Jill Duggar Says Relationship With Her Family Has Not Improved: There’s Still ‘Drama’

[@Kaylee2012]

Everyone’s talking about Jill interrupting Derick, but I’m actually somewhat happy that she’s doing it. Most of the Duggar girls give their husbands the “adoring gaze” and never ever talk over them. It shows that she’s finding her voice.

[@honeyk4551]

It's rude to talk over someone period. I found it to be disrespectful especially considering the fact she wasn't making much sense I felt she could have allowed him to carry some of the load during the interview that's just my opinion ✌🏽

[@ChristopherSadlowski]

@@honeyk4551 you can tell she's under an NDA and hating every second of it because she can't just say what the hell is going on. She's probably taking the reins so her husband doesn't inadvertently say something that'll break the contract and land them in court.

[@ElisabetTX]

Good girl!

[@camsworld7197]

@@honeyk4551 it’s her and her family show he’s only there because of her. No one cares to hear it from him. Let’s hear it from the person who did this since it’s inception

[@sunrae7680]

So true.

[@frithar]

Derrick, be patient. This girl has three decades of pent up thought, feeling, events to process. It was bottled up and now it's all bursting forth. Be well, you two.

[@stephenscheissloch818]

And this girl is filled with fecal matter.

[@alicegauteng2358]

I bet those pent up feelings are wild in the bedroom. Good for her!

[@spikenardmz3355]

derrick get some back bone and a good bible study going and make sure ur wife attends regarding her loud mouthed disrespect of her husband omg let him be the man girl

[@ninawest8]

Exactly!

[@anna8389szczerba]

@@alicegauteng2358 LOL omg 😱 😳 😆 giiiiiirrrrll

[@ljr1908]

I never thought Jill would be the one to breakout on her own. She always seemed to be the one child that would do what she is told. I really thought it would have been Jessa or Jinger. But I’m glad she found found her own voice.

[@NODE1975]

I always thought that it would be Jessa and/or Joy

[@MandieTerrier]

Jessa is the feminine version of her dad

[@lauryn7840]

I thought for sure it was gonna be Jinger.

[@MalloryNewcomb]

It’s not too late for any of them. :)

[@ever7672]

It’s the quite ones you need to watch

[@keziabates423]

I love that Derrick just sits and looks and listens to her- I feel like he has really given her the freedom to find her voice and treats her like an equal, which is refreshing in this semi-fundie world xo

[@stephenscheissloch818]

he's too stupid to talk

[@ShelleyFayles]

@@stephenscheissloch818 he is not stupid at all.

[@gabbieevans641]

@@stephenscheissloch818 he’s going to be a lawyer... I don’t think that classifies as stupid

[@amylink7199]

My husband did the same thing for me!

[@stephenscheissloch818]

@@gabbieevans641 He's Mr. FECAL MATTER in this sill y film.

[@amberfoster8089]

I'm 48 and just found my voice and I am setting boundaries and guess what....no one likes it. Wish I done it 20 years ago. Well done ❤️❤️

[@maryannetesh4105]

big deal

[@juliebird8245]

Good for you! Keep it up! You can do it!

[@terriedahl9725]

Great, it is hard to do!

[@amberfoster8089]

@@maryannetesh4105 I'll pray for you today 🙏

[@amberfoster8089]

@@juliebird8245 thank you so much. Life is already better ❤️❤️

[@annagiese7479]

Geesh, this girl can do no right in the public eye. Her talking and “interrupting” her husband is made to seem like she’s being rude and not letting him talk, but you all would be on her case if she was only letting Derrick talk and you’d say she doesn’t have voice. Just let her be, she has a voice and is wanting to speak about her thoughts. Just let her and stop criticizing everything she does.

[@sunrae7680]

She's saying that she is trying to find her voice. I agree with you. She'll get it straight. Family, can't pick 'em.

[@leslieollerhead1114]

Well said!!

[@MandieTerrier]

I agree, she is used to looking for her husband for her opinion. Like when the women look adoring at their husband. To make sure it's okay to start speaking.

[@roslynwilliams8548]

Naw..I think letting each other speak would have been the way to go. I wanted to hear what he had to say as well, but unfortunately he didn’t get to talk much. I think the interviewer could have done a better job at directing questions to him as well to include him. It was obvious he wanted to talk. Lol

[@SamanthaBellerson]

I agree. It’s HER family. Of course she should be the one speaking on it! Geez.

[@ninawest8]

How refreshing to have the wife in the lead of a conversation without her just looking at him adorningly.She speaks and annunciates her words differently than her sisters, thank God.

[@lilydawn4747]

you must not have heard Jessa, Jinger, Jana, Joy or even young Jordyn speak - they are light years ahead of her.

[@eccentricityxoxo5378]

@@lilydawn4747 no I totally disagree, are you saying their further ahead in enlightenment and if you are I don't agree ...Jill has came a long way she doesn't even speak the way they do

[@virginiaknighten4687]

Derrick is looking at Jill nearly the whole time.

[@moniquepowers1726]

She is not articulate at all. She rambles and mush mouths her words. Also, I still see no point in her throwing her family under the bus. She has no reason to speak out publicly against her family. She wants fame for herself.

[@eccentricityxoxo5378]

@@moniquepowers1726 ok mrs. Olsen anything else ,you're so pleasant I must say!

[@lulu5803]

I'm so proud of Jill and so happy for her. What she's done isn't easy, but she's strong and seems to have a wonderful support system in Derrick.

[@debbienedeloff9473]

Jill is strong she has her husband and kids her and ginger r my favorite

[@MandieTerrier]

I like Ginger, but Jeremy comes across as way too controlling.

[@kathyt3959]

Derrick has brought the best out of Jill,he encouraged her to be confident strong and independent.

[@erin4885]

He "gave her" Independence? Yikes

[@tammy3545]

@@erin4885 , he gave her the confidence. I think she meant that he helped her be confident so she could be strong and independent.

[@amyt5746]

No Derrick has made her be distant to her family.

[@tammy3545]

@@amyt5746 , her parents did that. They weren't happy when they wanted to quit the show. Jim Bob controls what is on the show Counting On and they were not able to do things they wanted to do.

[@moniquepowers1726]

I don’t know that throwing ones family under the bus by speaking out against them publicly is a sign of strength and independence. It would take more strength to keep family issues private, as they should be.

[@lechenea]

Derrick Looks at Jill like he is so proud of her. How wonderful is that.

[@unapologeticallyamy9031]

She’s someone to be proud of! She’s very smart and well spoken. She’s a great parent and wife. She’s really pretty too. A lot of people would be thrilled to spend the rest of their life with someone with her qualities and characteristics.

[@diannahill9430]

Jill used to be a "Michelle clone" now is her independent self.

[@dandylionriver]

He’s gross.

[@moniquepowers1726]

@@dandylionriver he is gross

[@kathleenh3695]

It’s creepy

[@sirah14]

I think the interviewer could have directed questions at them individually so they both could express their opinions more easily.

[@tinas2178]

Exactly or had her do interview alone

[@elizabethgrogan8553]

@@tinas2178 I'm glad she has her own voice. She knows all in ins & outs of the Duggar family. Derick knows it as an outsider.

[@SamanthaBellerson]

He was supporting her. It’s her family in crisis. I love that she had a voice in this!

[@birdman9265]

I feel like Jill can't help herself but to interrupt Derick. It seems like she just needs to say some of these things. Like she has to get it off her chest. I really like this couple. I think they seem super genuine, real, and the type of people I would like to be around.

[@rosannecole4992]

Jill is able to talk now & Derrick understands as equal partner!

[@rbond4633]

Lol what a stupid comment

[@niniandsunny1353]

I admire Derick for giving Jill the freedom she deserves!

[@deeanna8448]

She's such a strong woman! I'm glad she and Derrick found each other.

[@KP-os1jx]

Honestly, I never thought it would be Jill who would break away from the cult. I'm so glad she did! She was one of my favorites.

[@karrahmarlin1640]

She looks much healthier and happier! Glad they made the right decisions for their family

[@jlynnshow5923]

Cause that's all that matters. That she is happy....

[@lauryn7840]

Absolutely!

[@catherinejasin2606]

They both do. I cannot fathom being a husband and father of strong faith, like Derrick, and suffering the constant immasculating of her dad. Bravo to this lovely young couple and the beautiful family they've created.

[@amylink7199]

She really does! I am so happy for her!

[@patwarrren2346]

when you are married. . .you leave and cleave. . .your parents should know that being such SPIRITUAL people.

[@meeeka]

Touché!

[@WithLoveAshley]

Exactly! ✝️ Christ first! Spouse and then children. Family/close friends and work. That’s the order, maybe wiggle room on things after the first 3. No one, not even children, coming between the spouses, especially not parents.

[@YRTheyDoingThis]

Everyone commenting on Jill repeating her words, please stop. She is being a decent person, trying to explain her situation but still being respectful. Most people could learn something from the way that she is trying to express herself, without being negative or derogatory.

[@aliciak2633]

100% agree. It’s not easy to articulate ongoing dynamics of a delicate situation. I’m sure she was also nervous speaking out about her family, which is totally understandable. You could tell she was trying to choose her words carefully as to not air out all the dirty laundry, which actually is very classy of her.

[@vernamorales2064]

Those words are what she learned in home schooling.I don't blame her for her education she got at home .One of the Bates kids said she had to take prerequisite classes first because she was homeschooled

[@moniquepowers1726]

Hmm. The nicest thing she has to say about her family is that “they aren’t awful people”. Not a single member of her family however, has ever said one thing negative about her publicly.

[@moniquepowers1726]

@@aliciak2633 I would submit that speaking out publicly against one’s family, for personal gain, is not classy.

[@vernamorales2064]

@@moniquepowers1726 Maybe it's because the husband is writing a book about a lot of things and why her Father got all of the money from Counting On.She took him to court but didn't get that much because Jimbob said that they were all volunteers !! I wouldn't have done that to my kids and l bet you wouldn't have done that either

[@shelby8281]

I used to be sketched out by Derrick When they were on 19 kids and counting, but it’s for the reason they said what you’re seeing isn’t what you really get but now to see them separated and living how they have chosen now obviously feels so much more authentic. And I’m happy for them on the path they have chosen.

[@lydiastirling2059]

I am so proud of Jill, she is a typical truth teller. Silent when younger as she has learnt that when she tells the truth it gets her into trouble. As she got older she couldn't hold it in any longer, she speaks the truth and, as usual, the truth teller becomes the scapegoat. She must feel so much more free now 😍

[@trinadiaz4923]

I'm 50 and just found my voice and NO people don't like it but this is my life

[@angiewilliams6282]

53 just find mines am bitch and loving it

[@simeonfalafel]

It’s so hard. I send you good thoughts and hope that your voice grows stronger every day! My whole social circle changed when I learned how to speak up and have boundaries. It was scary at first, but well worth the discomfort. Congratulations on finding your voice and honoring your power ♥️🕊🌱

[@simeonfalafel]

@@angiewilliams6282 hell yeah!

[@annagrace1973]

I think we all get more vocal around 50ish, but that’s a whole other kind of thing…to me. I had an absolutely wonderful childhood, yet at 50 something I’m more vocal than I’ve ever been…but, respect is always there. I think Jills personality is a lot more dramatic than say…Jana or Joy. I feel she needs attention and praise…nothing wrong with that either, but she needs public attention & public validation or she would just drop it. I’m totally not just dismissing her needs, it’s just her delivery that makes me question her complete motives. I think she would love her own show so she could receive the attention she needs.

[@lynny5510]

Boundaries are important. That is key to healing. Every family needs boundaries to have healthy relationships.

[@jenniferconley6808]

It can be a very hard thing to speak your truth when you’ve always been suppressed. It’s will always tear apart family and friends relationships apart who aren’t in alignment with your authentic self . No more worrying about rocking the boat Jill . I hope now you find your soul family.

[@tuesdaypatience]

I *love* that when Derick speaks, Jill not only doesn’t sit there quietly while watching him with the patented “Duggar female adoring gaze”, she actually speaks OVER him at times!! These two were pretty hard to take when they were first married - they were so sanctimonious and made some very weird choices (like the whole donation debacle and ignoring Zika), but they’ve quickly become the most REAL people out of the entire clan.

[@CaptainCaterpillars]

Naw, she’s being straight disrespectful. She can voice her opinion while also allowing him to voice his. She’s dominating and a bit aggressive.

[@tuesdaypatience]

@@CaptainCaterpillars That's true. I actually have had a problem with that in my past - I've been working very hard to LISTEN and speak in my turn rather than talking over people when having conversations. The habit actually comes from my childhood, as well, when the only way to *ever get a word in* was to interrupt 😜! Though it is not the most respectful way she should be making herself heard, I don't have a problem with Jill pushing her thoughts out at this point in her life. She spent the first 23/24 years of her life quietly watching (with that *creepy* gaze) either her father or her husband speak and only getting a word in if they allowed it. It seems like Derick understands that. I'm sure as she matures she'll find that balance. Right now - thanks to her truly bizarre upbringing, even at 30-ish, Jill has the emotional and psychological development of a 15 year old. But, again, I do agree with you...I hope she and Derick grow in their relationship to the point that she doesn't feel she has to interject all the time in order to be heard.

[@Oyuki-Mayonesa]

She constantly shut him down and totally dismissed everything he had to say. This has been done to me and it never turns out well for the relationship 👎.

[@margaretmcginley3455]

Oh my God. I can't stand that look!

[@cwayzums]

When they were asked if things have gotten better in terms of her relationship with her side of the family, funny how Derick automatically just wanted to misdirect the question by saying that they’re in a better place compared to 6 years ago, but I really appreciate that Jill quickly directed the question back and told the truth that it has not gotten better at all and that is a sure sign of healing and moving on. I can completely relate. I’m so proud of Jill.

[@Kimersify]

Happy for this little family. It’s about time that Jimbob Duggar got called out for what he is. He DID NOT act like a Christian hiding what Josh did. He basically robbed his adult kids by not paying them. And then making money off of them. He basically supported child labor laws. Good for Jill and Derrick. Most of the girls Dk how to converse. Because they have been programmed to let the men always do the talking, make the decisions etc...Jimbob and Michelle have raised these girls to completely submit to their husbands w/o any mind of their own. I agree Jill needs better communication skills. But, if you are basically not given a platform to speak your mind, and hide everything bad going on in your family. Your whole life! Then I’m sure it will take her awhile to articulate correctly. Give her a break

[@joannem6878]

This is new for Jill. She would never keep talking before when someone tried to interject. She has definitely found her voice.

[@moniquepowers1726]

She’s full of herself, in my opinion. Her only reason for speaking out publicly against her family is to bring attention to herself.

[@joannem6878]

@@moniquepowers1726 What you described is not her personality. she may be more confident now but she isn't the type that would be what you describe.

[@moniquepowers1726]

@@joannem6878 She doesn’t come across arrogant, you’re right about that. But her purposes in speaking against her family publicly are self serving and ingratiating. She is most definitely striving for fame and attention for herself. What other reason could she have for doing this? Just because someone is soft spoken and nice doesn’t mean they aren’t acting selfishly and out for their own gain at the expense of others.

[@julieklie2344]

Jill has been taught to be shy, and quiet, and raised with so many people , she couldn’t get a word in edgewise!

[@jennaleclaire2654]

Escaping a cult is very difficult. I hope she continues to get the help she needs to navigate this.

[@madmax6470]

Christianity isn't a cult but I agree stepping out on your own is always a good thing.

[@jennaleclaire2654]

@@madmax6470 They're part of the Quiverfull movement/IBLP teachings, which is a Christian-based cult. Look up some of their teachings, it will horrify you. The founder, Bill Gothard, was charged with child sexual abuse. Many cults are Christian based or other major religion based.

[@WithLoveAshley]

@@jennaleclaire2654 yes, it is much more legalistic. I agree with things based on Scripture, but other things they do are “religious rules” and not Christian beliefs from what I can tell from watching the show.

[@tiffanystaller9328]

My husband grew up in the Gothard movement. It is, for certain, a cult.

[@honeysweetsleeps1267]

It definitely shows on her face that she's much happier.

[@marwatson7408]

Exactly none of those kids ever looked happy when they were living at home taking care of their younger siblings because that’s all they ever did.

[@girlwithluvvv]

I'm so happy they finally found their voices and can speak their truths. Not everything is what it seems! Good for them for sticking up for themselves.

[@fundude4566]

Glad she sent her kid to public school since her parents never let her or her sisters do anything.

[@breanamiles8108]

Jill is such a genuine soul. There's SO many levels on which that family is so screwed up. I'm glad Jill kind of broke free and found her voice away from that toxic environment. What their parent's did should be illegal- not paying their minor children and having them "volunteer" years and years to work for the show. SHAKE MY DAMN HEAD!

[@robynvandergrift8360]

I am so happy for Jill, and so proud of her. Going to therapy and setting boundaries. No easy for anyone, but extra for a fundi.

[@HummingbirdG6843]

I am so proud of Jill for finding her voice. I imagine it's been hell for her. Going through all that and not feeling supported by her family, while they continue to support that loser. Just so hurtful. Additionally, on the topic of cutting her husband off. This is her story right now, she needs to be given space to talk. She's probably supper nervous and stressed about things still, so naturally it's going to happen. Who cares! Also, you are part of the problem if you are more concerned she may have cut her husband off. She's literally talking about her family that tried to cover up molestation.

[@angelmission]

That was hard to follow. I don't know what she said or who she was saying it about.

[@TexasbyStorm]

She is talking about the drama that ensued when she and Derrick quit Counting On. Jim Bob had allegedly never paid any of the kids, even the adult kids for their time on the show. The show profited hugely from Jill and Derrick's courtship, wedding, Israel's birth and then Samuel's birth. Samuel was born with some medical issues and needed special care for a few days. Derrick wanted TLC to pay for his hospital bill, since they had made so much money off his family and Jill and Derrick didn't receive a dime. That didn't work out so Jill and Derrick walked away. Jill has also turned away from some of her family's rules. Such as wearing pants, not just skirts and dresses, she got a nose ring, she and Derrick will have adult beverages when they go out on dates sometimes. They also enrolled Israel into public school. So as you can see they have set themselves up quite differently than Jill's family, but because they are choosing their own way her family isn't too supportive of them anymore and there is blatant animosity between Jim Bob and Derrick. I think Jill and Derrick have done a wonderful job of finding who they are and choosing the path they feel the Lord is leading them.

[@angelmission]

@@TexasbyStorm But, she has poor communication skills. She didn't complete a sentence. Anyone who didn't know the situation was left completely lost. She talked a lot, but her words did not convey a complete thought.

[@susanallen8214]

@@angelmission her communication skills or lack thereof could be due to her upbringing of so many kids around her, not getting a word in and the lack of pesonal attention from her parents?

[@angelmission]

@@susanallen8214 All misconceptions of being raised in a large , religious family. Also, that wouldn't explain good or great communication skills of her siblings. And, It appears that she is adding to the drama. I don't see how it is very Christian like to discuss the things they discuss or share family drama in public.

[@cheriegirlinblue]

I don't think she has poor communication skills. Think she was trying to make her point in a way that respected the sensitive situation and the privacy of individual members of her family.

[@deborahkelley8641]

Jill seems to be the most intelligent one out of all the kids. Best of Luck to her and her husband.

[@Penny-bt4gc]

I think she’s the only one of the girls to actually further her education. She became a midwife not sure if she’s still working as one.

[@hannahb7038]

She became a certified professional midwife, which isn't the same as a certified nurse midwife (the only kind that should truly be used) However, Jill no longer practices it the last time she was asked. And the lady she learned from lost her license after causing a birth injury...I agree Jill surprisingly seems the smartest and became the most worldly, but she frankly was never a real midwife.

[@miltamiranda]

TLC is at fault here for taking all the income from the show and paying Jim Bob , it should of been in a trust for all these kids, who wants to work for free😥😣🤐 the kids are adults now and should be paid for the work period.

[@WithLoveAshley]

Oh absolutely! I thought that surely violated child labor laws. I couldn’t believe that when Jill and Derick spoke out about that.

[@michellecollins290]

Yes! Those kids should have no financial worries, but dad is sitting on it all to control his children.

[@lisalmenard3828]

She says a lot without actually saying any specific things. But I’m glad they are happier now.

[@valerieblaine2034]

Proud of both of them for standing up for themselves and their own marriage. Blessings on their marriage and family.

[@makinglimonade]

Jill has found her voice and it’s beautiful

[@audreymichelle2087]

Why can’t they have there own with a different channel. “The Dillards” Jill is smart enough to steer away differently from her family. Since her husband is in college that should motivate her to go to college as well. Just saying

[@nanwade2133]

@@Cheryl_Lynn1 Jess a and joy has you tube channels also

[@justanotherpersonxo]

Not everybody dreams of going to college. Religious or not

[@Freedom-nu5kp]

Jill said a whole lot but absolutely gave no facts.

[@gossipgal1418]

A whole lot of nothing!!

[@gghh2761]

Right?. Just SAY IT...its you that said you found your voice...a voice to say what? #nothing #yeahyeahyeah

[@belmarmom]

Total incomprehensible word salad.

[@jukes243]

This girl is taking charge of her life. I'm so proud of you, Jill. God bless you guys.

[@bernardbenson4555]

you know her personally? I DO NOT THINK SO.

[@shareea202]

Jill is talking around the subject and not being clear at all.

[@bethanneg1217]

I’m pretty sure she has an NDA. I know for a fact JB made cousin Amy sign an NDA.

[@marlapiazza2654]

Right?! She didn’t say anything

[@juju-jr5vd]

Exactly!! Yeah yeah yeah....challenges....overarching....yeah yeah yeah. Ugh!

[@LioraHessArt]

@@juju-jr5vd like like yeah like overarching use of like and yeah you're right, yeah like totally.

[@WithLoveAshley]

I also believe they have signed NDAs. I felt like what she was saying is that when it was her parents and minor children it was appropriate, but as the kids became adults and married that their input wasn’t allowed and the show didn’t evolve. Basically everything was ran how Jim Bob wanted it and they had to get in line and obey. We also already know that they weren’t being paid. All the money went to Jim Bob.

[@boricuaflutie4]

She’s saying a lot with not saying much . Poor husband can’t even explain. I like she has found her voice but I bet her husband has some perspective as well that he can add.

[@birdv.378]

👍👏 exactly

[@molls127]

i think he wrote a book on it

[@rsimon2088]

@@molls127 he says he’s going to

[@angelmission]

I don't think she found her voice. I think she found the almighty dollar.

[@juliannesmommy6694]

@@angelmission That certainly doesn't track.........

[@susanjordan8505]

Jill.....I know your are nervous but let Derrick speak. He keeps trying and you just continue to talk over him.

[@HM-yk8ce]

That can happen when you are silenced for years and years. I'm sure he understands. He is a good husband and Jill deserves that!

[@cmcgalrd]

Yikes I know. It was painful to watch.

[@barb8335]

Your parents need to understand that you are an adult and have your own family now. Most of all you have a supportive husband who doesn't over shadow you. Your free from the restraints that held you back. Derrick is an outstanding young man

[@kimberlygathings2936]

So proud of Jill for standing up for what's right for her family, I mean they look really happy. I watch her videos and she is always so positive and up beat and an awesome mom. I wish them the best.

[@andreamejia1972]

So happy for you all! I'm glad to hear Jill and Derrick's opinions!

[@marywalker2896]

It's great that derrick is letting jill have a voice..he obviously loves his wife and let's her have that voice. She needs to be heard and speak her truth .they are a beautiful family .and a loving family..

[@mygirldarby]

I am happy that Derick seems to be a supportive husband, but he has no say in her having a voice. That is not his place. Nobody can "let" you speak your own mind. You have to just take that initiative. And Jill is certainly doing that in this video.

[@MandieTerrier]

In her former denomination. It would be a big thing for a wife to speak and have her own mind.

[@jacquikostige4001]

So happy for Jill and Derrick. Love this couple

[@stephanyalvarado6229]

Proud of Jill for taking control of her own life and do what they want to do for their own family! 😊

[@naturegirl7420]

Can you be specific? Hard to understand what you are talking about.

[@MsVal1986]

She’s choosing her words careful as to not offend her family to have some semblance of wanting to unite.

[@birdv.378]

👍👍 she's everywhere so I'm like WTC are you saying jill🤔😂

[@Bgonzo20]

Omg right get to the point🙈

[@raegibson3066]

She probably can't say much with her family not getting pissed off

[@Merbella]

I got one tiny takeaway from the long interview "we needed to find our voice".

[@coffeewithcarline9171]

I'm soo happy for Jill coming out of that quiverfull cult, her husband set her free.

[@ilikeyoutube836]

Yes and no. He still has some bs "beliefs" of his own

[@shreseaIsrael]

I’m so happy for Jill. Just think had she stayed on the show, she probably be forced to have another child she and her husband probably wouldn’t be ready for like Jessa doing just to keep up with the image of the show. Good for Jill for getting her and her kids away from that mess.

[@gabswithabigail8321]

Jessa wants 8 children so I do believe that having the babies is mostly her choice right now. But I agree there probably would have been pressure for Jill snd backlash since she is choosing to use birth control.

[@mare8371]

Wanting 8 kids and being able to afford them should align together.

[@gabswithabigail8321]

@@mare8371 currently as it stands there is nothing that suggests they can’t afford their children. These aren’t people hoping the $15 minimum wage gets passed.

[@joankgillette]

Her name is Jill Dillard...they’ve been married for like 5 years...

[@mygirldarby]

Just because a woman is married doesn't mean she must take her husband's name. In some countries it is illegal for a woman to change her name to the husband's name. Spain comes to mind. Amd their are many other countries in which the woman retains her name. I assume Jill took her husband's name because she was expected to, but she also has ownership of her birth name, Jill Duggar. It really is pretty stupid that some cultures make the women give up their birth name. She owns both Jill Duggar and Jill Dillard and can go by either. I went back to using my birth name because I could never get used to my name change after I got married. My husband is fully in support of my choice, and I am glad he is, but I would have done it anyway. I'm much happier having my birth name back. I think it ois a great loss and can even cause identity issues to change your name like that. Women often talk about losing themselves once they are married and changing their name could be at the rroot of it for some women.

[@francisscott3767]

If I grew up like her...I would talk over everybody PERIOD. Aint no nobody speaking for me or about MY experience ever again!

[@ilikeyoutube836]

This!!

[@shelbys6919]

👏👏👏👏

[@r.c.miller6161]

Derrick has been wonderful for Jill. He seems so supportive and respectful of her. So glad to see her learning to think for herself. She still has a ways to go.

[@AnnaSudberry]

She is so hard to follow. She is making zero sense and I’m still waiting for the point of what she’s saying

[@sovannalong9330]

Talk about long winded response with no direct conclusions to her answers my head hurts

[@honeyk4551]

I felt the same. This interview doesn't paint the best picture of her. I didn't hear the point and I'm sure if she allowed him to speak Derrick would have gotten to it quicker lol Still like them tho you can tell she was trying to sugarcoat her response

[@_kim123]

U like this new Jill. Shes always been such a people pleaser. Now she's aware of it and is taken care of herself and her own family. Derrick can get a little mean-spirited and messy, I'm glad he let Jill take the lead on this interview. It sounds much better coming from her. She had to somewhat leave her family to grow and get to know herself. That has to hurt. I reeeally want to know the details though.

[@vicky266]

Jill looks so happy! I am glad that she has found her voice and happiness with Derick! I hope that the relationship with the family improves. Much love to you all!

[@sarahdouglas5851]

Appreciate yall so much! HOWEVER I just watched this interview and saw that Derrick tried to contribute to the conversation 4 or 5 times but Jill talked straight through his attempts so he backed off each time. Take it from me, we need to make room for our husband's contributions in the conversation, especially when they are being so supportive of us. 😊

[@Bgonzo20]

She cuts off her husband...it's like she doesn't want him to talk.

[@mandycooke8445]

He did the same to her. When you live in the south you have to jump in wherever you can. It’s not disrespectful.

[@suemay8120]

I agree...I’d like to hear what Derrick has to say about the situation.

[@rochellenicoletta7353]

@@suemay8120 I agree, he should tell her beforehand that she should let him speak also

[@mymia731]

Why should he speak about her story?

[@hopefull1857]

Yeah I agree...some of these questions are directed to her but some are to them both as a couple. It seems like she nay be concerned of what he is going to say or wants to keep control of the interview to not give many details of things that have happened

[@janiehalstead3581]

Man this girl wouldn’t let this guy talk

[@frankie1012]

Wish Jana could break free from her family’s cult like Jill has.

[@taylor4200_xx]

She's not allowed to move out of the house unless she's married out. Very strange for her to be in her 30s and still stay in her childhood bedroom. Plus without a college education, I'm not sure how she'd pay for her own place. It sucks that Jim Bob is against higher education for his daughters. Jana is beautiful and I have no doubt things will work out for her in the end.

[@debbienedeloff9473]

I think out of girls ginger didnt care to much what her parents said that's why she moved out of state

[@tammy3545]

She is the Duggar babysitter. They aren't going to let her leave unless she is married. These people are so controlling when it comes to relationships but don't give their children a chance to learn to make wise decisions for themselves. I would love to see Jana just leave. Be the first one to just go out there and be wild. I doubt that will happen.

[@Serenityblu23]

Jinger always wanted to leave even as a child. In a interview her mother told the interviewer that Jinger never wanted to leave. Jinger married an x Soccer player whom her older sister set her up withr got to know the real jermery because she would sneak texts without her parents knowing.

[@ilikeyoutube836]

@@Serenityblu23 Hunger?

[@birdv.378]

Bravo Jill Dillard for finding your own voice and standing up 👏👍

[@barbarachanda7559]

It’s so hard to leave behind everything you were taught and brainwashed to believe. Jill has shown more strength then the rest of the Duggars put together. Derick also has an education unlike the rest of the males in the family. He is able to survive without Jim Bobs money.

[@marjanf56]

im glad that jill is finally able to make her own choices..i cant tmagine living a life where dad runs my life and is scorned because i dont follow his rules..im so proud of her

[@heidiburggraf516]

I get that they are happier, but I have know idea what she just said. Seemed like she was talking in circles and very vague. Happy if she is happy...Derek looked mad though

[@rachelm.3173]

Thought it was just me. I'm 6 minutes in...and still don't know what she's talking about.

[@susanallen8214]

Poor guy needs to find HIS VOICE. She kept interrupting him...

[@mymia731]

Nope. She was speaking and he was interjecting.

[@adriennebells366]

It is so nice to see Jill speak, the Duggar women are taught to stay in a woman's place, no voice she was always so quiet on the old shows ,now she knows her opinion matters!

[@luvzdogz]

I literally got nothing from that! That was some pro level politician spin talk where they never really save anything. "Our goals, the shows goals, there were just, well, you know, goals and different goals..." huh!?

[@sherriholcombe5428]

So glad for you're KZbin channel, I really missed you guys on Counting On. Praying for renewed fellowship with your family. God has a purpose for each family and it's hard to establish yourselves when you've grown up on reality TV. Hoping for the best for your family. Thanks for sharing your lives with us.😊

[@faithf5846]

Forgive and just love. Doesn't mean except If your family is not supportive just forgive and LOVE It's biblical wisdom ❤️

[@rosemaryartzer1344]

Jill we are here to support you and Derick even though you don't know us.

[@nikkilovesthesims1490]

Love this interview! I have a huge respect for Jill now.

[@sheraria]

Proud of them for doing what is best for themselves.

[@powelljohn1856]

Hello Sheraria

[@galipengoose1]

Jill you go sweetie some family just ain't worth your heart. I've learned this years ago. Do for you your hubby and kids. Your kids not your parents kids.

[@jamesgeorge5276]

I'm so happy for Jill and her married sisters realizing that there is a real world outside the religious bubble that they were raised in...that they can be in control and independent from their controlling parents, and live their own lives. As they all continue on their journey, some of them are realizing that the garbage they were fed growing up is a bunch of crap..like girls can't wear pants or being chaperoned on a date as an adult unless you're married..Good for her!!

[@standyourtruth.juneb.8069]

Love you Jill but, please let you husband get a word in edgewise. Gosh he is patient

[@aaronrichmond9178]

Jill suffered years of abuse. Great to see her get out of that hellhole.

[@0.0mviews98]

Wasn’t Derrick kicked off the show for saying homophobic things about Jaz

[@kimberlyhughes5475]

Every family's members grew up playing a specific role in their family. When one member chooses a different role, it upsets the family dynamic. Suddenly, everyone else tries their hardest to pull that person back in to the dysfunction. It takes great strength for both Jill and Derrick to NOT allow the extended families to guilt them back into their former roles. Stay strong!

[@ingridchapman9031]

I wish Jill would allow Derrick to talk! They should share the time but not speak over one another.

[@crazylicious85]

Love them! I never thought of all the Duggars that Jill would be the one to break free from the family - so proud of her! & they adopted a dog recently from humane society 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tammy3545]

I was surprised too. I honestly though Jessa would rebel. She seemed to have a worse attitude but yet she is definitely a cult follower.

[@laurenshannon2703]

Please let Derick speak, Jill.

[@brendathompson7720]

Jill won’t let Derick talk.

[@eleazaracquah5888]

Here comes without a crystal ball with her nonsense smh. “ Jill and Derrick want nothing more with Jim bob, Shelly and the family”. 🙄

[@gabswithabigail8321]

Lmao that is exactly how it is going to go.

[@sheraria]

Yep!

[@BickyToya]

I'm glad I'm not the only one who gets annoyed by her videoa

[@HM-yk8ce]

@@sheraria She already talked about this and has had Derrick on her show before. I still cannot believe those kids never saw a dime for the years they spent on the show. I will never understand how TLC was ok with that. How did they let that happen??? Its crazy. By the way, I actually love Katie and her content. It's ok if you guys don't, I just wanted to be clear about where I stand on the topic.

[@Summer77700]

Agreed! WACB is nothing but a drama queen who does nothing but create problems. She isn't happy unless she is getting attention, and will stop at nothing to get it. I sure hope they don't do anymore interviews with her. Every time she reports on the Duggars, she makes things up, adds to the story, and it often doesn't even resemble the truth.

[@ninaderosa3521]

She never lets Derek speak. Ever. And you can see that he gets frustrated and is about to lose it. If you watch all of her interviews she always cuts him off and he never gets to speak.

[@randomvintagefilm273]

Found her voice maybe but she didn't reveal anything to us so she's still not really free

[@AkNonna]

Dirty laundry doesn;t need to be aired in public. You don't need to know the details.

[@francinebissonnette6997]

So happy to hear from you Jill ..and very sad to hear when you were in limbo with no support from loved ones ..without knowing you kept me grounded ..when I was struggling I would seek your videos or any video hearing your nurturing voice, a few times you helped me trough and guided me from an anxiety attack..this is huge for I .. ❤️ ..must view your video ..whichever decision you make with Derrick I will support ..just know that you are Loved Jill .. bisous for both of you xxxxxxxxxx..moi

[@susanwillis5723]

Derrick couldn’t get a word in edgewise.

[@molls127]

it’s not really his story to tell, it’s jill’s family, not his. he’s there for support.

[@rochellenicoletta7353]

@@molls127 But he should be able to talk!

[@rochellenicoletta7353]

@Jess L Sorry, but I don’t agree

[@sonicfanboy4005]

@@molls127 I agree they still do family time with his side. Well said Jill on telling your story

[@unapologeticlove7092]

She deserted her family. It’s one thing to distance yourselves and quit the show. God gave her the spirit of self control and homegirl isn’t using that gift. Her parents don’t want anything bad for her, nor do they speak out in public against her. She has crapped on her family. It’s shameful. It’s disgusting.

[@HeatherLynseyMusic]

I love their YT channel!! I’m proud of her for becoming her own person and even though he’s a little odd they seem to work lol

[@tamijoysisemore659]

I wish someone would ask why they didn’t leave or complain until he was fired from the show

[@mienafriggstad3360]

🙄SHE WAS NEVER FIRED FROM THE SHOW 🤦‍♀️

[@tamijoysisemore659]

@@mienafriggstad3360 but he was.

[@sarashepard7504]

Creepy family. I feel sorry for the victims their family situation caused.

[@missbeautifullyleleleanna7876]

Im so proud of Jill and Derick working towards “Their OWN goals & having their OWN independence” Now Derek has his degree in law and that’s an amazing milestone! it’s so sad that Jills family is so cold and bitter towards them.. I bet any money that Derek‘s family has been more of a support system to Jill and like her 2nd family now compared to her own... but she has a point she still loves her family but she needs to love them at a distance and that’s completely OK. I seriously wish them the best and continue to please keep fighting for what’s right!! I’m so proud of how far Jill has become! KEEP THAT VOICE! Don’t let anyone take that away from you! YOU Got this👍💗

[@allison2941]

She really had some trouble articulating her thoughts but overall love these two and sharing of their lives.

[@meeeka]

Of course she was not as articulate as many: she received no proper education in literature, writing, grammar, to learn how to refine her thoughts and /or words.