I was raised Christian and conservative and homeschooled and my wife and I caught one of my brothers molesting one of my daughters. We reported it immediately to authorities and my family cut us off. The case has still yet to go to trial. It’s been 4 years. But I have no regrets. I would’ve done it again even if I had known what would’ve happened. We must speak out and we must protect our children, no matter the cost.
@PinkPosy13 жыл бұрын
There is a definite arrogance in the fundie community believing they are immune from such things or can cure everything with prayer. Josh always had a creepiness that the other brothers didn’t. His children will now suffer greatly. It’s interesting that the Duggar girls who have married (even other fundamentalists) are probably more protected than women that marry into the family.
@emmabbyreborns3413 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing. We are our children’s shield against evil. If we don’t protect them, no one will.
@piedpiper70513 жыл бұрын
He's lucky you didn't kill him. For 4 years he's out living his life but your daughter is living a life sentence. I hope she received some counseling.
@pamelafulks5823 жыл бұрын
shame on your "family".You are the better person....thank you for caring for the victims.
@psychiccarline96533 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing
@luvmorrisey203 жыл бұрын
I don’t care if you’re my son, if you do this to your SISTERS or any other girl, I’m turning you in!!!!!! This is unacceptable.
@pamvikingson15163 жыл бұрын
They made it sound like it was the girls fault he did it.
@rosannecole49923 жыл бұрын
Jim bob tells Michelle to keep quite to keep the show going
@IvorGrumble3 жыл бұрын
@@pamvikingson1516 So what's new lol
@SpiritualBabydoll2 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I work at a domestic violence and sexual assault agency and any inappropriate touch/ rape is sick and needs repercussions. Those chains the victim feels is a life sentence. I don’t trust my child with ANYONE, it’s sad but true…
@idakristinedemesa52342 жыл бұрын
If I had a son who did it to his sisters, I wouldn’t turn him in but would severely punish him and then have him go through therapy or treatment. I also would have to contruct a small house/unit for him in the backyard as I wouldn’t trust him to be sleeping under the same roof with his sisters.
@MrHappyGoLucky3 жыл бұрын
The problem is that his parents didn't care that their little girls were being assaulted. If they did there would have been no conflict at all about turning him into the police.
@patriciaceja61123 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't doubt Jim Bob is the one who taught Josh it was ok to do that to his sisters. By words and by his actions. I have a feeling there is more of the same from the rest of the siblings.
@TurkeyFarmerGirl3 жыл бұрын
They blamed the girls, they some how caused Josh to do this.
@MeganVictoriaKearns3 жыл бұрын
@@TurkeyFarmerGirl That's just way beyond disturbing to me. WAAAY disturbing. Those poor girls did NOTHING WRONG!!! JimBob makes me physically ill.
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr15643 жыл бұрын
He was still their son. I can't really fault them for wanting to keep things in-house. Edit: Not condoning anything before anyone gets triggered.
@jmhellmann52362 жыл бұрын
@@tamara6212 Women are not rehab centers for broken men. Anna is also a victim of this toxic culture.
@Tsumami__3 жыл бұрын
I’m honestly more interested in the psychology behind Anna, his wife, and why she is unable to bring herself to leave him even though he is a danger to not only children but their own.
@robyncook34063 жыл бұрын
It’s because she has had it drummed into her that she gets married has children as many as God wants you to have and it’s her failings that has caused Josh to do these things. She has had no life skills outside of family. Has t worked so no means of bringing money into the house. It’s really sad!!
@roundrobinsonny97923 жыл бұрын
She's in denial, how awful for her and children
@jeffb.48003 жыл бұрын
It seems like women are raised to be completely submissive to men. Also, it seems like they are taught their only purpose is to be a wife and reproduce.
@PresleysMom5043 жыл бұрын
Have you seen what the sketchier reports have said about her beliefs surrounding the arrest? It’s being said she truly believes this was a “political attack” and had Trump been president it wouldn’t have occurred. Normally I think reports from trash media are BS but seriously think this time they may be right...
@vegasgirl35383 жыл бұрын
I think part of it is religion, but part is fear. The Duggars financially support her. If she leaves, she's on her own with seven kids, no education and no work experience. Her parents are poor and live in a single-wide trailer. She probably feels staying put is her only option.
@delightful233 жыл бұрын
I was molested by my step dad from the ages of 7-12 and he was never held accountable and has recommitted his crimes over the past 50 years with no repercussions whatsoever and I just don’t understand why these men are rarely brought to justice, they just keep getting away with it.
@jenna.w.90413 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you experienced this!
@melshaw2643 жыл бұрын
nope. sometimes being a victim is more offensive than pursuing consequences for the offender. it’s sick.
@AJ-qi4yn3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we need to take justice into are own hands.
@dianaendo17423 жыл бұрын
Find a way to give the mother of his kids a heads up, either anonymous note in someone else's handwriting mailed far from where you live or a straight up, just letting you know, sent to her via a greeting card as it's likely not to be intercepted. It's worth trying to protect the kids. Or, you could contact CPS. Chances are really high he offended after you.
@grannygotcha98093 жыл бұрын
I have seen adults cringe when the subject of sexual abuse comes up. These are mostly social workers who knew both the client and criminal. The subject was too difficult for them to discuss. I was really shocked. So shocked.
@knockeledup3 жыл бұрын
I always felt bad for the older Duggar kids, especially the girls, because it wasn’t their decision to keep adding to the family yet they were the ones saddled with caring for all the kids.
@helenlesczynski39892 жыл бұрын
I too always thought this. Those older girls didn’t ask to be parents, yet the babies at some point were always assigned to them for care so the mom could have another. It was abusive and gross.
@harrynac60172 жыл бұрын
I'm appalled how raising your daughters to be happily available to their future husbands is not a crime. The girls are set up to be potentially abused in the future and can only hope (sorry...pray) to get a husband that will not take advantage of the situation. Specially because a lot of those marriages seems to be arranged, and the men know their wives should be happily available. And being homeschooled doesn't give them much of an opportunity to see that things can be different. The parents get the freedom to take the freedom of the kids it seems.
@harrynac60172 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah, and child labour rules do not apply if you're working for free for your parents apparently.
@marisawoods2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I'm a Christian, and always felt like these parents were ridiculous. Their children were suffering because of their selfish behavior. The mom was a baby factory, and the kids surrogate parents. Something negative was inevitable.
@susansparanormalpennsylvan812 жыл бұрын
i noticed in a few shows, jessa and jinger would play dumb, and say they couldnt cook, i think they did that so they wouldnt have more responsibility
@vbvermont3 жыл бұрын
“Oh look at me; I’m technically alive! When did that become a skill?” Dr. Grande bringin’ the shade like a boss.
@leamacleod59033 жыл бұрын
Look out smudge
@susancheer59813 жыл бұрын
And the best part is that some folks pay good money every month to watch these toobers make coffee in their converted school bus. Oh well. But that was indeed a great comment.
@carishaw41433 жыл бұрын
I got a good laugh out of this comment, got to admit Dr Grande was right!
@D-me-dream-smp3 жыл бұрын
Perfect summary.
@auntcecelia3 жыл бұрын
I was just about to leave the exact same comment. Too funny !
@BuzzyStreet3 жыл бұрын
The parents cared more for their own reputations (and money making opportunities) and their precious son than they did about their own daughters who were victimized.
@flibber1233 жыл бұрын
In their way of life women and girls don't count for much. They are there just to produce offspring, that's it.
@pamelaboswell97153 жыл бұрын
Exactly. They knew their meal ticket was toast once this got out. THey did nothing to right any of it for their children, whom they claim to think are so precious that they must keep bringing them into the world. Actions speak louder than words.
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
Why are you saying that nasty thing about these parents?
@jujubean54ify3 жыл бұрын
Josh Duggar has six children. I’d bet he’s been inappropriate with them.
@Griselda_Puppy3 жыл бұрын
@B McCabe *I was just wondering if he had. I'm thinking it's a very high possibility. Also, I wonder if his wife has left her kids alone with him also an extremely high possibility that she has. **_VERY_** disgusting, all the way around! There's a special place in hell for people who **_RUIN_** innocent children's lives by violating them in this way!*
@kimchrisjohnson3 жыл бұрын
The girls all wanting a single room in the house makes sense. They thought there would be safety in numbers to protect them from Josh. Clearly there was no one else there to protect them
@SjofnBM19893 жыл бұрын
That's just chilling, and makes so much sense.
@MickiClick13 жыл бұрын
The parents were too busy making babies to worry about what was going on in the daughters rooms by a pervert son.
@leslielousma79133 жыл бұрын
I saw an interview (clip) of the parents in either their bedroom or the girls (couldn’t tell) and it had a lock high up on the inside! So much that was blatantly obvious that so many viewers missed, myself included!
@lizsays33243 жыл бұрын
After Josh told his father he was molesting the sisters, the parents decided the way to stop this was to have all the girls sleep in one room, in their clothes, and they locked them in. That's when he molested the babysitter.
@EvelineUK2 жыл бұрын
And when Josh admitted his actions to his parents, their solution was to put a lock on the girl's room, not the boy's room....
@mkim40913 жыл бұрын
"oh wow they had children"-"Who could of seen that coming, where did that idea even come from" LOL
@sugarspice69023 жыл бұрын
I think that was fave part of his video today!
@ritahall23783 жыл бұрын
There’s no humor in pedophilia or anything said in this video.
@janewright3153 жыл бұрын
@@ritahall2378 Humour is an important tool of healthy human coping behaviour. What is truly serious is you trying to shame people for approaching difficult subjects- sometimes ones which can be particularly triggering due to personal trauma- in a manner which allows them to diffuse stress and maintain mental health.
@nadgey303 жыл бұрын
😅
@ritahall23783 жыл бұрын
@@janewright315 There’s no place in my mind for humor when a child is being violated , raped , and robbed of who they were as a human being before this crime against nature happened to them . It is a lifetime of healing for victims. Something is wrong with you
@msstammy3 жыл бұрын
Will the next spin off be called "19 years to life"? Lock the parents up while they're at it. They tried to cover this up.
@kenlucas70253 жыл бұрын
Good one! 👍
@myozbubble3 жыл бұрын
LOL Dr. G missed a zinger not coming up with 19 years to life! You win the Internet!!!
@maneckineckbeard17493 жыл бұрын
Hah! I made this same quip when the news broke!
@debbikruzel3 жыл бұрын
@mssta I hope his cell mate is Bubba the back door man
@candiceyoung82443 жыл бұрын
I hope so
@Duneswalker3 жыл бұрын
One of his first mistakes was describing his family as "the epitome of Christian values." None of us should hold ourself up to that kind of standard, because that's just not true.
@cindysandberg6432 жыл бұрын
Love this.
@cindysandberg6432 жыл бұрын
@Mrs Flo
@benny_lemon51232 жыл бұрын
I thought JC himself was supposed to be the epitome of christian values lol
@walelu7772 жыл бұрын
As a Christian, I don’t believe we should put other people on pedestals. We should only model ourselves after Christ, because people are imperfect and will always let you down
@Mithrandir693 жыл бұрын
"People were paying attention to the family, because of its... size." Love that delivery!
@denisenilsson13663 жыл бұрын
Jim Bob and Michelle should find new hobbies. So should Josh and Anna.
@Joelswinger343 жыл бұрын
Because of their f****ing craziness!
@myrtle12343 жыл бұрын
The daughters of the family have received the message loud and clear. Our son is more important than you, our reputation is more important than your, our bottom line is more important than you. Those parents are nauseating in multiple ways.
@CarolineBearoline3 жыл бұрын
I want to add "I'm technically alive" to the skills section of my resume now lol
@sapphirerose33153 жыл бұрын
Me too, lol.
@islandblind3 жыл бұрын
@@sapphirerose3315 Would "being alive" fall under the category of "special skills?"
@sapphirerose33153 жыл бұрын
@@islandblind along with breathing and heart beating lol
@esteemedmortal59173 жыл бұрын
Why stop there? Could be one’s title on a business card XD
@islandblind3 жыл бұрын
@@sapphirerose3315 LOL!
@MsKK9093 жыл бұрын
The Duggar’s have one daughter who married, but she and her husband chose to not join the Duggar’s church, although they are Christians. Because of this, the daughter and her husband have been shunned by the family.... one of the cardinal signs of a cult.
@mangot5893 жыл бұрын
What? Who? I’ve never heard of this daughter. And I watched them when they only had like 14 kids.
@lindsayb78113 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Jill Dillard.
@mangot5893 жыл бұрын
@@lindsayb7811 I wasn’t aware she was “shunned”. 🤔
@lindsayb78113 жыл бұрын
@@mangot589 estranged would be a better definition.
@mangot5893 жыл бұрын
@@lindsayb7811 Oh, ok thanks. I was confused a bit lol.
@glizzard18943 жыл бұрын
I grew up in the church that tried to "rehabilitate" Duggar through prayer and physical labor. I left when I was in my teens, long before this. The church declared Josh cured as he managed not to reoffend during his stay. He was housed with adult men and not given access to anything other than a Bible and his "character workbook." All his waking hours were spent in physical labor or prayer. How much trouble could he get into in that environment? Plus, the church and "addictions ministry" are run by a pastor who claims to have a PhD, but doesn't. What he has is a Messiah Complex. Think Jim Jones with less drugs.
@judyarvy37022 жыл бұрын
Well it didn't work!
@lavaniadelrey28072 жыл бұрын
@@judyarvy3702 and it’s not to say that it can’t work, prayer absolutely works but a person must exercise their God-given free will to turn away from evil. It’s a shame...he’s sick.
@bclassie88103 жыл бұрын
Court allowed Josh to be around his children with Anna supervision. If she’s blind to his behavior does anyone honestly believe she’ll watch him?
@patriciaceja61123 жыл бұрын
She'll watch him up to a point. I have no doubt if he ordered her to leave him alone with one if them she would. Bad choice, judge. There are people who work at CPS who do just that. They supervise visits. Why didn't the judge appoint a professional to supervise?
@lauranovak84073 жыл бұрын
yup, SleepingWithTheEnemy
@angelagak3993 жыл бұрын
And she is blind to it. She's completely in denial. She thinks he's innocent; she's believing every word Josh tells her. I always found it so creepy how she physically hangs off him all the time. It's just weird. And she looks at him like he's God. It creeps me out. There is SO much dysfunction in that family due to the religious cult they're in. Sigh.
@Saintsrockitall3 жыл бұрын
@@angelagak399 They are not in a cult.
@angelagak3993 жыл бұрын
@@Saintsrockitall The IBLP is a cult. What on earth else would you call it?
@honeybunch57653 жыл бұрын
Over 200 images of children from the ages of 18 months to 12 years old and in the top 5 worst the agent has ever seen...🤢 Can't even imagine how those who have to investigate these images must feel and the psychological impact it must have on them. I do not want that job ever, no amount of money can convince me to do it. Loads of respect and sympathy to those who have to do this job. Josh's wife creeps me out too, I get she is conditioned to stand by her man but heck when is enough, enough?
@Constitutionalist762 жыл бұрын
They proabably like looking at this sick stuff. Creepy cops.
@Constitutionalist762 жыл бұрын
@Citrus Couldn't pay me to sift through that shit. I'd either throw up or end up with a violent disposition toward humans. I have to imagine the videos are worse than photos. The fact that people access the dark web for this shit specifically, should increase the punishment they get.
@lightsideendings58152 жыл бұрын
Apparently one of the videos Josh had in his possession is very infamously terrible, so bad that its name is known among Internet culture outside the predator underground. I won't repeat its name here. But if he was getting off to THAT without any remorse, that tells you in seconds that he has absolutely no love in his heart for anyone. None whatsoever.
@regularstan62122 жыл бұрын
I remember reading a new paper article of cops that were caught when investigating other people. I guess investigating that stuff can also warp someone.
@idakristinedemesa52342 жыл бұрын
Some of those vids were from Peter Scully’s, an Australian con artist and pedophile who made child porn with violence in the Philippines. In one instance, he videoed and strangled to death an 11 yo girl. His youngest victim was 5 yo.
@cko86433 жыл бұрын
Wait, wait, hold on here--I've had to rewind this a few times--so James Hutchins, an Arkansas State Trooper, a man Josh was counseled by, went to prison too for child pornography? Wait, What?! My brain can't take all this in at one time. Geez...can this get more weirder/infuriating? What the h***?
@smalltowngirl47663 жыл бұрын
He was one sick guy. And luckily got caught.
@AmandaPaige713 жыл бұрын
Sickening isn't it? 🤢🤢🤢
@Catlily53 жыл бұрын
Makes me wonder if the Duggers told him for a reason...
@mrooz90653 жыл бұрын
I rewinded three times. You’re right.
@LDiamondz3 жыл бұрын
@@Catlily5 That's exactly what I was thinking.
@laurirohr53643 жыл бұрын
Considering his mug shot smirk he thinks he will get away with this again. Repeat offenders are the most dangerous. I hope they put him away. Cannot believe that Judge let him back around his kids!
@judyarvy37022 жыл бұрын
Remember the majority of judges are men who are just like Josh, that's why they don't make laws to punish!
@GabrielShakkori Жыл бұрын
@@judyarvy3702That's just not true at all
@LaurenThompsonIsMyRealName3 жыл бұрын
Did I just hear that correctly, the man who Josh confessed to was himself later arrested for crimes against children!?
@lightningbug2763 жыл бұрын
Yes
@esteemedmortal59173 жыл бұрын
As they say, “There’s your problem”
@floraposteschild41843 жыл бұрын
Quite the coincidence.
@swansox3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I had to rewind to be sure I had heard that correctly. Mind boggling.
@Mehki2273 жыл бұрын
*YES*!!!
@pri.sci.lla.3 жыл бұрын
That whole family is a mess. They allowed him to get away with m0lesting girls (including his sisters) almost 20 years ago! This isn’t a shock. I just feel bad for his children and victims. The “program” he was sent to was just a family friend... he was never punished and that’s why he kept doing more until he got caught. He deserves a long prison sentence and never to be around any children ever again.
@therealmrsruttle3 жыл бұрын
I always kind of wondered why he was just counseled. What a perv! 🤢
@pembrokelove3 жыл бұрын
@Jacqueline since his victim range seems to be prepubescent children, girls under 12, I have a hard time believing none of the children he’s had continued access to - including his own - have been affected.
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
What do you think he'd have been doing in a proper criminal justice program? He wouldn't have done any hard labor but what else do you suppose would have been better in the justice system? Explain?
@bbe30343 жыл бұрын
The man who allegedly counseled him received 56 years in prison!
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
@@bbe3034 Did he? For what?
@jobethk5883 жыл бұрын
"Somebody's thinking about getting married. Oh, they got married. Wow. They're having children. Who could have seen that coming." Hilarious.
@barbarahoffman12072 жыл бұрын
Nothing about this topic is Hilarious
@stoverboo2 жыл бұрын
@@barbarahoffman1207 That particular part of the presentation was actually quite funny.
@TheGhostbusterfan3 жыл бұрын
This man's dry just deadpan humor. Is something I want to have one day.
@michelejashinsky84093 жыл бұрын
I can listen when I’m doing something like walking ...... ❤️ ur humor too
@amysmiles97513 жыл бұрын
Able to remain calm in a single bound.
@Dependencycourtsellschildren3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I wonder how much it’s purposeful, and how much it’s accident. I say this because I do that.
@helixmoore76363 жыл бұрын
And its always the truth.
@dillonrobinson94033 жыл бұрын
British Humour is what it's call if I'm not mistaken
@maureeningleston15013 жыл бұрын
The families image was more important than the victims, and that is unforgivable, shame on them.
@stevegallant33953 жыл бұрын
And the majority of the victims were their own daughters
@evadedenbach12263 жыл бұрын
This family is why I boycott TLC, and it's subsidiaries. If it's possible, write to Scrippts media to remove this family from the air.
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
Why are you saying that?
@yveje97203 жыл бұрын
I don think so at all. I think most people if faced with a similar issue would feel ashamed and would not know what to do. It’s easy as an outsider to say “oh they should have done this or that” but it’s not your son is it? Had the Duggars made a bigger deal of the situation their daughters could have been publicly humiliated and may have even been made to testify against their own brother in court. That’s pretty traumatizing as well for really young girls so I can understand why they chose to remove Josh from the home on their own, sending him away to wherever they sent him, and giving him his own room etc... If JB and Michelle really didn’t care they would have told no one but they did seek help from their Church and even another officer. I don’t think they did everything right but it’s more-so due to their ignorance then any malicious intent. They are human after all.
@LaraCroftEyes13 жыл бұрын
First of all, I would take the pervert to the police and have them throw in jail.
@carvalone30762 жыл бұрын
I was molested by my stepfather my entire childhood. I don't think sexual offenders will ever stop. They are literally built different or something. IDK...it's horrible
@juliewhitead52573 жыл бұрын
The parents let their daughters down big time to cover up for their wonderful son
@carriemummy3 жыл бұрын
This happens a lot in some cultures - they won't report the son's misbehaviour because sons are important. There was a 9 year old boy in India who killed 3 of his infant female relatives and the parents didn't report it because they were only girls and he is a precious boy. It only got discovered because he killed a neighbour's baby and they spoke out.
@barbaraferren39973 жыл бұрын
Yes, and that’s the biggest betrayal to his daughter’s!
@Saintsrockitall3 жыл бұрын
Odd that you say this yet the girls have never expressed anything of the kind.
@carmenaguilar74273 жыл бұрын
If any investigators are watching, please have Josh's children interviewed, without Anna.
@Saintsrockitall3 жыл бұрын
@@carmenaguilar7427 I'm 100% certain that was done weeks ago.
@TheTam06133 жыл бұрын
I am disgusted by these parents, JimBob and Michelle. Nothing they did was "Christian". Hypocrisy thy name is Duggar. As always, I thank you so much for this video, Dr. Grande.
@MickiClick13 жыл бұрын
Well said and I agree.
@janenaughtin81182 жыл бұрын
Worst parents ever
@iciajay68913 жыл бұрын
As a survivor of csa by my biological father, I love to see abusers go to jail. As they should. As they only see there victims as tools for there own sexual gratification. With disregard to them as a person. In a way, its almost not even personal. As victims are often picked out of accses. I hope the cycle of abuse can be stoped in that family. I wish the survivors out there all the best. The statutes for sexual crimes regarding children, should not have a run out. In my country, the statute is life long. As, research has shown, it can take decades for survivors to come to grip with the abuse, and be mentaly healthy enought to come forward. I came forward when I was 5, and still CPS and the police had trouble trying to prosses my case. The justice system is set up to deal with offendrs, not victims. One of the reasons justice is so hard to fight for. I'm now 36. And still with concreate evidence, trying to get justice. For myself, and other victims.
@pamelalansbury943 жыл бұрын
I’m really scared to find out what he’s done to his own kids. Did Anna let him be alone with them? It makes me sick just thinking about it.
@katgrrl733 жыл бұрын
That was my very first thought too.
@MickiClick13 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly.
@julieklie23443 жыл бұрын
Especially tending to his girls alone!
@ariagrace74313 жыл бұрын
After finding out the sick shit he viewed I really hope not but that’s probably not the case 😞
@lorrainebettencourt79723 жыл бұрын
Bathing them 😨😨😨😨
@MoonWomanStudios3 жыл бұрын
These are things that can happen when someone grows up in a bubble and taught sex is a shameful sin while also taught that women are put here for men's use.
@SanamJanamian3 жыл бұрын
I liked your comment. It’s very on point!
@D-me-dream-smp3 жыл бұрын
Extremely damaging and harmful mentality for no valid reason apart from an old book (that was no doubt written by men) says so.
@sliglusamelius85783 жыл бұрын
@@D-me-dream-smp You obviously don’t know the New Testament. Your prejudices are duly noted.
@oldcollegecoed3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I don’t think this upbringing causes pedophilia. From what I’ve read, many believe to be an inborn trait like heterosexuality, which is why it’s so difficult to treat. If a pedophile’s brain is hardwired to be sexually attracted to children, no treatment can change that attraction, any more than a heterosexual’s attraction for the opposite sex can be changed.
@sarah2.0173 жыл бұрын
@@oldcollegecoed I agree, but in an environment like this, it's easier to find victims and get away with it.
@Joy316083 жыл бұрын
Lock him up!! Josh needs to be removed from the possibility of harming children for the rest of his life. The odds of cure is small and not worth the threat to another child!
@tangerineblossom74783 жыл бұрын
Did I hear that right, Hutchins the cop, a close family friend who gave him a stern lecture got 56 years for CP? That sure makes you wonder what they really talked about or if this older cop helped him get CP.
@susancheer59813 жыл бұрын
Makes you wonder what Jim Bob is up to in the confines of his office.
@mjowsey3 жыл бұрын
That's right. How can the family reporting to Hutchins count in the statute of limitations? A former cop in prison for child porn, what could be a shittier situation?
@louisacapell3 жыл бұрын
@@susancheer5981 why do you assume the parents knew about this cop? And the cop isn't the one who provides the councelling. He's just the one who spoke to him . But it's very possible that this cop encouraged or justified Josh's sickness.
@susancheer59813 жыл бұрын
@@louisacapell i am not assuming anything, because this is a one dimensional platform, one thoughts are constantly misconstued. Have a nice day.
@jamiebarringer40193 жыл бұрын
Esp. Since in some vicinages child abuse gets relatively low jail time.
@BigZebraCom3 жыл бұрын
Arkansas has a statute of limitations on incestuous sexual assault: it's about ten minutes.
@kenlucas70253 жыл бұрын
ROFLMAO!!
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
BigZebra True.
@Ron48853 жыл бұрын
lol lol BigZebra :-)
@harrietthespy21193 жыл бұрын
@@oliviatree 12 minutes🤷♀️
@BigZebraCom3 жыл бұрын
@@oliviatree Is that so? I'm glad to hear it!
@gilkoerger28883 жыл бұрын
I have a solution. Since there is no treatment and these perverts will keep re-offending, brand the word “Pedophile” into their foreheads. That way we can immediately know who, and what, they are. If they are offended by this . . . too bad. We have to protect our children.
@jujubees58553 жыл бұрын
Bullets are best. My perpetrators got away with it. I would volunteer for firing squads.
@fulltimerver23553 жыл бұрын
We have the offenders list so we know when they are in our neighborhood. Most countries don't have that. We do need longer sentences without probation, and continued, life long restitution to victims after the perv is released .
@debbielockhart77623 жыл бұрын
A bullet in their forehead would be my suggestion.
@thereal41133 жыл бұрын
Sexual offenders are sorry when they are CAUGHT!!! Thank you Dr. Grande🪴🪴🪴🪴🪴🪴
@papasanjay75252 жыл бұрын
@Theresa Bidge wtf is u joking
@Valen_Wolf2 жыл бұрын
@Theresa Bidge Please.. don't act stupid!
@theclockworkpineapple3 жыл бұрын
“Can you believe TLC stands for The Learning Channel” is one of my dad’s favorite things to say
@kitkat0313 жыл бұрын
I remember when it actually was a learning channel... But greed changed that quickly
@LoveKillFear7773 жыл бұрын
I personally like to call it the TMI channel
@donihill65143 жыл бұрын
My gpa does that too
@emilyhollis42313 жыл бұрын
I remember watching "The Operation" on TLC years ago....it was brilliant!! No BS talking, just a little H&P with the patient, the surgery and a follow up...all in 30 minutes. I don't have testicles but the vasectomy reversal still haunts me!!
@AndriaBieberDesigns3 жыл бұрын
Yea I remember when it was
@hermionehp11003 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this analysis! I’d love an analysis of Jim Bob and Michelle (how they fell into a cult, how horribly they raised their kids, etc). One of the kids, Jill, isn’t allowed around her siblings unsupervised because she developed a mind of her own. Which the parents seem to think is worse than Josh’s behavior.
@CivilEngineerWroxton3 жыл бұрын
You're just not telling the truth. Jill actually IS allowed around her siblings and family. She actually said they mainly stayed away because of the COVID problem and some "disagreements" with her parents. And this is just awful, you know, because young people NEVER disagree with their parents. Right. Jill and her husband regularly go to family functions and she said they are "healing" from all the things that happened with Josh. You and countless other people talk like the Duggars are the only family to EVER have troubled and criminal family members. You don't know any of them personally. I know the Duggars personally and have for not quite 40 years. They are fine people that have raised some of the most humble and upstanding people I've ever known. Every family has disagreements between each other and the Duggars always work out anything that could potentially become a problem. I've watched over the years as their kids have grown up and their kids are a joy to be around. I live right down the road from them and they have also been very good neighbors. You say they are so horrible, yet you know nothing about them other than the terrible trash talk you've read in the press and in tabloid articles. It has been painful to watch my good friends be slandered and bashed by so many people. Stop spreading such toxic information that just isn't true.
@teresamoore36713 жыл бұрын
@@CivilEngineerWroxton Respectfully, neighbours and even close friends don’t really know what goes on behind closed doors.
@traceyreed91673 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, I would love to see an analysis on Jim Bob as well since it was his decision to get the family involved with a cult. Those poor girls are trapped with no way to educate themselves outside of the fundamentalists teachings. It’s sad. Jill was lucky enough to marry an educated man who had a strong, independent mom. He will be a licensed lawyer soon and I hope the best for their family as they heal.
@teresamoore36713 жыл бұрын
@@CivilEngineerWroxton I don’t agree with family vloggers at all. They are literally pimping out their children to make money. If you put yourself and your life out there in the public domain, you are going to be critiqued. It is the right of the viewer as they are the consumer. The vloggers are selling themselves as a product.
@Sahdirah3 жыл бұрын
@@CivilEngineerWroxton Ah, yes, a family friend and neighbour. In other words, precisely the person who vehemently upholds the public reputations of sexual abusers and those who cover their crimes. After all, as we all know, the neighbours would know if the girls were truly sexually abused. And ol’ Al Scarborough who lives down the road says they’ve always been great neighbours! Well, pardon us all, case closed, then! After all, he’s met the family and he likes them. Sexual abusers definitely never have friends, never hide things from everyone besides their victims, never use their public reputations and the testimony of friendly neighbours as a weapon against their victim’s claims. Nope. Nothing but an upstanding good old Christian godfearing man to see here, valiantly doing his part to launder abusers’ reputations on the internet. Nothing to see here. Nothing at all.
@Saffron.Aerowyn_072 жыл бұрын
"Oh look someone's getting married...having children...who could've seen that coming? Doc, you're killing me! 😹
@WishAtElevenEleven3 жыл бұрын
“Oh look at me, I’m technically alive.” Vlogers have left the chat.
@rishaa6823 жыл бұрын
what do you have against vloggers lol
@WishAtElevenEleven3 жыл бұрын
@@rishaa682 nothing, I actually watch a couple. Just a light roast.
@samanthapurdy20533 жыл бұрын
@@rishaa682 it's called a joke
@michelinegosselin38793 жыл бұрын
I would be super interested in hearing what Dr. Grande thinks of family vlogging. Specifically what long term effects might be for kids who's parents vlog their every move.
@jennysearle53533 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@ivanamicimici3 жыл бұрын
You will have to look for it but dr. Grande did make a video about it.
@ivanamicimici3 жыл бұрын
It was nice,but I think other people have talked about this on yt as well
@smittykins2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande, do you plan to do an update now that Josh has been found guilty?
@MrFfuckUp3 жыл бұрын
"Oh look at me. I'm technically alive." LOL
@purpleslurple51493 жыл бұрын
Never a better description of these types of reality shows! 🤣
@mackenzieb22183 жыл бұрын
I almost spit out my water when he said that. SOO funny
@macmedic8923 жыл бұрын
I'm a producer for TLC, can we talk? (I'm not really a producer.)
@maureeningleston15013 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha. I feel very gifted I have a pulse.
@juliaestellesylviawalks50743 жыл бұрын
@@purpleslurple5149 that's so true!
@rebeccarayburncooper70623 жыл бұрын
I was raised in a family only slightly less strict and baby crazy than the Duggars. My 2 daughters were molested by a family member I saw at the pulpit every weekend - starting when they were 3 & 4 and continuing for several years. My dauģhters didn't tell me until they were in their late twenties because they knew I would seriously go after him. The stricter the religion, the more pedophilia abounds - a sad fact.
@aarondavis89432 жыл бұрын
Yes, all the major religions have a paedophilia problem. Many of them are now saying it's all a conspiracy concocted by the left. These degenerates make me want to puke.
@bonnies.d.11212 жыл бұрын
@@aarondavis8943 I agree and so it isn't just the celibacy required of Catholic priests. It has its roots in the perpetrator's childhood.
@marisawoods2 жыл бұрын
When people trade raising a family for running a baby factory, bad things happen. I'm a Christian, and was disgusted by these selfish parents forcing their older kids to take care of their younger kids. When you've got 2 or 3 kids, asking your older kids to help out is reasonable. However, when you have 19 kids, and intend to keep going, it's abusive. Absolutely ridiculous.
@Mimi-cq4bg3 жыл бұрын
Hutchins: if I had known there were multiple victims, I would've done more to stop him. One molested sister is totally okay. More would be a problem.
@patchr54912 жыл бұрын
It's progressive, with out treatment and even if they have treatment it's extremely difficult to stop. Usually no contact with children is the only way to avoid a repeat!!!!!
@rsnide18913 жыл бұрын
I’d love to hear your opinion on Jill Duggar Dillard. She’s split away from the family despite being one of the most obedient early on.
@excitingtimes-hh2bu2 жыл бұрын
I would bet that it's due to nonchurch therapy. Seeing a therapist on the outside also gives her a chance to see a whole picture with a new perspective. With this new view, she can understand what is okay and what is not, with that she can set boundaries to protect herself.
@rsnide18912 жыл бұрын
@@excitingtimes-hh2bu I’d agree but there’s something there that helped her to go to non-church therapy, which is not the norm for them at all.
@stt5v20023 жыл бұрын
At this point it seems like maybe there should just be a crime called “being like Josh Duggar”.
@leonieromanes72653 жыл бұрын
Duggering while under the influence of fundamentalist religion.
@christinemaria773 жыл бұрын
Like the subway guy... I've heard people say " he pulled a Jared" .. lol
@laurena40003 жыл бұрын
“Pulling a Duggar”
@chasityyoung8153 жыл бұрын
They should just name SA on children "Josh Duggar Syndrome"
@LDiamondz3 жыл бұрын
'Duggaring'
@MzJust1girl3 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that the Duggar girls were not allowed to shower in privacy because they might "touch themselves". They always had to have a sibling in the bathroom with them. This is just sick! The parents had a preoccupation with sexualizing their children, specifically the girls. There are some deep, dark, disturbing things going on with Jim Bob & Michelle.
@LaraCroftEyes13 жыл бұрын
That is where Josh learns his sick behavior watching his father, especially since Jim is overly obsessive with Jana.
@zappawench60483 жыл бұрын
There should be no statute of limitations for child molestation! Especially when you consider how difficult it is for victims to come forward and confront their abuser. The path for victims to report on abuse should be made as smooth as possible. I'm shocked that an obstacle in the form of this 3 year statute of limitations exists.
@debbieaustinendecott20693 жыл бұрын
I have seen 5 year statute get in the way of prosecution in state of KS. It was the date of act until reported. Very young child told parents for first time 5 years later and they could not determine exact date of crime 5 years earlier so nothing at all was done. However young child was taken in room and taped by law enforcement while questioned. That tape locked and sealed. Parent were never allowed to see tape or know details just in case offender ever went to trial on another unrelated charge. Not sure if law/statute still same. Know another case where kids were abducted for 5 years by noncustodial parent also in state of KS. Kids were found because their faces appeared on milk carton. Noncustodial parent did not go to jail and was able to have the kids unsupervised as if nothing had happened. While custodial parent did not have kids for 5 years (2/3 when abducted and 7/8 when found). The kids were lied to and told custodial parent had died, did not want them, etc. Those kids were robbed of their childhood as well as custodial parent as bond was never the same. Millions of devastating stories that will never find their way to justice. Heart breaking and gut-wrenching.
@judyarvy37022 жыл бұрын
Majority of judges in U.S. are men just like Josh who make these laws to protect their pedophilia too.
@triciabrown14623 жыл бұрын
Hypothetically, if someone like him with his history is guilty of receiving and possessing CP, what are the chances he has not acted inappropriately with his own children?
@tintinismybelgian3 жыл бұрын
I can't speak to the odds of him acting inappropriately with his own kids, but I think I heard the odds of someone in possession of CP having committed CSA are about 76%.
@vntajones3 жыл бұрын
Jill left the cult she hasn’t spoken to them in years got disowned by them her husband says Jim bob is like Jeffrey Epstein
@fredmckinney89333 жыл бұрын
I'd be very surprised if he hasn't been inappropriate with his own children.
@loyceholland62013 жыл бұрын
His parents made decisions based on money and protecting their money.
@vixtodd29003 жыл бұрын
This was tough to get through. Thank you for putting the victims first. Sibling sexual abuse is more prevalent in our society than people realize. It needs to be talked about more. We need to teach children about sex better and earlier, and we need not to punish and blame victims.
@kitkat0313 жыл бұрын
Great comment
@D-me-dream-smp3 жыл бұрын
People are always always warning children about “stranger danger” yet sadly the largest percentage of predators are someone known to the child. It’s very important to teach children about their right to bodily autonomy regardless of who they are with. This is why I will never force my child to hug or kiss someone, even a family member (you can still teach them to be polite while maintaining appropriate boundaries). By doing this a child learns that it is okay to say NO to physical contact or an activity if it makes them feel uncomfortable, even when it’s an adult or someone in authority. Keeping non judgemental open dialogue and communication is also important as it helps to foster a loving nurturing relationship as well as hopefully making them less vulnerable to seeking attention elsewhere. Unfortunately predators are very good at identifying children who are needy or isolated and will often exploit a child’s natural desire for attention and love for nefarious intentions.
@vixtodd29003 жыл бұрын
@@D-me-dream-smp yes, thank you for your comment 💜 we can teach consent to children this way. And wouldn’t it be nice if there were fewer children so vulnerable to predation because of lack of knowledge, understanding, and their own acceptable boundaries?
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
@@D-me-dream-smp Great comment and so true!
@Mama_Bear5243 жыл бұрын
@@D-me-dream-smp yes!! Stranger danger was actually one of the worst things at least my generation was taught. 80’s 90’s. It taught us to fear strangers. Yeah so if you’re being molested by someone close or a stranger, you’ll never tell anyone. Because strangers are all bad. And I’m disgusted because I still hear about it from my youngest who’s 9! He learns it from school apparently.
@elainegilsdorf4513 жыл бұрын
I am so happy that you did this video! This family has always been an unusual interest of mine. More often than not the ones that proclaim such morality are the most Insidious.
@sophiamartinez81432 жыл бұрын
I found Dr. grande a few weeks ago and I’ve been binging ever since ! I’ve added him to my fall asleep list too lol his voice is so soothing.
@jenniferlane90003 жыл бұрын
Homeland security said " was in the top 5 worst cases they have investigated" you know they have already seen some terrible things in that job. I also want to add Michelle Duggar's voice makes my ears bleed !
@chynnadoll32773 жыл бұрын
Yes, as does her sanctimonious facial expressions.
@patsysmothermon78613 жыл бұрын
I dont think they go to a real Christian Church. It is more cult like. The men can do no wrong they confess to the church and of course are immediately forgiven. The women & girls have No rights. That is Not Christian.
@Dahlia47773 жыл бұрын
Mine too!
@mariakelly10592 жыл бұрын
I KNEW IT! I knew I wasn't the only person who hated her voice!
@redacted95063 жыл бұрын
I never sit through the entirety of a sponsorship ad, but I did for you Dr. Grande
@barbararipani13313 жыл бұрын
Me too
@janellemiller11953 жыл бұрын
Me,too.
@MissVindicat3 жыл бұрын
Same.
@carishaw41433 жыл бұрын
Same!
@mystyk58963 жыл бұрын
Same
@bnzwiebel3 жыл бұрын
Statute of limitations angers me more and more each day 😡 Our system is so crappy at protecting victims and the culture of victim blaming makes it’s so difficult for people to bring offenses forward that three year statute is complete bullish!t
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
Is that a smirk on ol' Josh's face in that mug shot? Sure looks like a smirk to me.
@crazycatladyjo26883 жыл бұрын
It's sick. He's being arressted for CP and he is smiling.
@piedadgoulet34993 жыл бұрын
He smiled and laughed throughout his bail hearing, too.
@southbug273 жыл бұрын
Yes & I've never wanted to slap someone across the face more than josh Duggar when i first saw that picture. What a pos. Lots of commentors have said he appears high in that picture, & I concur. Hope he gets decades in prison.
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
@@southbug27 I believe crimes of this nature should carry a sentence of life without parole.
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
@@southbug27 I'd like to backhand him a few times, too. I know I'd feel better if I could.
@ps01953 жыл бұрын
I had watched the show in the beginning. I remember the episode when he was getting ready to marry Anna. His dad handed him a book that he was supposed to read to talk about the night of their wedding since supposedly they had not been together sexually. What Josh said to his dad when he got that book gave me chills to my bone… He said “so I’m gonna have a real live working model after tomorrow!” That disturbed me so much… It showed me in that moment that she was a play thing to him not a human being. His dad took note of that statement as well and became visibly uncomfortable. I knew this was going to happen or something like it. Because I saw in that moment that he was not right in the head. I will never forget it.
@Mehki2273 жыл бұрын
Did you see that? They get married and go to a motel. He's dragging her by the arm, a reporter or sometime it's trying to ask him a question off camera. He looks at them in a panic and beelines into the hotel room, desperate for sex. He didn't look like he'd last long enough to get his pants down, much less hers. He was really scary fumbling with the key to shove her on the bed.
@guardiansanimalrescuestate72893 жыл бұрын
As a victim from my birth parents and in foster care, I can say that it messes with ones head for the rest of their lives. And my foster family supported their own kids over reporting the problems. In fact, they were also part of the problem. Josh just makes me sick. I hope they throw his full sentence at him.
@laurenlinney3 жыл бұрын
i'm not surprised about this. he didn't even get real help and his family defended his ass off, and they'll probably continue to defend him regarding this
@D-me-dream-smp3 жыл бұрын
They are just as culpable since they have repeatedly enabled his behaviour and protected him from any consequences or repercussions.
@pamelaboswell97153 жыл бұрын
It's shameful. Family values, please. Value your daughters and punish people who violate them.
@melindac33683 жыл бұрын
@@D-me-dream-smp Well, he did get a "stern talking to." We see that how much that helped.
@Mama_Bear5243 жыл бұрын
@@melindac3368 right?! By a cop who is now in jail for life for child porn. So that was wise.
@morningglory36443 жыл бұрын
The parents are really defending their own image. I have a feeling they do not want to be associated with him anymore since he has an addiction that they don't know how to help him with. They did try to minimize & downplay the severity of the allegations for the sake of the squeaky clean image they want the family to have. However, since this is a pattern with him & technically he is a grown man with six children of his own...I think they may have to disown him in a way. I believe his parents are very image-obsessed and they don't want to tarnish their small town wholesome conservative values that they heavily imbued on the show. So they may resort to telling their friends & neighbors..."we did the best we could for him"...and just sweep it under the rug.
@TruecrimeSalads3 жыл бұрын
Anna allows him around those kids knowing he is a predator. That whole family puts those kids in danger n have for years. They are so quick to judge others for predatory behavior then enable him to do it to his own family.
@pamerard83813 жыл бұрын
Who knows what he does with his own kids when Anna isn’t around. 😬
@merricat30253 жыл бұрын
@@pamerard8381 I wouldn't doubt she's around and he still does it. She would turn a blind eye
@MickiClick13 жыл бұрын
If Anna loves her kids and cares about their safety and welfare she will take them and run to parts unknown. If he will do it to his sisters he will do it to his kids. Just my opinion. His parents should be held in account too.
@ddl43743 жыл бұрын
@@pamerard8381 or when she IS🥵🤬😡🤬🥵👹👊
@ddl43743 жыл бұрын
🥵🤬😡💀☠👹👊👊👊🥶😱🤮😡💀
@rn4l623 жыл бұрын
So jim Bob is told by his daughter that her older brother (jb and Michelle's oldest son) has been "inappropriate" with 4 of his daughters, (btw, one of those 4 daughters was under the age of 4 at the time.... "😢" ... jb didnt believe it but finally jd was confronted and instead of getting him psychiatric treatment and calling the authorities, jb sent golden boy to "camp" and turns out, began referring to the daughter that told, as the family tattletale....
@CrashBandiscoot3 жыл бұрын
Your dry, stone-faced snarkiness is just about the only thing that gets me through the work day. Thank you, Dr. lol
@Babebubby3 жыл бұрын
Right! He's freaking hilarious!
@debbierose8823 жыл бұрын
😁😁😁
@pqm20123 жыл бұрын
Same
@AirForceFalcons_99223 жыл бұрын
I LOVE Dr. Grande💕💕💕💕💕
@jenn77683 жыл бұрын
🥰🤣 some back handed love for our favorite Dr
@beverlyjordan89573 жыл бұрын
I do not understand why his wife didn’t leave him immediately when he was charged the first time. Instead she chose to to stay with him and continued to bring children into this environment. This is not godly. It’s disgusting. He should have been dealt with along time ago.
@theblacklotus3333 жыл бұрын
He confessed to her before they got married that he molested his sisters and a babysitter when he was young and she still went ahead and marry him
@sharonwieler89333 жыл бұрын
Didn’t she actually blame herself?
@rebekah76352 жыл бұрын
She was raised in a cult. She's always been told not to act in her best interests. It's disappointing but not surprising that she stayed.
@thedorkone15162 жыл бұрын
Because she grew up in the same cult, which taught her that if she dared to leave her husband for fucking her children, SHE was the problem, and that it was HER fault for not being as sexually available to her husband as he needed.
@judyarvy37022 жыл бұрын
She doesn't want to give up her lifestyle and money!
@cryogeneric3 жыл бұрын
It sounds like the crimes he committed when he was a young teenager may have been more serious than what we were lead to believe. Given he was still quite young himself and experiencing lots of changes in hormones', I can imagine that a lot of parents in that scenario might want to believe he was just confused rather than immediately shipping him off to jail. However, hearing now that a baby sitter was also a victim, that does changes things. At the time, they made it sound like it was just "inappropriate" touching but I'm suspicious that perhaps it was a lot more than that.
@k.s.k.77213 жыл бұрын
In another interview, the Dugger parents mentioned that while discussing Josh's teen offences with church members, they found that this pattern of in-family sexual abuse is not uncommon within their community.
@lucindawaugh39453 жыл бұрын
Good Lord have mercy 🤦♀️
@crybaby37103 жыл бұрын
what's "their community" like, the community of the world? because, yeah sure. or people who believe in having crazy large families. cause aren't they just very strict Christians from Arkansas. that's like everyone in every small town in arkansas. I live in arkansas. (I understand you might not know, I guess it was more of a rhetorical question)
@ROTTERDXM3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being the only one, hundreds of comments down, who has the guts to speak up about this. It's so disgustingly widespread, all the while preaching a virtuous lifestyle.
@possumaintdead3 жыл бұрын
Oh well, that makes it all right then! 🙄
@millsykooksy48633 жыл бұрын
Yikes
@rckkeller94373 жыл бұрын
The next series will be about prison life“ Josh Duggar and his 19 years and counting”.
@PK-mm8zc3 жыл бұрын
Wow
@katelynjohnson36653 жыл бұрын
that was a good one 😂😂
@mridlon16343 жыл бұрын
19 stab wounds and counting?
@rosannecole49923 жыл бұрын
Everything the Duggar parents do is to give Josh comfort above his sisters ..The girls have locks but josh has freedom as if his parents office would stop him what could Michelle do as they travel alot profiting from the Show...Their golden child Josh gets his own room plus a computer and screening room this makes his life real comfy!
@mimimariah82 жыл бұрын
19 time “prison justice” was just that justice !!
@RM-lx4wx3 жыл бұрын
Conservative Christian Cult better explains the Duggar’s “religion “.
@whatlarriloves28373 жыл бұрын
The police/friend report of Josh’ behavior its BS. Those girls were not protected at all!!!!
@leamacleod59033 жыл бұрын
And pervert cop giving a talking to josh. And would have done more had he known? I say bullshit. Probably exchanged pervert pic.
@lorimiller43013 жыл бұрын
The so called friend was into the same thing. He got busted himself. 😳 Like he taught Josh anything?!!
@leaky_6663 жыл бұрын
Right? I wonder if the dad knew this and knew he was a safe person to “council” his son. I wanna know where he learned behavior like that at such a young age..and what else that family has covered up/is covering up.
@fredmckinney89333 жыл бұрын
@@leaky_666 I'm not saying he is...but I can't help but believe that Jim Bob himself may very well be guilty of at least some of the same things his golden boy has done.
@oliviagreen74233 жыл бұрын
It's tragic that this happens in many religious communities, basically gets covered up because they often don't believe in any 'treatment' except through their religious teachings. Some don't believe in taking any meds for mental health either, which could be extremely damaging, especially if someone has schizophrenia etc. 😭😢
@lorimiller43013 жыл бұрын
The Cop they turned to was busted for the same thing.
@sunflowerlover79793 жыл бұрын
And that is Christianity, just close your eyes and pray it away. If you keep your eyes closed long enough you can't see all the bad stuff happening around you.
@Dulcimertunes3 жыл бұрын
It’s unfortunately common in ‘closed’ communities. The FLDS is THE WORST and our government ignores it.
@oliviagreen74233 жыл бұрын
@@wordsalad01 I never said it occurs more often in Christian communities. Don't put words in my mouth
@Mehki2273 жыл бұрын
@@wordsalad01 Except for the self righteous BS in religion.
@debiogle37983 жыл бұрын
“A good name is rather to be chosen than great riches.” Ones sin affects the entire family.
@LMCEK3 жыл бұрын
I have a video suggestion for another TLC family, the Browns from Sister Wives. So much to unpack. Why someone stays in an unhappy marriage (Meri), dealing with jealousy (Christine), being the favorite (Robin), strong independent woman syndrome (Janelle) pros/cons of having your own harem (Cody). Plus how living their lives in the spotlight can affect kids. Issues around religious discrimination.
@Alice-zj6lp3 жыл бұрын
good suggestion!
@lorismith1033 жыл бұрын
People that sexually abuse & watch child pornography cannot be rehabilitated. If they could we would not be here today. I cannot imagine how devastating this would be to the family.
@flufftronable3 жыл бұрын
couldn't agree more, there is no hope here.
@rickc21023 жыл бұрын
*cough* chemical castration *cough*
@lorismith1033 жыл бұрын
@@rickc2102 Personally, I’m for putting them on an island, dropping off food & water every month & letting them fend for themselves.
@bellyfulochelly42222 жыл бұрын
@@lorismith103 This sounds fair
@barbarahedges17913 жыл бұрын
The law inforcement officer was a friend of Jim Bob's. He even got caught for child or n and went to prison.I wonder about Jim Bob too.
@marilyne43243 жыл бұрын
Sa can be generational. No doubt.
@cindysandberg6432 жыл бұрын
@barbaraguest Me too.
@BigZebraCom3 жыл бұрын
19 Charges and Counting!
@mrsapplez20073 жыл бұрын
Hahaha
@BigZebraCom3 жыл бұрын
@@mrsapplez2007 :)
@deniseweber13393 жыл бұрын
And counting on and on and on...
@audreygibson47803 жыл бұрын
Kim K and Paris Hilton made 'oh look I'm alive' a very profitable skill
@mrooz90653 жыл бұрын
TV finds its audience in each community. The trashy form remains the same albeit with different content.
@moonstruck5623 жыл бұрын
@@mrooz9065 sadly, the trashier it gets, the better TV it makes
@samanthapurdy20533 жыл бұрын
Kim was Paris Hilton's assistant. Paris started it period. Show some respect. Also she only came up with her whole character and stupid rich girl act to make her own reputation and money outside from her family. She wanted to make her own money and not just be a Hilton. She may have been making trash tv but she put on that character for a reason. She's the original troll.
@audreygibson47803 жыл бұрын
@@samanthapurdy2053 I knew Paris was first....but dont respect trolls
@samanthapurdy20533 жыл бұрын
@@audreygibson4780 I wasn't being serious when I said show some respect. Lol. But she is very intelligent and I do personally have respect for her because of what she's been through and she seems to be a genuinely good person behind the act.
@elizabethclothier32673 жыл бұрын
I inhaled my coffee and almost drowned in it when you said the Trooper was convicted of CP. I was already disgusted that he just gave a "stern talking to", and wasn't expecting him to be guilty of it himself. Edit: typo
@kaileim9703 жыл бұрын
I missed that part, when did Dr G say that?
@kimberlya.56892 жыл бұрын
I was ALSO in utter shock that the trooper was ALSO a pedo…
@Bricktown9822 жыл бұрын
I know girl, I almost died
@thomasdoubting3 жыл бұрын
Joseph Hutchens very stern talk to Josh Duggar: "Hers what you do to not get caught with CP..."
@crybaby37103 жыл бұрын
&didn't dr G say that cop got 56 years FOR CP himself or did I hear that wrong?
@Sahdirah3 жыл бұрын
@@crybaby3710 You heard correctly.
@missmoxie91883 жыл бұрын
@@crybaby3710 you heard right
@jg23633 жыл бұрын
@@crybaby3710 Isn't that incredible!?
@RachelTriesHard3 жыл бұрын
“Oh look at me, I’m technically alive” - me, every morning 😂
@millsykooksy48633 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣
@msoda85163 жыл бұрын
That comment was wonderful
@nubia-rdrgz2862 жыл бұрын
I think Dr. Grande should actually be the voice for audio books and the new siri honestly his voice is so soothing
@maneckineckbeard17493 жыл бұрын
I think the doc *really* hit the nail on the head when he talked about these parents separating the offender from the offense. These are people who devoutly categorize everything in terms of "sin" vs. "virtue." So it's likely incredibly easy for them to simply "hate the sin and love the sinner," without ever acknowledging that the sin and the sinner are inextricably intertwined. This gives them the ability to see their son as a wonderful, godly, moral person who was somehow contaminated by "sin," but that once he's born again (again!) the sin will magically disappear, leaving only a perfectly godly, moral person. They seem to think that forgiving him will also magically erase the trauma suffered by the victims, and that a failure to forgive him is, in their minds, a sin almost comparable to the abuse they endured. But that's not how it works, unfortunately. And so, tragically, multiple young girls had to pay for this lack of insight and parenting skills with the unspeakably traumatic loss of their innocence at the hands of a predatory family member, who by all rights should have been one of the people they could trust most. I can only hope that now, finally, the law will step in and prevent him from being around potential victims ever again. Because it seems quite clear that this family cannot be counted on, ever, to protect their most vulnerable and innocent children from abuse, nor can they be counted on to ever actually take workable steps to protect those potential victims.
@thatpointinlife3 жыл бұрын
My condolences to Michelle's birth canal.
@maureeningleston15013 жыл бұрын
I probably shouldn't have, but I found that hysterical.
@goofusmaximus14823 жыл бұрын
She got it confused for a clown car.
@thatpointinlife3 жыл бұрын
@@goofusmaximus1482, just imagine all the contraband she'll be able to smuggle into prison when she visits her son...
@goofusmaximus14823 жыл бұрын
@@thatpointinlife 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Noorie793 жыл бұрын
@@thatpointinlife Eww LOL
@maggiemcginley46403 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed you talk. It was done without emotion concerning this whole horrible situation. I took a short course with the DSM 4R. We had someone come in to discuss crimes of this nature. One thing that impressed me was the speaker said recovery was around 1.4 percent
@sidthesquidable3 жыл бұрын
You’re right that the TLC was kind of the original family KZbin channel. Between “Toddlers and Tiarras” and “Here Comes Honey Boo Boo,” I’ve never really understood where the “learning” comes in Maybe you should do a video on poverty tourism or the psychology of watching dysfunctional families on television
@ren17x503 жыл бұрын
All the shows were British except Bill Kurtis
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
The learning or "learning" comes from you and what you're able to gather and think through, what you can find.
@mrooz90653 жыл бұрын
Exploitation of the poor and uneducated is a major part of TV. From Montel to Maury to Sally Jessy to the Queen herself, all degraded America into peeping Toms for profit till reality TV was born.
@ren17x503 жыл бұрын
@@mrooz9065 that's the only time you see poor people on tv is to make fun of them.
@Mama_Bear5243 жыл бұрын
Because that’s how it started. Then it devolved.
@Yolanda84193 жыл бұрын
This family always gave me the creeps. I have never watched any of the shows but I have followed the media coverage on them. Great analysis, Doc.
@Mehki2273 жыл бұрын
Same here. I actual started a blog to say, I should like this family, but something was off and giving me the creeps. Didn't like them.
@CivilEngineerWroxton3 жыл бұрын
Yes, because the press is the BEST place to form your opinions and views on anything. So if you don't know them and you have never watched their show, how can you form any opinions or views? You can't. So why do it that way? I know the Duggar family personally and have for almost 40 years and they are fine people. They live right down the road from me and I have seen how they live their lives. Josh is a bad apple in the bunch, so to base your opinion on only him for your opinion of the whole family is an ignorant way to form opinions. Imagine having countless strangers on a public forum bashing, hating on, and even sending death threats to very close friends of yours. That's how I feel about the Duggars. Countless people are trashing my friends and it is all based on one bad family member and so many lies and misconceptions about them have been told that it is just sickening. It's just not right. The Duggars are good people that have a very troubled family member. The Duggar kids are extremely intelligent, humble, business-savvy, loving, polite, and have proven to be very resilient after what their brother Josh has done. It really is a terrible shame. My heart breaks for Josh's wife and kids. They are the victims more than anyone and will live with this nightmare for the rest of their lives. I just want Josh off the street where he can't do any of this anymore and can get real help.
Gives you the creeps why???? They are happily married and want to have giant family and that’s creepy??? What having two kids, dropping them off in daycare for strangers to raise, abuse and and then crappy public school to indoctrinate that’s is NOT CREEPY?????
@itsjeninMass3 жыл бұрын
So gross.
@Purple_haze810003 жыл бұрын
Dr Grande, I think you are forgetting the huge sense of ENTITLEMENT. Here you have a white, rich, CONSERVATIVE family who really did think they could do no wrong since they think they were more moral than anybody else because of their faith. You see them really in the show think of themselves as the best Christian example of a family. The fact that they went to their cop friend to report their son was proof they really didn’t want their son to be arrest or face the consequences. The family knew they would get away with this since they were of the entitle class. Had it been some poor schmuck, they would have been in jail a long time ago. This is what privilege looks like.
@curiousone29403 жыл бұрын
These sick pedos come from both liberal and conservative backgrounds. Keep your politics to yourself.
@eliscanfield39133 жыл бұрын
The shows are a modern freak show, to my mind.
@jaclo31123 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! It's the modern version of bearded ladies, giants, dwarfs, conjoined twins etc. Now the 'freaks' on display are people who think a vagina is a clown car and the world watches them do stuff, like animals in a zoo. Unfortunately, the 'displays' today are abused and exploited just like they were in the past.
@katerinapetraki42693 жыл бұрын
Congrats for 700 K subs Dr! So refreshing to see that the man that helped me in English and interested in crime mysteries is becoming worldwide know.
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife2 жыл бұрын
“Oh look at me. I’m alive.” So many good one-liners in this one, Dr. Grande! 🤣
@emilymurer69003 жыл бұрын
"Oh look at me, I'm technically alive." I literally just laughed out loud!
@rebahuskey13233 жыл бұрын
I hope he didn’t touch his daughters, but it is a valid concern that authorities should investigate.
@PresleysMom5043 жыл бұрын
His daughters are exact age of CP he looked up. He had imagery of an 18 month old being subjected to BDSM.
@itsjeninMass3 жыл бұрын
@@PresleysMom504 Oh, gross! 😱
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife2 жыл бұрын
He has a computer full of incredibly violent child pornography - highly unlikely he hasn’t been harming his children. He has a serious sexual problem.
@hayfalahraoui83612 жыл бұрын
@@MyMerryMessyGermanLife apparently he had a file named after his oldest daughter in his CP materials
@MyMerryMessyGermanLife2 жыл бұрын
@@hayfalahraoui8361 GULP 🥺😖 disgusting but not surprising.
@annemcevoy99943 жыл бұрын
Is there research on identifying common factors in a perpetrators childhood that contribute to their developing pedophilia? Is it learned behavior, genetics or both? Great analysis Dr. Grande - keep them coming!
@mikikiki2 жыл бұрын
No one is born wanting to m*lest kids! Y’all will use genetics to excuse any evil.
@iLitAfuseiCantStop2 жыл бұрын
@@mikikiki She didn’t say it was genetics. She posed the question then threw up the factors that are most often discussed when it comes to behaviors. Calm down ffs. No ones defending it or disputing its evil & disgusting. The question was on identifying commonalities.
@Sara-gl8ue2 жыл бұрын
I did some research on this subject because I was molested by a few different men as a child and wanted to understand why this happens. While environment can play a role in someone developing pedophilia tendencies, they have found that these types of people have "crossed wires" in their brains. To put it simply, when one of these people looks at a child, instead of sending signals to the part of the brain that controls paternal/maternal feelings, it instead sends signals to the part of the brain that's responsible for sexuality. Most of them have no control over it and many of them understand that there's something wrong with them and never go on to act on these feelings. Another odd finding is that people who are left-handed are more prone to pedophilia than right-handed people. I think it's great that they're doing this type of research. I believe it will lead to finding a cure. Castration isn't going to stop them from offending if it's a problem within the brain.
@vihaze67252 жыл бұрын
@@mikikiki Grow up. People are allowed to be curious about the origins of these things, and Anne's question was a very valid one.
@sunrae76802 жыл бұрын
@@mikikiki Some people are born without a "conscience. " Their brain is not wired the same. He probably has done other things, that are wrong. All rape is about power.
@liampendergast86703 жыл бұрын
Hearing this man speak about human depravity with that rich, creamy voice is my version of ASMR.
@juliaestellesylviawalks50743 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 spot on
@echuparosa3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@notagamer18983 жыл бұрын
I was just thinking that!! I put my ear buds in and yup it's ASMR gold!
@johnnytimestamp82243 жыл бұрын
creep
@sadieperry3 жыл бұрын
Ok this comment got me deceased 💀
@bethneumann873 жыл бұрын
"Oh look, I am technically alive. When did that become a skill??" Lol I just subscribed min before this popped up and I love you already🤣😍🤗!
@kitkat0313 жыл бұрын
This channel is awesome... Welcome
@moonstruck5623 жыл бұрын
Get ready...Alot of dry humor and falling off your chair is coming your way
@mikmak42443 жыл бұрын
I laughed so hard
@Goldie98993 жыл бұрын
The only “effective” treatment for this problem in my opinion is prison for life or having a 24/7 babysitter watching your every single move so you don’t hurt anyone!!
@jgarofalo88133 жыл бұрын
I can’t think of some more effective treatments
@awalkthroughtorah68973 жыл бұрын
Not even sure physically removing anatomy would work, since the sickness is in the mind.
@curiousone29403 жыл бұрын
Since it is virtually impossible to cure these pedos, why should we continue to spend tax dollars to either lock them up or provide monitoring? Why should society have to continue to tolerate these people. I can think of a very final alternative.
@johnjcc98842 жыл бұрын
That wouldn't only work if they didn't harm the babysitter
@wy45533 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande's brutal criticism of these pointless reality shows is perfection 👌
@jameswithers23343 жыл бұрын
I wonder if Josh had been abused as a child. I am under the impression that perpetrators of this sort have often themselves been victims.
@purpleslurple51493 жыл бұрын
I just looked up some research, because I've thought the same. It is an increased risk factor: 30% of offenders were molested as children (slightly higher than the average % of the population that is molested, which is ~25%). But most offenders were never molested, and most children who are molested do not grow up to be molesters themselves.
@Catlily53 жыл бұрын
@@purpleslurple5149 Really, only 30%?
@chrisskruger41573 жыл бұрын
There’s a good chance, and he may have gotten some help if his parents had actually gotten him a legit counselor instead of just someone from their church
@tracyu57563 жыл бұрын
This may come out with time.
@kc-vx6dc2 жыл бұрын
Very impressed with your show - first time viewer here. So logical and very compassionate. Hard to be both. ❣️
@Romanticoutlaw3 жыл бұрын
thank you for covering this. That family's seriously screwed up.
@thatpointinlife3 жыл бұрын
It's almost as though prayer has a less than desirable rate of effectiveness...
@jonathandewberry2893 жыл бұрын
@@thatpointinlife This isn't reddit, redditfaq
@lorimiller43013 жыл бұрын
He never brought up the fact that the Cop they turned to was also busted for C P !!!
@mrooz90653 жыл бұрын
How do you get “me time” with this growing family spending all the time in front of camera? How many takes did each scene take?
@mrsmucha3 жыл бұрын
@@lorimiller4301 Yes, the guy he confessed to was a state trooper who was later sentenced to 56 years for cp.