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@kristinej.4182 Жыл бұрын
Dr John Gray is remarkable. He has pretty much explained the failures in my past relationships. I chose men whom I tried to please to get the love I needed. I grew up in a dysfunctional home seeing my mother walk on egg shells around my father who was emotionally and physically abusive. Now I’m finally with a man who wants to please me. Dr Gray is teaching me so much of what I did not know.
@jasminealexia Жыл бұрын
I didn’t know this either so refreshing to know ❤
@italishgirl56013 жыл бұрын
Two minutes in and you just made sense of my teens and twenties!!!!!! I never understood why I settled for less for so long..... I thank God for the blessing of meeting and falling in love with my husband of 26 years. We knew we would marry and have a family by our second date! To any single woman who is watching this.... don’t settle for anything less! 🙏
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Amy!
@CoolKidOx Жыл бұрын
be with a man you're not attracted to sexually ask him to do small things, and appreciate him - that's training (positive reforcement) no attention on negative behaviour how to: you're right, what a good idea, that's so helpful appreciation
@briana143334 жыл бұрын
It really is this simple. We women complicate things by trying to make men become more like us; they give and receive differently and that is just what it is. Great chat! Thank you❤︎
@mimisabundantlife3 жыл бұрын
I'm blessed. My boyfriend of 4 years is naturally trained
@angelicsparkles4 жыл бұрын
No attention for negative behavior. Give a positive behaviour to reward. Positive reinforcement you're right, what a good idea, that makes sense, brilliant, oh that's so helpful, I didn't know that thank you i.e. Acknowledgement and appreciation. -happy to see him, ask him to do it and give appreciation as if he did it the first time. -punish, disapproval, criticism, no six, withholding good feelings don't work with men. Control pushes man away.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
I can tell you listened closely! thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@ngeee104 жыл бұрын
This man is gold!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Yes! He is! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@jackeelove31443 жыл бұрын
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson ❤
@elizabethhegedus25603 жыл бұрын
@@jackeelove3144 ⁰
@nsican24853 жыл бұрын
Exceptional
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
Healthy love is mutual reciprocity ....giving and receiving Ask and reward with dog training ...positive reinforcement Ignore bad behaviour....turn around or walk away, no attention Reward good behaviour with positive acknowledgement ... Youre right, what a good idea, brilliant, I never knew that, thank you, that makes sense is verbal appreciation with positive expression and tone of voice. She's happy to see you motivates or inspires a man, disapproval or punishment repels men. Accept him as is and trust he's doing his best, love & appreciate.
@pamelakelley30984 жыл бұрын
It's really true saying Thank you to them for even the smallest things just even listening to u as u have stated makes them feel valued and needed. Give them a hug! I always tell my man he is my champion. He loves that! Never take them for granted. Always say I would love it if u would works! They repeat the behavior without even having to ask because it's rewarding to them. They remember the praise.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comments too Pamela! Well done!
@faridahnakayemba14964 жыл бұрын
Nothing is heartbreakingike being with someone who doesn't provide
@lolabrini37583 жыл бұрын
it's on YOU🤣why are u with someone who doesnt provide???? ur letting this happen to you🥳u get no sympathy from us
@eileenwatt82833 жыл бұрын
@@lolabrini3758 stop judging her. Some men seems to have potential and women dates them on hope but it never materialized.
@lolabrini37583 жыл бұрын
Eileen Watt OMYGOD that's the DUMBEST thing to do. Once u raise him up successful he will DITCH u
@lolabrini37583 жыл бұрын
Eileen Watt dont try to "change" or "upgrade" men. That devalues their masculinity. U marry a man that provides period.
@librascorner22712 жыл бұрын
Facts!!
@josephinewliu3 жыл бұрын
3:42 Women have to be in a situation when someone is providing for her, then she has oestrogen level goes up and she falls in love and a healthy kind of love. unhealthy love is i will do anything to get him. He listens to me, he cares about me, he is kind and gentle. he does this and that for me... you must learn to train him. Training, you ask what you want and when you get it you give him a big rewards. that is how you train a dog. do not punish your dog if he jumps on you, turn away and ignore them so they get no attention on negative behaviour
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
We're so glad you enjoyed the video. Thanks for watching!
@joyce78923 жыл бұрын
6:25 Language that initiates willingness to hear and respond: You're right, that makes sense, what a good idea, brilliant, that's so helpful, and repeat... and I didn't know that, thank you.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@sara-hv1fw4 жыл бұрын
wow this was such a good conversation way more people need to see this
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comments too Sara!
@YesNo-dm4dx4 жыл бұрын
John Gray is amazing
@ranarayya17242 жыл бұрын
You taught me a lot, and I still need to know more about relationships, cause my parents divorced and i was really attracted by wrong men all time.
@Steff5796 ай бұрын
This video has helped me soo much!!! Thank you!!!! Met the man of my dreams and talk to him like this and i truly am grateful and so lucky and happy to have him in my life. He pleases me and makes me so happy and i care for him too and we meet all of our needs together. Wish me luck ♥️ all your videos have truly been the only videos on relationships that have truly helped me to communicate better.
@againstallodds4044 жыл бұрын
I just found thos channel and I am hooked!!! Thank you so much for all of the information you give. 😁
@marthaking81 Жыл бұрын
I was a doormat for many years John what you are teaching is how my parents were and that was do unto others as you would like to be done to, even if he didn't show love or respect for me, he really didn't want me he didn't care about love but enjoyed my caring and loving ways to him . He got so abusive I had to leave after 40+years of marriage my heart aches for women who truly care and and a man doesn't so it doesn't always work no matter how hard we try. God bless you he cares and knows our pain ladies DO YOUR BEST AND GOD WILL DO THE REST HE IS OUR DELIVER
@juliareed98234 жыл бұрын
I’m SO grateful for these videos. Thank you!
@janetlattimore78503 жыл бұрын
💐🌷💐 The Golden nugget in this video starts at 9:07 for me. I kept playing it over & over. That information is life changing for helping me to understand my Man and Men in general. Powerful...Dr. Gray. 🌷💐🌷
@juliettailor16162 жыл бұрын
"Women are teachable but not by their spouse, men are not teachable but they are trainable by their spouse." If you yell at a dog he won't learn. Ignore them. No attention. If they behave, positive reinforcement will be productive. "You're right, that is so helpful. That's makes sense. " Gratitude. Smile when you see them. Don't criticize! Don't do it yourself! Don't withhold positive feelings. Don't control! Ask them to do it. - John Gray
@kristinej.4182 Жыл бұрын
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 💯 💯💯💯
@cleopatrajones70964 жыл бұрын
This is the truth. This is compassionate love. Thank you for sharing!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comment too Cleopatra!
@violetlight81383 жыл бұрын
What a gem that was. Thank you 🙏
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for watching and for your comments too!
@xw6475 Жыл бұрын
This is SO SO true. You are right John, my parents divorced when i was 12 years old, they were both emotionally unavailable. Growing up i always saw they are arguing and fighting, they clearly do not know how to communication with each other in a proper and healthy way. Thank you so much for posting this video, i really appreciate that
@shellshelly55529 ай бұрын
Great team, love John Gray. Michelle, great questions. Thank you
@ranarayya17242 жыл бұрын
Unhealthy love is no more available in my life. 2022 is the year that I will attract the best person
@lisabotwinick78103 жыл бұрын
Everyone needs positive reinforcement!
@josephinewliu3 жыл бұрын
6:30 say " that is so helpful, i did not know that, thank you" that is called appreciation and acknowledgement. it will not be real unless you need a man. Vulnerability is feel your needs and be aware of your needs and allow the man to provide for them. bellow do not work with men : Punishment Disapproval, Criticism , withholding sex, withholding positive feelings. any control pushes men away. men have sensitivities around their behaviours. You appreciate and trusting. Your job is communicate successfully what you want more of at the right time and right way, and have plenty rewards for him because that rewards is your appreciation. Anytime you do not trust a man you are punching him in his stomach
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too Josephine!
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
"Anytime you do not trust a man you are punching him in his stomach" Right you are. When a women expresses trust towards me - I go to the Moon; I want to do so much more for her.
@desireemariec11084 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant, very helpful. Thank you!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching Desiree!
@dianaallison61104 жыл бұрын
Really enjoyed this one..& Dr. Gray has taught us a great lesson here. Thx dearly 🙂🙂💕💕
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it, Diana.
@lisaash7593 жыл бұрын
I think this is great so helpful when entering a relationship 😊 and insightful
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Glad you think so! Thanks so much for watching and for your comments too!
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
Hi 💑💑😍😍❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
@tianiemitchell56924 жыл бұрын
That is so sad when women and men do those things instead of just sitting down saying look I love you if you need something just please let me know I'll be more than happy to help you
@faridahnakayemba14964 жыл бұрын
If my man tells that am more happy
@newyorkdiva33 жыл бұрын
I needed this today thank you.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
So glad! Thanks for watching and for your comments too Donna!
@richardlowry96634 жыл бұрын
This works, if BOTH wish to please the other, both HOLDING attitude to please other, this requires communication, trust and respect and to say or to hear negative stuff; see as other loves you to not want you to mess up to tell it, or hear it in a nice way.
@cynthiacrawford15733 жыл бұрын
True
@user-gu6vf3je1d4 жыл бұрын
Excellent video. Bravo 👏🏾
@cynthiacrawford15733 жыл бұрын
I do agree a man needs these things
@PowerOfAIandMotivation2 жыл бұрын
This is really helpful 👍🏻 Thank you for these interviews🙏🏻
@AllasMusicChannel4 жыл бұрын
I am not sure if I agree with advice of equal appreciation of both good and bad behaviour. If a man fulfils his promise on time - of course you will be naturally appreciative and be happy to see him; but if he lets you down and basically doesn’t value his word, you, and your feelings by arriving late and not delivering when you were waiting from him based on his promise, to look as if nothing happened, jumping around him all happy and appreciative feels like reinforcing his lack of value and appreciation of you. Why would he have to try to be on time next time, if you as a doormat will accept and be happy not depending on whether he was late or not? There would be no incentive to value and respect you. I am not telling that a man should be nagged/scolded/etc. But there must be some other high value way to communicate that you were upset that he didn’t deliver on his promise (or did it with delay) and that it would be nice if next time he would be more considerate of you. After all, you are relying on that person and your feelings are involved in the situation too.
@katt68944 жыл бұрын
AllasMusicChannel I kind of thought that too. Where is the incentive to be on time if he can be late and still receive the same reaction? I would take it as my partner really isn’t that upset with me when I’m late, so if I am from time to time, no big deal.
@nadijones6604 жыл бұрын
I absolutely agree! I know someone who was constantly late, and seemed like it was no big deal. He didnt improve until a boundary was set, and then appreciated for being on time after that. So why approve of bad behaviour, is my question.
@leahhonore35054 жыл бұрын
It's called taking the high road, he expect to be met with disapproval but doing the opposite brings out the best in him and the atmosphere remains positive. I'd say just reward more n show more appreciation n praise when he does it all on time the next time. Taking the high road isn't easy at all.
@nadijones6604 жыл бұрын
@@leahhonore3505 no, it is not easy. I got a knot in my stomach just thinking about it 😂
@mickmash-51924 жыл бұрын
Leah Honoré - No, it’s called the continual burden of emotional labour women have to carry, in comparison to men. It’s pathetic that we have to walk on egg shells and deny our feelings, all to ensure men don’t berate us for ‘nagging ‘. Ladies, get some self respect. Treat a man how you would want to be treated and affirm your values and boundaries. If you’re not happy, leave. Simple. Women bend over backwards for men and men often can’t even be bothered offering 1/10th the courtesy in return. Not unless sex is on the table. How disgusting, the idea of deliberately bribing a man with sex. You strip away all intimacy when you make it transactional. But it’s somehow all ok and explained away by ‘biology’. So sick of hearing this excuse and men certainly don’t get a pass for their immaturity because of ‘biology’, not especially when they’re deliberately choosing to stay in arrested development. It’s also called Peter Pan syndrome, where a guy just doesn’t want to grow up and wants his mommy/wife to run after him and wipe his bum! Are we forever to be used by men as an emotional crutch, to guide them on their way into maturity? What’s so attractive about such neediness. Stop chasing after these lazy men.
@0judi0bartel744 жыл бұрын
Magnificent
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for watching and for your comment too!
@Iris-rm1wy2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and the messages
@stephaniehand5032 жыл бұрын
thank you
@shynes23sh2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this.
@busingyedouglas62783 жыл бұрын
So on point. Thanks
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@jasminealexia Жыл бұрын
We need more info on how to heal the father wound. My father is an attractive man and I keep finding myself wanting validation from an attractive man. It’s really hard to give someone a chance if I’m not physically attracted to them
@QueenJuliana894 жыл бұрын
I needed this ❤️
@moonmissy2 жыл бұрын
This guy’s advice is good for those in healthy committed relationships. Not for the dating phase! It also doesn’t work for men who refuse to grow up.
@cindy77333 жыл бұрын
I know this comment has nothing to do with the video but I love that Mother Mary is right behind you! It's comforting.
@joannemcarthur75282 жыл бұрын
Thankyou for your great advice. I try to appreciate and tell my partner when I appreciate him🙂💚🙏 Do I appreciate him when he doesn't communicate and share his feelings. It is a constant learning when being in a relationship however...
@KVG8222 жыл бұрын
This makes so much sense!
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
Hi 😍😍❤🌷🌷🌷
@brn2sor Жыл бұрын
Men, always choose courage. Do not fall prey to the enemies #1 tactic : fear
@morthim3 жыл бұрын
"men can't teach or train a woman on how to love" i wish someone had told me this 20 years ago.
@brendajones80733 жыл бұрын
awesome info
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching Brenda!
@brendajones80733 жыл бұрын
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson you’re welcome
@ladyowl91873 жыл бұрын
Omg....this hit home 🥴
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comments too!
@lisagrieb88363 жыл бұрын
Help- my husband is not loyal in my eyes. Not unfaithful, just doesn’t ever seem to have my back in a variety of situations. It has driven me to being resentful. I can’t figure out to fix this problem no matter how many times we’ve discussed it.
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
That sounds painful Lisa! I hope you can work things out. Thanks for watching.
@ImranKhan-tj3dr2 жыл бұрын
I m alone I like u MERRY me I m intrested Really 💑💑💑💑😍😍😍😍😍❤❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷
@Mitta07874 жыл бұрын
What if the man expects things to be done by the woman, expecting her to be independent and not depend on him?
@deletedsap-med4 жыл бұрын
It means he is on his feminine side more
@vickykinyunyuzi4448 Жыл бұрын
But if he doesnt communicate or provide or does anything just says sorry but stil doesnt change what do you do
@switchpathbyamypreston54282 жыл бұрын
We need to be realistic with the punishment issue. Late from work might be a viable reason, flat tire, traffic... but negligence or carelessness does not deserve positive reinforcement. Forgiveness, yes, but not positive reinforcement.
@KristnaSaikiaBillFortuneEagle3 жыл бұрын
Man are trainable bcoz training a dog ,pup and men are same in a relationship .. Haha 😂 I learnt from a dog trainer .haha i am learning from a dog trainer to make my relationship get better bcoz two guys I like ,both are dog lovers. I could not stop laughing. I think so similar 😅😅😆
@user-gd5tq7df8h4 жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle great to have John very important vids, thank you. About the thumbnail I must say I'm confused by it - blue font is NHS UK
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Not sure what you are saying about the thumbnails since I am US based.
@user-gd5tq7df8h4 жыл бұрын
@@MichelleMarchantJohnson I'm watching from the UK and when your vids pop on my feed my immediate response is "oh something about covid? ". That's all.
@tianiemitchell56924 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@reginawoess49283 жыл бұрын
This is great
@msprettykawaii9503 жыл бұрын
Men should provide period. We gather men hunts. They are not created bigger and stronger for no reason
@pyt83443 жыл бұрын
Try telling them that today. They want 50/50, theyre invading our spaces from the nail salon to Miss america. They're calling themselves "pills", beating and verbally abusing women. Its a MESS. I agree however with your statement 100%
@soficharmed4 жыл бұрын
Magical
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and for your comment!
@mercymallari38713 жыл бұрын
Vice versa we need to make them feel nd my man that mkes ms feel that ge needs me too nd i believe it seriously
@jinna05123 жыл бұрын
I have an enormous crush on you, Doctor Gray!
@emelyrodriguez80843 жыл бұрын
I respect your opinion, but I also think its normal to just communicate what we're upset about and it's annoying how we have to be so careful with men simply because they have a fragile ego. By not communicating what upsets you, I think you open a door for them to continue disrespecting you.
@0judi0bartel743 жыл бұрын
My Dad was a guy like that.
@tatmcpherson45232 жыл бұрын
What should a woman do who has her ex pursuing her even though he has another woman, he does things for her all the time, and says they are going to get back together and live happy
@purplelillyx98953 жыл бұрын
Well I'm at 2:15 and I can honestly say that Im doomed. I don't want to have sex with someone that I'm repulsed by AND the ones I have sexual chemistry with, are all the wrong men. I'm 35 and I'm just going to forget relationships. If I can't have one that I can rely on and that I fancy, then I may as well give up
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
He's not saying to go for men you are repulsed by, he's just saying not to let chemistry be such a strong factor that it takes over to the point that you are missing red flags and getting involved for the wrong reasons.
@preityb2003 жыл бұрын
Actually there shud be whole other discussion on this....... It's difficult for some women to understand this..... Whn they feel too attracted to a guy..... They just give themselves too easily ..both physically and emotionally...... They run after guys , do anything for them....... But the problem is men love chasing ..... Not too much...... But there shud be a lil bit of healthy chasing from guy side.... It keeps the spark and it's fun too..............
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
@@preityb200 Actually, that is not true. Not all men love chasing. As a man myself - I don't like to chase. To me it feels unnatural and childish. If people are simply open and honest then the Tango flows naturally and effortlessly.
@recuerdos24572 жыл бұрын
I believe it s definitely not Everyman s thing!!! Maybe it depends on how selective the men are?!?! Especially for those who are also thinking of the future mothers of their children …
@gabriellamaria27872 жыл бұрын
How do you get your husband to try harder when you've been married longer and he hasn't tried the hardest from the beginning? (We were young and neither of us had great demands.)
@casperinsight35242 жыл бұрын
1. Happy to see me ...oh great you're home big smile 2. Would you go to the store now 3. Reward with appreciation Love & acceptance, a chance to succeed, give them rewards for self correcting, overlooking his mistakes, show appreciation, ask for what you need and trust he'll come through, Criticism, witholding, punishment, manipulation or any ctrl pushes a man away
@hunny5853 жыл бұрын
Is he saying if a man is doing negative behaviour, we still need to use positive re-inforcement? How
@anastasiaz77842 жыл бұрын
No rewards no attention to when he does something bad but when he does good you reward him
@pascalledouven70223 жыл бұрын
Can your for example ask him to tekst you or you just wait , i dont wanna lead there ... what’s wisdom in teksting and calling
@cocobean75193 жыл бұрын
But John you’re always telling us ladies to be our authentic selves..... so if we’re mad at a man for not doing what he was asked to do & came home late for the party etc etc.... are we supposed to suppress our annoyance & be all cheery & happy when he comes home late & doesn’t do what was asked of him originally?? Help I’m confused!
@MichelleMarchantJohnson3 жыл бұрын
Here's my interpretation. John is saying him the benefit of the doubt and give him a chance to redeem himself. Assume the best in him and invite him to step up even though he's not doing it perfectly because this will inspire him.
@cindy-bw6jw2 жыл бұрын
I guess he could have had a busy day at work and then got stuck in traffic! I doubt if he just was late with no good reason! Right! Anyway, my grandma always said, "you can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar"!!!
@BeckyJB5 ай бұрын
10:54 same goes for men… ❤ love the advice as always.
@marciebaker71044 жыл бұрын
What do you do when a man gets upset that your asking something from him??? I need his help and he figures it's my problem not his???
@MichelleMarchantJohnson4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching Marcie. Sometimes the way you ask makes a difference, yet there could be other challenges in the relationship if this is how he is responding. Good luck to you!
@fatima-zahrakajji48214 жыл бұрын
Watch sheraseven1! In her videos you will the answers you seek! Good luck gorgeous
@DD_MENEN4 жыл бұрын
Yes watch SheraSeven1 and also if he cant help you financially or in any other way he belongs in your past.
@RMB57753 жыл бұрын
Well... he should have done his part of the responsibility... she did hers. That’s rewarding “bad behavior”... etc etc... I’m southern and I’m not having a party without drinks because he can’t get his ass home! Nope!
@SegaSavageMusic2 жыл бұрын
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@eileenwatt82833 жыл бұрын
Why does rich couples get divorced when the men are good providers. Is it because the wife is unappreciated?
@doustana2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful interview but his hands hitting the table is unfortunately disturbing
@eveliina14382 жыл бұрын
Why was he late in the first place, tho?
@spiritualaries45003 жыл бұрын
My mother always talked bad about my father n my father never was close to me.
@jackeelove31443 жыл бұрын
❤
@babajaiy82463 жыл бұрын
"If a man is with a woman who doesn't know how to love, it's kind of hopeless for him to change her" Really? men cannot do things to touch her heart and help her. It's not that I am disagreeing, it just seems strange. Perhaps he is saying that within a certain context?
@barbaranavarro1974 жыл бұрын
So, Its impossible to be with a man just because we are a team? I dont really need men to give me anything I just want a partner and I am not agree with man as a solution of my problems. I have a job, I am a succesful woman, the only thing left is having a partner to share our succes. I don't think man want to be "used" for woman to get what they want. I dont depend of him, i have my live and he has his, that is for me healthy. Thats strange because this post could be true but if it is, I don't understand men at all.
@jackdeniston93264 жыл бұрын
So you dont need a man. Thats OK
@barbaranavarro1974 жыл бұрын
@@jackdeniston9326 Nobody needs a man or a woman. When men and women are together is because they love each other, not because they NEED each other. Love is not need, is actually veeeery different. Nowadays i think this is a huge problem, because most of people they don't love anymore, they feel alone and then they decide someone has to help him/her in his/her miserable life. That's pretty unfair!
@notthecontentiouswoman-wom25952 жыл бұрын
So, you can't think of one way a man could enhance your life? Not even taking out the trash, taking the car to the mechanic or lifting an heavy object? Could he drive you somewhere, assemble something or organize your garage? Men just need to feel like they are making a contribution by an action.
@notthecontentiouswoman-wom25952 жыл бұрын
So, you can't think of one way a man could enhance your life? Not even taking out the trash, taking the car to the mechanic or lifting an heavy object? Could he drive you somewhere, assemble something or organize your garage? Men just need to feel like they are making a contribution by an action.
@amnbvcxz8650 Жыл бұрын
Find a man who loves you, provides for you, so on… that advice only works for desirable women. The other kind won’t get noticed if they’re not proactive.