Jordan Peterson | How to Have Better Conversations

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@charlesj.easleyii7642
@charlesj.easleyii7642 4 жыл бұрын
"Assume that the person you're listening to knows something you don't." Perfect.
@jeremywolf9314
@jeremywolf9314 4 жыл бұрын
Even if they know nothing that you already do there is a lot things that they are unconscious about that you can learn.
@amarakamara9427
@amarakamara9427 4 жыл бұрын
Read his book on that! It's brilliant!
@Siquomb1
@Siquomb1 4 жыл бұрын
@@jeremywolf9314 This would take a conscious conversationalist. An aware individual. BRAVO sir!
@rum867
@rum867 4 жыл бұрын
No bragging, but I always do that, and it’s always true, the person always knows something I don’t. That also helps to listen, because you should not assume you know everything the person going to say
@bader9205
@bader9205 4 жыл бұрын
I always try to think like that!
@invaderz1919
@invaderz1919 4 жыл бұрын
"If your life isn't exactly how you want it to be, you have something to learn."
@zaveeramini9712
@zaveeramini9712 3 жыл бұрын
Your life is exactly what you want it to be.
@spanishflyevh9606
@spanishflyevh9606 3 жыл бұрын
@@zaveeramini9712 /end thread
@neoletsoalo6090
@neoletsoalo6090 2 жыл бұрын
this sparks alot of insight
@SamPhoenixKnight
@SamPhoenixKnight 2 жыл бұрын
This is dumb. He sets this up as some profound piece of wisdom but he’s just joining two ideas that everyone learns in preschool: no one knows everything, no one is perfect. Thus everyone is in a position where they could learn more AND be more fulfilled with their life. People really fall for the most hollow rhetorical trickery when it comes out of JPs mouth.
@gcolombelli
@gcolombelli 2 жыл бұрын
@@SamPhoenixKnight You'd be amazed to find out how common is to find people that either forgot or ignore those two simple facts. Perhaps you live in a bubble of very reasonable people, or perhaps you just didn't look hard enough to notice it.
@Soxaldinho
@Soxaldinho 3 жыл бұрын
"A Wise man will always learn more from a fool, than a fool can ever learn from a wiseman"
@CardsoftheQueen
@CardsoftheQueen 2 жыл бұрын
Perfect words, it resonates my sentiments.
@flashy3175
@flashy3175 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@chuckecheesesbrother5382
@chuckecheesesbrother5382 Жыл бұрын
Feel like I'm stuck being a fool 😔
@aaronwebb1548
@aaronwebb1548 Жыл бұрын
@@chuckecheesesbrother5382 You have a choice. All that is required to be a Good person is to be honest and pay attention. All else is personality. Good luck out there.
@JaneThatcher89
@JaneThatcher89 Жыл бұрын
Love it! ❤ thanks for sharing! Who originally said this? I’m assuming it’s not your words, because it’s in quotes…?
@FDosty
@FDosty 5 жыл бұрын
I've been Uber driving for about six weeks. I've found that it is a beautiful opportunity to engage in valuable conversations with complete strangers. The key is to be interested in what a man or woman has to say, and to let that man or woman know you are interested. Picking up crumbs of knowledge and dispensing those crumbs is hugely satisfying. Many riders leave my car happier and more satisfied than they were when they climbed in.
@marekszirdzins
@marekszirdzins 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing is more enriching on a business trip than another story of an Uber driver. That's the best part of it as far as I can tell.
@alecjones4135
@alecjones4135 5 жыл бұрын
Fantastic
@FDosty
@FDosty 5 жыл бұрын
@@marekszirdzins Did you get the "as far as I can tell" from Peterson?
@FIshfood500
@FIshfood500 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe their just happy to be getting out of your car so they don’t have to listen to your bullshit anymore
@jjbasilis3280
@jjbasilis3280 5 жыл бұрын
prefer uber driver to just just shut up & drve. happier when i arrive at destination safe and intact.
@orvillebrown7235
@orvillebrown7235 5 жыл бұрын
This all comes down to a simple line from Desiderata, "Listen to others, even the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story.."
@xHenry3110
@xHenry3110 5 жыл бұрын
Eh life's too short to listen to the dull...
@Boodles2007
@Boodles2007 5 жыл бұрын
Even shorter for the ignorant. Ignorance for some people is a constant.
@filmNFX1
@filmNFX1 5 жыл бұрын
That's why I'm here listening to Peterson.
@FIshfood500
@FIshfood500 5 жыл бұрын
I won’t listen to them. It’s a waste of fucking time
@humanentity5890
@humanentity5890 5 жыл бұрын
I don't waste my time listening to the dull or trying to reason with the ignorant.
@benr77
@benr77 5 жыл бұрын
5:43 talking about the audience being engaged in the conversation, girl sleeping front and center (yellow bracelet) lol
@deathrodamus9608
@deathrodamus9608 5 жыл бұрын
I Dunno, yeah I noticed too. Her money and time are wasted from the moment she slept.
@jamham69
@jamham69 5 жыл бұрын
...Our time here is completely pointless! he says XD
@Skiddla
@Skiddla 5 жыл бұрын
women.... hehehe
@MK-fy8uz
@MK-fy8uz 5 жыл бұрын
yes she was very noticeable on first watch, and i think a very good example for exactly what petersen was talking about!
@TraderGus
@TraderGus 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe his comment was directed to her specifically. He has said in other videos that he pays attention to individual members of the audience.
@vantage789
@vantage789 5 жыл бұрын
Dope sound quality.
@TheHelghast1138
@TheHelghast1138 5 жыл бұрын
The sarcasm is strong with this one
@PinkyMinions
@PinkyMinions 4 жыл бұрын
CurbsideUnderwood this one too
@RAGEMASTER1
@RAGEMASTER1 4 жыл бұрын
Michael more like the sound quality is dope sick
@AI-vy1nx
@AI-vy1nx 4 жыл бұрын
The Dopest......
@shaunredekopp2302
@shaunredekopp2302 3 жыл бұрын
Fucking brutal
@RonBarrett1954
@RonBarrett1954 3 жыл бұрын
"You can't force someone to be better." There are modern social groups who have yet to embrace this understanding.
@fortyninehike
@fortyninehike Жыл бұрын
Marxists know this; it’s not about growing, but cutting down anyone taller than you
@fncinder1415
@fncinder1415 Жыл бұрын
My friends
@WalkinChristum
@WalkinChristum 2 жыл бұрын
Just finished listening to his book, amazing man
@noahpayton8639
@noahpayton8639 2 жыл бұрын
Which one
@RXP___417
@RXP___417 Жыл бұрын
@Chad He has an audio book
@no.name.huncho215
@no.name.huncho215 Жыл бұрын
name of book?
@j.clements2093
@j.clements2093 Жыл бұрын
@@no.name.huncho215 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson.
@jfish032
@jfish032 5 жыл бұрын
And what about "How to better record a conversation"? 😳
@TheMilwaukeeProtocol
@TheMilwaukeeProtocol 4 жыл бұрын
Snap
@FirstnameLastname-jz1ux
@FirstnameLastname-jz1ux 3 жыл бұрын
BURN
@Kinobambino
@Kinobambino 3 жыл бұрын
Daaaaamn
@tiwiogunye
@tiwiogunye 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@martynan716
@martynan716 3 жыл бұрын
🙈🙉🙊
@underwaterwatchesunderwater
@underwaterwatchesunderwater Жыл бұрын
"...we're trying to pay attention, enough to see if everyone is engaged in the conversation..." 05:44 - There's a shot of the audience. And I had to laugh because there was a girl in a silver jacket with a fluorescent wristband fast asleep. Love it =)
@drakenagle
@drakenagle Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@ameredewdrop
@ameredewdrop Жыл бұрын
OMFG THANK YOU. I was just checking to see if there was someone else in the comments who noticed it and said it so that I didn't have to!!! XD!!
@spencer6288
@spencer6288 Жыл бұрын
That was so funny lmaoo I was looking for this comment xD
@lukimtb851
@lukimtb851 Жыл бұрын
I was looking for this comment 😂💯
@eXebeno
@eXebeno Жыл бұрын
i scrolled through the comments to see if anyone else thought the same hahah
@Archer-hg9rw
@Archer-hg9rw 5 жыл бұрын
The girl sleeping killed me🤣🤣🤣
@fumifoficial8338
@fumifoficial8338 3 жыл бұрын
Jajajaja, imagine her reading our comment and talking of it, it eill be amazing
@kovecsroli
@kovecsroli 3 жыл бұрын
Just right when he was talkong about impirtant is engagement in a conversation xddd
@MegaLordGaben
@MegaLordGaben 5 жыл бұрын
sound guy: "How loud do you want your microphones?" spokespeople: "yes"
@JT-cq7zo
@JT-cq7zo 5 жыл бұрын
😭😭😭😂😂
@Dplaysitcool
@Dplaysitcool 5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha!
@manictiger
@manictiger 4 жыл бұрын
Wait, the peak meter isn't supposed to be red or read "+10 db"?
@myflymkultra268
@myflymkultra268 3 жыл бұрын
@@manictiger lmaoo
@aku9725
@aku9725 11 ай бұрын
The fact his talks are free to watch are mind blowing. This man is saving younger men more than he understands. Me included. Thank you so much
@firelight3806
@firelight3806 2 ай бұрын
Women too
@aaditya_alive
@aaditya_alive 2 жыл бұрын
It is always efficient to avoid unnecessary conversations. Avoid excessive words, questions & exaggerations.
@BeinIan
@BeinIan 2 жыл бұрын
Is it? The only benefit I see is that it saves time, but applying that perspective to all of your conversations means you miss out on learning all kinds of things. Then you're forced to learn the lessons through experience, which takes much longer than the deep conversation would have. I think the nugget of truth at the center of your statement is that we should strive to express ourselves as precisely as possible to avoid misunderstandings. But even when we fail to do so, we can often learn just as much from the misunderstanding if we take time to understand it.
@joythurman9982
@joythurman9982 4 ай бұрын
@davidfernandeztirado3515
@davidfernandeztirado3515 Жыл бұрын
Bless all of u , because even if you are broken , Stoped , or lost you are here giving your first steps like me , we are toghether in this
@sudarshan3965
@sudarshan3965 3 жыл бұрын
I have slept too in many lectures but if Jordan peterson was talking in front of me I can stay awake for whole day. 5:43
@peterstilwell7953
@peterstilwell7953 Жыл бұрын
Working with a financial expert could truly set you up for life. I'm delighted I was able to contact my coach Karim .E. Karim earlier this year because while others were busy whining about the downturn I was busy cashing out finally making over 370k only for the first quarter of the year.
@rachellovescats8481
@rachellovescats8481 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your success story. I immediately typed in your coach's name to discover him on Google. He's simple to deal with, and his signals are excellent as well.
@lynnpeterson3763
@lynnpeterson3763 Жыл бұрын
@@jamalraymond1074 I just searched His name on Google and found him easily, how have I been sleeping on this!
@elpresidente7569
@elpresidente7569 Жыл бұрын
this is a bot, dont be fooled by the almost perfect 500 likes and the fact that all the comments were made in the exact same 10 second timeframe
@milant4810
@milant4810 Жыл бұрын
​@@elpresidente7569yep and all accounts creted 11 months ago😂😂😂. Very strange
@worlore1651
@worlore1651 11 ай бұрын
Bot
@jennakarpe2783
@jennakarpe2783 3 жыл бұрын
We are so lucky to have Jordan Peterson and grateful that his family shares him with us
@Hxbile
@Hxbile Жыл бұрын
you mean that he shares himself with us he is not anyone's property.
@akbarpashtun
@akbarpashtun Жыл бұрын
Yes, thankful to his family for his time on such works. Such people have very less family time
@dardhadard837
@dardhadard837 3 жыл бұрын
The equalizing of the audio is phenomenal: all of the earrape frequencies have been blasted up, and the vocal frequencies have been kicked down it seems. TEACH ME THIS
@marekszirdzins
@marekszirdzins 5 жыл бұрын
A person speaking his mind. A miracle, unbelievable stuff!
@spakess.e.e7015
@spakess.e.e7015 3 жыл бұрын
When there is demand for knowledge. Even the most valuble knowledge can be supplied in the most casual conversations.
@kar3n35
@kar3n35 4 жыл бұрын
The other day i had a great conversation with a guy at a tire shop. About hiswelding carrier. I love it when a guycan just feel comfortable talking about something simple.
@gmail2007wvu
@gmail2007wvu 5 жыл бұрын
The model outlier ... authentic and oozing the truth about so many aspects of this existence
@meowwmies
@meowwmies 5 жыл бұрын
Really like how he talks and thinks I can't stop watching clips like this and others.
@abinpathrosevijayan3489
@abinpathrosevijayan3489 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant insight!! Very thoughtful n dedicated of him to analyse people!
@brightonfoster2288
@brightonfoster2288 3 жыл бұрын
this sounds like my conversations back in mw2
@veneziagreg21
@veneziagreg21 5 жыл бұрын
What a great conversation
@yodizzll
@yodizzll 3 жыл бұрын
"if your suffering more than you think is necessary, that means that you are more ignorant than you need to be" holy shit that was on the nose.
@RoyBrown777
@RoyBrown777 5 жыл бұрын
Unbelievable, a Jordan Peterson video without an unrelated clickbait title. Every time I keep thinking he will tell me the meaning of life and I end up learning something else entirely lol
@achraflabdouni5770
@achraflabdouni5770 Жыл бұрын
Why would you want to know the meaning of life from a human he is a creature like you he struggles with life like you he have his own problem like you...if you want to know the meaning of life go read God words (allah)
@Nicoladen1
@Nicoladen1 Жыл бұрын
And perhaps that in itself is the meaning 😁 Learning more and more until you've learned so much that you realize logic was after all not what life is about. Life is experience, all thought and logic is pausing life to comment on said experience. Looking for meaning is neglecting life to stick to your notebook all your life finding meaning. Until at last you realize you missed the point completely. How to live happily? Live fully. Stop commenting on everything life has to offer, because you're not fully alive when you're stuck in that notebook. That's why kids are so joyful, why sunsets can be beautiful. Because just for a moment we close that notebook of logic and reasoning and we just embrace the experience. That's all.
@adaptercrash
@adaptercrash Жыл бұрын
​​​@@achraflabdouni5770 those things from pluto? Some ancient satellite that emits frequencies and talks to people and controls half the population on earth?
@dragonmom495
@dragonmom495 Жыл бұрын
Spent too many years with someone who wouldn't hear me, and would commonly respond with emotionally abusive tactics. Now trying to relearn how to allow others in and have a collaboration and conversation rather than hiding behind the fear and nervously talking about myself. To trust allowing someone to be heard and listened to and take interest in them well, and chance being shut out by another human and made to feel invisible is so hard.
@TimAldredge
@TimAldredge 3 жыл бұрын
The topic is almost as amazing as how they change seat positions twice in just 6 minutes without ever getting up.
@GLo1991
@GLo1991 3 жыл бұрын
@@977-1 bro duh. It’s a joke
@lorrainelez1
@lorrainelez1 3 жыл бұрын
😁 Yeah I was kinda confused at first.
@suttonelms1
@suttonelms1 5 жыл бұрын
Another interesting video - thanks for posting.
@gweschuck
@gweschuck 3 жыл бұрын
5:45 is priceless. JP taking about how if the crowd isn’t engaged then the conversation is pointless....pan to girl in crowd completely unconscious.
@ryanfrizzell736
@ryanfrizzell736 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the information. This improves my communication.
@DrCool-oe6di
@DrCool-oe6di 5 жыл бұрын
the last phrase he says was most profound and significant to me
@1dw1
@1dw1 Жыл бұрын
"You're not listening" by Kate Murphy. Great book that talks about having better conversations. This video reminded me of it :)
@kamvaallan2653
@kamvaallan2653 5 жыл бұрын
Prof P. Jordan, Thank You for being the person you are & taking a firm stand on what you believe, think & feel. You talk straight to the souls of us young man. Thank you 🙏🏾. If you were an army general/commander i'ld join the army straight right away & would die in honour under Ur unshaken command.
@alexbaribeault
@alexbaribeault 2 жыл бұрын
Chill dude. Let's not form a cult around Jordan Peterson
@Alexbottiman
@Alexbottiman 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan: "There seems to be a massive and relatively untapped market for actual conversation." Clubhouse: Oh hi there
@joseabad2552
@joseabad2552 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this incredible information ❤
@bennyblubman9476
@bennyblubman9476 2 жыл бұрын
Every video is about being a better listener and I don't struggle with that. I just don't have anything of value to say. I struggle with starting conversations. I can't just keep starting conversations by asking questions.
@carolekelley23
@carolekelley23 3 жыл бұрын
Also we learn just how much we have in common
@koltonjones866
@koltonjones866 5 жыл бұрын
I've been thinking that for longer than I remember.
@Rick-tm3vs
@Rick-tm3vs 4 жыл бұрын
Great video hope it would be all available.
@crystalsbeetzjones5421
@crystalsbeetzjones5421 5 жыл бұрын
Meaningful conversation and seeking wisdom, a fair assumption that its what we want, it seems that a lot of people my self included were just a pile of mouthbreathers bringing our answers and opinions to the table. Now I dont feel so weird about listening with intent to seek someone elses knowledge and seeing how I can use it was what I loved to do. Finding people to have that conversation with is tough most of the time. Life feels like a Zoo of loose animals,( I'm a bird) so I just like listening to your p.o.v. Sometimes I just cant understand your point, but when I do, oh boy, I see the puzzle differently, like my meditations and where they begin in my mind, is so beyond tv or imagination wow, I knew I was connected with God but you helped me confirm that, I live so far north in Ontario that going to another city to see you speak is a serious goal...hoping for Winnipeg on July 9, or was it 29th...hmmm
@TheSports_Line
@TheSports_Line 3 жыл бұрын
Very enlightening. I needed to hear this
@ignorantmangg6139
@ignorantmangg6139 Жыл бұрын
Man oh man how good this is
@hanaabdullah1682
@hanaabdullah1682 7 ай бұрын
For so many years I had this idea of “I know exactly what the other person would say in a particular conversation” so I don’t have to pay any attention to what they want to say, I think that would work if you know that person for so long that you’ll know what they will say about something. But after this video I started to realize that was totally different and that person likely would say something entirely useful and you could learn from it
@Nicoladen1
@Nicoladen1 2 жыл бұрын
A good conversation is one in which both parties realize their innate uniqueness and equal value.
@TheFishThatBobblesBub
@TheFishThatBobblesBub 5 ай бұрын
What are you doing in this planet being so wise. You should be like Jordan Peterson my friend
@indianflippingart9593
@indianflippingart9593 4 ай бұрын
💀​@@TheFishThatBobblesBub
@benjaminduke48
@benjaminduke48 5 жыл бұрын
These are very good plan points to a conversation. How many of us actually have these types of chats. I see, after reflection, it's very rare in my life. I'm to busy trying to walk my path, to stop and smell the flowers.🤔
@MathPhysicsFunwithGus
@MathPhysicsFunwithGus Жыл бұрын
Amazing lessons!
@albieoval1657
@albieoval1657 Жыл бұрын
look how he stares off onto the ground when listening. I’ve seen this before in other people . Gives I’m holier than thou vibes
@data1.078
@data1.078 5 жыл бұрын
2019, the year when someone can be inspiring by knowing how to hold a decent conversation...
@AQS521
@AQS521 5 жыл бұрын
Supreme Happiness lol, right! I wonder if future generations will have more socially inept skills due to most conversations occurring through technology.
@kianhughes6309
@kianhughes6309 Жыл бұрын
I love how he talks about paying the audience attention to see if they’re engaged in the conversation, and the camera cuts to a girl sleeping in the audience at 05:44 XD
@pylovo7393
@pylovo7393 3 жыл бұрын
Living genius & legend
@ybwang7124
@ybwang7124 Жыл бұрын
just try to be benevolent at every word. Easy!
@kartikkesarwani1320
@kartikkesarwani1320 5 жыл бұрын
Love how Peterson says "Okay.?" when he doesn't agree. He doesn't outright disagree with you but you know he's not on the same page.
@medicated.nihilist
@medicated.nihilist 5 жыл бұрын
I think if you had write it down the way he says it you'd have to write "Okay.?;"
@kartikkesarwani1320
@kartikkesarwani1320 5 жыл бұрын
Agreed and updated
@pascaltomasovic3586
@pascaltomasovic3586 4 жыл бұрын
@Ligeia D.Aurevilly i learned that unless you tell people: oh yes, i absolutely agree on what you just said in the last (specific amount of time), BUT... they will always assume that you didn't listen to them, or how else could you possibly have a different opinion and view on things. and it really pisses ME off. engaging in conversations is something i really like to do, but apparently most of the people i'm talking to are not interested in opinions that differ from theirs and they will start changing topics before you fully articulated your view of one topic, leaving your arguments incomplete and seemingly weak.
@TheHelghast1138
@TheHelghast1138 5 жыл бұрын
The sound quality truly amplified those awesome socks... Guess the original sound guy moved up the dominance hierarchy.
@isaacisland1
@isaacisland1 5 жыл бұрын
Brilliant haha. Yes! He's ascended to become king of lobsters, crustaceans overlord.
@mickelsimf9956
@mickelsimf9956 4 жыл бұрын
Smirk*
@kwall1464
@kwall1464 3 жыл бұрын
So good!
@compilations9032
@compilations9032 3 жыл бұрын
Sound quality heat bro🔥🔥🔥
@jakeworsley2058
@jakeworsley2058 3 жыл бұрын
I was court mandated drink therapy, i did not take it serious just say what you need to tick the boxes was easy. After years of making an absolutely catastrophe of my life it was finding Jordan Peterson’s ideas and philosophy of life has had a huge impact of my life i believe I’m the best I’ve ever been but getting better every day, even though tough times I strive to make whatever the bad evil situation maybe I make it the best it can be
@mwhme1132
@mwhme1132 4 жыл бұрын
I love how 5:43 was so engaged that she passed out.
@bettyhaines2570
@bettyhaines2570 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@saidfarid6382
@saidfarid6382 Жыл бұрын
Hello Professor Thank you so much for your help job,i do appreciate your job.I wish you peace and happness under the sky of prosperity. All the best. Take care and have a good time. Your Student from Algeria.
@DeadLuckArchives
@DeadLuckArchives 5 жыл бұрын
Listening to everyone, really listening and hoping to join them in their perspective regardless of how you feel about them is quite possibly the most difficult, yet admirable traits to earn. I've known a few people that can do this and it really is earned. Its something you work for with years of practice. It requires patience, compassion, understanding, and a deep innate calm. I personally fucking hate people and don't see myself getting there anytime soon, but one can hope!
@SeanTheDon17
@SeanTheDon17 5 жыл бұрын
His insight into the Human Condition is amazing
@joshuadoland5479
@joshuadoland5479 Жыл бұрын
Talking about engagement at the end and there is someone asleep in their chair. Every time I listen to this guy my perception about something is completely flipped. Every time I have some tiny revelation about something that I've never concisely acknowledged
@ShaneKlaasen-qg7hy
@ShaneKlaasen-qg7hy Жыл бұрын
Enjoying conversation is the cheapest luxury ever ,I so enjoy it
@jaws5038
@jaws5038 3 жыл бұрын
Jordan Peterson: “If everyone is engaged in the conversation” Girl with green bracelet (5:45) :
@im2524
@im2524 3 жыл бұрын
lol 🤣
@TheSpacePyramids
@TheSpacePyramids 5 жыл бұрын
People are more concerned with the audio quality rather than the message... smh did u receive the message? I certainly gained insight from the clip.
@veryconfused5158
@veryconfused5158 5 жыл бұрын
It genuinely hurts to listen to, I had to stop.
@SimulationSeries
@SimulationSeries 5 жыл бұрын
well said! the message is SO crucial
@devvv4616
@devvv4616 5 жыл бұрын
Lol didn't realize it was such an issue. Just lower the volume if it hurts your ears, that's simple enough
@DoveDescendingMusic
@DoveDescendingMusic 5 жыл бұрын
Gross generalisation, that’s probably worse than people trying to connect and have a relatable chuckle at the video. Does not mean these people aren’t getting woke.
@saxonelyaman9212
@saxonelyaman9212 5 жыл бұрын
TheSpacePyramids chill out bruh not that serious
@rj5801
@rj5801 Жыл бұрын
I'm trying reintegrate back into my own family, social structures, etc... I was having an issue with funding a purpose in speaking with people because of the thinking "who really cares, this prob doesn't matter to you so why share it?" in legitimately every conversation I waa having to the pojnt where I just started being short with everyone. No substance just enough to answer what was asked to avoid judgement or confusion. That's life though, finding the answers, finding the purpose. It just gets weird sometimes, I try not to be stoic as a result of the unanswered and assumed and just be glad I'm curious at all. I'd like to shape my curiousity into a more positive tool, just not sure how yet. But I'm learning.
@KULTURESHOKENT
@KULTURESHOKENT Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@NemoNoirNobody
@NemoNoirNobody 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait till I can afford to have him as my therapist 😂
@thumbsupd5164
@thumbsupd5164 4 жыл бұрын
u d be rich by then, u won t need him! but a nice motive though.
@patman_for_sure
@patman_for_sure 4 жыл бұрын
@@thumbsupd5164 rich people still need therapy, don't you think?
@scorzi10
@scorzi10 4 жыл бұрын
thumbs up :D you got the message wrong if you think money is the end all be all
@Psalm_27.4
@Psalm_27.4 3 жыл бұрын
@Nacho until then, watch his videos multiple times. You will gain a lot. Also, here is another video series even better: MEN'S THEOLOGY CLASS (A great biblical resource about REAL manhood kzbin.info/aero/PLoVDFR2cdnEFRis2wzx1RzQpIxJkQu_cP This will actually have a therapeutic effect, IF you are receptive! Blessings!
@Mo-rf9ev
@Mo-rf9ev 2 жыл бұрын
Is it expensive?
@bauerfilms4832
@bauerfilms4832 5 жыл бұрын
The girl at 5:44 at bottom of screen looks engaged in the convo
@SimulationSeries
@SimulationSeries 5 жыл бұрын
Hahah right!
@miramardream
@miramardream 5 жыл бұрын
Bauer Films Hahaha. So true. He says “engaged” & there she is -engaged-😔 ☺️
@kimbliss8429
@kimbliss8429 4 жыл бұрын
That's awesome... LOL Pays to listen to Jordan B Peterson speak... Sleeps through it...
@whateverman374
@whateverman374 4 жыл бұрын
Interesting how the interviewer seems to have acknowledged that engaging with the audience may be an asset given his field of work. He actually shifted his position towards the audience, also, when JP pointed out the reasoning of engaging with them. While JP was talking, he looked something like " You serious? Alright I`ll give it a try, ok, sure, no problem O.o " :))
@babington4394
@babington4394 Жыл бұрын
There are so many gurus out there who promise to turn you into the chief ministers of charisma with psychological tricks and techniques, when, in reality, humility and natural intrigue is the key to any conversation.
@obelixco1148
@obelixco1148 5 жыл бұрын
Did anyone else notice the girl asleep at 5:40 hahahahaha just when Jordan was talking about engaging with the audience
@lazerbotshims9795
@lazerbotshims9795 4 жыл бұрын
Peterson is right. The person has to want to be helped and be willing. I've learned that the hard way on more then one occasion that you cannot force it which is difficult if you want to help them badly enough and they are being difficult or even impossible. You care about there well being enough to be a bit aggressive when they forsake themselves and everything that matters and you get less forceful every new person yet when it gets frustrating enough to the point that it feels futile you can get quite amgry about their behavior and its hard to let it go and leave them to their bad choices even if you know that's the only choice they've given you because it feels like your giving up on them but in reality its them who are giving up and you just don't want to sit there and destroy yourself watching them destroy themselves and you.. Which walking away can so very difficult.. Its like the 100 there's a scene where Monty is trying his absolute hardest to change his friend jaspers mind but he is unable to and stays on that track to the bitter end. to be there when jasper drinks a drug that kills himself.. Its a very powerful scene and shows you how bad this situation can get.
@Blackie894
@Blackie894 10 ай бұрын
That scene fucked me up but I could see Jasper was dead for a long time
@EnriqueFlores26
@EnriqueFlores26 Жыл бұрын
equanimous: adjective calm and composed
@kerrydiculo
@kerrydiculo Жыл бұрын
The girl at the bottom on 5:43 is timed perfectly with what peterson is saying right there
@seanbedolla1521
@seanbedolla1521 5 жыл бұрын
I like the color of the couches
@josephvillarreal5594
@josephvillarreal5594 5 жыл бұрын
Dude. You are one of my heros. Your up there with Elon Musk and Joe Rogan. I love listening to yalls points of views. I learn so much from your videos.
@jasminguric6079
@jasminguric6079 5 жыл бұрын
hahaha
@jorgexcalderonful
@jorgexcalderonful 5 жыл бұрын
Joe Rogan? Ah haha
@mariehyld9858
@mariehyld9858 5 жыл бұрын
5:44 - talking about engagement
@romanastrasheim4895
@romanastrasheim4895 5 жыл бұрын
Listen more ... Thank you.
@samschmit3686
@samschmit3686 4 жыл бұрын
5:44 - Does anybody else see the girl sleeping when Jordan talks about people being engaged? I mean, his point is still valid but that is hilarious
@psychpinoy123
@psychpinoy123 2 жыл бұрын
If you on the caption bar, just remove it, for you to see the sleeping girl.
@koketsobaholo7
@koketsobaholo7 4 жыл бұрын
So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:10
@whyme3546
@whyme3546 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!❤️
@colingallagher4739
@colingallagher4739 3 жыл бұрын
Brilliant
@affansiddhiqui3739
@affansiddhiqui3739 3 жыл бұрын
Mics getting so better these days !
@MrJjthecronfan
@MrJjthecronfan 5 жыл бұрын
@5:43 that girl looked pretty engaged in her dreams !!
@patiofurniture143
@patiofurniture143 4 жыл бұрын
Which side is the speaker on, I'm confused
@Larry21924
@Larry21924 4 ай бұрын
This is a treasure trove of insights. A book I read recently was equally enriching. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint
@keni95851
@keni95851 10 ай бұрын
Making assumptions about people is a great starting point
@chasejeffries983
@chasejeffries983 3 жыл бұрын
5:44 "we're paying enough attention to see if you're engaged in the conversation" immediately pans to a girl asleep in her chair
@MO-vi5sz
@MO-vi5sz 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@spiegs498
@spiegs498 5 жыл бұрын
How come they switch places in the middle of a sentence?
@queenjosannedouglas3038
@queenjosannedouglas3038 3 жыл бұрын
Record Conversation is Good you could be able to playback them and it will be evidence for future reference tho 💯💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥
@lPlanetarizado
@lPlanetarizado 3 жыл бұрын
3:03 - 3:16 ..I have to agree to that.....some people looks like idiots, but sometimes they know something you dont and it is pretty surprising and great
@sebmaio4
@sebmaio4 5 жыл бұрын
Just found this clip and listened and watched and was delighted, as usual, with Prof. Peterson. Then I read the comments. I would say that 90% of them are by people who were so distracted by non-essentials that they completely missed the lessons talked about. So many said the sound was bad, but so what. The voices were still intelligible. If the clip sound quality annoys you to the point of insanity, stop watching! Some saw their counterparts in the audience sleeping, or not engaging, e.g., oh look - Squirrel!!! Didn't like the socks? Who cares what you don't like. Some people enjoy discussions like this and are serious about "learning from conversations." Others, like some of the commenters merely want a free showcase for their disruptive, mean-spirited "jokes" which, unfortunately, are not funny. Peterson, when in his clinical mode, is at his most fascinating and down to earth, and human. Then I have hope for the future.
@snowframe2995
@snowframe2995 4 жыл бұрын
5:33 That one lady is sleeping 🤣
@heartsie732
@heartsie732 3 жыл бұрын
In simple words, one should be meek and teachable.
@MrShadow21323
@MrShadow21323 3 жыл бұрын
WOOOO!!! That sound quality been getting them GAINS! 😏
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