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[@JubileeeES]

This video is now available in Spanish!

[@hxzelberries7480]

Thanks!

[@drakenpage6776]

Do all Feminists think the same?

[@jackringeisen772]

don’t care your cringe

[@mariomario-ih6mn]

ok

[@Bobobox95]

@@jackringeisen772 *You’re

[@15gladuis22]

I died when he said “well mine doesn’t look like that” in the kid voice

[@deecyp64]

He is super cute

[@drmosaddegh]

1:26 that was so cute

[@aimawaseem4436]

Haha yea that was adorable 😂💜

[@Suck_em_acrylic_of-toes]

Lol fr

[@kennedynicole5025]

one of the prompts should’ve been “I would want my daughter to date someone like me”

[@jager2754]

This Just sounds so wrong

[@13gudadod]

Bald guy would back the fuck out real quick if this was this question because he wouldn't be "the man"anymore

[@raina2319]

Nice one. But maybe men like him would want their daughters to be under the control of their partners.

[@vikkil8804]

That would be a great question

[@SnowyWolborg]

@@13gudadod It depends on if he ends up being the type of father who sees his daughter as the _only_ special girl who deserves the perfect guy, or simply another girl who should be subservient to her guy.

[@shadirazavi8347]

“If she’s not gonna date me that a second time because I didn’t pay for her,I think I dodged a bullet” Factsss

[@adityakurapaty9306]

It's not facts, its fax

[@monette_4999]

Why don't they just split the bill? Honestly just takes away the problems

[@shanafondon8767]

Or she dodged one

[@otsutsukiindra2647]

@@monette_4999 The man has to be the one who pays, period!

[@emilyself5971]

it should be whoever asks the other person out. If the man asks the girl out he pays, of the girl asks the man she pays. I don’t know that’s what I think

[@chrishansen8119]

The bald dude is the guy you read about on Twitter posts

[@wooweee5334]

Chris Hansen shouldn’t you be catching predators

[@ellaoof3092]

Lmfaoo.

[@drinkmilk1978]

Why?

[@drinkmilk1978]

@@zonbilol7883 I feel attacked xD

[@threedollaya8860]

I feel like after this they all went out for beer but just didn't tell the bald guy

[@ufoundkaleysheree]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@minminm257]

Fr

[@sosoberna5995]

They don’t deserve him anyways he’s too good

[@leticiapears]

Soso Berna God no, he’s toxic lol

[@thheHAZZARD]

@@leticiapears omgggggggg hes sooo toxic girl! everyone should just have your ideals and if they dont want to they should just die cuz theyre just soooo toxic! OMGGGGGGG!

[@Camila-oi7do]

"Once you give a woman the power" you know there's something wrong when they start like that

[@glebb..3416]

Most of the world things like this, most of the world is traditional which is ok. Something the western world needs to understand.

[@vivilonrane1330]

@@glebb..3416 bro, women afe suffering everywhere in the world becsuse of inequality. Power is never something men can decide to GIVE to women, the audacity of gatekeeping it in the first place is insane

[@souijaboi3198]

@@vivilonrane1330 women want privileges but 0 accountability they r like children so why give power to them ?

[@12gasl]

@@vivilonrane1330 BUT PAYING A BILL IS NOT HAVING POWER IT'S THE OPPOSITE. if u want to pay then do it (it's better that way imo)

[@Emptytopfloor]

@@hebahayed363 you have clearly never been to any 3rd world country. You don’t know how many child marriages happen, how much femicide, gender selection, honor rape and honor killings are prevalent among traditional cultures.

[@catad.c.7075]

The bald guy is a whole red flag 🚩

[@vejoka]

Agreed

[@hasb.3645]

And he is bald too😂

[@rafreyes1190]

🙃

[@mirroruniverse9331]

His brain is more empty than his head

[@Shhehwhsi24]

The real dangerous people are the ones who hold popular opinions in public, but in private they do the exact opposite of what they say.

[@speakingmymind7970]

If she is not gonna date me because I did not pay a bill then I dodged a bullet.

[@jessi4894]

I think that if a man and woman are going on a first date, going Dutch is really the most fair and polite option. That way, everyone is responsible for themselves, nobody feels owed anything, and they can more easily decide if they genuinely had a good time together and want to go out again.

[@TheItachiRulez]

@@jessi4894 Yeah if you're basing whether or not you should go on a second date on who paid the meal then you're going to have a bad time

[@brittanysmith3716]

She would have also dodged a bullet as well

[@atze4505]

@@brittanysmith3716 lol gtfo and get a job, the princess can't pay for the dinner herself?

[@brittanysmith3716]

Atze She can, if she felt no chemistry with the guy or the date was a complete disaster. Then they should split the bill. I’m also in favor of paying the next meal. Not because I have a job or career and I think I’m “miss independent” or “I can take care of myself”. But to show the man that I appreciate him. But like the bald guy said, you get one chance to make a first impression. The man paying on the first date is a way to show that.

[@macygray4664]

an idea: do all rich people think the same?

[@notmyrealnamep9218]

Macy Gray most rich people are businessmen

[@maxpower4896]

@@notmyrealnamep9218 Thats not true at all.

[@kiahuggan]

*millionaires

[@kiiaraxo6136]

Yes

[@sarah_7777]

Yess

[@catsrule1343]

I think whoever asks the other person out should be the one to pay.

[@zacharylacore2905]

that's a good rule of thumb and I agree with you but it still has its problems. I think it's better than just the man paying every time because it makes it harder for people to exploit each other for free meals

[@la95921]

I agree with the idea but I also don’t. I agree with the idea as the other person is giving you their time and their attention and it was your idea to go out with them. But you should split the bill as it puts a lot of pressure onto the one paying and a lot of other ideas I have but I can’t word.

[@otsutsukiindra2647]

No, the man should pay. No matter who takes the first step.

[@zacharylacore2905]

@@otsutsukiindra2647 why should the man always pay? it incentivizes using men for free meals

[@catsrule1343]

@@otsutsukiindra2647 that's sexist to both men and women. It assumes men always have to be the one to "take care" of women as if we can't take care of ourselves, and it also is unfair to men because they would be the ones constantly losing money. We're not in 1950s anymore.

[@sicknikki4629]

this man in the blue can catch my heart so hard ugh yes thats a powerful man

[@brighton_mariee]

Tf is wrong with you

[@riseandshine5824]

she prolly meant the cool one😂

[@seanmoynihan9194]

@@brighton_mariee they prolly meant the dude with hair

[@andrechinchilla3315]

Those guys are the ones ,gurls put on the friendzone

[@Jaunty_jules]

there are 3 guys with blue color cloth

[@throughthe_looking_glass]

so... a powerful woman makes you uncomfortable

[@stillslumpt3453]

@@mrnoobie2541 lmao that’s clearly not what they meant and you know it

[@tofupowda]

@@mrnoobie2541 what are you even saying?

[@dang5874]

The irony is he likes to feel powerful, I guess he doesn't care that much how comfortable a woman would be with him.

[@katie7513]

@@mrnoobie2541 that’s not a powerful woman lmao

[@Myah_J]

@@mrnoobie2541 bro what

[@bilty0707]

Dude In the back be looking like the chef in ratatoui

[@jakebowen8617]

LOL YES

[@ayyachris]

Lmao!

[@jaydos92]

@Gachaverse Paradise can you stop butchering the english language please?

[@smoothbrained4channer976]

@@jaydos92 no u

[@jaydos92]

@@smoothbrained4channer976 Sorry. Can you please stop butchering the English language?

[@goaway9611]

blue shirt seems like he is very level headed. i like the way he interacts with people of the opposing side. idk he seems very patient and insightful

[@asuka7892]

WHY CANT WE ALL JUST SPLIT THE CHECK, WHY IS IT SUCH A BIG DEAL

[@MeWe-fh1lu]

I DON'T WANT TO PAY

[@asuka7892]

@@MeWe-fh1lu THEN DONT EAT THE FOOD

[@420cm]

@@MeWe-fh1lu THEN DONT DATE

[@deffonotdio6751]

Exactly, relationships are mostly about working together, if you can't do that then you shouldn't be in one

[@bobbystoes55]

If you're in a relationship yes, if it's a date then who ever invites should pay, and then if there is a second date the other one pays

[@sherylsmallwood-valdivia5375]

"If she's not going to go on a second date with me because I didn't pay, then I dodged a bullet." He was exactly right.

[@judobigdog7683]

@@OhioGirl wouldn't you be the broke ass if u cant pay the bill either?

[@justicemartinez2625]

Guys pay for me. Those that make me bad?

[@jojosaylor8996]

I think she dodged a bullet not him.

[@Sinsanatis]

@@judobigdog7683 the quote alone is out of context. its if "i didnt pay(for her on the first date)" its not that u CANT wait i dont see ohio girl. nvm i may be missing context

[@Sinsanatis]

@@justicemartinez2625 thats not what the quote is referring to

[@bubbybets9336]

if a man is threatened by a woman’s power, then throw the whole man away

[@rafreyes1190]

hahhahhahaha

[@juliaedlund4107]

YEET HIM

[@nickthemacmcgc45]

@Bubby Bets have u eva heard of abuse of power??

[@bubbybets9336]

@@nickthemacmcgc45 women rarely have the power, let alone abuse it, because of how society views women

[@jefrreyjeffery2192]

Idk what's wrong with him. If a rich girl would date me and pay, i would be so happy lol

[@_-astl-_007]

The bald guy’s ego is more fragile than glass

[@jogreathouse9680]

I’d say more fragile the a chip

[@graymiller6684]

@@jogreathouse9680 more fragile than paper-

[@natashamathews6182]

@@graymiller6684 even more fragile than Mimosa pudica (or the touch me not plant)

[@hsdjsdshdhsdnsmsd6247]

He isnt fragile at all. You just dont like his values.

[@hinatashouyosjumpingshoes3441]

@@hsdjsdshdhsdnsmsd6247 awww you are too arent you

[@inscrutiatingpain]

“toxic masculinity is overblown” the guy in the jean jacket was confident until he realized the bald guy was agreeing w him and he got confused lmao

[@kikimoss1637]

😂😂😂😭

[@syd2955]

Was thinking the exact same thing😭

[@hiiammona462]

Omg yes 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@urworstnightmarefr]

Fr Lmaoo

[@LSmashB]

@Forsworn Hey, I disagree with you on that one, but I think it may be because I don't fully understand what you're saying, would you be able to expand on it please? :)

[@sagamcallister5790]

“Once you give the woman the power, you emasculate yourself” ah, we love a fragile ego

[@jarenc2048]

As if we ever say “if men lead I’m gonna be a man”.

[@Ananya-qp4tq]

LMFAO

[@mariam-tzortz7622]

Damn best comment

[@TNJ-gn2gv]

All egos are fragile.

[@shiriyahav01]

@@tusais7 this comment makes me feel like we just stepped 150 years back in time. Women control their feelings, and men have feeling too, I believe you should choose a leader based on personality and wisdom, not sex.

[@love_dove_]

John, the guy in the electric blue shirt, is such a beatiful human. In personality and his views. I loved everything he said. I hope more men are like him :-)

[@kenganashura2421]

Puñal Take home No need that kinda of solf male here

[@afterglcw5050]

i was chill with denim jacket dude until the me too part..

[@qwertyqwerty-bo8xy]

same...

[@vibez2806]

I am completely with him, I will support it when we stop getting people fired without proof.

[@moonchild5168]

samw... I thought he was cute and then I was like “ew tf”

[@ubyudofia5942]

Rape is honestly a very sensitive topic. Because there can be false accusations but then you can't also say you want proof of rape or sexual harassment, one doesn't prepare to be raped or sexually assaulted and people need to get that.

[@creativename5060]

@@ubyudofia5942 I agree. Personally, I worry because I don't want to support someone who ends up being a rapist and I also don't want to support someone who lies to ruin somebody else's life. I've heard a good deal of stories from guys who can say they or somebody they knew had their lives ruined by some girl who made a false argument. Regardless of the amount of evidence and people that backed them up, it doesn't matter if they're locked up or not. They are declared "hands-off" by society.

[@gonk9204]

*Old school* and *traditional* are tattoo styles, not excuses for being a misogynist.

[@meglbrn5368]

👏👏omggg

[@faithhodge5927]

Factssssssss

[@kdkdndjfjdnn9168]

i actually think it is because back then "sexism" (big diffrences between men and women) where a normal thing so if you really want to live traditional you are automaticly sort of "sexist" because its old tradition that women and men have diffrent roles

[@alimranahmed4116]

Why are you labeling him and accusing him with something so serious without evidence?

[@ssm5708]

@@alimranahmed4116 evidence is the video, stop excusing toxic behavior just because is doesn’t effect you directly.

[@ms.dannyd9219]

I think a "do all feminists think the same" would be an interesting video

[@ThePraise91]

Totally agree!!!!!!

[@linegodballe3222]

Yes!!!!

[@ffm595]

YES

[@everettfanor1989]

Yes because we already know theyre all over the place especially when Race and religion is included

[@aerinh.3456]

Yesss

[@rainepanda]

The idea that a man gets his masculinity by oppressing a woman is crazy

[@bananajoe6400]

They dont, not one guy in this video does. What the fuk are you talking?

[@victoriam438]

@@hmp9444 yea but not every woman wants to be provided for by a man. He's pushing that narrative that everyone should be like that when it's 2020 not the 50s. So yes that's oppressing women.

[@user-pv9pv4xf9c]

@@xafbxmoto269 if women didn't like being tied down and spanked every once in a while then why is 50 Shades of Grey such a big seller? These feminist women are so dishonest.

[@micahtorres9011]

Banana Joe The bald guy.

[@reallydude-]

@@victoriam438 No it's not oppressing women for men to work their asses off just to make sure she lives the best life possible with the kids. Would you rather men say fuck it you can take care yourself? Nobody is saying the woman can't get a job or anything like that. Get a job be whatever you want career wise, but we as men will 100% be there for you and work like crazy so that you don't HAVE to work. You can 100000000% work if you want to but we should make it so you don't HAVE to.

[@aguywithblondehair3273]

I personally would pay, but I STRONGLY disagree with his reasons You do it because it’s generous NOT because it makes u man or pushes u up in society THATS bull

[@rschumachr]

"If she's not gonna date me that 2nd time cause I didn't pay for her, I think I dodged a bullet." YES. 100000000% YESSSSSS

[@meenakshisaxena5214]

Yes

[@Salooi]

I think she dodged a bullet.

[@musictorin]

@@Salooi Found a gold digger

[@cyrusthegreat7030]

@@Salooi found the e girl gold digger

[@brooke8900]

dude in the denim jacket is not only fine but articulate asf

[@cookiesarelikecream]

brooke and attractive hehe

[@munaal-mansur3365]

A she literally already said he was 🤣

[@Zeustah]

A you’re a moron

[@brookeyoung400]

brooke point blank period

[@magnoliaroses0]

amen

[@amanmonga3494]

bald guy: i am traditional erin: that’s not vegan.

[@tgs4463]

tendopain18 eel tube: BOOK 👁 👄 👁

[@brandonszn4917]

LMFAOOO

[@alexandernichols2171]

I can’t 🤣🤣 how did you just enter my mind

[@jamyra8896]

LMFAOOO ERIN SUPERRRR ANNOYING

[@shawnshike427]

Lmfao

[@AnaMC1]

As a woman, I don’t mind a man being in charge as long as he is kept accountable, and he is fair to both women and men. With great power comes great responsibility.

[@lugi3392]

Facts

[@swatisaini6447]

💯💯💯

[@Omars911]

Ok? i don't think a single soul disagrees with this💀

[@otureisio4348]

"Its not the size of the boat its the motion of the ocean"😂

[@hanasall2814]

liking the ‘old school’ way is not an excuse to be sexist.

[@wxckyy]

Yea lmao, “the old school way” was beating ur wife if she didn’t cook you food, but it woks so why not

[@middle.of.nowhere5563]

Lmaooo paying for someone’s food is now ‘Sexist’

[@Mexican4life14]

@@middle.of.nowhere5563 Nobody said that. But saying you have to because you're a man is.

[@mann7298]

@Logan Siegfried he said plenty

[@sophiabeesoup]

@Logan Siegfried oh yeah besides the whole not letting women have any power and saying men need to be the only leaders thing

[@angelrivera4189]

90% of comments: complaining about the bald guy 5%: denim shirt guy 5%: blue shirt guy

[@hey8133]

denim *shirt* lmao

[@marksilla8276]

The denim shirt guy is really cute tho

[@asherschmidt9820]

Is it just me who thinks "blue shirt guy" looks like Trudeau?

[@therektfactory]

Anyone else here think the bald guy was the best?

[@telightpryramid767]

Also saying emasculate instead of saying demasculate.

[@stellar2926]

Notice how everyone hugged each other but the bald guy only got a handshake

[@paysonbiker]

To me, toxic masculinity is defined by the question that followed about “are you comfortable showing your emotions?” Society is FULL of angry, confused men who never learned that it’s ok to feel and express emotions-in fact it’s healthy and we should be doing that.

[@seanmoynihan9194]

Not showing your emotions isn’t part of toxic masculinity toxic masculinity is when men are toxic like cat calling bot when they feel uncomfortable

[@enyazogd5325]

@@azrael_morningstar "i dont show my emotions cus im not a pussy" that is exactly the problematic mindset we're talking about LOL

[@wheeler5382]

Stoicism is NOT toxic masculinity wtf..

[@No_step_on_snake]

anger is an emotion...

[@lilirose8108]

Bald guy: * speaks * Everyone: “and I oop”

[@godlikejr.3683]

I could see what he's saying, not everything, but some I could.

[@hard935]

More like Millennial males (24-33 years old) new trendy views VS one Generation X man bald guy (37 -55 year old) traditional views

[@rebeccahutchinson5298]

Hard9 that and the bald dude, had fragile masculinity. If you’re afraid a girl is going to pay for dinner is going to make you feel emasculated, you have a problem.

[@venitabenjamin1458]

Lili Rose 😩🤣 im cryinggg

[@chippy_lol6958]

Lili Rose FR JEODJFKD

[@mateoflores7551]

being gay doesn’t mean showing all ur emotions and it makes me so sad that young boys are taught that in their childhood

[@federicounivaso6513]

Exactly, I'd say there are as many types of gay men as straight ones, I don't see why being gay should define you in such a specific way. You just have to get to know people to realize that.

[@chewytzuyu2962]

People think that only gays and girls can cry and show their emotions..........guys however are not allowed to show emotion cuz their suppose to “man up “........SMH😑🙄🙄

[@jorgxafonso]

THIS

[@namemes5594]

@Skyle Andria and the gei doesn't like you.

[@ganymede8257]

As a gay guy, I learned to show zero to no emotion just because of other's opinions. I still don't show much emotion and it really messed with me to this point

[@paigeyluv_]

"I'm very traditional". No sir, you are just trying to make up an excuse for thinking that they ways things used to be for people in relationships (which used to be the whole women belong in the kitchen) is okay. You have the mindset that you are superior just because you are a man, which is no where near true. No gender/sex that people identify with is superior. All he really want's to say is that men are better than women and I have no idea why. He doesn't want people to be equal because he is fragile when it comes to how he feels and can't even fathom to think about a woman having more power in the world than he does.

[@concamon1364]

..... Where are you getting this from? Lmao, this came from nothing. There's nothing wrong with traditional gender roles/expectations. If that's not what you wanna conform to in a relationship, that's fine but just say so .... 🙄 Femininity is not weak .... the idea that women must be like men or fulfill the same roles in all circumstances undermines the importance of femininity in itself.

[@paigeyluv_]

@@concamon1364 I never said that there was anything wrong with it, I stated that the way he thinks is just very old and I guess in the way he put it, "traditional". I just don't understand people that feel the need to force their ideals onto other people. He can do whatever he wants in his relationship, as long as it is legal and the other person or people consent. I just have never understood wanting to fully submit to someone like that. There is nothing wrong with it like you said. I personally just don't like it. If you want to, sure, go ahead. Just don't force your opinions onto me, that's all. I also wasn't trying to offend anyone, I just wanted to put my opinion that I know no one asked for in the comments because I felt like it. Thank you for replying with how you feel. I like hearing other people's opinion's because I feel that it is important that everyone knows that they are heard, even if I agree or disagree with them. Have a nice day/ night!

[@marriah]

Only tattoos should be traditional

[@millsborough4545]

i love watching these series! finally a platform open for discussion, great idea for content!!

[@bobbyambrosino4836]

Nobody: Bald dude: I A M T H E B R E A D W I N N E R

[@sadamiamani]

*h o l l o w*

[@kskssjjss1206]

🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞🍞

[@deborahl3083]

Largo Toaster I SCREAMEDDDD I CANNOT

[@Jhikonico]

let get this BREAD!

[@HastelloyC276]

Nobody: Largo Toaster: s t r a w m a n f a l l a c y

[@kuromi2880]

Do "do all atheists think the same" next pleasee

[@felmin809]

Boring

[@Joe-hi1zw]

@@felmin809 Well currently the ones they've done are men, women, Christians and Trump supporters and they were pretty interesting dumbass.

[@IenChi]

We've gotten this request a couple times for sure - will pass it on to the team! Thanks for the suggestion!

[@marino4193]

Good idea!

[@sasham6960]

Yesss

[@stephaniemitchell8509]

Good job, Jubilee! This was a thoughtful and enlightening video with many diverse and well thought out perspectives!

[@0786RICARDO]

Anyone who must say "I'm the care taker of society" it's no true care taker of society.

[@stormyopossum5432]

I’ll make sure you understand that when I pay for your dinner.

[@0786RICARDO]

@@stormyopossum5432 be my guest

[@valerie9885]

I think who ever asks the other person out first should pay. It would be rude to ask someone out and expect the other person to pay.

[@justAlliebari]

Haha true or split the check 😂 it’s not that big of a deal to me. “Are you gonna get that or...” wouldn’t be a fun way to word it tho lol

[@melaniegarcia3158]

I agree.

[@toopie6584]

Val ASMR personally I believe in splitting the check

[@angelbabeasmr]

Val ASMR yes i would do that or split the check.

[@naomiesther8812]

Val ASMR i think you should just pay for what you eat or split it. i don’t get why other women/girls expect men to pay. like come on it’s 2019. it’s not like women don’t work or earn money. i’d feel bad if i made a guy pay.

[@soobunnie_]

" Toxic masculinity is overblown" "overblown?" "overblown? what is that" "Can you use a different word" honestly, same

[@vanessaguerra7019]

I thought I didn't get it because english is my second language 😅😅

[@GoOgleAccount-rq7cs]

That's me in English class everyday

[@lyssat5260]

How 'bout just blown? That way, everybody leaves happy. Jus' Sayin'...

[@lyssat5260]

Nothin' says lovin'...like sumpen from the oven.

[@soobunnie_]

@@lyssat5260 you like apostrophes don't, you?

[@sempiterne778]

literally can' t even finish the vid cuz im raging so hard at that bald guy

[@cablethelarryguy5811]

8:58 This is really powerfull though. For a young boy to see his father cry in front of him has a huge impact. First of all, it shows that it is ok for men to cry. It also demonstrates when it's ok to cry. To clarify, I don't think men should cry over small things. I don't think anyone should cry over small things. That shows weakness. But to cry over important things. Like your mother dying, or just when life really breaks you down, that shows humility, and in turn, strength. This all being said, I think men should be encouraged to express themselves. If they're feeling stress, they should be able to vent about it. It is not ok, nor is it healthy, to bottle everything up inside. That's partly why men live shorter lives than women. It is because the emotional toll bottling things up inside causes detriments our health. Hopefully nothing came off incorrectly...

[@migueljuarez6788]

''For a young boy to see his father cry in front of him has a huge impact. First of all, it shows that it is ok for men to cry. It also demonstrates when it's ok to cry.'' As a former boy, no. When one of my parents cried it got me the feeling that the house was unstable. I looked up to my parents for protections so if one of them is crying that means something REALLY bad is happeneing.

[@melmel1-3-4]

Do all children think the same? Since a lot of people underestimate children

[@user-bw9yo5cx8z]

Pastel Browniie yesss

[@iniakinsa]

Yes I support

[@mikemike9930]

Why when most of the beliefs of children are from their parents.

[@frauleinmarlenschka6891]

love it!

[@janaekelis]

They had teens but I support this! They can get kids from 10-17 maybe

[@nehashahzad5511]

The guy in the denim jacket is fine AF

[@originalritny]

Right!!

[@lolmoi3213]

YEESS

[@niabiaaaa02]

CYBER GRL RIGHT LMAOO

[@less05x12]

Yassss

[@londiwes.1598]

@ I deadass thought I was the only one who could see that he looks like Big Sean

[@jungkookjuice3157]

Who else have never seen their dad cry?

[@fMONA94]

Me. He passed away 19yrs ago

[@otsutsukiindra2647]

And what's bad about not seeing your dad cry?

[@yazzibbk5500]

3:20 if you're gonna be in a relationship, it should be equal. Split the bill :)

[@ishikasinsinwar1642]

Most of the men in real life are like these guys (except bald dude) . But the guys like bald dude are the loudest on the internet...

[@JohnSmith-oe5rx]

Ishika Sinsinwar He’s the stereotype of men which just isn’t true, and he’s basically saying that he thinks that men should be more pushy in a relationship then women. And he described it in the worst way possible and literally proved a stereotype of men which isn’t true, you can tell that he doesn’t mean bad intensions with it but it really seems like he does.

[@j-ribeiro-1741]

That's true, it's like feminist the toxic one's always appear more than the intelligente ones

[@Seizuresalade]

@@JohnSmith-oe5rx it's not that all men are like that, but there are still a lot of men who think of women as inferior and just because they think biology proves that women aren't fit for hard work or leadership it's not true at all i can assure you there's women out there who are more fit for that than some men, there's exceptions everywhere my dude and i believe that's hurtful for us women to be generalised, we don't like being "controlled" because you think we can't protect ourselves or whatever. He might not mean it in a bad way but it still hurts us and is just wrong

[@amrit3883]

J-Ribeiro-17 exactly! I am a feminist and I believe in equal rights for all humans! Women are not better than men and men are not better than women. This is what true feminism is, but radical feminists who take the word and warp it to fit their own twisted beliefs are speaking louder than us

[@melissam597]

Amen

[@bruhhmomentumm]

Statement: It's gay to kiss your homies goodnight. Everyone: *Runs to strongly disagree*

[@jasperhughes2399]

I can’t tell if you think that’s bad or good

[@bruhhmomentumm]

@@jasperhughes2399 It ain't gay

[@jasperhughes2399]

Ok good

[@caoimhedelaney2406]

No homo tho

[@derektheseahawkslightningf2932]

@@bruhhmomentumm It's pretty gay to kiss other men, whether or not they are your friend

[@brennapetersen8522]

These videos are torture for me and yet I binge watch them-

[@rolldecode]

Also thank you John. Just thank you for questioning and thinking and feeling. Thank you

[@katiebohan698]

The bald guy: *says* *anything* Everyone: Oop 👀

[@pjc3519]

Fax

[@animegraveyard776]

@Anglus Patria You're just old-fashioned and insecure.

[@simonduran9376]

@Anglus Patria Sounds cultish and ignorant AF but ok

[@yogabbagabbaskye]

Im the bald guy

[@jasondavis3521]

@@animegraveyard776 Believe it or not, many women really like a traditional man. Both my wife and I are what you consider "old fashioned" and still manage to have an amazing relationship. It's just a matter of personal preference.

[@sophiarivera7364]

Why is it so hard for some to understand that women having power has nothing to do with one’s masculinity

[@athikhophimu758]

Why is it so hard to understand human nature..

[@sophiarivera7364]

Athikho Phimu what?

[@Driverscissors]

Because they are used to being in power, that when someone else gets some of the "power" they feel threatened.

[@ballsman6084]

Its that he feels men have a responsibility to be the leaders and giving that up is like giving up a part of yourself and lowering yourself or something like thay

[@sophiarivera7364]

Mike Coxmall thanks for explaining it that way. It makes more sense. I just wonder where the mentality of “men have the responsibility, not women” came from. We all have the responsibility to be upstanding citizens and lead

[@sandybolls7739]

I wish this episode lasted longer. It was especially interesting to see this as a 15 year old.

[@JusttZoe]

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a guy paying for a first date, especially if he asked to take me out!

[@marlonbravo9466]

That sudden change from disagree to agree about penis size question was pretty funny.

[@xcalypso4077]

its tru tho

[@bellavella]

😅😅😅

[@kaitlinbennettpussycrack5184]

STOP 😭

[@sarahroddey2937]

This truly justifies the saying “men of quality don’t fear equality”

[@connoranderson3380]

I am proud of myself. Thank you c:

[@sejo5057]

True! It's feminazis who fear equality.

[@stj1999]

*"Women of quality don't fear personal responsibility."*

[@a.h6587]

@@stj1999 so true man,like if you want equality then don't rely on a man in parts that don't benefit you.she wants equal treatment but when it comes to jobs and burdens that should transfer from the men around her to her she be like ''excuse me wOmEn dOn't dO tHaT'' like girl wtf

[@sejo5057]

@@stj1999 lol true

[@martinahristova1946]

Watching that three years later feels like a lot has changed, I was just watching it with disbelief because of some of the answers… I just hope with time moving forward people do too and continue to change their perspective on things

[@lillienwaligora6082]

I actually like the bald guy, thanks to men like him our families stay strong and society works, shout out to you bro.

[@user-vo3zh7gr2z]

lol

[@Quizmaps]

fr hes the only one that didin't join the woke society

[@choerry1813]

“a man should pay for the first date” male gay coupes: 👁 👄 👁

[@bruh6909]

They can split it! :D

[@arandompharaoh5549]

@@bruh6909 we cracked the code

[@brookeo_o3866]

I’m Christian but this was FUNNY💀💀

[@cia3801]

Lesbian: FREE FOOD ANYONE

[@Joseph-do9nz]

@@brookeo_o3866 But why does that matter? I'm a Christian living in Asia, and I found it funny as well.

[@jesserydland8286]

The Bald dude makes me physically uncomfortable

[@DellSubi]

Very

[@mann7298]

i feel like he thinks hes on the good side but so many of his traditions are the exact problem holding back the change society needs

[@jesserydland8286]

@@mann7298 Exactly!!

[@Femykah]

I got like two minutes in and had had enough of him loool his mindset is awful

[@natalierenee135]

Same

[@o_m525treble7]

That last question about emotions is so real. Im female and I came from a household where both my parents didn’t show vulnerable emotions and all the way up until I was 17 and even still now I try to hide when I’m crying because I feel like I’m vulnerable and people will attack me. I don’t speak up about how I feel enough, I’m not clear enough because I’m afraid of emotions. And my boyfriend was raised in an even harsher environment and I have only seen him cry once. And it’s extremely painful for him to talk about his emotions. If we both had situations where we were taught how to properly express ourselves our lives would be so much easier

[@m1r__]

It's 2022. No way am I paying for the first date. Split the bill we grown.

[@shaniceanimashaun1191]

Whoever asked for the date should pay for it

[@delilahstella3017]

Shanice Animashaun omg never thought about that thats really true i agree

[@IRHasDiabetes911]

So men....

[@shaniceanimashaun1191]

IRHasDiabetes911 no.. women can still ask men on dates, it’s 2019. I’ve done it before

[@emcanspell]

yeah or like they split it.. like in a movie date i pay for the tickets he pays for the snacks

[@chickenstripz1961]

Still a problem with that.

[@hebaibrahim3010]

Do all guys named "Kyle" think the same???😂

[@casideehope5398]

I’m wheezing

[@naimas9161]

Thats actually a good idea

[@poopfart65]

“Do you like my monster energy drinks?” All the Kyles run to strongly agree.

[@ceuti]

LOOOOL YES *sips my monster enegery*

[@kaiser342]

Well I’m like the opposite of the other Kyles, but the rest are the same

[@krazykhan3450]

"It's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean" Im taking this to heart

[@lielleshaw3897]

something my mom told me: “if a man pays for the movie, the woman pays for the candy”

[@mayuhmetal]

The dude with the denim jacket is MAD CUTE NOT GONNA LIE.

[@asiyaa3752]

Truth 👌 Also love your name/pic

[@graciebryner4102]

IKR

[@inesalves8462]

I was just searching for this comment

[@geoterra9478]

the dude in the back too tho? mmm

[@etherealbri9604]

Agreed lmao

[@sarahex7610]

"I am the caretaker of society." Lol literally who are you

[@ketgremlin8776]

A man

[@diskgabiru]

@@ketgremlin8776 a bald man

[@diskgabiru]

@css Css that part

[@Adrian-mk9gj]

literally thanos

[@moistsquish]

The caretaker of society apparently 😂

[@gauriaggarwall4126]

The hug at the end was just so nice

[@Bjay723]

Thank you Jubilee , this one was one of your best video .

[@naadirchaudhury4005]

Who else is having a jubilee marathon cuz I am 😂

[@Razsound]

naadirchaudhury_05 I have been for the last 4 days

[@Za1naa]

🙋🏿‍♀️

[@guciablueblack6140]

✋

[@mariamkhaled2649]

AND it's exam night

[@havesti]

meeeee

[@hazeltrainer1111]

Who should pay: the person who invited the other out.

[@22katielle]

Yes, exactly

[@hentaiprotagonist729]

So guys... cause most of the time guys invite girls out but. yes you are right

[@jimmu8689]

THA NOS nah I’m not paying for your lobster like we’re strangers nit friends

[@loveatlas8904]

Hazel Trainer Yes. Or split the bill.

[@isabeldixon6662]

Period.

[@katie3741]

i really loved hearing these different perspectives on masculinity.

[@commandercody2169]

Honestly as a teenager in high school… I’ve been made fun of for showing emotions and I have been yelled at for showing emotions people don’t like. So often, I bottle up my emotions and now everyone thinks I’m actually psychotic because I show practically no emotions. I have been told this by society so now I don’t think I have shed a tear in literal years. I got to talk with a friend who was a lady about this and I said that and they were like actually scared and frightened. I told them about my experiences and they said, “Yeah. Some women are extremely toxic and I feel so bad for all men in today’s society for basically being told not to show emotion.”

[@imabadbitchyoucantkillme3334]

“iM tHe CaRe TaKeR oF sOcIeTy” Girl I-

[@nestorv7627]

Men traditionally are the takers of society

[@annaadams9706]

he alone for ALL of society

[@nuelle2361]

@@nestorv7627 And? Why does it have to be that way? So what if It is tradition? I don't understand why tradition is more important to some than equality. Just becuase it is what has been practiced for a long time, does not mean that it is right or that it is the most efficient.

[@victoriam438]

@@nestorv7627 yea well the "tradition" is sexist so what's ur point

[@5amlight313]

N S traditions are basically peer pressure from dead people

[@kaseywood8173]

The guy in the bright blue shirt is the most sensible. I like how he uses his head and tries to think of the big picture.

[@pennylaing8920]

I honestly think he is everything wrong with society 😂 I guess that proves that all women don't think the same either x

[@ellasmellaa8288]

Penny Laing she doesn’t mean the bald guy, she means the bright blue one John if that’s what you’re thinking

[@kaseywood8173]

@@pennylaing8920 ??

[@DeezNutz-pg9io]

Penny Laing and the rest of the female on twitter 😂

[@kalsoomasghar1344]

I agree. By the end, I had a crush on him because I absolutely want a guy as understanding and gentle as him

[@NonchalanceInvasion]

Great episode and conversation

[@IGRETRO]

Imagine living in a country where paying for a dinner is considered to be toxic smh

[@leondomo8831]

Its not the paying for dinner whats toxic, its the ideology that a man has to protect women and that a woman has to expect a man to pay for their dinner.

[@brittanyserrano3619]

@@leondomo8831 They knew that. They just summed up some words and typed it out lazily. In the video they explained why only men paying is bad but this commenter completely ignored that to troll 🤣

[@SierNotsruht]

Imagine living

[@ireneerickson8603]

The guy in the blue shirt seems like such a sweet genuine person. woah thanks for 9k likessss

[@Heelick]

Yeah, he's one of the jubilee directors. He's pretty cool.

[@jamien.5528]

Yeah I liked him

[@mghmmmm1987]

The blue button up if so yeah

[@ivvuria_]

uhh which one

[@ireneerickson8603]

ivydecember the button up oke

[@chinnyi2384]

Blue shirt guy’s future wife is extremely lucky

[@pastelpink1202]

True!!

[@caitlyn6303]

Aamna Chahal Not the bald one lol

[@madelenCarlson3834]

I don't think guys should be put on a pedestal...it's like women giving men a cookie for doing the bare minimum in gender-equality!

[@calumgradsyn935]

They can share each others heels as cry

[@lilygreen221]

Maybe he doesnt want to get married maybe he is not straight. You are just assuming at this point (like everyone does)

[@BrideOfChuckyy]

I noticed they all have a hard time explaining themselves

[@sharvimorajkar3254]

They did explain themselves pretty well tho

[@broccolihighkicks3857]

Ironically, it takes a much stronger, bigger, well balanced man to allow equal distribution of power with himself and his woman. All you need is to support , respect and take care of each other...there’s no need to dominate

[@carissafong6209]

not the bald guy agreeing that there’s toxic masculinity in society yet heavily contributing to the stereotypical roles of a man in the patriarchy

[@MashZ]

He's got the wrong idea about toxic masculinity. He literally said that guys not wanting to marry is toxic masculinity

[@dtosmanm4743]

The stereotipical roles still exist in the dating world especially from women towards men so...

[@bookscookies9160]

@@dtosmanm4743 yes and working towards dismantling the patriarchy, together, unified, will help everyone since everyone is effected by it

[@bookscookies9160]

@@dtosmanm4743 most women ik would rather not "submit" to anyone. not everybody so into bdsm where theres submission and dominance. ppl can have relationships with equal boundaries and controll

[@Qazaqadebieti]

@@dtosmanm4743 its like saying there is no white privilege

[@religionisatragedy9742]

WARNING 99.99999%of the comments are about the bald guy

[@heldnhastyar2091]

They hate him beacuse he is right Xd

[@korerapier]

@@heldnhastyar2091 Where?

[@tritchie6272]

Domanick Hart Guess I shouldn't be surprised but I'm both surprised and saddened by the hate expressed for the bald guy.

[@TheGamerQuest100]

@@heldnhastyar2091 More like they hate him because he has a different opinion that many don't agreed with.

[@alyssadyer4096]

@@TheGamerQuest100 He's of a dying breed of man unfortunately.

[@taylorsinclair5640]

The me too movement response TRIGGERED ME..... so much.

[@sayonara3180]

Everyone's dunking on the bald guy, but I've got respect for the guy. It's weird to see someone be so upfront and real on their opinions these days. Granted, I don't agree with him on most things. If the lady wants to pay for the first date I'm all for it.

[@okbill18yearsagoedited25]

Agreed

[@Solar-em2ld]

I don't agree with a lot of the things he says either but Im glad the opinions are more diverse in this video. Usually these spectrum videos just end up being a conversation between people who already think alike.

[@verlax8956]

@@Solar-em2ld More people need to get out of their echo chambers and hear the opinions of others'.

[@mokjoy]

The guy in the striped shirt looks like a statue you'd see in a museum.

[@MochaLatteMilkChocolate]

Ugh. I thought the same thing. His features are very Grecian.

[@ropytube]

Janiece Nelson true!!!

[@yallomelli4799]

aud rey he’s cute

[@ellaj642]

😂😂😂 true

[@xxintraxxnoxxx]

I think he looks a bit like Shaggy from Scooby Doo...

[@babybronco]

You should do do all Parents think the same

[@syakirarenemeivia6360]

Oh my God yesss please

[@kiya___]

I thought they already did

[@fresh8462]

@@kiya___ it was a little different from his idea

[@arianny82]

YESSSS PLEASEEEE

[@marcey926]

yes pls!

[@sweetlikehoney8599]

the way Imari ran to disagree with paying on the first date. wheeew😂

[@brookewilson5848]

the guy in the blue (not bald one) and the guy w sweater and curly hair makes me feel safe

[@lovebunniemack]

“I am comfortable with showing my emotions” I expected the bald guy to hit the wall of the strongly disagree side 😂

[@ecb1979]

Being that he holds himself to the old school ideals of what masculinity looks like, it was shocking that he felt that way

[@lovebunniemack]

Big Red H Exactly. I thought he would go on and on about how men are supposed to be strong and not have any emotions or whatever else toxic masculinity has been instilled within him.

[@jordan9604]

So basically you all judged him? Ya, you sure he is the toxic one?

[@ecb1979]

@@jordan9604 we said we made an assumption dude. Albeit an incorrect one. We didnt say he HAD to be on the other side.

[@lovebunniemack]

Jordan Montavy Ya, I’m sure

[@brookemayfield1962]

I choked on my food when that guy said it takes away masculinity to let the women pay

[@JennyCThree]

How exactly does it hurt someone to let their partner buy their own dinner? Sure its nice to buy your partner a gift occasionally but there is no reason one person should shoulder the whole cost.

[@shoroukmahmoud2920]

Brooke Mayfield I believe that everyone should pay for their own meal , idk though I've never been on a date lol .

[@RayneLovesMovies]

ikr? i personally think that the person who asks the other out should pay ( or everyone pays their own ) and later on, it's just whoever has more money currently or feels like treating the other.

[@chickennugget2241]

Be careful

[@phlow9417]

Same

[@RealHufflepuff]

I feel like there was so much more conversation to be had

[@aimawaseem4436]

Love this 💜