Sara Pascoe On Incest, First Dates & Gender Equality

[@b-man-2H]

This is such an underrated special! I remember watching it in my hotel room because it was on KZbin back then, was in the hotel cause the house was being tented for termites and I was DYING! Genuinely bursting out laughing, which I rarely do! Was such a great time!

[@k1ckyscotland988]

A very under-rated and original comedian.

[@peterclarke7240]

Yeah.

[@b-man-2H]

Agreed!

[@bradleybarnett9545]

Not by me. Also, 'underrated' is the most overused word in Utyoub comment sections.

[@sierraromeoromeo2444]

@@bradleybarnett9545 But you are here, commenting.

[@bradleybarnett9545]

@@sierraromeoromeo2444 I truly meant that I don't under-rate Sarah. I think she's very bloody funny & awfully smart! It's the use of "under- rated" that irks me so. I've stopped commenting on Utyoub because I keep being irksome &, yes, petty in a rather curmogeonous way. Anyhoo, I love Sarah P. What do you think of Holly Walsh?

[@bmkh10]

I never thought I'd see Sara Pascoe impersonating Aisling Bea. It was hilarious.

[@sadrevolution]

I'm sure Aisling Bea was enamoured with the "top of the morning" bit...

[@HGBMD]

@@sadrevolution yea because no Irish comedian does that themselves while in England 😂 Eh …..enter Dara o’brian and Edward Byrne everytime they’re on together on the mock O’ the week 😅😅……eh look at me I’m a big irish potato farmer from bray 😂

[@Ezra.emerson]

It's her sense of timing. Just superb

[@norbertmezei]

so true, outstanding timing.

[@chenyingwang6593]

"you have to feed it otherwise it dies!"lol

[@mick776gold]

One of the best lines ever!

[@LaMiriabelle]

I always found it weird in american/UK television, that the man had to pay for dinner. In Germany women usually pay for themselves. She is really funny. Love her!

[@katuk8173]

So you " go dutch"..

[@puuhamato6294]

Also in Germany, Berlin. Hide your women and young at night, because you know.. the peaceful loving religion is here! It's not as safe to walk the streets at night anymore, yay, thanks Merkel and EU!

[@bored-in-the-house3950]

Yeah but you also killed 6 million Jews so I wouldn’t boast too much.

[@peterclarke7240]

How very odd. Because the crime reports don't actually match you rabid little dollop of bullshit. I wonder what might be motivating it? 🤔

[@ursafan40]

That was quite nice, having a woman that was interested in your company, not how much you could afford to buy them.

[@marsrocket]

How did I not know of her earlier? She's awesome.

[@AsifKhan-ju4ld]

"You're not hungry, get upstairs!"

[@raystaar]

Sara Pascoe is one of my favorite comics. Why are her KZbin bits almost always truncated? They start in the middle and leave before the end. The world needs more Sara Pascoe, not less. Where is the Sara Pascoe Netflix special? Who's with me?

[@bradleybarnett9545]

Me!

[@sadrevolution]

It's too bad. I totally agree with Sara about the meals on dates thing, but I'm a gay woman and will never be able to do my part to right that particular injustice. I have bought on dates with ladies, but they buy back on future dates, usually. I think that's the best way to go, probably even in a heterosexual dating relationship: it's nice to treat and to feel treated, and men should get to feel that sometimes, too.

[@lesswooly]

QA!¡00⁰0

[@Darkstar263]

I love her impression of Aisling lol.

[@naomihadarian2267]

Omg the part about men paying the bill is so spot on! I always propose to pay or to split . And if he keeps insisting I say I pay the next one . And I do pay the next one. It’s ridiculous to want equal rights and equal pay , to be independent and all of the sudden go back to the dark ages where men pay because they have the money.

[@dmarsub]

Same here, i don't like it either. Whats worse is some people expect something in return like they bought something O.o thats so gross. And how is that romantic? I always split or balance out, because you know that's the reasonable thing to do. No need to reinforce some weird power dynamic if i can avoid it.

[@mikemoreno4469]

I love your way of thinking - marry me!

[@incorectulpolitic]

@@mikemoreno4469 simpanzie

[@GrahamCStrouse]

Sara’s clearly a Game of Thrones fan...

[@sophiedevries5455]

Hahaha😂🤣great comment👌

[@elinek5470]

Loll😂 i dont go camp out on my indian neighbors lawn to remind them of colonial times 😂

[@DrWh1teCat]

I'm a guy, and if the first date feels like it's going well at the time that the bill comes, I will say "I'll get it this time if you want to get it next time." I feel it communicates my level of interest and their response can communicate their interest as well. When I'm not feeling it, I offer to go Dutch.

[@dmarsub]

So you are saying you reinforce the tradition by showing interest in the form of paying for the meal? Which keeps it as a "romantic gesture" Well, i guess it won't die then. I personally hate this bs. I am not a prostitute. I am sharing the bill, and if we are in a relationship it has to balance out and both have to feel comfortable with it.

[@barabaramoo]

@@dmarsub No no i think what OP said is reasonable. It's pretty smart because he subtly hinted at a second date, and if the girl said "sure" it means she's interested too. If not, she could refuse his offer and offer split the bill. I think it's reasonable. It isn't all power dynamics in relationship. There's also chemistry and attraction. To judge somebody on power dynamics alone is kinda shallow imho.

[@bradleybarnett9545]

​@@dmarsubWay to miss the point. The only exchange is of food. No one said you're a prozzie for agreeing to a second date- especially if you're on deck to pay for it. So many high horses, not enough oats.

[@Ffinity]

@@dmarsub Wow, you sound like a barrel of laughs, I'm guessing that the relationship status is still an "if, someday"!

[@mikemoreno4469]

Sara is marvellous.

[@Dizzula]

Her Aisling Bea impression is so funny!

[@johndamienreilly]

Remember asking a girl if she minded going Dutch. Not at all, I love Dutch food, she said.

[@july8xx]

@Mø Nälayé Going Dutch means each person pays for themselves.

[@paraiparai4447]

I thought I was the only one who experienced that.

[@dmarsub]

Second language speaker, never heard of going dutch, always split the bill though.

[@Lord_Skeptic]

I go Dutch. I will do some really kinky stuff in clogs.

[@alirezagolsorkhi8187]

I really love this freedom of speech! Even the most basic taboos can be mocked. Not like every culture is this tolerant.

[@anakinskywalker6666]

i like this chick she's funny as hell I've never heard of her before

[@koalaeucalyptus]

I just love this woman! So funny and original :) Honestly, I've always called my (girl) friends on this "men have to pay for the dates" bullshit. I've never let men pay for dates with me, I'd feel like they're buying favors from me.

[@dmarsub]

And many really do feel that way and it's pretty horrible.

[@gicking3898]

Love Sara Pascoes work.

[@stephentuthill4598]

My names Stephen, and I would entertain Sara anytime...!

[@redflag4255]

You should try that bit in Italy

[@Ffinity]

Yeah, they love incest!

[@lellyparker]

Seriously, this is 2022, men should pay 55% to compensate for the gender pay differential.

[@Ffinity]

No, men should throw bricks through company windows to make them pay equally. Joking aside, minimum wage is unisex, it's only overpaid jobs that have an inequality, so fuck them, sort out the poor first!

[@Howitchewstofeel5gum]

Spot on

[@MrMigeco]

Oh my god, a woman publicly calling out women on gender equality. FINALLY. Also, she's hilarious.

[@gtfoutube5938]

keep drinking that soy

[@MrMigeco]

@@gtfoutube5938 excellent work

[@susannam3923]

I didn't even know people still expected that lol maybe I just don't go out much. but the idea of presuming a stranger will fully pay for me sounds awful, how rude would that be of me. unless you make it clear you'll be doing it next time etc.

[@edwardrazzano1906]

This is the funniest woman on the planet!

[@baylinkdashyt]

How you can tell Sara's British. In America, that's what we have *cousins* for..

[@louisward6881]

aisling bea?

[@fredh1720]

She's so good

[@Retrobeemer]

Clever girl and funny with it.

[@nolanlamond2439]

Who says women aren't funny?

[@af98]

Shes not funny anymore now that she keeps saying how she hates men, constantly.

[@bradleybarnett9545]

Lots of dumb-arse trolly diks, that's who.

[@max-andrewmcmillan4235]

Brilliant!

[@billymilkman168]

Only asking - did Sara have a...ahem(clearing of throat)...'reputation' when she was a teenager in Romford? Not condemning, only asking.

[@Ffinity]

No, comedians make shit up for fun. You have a lot to learn.

[@bubbercakes528]

Pity anyone sitting in the audience with a sibling!😂

[@momoneylee]

Waow sounds like shes not a sell-out bravo 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@abhishekn9991]

Im her long lost brother

[@EN4ORC3R]

I wish she was my sister

[@vampfan7569]

Thank you Sara for finally mentioning the double standards of women. I was beginning to think there was a global conspiracy to deny it lol.

[@susanneyuk-pingpong8705]

I'd suggest that it's the men who see these double standards and complain are the ones ignorant here. After all there's an entire subsection of radical feminists who reject chivalry. Assuming that was what you were taking about.

[@vampfan7569]

@@susanneyuk-pingpong8705 No, I respect women who stand by their principles and reject chivalry because they feel it is against their ideals. I am talking about the double standards of feminists who claim they want to be independant and equal but still expect the man to pay for meals. Or the women who claim they want to be treated like a man but still want to be able to slap a man for offending them and not get hit back because they are a woman. You cannot ask to be treated like a man and still claim "Women's Priviledges", you either want to be equal or you don't. I believe in true equality between genders, where men and women are treated exactly the same. No more "ladies first", carry your own damn bags, pay for your own meals and if you slap me expect one back, just like every other bloke in my life.

[@vampfan7569]

@Truthful Chap first wave feminism back in the day was about equal rights, unfortunately this latest generation of feminism is as you said about women's superiority and men apologising for being born men

[@vampfan7569]

@Truthful Chap That is true, although they weren't about oppressing men like this new lot, they just wanted to vote and be accepted in the workplace. They also didn't attack women who chose to fit into the so-called patriarchal gender stereotypes.

[@vampfan7569]

@@leilaniz5909 My issue isn't with women who want to be equal in the workplace, that is a basic human right, whatever your gender you have a right to workplace equality. I also have no issue with having a loving, caring environment at home. I am a gentleman of the old school where it is a sign of respect to open doors for women and give up your seat and all the other acts of so called chivalry apparently hated by the new wave of feminists. The views I expressed in my previous comment were not aimed at women trying to be equal to men, but rather at those who whine and cry about male privilege while simultaneously taking advantage of female privilege. If you want a career, go for it, if you want a family go for it, I will support you as much as you need me to. I will happily work to provide for my family, or stay home with the kids so my wife can work and build a career, as long as there is mutual respect and equality between us. Unfortunately I have found very few women with any respect for men, or a desire for equality, but rather a desire for superiority.

[@bamboobirdhouse]

1:35 i kno why luv

[@melaniecamras8619]

Very funny! …And there’s still a wage gap, so I think the desire to be treated is reasonable and understandable.

[@dwarfie24]

I think she is super pretty, but man am I glad I am not her brother.

[@terenceflynn5125]

I’m not.

[@davedavis4269]

Wish I was her brother 🤣

[@sierraromeoromeo2444]

Me too, and my name is Steve!

[@MrTakeshi763]

😅

[@aaronivan3061]

One time in whsmith I opened up her book at a random page three times and she was banging on about fannies on each page

[@bradleybarnett9545]

It was probably her book ABOUT the female body, derr-brain.

[@aaronivan3061]

@bradleybarnett9545 it was called sex power money. Also don't be a simp.

[@bradleybarnett9545]

@@aaronivan3061 Sex Power & Money. No need to mention vaginas there, eh? Don't be a twit.

[@sjoormen1]

and nowdays more and more women complain as men less and less date...

[@seanbragger7035]

Excellent comedy. I wish that paying on the first date was the only traditional gender role forced on men. Unfortunately they are all still there. From the basic expectation of greater respect being given to women, through "provide and protect" all the way to the expectation of women and children first. Looks exactly the same for men as it did two hundred years ago except now we get contempt instead of appreciation or respect. I'm pretty sure the intention was only ever to free women from the oppressive bonds of traditional gender roles and make sure the boys stay in their cage.

[@Ffinity]

I've never experienced that, every woman I dated offered to pay or took a turn at buying a round. Just lucky I guess. Edit: Also, women and children first is the bare minimum in times of danger. You must be some real weakling pussy to object to children not being placed into safety first. No wonder nobody wants to date you. I'm no alpha, but you are clearly the lowest of the low!

[@seanbragger7035]

@@Ffinity Good for you. I've never really dated in the traditional sense so, like you, I have almost no experience of this myself. Unlike you I'm not denying yours, or anybody else's, lived experiences so it's pretty clear to me that what we are talking about represents the vast majority of men's experience. Even though you and I have not experienced it ourselves, we would be idiots to dismiss the experiences of far more men than us. Do you know what a straw man argument is? There is nothing in my comment that either states or suggests that I support endangering children or that nobody wants to date me. These things came only from your brain, so... Projection?

[@BloodAngel500]

i want to ber her brother

[@frikinfrogs]

Fuuuunnnyyy

[@budway1942]

I never paid for a chick ever.

[@ralphdavidson9542]

Better chance of a BJ if you do!

[@bigkmoviesandgames]

@7Seven7 if it's her birthday, anniversary, or you just want to be nice I could see it. But she's an adult she can pay for her own food.

[@ogduck461]

the way I was brought up I HAVE to pay

[@kevingconroy1443]

That is definitely the worst impression of Aisling Bea ever

[@Justiceforall55]

Rolltide

[@oldmate8626]

Feminism is high masculinity in women.

[@sadrevolution]

Um, what? Only if you think opportunities and value and respect are solely masculine entitlements, which you'd have to be some kind of decency-deficient human being to countenance...

[@Lorisa25]

Men should pay on the first date. Woman spend 2 hours getting ready, so men can spend 2 hours of their working week to pay.

[@sadrevolution]

@Rory White I mean, the OP is 100% wrong, but it is actually as a result of hypocritical beauty standards born of a misogynist paradigm in which many men are complicit and almost all are beneficiaries, so you are pretty wrong, too.

[@sadrevolution]

@Rory White ...but you can beat problematic and arbitrary social and cultural norms disingenuously dressed up as biological fact...

[@barabaramoo]

@@sadrevolution if you really wanna fight the system, go to the date with no makeup on and find a man who digs that shit. it's a funny picture when women are putting false eyelashes while whining "ugh, hypocritical beauty standards of a misogynist paradigm! anyway, blush on next!!" I like putting on makeup because it makes me look cute. that's it.

[@sadrevolution]

@@barabaramoo I mean, I have never worn makeup in my life, and I am talking about a certain situation. The one where the both parties to the dates are grown up (one wears make up because they want to, the other likes the first either because they are on the same page with thinking it's cute or doesn't care if the person wears it or not) is obviously not who that analysis is for. It's for Mr (and Ms) "it's not the man's fault the girl is ugly," as per the comment above.

[@jasonlicos]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@zacharydunn5244]

the first minute 45 wasn't funny

[@ticketyboo2456]

She's the Amy Schumer of the UK.

[@Ffinity]

No, she's funny, nothing like Amy Schumer.

[@choicesman2000]

Mmmmm no

[@susanneyuk-pingpong8705]

🤮 It's female Frankie Boyle. I'd always thought she was a female Rob Beckett. I was very wrong. (I'd never seen her stand-up before.)

[@Jeff121456]

She has spent a lot of time working with Frankie. Maybe he is... um... rubbing off on her.

[@ClayMann]

@@Jeff121456 its funny you should say that. Sara started working with Frankie in 2014 and her act has been improving since then. Before 2014 you could not have picked a more bland mainstream comedian than Sara. Maybe her act would have always matured into something better. Comedians do sometimes have to go on long journeys to find that brilliant streak but the change here really is a chip off Frankies block lol

[@aarondunn6759]

@@Jeff121456 Frankie would be someone willing to pretend he was her brother...

[@ralphdavidson9542]

Careful! Referring to her gender will get you into trouble (unless you quickly add that she's female because gender is a social construct).

[@The_Reality_Filter]

Do people really find this funny?

[@sadrevolution]

It's observationally on point, well-delivered, and playful. What on earth are you taking issue with?

[@nocalsteve]

Yes!

[@mattg8600]

Funny and hot af, rare combo for a woman

[@wolflessthunder]

How do people find this funny?

[@puuhamato6294]

I gotta admit. This woman was actually funny at times.

[@readyforlifenow]

Woefully unfunny, British comedy is not funny anymore

[@ProfX501]

@silva geko Maybe your sense of humour is broken?

[@captainanopheles4307]

Also dating is quite stressful when you look like a skull with an hankie draped on it.

[@typacsk]

That's what I told a former co-worker. I was trying to be sympathetic, but that wasn't how she took it.

[@captainanopheles4307]

Sara Pascoe in my recommendations? Time to destroy this internet and make a better one.

[@DoctorWhom]

Good thing you've left three comments in a video with her in it, you're sure to be recommended the next one.

[@captainanopheles4307]

@@DoctorWhom it may have been a tactical error. Sometimes it feels good to charge in, though.

[@captainanopheles4307]

@@sierraromeoromeo2444 your honesty probably ran out after creating your user name.

[@sadrevolution]

@@DoctorWhom This is called having one's cake and eating it, too.

[@pavement422]

Shite

[@misfit2022]

I like comedy and go to a lot of gigs but I would not have recognised it from this. Sometimes break ups can produce great art but not here. Maybe the fact it is too personal lost the humour. Two stars the same as the Edinburgh Review. Disappointing.

[@eggeggeggegg3077]

The most painful 5 minutes of my day.

[@kajenbop]

This woman ain’t funny

[@Ffinity]

And you made a point of coming here! Wow, aren't you really not clever! You could be doing anything you enjoy, but here you are, wasting your pathetically short life, moaning about something you can't change, to people who don't care! What a sad and pathetic little creature you must be! Did you ever have a friend? Were you always a total dissappointment to your family? Do yourself a favour, get a life, FFS, or do the opposite!

[@captainanopheles4307]

Bless her for still plugging away at comedy despite the crippling disabilities of never, ever being funny and being intellectually subpar. An inspiration to the woefully untalented everywhere. Know the right people and hate men and a career is yours.

[@MrMigeco]

Did you watch it? She was defending men.

[@judithblades5578]

you're trying sos hard for a reaction....cracks me up

[@captainanopheles4307]

@@judithblades5578 you're easily amused. Probably why you're a fan of hers.

[@dfoster2513]

Some people like this, some people like that. Just because you don't like this why should anyone give a fuck? Why not just watch something else instead of thinking anyone anywhere gives any shred of a shit about someone like you?

[@captainanopheles4307]

@@sierraromeoromeo2444 never has more incorrect been forced into one sentence. And they said you'd never amount to anything. The fools.

[@Ffinity]

On a first date, take an out of date credit/debit card, try to pay and fail, then she has to step up. Kerr-chingg!