John Gray - How To Make Him Worry About Losing You

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[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@kathyglass2922]

I love, "You don't have to feel you have to earn a man's love." Yes! With love, you just feel that safety in knowing its there. It's just there. It feel safe, strong, and all encompassing.

[@buttarain27]

I've always loved Dr. Gray's no-nonsense approach to explaining the dynamics of relationships. I like how he doesn't sugar-coat his message or say things just to make women feel good.

[@coachdebby564]

I appreciate your ability to simplify how basic love truly is.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked it and great to have you as part of our community! 🙂

[@JacquiWashington]

3:27 What to focus on 7:13 What love does 8:45 The most loving thing thing you can do for a man.

[@nunya5270]

Thank you for posting this! God bless you 🙏

[@MonaLisa-ur1px]

You have changed my relationship completely. I understand that he needs time without me at times and let him have time. To show him I think that he is “right “ often. He has been open to my ideas sometimes too.

[@rhansen1969]

John is such a good man. Everything he says is absolutely true. What a great dad he must be to his daughters.❤

[@nahidgray5811]

I accidentally watched this video. I lost my husband 7 years ago after long battle of multiple cancers and 21 years marriage. So, I’ve been out of dating scenes. Long time ago, men did all the planning, were gentlemen, never questioned about your income, made plans for dates and many beautiful surprises and gifts 🎁 along the way. I’ve gone out to meet not to date and surprise to see they expect me to pay because they don’t have enough cash and don’t like to use credit cards. They don’t like to pick you up because it’s far and want you to meet them at a place. I’m afraid to date.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

Times have really changed. But it's now a safety measure NOT to get picked up outside your home. I'm guessing you're middle aged, judging by how long you were married. It seems to me that men are far more reluctant to pay for a date or meeting if a woman is middle aged.

[@IsabelLi-cd7kx]

Don’t take it personally. I think men don’t want to be tools that are used for free food, etc. unfortunately feminism has a bad side so if women don’t like being treated like equals they should join a ultra traditional community. There are problems in those communities too but you will find men who want to do chivalrous things.

[@HeavenlyLights]

“Jealousy is when someone else is getting what your soul says YOU CAN HAVE, but you’re AFRAID you can’t get it.” STOP judging, criticizing, comparing. TRUST ONE DAY YOU’LL GET IT. Then you’ll find CONSTRUCTIVE WAYS TO GET IT. Focus on WHAT’S POSITIVE in your life and FIND WHAT YOU can be GRATEFUL FOR. 2:45ish Set your goal on WHAT TO LOVE and WHAT IS MOST LOVING.

[@kathyglass2922]

Damn. This man nails it in this interview.

[@oia5882]

I feel so touched and grateful for coming across this episode filled with beautiful wisdom and insights. Thank you so much, John and Antia.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@HeavenlyLights]

Set your goal on what to love. APPRECIATE what a man PROVIDES.

[@resnir]

I'm reading Iryna's comments, and I understand that John Gray sounds broad and general early in this video. I responded differently to some of what he said. These videos have been my intro to John Gray's information, and while I have been a student of metaphysics and been exposed to a great deal of information on psychology, I find his insights exciting and applicable in my own life. I think what often happens when someone speaks about great ideas and big concepts (and when he/she has spoken and written at length for many years to a vast public), he/she might state the hypothesis in the form of a punchline that only the most familiar audience members will recognize and understand without a detailed context up front. He expands his point about men feeling love through sex later in this video when he talks about the man feeling good about himself. In other talks, he mentions that a good level of testosterone gives a man confidence, and just one part of maintaining a good level is to have conscious sex where the man's release is delayed or withheld altogether. He also talks in this video about the man seeing who the woman is and on many levels. He also reminds us how a woman (in part by having a healthy balance in estrogen and oxytocin and all their factors which include attitude and choices of words) can play an important role in determining his testosterone level. By giving the example in the realm of his own emotional and sexual attraction for his wife until she died, he informs us that he had been referring to emotionally and sexually mature men who have found the balance in their own polarities as well as in the relationship between sex and love. I'm sure in writing, the full circle of his thought process is more straightforward. [*I felt this same "punchline" practice was Marianne Williamson's downfall during the first presidential primary debate. In later debates and at greater length, she stated her highly original points much more plainly, and anyone still listening had a greater chance to see how well informed and capable she is at stating ideas and plans based on a r lifetime of research and critical thinking. But she had already made a new and first impression on a much larger and broader public than usual, and it was easy and convenient for critics to call her odd and to conflate her bad timing that one night with other things known and parodied about her books and talks.]

[@rowenaramsaran4256]

I can relate to having believed someone was "The One" & proved wrong. A fear develops where U really genuinely like someone but think, "I was so sure about the last one & tried my best to make that relationship but it didn't last & the hurt was so deep". So I can relate to a point, about not trusting myself in that sense.

[@Dany-nt6dn]

I want Tom Cruise to be worried of loosing me

[@empressenergy2218]

Hahaha 🤣

[@kathyfindlay9468]

Ilove himicant chest on him

[@Erika_Kelly_Apparel]

😂😂😂

[@rarecoral212]

😝😝

[@mollyemerson1313]

Ewww - gross He’s into little boys

[@teresaolofson8187]

Find Your Balance Your an Expression of Gods Will ON THIS PLANET and you bring light and love wherever you go

[@kjpiper8398]

I am always awed at how you untangle the complicating characteristics of a woman's thinking ❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@nayeliestrada8000]

Well, I don't think my ex was worried of losing me, he broke up everything and was really cruel the last time we saw each other(half year before the pandemic started), till that day have been 3 years now, 3 years of silence 💔, and I still cannot believe that my love and the memories we shared, were nothing to him even when we spent 4 years together, it's been so hard for me to end that chapter

[@Melinamiu007]

“Men find love through sex” but don’t have sex with them too soon! Ughh so many rules

[@Molly_Belle]

Men can have sex with women they don’t even like though. They also put women in categories like; women they will only have sex with and then, women they see as relationship material.

[@呀你可]

2:45 on jealousy : when somebody else is getting sth your soul says you can have but you fear you can't have it. you have to let go that fear. You can have it and find constructive way to find it. 6:00

[@lili2tango]

Thanks John. It's been about 5 years i study your aproache, and i am still wishing to see Francophone community having those tool's. You are such a light. Could we see how to organised something together? I start some process to do so in France, but so need you here to be able to share!

[@teresaolofson8187]

Ask in a way that makes him feel like he is Providing NOT about what he likes It's about you (receiving)

[@stephaniefortney22]

The way you convey such needed insight is powerful and filled with beautiful wisdom, full of Love ….. so Grateful, thank you…

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@proactively9324]

Love you, you go to the point and are very smart transmitting your thoughts ..man knows that but not everyone can explain it clear like you.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@pc3140]

Appreciate this thank you for the refreshing perspective

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad it was helpful!

[@escribanosystemic]

Just brilliant, thanks, thanks and thanks

[@tiname1805]

You can't just say men feel loved through sex and leave it at that. So, what to do not to become a booty call? It's lacking context.

[@mritam123]

Haha..true... what is it actually ?! Lol

[@buttarain27]

It's only a 10 minute video. There are other videos where they are an hour or more long where he goes into depth. You're not going to get the whole picture and understand the dynamics of male and femle relationships in a 10-minute video...lol.

[@axelashu]

Good point

[@luxyluz2442]

@@buttarain27 agreed

[@reenaree1953]

This is the point in his teachings, primitive instincts: female and male side. Today people are more complex and there are no genders. We are not in caves anymore, sex is primitive and this primitive urge in men causes violence and pain. Humanity will grow out from that.

[@angelinasamson6996]

I don’t want him to think he can loose me , that causes anxiety and makes them clingy

[@mindfulnessmovementmusic9661]

Thank you for this share. It was interesting to hear it.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

You're so welcome, glad it was helpful and great to have you as part of our community! :)

[@TheAttractionTriggers]

*Love is a two-way street constantly under construction.*

[@lisawentworth6831]

I love that Dr John Gray puts down the 'making man feel like he will lose you' thing. You women advisers teach us how to play Victorian games and try and control the situations like a modern concept. Stop! Listen to what he is saying!

[@oi8542]

She learnt that I hope

[@reenaree1953]

That is not playing games, divorce is often the best thing a woman can do.

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@reenaree1953 How did you get from A to B from what I said? Divorce is the best thing if there is game playing. Plus I wrote this 6 months ago...I was just saying to listen to Dr John Gray, and NOT play games!

[@karenKristal]

I think that if someone mistreats you, you do have to show there are consequences to this kind of behaviour.

[@mlove.97]

Such a beautiful message. Love this man and what he shares 🥰💙💚🧡💜

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@berthashepherd2975]

My husband does not believe in feelings. When I say something like.. I feel worried or upset or whatever , he reminds me that feelings are deceptive. So I suppress my feelings and pull away from him. I barely talk to him anymore, after 34 years of marriage.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@luxyluz2442]

no way……

[@reenaree1953]

Divorce. Save yourself. And if you don't want to because of financial situation then know that you have every right to feel anger and resentment.

[@shaaddhillon3819]

Don't divorce as some suggested. It's easy to divorce. Find someone else ie girl friends to talk to. Don't rush to any separation yet. Focus on his good I'm sure he has some. Noones perfect. All the best

[@lindareboh-king1064]

Love John gray so wise

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@fortheloveofmusic7786]

Wow! Much helpful info.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@marijanajerinic4162]

God bless you,John!

[@deborahrabon3365]

I’ve had my man say a couple of times that he doesn’t want to loose me. Not sure why he would say that. I’ve never made him even feel that way

[@teresaolofson8187]

Negative Emotion where your trying to Change Someone. Stress Hormone will go to the Right which only see's negativity .

[@tianiemitchell5692]

That's because it is a pleasant wonderful memory and you love her so you think of her in the best light that you remember seeing her in

[@missjk00]

Envy is different than jealousy dude..

[@marijanajerinic4162]

I love you,John. God bless you.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@karenscott7627]

This man is genius!

[@beckytull8505]

ABSOLUTELY. I don’t trust myself anymore because every guy turns out to be a ghoster. I hate it.

[@mirzabeg2274]

Super interesting!!!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you liked the video Mirza and great to have you as part of our community! :)

[@Thomassina1]

0:52 it is thru women that boys learn to love, starting with his mother.

[@AubreyJuliet]

Is there any coming back from sleeping with a man before a commitment? Can a man fall in love if he’s already “played” with a woman in the bedroom?

[@tianiemitchell5692]

You answered John you said for one that shouldn't be necessary into a man finds love through sex

[@rahmasamir909]

Not too soon that s all

[@Sandra.B]

This is the type of interview where you ask a question and the interviewed talks about whatever he wants instead...

[@teresaolofson8187]

shouldnt feel i have to earn his love

[@zararasheed2101]

What Bonnie died??? Omg I'm so sorry!💔

[@renoaczhary1232]

What if he is talking to other woman now? I dont think he will fear losing me

[@starr234]

Doesn’t answer the question. Click bait

[@yasmeenmalik6011]

V well said . Excellent

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@MsIryLondon]

I always loved the original John Gray's books before (those that he wrote years/decades ago in his clear mind), but what he is saying now is completely opposite to what he wrote there, and in this video it sounds like he forgot what the topic of the talk was completely. Men feel loved through sex?? Really? And what was the rest of the waffling about? I actually highly recommend everyone to buy and read his original books (Mars & Venus series) where you will actually find the answer to the question in this video "How to make him worry about losing you": [what men need more than sex to stay committed to you for life] but please do not to listen to him talk at this point since because his current state of mind he's been undoing his former great work in his latest public appearances.

[@lemostjoyousrenegade]

🎯

[@kartikadamon]

Brilliant

[@呀你可]

What if the man is your boss who is married and have got at least 3 women at the working place “fall for” him?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@呀你可]

@@MagnetizeYourMan He Can be attentive, caring, sweet, making you feel heard and seen and all that, yet he is married and at least two women having given off a sort of "jealousy" tension involved with this man, making me feel like they Once were his prey. So is he "dangerous" given the seemingly "seducing" behaviors of his? He seemed to be trustworthy but the three other women thing making me feel like he is just a ladykiller... Is he the kind of men John said one should better keep her away from?

[@Molly_Belle]

He’s married and you should stay away.

[@humble166]

He didn't talk about the topic...just what ever he wanted🤣🤣🤣

[@ann8173]

Interesting much

[@ageoflistening]

John's not been on his channel for 11mths. Has he got a new channel?

[@Lapointesun]

Great

[@lavenderkisses9461]

I would feel a little intimidated if I was dating the guy who wrote “men are from mars women are from Venus”

[@travelchannel304]

So does this woman! 12xyrs abstaining. And ive learned tp trust myself

[@andreadiodro7553]

God bless you ❤

[@tianiemitchell5692]

That's correct

[@KAP1984]

Mr. Gray I appreciate, value the info but there is to many life events that can happen to a couple that can stop sex for a bit. Like losing our son. We already have our bond we have 37 years of bonding. I have expressed gratitude for my husband, his testosterone levels are medicinally balanced. He has shut down you say leave him alone " the rubber band" effect. Leaving him alone will end the marriage its at that point. I would appreciate more top layered info. Not just to get the bond, to make the man feel loved. That has been done for years. As far as asking for him to do certain things he also has shirt term memory loss from haed injury. Please deeper non surface answers ,life happens to people and sometimes a couple can't just revert to the nature of the bodies

[@reenaree1953]

The one thing women are yet to learn is to learn to love ourselves. Women should learn to love themselves before anything. Unconditionally. Women, you are not servants to men, stop putting men's needs before you. This is your body, your soul.

[@karenKristal]

The only thing John Grey seems to teach is that men need sex. His relationship advice seems to be that women have to have sex with men once a week because then the man will have a bigger orgasm, and then the man has to go away and do his own thing for the other 6 days until he needs a body again a week later. Hes actually made me want to be single.

[@faribaebrahimi1153]

Is it normal if boyfriend of 5 years doesn’t want intimacy at age 60?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@barbaraseidel4342]

Run! Otherwise you are at the point I'm...very unlucky!

[@jacquelinekleips]

How about men who have their dog and car it seems they find love in these things.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@safiyaamir6939]

Wonderful

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@mrc3226]

Well he has to love you first

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

Never answered the question….

[@amypatton6730]

Never , never would I even think of dating or GOD FORBID, marrying again. I am DONE. After reading A book about Narcissists, I was in shock to realize I had been in a 45+ years marriage to a man whom I adored , did not have any regard for me. I was blind fool. There is no fixing a crazy Narc. So my whole adult life has been a lie, and I was a stupid STEPFORD WIFE.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

Damn, that's a hard thing to go through, living a lie. I don't think that you're alone in this either. Many people probably look back at old relationships, marriages and familial connections with different, more experienced and knowledgeable eyes. And what they now know can be very hurtful.

[@Ohkeh640]

I love this guy my mum loved him too

[@renus6015]

Too good.....

[@FreePalestine123-b1x]

Lol 😂 This video really amused me and moved me in equal measure. Loved the toilet analogy and how women today are so independent they're creating male hormones which aren't loving and killing people! 😂 Also, appreciated the points about relationships being the spiritual path through which we see ourselves. ❤️ Thanks for sharing 🙏

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Glad you liked the video N J and great to have you as part of our community! :)

[@anitamalimo6922]

No

[@ASheeLee74]

But then men move on quickly due to that too

[@teresaolofson8187]

1.13 min mark what button for the man ? the heart?

[@carnation334]

Important information thanks. But you’re nowadays, asking women to do almost everything in life, like work long hours outside the house, bring money in, provide for the house, have children, raise the children, take care of them and their husbands, work inside the house, cook, do chores .. etc. then you complain that women became very independent and their testosterone levels are more than normal and that not what men like or want! What do you expect, after all that!?

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@reenaree1953]

Amen. Men really don't deserve women. That's why single motherhood and divorces are growing.

[@maryt7959]

When you are NOT treated or seen as a human being ….. do NOT CARE if a man is not at my side . Nope ! We are made equal in GOD’s eyes ….

[@reenaree1953]

Yeah, often divorce is the only best thing a woman can do.

[@juneelle370]

Agree~ it’s not about equality as in “exact”! It’s about equal respect ❤️

[@jessica11381]

8:52

[@tianiemitchell5692]

So are you saying that you're a million bucks until he has sex and then afterwards euro-dollar

[@thearodriguez5251]

He is wrong about woman finding love elsewhere!... Also men have many of these issues with jealousy too it is tied into your attachment style.

[@MsPatriot420]

OK, wow. First....women do want to find someone new after the loss of a spouse or boyfriend. They do want love again with a man and they do like sex. Children, grandchildren and stuff are no substitute. That's complete nonsense. I've been somewhat watching these "coaches" tell women not to have sex with their dates on the second time out. I can't believe that's happening actually, but it tells me they do like sex and are hungering for love (the wrong way). It's absolutely silly to say women don't want to be in a relationship or married again and share love, closeness, and sex because we're insecure and can love our garden instead. It can take time to find someone we really want to be. That's true. Men are in the driver's seat and that's why they run right out and find and marry someone today. We just want a dog?? Seriously?? I have 2 dogs that I love but they are absolutely no replacement for what I shared with my husband.

[@mare2723]

The name on this video should be changed. He doesn’t agree with being manipulative like that and it’s a very good interview one that most people would never listen to with the title that it has. I know I almost did it.

[@Sophie-Aiyer]

Laughing about rapidly moving on from your deceased wife is… creepy. And narcissistic :/

[@reenaree1953]

I guess he is, yep.

[@Scheherazad100]

​. Not all women treat men that way. Some are in tune with men's needs for appreciation, respect and touch.

[@Dragonfighta]

Had the same thought , very sad for his wife as well - if she only knew. Reminds me of my father who keeps changing and replacing girlfriends every two or three years … and he’s 72 now😅 Women are objects to him. Full stop. True grief lasts a while. If you truly felt someone was irreplaceable and you loved them full heartedly… moving on or finding something that’s less than what you used to have is very hard. You’ll feel more peace on your own instead than accepting anything that’s less than what you had with the other person… Of course we cannot compare people and we’re all individuals and each experience is individual. But the essence of love and mutual respect and understanding is the very foundation of trust and deep connection and long term bonding … which is very very very hard to find in this world and absolutely NOT easy to replace. You can keep fostering these values within yourself until you attract it , but seeking it as quick as possible from someone else who comes by is only filling a gap and hole which you couldn’t fill within yourself in the first place. . .

[@TuesdaysTarot]

❤😊

[@christinerowland2888]

This is how you spell "lose".

[@jimlawrence344]

I disagree men value love women love value. Men can Lone Wolf it much easier than a female can for biological reasons as well as psychological reasons. This reasoning that he uses that men are more likely to bounce back faster based on their desire for sex and presuming that their desire for sex is greater than a woman's desire for sex and so therefore it is the man who is predisposed to bouncing back faster than a female. And I would say that all the biological factors would tell us that a female would be in a position to have a greater incentive to bounce back faster because of the vulnerability of being a single mother with children and or the vulnerability of a woman living on her own without the protection of a male. And this is purely from a biological evolutionary adaptation and survival perspective, free of social constructs. And so therefore there are many indicators that would suggest a female would bounce back quicker from the death of a mate and pursue a substitute mate much quicker than a man would. The fact that women intrinsically wait at the finish line and hook up with the winners is one indication that there is a very strong biological driver that would incentivize women to bounce back quicker. So in conclusion I do not think this man has made a very strong persuasive point.

[@rejectionisprotection4448]

But men certainly remarry more quickly than women. There social and biological factors at play here. If a woman becomes a single mother after divorce then it's harder for her to find a quality man. Women need to be very careful about who they date when they have dependent children. A lot of men don't want to date a single mother and are very vocal about that. Women generally find it harder to find men in their age range (late 30s+) after divorce because those men are generally seeking younger women. The older the women are, the harder it is. Another reason is that women just become tired of being caretakers, esp after a long marriage where they have been nursed a sick husband for eg and don't want to do that again. Men find it easier to remarry as they tend not to have custody of the children, don't have a biological clock and IF they're well off will find it much easier to pair up quite quickly. John Gray is right about men wanting sex, but men also get a lot of invisible benefits from women ie their unseen and often unacknowledged emotional, social and domestic labour. When an older couple (let's say both are divorced) get together and have their separate homes, the men are far more likely to push for cohabitation as they get much more of their needs met. The women normally resist this.....and for good reason.

[@salifha5584]

He didn’t answer the dam question

[@rahmasamir909]

He find it stupid

[@jacquelineevans6359]

Men try to make women jealous too

[@TH-eb5ro]

The way that he thinks about his love is not the way many men think of the women in their lives and women/men can pay attention. A healthy man does these things. Don't be fooled a mama bear kills.

[@jent6476]

Naw. You make him lose you. That's how.

[@Handle18880]

Men don’t feel love through family relationships or through their children? Only sex?!

[@andreadiodro7553]

❤

[@soniaslater8909]

No practical advice here, keeps rambling on about his wife

[@joyceprakash5377]

Load of crap

[@Juliagodschossen]

Man answer the question, blah blah blah blah blah

[@acolmer1]

John you're great but you didn't answer the question. Stop waffling

[@Fiiii4567]

He clearly stated its an old fashioned method that is MANIPULATION and not authentic. It's provokes jealousy which is base. So no need to do it. He said have sex that is what triggers love in a man

[@lisawentworth6831]

He did...he made it clear that this concept of manipulating a man and withdrawing or adding another man to the equation is antiquated...he laughed it off because all these modern female coaches still try to get us to do this!

[@summersalix]

But if a woman gives a man sex, he pulls away (also what Dr gray has said)….so what do women do?

[@alejandragalvan9901]

This is dumb advice! A way to make a man scared to lose you is to respect him! The world is so busy doing dumb things like this. Its sickening.

[@TaniaSeabock]

agree!

[@lisawentworth6831]

You are saying that respecting a man is to lose him? That's not right...you must be dating the wrong men. The right one will cherish you for respecting him...that is human nature. Respect is a mutual desire.

[@alejandragalvan9901]

@@lisawentworth6831 I am saying respect him and he will grow to love you. The bible tells men to love their wives and it tells women to respect their husband. Men dont need love, God didnt create them that way, they need respect. They certainly dont need to be manipulated and have games pkayed on them...smh. This world is sick and the outline of this video is foolish. People are so desperate for love they will do all kinds of sick things to get it, I know, I have been there but Jesus Christ has opened my eyes and he has me so complete and I lack nothing. People chase drugs, alcohol, relationships, food, status and money in this life trying to fulfill this void in them, and they dont know that their yearning can only be fulfilled through Christ.

[@alejandragalvan9901]

@@lisawentworth6831 you must have read my first comment wrong.

[@lisawentworth6831]

@@alejandragalvan9901 "A way to make a man scared to lose you is to respect him! The world is so busy doing dumb things like this. Its sickening." That is what you said...there is no me mistaking it. You further said 'men don't need love'. What are you on? But by all means, thump that bible a little louder on your soap box. John Gray is brilliant, and you my friend are full of hooey. 1