Strangers Rank Themselves By Weight | Blindfolded vs Reality

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00:00 Intro
00:35 Discussion
04:14 Ranking
08:09 Weight Reveal
09:03 Closing Discussion
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[@jubilee]

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[@yesno3783]

Bro quit food

[@urfav_blonde567]

No

[@chuualwayswins]

I absolutely love sabrina and steven’s 13 minute friendship

[@Smacknbri]

Thank you I loved it too !

[@joss5085]

@@Smacknbri girl we love you

[@chuualwayswins]

@@Smacknbri omg hi!! thanks for commenting hah :)

[@zaynsprmcy6421]

literally

[@Smacknbri]

@@joss5085 thank you 😭

[@alexriches6957]

Could have been awful but this is probably the most wholesome one in a very long time

[@harrybalzahk]

Awful how?

[@teresaneves8839]

@@harrybalzahk it could make people feel bad about not only ranking others but also about being ranked the heaviest in the group, even without people looking at them

[@mirandad2042]

Yes! I love love love this video. Made my heart explode seeing them all connect

[@minipeeny9475]

@@teresaneves8839 or males being ranked lighter than the others, meaning their voice sounds teensy

[@ygerman1539]

@@teresaneves8839 are you serious?? Lol , we've gotten way too sensitive .

[@alexandriavaldez3823]

Steven & Sabrina when they had that connection about the surgery just made me melt . These are pure situations that help everyone connect in a way

[@spankbuda7466]

The surgery is a cop-out and shouldn't be appalled.

[@prettygirllarii]

@@spankbuda7466 yea okay… but at the end of the day he still worked hard mentally & physically to get where he is. he said he stopped his bad eating habits & it’s showing or else he’d be back where he started.

[@seamus4A]

@@spankbuda7466 would you rather them suffer for longer? If you can afford something that would assist your weight loss, why wouldnt you

[@entrosen1988]

@@spankbuda7466 did u not hear that hes spending hours in the gym like daily

[@biaisrandom8757]

They should like... swap numbers

[@kaeliheartsmakeup]

When Steven said “quitting food was harder than quitting alcohol” I felt that. Food addiction has stolen my whole life from me.

[@chavies.3098]

Food addiction is such a difficult addiction to overcome because we still gotta eat! We can't just stop doing it cold turkey..

[@lunasquib]

I hope you can take it back!

[@ngndnd]

I agree so much. I remember when i was in high school I would start eating food that i didnt even like just bc i couldnt stop thinking about eating. I started weightlifting and stopped being scared of gaining weight (bc i dont want to lose muscle) and now i eat whatever i want and know when i have had enough. The last time i binged was 2 years ago and im so proud of myself 🥲

[@aminapm9798]

I know, I'm clean now and only drink water.

[@kaitlynzuniga]

same 1000%. quitting other things i’ve been addicted to were so much easier than food and i’m still struggling with it

[@rawrimmagetchax3]

steven is such a nice guy. even when answering to sabrina him saying "yes ma'am" instead of even just yes shows his character a lot

[@iamReddington]

Definitely his military background there. Military drills respect into you, yes sir or yes ma'am. You'd never see every day civilians doing that.

[@user-sb4rc5yw9r]

@@iamReddington Did I miss him mentioning a military background? Either way, I've never been in the military, but I grew up in Texas so my use of 'yes, ma'am/sir' is very similar to his.

[@levantineking98]

@@user-sb4rc5yw9r same I was just raised that way

[@mnijc2]

@@iamReddington Steven is a non-military civilian with a heart of gold.

[@caitlinglover7050]

@@iamReddington ever been to the south? lol

[@tresand9595]

Sabrina's whole demeanor changed when steven talked to her about his surgery. The nervous hair stroking stopped. That was so sweet and kind!

[@idoazu]

IT WAS SO SWEET ;;

[@shg3rr611]

YESSS AWWEEE

[@user-eo3tb1lc7p]

got me smiling fr

[@mixiegacha4792]

As a person with E.D, this episode makes me wanna cry. I just love everyone in this episode, they chose actually nice people.

[@alexandriavaldez3823]

I sobbed like a baby as I’m someone who’s bigger & as much as I love myself , I do at time wish I was thinner but this video just filled my heart

[@k1ng_chamberlain]

Erectial dysfunction??? 💀

[@mixiegacha4792]

@@k1ng_chamberlain Eating disorder.

[@mixiegacha4792]

@@asdf3668 Okay, you seem uneducated so I’ll try helping you by ✨educated✨. Eating disorders definition is any of a range of mental conditions in which there is a persistence disturbance of eating behaviour and impairment of physical or mental health. For me, it’s mental health, I used to not allow myself to eat as a punishment for doing something wrong. Different diagnosis came after doing things like that, depression, anxiety ext. Some other people can actually over eat, causing issues physically. Same with me under eating, it gave me constant stomachaches, I had low iron and I had struggles going to the bathroom due to the lack of water. It’s really hard to stop undereating/overeating once you start.

[@mixiegacha4792]

@@alexandriavaldez3823

[@atrophyheart2]

When Sabrina said she didn’t want to post pics of her self on vacation I wanted to cry. I relate to that statement so much.

[@Graysonwestby]

clearly

[@shriyauchihapotter4074]

Judging from your Pfp, you're beautiful and you have no reason to be self conscious!

[@Lemonkrissy]

@@Graysonwestby rude

[@Lori.jane08]

Ops

[@TravelingwithValeman77]

You are beautiful!

[@lukester102d6]

This is probably one of the best groups of people y’all have chosen in a minute

[@PattyBBallin]

I thought the same. Everybody being transparent and supportive is what I wanna see’

[@vascor.3267]

For real, it was really nice to hear different perspectives and experiences on this topic. Plus everyone was thoughtful, supportive and ready to listen 😊

[@brroookkeee]

I agree!

[@jayho7058]

Def true!

[@adamagueye7370]

Yes!

[@starkitty14]

It would be really interesting to have a lineup of people who all weigh the same but have different body types.

[@PandoraxBox]

Yes pls 🙌

[@janed4727]

Blogilates did a video on that

[@SofieArts]

Does that exist? I thought different weights *is* the body types!

[@BuddyMac69]

@@SofieArts 5’4 220 is a lot different than 6’3 220. Even 6’3 220 can be a muscular guy or a chubby dude

[@SofieArts]

@@BuddyMac69 Oh ok I get it

[@urmomsfavoritekatertot7260]

I clicked on this wondering how they were going to do this without being super toxic but this has gotta be one of the most wholesome respectful videos I’ve seen

[@user-ooop]

I can't believe there r no comments & I lowkey feel the same. So wholesome on a tough subject

[@omgsicle]

Laila is serving that early 2000s skater girl look and i’m here for it, like she would’ve be my fav character on some nickelodeon show when i was a kid 😂

[@jacobafterdark5258]

Damn 919 likes no replies that’s gotta be a record

[@neuroversse]

She looks like a character from Rocket Power lol

[@reemavishwanath1046]

omg layla/aisha from winx club

[@ejakaegypt]

Reggie rocket she reminds me of

[@yourfavmorena]

i feel like steven is such a genuinely nice person, he was so uplifting and very down to earth with everyone, more people should be like him in this world.

[@allistertheeldritchmemegod3537]

I like to think most guys are like Steven, You'll notice he keeps to himself except when replying or communicating directly with someone where relevant. Seems pretty self sustaining too, that kinda mellow cant be faked.

[@just2saucey969]

Be like him

[@carefulilickwindows6881]

Dude was on a low carb diet for 2 years... Don't be like him and avoid fad diets for weight loss, they are dangerously unhealthy over long periods of time

[@UnfrendlyBlackHottie]

It’s not that groundbreaking, calm down

[@UnfrendlyBlackHottie]

Y’all are always praising the bare minimum.

[@evan8463]

I'm glad Steven mentioned that VSG isn't "the easy way out." It's a major surgery that dramatically alters your body and lifestyle. It's not "just for fun" and it's certainly not easy

[@mojooo4996]

I loved that moment!

[@Todomo]

well both of my exes parents had it done just because they wanted to. neither of them had much issue with weight or eating at all, limiting their mcdonald’s would have fixed it. so yeah they hd it done just for fun

[@daltonmiller5590]

@@Todomo Definitely. For some people, it is indeed a cheap excuse to avoid working out/eating healthy. But everyone is different. Steven here seemed to be suffering from body dysmorphia, food addiction, and likely also depression. When you're in that state of mind, getting healthy is extremely difficult. Not only would he have to fight and beat his addiction on a daily basis, but he would also be battling fatigue, temptation, apathy, and even his own identity. For many, this fight seems hopeless or impossible, and this only fuels the depression. It is a desperate last measure, and that is why this procedure is only recommended by doctors to patients on the very heavy end of the weight spectrum. Sabrina didn't share quite as much of what she is going through as Steven did, but she may very well be going through the same things. Her choice is something I'm sure she's done a lot of thinking about and is definitely something she has discussed thoroughly and and gotten approval for from her doctor.

[@jochem420]

Yea VSG is a tool to losing weight, but it requires a ton of discipline

[@reemavishwanath1046]

agreed. I saw the process in 1000lb sisters with Amy and she went through a lot to change her health but she succeeded. 👍🏻

[@ranaa3920]

Steve’s story has me speechless. The way he carries himself so humbly. He’s so kind to everyone

[@ProbablyBees]

Oh poor Carmen. You can see in her eyes at 8:40 that she doesn't want to hear her weight. As an ED survivor too, I know that pain

[@senylalala]

:(

[@caseykenny6106]

The BLIND friendship between Sabrina and Steven is so wholesome 🥺🥺😅

[@lion._.artist4896]

how do u have no replies lmao

[@yazza237]

Steven seems like one of the most genuine and kind people I've ever seen; you can tell how his experiences have shaped him and have allowed for such a strong sense of empathy for others. I hope he manages to heal and resolve the issues he's facing!

[@personplant9046]

I agree

[@oldarthurmorgan6319]

Damn! 7.4k likes and 1 reply crazy

[@flameriver5414]

Steven is such a sweetie. It's really interesting to hear the backgrounds of people who are interested in losing weight and who have lost weight for their health. Everybody here is loving and accepting and it's a nice platform to address how everybody at any weight can struggle with being healthy and loving their bodies. I also like how Steven addressed that being overweight can be dangerous, not beautiful, especially at higher weights. And we as a society say that every body is beautiful but instead we should be supporting everybody to be healthy and to love themselves, no matter what step of the journey they are on. To me the most beautiful people are the ones who love others and love themselves. They support others and themselves to live their happiest, healthiest and best life, because loving life is the best way to live :) I would definitely say all the people in this video are beautiful because they had a lovely time and enjoyed meeting new people.

[@smartFunable]

Yeah overweight/obesity is first of all a disease that leads to other various health issues. We off course shouldn't bully somebody because of the body weight, however also being extra positive about overweight is harmful, since people will not be motivated about loosing weight. So we should emphasize more that being overweight is a big health issue and not a "look issue"

[@stephmcsteph4324]

This was a GREAT lineup. Everyone was so kind, respectful, and vulnerable about their backgrounds. I especially loved the connection between Sabrina and Steven

[@ameliakhan5881]

this was a really amazing bunch of people if only everyone was this respectful

[@cazbutterfly4229]

Debateable.

[@peepeepoopoo88]

@@cazbutterfly4229 why?

[@talking8804]

@@cazbutterfly4229 definitely debatable

[@SS-qo3nt]

Well then, all we need to do is blindfold everyone in the world, get them all together in one room, and start them talking to one another without feeding them!

[@aleezakhan236]

same last name!

[@sozl5494]

Steven is so attractive in all aspects. He has a golden heart and handsome face/figure. I’m so happy he got through what he did, and encouraging others to get healthy for their health instead of beauty. Healthy is beauty!

[@Insomnia_tic]

Lowkey reminds me of Chris Hemsworth in the face

[@XanderBeckett1]

U loooove whiteness

[@Ale-ey9ju]

this is not tinder stop drooling

[@XanderBeckett1]

@@Ale-ey9ju ur not the youtube master that can dictate what we can say fool

[@stare4539]

Lol

[@AppleApfelPomme]

Could you guys please bring Steven and Sabrina back for a series following them through their weight journeys and chatting through the struggles - particularly the social and psychological ones. Really need a show like that!

[@crich8956]

And the last guy. I think in US alcohol and food addiction is normalized because they are some times in social gatherings. But it can be a avenue to escape problems which leads to other problems

[@MarieAntoinetteandherlittlesis]

I really feel for Sabrina. I can so relate to not wanting to post pictures. In a world where everyone wants to take selfies, the body image struggles are real.

[@maryamhabib3384]

This was surprisingly better than I thought it was going to be, I really think the blindfolding made it a safer and easier environment for everyone to talk. I appreciate everyone's honesty(especially Steven) and it's made me realise that we should look at weight beyond face value, a lot of us, in real life and on the internet, are unsympathetic to individuals who are overweight or obese and similarly to individuals who are thin (maybe to a lesser extent but still a harmful discourse nonetheless) and we negate the fact that we as a society play active and primary roles in other people's body images so I think we should try and be more mindful and less judgemental and promote a healthy lifestyle rather than one fixed body image, people carry weight differently and there's really nothing wrong with that

[@olaoluwaakomolede2421]

That's a great take but I think it applies to both sides of the spectrum. People are also very quick to speak out on 'Oh you look beautiful!' When someone is extremely unhealthy. It's better to stay quiet that to mess with someone's mental state, by asking them 'oh are you anorexic?' when they might not be, or 'you look great!' when they don't. Not saying compliments shouldn't be given, but they should be focused on growth rather than how they look in the moment.

[@AxxLAfriku]

My name: AxxL My job: Superstar I like: Handsome girls I have: 2 handsome girlfriends My dream: Have more subs than my 2 girlfriends Your name: mary

[@soupoil7440]

@@AxxLAfriku me too axxl

[@summerskies176]

@@AxxLAfriku Same

[@Narra0002]

@@olaoluwaakomolede2421 true

[@taylormozisek7013]

Isn’t is crazy how sometimes we can’t see the beauty in ourselves, but can see the beauty in everyone else. I wish everyone was this kind to one another.

[@MrZxcvbnm22]

I wish I was this kind to myslef...

[@girlyangel1434]

@@MrZxcvbnm22 hey i just wanted to say i love you and youre amazing :) ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@anitabraykeer777]

@@MrZxcvbnm22 You can be, it takes a while but if you practice being gentle and kind with yourself and practice forgiveness you can eventually learn to not be so hard on yourself. Best of luck on that journey if you choose to take it. 🙂💛

[@regantucker]

I totally identify with Carmen. Being really active in high school made me so skinny no matter what I ate. People, even strangers, would comment on it and say how beautiful it made me. Then as I got older, in my early 20's I weighed 122-26 at 5'7 and I felt enormous. I starved myself and went on crazy "my fitness pal" diets and wasn't happy unless I was underweight on the BMI scale. I still deal with those issues at 24. I'm 119 now and am still trying to lose weight. Watching this video made me realize that it's normal for me to weight 122+ and I the dizziness, hunger, headaches, tiredness aren't worth it. This video really helped me.

[@melissadavis4981]

I hope you find a balance

[@HibiTeamQueso]

You don't have to lose weight. It would actually be healthy to gain some

[@Lau-057]

yes for sure you would benefit from a 5-10lb gain!

[@Jxstloc]

im 5'7 and 122 lbs but im trying to be 140 lbs atleast for now

[@makmitchelll]

I CRIED WHOLESOME TEARS WHEN HE SAID “I did that program” I’ve never actually teared up at one of these before

[@Bas22022]

The way that everyone was honest and raw and nonjudgmental was beautiful. Gives me hope in society. One of my fave line ups tbh.

[@stevenshipley5205]

Wasn’t planning on commenting, let alone reading the comments haha (tbh, wasn’t going to watch the video). It’s nerve wracking and kinda scary seeing “1.1k comments” on something so personal 😂. Anyway, thank you to everyone who took time to watch this conversation. Happy to have been a part of it and share my/hear everyone else’s story. Also thanks to the people in the comments sharing kind words and personal stories/struggles. Much love 🤙🏼♥️

[@Zedd...]

Sir, I was smiling the whole time watching you, your energy is immaculate 💙💙💙💙. thank you for sharing your journey, I hope you achieve great things in your life !!💙💙

[@serendipity211]

You're the coolest Steven! Thank you for sharing your experience. I wish you well❤

[@Reactivecat.]

you definately made an impact on me and I cried hearing what you had to say. Thankyou for being a part of this video, you really are such a ray of light

[@kashology]

how did you get in the video? do they just pick random people on the street? lol

[@saraib512]

I’m so proud of you! Thank you for being so vulnerable; your kindness has moved me to better my health. I hope you find peace and always focus on the happiness everyday has to offer. ♥️🥹

[@kiupcake]

This whole group seems so lovely. This was such a genuine feeling episode

[@Necrovania]

I feel for Carmen. I could see the pain in her eyes when they said her weight. I would’ve never had the courage to do this as an ED survivor, she’s amazing! Came such a long way 🙏🏻🥰

[@PADRESLFGSD]

Really admired everyone's vulnerability. With these videos, generally one person shines to initiate and facilitate authenticity; this episode everyone got real and shined in their own way. Really beautiful video to watch - had me emotional

[@1242Angel]

Me too - on getting emotional! This was so beautiful. What amazing humans! I see myself in many of their stories. I love the support, love and humanity they all showed.

[@kbyy6030]

i like cheese

[@lailahthatsit2590]

@@kbyy6030 same

[@tulipmars]

I like this group. I’ve never seen such a healthy discourse about weight/health between strangers until now

[@hamtserr3741]

exactly

[@Hdjjsbsxj876]

Some are obese

[@bethxx4931]

This line up is so wholesome I am in love ❤ Does anyone else this that Steven looks kiiiinda like Chris Hemsworth? His eyes, eyebrows, something about his face just reminds me of him.

[@sen894]

totally see that!!

[@michaelaparsley1745]

Yes I was thinking the exact same thing!!

[@macaron4280]

Ahah no I did too actually

[@ayxnaluv]

thats what i was thinkingg😭

[@brandonbarber1616]

I really feel what Rich was saying. I have lost 35 pounds and every time I look in the mirror I see the belly still hanging over my pants and still feel the chubbiness in my stomach and everything else. It's a hard one to look at and try to work through. This was an amazing episode full of love for and from each participant

[@jackphillips2208]

How much do u weigh rn

[@an6350]

weight is something almost everyone has had issues with.. it's cool seeing these people open up so quickly and have such an advanced view on body image/weight loss since it takes a while to get there.

[@stephanie7142]

Agreed!! Damn near everyone struggles with weight whether it be they’re ‘too small’ or ‘too big’. And on top of it it’s by medical standards and society standards. It’s often a no win situation mentally for all genders.

[@janickmeijerink6492]

Nah

[@lighting7508]

Almost everyone might be a stretch…. Seems to be a very American problem, not that it doesn’t happen in Europe where I’m from, but definitely less from what I see

[@an6350]

@@lighting7508 yeah ig i speak for america not all other countries.

[@an6350]

@@lighting7508 also the uk has a lot of weight issues and some central american countries in my experience

[@skeewee-c6206]

I really like how they were up lifting and supportive of Sabrina. I totally get what she’s saying about not posting pictures.

[@oldarthurmorgan6319]

Fax this entire video was awesome they were all very supportive to Steven and Sabrina and Steven to me spoke a lot of fax too

[@AwesomeHila]

I felt so safe with this group. Listening to them talk about their relationship with food made me feel not so alone in my experience. :) Great video

[@bethsmith3787]

Steven is so wholesome I’m crying. Have not cried this long is ages to a video. This is amazing

[@PepeHerreraH]

What a BEAUTIFUL soul is Steven. He made me cry and I wanted to give him a hug. I really hope these group of people became real friends. It's hands-down the best group EVER!

[@mackenziesafee6721]

did u actually cry tho

[@jiabarrett]

@@mackenziesafee6721 they may have tears coming out yk lollol

[@MsDemonism]

Steve is such a kind soul. It's in his eyes and how he talks about things. Wish I was more like that.

[@naturalbby1722]

frrrrr!!!!

[@SadeWatkins]

This !!!!!

[@camxox6089]

Steven.

[@MsDemonism]

@@camxox6089 wow 👌 👏

[@stare4539]

Lol

[@nikkifoxx4840]

Wow, this has been the most mature, honest, and insightful group I've seen on one of these videos. People were being honest with themselves and vulnerable, this was a joy to watch. I hope everyone on the panel is proud of themselves for being so dignified.

[@Lidyyboo]

Steven really made me cry. What a sweet and genuine human.

[@krishnakedia9243]

Richard and Steven if you're watching this, I'm proud of you both, you're now inspirations to many, and Sabrina congratulations on taking a great decision ❤️

[@Smacknbri]

Thank you 😭😊❤️

[@meisrerboot]

@@Smacknbri you're so precious!

[@Smacknbri]

@@meisrerboot thank you so much 😊

[@Smacknbri]

@poopie04 hiiiiiiiii ❤️

[@snatched2653]

@@Smacknbri you are so beautiful and i’m so proud of you!

[@theuchiha7]

This group has restored my faith in humanity. Best group ever Jubilee, congrats.

[@enndy7363]

Agreed 💯

[@valeriaromainville2288]

They are all lovely

[@NewAthanatov]

This group has all had issues in the past, but all have worked at bettering themselves by their own free will. Absolutely amazing group and super wholesome, respect!

[@Isabella-lm8ke]

As someone recovering from anorexia I thought this video was going to be extremely triggering but surprisingly it was both positive and realistic!

[@Anna-ex8lp]

my thought exactly

[@lilliegreen2169]

same here - i knew this video would potentially trigger me yet still watched it… love EDs😭 but it was actually such a nice video :) hope all is well, it’s so worth it

[@senylalala]

:)

[@nonye3667]

How interesting that they decided to do this video with them blindfolded. This just goes to show how weight can look soooo different on people.

[@MsDudette21]

how? i think u mean based on what they said they assumed how they would look

[@TGCid01]

Shoutout to Steven for vocalizing his view of body positivity. Body positivity's intention is to not be toxic, but it often has a counterproductive effect. Telling ppl they're beautiful the way they are when they are unhealthy is not a net positive. You wouldn't tell a meth addict or crack addict that they look great and are healthy, why do that with obese people? We shouldn't necessarily bully anyone for their weight, but we definitely should not enable them.

[@kennedy3682]

why are you specifically singling out "obese people" and not people who are also underweight? there is nothing wrong with the body positivity movement itself and there's no need to bodyshame randos on the internet.

[@TGCid01]

@@kennedy3682 who body shamed anyone? I clearly stated that we shouldn't necessarily bully anyone because of their weight. Did you even read or did you hastily react bc something triggered you?

[@kennedy3682]

@@TGCid01 when did I say you bodyshamed anyone? I said bodyshaming isn't the answer when you see someone "unhealthy" and the body positivity movement isn't enabling unhealthiness. also once again, why isn't this same energy given to people who are underweight? why is it silent then when that's enabled..? 🧐

[@TGCid01]

@@kennedy3682 why was body shaming even brought into the conversation? That's why I questioned it. - There's body positivity (enabling/positive reinforcement) - Neutrality - body shaming (negative reinforcement) I never promoted body shaming, so why are you even bringing that here as if I did? Once again, I clearly stated we should not be bullying ppl aka "body shaming". So what's the purpose of introducing "we shouldn't be body shaming" as a point of contention with my statement when I never promoted it? That's a non-sequitur argument. Anyway, back to the larger point. You say body positivity isn't wrong. Enabling someone who is an unhealthy weight with negative implications on their health, has eating disorders, or overindulges is indeed wrong. See my drug addict analogy. Ppl in that category need help in improving the conditions of their health, not enablement and telling them everything is okay. It seems like "body positivity" to you encompasses everything excluding body shaming (enablement, neutrality, and the absence of body shaming). So in your head if it's not body shaming, it's body positivity. Well, the definition of body positivity is specific to enablement, so by that definition, body shaming/enabling, promoting and congratulating the unhealthy physical conditions of others is bad. Just because I'm not for body positivity doesn't mean I'm for body shaming, which I explicitly stated in my very first msg. And once again, you must not have read my comments, because I addressed underweight ppl with eating disorders in my previous msg. If you're going to converse with me, at least read and understand what I'm saying. That's just basic fundamental respect.

[@pedroloto]

In my view, it's very important to love and be empathetic towards yourself while you are on your journey to achievean objective, but you shouldn't accept yourself regardless, because some situations really require a change (for example obesity or anorexia) and you can't just accept yourself, because your health could be seriously damaged I hope it's clear what I mean!

[@juliabaumgarn1484]

I love Sabrina so much I hope she accomplishes her goal of being a mother and with or without weight loss I hope she sees the beautiful woman that everyone else sees when they look at her

[@sweetlove3391]

Regardless of the ranking, just blindfolded talking and get to know each other was interesting without judge someone from the outside. But I think figure it out the ranking made even more motivation to really get to know each other even deeper.

[@emlinegar]

This was such a healthy conversation. These people all have such beautiful hearts.

[@t-arrs2865]

unlike sabrine tho

[@amreeka2267]

@@t-arrs2865 you’re so funny and everyone’s laughing :/

[@chiagz7538]

@@t-arrs2865 why you gotta be a bitter person

[@hishooo16]

This was wholesome af , what a great group of people, I rarely comment but to all who were in this video, best of luck to all of you, weight really is a struggle that could stick with you for the rest of your life but you all will overcome it that I am sure of.

[@alyssa3697]

7:12 idk i fell in love with steve.

[@nirvana_delev]

This lineup has my heart, each individual had a story and you can SEE their strong efforts is amazing and how beautifully their supported them

[@gyosob7265]

Everyone in this video seemed SO nice and I feel like this is the line up with the most substance, loveddd everyone

[@bigyikes8698]

Steven’s transformation, physically and mentally, is so commendable!!

[@user-eo2th2lf6f]

I got so emotional, Steve is so empathetic and kind. I can tell it is still hard for him mentally but he is amazing for taking care of his health. As for Sabrina I feel her pain, I too hate my photos taken and I hope we can all overcome that.

[@christttmasssholidddayyys497]

Sabrina and Steven made the video even more entertaining, super funny and all the people were very nice to eachother

[@nnotrubenn]

Thanks for having me on guys! I learned a lot about my perception on weight. Shout out to everyone who spoke on their relationship with their weight.

[@random_d00d]

Thank you, this was definitely one of the best Jubilee videos yet!

[@girlyangel1434]

thank you for being there I loved this video :)) definitely one of the best ones!!

[@mariapaz6379]

shout out to you, for being so cool.

[@cyrinekhamassi6578]

Ur so cool ruben

[@arpita8285]

Steven seemed likes such a warm soul. He was so empathetic and kind.

[@calliepoetry_]

This episode definitely got me in the heart strings! What beautiful beings they all are thanks for sharing with us ❤

[@kalamatajane]

What a caring and smart group of people. Thank you for putting this video up, it’s just so lovely. There wasn’t really anyone in the lineup who didn’t struggle with weight. And that’s a powerful realization. We all struggle with it.

[@sortakindaknd]

not even exaggerating when i say i think this is yalls best video; I may be bias bc weight and body image & eating are things I've also struggled with so yeah,,, really appreciated this and hearing everyone's stories.

[@drew4703]

word

[@kelly4697]

Same here

[@jumi21]

The fact that they all got together so well even when they were blindfolded..My introverted self could never!

[@Erinyx5]

I bet you're selling yourself short bud. You seem very nice and Im positive there are MANY people that would love your company even if you had the tendency to be shy and reserved. Being an introvert doesn't stop you from making connections 🥰.

[@Mariadgv]

@@Erinyx5 thats so nice

[@Keebles8]

My mom has just had the talk with her doctor about starting the bariatric program. I’m so proud of her. I love her so much, and I know how much her weight has affected her. It was a huge decision, and I’m so glad to see others who are going through the same thing she is talk about their experiences.

[@sngray11]

I really loved this episode… especially the open, honest, and vulnerable discussions that they had with each other after they took their blindfolds off. I have BDD and while I eat healthy and am at a great point in my life, self love and self acceptance is a lifetime journey and something that I have to work on on a daily basis.

[@agoodwasteoftime]

what steven said about food addiction being harder to overcome than alcohol addiction, i've heard is true. I only have the former of the two, but the difference is its easier to give up alcohol completely and never have it again. You can't do that with food. You need food to live, so relapses will be way more frequent and its much easier for the addiction to be triggered by simply eating a meal.

[@sarahboktor2203]

yes! my parents are both food addicts. there’s a program “food addicts anonymous” i’ve watched them lose over 100 lbs each and lose weight and gain weight over and over because once they start binging it’s unmanageable

[@emmanuelalagbala9590]

@@sarahboktor2203 in most addictions, the thing that the person is addicted to is likely crutch

[@madelyn2196]

steven is such an attractive person. the way he speaks is so heartfelt and genuine.

[@alyssatrainer5537]

they chose some awesome people for this. steven had me crying, thank you for posting this and thank you for these people being so vulnerable.

[@EdwinDPZ]

I love how everyone is having these conversations about their weights and their body images and mental/physical health all while Ruben is just awkwardly standing in the middle silently for like five minutes.

[@FancyMoore]

I honestly watched this because I thought it would trigger my Eating Disorder, but it was actually really wholesome and real and made me reflect and want to work on my issues rather than dive further into them. Great video ❤️

[@hippietinkerbell]

same here, I don’t personally know you but so many of us love and support you :)

[@coreysolorioloduca4370]

@@hippietinkerbell recovering is so hard but so worth it. i never thought i’d recover but i worked hard and have really mended my relationship with food and my body. some days are harder than other but i truly got my life back. the way i was living i would not have survived. you’ve got this!

[@ava-cn6ct]

I’m so so proud of all of you. You guys are so strong. You got this babes

[@user-jw1ub6ix1n]

@@hippietinkerbell as a fellow boring bisexual, same for you and for op!! stay safe

[@QuestionableFootage]

We’re all rooting for you

[@gummy5862]

Wow looking at Sabrina, I would’ve never guessed she was over 300 pounds. My perception of weight has just 🤯.

[@nellieeess]

I thought she was 240 tbh lol

[@reed7562]

I thought she was 4,000

[@onikatanyamaraj6448]

@@reed7562 you thought this comment was the one, huh

[@vuedanto8576]

I thought she was 60 kgs. Idk how much that's in pounds. Yeah I know my interpretation of weight is messed up. Edit: Thank you fellow people of the internet for rectifying the defects in my weight perception. Now my perception of weight is a little more accurate.

[@toddjohnsoneveningnews8870]

@@reed7562 lmaoo

[@RubeeRoja]

This was so beautiful, and so relatable and I'm so touched about them sharing their stories and how they interacted with each other. This is so amazing no matter what size you are, I think all of our inner selves can really relate

[@annaprezioso9219]

This episode was incredibly wholesome to watch. Makes my heart very happy to hear these strangers supporting one another

[@biancastilwell8110]

Steven is my cousin and he’s as lovely IRL as he comes across in this video….we’re all super proud of him ❤️ HI STEVEN (if you read this :))

[@mili4725]

he really sounds like a great person!! You're lucky to have him and you too sound really nice ☺

[@elonmusk1810]

What height is he

[@jenniferstilwell8634]

@@elonmusk1810 tall! Like 6’4” i think idk

[@richardsanchez9190]

@@elonmusk1810 if I had to guess I'd say 6'2" maybe 3

[@saranade8793]

I literally just got so emotional at the end. I used to be a bigger girl, I'm not nessisarily skinny now but I was alot bigger. On the verge of morbid obesity. Since loosing weight it has been hard to shake the negative feelings that came with being bigger and I related to these people so much. Weight loss (or even weight GAIN) is more than physical journey but an emotional one. Wishing anyone on that journey all the love the world has to offer ❤

[@thechuggfam]

this group wins! kind, lovely people who were respectful and tried to lift each other up! We need more groups like this!

[@IriniMando]

Love to see how everyone is talking so openly and judgement-free about their own struggles with body dysmorphia and how beauty and health are not always aligned. They all felt truly supportive of one another.

[@msimms1917]

What a beautiful video! Everyone was great but Steven, Sabrina, and Richard really had a special shine and vulnerability to them the whole time.

[@croft4746]

I’ve noticed that nobody bonds better than people with eating disorders, we got eachother :)

[@neosi3147]

Or it can be rhe opposite and its the battle of whos the best anorexic lmao

[@chikentendersandfries]

@@neosi3147 Hardcore ed girls 😭

[@Kaeldra3]

This group of people was so wholesome… like it just made me so happy how they talked to and were open with each other… a great group of people

[@kanupriya4513]

Steven is such a great person. I would love to have a friend like him.

[@jumi21]

Idk why but I kinda expected this video to be awkward and uncomfortable but it's actually really wholesome and sweet😭

[@anitabraykeer777]

I expected them to be respectful but I wasn't expecting them to be so awesome and wholesome, love all of them. Thanks for being open about these things especially on video. 😭

[@sebastianssmartfridge3005]

this was beautiful, I'm glad everyone's looking out for each other

[@Lintrovert]

Ngl this episode made me pretty emotional because a lot of what they said resonated very deeply with me, and I would think a lot of other people watching. So thank you for doing a video like this so effectively in a way that isn’t triggering.

[@CS-zb3ff]

This was very touching. One of the things that really stood out to me is the struggles each person has, their focus on being healthy and not just fitting into societal image. And it seems the person who weighed the least suffered health conditions usually associated with overweight/obesity, so I really hope people realize size is not the indicator of health! Props to each of these individuals for being vulnerable and importantly, being sympathetic and kind.

[@arfaelo3674]

"No, im dying. It's not about the beauty" -Steven. Now this is my quote for the rest of the year. 💙 (im also bawling 😂 )

[@jacintatate]

Steven is such a nice guy. The fact that he's been where they are and knows what its like, Wow what an inspiration! He's been there and done that and succeeded. Food addictions and eating disorders need to be discussed more. This is the perfect example of a group of people who are not looking down on each other but are instead encouraging one another to love themselves and strive for a healthier weight and mentality.

[@V_4_Versace]

This was beautiful! I'm glad all these people are so in touch with their bodies and their needs and open about their journey to get there. I feel like that's one of the toughest parts that people rarely talk about and it often manifests itself in toxic, hate filled rhetoric both about themselves and other people when you haven't been on that journey of self-discovery. To me, I think that's one of the most harmful parts of social media is only viewing external traits that lead people to not self-reflect and look inward. It was really pleasing and enlightening to see what someone who is working on themselves looks like and how they reflect that positivity on to others.

[@annen22]

All participants in the video thank you for your vulnerability. I felt connected watching you all connect over the issues you have had with weight, food addiction and dysmorphia. That was so brave and touching.

[@snowflower1638]

8:38 That poor girl (who mentioned she struggled with an ED in the past) looked off put when they read her weight outloud :((

[@ionasfinser1429]

This was such a wholesome video to watch. I think Steven's message of not going too far with the whole "you're beautiful" thing is really important: it's wrong to make fun of people for their weight, but it's also wrong to validate delusions around a problem that can ruin someone's life.

[@serendipity211]

completely agree with this!

[@macchiatodimila7907]

This video is not only wholesome but also kind of eye opening about how to realistically compare yourself to others without feeling demotivated and depressed afterwards.

[@Aliiii831]

This video was so positive and uplifting. I thought it was going to be very triggering and almost didn’t watch it, but I’m glad I did. What a wonderful group.

[@jesswinter]

Gosh Steve is attractive like physically of course but even more so with his soul.

[@OBVIOUSLYEVELYN]

You seeeee it shows that just because you see someone who is skinny doesn’t mean they are healthy… I am 4’10 and I weigh 90 pounds. When I wear something like a dress, and have insecurities about it I was always get questioned like “ you are so skinny why do I have that insecurities “ I am also borderline of diabetic, and my bad cholesterol is really high , and if I do not eat for the day I already lose weight.

[@OBVIOUSLYEVELYN]

I lose more weight then actually gaining..

[@olaoluwaakomolede2421]

Societal standards can really mess with people's state of mind and it sucks. Wish you the best, and my advice is to just see a doctor and let them do the talking - sometimes you have to block others' opinions out, no matter how hard that might be.

[@TopBagon]

I'm 6'1 and weigh 120lb/54kg. People call me lucky all the time because I can eat A LOT without gaining any weight. FFS I want some mass to not look like a damn skeleton. Nothing lucky about this

[@ashg9763]

@@TopBagon you are incredibly lucky. food is such an important part of life and it sucks having to deprive yourself because your weight is getting out of control. I have postponed/canceled so many plans because I want to get to a healthy weight first. If you keep eating as you do and just workout more, chances are you'll see progress. With overweight people, we have to watch what we eat AND workout. It's awful and I legit cry about it every single day. Like at least you can eat without constantly worrying how it will affect your body

[@francoherrera601]

@@TopBagon how many meals a day do you eat and do you eat the same amount almost everyday? -former skinny guy here

[@hayleyallover]

I'm so proud of all of these people!! Steven melted my heart. ROOTING for Sabrina and I'd love to see them together ❤️