Do All Lesbians Think The Same?

[@jubilee]

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[@1337ik_]

i thought the video was "Do all lesbians look the same?" and i got so concerned like i activated flight or fight mode and clicked that notification at the speed of light i promise you

[@heehee5472]

how was this comment posted one day ago but video is posted 30 mins ago?

[@sonrisadelsol450]

@jubilee could you please delete the transphobic comments?

[@joclark4619]

Could you please delete the transphobic comments on this video? There is a disturbing quantity at this point

[@iwonthesitatebitch.570]

so when are yall going to stop including very obviously bepenised ppl on panels/groups meant for women? or is lesbian erasure a past time for ur staff?

[@rileygudgel8446]

The gay privilege question got me thinking that a really cool middle ground episode would be "Lesbians vs Gay men", exploring the intersections of homophobia and sexism

[@RavensDomain]

I was just thinking this

[@space3934]

YESSSSSSSS

[@mst-pierrem5729]

Great idea.

[@miouen9435]

I thought it was so interesting. They brought up some great points and I feel it could be explored more.

[@joeadeleke]

@@skyefuqyou4874 women kissing outside is fetishized by many guys... The reverse is seen as abomination 😂

[@israel-fn4cj]

The girl feeling ashamed for having accepting parents actually made me cry because in reality that’s what we all deserve as queer people. It’s kinda depressing that even those who are embraced by their family can’t fully feel their joy because it carries a certain guilt with it.

[@hustler212]

I think it wasn't a shame, it was a hesitation to say that in front of other who had difficult experience with the same topic... You know, in the sense how we don't like to brag about the shiny things we have in life in front of lesser privileged people...

[@Sunflowers9191]

My parents have always been fully accepting of me being gay and I’ve thanked my mom for it countless times that’s it’s a non issue to her but everytime I do though she’s like; it’s just normal to me, why wouldn’t I accept it? She really doesn’t get how parents can not accept it but yeah I definitely have gay friends with parents who don’t

[@laurenlewis5907]

this is beautifully worded

[@anonomous8649]

I can totally see that. My dad is awful to me about it but my mom is accepting. So I've dealt with both sides of that coin. I love that my mom accepts me and treats me no differently, and I wish everyone could be that way.

[@gumphrie2906]

i wish my parents were more excepting it would be so much easier

[@Reionder]

I'm not sure being sexualized should be seen as a priviledge... lesbians being sexualized and gay men being hated are both acts of dehumanization

[@Lega1Eagle]

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[@leaink9981]

!!!

[@Em-vq7mu]

Yep!! Sexualization leads to violence too, just the tip of the iceberg

[@gino-tx2we]

I in large part agree, but imo gay men are just more victimized by society. I say this as a trans woman who has been harassed, and often misunderstood by my family when talking about my female partners. It's just very odd to see people conflating fetishization and dismissive attitudes to actual violence and threats of violence.

[@tgr5312]

Lesbians are sexualized because of how they put themselves out for men to watch.

[@eymiaimieme]

i just can’t wrap my head around the fact that some parents literally abandon their child because of who they love

[@Criner05]

Religion is pretty powerful.

[@kaeyaseyepatch2363]

unfortunately the threat of eternal damnation and torture outweighs blood relations for many people

[@SpartanGnome]

@@kaeyaseyepatch2363 There's a reason the year is 2023 , even if you go by evolution and randomness theory ... you're still in the red for it wouldn't be evolutionary to be homosexual thus cutting your own argument or sexuality

[@Caitilizzie]

@@SpartanGnomeWhat are you talking about? I don’t get what argument you’re trying to say

[@johndavolta3124]

​@@kaeyaseyepatch2363 you don't have to be religious. There is pleeeeenty of people who are not religious and don't agree with homosexuality.

[@whatisupdawg]

the first question responses stood out, i wish we would talk more about the privilege of growing up around other queer people versus being the only one in a small town and how it can effect people

[@Random-sk6hm]

FACTS

[@P3rrineLover]

literally, i grew up without anyone teaching me about queer people. i thought i was incapable of love for years.

[@jijitters]

Is that the only reason for those answers being different though? Even when I didn't have queer friends I never crushed on a straight person because heterosexuality is unattractive to me as a queer person and if someone is straight I automatically find them unattractive. I can't relate to or understand crushing on a straight girl.

[@acattagite448]

@@jijitters well you are different then. that doesn’t invalidate their experience

[@Caitilizzie]

@@jijitters I’m bi and I had a crush on my straight best friend as a kid before I even realized what it was. After coming to terms with my sexuality, I was less likely to fall for a straight girl, but it’s definitely different for everyone! You can’t help who you end up liking, even if you know they wouldn’t want to be with you. There’s no shame in it, obviously as long as you keep the crush to yourself and respect their sexuality and boundaries

[@damagedheather]

okay but the woman in the long floral skirt is GORGEOUS

[@cbryce9243]

They all are IMO

[@bun-e9361]

Agreed, love her style! 💙

[@ijustwannabehappier-v4973]

@@cbryce9243 she said the woman in floral skirt. Maybe learn to respect peoples opinion?

[@kid-ava]

​@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 how were they disrespectful?😭

[@ijustwannabehappier-v4973]

@@kid-ava Why would they come and say ''all of them'' when the person specifically mentioned only floral skirt? Imagine someone says ''you're a pretty woman'' and another jumps and says ''actually ALL women''.

[@Ayveh]

To all the goldstar lesbians out there IF a guy ever tells you "Well how do you know if you haven't tried it with a guy" then reply "Well how do you know you aren't gay if you have never tried it with a guy?" Watch them be quiet.

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

Men and women are different, simple answer.

[@ashleytrashley209]

@@PROVOCATEURSK no

[@davidmarwood775]

I mean they are though, men and women are different down to the cells in their bodies. We are a sexually dimorphic species, by definition there are differences between the sexes.

[@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess]

@@PROVOCATEURSK Simple answer to what, you homophobe and misogynist? 😑Your response was just an empty phrase, an answer to a question nobody asked... 🥱

[@thekalenichannel1812]

​@@davidmarwood775 that difference still doesnt mean that women don't know what we want. Same way men can know what they're attracted to without having sex, same goes for women. We know what attracts us and what doesn't

[@Kenos444]

Maxine is such a soft spoken and seemingly kind person, even when she was talking about her father. I think most of us who grew up in a fanatically religious househould can kinda relate and the fact that she was acting so mature and understanding towards others experience, is honestly really respectable. English is my 4th language so i might have made some mistakes in my comment, feel free to correct me

[@ijustwannabehappier-v4973]

No mistake at all and your english is perfectly fine.

[@koliune]

wooow its ur 4th langauge and its great

[@lilqueen5764]

That's amazing that you know 4 languages i want to be just like you but unfortunately thats hard for me

[@Kenos444]

Thanks everyone haha. Its easier for me cuz i grew up on learning them all ever since i was a child, but I believe everyone can do it with enough passion and effort. It is harder the older u get but dont give up

[@s.t.7630]

english being your 4th language is a big flex omg lmao

[@lukastaylor8098]

the whole “i had a vision of what your life was gonna turn out to be” is crazy and so harmful but so normalized. i hope moving forward parents in the future parents allow the kids they have to live the life they want to live, not based on a fantasy of the parents.

[@MsEjay9]

I think it’s completely natural to have hopes and dreams for your child. What makes it harmful is when you those hopes & dreams turn into direct expectations

[@ConvenientlyShapedUsername]

Yeah wtf, every time in my life when I've asked my mom similar things, she just said that she didn't have one and would love me no matter what.

[@jaloniwilson]

Well I mean its beyond normal and fine for anyone with children to imagine their future. Every person who has had and will have kids will. It's an exciting thing. It's more about not letting those thoughts become the only possible outcomes for that child. Allowing their kid to carve out their own path and letting your child's interests and experiences shape your thoughts.

[@shahrukhkhan8307]

it's normal. parents think about their kids future. it is ok

[@luisfilipe2023]

Parents will always have expectations. There’s nothing wrong with that

[@vendetta2163]

wish this was longer tbh

[@humanlyhuman5880]

^

[@cashjones6997]

Agreed. Only 5 questions seems really short

[@Julia-mw1gi]

same

[@Magst3r1]

That's what she said

[@vendetta2163]

@@Magst3r1 😢

[@vko.]

I'm so surprised at the straight best friend thing. As a bisexual, its happened more times than I'd like to admit 😔😭

[@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat]

The first girl I fell in love with was straight but I was 15 at the time. After that it never happened again thankfully. I've been with my lesbian soulmate for 19 years! ❤️

[@stillfangirlingtoday1468]

@@oop4841 I don't think it's creepy at all. It's actually pretty normal. What is creepy is what you do afterwards. I've also fallen for a straight friend, asked her on a date lol, got rejected and then moved on (after crying for a few months boohoo). We are still as close as we were ten years ago.

[@zoomer-express]

@@oop4841 It's quite common lol

[@doublefeature]

same i truly thought more than half at least would say yes. even as a young person, you never fell for yr best friend???

[@j4_ni]

it's happened to me since elementary school like what

[@alitzzy]

This felt so short. I thought there'd be more questions. Great group. Would love to hear from them again.

[@yuri5ever]

please make a longer version of this episode!! this video is wayy too short for the amount of questions that could’ve been included

[@ijustwannabehappier-v4973]

This is why i feel like lesbians are never taken serious or validated. If this was gay men, the episode would be endless.

[@yuri5ever]

@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 exactly !!

[@yosick69]

fr, like these videos are usually so long and there are much better more significant questions that could have been asked..

[@stephanielastname8271]

this is exactly what i was gonna say, why only 15 minutes??

[@aaaaa-bm8oe]

​@@ijustwannabehappier-v4973 hate to burst your bubble but there is a gay men episode of spectrum and it was 9 minutes long. This is actually on the longer side of spectrum videos.

[@michaellaaa]

When she said “If you’re not gonna love me 100% don’t love me at all” … I FELT THAT!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

Love is not a choice. Phobia is not a choice. People should understand these simple things.

[@michaellaaa]

@@PROVOCATEURSK they should, but some, unfortunately don’t 😢

[@kunpunko]

@@PROVOCATEURSKhate is a choice. you cant change who you are, but you can change yourself to be more accepting. it can be difficult especially if you have grown up in a hateful family, but it is not impossible

[@YuhanPan-re3yh]

literally cried hearing this

[@louise.x03]

as parents going forward, i feel like there needs to be this preparation for anything, for your child to be gay, trans, lesbian or whatever it may be. instead of having your own idea of what your child should be and have expectations that could change at any given moment.

[@triniteemoore43]

exaclty parents get caught up in the idea of pushing their children into what they wanted to be, or what they want for them. They see them as another version of themselves, instead of their own person.

[@triniteemoore43]

exaclty parents get caught up in the idea of pushing their children into what they wanted to be, or what they want for them. They see them as another version of themselves, instead of their own person.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Fr

[@3K2-k3m]

You should have an idea of what you want your child to grow up like that’s how you lay framework and foundations, what you shouldn’t do is to force things on to your child. Being to forceful is just being a tyrant and being too free and open minded is just neglecting your duty as a parent 🌚 life is all about moderation young grasshopper

[@johndavolta3124]

The problem is that if you take that approach, then society is going to dictate what your kids should be like. Your comment bothers me because you are surrendering your role as a parent and giving that control over to society and social media.

[@h.g.warrender5529]

I'm confused at 6:40 when Taryn says she wouldn't consider herself fully lesbian, why Jubilee cast her? No shade to bi or pan folks at all, but those are different identities, and this episode is specifically about lesbians.

[@blueizumi]

Interestingly I don't think I can recall any videos Jubilee has done exclusively about gay men having bi and pan men as well. I could be wrong but it is interesting the difference in Jubilee when it comes to this.

[@h.g.warrender5529]

@@Rosapond918 no they didnt

[@nolanclark9159]

@@h.g.warrender5529 they did lmao

[@ylvanilsson971]

I was looking for this comment. It really does invalidate the lesbian community. Both by what she is doing and by what jubilee is doing. But perhaps jubilee wasn't even aware. Since she has never been with men I can see why she would want to identify as a lesbian but if she still is attracted to men it sounds more like bisexuality with a strong preference for women.

[@Rosapond918]

@@h.g.warrender5529 A lesbian is a homosexual female. Perhaps the male is bisexual, but by their own admission they have only slept with females. I have no reason to believe they are not heterosexual, in other words...straight.

[@laineyton]

a lesbian woman admitting she is still attracted to men.. why are people so afraid to use the bisexual label?

[@ken-fv9cz]

IDK

[@gracep2910]

it’s not cool enough for them LOL

[@Xplreli]

Maybe because she’s not bisexual. Wow shocker.

[@beckmcguity6800]

@@Xplreli Well she not a lesbian either.

[@beckmcguity6800]

That's the biggest issue. Some bi woman complain lesbians don't accept them but they don't accept themselves either.

[@kordencaden5560]

LETS GO LESBIANS

[@Rhea123]

💃💃🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

[@Rhea123]

@@shishibenterfa Okay choco Karen 🐒

[@iwonthesitatebitch.570]

and the 1 random straight guy lmfao

[@erenjaeger1738]

KJ is a whole as dude so obviousXD

[@nev3157]

​​​@@erenjaeger1738 maybe transwoman went through one ear and out the other but yeah she's a woman you imbecile.

[@dalal1603]

As a lesbian, lesbianism is truly the best thing that happened to me, yes I’ve lost my parents and closed one bcuz of it but I cannot imagine a different life. Lesbianism is a blessing. Loved the video, let’s goooo lesbians

[@thekalenichannel1812]

❤️

[@avantikajha1109]

❤

[@sls.x2026]

I also love being me 😊

[@nairobi8337]

women ❤❤❤ I love being a lesbian too

[@kunpunko]

me too :)

[@addy8078]

I’m still shocked about the first question. I thought it was a universal gay experience to fall for a straight person at some point. Maybe not your best friend, but in school having a crush on a straight classmate is so common! But they mostly had gay friends? DAMN They don’t realise how lucky that is!

[@gracep2910]

yeah that’s cause 90% of these girls (and guy, lol) are not gay

[@bronte4356]

I was thinking the same thing 😂 all of my fellow queer friends have admitted at some point to crushing on a straight friend.

[@Lilyium]

They may be slightly aromatic, could just be that they don't have the normative "crushes" kids get. I'm demi bi and I don't have crushes easily.

[@MangoPanic]

Yeah I've never fallen for straight friends because I already know they're off limits, but like, random girls I didn't know well who turned out to be straight? Absolutely.

[@claudinskip1991]

I'm also a lesbian and I had like 50/50 friends? But what happens at least to me is that when I hear that a girl is straight my brain kind of blocked them out? Idk is weird but I never liked any straight friends

[@keekeekakakookoo]

i can honestly relate to their experiences with religion, knowing your own parent would choose their religion over you is one of the most hurtful things to experience. i love my religion but it's also destroyed embracing the part of me being queer.

[@hustler212]

So are you still practicing your religion...? (In the sense if it still hurts you, how could you love it?)

[@SpartanGnome]

well if you truly believe in your faith then it makes sense does it not?

[@vicnad92]

Try Hinduism, Wiccanism, Bhuddism, Taoism, etc so many lgbt affirming religions out there.

[@SpartanGnome]

@@vicnad92 What for? , they can be gay without religion

[@jumpstreet2425]

​@@hustler212 Religion aint the worst. Its plenty of non religious people who dont get down with lgbtq. Just saying, if you think religion is the biggest problem. Ill give you an example from me. Religion or not I'd not except an OF worker. Some people are the same way with LGBTQ. Cause its can change like feminism did 😂.

[@TheFauxFrenchman]

This doesn't happen often watching these but no one annoyed me in this episode, they all listened, no interrupting, they were great

[@MrBebopChamploo]

For the prompt "I have damaged relationships with loved ones because of my sexuality" - I don't like that phrasing, it implies the blame is on the women for being lesbians when any damage is really due to their loved one's inability to accept their sexuality. It's the loved one's reactions causing damage, not being lesbian.

[@leaink9981]

!!!

[@LeonidasIV]

Damaged as an adjective, not a verb.

[@fionaWhatever]

​@@LeonidasIV it's about the "because of" part. and i agree, a better phrasing might have been "because of their reactions to my sexuality"

[@butter-biscuit2248]

They should’ve said “relationships with loved ones have been damaged by me coming out” or something like that

[@jennam.7268]

Like Leonidas said, I read it as "I have [damaged relationships (relationships that are damaged)] with loved ones because of my sexuality" not "[I have damaged] relationships with loved ones because of my sexuality" but yeah they could've chosen a less interpretive phrase

[@venusluv-i1v]

Can we do a bisexual spectrum one next? That would be awesome! I love these. (And I'm bi).

[@davettadavetta5720]

Yes, I'll love that cuz I'm bi

[@Zeta523]

@@TryingtoTellYou Why is is such a difficult concept lol? Why is it ridiculous that many people get to reap the benefits of both sexualities? In some species, most of their population is bi. And in humans, bisexuality is more common than homosexuality…

[@Zeta523]

@@TryingtoTellYou It just is more common lol. Read a census. I dont get ur explanation at all. I assume that 2 refers to bisexuality but idk what 1 is. Asexuality? Second, wdym how much it is “meant to have.”

[@TryingtoTellYou]

@@Zeta523 The human body has a blueprint. Anything that falls outside the blueprint is a mutation and was not meant to happen. Asexuality is no different. You have a deformed part of your brain that is not according to the human blueprint. Bisexuality, as I'll explain for the second time, suggests that the brain has evolved such that it may lust for both sexes, which is frankly inhuman.

[@zidane8452]

@@TryingtoTellYou bisexuality is the most in the lgb community, and that's a fact

[@haveaheart16]

The fact that a parent could just stop talking to their own child is so heartbreaking to me. Like at the end of the day, regardless of what your beliefs are, that’s your CHILD.

[@jumpstreet2425]

its not heartbreaking to me anymore. Its called life. Its young people who make their on choices. Some have problems and some maybe not. I dont feel sympathy for a majority. Its sad sure. Think about the killers, and 304. And their family abandon them... Thats there choice. Shame is low... Thats why I guess so many woman think OF is okay.

[@lemonqvartz]

​@@jumpstreet2425 ur a misogynist we don't care

[@catradorasprmanager7728]

@@jumpstreet2425 except it's not a choice. that's like parents abandoning their child for being a different race. it's illogical and cruel

[@ArranVid]

@@jumpstreet2425 Those homosexual people are born that way, just like how we heterosexuals are born that way.

[@BigxPerk2298]

You can’t force people to accept or like something….

[@sonaverage]

Why’d they bring a woman who’s attracted to men on here?💀homegirl isn’t a lesbian by definition

[@adrianghandtchi1562]

She identifies as lesbian, so she is, therefore, lesbian, to be expressive about some of your attractions doesn’t guarantee that that person feels like they identify as for example, bisexual or pansexual.

[@blahblah9992]

@@adrianghandtchi1562 No, The person above was correct. A lesbian is a woman exclusively attracted to other women. You can't just identify as a lesbian and change the whole definition because you want to.

[@reyne8424]

Neither is the trans women.

[@rachellinton6613]

@@adrianghandtchi1562 if she is attracted to men in any way, she is not a lesbian.

[@M00NL9GHT]

​@@adrianghandtchi1562 So with this logic, men who are attracted to women can be considered a lesbian then? Stop trying to change the definition of something just because you wanna be included. It will NEVER happen. Being a lesbian means being a woman STRICTLY romantically and physically attracted to women. Period. Let it be that way.

[@chelsea5595]

Personally I don’t understand why someone would call themselves a lesbian if they are attracted to men 🧐

[@Amelia-V]

She clearly isn't a lesbian :)

[@chelsea5595]

@@Amelia-VYeah I understand if you are around lesbian a lot and mostly like girls and watch lesbian movies etc. why you might casually call yourself lesbian without thinking but to go on a video and talk about the perspective of a lesbian is weird.

[@bluewilliams4911]

Because plenty of people did before the 90s

[@Vengurl09]

yeah I agree even me who feels I can be attracted to any gender but mostly attracted to women wouldn't dare to say I'm a lesbian because of that

[@lemonqvartz]

because I can ❤️

[@mushroomsalttea]

If you're attracted to men, you're not a lesbian. I can get people who have had experiences with men in the past or thought they had attraction to men and didn't and don't feel attracted to men anymore, but anyone who is attracted to men is not a lesbian. The lesbian label is characterized by a lack of attraction to men. It's incredibly misogynistic and lesbophobic that people keep trying to redefine the only sexuality that doesn't include men to include them. It's gross.

[@Mel-wn9gb]

I could not agree more. So offensive.

[@gracep2910]

Yup. Jubilee is insulting.

[@qi6ko]

yeah fr there's only one label for non-men who are not attracted to men but plenty of other labels you could use if you like men (bi, pan, sapphic, etc) why can't lesbians have one thing :(

[@finlandbaII]

@@qi6koI thought sapphic means lesbian?

[@xfsowh]

Also if you're male you're not a lesbian but jubilee had to include a token trans

[@katarinachiogna-solovey3560]

Why was a bisexual woman in a video about lesbians......

[@two2leftfeet]

it is not that deep..

[@bicuriousdirtbikeboi2594]

Going back to the gay male privilege thing, I feel like there’s a nuance there. Like gay men are more validated than gay women are, but also historically speaking when things like diseases enter our community, gay men and trans women are way more affected. Also I feel like we tend to get hate-crimed more. Again under hetero-patriarchy, we all suffer, but I don’t necessarily think one of us has privilege over the other when it comes to our sexuality

[@hollowkid97]

And gay men are more likely to be imprisoned and/or executed. Like in pretty much all over Africa and Caribbean

[@Random-sk6hm]

Also as mentioned in the video, it's harder to be a gay male in society cos you're 'betraying' your masculinity

[@pedroantonio5565]

True. And that mostly comes from transmisogyny, which directly affects trans women. It ain't oppression olympics, anyway. The two groups are oppressed regarding their sexuality and when it comes to gender, lesbians may experience misogyny and gay men, especially femme ones, may endure the discrimination that derives from transmisogyny. Though there are still white cis gay men who are masculine and may go through their lives being deemed as appropriate Men. That's it

[@keekeekakakookoo]

it's just so wild to think that at the end of the day it goes down to misogyny

[@Love-sg5pp]

Can you explain how are gay males more validated? Bc I have a hard time believing if that’s entirely true. There’s KZbin videos made by childish high schoolers asking everyone if they would rather have two gay dads or two gay moms and most of them said two gay moms. It shows that lesbian relationships is more acceptable and validated than two gay male parent relationships.

[@faithminer640]

As a lesbian.......was not impressed by the questions asked in this.......:/

[@theimplications635]

same

[@valeria6045]

honestly it is screaming bi and pan phobia that girl that said that she isn't a "full" lesbian cuz she is still attracted to men... like honey you r not even a lesbian

[@prasannashetty965]

Bi Erasure, Biphobic and lesbophobic at the same time.

[@colemanxcx]

11:48 I wanna give this girl a hug! My dad is a bishop in the mormon church. I feel her emotions so strongly while she speaks about her family. In the church you are told family is the most important thing. When they find out this type of information they develop this disconnect with you. So much love for people who have to endure religious trauma♥️

[@nwauntie64]

Being raised in a strict Catholic household, I was told many times I was going, "To burn in eternal hellfire." Not okay to hear that as a teenager. Religious and familial shame is the worst, takes many years to overcome (and a lot of $ for counseling).

[@adri.c4]

Maxine is so beautiful and I really hope she knows she's loved even without her father accepting her

[@Noa......]

Just because you are with a female and/or have a strong preference for females, it does not mean you are a lesbian. Bisexuality exists.

[@rebeccamarcinko7735]

facts

[@sofiabruiz17]

Lets not tell people what they are or erase their sexualities, thats literally what the bisexual community has been fighting to avoid for years since it happens to them. Dont be that person

[@Noa......]

​​@@sofiabruiz17Not when they literally come out to admit their attraction to the opposite sex and then say they are lesbian because they are with a female. It is like when I said I was straight, and I am bi-erasing myself.

[@Amelia-V]

100%.

[@itsmeandrea138]

as i answered in another commet: stop labeling everyone as bisexual or fluid having had sex with people of your opposite sex in the past, or not being 100% into people of your same sex (of course that doesn't mean 50%, but maybe to be 90% into people of your same sex) doesn't make you bisexual bisexuality exists, but don't abuse and overuse that word

[@poetry_grrrl]

if you’re still attracted to men ur not a lesbian …

[@poetry_grrrl]

like the girl in the blue sweater shouldn’t be on this video ..

[@suyai7772]

I absolutely agree with it, when did the girl said that?

[@WisteriaHex]

​@@suyai7772 around 6:50 or so. She goes on for a full minute about her attraction to men

[@suyai7772]

@@WisteriaHex it’s also crazy how nobody else pointed that out… I hope she does not consider herself like a lesbian anymore

[@WisteriaHex]

@@suyai7772 I think because LGBT ppl are pressured into accepting this stuff or the inclus will get mad and shove us out of our own community

[@brittanyr140]

I was hoping to see someone on that last question disagree because their sexuality didn’t damage the relationship; the other person’s inability to love them for who they are is what damaged it.

[@leaink9981]

!!!

[@Socialling]

Isnt that basically what KJ said/represents ?

[@LeonidasIV]

Damaged as an adjective, not a verb.

[@alovehotel]

My problem with the label “scissoring”, is that they try so hard to separate lesbians from the word sex. Like it’s just sex, who cares how they do it? It’s sex 😭

[@apocalypsgoddess1]

I hear you. MY issue with it is that “scissoring” makes it seem like the only position for them to do to achieve the kind of effect that scissoring would have. “Tribbing” or even simply “grinding” would be better. You can do that in doggie, cowgirl, missionary, etc. “Scissoring” makes it seem so limited.

[@PaulHo]

It's astonishing that they fell back and stood grouped together on their respective lines instead of just maintaining the default distances. I was not expecting that and don't know why every other group would only move laterally. It was so much easier on the camera, to frame everyone and to not have them turning around for the entire time or only staring at someone's back. Wow.

[@6thgraderfriends]

It makes me think since they've never done it before like this, that they asked the contestants to do it this time. I agree, it makes it easier to watch the screen.

[@PaulHo]

@@6thgraderfriends I think women on the same team just don't have any qualms about coming together, even when disagreeing.

[@Lyse4books]

I agree with Jenny’s answer to the ‘gay men are more privileged than lesbians’ because living in a Mexican house hold my mom and I watch gay men relationships on TV and my mom never says anything bad or wrong about them. She even know a mlm relationship in real life! But when a lesbian couple is shown of TV she makes a bad comment about the lesbian couple. So before hearing Jenny’s experience, I never knew other Mexicans who are lesbians had similar experiences.

[@420chuu]

this is why acknowledging cultural differences and intersectionality is important!!

[@jesusbarrera6916]

that just sounds like your mother is the problem... who is that in any way priviledge?

[@ClarissaCloud]

Lol in Italy they hate both, it's a very "Men pov" society , and idk how to describe It but for lesbians Is like "you are kind of acceptable but i don't belive you"

[@missmaam2662]

black households too. Lesbians have been shamed by almost every older black women I’ve met, but gay men are celebrated.

[@jigglypuff452]

@@missmaam2662 I think that’s like the reverse of lesbians being fetishized by men while discriminating gay men. Sometimes women will do the same thing where they fetishize gay men (look at boys love genre) but are uncomfortable around lesbians and a big reason is they might be attracted to them.

[@nia5193]

if this episode was about lesbians why did they include a bisexual?

[@TheDesaroo22]

The last question and answers had me especially emotional. I hope they all know it’s not them and their sexuality that has damaged their relationships, but rather the intolerance and hate on the other end of those relationships.

[@oliviafouser]

The gay privilege question is so interesting, because I feel like it’s different societally vs socially. Societally and historically it’s easier to be a queer woman because we aren’t paid as much attention and thus avoid some of the harsher persecution gay men have faced, meanwhile societally being ignored is actually the issue queer women face because we’re invalidated and given less space in society (an example being that there’s literally one lesbian bar in all of LA that just opened last week, meanwhile there are dozens of gay bars in WeHo)

[@marvin2678]

Being Shot or Not having a own bar.....yeah really though choice

[@jesusbarrera6916]

well, go and make your own lesbian bar...

[@alexlesbean8739]

Actually I would disagree with the “societally” statement. I think that’s a privilege for for fem lesbians but when a masc lesbian is in public they get harassed. They can’t even go to the bathroom without someone telling them to get out or even calling the cops on them. I think it really depends. Like I know that masculine gay men might not be hated in the same context as feminine gay men when they are out and about just like fem lesbians and mascs

[@nehalilisays]

This reminds me of the difference between male and female queerness in football/soccer. For the men it's mostly taboo to the point they get pretend-girlfriends while the women are almost expected to be queer - but of course they still have to deal with misogyny anyway.

[@starbutterfly916]

9:14 the sister comment was crazyyyyy 💀💀

[@CaliTeacher1]

My gorgeous daughter is in this video! 🥰🥰😍😍 the one with the long black hair 🥰 so proud

[@anaccfalima]

how can someone who likes men be a lesbian?

[@katrina8046]

Literally, why is that girl on a panel of all lesbians? She's not even a lesbian being attracted to men.

[@therotconsumes]

yeah i was wondering what she means by that

[@kaileyking3439]

sexuality is seen as a spectrum or at least more complicated than just being one thing. someone can admit they have had or have the capabilities of being attracted to men and still be a lesbian because on the scale they fall way on the “lesbian” side. honestly it’s also about what label feels best and more comfortable for you

[@ariana_208]

Yes, they can be This is why she mentioned the Kinsey scale. You can be anywhere on this scale Gay------Bi------Straight If you’re leaning much to one side you are that sexuality or bi if somewhere in between

[@katrina8046]

@@kaileyking3439 That's literally not a lesbian.

[@daenerystargaryen1440]

If you are attracted to men aren't you bisexual?

[@gl4081]

Who said they're attracted to men?

[@AlzMarioWolfe]

…What

[@trixicenby999]

@@gl4081 She said I'm still attracted to men

[@gl4081]

@@trixicenby999 Idk what to say to that since you said someone else said it

[@gideonboateng6471]

I was confused by that as well.

[@AddaMeirelles]

All the reasons they said arguing that lesbians are more privileged than gay men were signs of misogyny. It's not a "privilege" to be "accepted" only when you're sexualized.

[@augustwinston6119]

This is the best statement I've read so far. The internalized misogyny are reinforced in these comments.

[@ohuntermc9321]

@@augustwinston6119I wouldn’t mind fetishisation over violence though.

[@ohuntermc9321]

What’s fetishisation got to do with misogyny? Do you need to use that term for everything?

[@deansbian5607]

@@ohuntermc9321yes it is misogyny? women are viewed as objects and so lesbians are even more sexualised by men

[@miles62546]

Why is there a woman labeled here as a lesbian who is attracted to men? Wtf

[@baristaz8834]

I'm just as confused about that one 💀💀

[@lemonqvartz]

did u see anyone in that room attack her 🫠

[@10101funday]

I think she was saying she isn't attracted to men now and wish she tried to just make sure. But she knows she is attracted to woman

[@Hellokitty_391]

She's being biphobic 💔

[@celineb20]

This was such a comforting video. Everyone seemed so genuine and nice 😊

[@TheTarynArnold]

❤❤

[@spooky0432]

​@@TheTarynArnold wait I feel like I've seen you somewhere?? I thought you were like some famous lesbian youtuber...

[@No-ou1fz]

​@@spooky0432 she's w cammie scott i think

[@Amelia-V]

Yeah, a bi woman calling herself a lesbian is very comforting and not homophobic at all 🥰😍🖤

[@Caitlin12221]

I love Taryn but does she even consider herself to be a lesbian? She’s always said she’s attracted to men as well, even in this video. It’s kind of weird that she’s in this video.

[@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess]

Yes, she says herself that she doesn't identify as a lesbian and that she is still sexually attracted to men and wishes to have had sex with them, so as a bisexual she should not have been in this video of homosexual girls / women, although I like her.

[@mark1h2023]

The last few moments of the video were very hard to watch. These guests are so brave for sharing their experiences! 👏

[@ecila26378]

why does jubilee invite a trans woman and then ask about scisorring...i was embarrassed for her...i know they wanna be inclusive but idk

[@awaawa4809]

wait until you find out that trans women can and do scissor too.

[@l.raquel7551]

no one ever will damage relationships becuase of their sexuality, if the relationship is ruined is because of the other side's hatred, always remember it will never be your fault

[@makinley.s]

The gay men question has so many levels. On one hand, they are generally more accepted into society as who they are. On the other hand, they face a lot of stereotypes and a bunch of other issues that lesbians generally don't (or at least not to the same extent). Its a really hard question, because all identities face their own challenges.

[@Random-sk6hm]

Gay men also face more animosity than lesbians because of the male gaze and perceived 'betrayals' of masculinity due to them being gay

[@ccrans1216]

Exactly. They’re treated very differently. No, lesbians aren’t taken as seriously. It’s frustrating. We’re also fetishized by straight men, which is annoying, but can even be dangerous. Some men even feel threatened that women can enjoy sex without them involved. I would say on the other hand, when society lashes out at the community, gay men face more of that backlash. People who are against the community see gay men as a bigger “threat” so gay men are put under a microscope. The current societal backlash is targeting Trans people, particularly trans women, and gay men far more than it’s targeting lesbians.

[@Imetwurld_]

@@ccrans1216 gay men ? Lol probably trans people . Most of the hate videos I've come across this days are about trans people seems even being gay is much more acceptable than being transgender.

[@Imetwurld_]

I also feel gay men being accepted depends on the region . I will probably say in most part of Asia for example gay men are far more accepted Maybe because of the bl genre that straight women consume or love .

[@himimedak656]

​​​@@Imetwurld_that's not necessarily true since gay rights and gay marriage is only legally recognised in taiwan in all of asia, as an asian i know the homophobia is far worse here esp from the family since conservative families believe that the son carries on the family name and what not and filicide is a reality we have to face

[@lauren8321]

I love every single one of them sm I feel like we’re besties awh

[@cbryce9243]

The family you always wanted. 💕 💕

[@daenerystargaryen1440]

"I'm still attracted to men" why are you here then... You aren't a lesbian

[@ellouisebadger849]

I agree if any of them are attracted to men and women that isn't being a lesbian. It's LGBTQ+ women not exclusively lesbians.

[@kotasinterlude]

these women were so sweet, such a great group. I loved this

[@PaperKuka666]

so the person in a violet dess is also a woman?

[@kotasinterlude]

@@PaperKuka666 Is this a real question? If so, yes. Lesbians are women

[@deansbian5607]

@@PaperKuka666yes :)

[@yourlocalweirdpistachio2772]

Tbh, I identify as a lesbian and honestly. I sometimes feel insecure thinking what if I'm not a lesbian? Then I have to remind myself about all the girl crushes I've had and how they made me feel and what I think I want at night and how when I like a girl I imagine holding her hand, laughing with her, kissing her, cuddling her, talking with her. Idk how I feel about sex though, I think I might be on the asexual spectrum or maybe graysexual? But I want to be in a relationship with a woman and I'm scared that just means I want to show off that I'm dating a girl and then I think how I literally wouldn't need to be in public with her to be affectionate. I've never officially had a girlfriend or kissed a girl but I wish I could have one.

[@Lizzy_And_pompom]

This is the most relatable comment I’ve seen, sometimes you just want to feel loved and make another girl feel loved too

[@fernandamena9461]

Omg I love the podcast that Taryn has with Cammie Scott!! Glad to see she was a part of this video 🎉

[@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess]

Yes, but why was she there though when she isn't a lesbian / homosexual, but a bisexual: 6:38-6:47 ?!

[@planetluna9554]

GOLD STAR LESBIAN HERE…We are allowed to celebrate that because as a woman you get pressured so much to have sex with men or at least try too… so we are valid to celebrate our journey and feel proud of whatever we want. Get over it! ❤❤❤

[@Tayedaye]

✊🏾✊🏾✊🏾

[@xNyx_Goddessx]

Exactly me personally I’m bi but like why would another lesbian be upset about something a completely different person CHOOSES to use like it doesn’t affect you they’re proud let them have something omg

[@sittinginbushes]

I personally feel sorry for ppl who aren't bc I imagine sex with a person you're not attracted to as sort of traumatic ig

[@rewbi2196]

I will say that although I get & understand the whole concept/definition, I still get confused by it at times (past beliefs that I'm working through), but I appreciate & respect it nonetheless 😊😊, because this is unfortunately a male-centered world and that fact alone is a problem (it should be the very opposite), so I'm here for gold star lesbian women as a bisexual woman. 💜💜

[@rewbi2196]

​@@sittinginbushes I feel that too, and it's unfortunately the fault of social conditioning, forcing these heterosexual dynamics on a lot of people. Girls and women alone are socialized to be male-focused no matter what, so it's ROUGH.

[@therandomactivist1124]

I think it's safe to say we all have it hard, that question asking who was more privileged shouldn't have been asked imo

[@victoriagriffin6029]

I’d love to sit in a circle and talk with these women. They are very open & deep convos are my favorite

[@zoomer-express]

The girl with the floral print skirt 😳💗

[@dr-ozone]

What about?

[@cbryce9243]

@@dr-ozone I think R feels 💕

[@beautyofblaque]

in the comments searching for her info 🧐

[@mendozadaniel338]

@@beautyofblaque dude it's in the description. socials are always there for all their videos

[@tystkanin9996]

I would argue that NONE of the women here have "damaged relationships with loved ones due to their sexuality"...It's their loved ones having a stance of conditional love (as opposed to unconditional) that damaged the relationships. None of these women actually did the damage; they are just being true to themselves and that is commendable.

[@LovefromSil]

I was shocked to see how many lesbians said they didn’t fall for their straight best friend. I feel like if there were more millennial lesbians in here there would have been a lot more that said they fell for their straight best friend since people weren’t even out when I was in high school. There was like 3 lesbians that were out when I was in school. We really have advanced and I love that for the generations after mine.

[@samharris6237]

this was so wholesome and i loved the mutual respect between everyone:)

[@Prima679]

13:58 It’s wonderful to know that there are people who have supportive backgrounds. To imagine a world in which no one has supportive backgrounds sounds dreadful.

[@meganrivera7579]

"if you don't love me 100%... don't love me at all" THIS! i hope everyone can have this mentality. it's not an easy mentality to have, but it's very healthy.

[@PROVOCATEURSK]

You can´t control feelings. Do parents teach their children nothing?

[@Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams]

I really like this KZbin channel because the people of Jubilee come up with specific topics that many people are unaware or scared to discuss. In the future, I would like to see a debate between straight and gay women. But, if there is an existing video of that, then maybe: - a debate between college graduates and college/high school dropouts

[@MoistDelta.]

How are you a lesbian if you are attracted to guys? Doesn't that mean you are bi? Why do some women want to identify as lesbian when they are bi? I'm thinking because saying you are lesbian makes you sound more oppressed and being more oppressed gives you brownie points. That's what I'm thinking unless someone can change my mind

[@user-bc4es6uq8m]

some bi women have a strong preference/only date women and thus feel more comfortable describing themselves as lesbian. if you say you’re bi then people automatically assume you’re open to dating both men and women, but that’s not always the case even if you experience some sort of attraction towards both genders.

[@ccrans1216]

I’ve been with my girlfriend for over 5 years. I’m a lesbian, but she’s technically bi. She told me when we first met that she finds men physically attractive, but she can’t connect with them emotionally. She’s so into me sometimes I forget she’s bi. Her feelings for women are a lot stronger than they are for men. She has just as much of a place here as I do. No brownie points involved.

[@venusluv-i1v]

I think it also has to do with the fact that people want to avoid biphobia. It's easier to date another queer women if you are a lesbian than when you are bi. That can be hard when your preference is women.

[@juliacissell]

there is a difference between a physical & a romantic connection

[@MoistDelta.]

@@user-bc4es6uq8m so what's the definition of lesbian?

[@brucenatelee]

"Scissoring is a real thing" is a really weird question. Like "No, there's magical parriers keeping vaginas from touching vaginas." Is it asking that lesbians like scissoring or something? I mean, saying something you can choose to do exists doesn't mean that you do it yourself anyway.

[@HelloMmm222]

The gay privileged question was weird. We all face oppression. Gay men are more likely to be targeted & lesbians are more likely to be invalidated.

[@ohshanana2397]

I’ve never fallen for a straight friend. I usually never befriend someone who I could see as a partner. The only time I did was when I befriended a past crush. After becoming friends,the feelings went away.

[@devonmunn5728]

It would depend on the person. For me even if I am attracted to someone but I can't be with them I would rather have them as a friend then not in my life at all

[@bartell20j]

Such a weird thing most people do, not wanting to be friends with anyone they are interested in. Seems like toxic behavior that just about everyone has.

[@pumpkinwarrior7138]

Getting to know someone just makes me like someone so much more It used to be more of a stranger thing but now I’ve failed for most of my close friends! None of em have been straight though (even if I thought one was but I was also like 11)

[@melaninkind8783]

@@bartell20j I absolutely agree with you

[@jayme2330]

I adore how respectful they all were. All listened to everyone's stories with 0 hostility

[@elini9218]

Next you should do all bisexuals think the same

[@dilfrat3727]

omg yes!!

[@arnaudpierre3984]

Bisexual women or bisexual men? Or both at the same time that would be intersting

[@TryingtoTellYou]

You mean do all bisexuals think anyone actually believes them? Now that be a funny title lol

[@squirrel9760]

@@TryingtoTellYou lmao I keep seeing ur comments I think you are bisexual and I’m the closer how could you care this much

[@TryingtoTellYou]

@@squirrel9760 This might come as a shock to you but the average person doesn't appreciate being lied to.

[@zaebtw]

As a queer person showing up this early for a video is definately a gay sign

[@truth6074]

I agree I am 0.00...1% gay

[@Furgie]

watching a video early makes you gay?

[@CrazyLikeChris]

No , it's a go outside sign

[@raydare2002]

we get it, your whole personality is being queer...

[@Yunhomatata]

Oop

[@Moss_girl]

Why is a non-Lesbian on the LESBIAN episode? Why would you let someone who is attracted to men, talk about the Lesbian experience? Jubilee, you should be ashamed.

[@earthlybeetle]

Im loving maxines energy she seems so down to earth ✨

[@lovingcix9273]

0:55 i did this ALL the time and the way she explains it makes so much sense now..

[@UrtooslowSega]

As a straight woman I was just honestly curious and clicked the video. I really like these agree/ disagree panels, it's just interesting to know everyone's perspective on things :)

[@JAM-hg4mp]

So straight women do exist? I'm surprised. You sure you're not bisexual lol.

[@Unknown-us1fc]

I was surprised to see Tarryn in this. Hope her wedding is awesome!

[@TheTarynArnold]

AHOY

[@kaidiver4306]

YEAA.. I SAW HER. IM LIKE.. WAIT. THATS THATS THATS. TARRYN. CAMMIE SCOTTS HONEY BUNNY

[@yeuruuerueeheue]

wait, which one is she

[@Unknown-us1fc]

@@TheTarynArnold Hi 🫢 this is a sign I need to watch the newest episode of the staying up podcast 🤗

[@Carriehammer718]

@@yeuruuerueeheue green sweater

[@lottie_star]

i wish people realized that fetishizing is just as bad as being homophobic, it might seem “positive” but it’s not and it’s weird.

[@liighterspoppow5152]

Bring on the bisexual women segment 👏🏽 😂

[@Amelia-V]

There's already one here :(

[@SP-mf9sh]

U guys are 51 % of the community lesbians are 12%

[@liighterspoppow5152]

@@SP-mf9sh so? Even more interesting

[@alexciad3741]

@@SP-mf9sh okay?? how does that correlate to their comment i’m confused

[@Rainbow_Warrior_Princess]

@@SP-mf9sh According to several studies, girls and woman are even between 60% and 80% bisexual though...! ☺

[@silkisnothere]

I have been looking forward to this episode! For the last question, I think your relationships can also get worse when you dont come out in my experience, since you hide so much of yourself from others and it can get pretty deceptive

[@Heejinsbiggestfan]

Bro why is girl who like men here?

[@theimplications635]

literally lmao

[@alovehotel]

Idk… 😭

[@Prima679]

11:25 The prompt could be revised to sound like the participants are not at fault.

[@djojo6857]

the male added as a "lesbian " is just not it i get it ur trans u like girls do you bo but a lesbian is females with females this looks pushed and forced af

[@DamselMinnieMandy]

lol, no? Theres a lot of trans lesbians, and cis lesbians that date trans girls.

[@djojo6857]

@@DamselMinnieMandy nope homosexuality is all about what you have down there being the same ... I'm a lesbian I don't do pipi i do vivi that's how we are enough Messing around with reality it's not cute it's cringe 🥴🤚

[@DamselMinnieMandy]

@@djojo6857 its okay not to like penises, i don't either (i'm bi tho), however it's only genitalis, it's not important for everyone, especially since they really change on HRT and some people get surgeries to further change them, and also, outer genitalia can really vary, through the whole quigley's scale. If you dont like penises that's okay, but there are lesbians that either dont mind them, are asexual, or have no genital preference, and they are also valid lesbians.

[@djojo6857]

@@DamselMinnieMandy hrt will never make u male or female you will pass maybe but not change biology sorry different opinions here i care more about reality so agree to disagree

[@Pr0d3gi]

LOL they would never add a ftm for the gays

[@myrague]

There should be a discussion on Latino and Black unity vs. racism between the two. It would be educational to understand why both cultures have individuals who agree and disagree or share experiences about growing up amongst each other; as we both share a long history together in the US.

[@TrVlogs82]

Facts because I work with Hispanics & they dislike me for no reason. The same in the car scene they don't know you but dislike you for no reason. I can't ask the Hispanics I know because they don't think how they think. But as with this one they are not gonna do REAL versions of us. It's going to be watered-down blacks & Hispanics. Because they want to be safe for KZbin.

[@Vengurl09]

I don't like how people always like to lump together the black and latino culture when both couldn't be any more different and latin america is huge latinos are super diverse

[@TrVlogs82]

@@Vengurl09 WORD!

[@myrague]

@@Vengurl09 I agree. Nowhere is this conveying that we are similar only that the communities share long histories among each other in the US. I brought it up to lead discussion more along the lines of the benefits of unity versus constantly finding reasons to separate and create division/racism/prejudices. I don't like the feeling of both communities being lumped up together either, but I know it stems from white people in power doing that historically. Latin America is definitely another topic with its own issues of colorism etc. but I hope they focus on the US and its history with both communities.

[@tariizm1500]

you are incredibly racist@@myrague

[@HK-sn8ql]

For people who haven't come out, can't come out, are questioning and/or don't have a safe space or queer people around, content like this is a blessing! BIG THANK YOU

[@ken-fv9cz]

6:45 I KNOW EVERYONE WAS LIKE WTH 😭

[@iarias7028]

i love jenny’s hair and makeup so much, she looks absolutely ethereal. jenny if u see this pls drop the skincare and makeup routine

[@mysteryglor4149]

She’s a makeup artist ❤

[@josefinaholt]

I want to marry the girl with the flower dress😭 she’s so respectful and nice

[@xSADRIC]

This was an amazing episode. They were all so careful and Boing and accepting of each other

[@headygambit]

Not sure why KJ is in this category at all.

[@penelopekitson8060]

Isn’t the lady who said she was still attracted to men a bisexual not a lesbian?

[@giannaromagnoli2675]

On the one abt gay men being privileged over lesbians, I’d somewhat agree. When I was 12ish I came out to my mom as bi and her reaction was pretty uncomfortable and she tried to be supportive but I could tell she wasn’t very happy. A few months later I heard her talking to her friend abt how she would love if her son was gay. It’s interesting that she would love to have a gay son but was uncomfortable with a bi daughter. However, she proceeded to say “yeah bc then him and I can go shopping together and stuff!” Gay stereotypes also suck🤷🏻‍♀️

[@whydontweus]

i totally agree with the damaged relationship one. like i came out 4 years ago when i was 19 and i never really told anyone but i knew since i was like 12. like i told 2 or 3 people that was it. but my family likes to make gay jokes and not in the fun way so i hate talking about relationships and stuff cuz i feel awkward that they don’t accept me fully.

[@jennacampbell7]

this was very interesting to watch as a lesbian!!