Everything has a market, I don't want be something I don't just to win a woman. If she wants a bad boy, she can carry on.
@brianking77579 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more.
@baharelarab59429 ай бұрын
So Deep and So Real
@princeprempeh14679 ай бұрын
Sometimes you need develop yourself
@ayomideabraham68939 ай бұрын
@@princeprempeh1467exactly. Self development is key. The moment you accept your short coming, that's the first step to self development
@MultiPrincelove9 ай бұрын
Well said, brother...
@stephenodhiambo75569 ай бұрын
This our sister from Ghana inderdtands this subject so deeply. She has mastered her craft. From Kenya, we love you.
@samuelkamotho49589 ай бұрын
Confidence is about the inner insight of you knowing you are capable and valuable. And when you make mistakes you can go around them and come up with a good way to speak out
@abiolaoluwatosin61729 ай бұрын
This is beyond about woman. This is life in general. Thank you Jessica
@marveldayz9 ай бұрын
If this is what the so called bad boy is, then i don't see anything bad here but just a responsible person who is not a simp..
@brentonvisagie54859 ай бұрын
You are a star 🌟 your advice is always clear, straightforward and practical. We need ppl like you. Thank you so much. ❤️ Brenton, South africa 🇿🇦
@wilsonigiri8 ай бұрын
I can't thank you enough for this eye opening video. Weldone Jess. Wilson from Nigeria 🇳🇬
@Steve245279 ай бұрын
I have all those qualities! The only difference between me and a so-called Bad boy is… 1. I don’t like to draw attention to myself and 2. Bad boys tell lies to get women
@justody19 ай бұрын
U sometimes lie to dem tho
@3phraimlive1839 ай бұрын
Good boys lie the most to try to impress a chick, bad boys tend to tell it as it is they don't give hoots about what a chick feels
@Steve245279 ай бұрын
@@justody1 Not to get them I don’t you may do but not me
@abubakarrkamara99539 ай бұрын
Lying to girls will only makes you treated with a disrespect when they found out that you are not whom you presented to them. Sigma males are proud of themselves. Love me for who I'm or you quit my way.
@floofygod9 ай бұрын
I gotta say, your channel is an amazing change of pace. It has all the essentials for improvement without the insecurity and narcissism that comes with a lot of modern dating coaches. Amazing, will reccomend to others.
@genehughes78746 ай бұрын
Jessica, I’ve been following your videos for awhile. They are instructive and easily applied to every day life From Milwaukee, Wisconsin, USA
@OluwabusayoAdepetun9 ай бұрын
I love how you explained “assertiveness”. Thanks
@ocheroronald16289 ай бұрын
First to comment Jessica. Love your videos😊. From Nairobi Kenya🇰🇪
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
You're the best!
@toksthoughts9 ай бұрын
hello I was at the village market and tea farm in Nairobi last year, very lovely
@mohamedlayee79359 ай бұрын
Jessica I really love your message for real. Thanks you very much my beautiful sister God bless you sister.
@otongjrliah47879 ай бұрын
You're helping a lot of men with your videos. Thanks.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Glad to help
@Infamous18929 ай бұрын
Nah Bruh, speak for yourself on that one.
@souravdeylog9 ай бұрын
Jessica never fails to offer valuable perspectives. Loud Cheers!
@ChrisW10199 ай бұрын
Greetings from Canada, Jessica. I take huge issue with the term "nice guy". What people really mean by it is the guy is passive. He's too passive. I try to be assertive. I try to be nice about it, but I like and believe in being assertive.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Gotcha
@okoriepraise22769 ай бұрын
😢
@V_ii9 ай бұрын
Nice guy just means you aren't being your authentic self & are too concerned about how others perceive you. Assertiveness is a part of that.
@tojusote48969 ай бұрын
It doesn't mean you aren't being your authentic self, why do some people find it hard to believe some people are naturally nice for God's sake, it's only when it comes to women that being nice is bad
@V_ii8 ай бұрын
@@tojusote4896 being naturally nice isn't bad. That's not the same thing as being "a nice guy".
@richardmartyns79789 ай бұрын
Jessica I really love the way u speak. I've been following u for years. I love u, from Nigeria.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@siyandashezi25005 ай бұрын
Jessica 1thing I can share with you is that you are my life coach,I can say a lot...but your videos speaks for itself,so thank you🙏💙
@JessicaOS5 ай бұрын
You are so welcome!
@davidscot77679 ай бұрын
I have discovered that when a lady loves you genuinely, everything about you just turns her on.❤ You don't have to be a bad guy just to please a woman, trust me! I have played both sides and I can tell you that for free it's a win-win. To be a bad guy, you need to be very smart to get the result that you want but the only problem with nice guys is that, they lose their senses at the sight of Kpekus and Barca. Being a nice guy doesn't make you weak just make sure you do not lose your brain.
@FITN1007 ай бұрын
Thank you for clearifying all the concepts, your value is worth paying for , you are a RARE GEM 💎
@gtoexpress81119 ай бұрын
Jessica thanks for sharing myself to the Internet except i was born a bad man and everything else dear I'm what a lot of men dream to be - Have a blessed day my dear You are something special educate them guys -
@darlingtonsilva26122 ай бұрын
From Nigeria, resident of Canada 🇨🇦, your video is very informative
@Thomasjohn14906 ай бұрын
You are very smart, Jessica. I watch your videos and I find them very informative and encouraging in self awareness and development. Keep it up! 💌
@bonnygaboikanngwe58039 ай бұрын
Your content is amazing
@emmanuelsalako73709 ай бұрын
Always good to hear from Jessica for she is always worth listening 🎧 too. Her craft is world class
@abledutetteh1564 ай бұрын
I really love your lessons, I've learnt from it.❤
@omellemmor47328 ай бұрын
For those wondering "bad boy" doesn't literally mean someone with an attitude of a hooligan, savage or a jerk that are up to no good.
@josephademola84947 ай бұрын
Independence: Building a life where you are primarily your own source of strength! ❤❤❤
@emmanuelk.dennis55853 ай бұрын
This piece is one of my favorite. Thanks for the insights.
@JessicaOS3 ай бұрын
Thanks for listening
@josephademola84947 ай бұрын
Mystery : A blend of being Open & Intrigue!❤
@rahabmugambi76979 ай бұрын
❤the message and the whole explanation is absolutely very vital.💙🇰🇪
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
🥰
@jp_is_the_boy77jp_is_the_b346 ай бұрын
💙all I can say is thank you so much Jessica your advice always brings out the best
@JessicaOS6 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@BDMx9Productions9 ай бұрын
I posses all these qualities naturally and not to be considered a “bad boy” I’ve always been self dependent cuz moms taught us early. I’ve never felt lonely a day in my life but I’m most happiest when I’m by myself although I have friends and I have an awesome life but…. I always thought I wasn’t adventurous until you explained it today always thought it was about bungee jumping mountain climbing alligator hunting and such. Thank you for explaining.
@julioramirez40478 ай бұрын
💙 Thank you! Jessica. I love your videos.
@reubena.b99719 ай бұрын
💙You did this one justice. Liked how each topic was broken down into several practical/actionable points. This was truly in depth. Thanks!💙
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
💙💙
@busimanofficial9 ай бұрын
I had been following religiously from Gh. And now from Rwanda . 😅
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Come back home
@greymaterresources9 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOSthe whole land I meant continent is home ma’am
@PositiveVibesOnly57749 ай бұрын
Hi, Jessica. Thank you once again for another great video
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Yan_Guar9 ай бұрын
Jessica getting younger everyday..too proper ❤😂
@Frank-ie8of9 ай бұрын
Watching from Sierra Leone, The only difference between me and bad boy is, Bad boys tell lies but I do not🤷🏽♂️
@itn-nq5tn9 ай бұрын
Jessica you are such a 💎 gem.
@geo96659 ай бұрын
Got me second thinking if I’ve been a bad boy all my life haha. Great advice none the less.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
😅
@Reubenchifana8 ай бұрын
On point. Thank you . Really needed this❤
@JessicaOS8 ай бұрын
You are so welcome
@arkosphere9 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica for this awesome Video. Lots of Love from India 🇮🇳
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
You're so welcome!
@Steve245279 ай бұрын
I’ve never been called a bad boy but people have called me independent and some mysterious etc! I’ve travelled by myself abroad a few times and lived in various places. I enjoy variety. I’ve had my share of beautiful women and luv feminine women although I don’t want to hurt them by lying or giving bs stories to get them. I think the only difference between me and a stereotype bad boy is that Bad Boys = Liars to get what they want
@The10thManRules9 ай бұрын
From my military mind, some women like a man who's perceived as dangerous to other men. Not a criminal type dude, but a proper protector type dude. A guy who's fit, able, and willing to stand between danger and those he cares about. Some men can make a lot of money without effort, but if they couldn't fight their way out of a wet paper bag with just 3 sides, their attractiveness to certain women is reduced.
@paulnwogu93749 ай бұрын
Ride on Jess!🎉
@petersontechnicalconcept30823 ай бұрын
You have exposed us by giving the good guys the way we win 😅 I know I being a bad guy was not my life style of love in a relationship. Buh same relationship leads me to the act. And I see I win and don't take nonsense around me. I don't think this girl's deserve good in a relationship only till they Mary , cuz Nothing dey full there stomach
@usefulraphael9 ай бұрын
Well beyond ezpando sis💙💙💙
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
🤩
@mercyspeaking9 ай бұрын
You're always amazing, Jessica.
@faustinemarevesa14048 ай бұрын
Very informative video ❤
@ABEiiiKU9 ай бұрын
While the angle shot from the left looks very flattering, I especially love the shot from the right angle - its extra contrast, and mood is crispy and beautiful.
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thanks for the feedback
@samuelkamotho49589 ай бұрын
This year , I need to work on how I express myself on video, my intelligence and authentic style. Just being the best version of me
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
You got this!
@nerokoroanicet45739 ай бұрын
You're amazing Jessica os.
@abubakarrkamara99539 ай бұрын
What a world where nice guys are no more appreciated. 😢
@forlatagate16 ай бұрын
Everyman is a so-called bad boy, all you need to do is make semen retention a lifestyle, everything else will come naturally,love God more than women money and yourself, it's that simple, you'll be surprised at the way women respond to you after about 9 months or retaining
@some3sharks4 ай бұрын
Semen retention is not for the weak oo
@sanelehailesimelane13869 ай бұрын
God! I love your eyes
@sagacitytv92889 ай бұрын
Great job 👏
@busimanofficial9 ай бұрын
Much love Jessica 😘
@mukundelorland66209 ай бұрын
That is why I can't miss watching your video 😊
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@ferdeesalah15239 ай бұрын
Bad boys ... Nice guys... Bad boys... Nice guys. Fact is there's a woman out there for everyone. Rejections count for nothing. You only need one yes. Just be yourself
@Its_superdave099 ай бұрын
Awesome tips 💙 Thank you
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Glad you like them! Thank you too
@FredrickWonnie9 ай бұрын
It's all about men who respect themselves, or high value men. I'm a high value man, If she does not love me for that, let her go, God will provide. 🤔
@preciousbassey30719 ай бұрын
Good day Mr Zander i and my friends would need a video talking about how to make your girlfriend always attached to you and womt want to leave
@DonKheru9 ай бұрын
This was great🎉🔥🔥🔥
@RahmJumma-ju2oe8 ай бұрын
Dear Jessica thx more
@johnsonfiakuna87229 ай бұрын
Good talk
@owenjustin-ym7rr9 ай бұрын
Copy that 👍, so it's first of all knowing who you are in terms of hobbies, likes and dislikes before rounding to the real gear. 😊😊😊 😊
@michael-raphaelnkwocha47672 ай бұрын
You made sense
@samson.j.august95759 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing..
@deshommeselegant32049 ай бұрын
You are the best 🎉
@CoachSteveJandS9 ай бұрын
At first it seems interesting that the bad boy doesn't care, the reason it will go sideways is the badboy sincerely doesn't care...
@tumangululainvestmentscc85709 ай бұрын
Thank Coach.
@bryangideon74619 ай бұрын
Very educative
@kennethyoung48929 ай бұрын
Great content 👌 👏
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙌
@alfredfoster46549 ай бұрын
Hi Jessie,you are a HOTTY you are soooo good girl, can't afford to miss any of your video's
@emmanuelagbafor20273 ай бұрын
I'm both a good and a bad boy. Depending on how you want it😂
@nlmal49 ай бұрын
THANK YOU JESS.... I wish 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@johntez25mc-supercop9 ай бұрын
Hi Jessica,, a quick quiz for you,,, why is it that at the beginning while having sex women seems to enjoy but after sex they don't want to talk about it,,,, guys suffering silently😢😢😢😢
@fakolejosolanke36399 ай бұрын
That was awesome.
@RichieKtrends9 ай бұрын
I'm a bad boy. Good boys should learn from me😄😄😄
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
🤣
@RichieKtrends9 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS 🤣
@RichieKtrends9 ай бұрын
@@JessicaOS 🤣
@Gregorytube268 ай бұрын
Copying a bad boy in order to win a woman as a good boy that I am,is totally madness
@impressuuniversity45319 ай бұрын
Just be a man. Have some convictions and standards and don't vere from them l. Make yourself into the best version of yourself that you enjoy. Dress like , Talk like, Carry yourself like a man. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Treat People the way they want to be treated and not the way you treat yourself
@TumeloLebona-j3z9 ай бұрын
That's aweresome❤
@AineelAdu9 ай бұрын
💙 I love ya Jess
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
💙🥰🥰🥰
@officialsayojohn9 ай бұрын
Thank you Jessica
@essounabrahamstephen47859 ай бұрын
Great info
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@nixonmacelus44489 ай бұрын
Good vibes sis
@mdprospect51499 ай бұрын
When did women starting knowing the ways of stoic males...the world is changing so fast
@ndanyehkelvin70977 ай бұрын
I believe being a bad boy is about being a little selfish and wicked (especially wicked 🤔)
@tonydjako9 ай бұрын
Hmmm... my dear JOS ♥️❤❤
@obainodpingzy70189 ай бұрын
Thanks
@darkest_magnum9 ай бұрын
Beautiful ✨
@JessicaOS9 ай бұрын
Thank you! 😊
@ashalley9 ай бұрын
thank you
@DarkokuffourBernard9 ай бұрын
Cheers 🥂
@alexkakooza31166 ай бұрын
Great❤
@anayochukwuthankgodchibuzo96559 ай бұрын
Great
@KingAnu439 ай бұрын
She just described a good man not a bad boy.
@nixonmacelus44489 ай бұрын
Can you be my mentor please I’m begging you
@alfredfoster46549 ай бұрын
Hi Jessie, I would like you to please talk on this topic for me ,after having sex with your woman,she enjoys it,but after the act,she doesn't want to talk about it. I fine a lot of women are like that