[@DottieWoods-um7ox]

Vinegar is also good for your washing machine to eliminate the build up from detergents. It is especially good for dark colored fabrics. But overall the white vinegar is a perfect choice and does not make clothes smell. Fabric softeners can build up in the fabrics.

[@tadeuszoltarzewski]

Love you guys. Yes I mysteriously have holes appear😮! I thought it was moths but have never seen any I put lavender in my closets and drawers, and it's only on my clothes! Oh well the mystery continues. I'm contacting Miss Marple to see if she can solve our problem😂 Take care and keep the vids coming. Love from Rosie O from Devon England 🇬🇧👏

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Haha! Let us know what she says, Rosie! 😁😁😁

[@steveboussom6564]

You two are such an encouragement. Keep it going, you are sharing love and friendship with many of us and we might not meet until glory.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks so much Steve. You are correct of course, we can't meet everybody. I must say that we are thankful for the ones that we have met.

[@tracymorgan5386]

Gizmo laying his head on Jerry’s shoulder. Aww.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@karenfriedenberg6144]

Morning all! Fun show! I get those same holes and I’ve concluded it’s from my shirt rubbing against the counter when I’m cooking, cleaning, doing dishes etc. another reason to “make reservations” for dinner😂😂😂 C’mon Jerry step it up and save Linda’s wardrobe 😉 Keep up the great work- look forward to seeing the videos and your adventures ❤

[@erin00002011]

They prefer eating at Chez Linda’s! She just needs an apron. 😝

[@lmohler409]

hey Jerry and Linda! I have some rentals in the Villages. have been renting houses for over 10 years now, and have seen quite a few changes. I have both pet friendly rentals , non pet friendly, rent one house for 12 mo at a time, others for at least a month at a time , an d yet others for just weeks at a time. it's a hot topic in the villages! happy to answer any of your viewer questions, including the pros (and cons) of renting directly from the owner vs going through a property manager or third party booking platform.

[@annekelley8299]

We did our research before buying plus we watched your earlier shows plus we had a friend here. We made sure all our research was compatible to out buying. You both always say you have had a good experience and you liked some things and dislike other things but ultimately it is up to the individuals. Thank you for this show I so enjoy it. I have a golfing friend and one day she told me she watches your show which sparked a fun conversation. She even bought the picture you have in your dinning room because she loved it so much.

[@susieroo9743]

I think the holes in the T shirts are from working in the kitchen if you are rubbing against the counter top. I used to get holes in them when I was working as a pharmacist before I retired. My good part of the day was reaching across the counter top. It hit right where the holes would show up 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️. I don’t spend a lot of time in my kitchen now, we eat out most of the time. I started wearing an bib apron when I do cook.

[@amyt2400]

Loved hearing about your neighbors’ vegetable garden, how wonderful- and, a great way to relax and meet others. 🍅 🍒 🥬

[@annstaudt7613]

Love your show - thanks so much

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks for watching!

[@allisonleger9270]

When we bought last year in the historic section.We loved the mature trees and the little bit bigger yard. We find that people are older here and already have their favorite things to do with their long-time friends. We've had several yard parties where we invited all of the neighbors and have had a great time. We are thinking of selling and maybe moving to a new area. Sacrificing the mature trees so that we can be on the same footing with other people who are new. Not sure that's the answer, but maybe it is..

[@lydiaelizondo7673]

😂 Linda it's funny that you brought up the holes on your shirts. I have the same thing happening to my shirts, I wear a belt so I thought that could be it and another explanation could be the friction from rubbing my tummy against the sink granite counter when I do dishes. Btw I enjoy watching your show and especially when you take us along on the cart rides throughout the various villages,

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much!

[@gocirf3433]

Tennis balls 3-4 are a good alternative to fabric softener, plus regular fabric softeners get build up in the washing machine tub (the outer tub that you don’t see)

[@timkarenalderink5175]

Just a note on St Augustine grass. It is NO saint, that is for sure. We live in Chitty Chatty and many here struggle with the grass situation. Do a drive around and you will see for yourself. Some have gone to great expense to totally replace their yards, some of us have taken the bull by the horns and our now doing our own yard work, with the great help of our new friends at Ace Hardware in Wildwood. It has cost us some $$$$ but we are finally feeling a bit better about our yard..

[@nancyjohnson8720]

My sister and I have had the exact same problem. We discovered that it was the granite countertops we were moving against as we were in the kitchen! There were a few rough spots where the undersides had not been polished, just a thought.

[@janetkennedy8228]

Linda! The hole in your shirt is either your golf cart seatbelt or where you lean against the counter when your doing dishes! Take a break from the dishes for a couple months let Jerry do them. 😂😂🫣

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Hey Janet! Let's not get crazy! 😀😀😀😀😀

[@pauline4848]

Great MBM as always, You always give such wonderful information, Anyone buying are totally responsible for checking the details that's important to them Before they make their own decision, As for the new couple, I'm sure many people have only just moved in themselves and feeling their way, Reach out to others and say hello and see how conversation goes, I really wish them all the best and they settle down to enjoy TV more. We appreciate you Jerry and Linda and the star of the show Gizmo⭐

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Pauline, so nice.

[@Kathrynanne9]

The holes in the shirt are a short people thing. I have them too. We short people lean up against counters, sinks,etc as we need to reach for things.

[@marthabradas8873]

Well I stumbled upon your channel, and I must say that you two are a hoot! and I really enjoyed your video, I look forward to more, have an awesome week!🥰

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thanks for watching, Martha!

[@csnanny1882]

Hey, can’t wait until Thursday,love rodeo’s, God bless you two, and of course Gizmo to.

[@warmhalo9963]

I stopped using laundry sheets in my dryer after I heard the "coating" they put on it causes serious allergies. Wow, probably true, so I stopped using them and my allergies went away. It took several months because almost everything in my home has been washed then dried with these dryer sheets. An 80-year old doctor told me this last year! As far as static is concerned, well, static is mostly caused by over-drying clothes.....!

[@ratstograts]

You guys should have a radio show. You're so amusing.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@stanleykeith6969]

I was in Clearwater, I had St. Augustine, grows good and thick and no weeds.

[@shelleyyoung2956]

I see another sad report of lack of reception upon moving to TV. Maybe a welcome club could be started to help people have friendly faces greet them and encourage them to come to some activities? When I get there in 6 years I’ll definitely participate.

[@MichaelofTheVillages]

Hi Jerry and Linda - I have been an avid viewer of yours from day one - I was offered early retirement and was able to move here earlier than expected. I was extremely fortunate to have secured a patio villa in Richmond (took 6 attempts, and I was #1 out of 20 in the lottery for my home). On closing day, I was so excited and couldn’t wait to meet my new neighbors, and potential new friends. Well, here’s the rub. In Richmond, most patio villas were snatched up by investors. On my small block of 6 homes, I am the only owner-resident - all the other homes are either air B&Bs, short term rentals, and one is being used for lifestyle visits. I literally have all new neighbors weekly on my block. This has been very disappointing for me, as a single guy, feeling kind of isolated on my street. I will need to make an effort and try and meet resident-owners on the other blocks here in Richmond - staying positive, but this is not what I envisioned.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

That must be very frustrating for you. To us it seems like selling out to investors kind of defeats the purpose of creating neighborhoods. If you would like us to post your situation and contact information on Facebook, let us know and we will try to help you find some new friends.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Michael, I was thinking….would you like to talk about the process of the lottery and obtaining your home on one of our shows? If so let me know ASAP. [e-mail]

[@deedeew4040]

I enjoy watching your shows. Linda you are adorable and Jerry you are a true comedian. You both are fun people. I could never live in Florida, too humid and buggy for me but I if I could live in Florida I would move to the Villages. I was raised in California and now live in Arizona.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We would love to have you, Dee Dee! 🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂

[@phyllisdelgiudice625]

This was such a fun show...loved the bloopers this week, they were hysterical! I hope the person who wrote in about not getting a very nice welcome has a better experience very soon. I know for sure she contacted the right people.😊 You are both so very kind. I loved your last video also, meeting some of the lovely people who live there. Hope you have a wonderful week, and lots of love to little Gizmo also! 💙

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you so much, Phyllis! ❤❤❤

[@mizeequine9591]

Hey Jerry and Linda. I’ve been watching for 3 years. I’ll never move to TV, but still love to watch. Holes in shirt issue. After visiting my sister who has granite countertops, I got those same holes. I used the kitchen sink lots. I think that’s the culprit! I do not have stone countertops and I don’t get them.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

If several people have said the same thing. We may be on to something here.

[@galenbeers9955]

When I lived in Orlando I used to wake up to dehydrated lizards on the tile floors. I have NO idea how they got in the house. Everything was always shut up tight to keep the air conditioned coolness inside. But morning after morning there would be a few on the white tiles. Never saw a live one though.

[@bettyalexander4592]

I love that you are just laughing and laughing in your bloopers!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

😁😆😅🤣😅😆😁

[@brendaweathers6377]

I too get holes in my shirts! I think mine are from the kitchen sink, I lean on sink when I do dishes, so I would say yes FRICTION! Enjoy your show, keep them coming!🙋‍♀️🥰❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Lots of people agree with you, Brenda.

[@marthadavey3703]

Yes. I’m sick of the holes in my shirts. I thought it was from a belt but I’ve tried to not wear them and still get holes. There is certain kinds of fabric that is prone to getting holes.

[@tvjake3202]

You have always warned people to make their own investigation of living here. You only tell of your experiences, we have had the same experiences as you. We do not regret moving here, made great new friends and involved in activities. My allergies are worse here but bearable. Our first stay here before buying we ran into a man that yelled at us telling me how I was not allowed on a certain street, but, we had a hundred more stop by and help us. I think the ratio nice to not nice is 99/1. We less bugs here than Ohio but we had Scorpions come in our house in Vegas. LOL.

[@frannader2739]

Yes, I was bummed out too after seeing small holes on the front of a new t-shirt after wearing it for the first time. I also read it happens on shirts that are not the best form of cotton, like Pima.

[@donnastickney641]

Hi Jerry and Linda - I have the answer to the holes in your shirts. I figured it out a few years ago ‘cause it was driving me crazy! When you wear jeans or any other garment that has a button and a zipper, and your shirt is not tucked in, you lean a bit on your kitchen counter edge when you’re cooking or cleaning at your kitchen sink, the button is right in line with the edge of the countertop and it takes no time at all to wear a hole in your shirt (I’m pretty short…5’). As soon as I became aware of this, I have never gotten another hole in my shirts. I simply role under the edge of my shirt until it’s clear of the countertop. I hope this works for you!

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you!

[@billzadera4340]

Leonid and Friends are AWESOME! As a drummer who played “Chicago” songs, I appreciate their dedication to making songs spot-on.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

We are looking forward to it, Bill.

[@billzadera4340]

Watching you kiddos now from Maryland.

[@melaniew8805]

I believe that hole is coming from friction on a button that you wear on your pants maybe that was the problem that I had. There are plastic covers for buttons on Amazon and that fixed my problem..

[@garymcadamsthevillagesrealtor]

Sadly, this seems to be the case. As a Realtor in The Villages I am hearing from people I have sold a home to that they feel like are not welcome. When my Mom and Dad bought their house in The Villages in 2001, it seemed everyone went out of their way to welcome them. Now it seems like that isn't the case.

[@janicecroissiert9116]

Fall is hot down here, lol. Went for a lifestyle visit in November, and it was hot. We loved it, since we live in South Fla.

[@Rarainthedesert]

We r renting a home in the Hadley neighborhood for a month this summer. I had to call about the “passes”….what they cover, how to get them, who can get one, etc. The lady who answered the phone was very rude and her attitude towards me made me nervous. Then she made fun of me for being rattled and a bit confused. When I hung up with her, I almost cried. We have been so excited about our summer visit, but now I just don’t want to go. Stuck with a rental, because we’ve decided we aren’t moving there. We will make the best of it, but has definitely been a burst balloon moment.

[@lauralampe1664]

I would call again tomorrow...you may get another person who is more friendly and willing to answer questions. If you get a rude person on the phone, ask for their name, then ask to be transferred to their supervisor. Or ask for the supervisor's email address, and send the supervisor an email detailing the employee's unprofessional attitude. I hope you encounter better treatment going forward and give your rental a chance.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

You should never let one rude person spoil your future happiness. If you watch our show you have undoubtedly seen dozens and dozens of different people. We know so many wonderful people here. 99% are just wonderful. Sorry you had that experience… but I advise you to put that out of your mind and come here with a great attitude and I am pretty sure you are going to have a wonderful time.

[@ceceb6264]

Some villagers and villages are more friendly than others.

[@lauralampe1664]

For people considering a move to The Villages, put on your big boy and big girl pants and do a lot of due diligence...as Jerry & Linda recommended, ask your Villages sales rep or the MLS agent you are working with...can I put up my own fence or paint my homes' exterior red, white & blue? Better yet, get the phone # of the Architectural Review Committee and ask ARC what changes you are considering. Don't put your due diligence burden on to Jerry & Linda.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you Laura, that is great advice. Plus, I would add don't take one rude person too seriously… there are way more great people here.

[@lindawoody8501]

My opinion is that there should be two types of community gardens in The Villages - one for charity's sake such as the usual big one that was (or still is?) present and in use when I was a resident in The Villages. One should be a typical type for the use of the resident gardener.

[@rebeccaspacke2315]

Thank you, Jerry, Linda and Gizmo. Another great Monday. #1-Linda, I do not use fabric softener. Your clothes will still be soft and comfortable, especially if you choose to use wool dryer balls. 2-Didn't know there were community gardens in the area. I am thrilled to learn this. Never thought about the fact that I was using reclaimed water on my little veggie bed in my yard. Yikes😢

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Our pleasure!

[@enjoyslearningandtravel7957]

It’s a bit gross using reclaimed water for edible food. I guess the villages expect you to just have shrubs and grass in the back, not a vegetable garden, because they think all villagers are too old to want to work in the garden. Relative of mine is still working on her vegetable garden garden and she’s around 80.

[@gregorynp]

Regarding the lack of welcoming. My observation is that in the new home neighborhoods where everyone is new there is more welcoming rather than the older established ones where friendships have been established previously. I have not seen the window welcome, put on by Village realtors, lately. One should introduced oneself to the neighbors in either case. Pass out a personal info card and maybe have a driveway party and pass out flyers in your neighborhood.

[@erin00002011]

Sounds like these are possibly introverted folks that would probably hate putting themselves out there like that. 😞

[@Rnjeepshoelver]

We visited the Villages and loved it , wanted to move right in , but we decided we would miss our kids and grandkids far too much , the weather was another factor ( the summers 😮) but I still watch your show !!! ❤

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Totally understandable. If we had lived close to our grands we would probably still be in Indiana.

[@oceandreamer1958]

We have St. Augustine grass. We don’t like it. It’s very crunchy. Our little long haired Chihuahua doesn’t like going outside on it either. I’m sorry to hear about the couple being so unhappy here. I hope they don’t give up. I’m not sure where they bought, but we didn’t have that experience at all. I hope it works out. I do use fabric softener, Linda.

[@theresatitus-lawson3431]

I think that a lot of people are not only watching your show because you give information about The Villages, but also because of your personalities. You two are such very nice people with good hearts and it shows through your videos! When I saw you for the first time, I just knew you were the kind of people I would like to meet in person and have as Friends. That salty remark by "Jeef" was so rediculous that all you can do is laugh at it! I love your Blooper Break because you two are hilarious. Thank you for th information about leaving the house to a person under the age of 55. Linda's meals taste so good to you Jerry because her meals are made with love! ❤❤ Whoa........People need to think for themselves. They can't blame you for their decisions. You have the best intensions in your heart when you give your opinions or experiences. I'm so sorry that Bob and Betty have had a bad experience moving here and hope that things turn around for them as they join in with some of the many clubs and activities. Since I've moved here, I've seen 1 snake in 7 years. Great video as always.

[@JERRYANDLINDA]

Thank you sweet lady! ❤❤❤

[@johntamulonis4626]

Another great show. Thank you Jerry and Linda.

[@gummodude]

I think the holes are from Gizmo scratching when Linda picks him up.