Just the Tips - Ep. 3: Get the Boyfriend

[@BBQNBLUES]

Too Much SEXY for one video !! Watching Mark rubbing Ethan's hairy legs sent shudders up my spine. ha

[@TheNotAdam]

I think someone my need a glass of water....

[@williamhwl]

TheNotAdam You too RJ because you did a lot of talking..lol.

[@ReginaYu]

I was waiting for this for so long! The four of you can literally just sat there doing or talking nothing and I would still stare at you for hours. You guys are such lovely people!

[@loserluigi]

I think my main problem is the fear of rejection.

[@chandlerverastro3569]

Massive thumbs up! Loving me some Mark and Ethan!!!

[@jamdobson]

I love it! My two favorite KZbin couples!

[@Stephenrsm7600]

RJ, I LOVE the Just The Tips segments!!!!!! When will you be doing MORE of them???? They are SO very informative!!!! Loved the first episode I learned a lot!!!! Thanks for coming up with the idea for this segment!!!!!!!!

[@blakej1892]

Nothing special about the tips, but it was good seeing the four of you together. I hope we get to see more of a "fun" video of you guys together in the future, like some sort of "Couples' Challenge".

[@MichealHannan]

OMG, my two favorite couples! LOVE YOU GUYS!

[@high5iver]

I almost screamed when I saw this video! You and Will with Mark and Ethan! I also almost died!

[@bonemarrow3860]

**furiously taking notes**

[@MacX2112]

So funny in a sweet way :) Don't learn the notes by heart, just put them under your pillow - 'member what Ethan just said there - and bam! you'll suddenly meet him.

[@IHeartBigBlueBubbles]

Mark playing with Ethans leg is a bit distracting. I know you did most of the talking RJ but I was totally looking a those two the whole time Sorry.

[@sofieschmeltzer3201]

ME TOO!

[@crazyguy5880]

So adorable. The little things and seeing it with two guys as normal is still new to me since I haven't been around it yet. Love it.

[@alainbourassa1998]

Perfect couple to interview, they are soooooo cute!

[@trin223]

Will of days past: "THAT is mine!"

[@itsmephil]

This was awesome, RJ. A really natural and fun discussion. Can't wait until the next vlog.

[@leosousa6636]

my favroite youtubers right here

[@NealCMH]

Great Video! I got to see my two favorite youtube couples together.

[@stanleypaver8058]

I love it how mark and Ethan are sat the same

[@shyguybry93]

The tips were awesome and real...and love all of you so, AMAZING VIDEO :D!!!

[@colleenirowa]

it's up finally! woooooooooooo

[@realfredwithtires]

Mark and Ethan! Yes. Oh most definitely YES!

[@nokeiseinen_farm]

OMG OMG OMG My favourite two couples from youtube in one video!! It is freaking amazing!!!

[@alicetmb]

Yay this has been well worth the wait!! I loved it

[@SuperrsStephh]

Awesome group of people

[@ORamirez0230]

Omg I got feels when RJ called Will "Thanks babe❤️😭" that made me freaking smile die of feels!

[@bi-costalteacher1281]

Could Mark and Ethan be any more beautiful? I don't think so...

[@IHeartBigBlueBubbles]

They would probably be more beautiful at their wedding :-D

[@bi-costalteacher1281]

IHeartBigBlueBubbles You can't improve on perfection. You can only glorify it.

[@IHeartBigBlueBubbles]

They could improve their perfection by having a beautiful and adorable wedding. Have you ever noticed how excited and happy Mark is when he is about to see Ethan. Imagine that times by like a million billion.

[@bi-costalteacher1281]

IHeartBigBlueBubbles They are always beyond perfection for me. Plus they are both smart, and really decent. I saw them when they were out in Los Angeles a few months ago with my nieces. Mark and Ethan were the only Gay couple there that were genuine. They are the same off camera as they are on camera. Almost all of the others are totally different and some not in a good way.

[@IHeartBigBlueBubbles]

Bi-Costal Teacher Yeah I think they is perfect but they should still have a wedding. I think it is kind of obvious watching some peoples youtube videos that they are fake but I can tell that Mark and Ethan are real. I think that is why they are so lovable cause they are just themselves.

[@scientificostrich]

My two favourite colples in the same vid this is a dream come true!

[@birminghamhs]

Being self confident is a good point but it's very hard. I've had very low self-esteem all throughout high school (bullied) and still do after graduating (changed a lot mentally and physically but that self doubt still lingers). Any advice on how to become more confident? I need it bad because I'm old (24) and still haven't been on a DATE which is pathetic. I need ADVICE plz

[@ChatiseE]

not pathetic, just how it is. Im 21 going through the same thing

[@justicelex]

go to Ethan's tumblr ask him. He gives good advices. :)perspicacityatwork.tumblr.com/

[@NSONE232]

Chatise Smith Same here :/

[@fetseb]

Build up trust with single guys that you know such as colleagues or those that you meet at other events.

[@JakesSake]

haha in the gym "hey you using that bench" seductive manner …. ;p

[@DaveHumphrey2514]

MY KZbin LIFE JUST GOT A WHOLE BETTER, I LOVE YOU FOUR SOOOO MUCH

[@crazyguy5880]

it really helps looking like Mark haha

[@DaveHumphrey2514]

so much crazyguy5880 but i f ts ranking i wil start with will, mark, rj then ethan

[@DaveHumphrey2514]

hey its called freedom of speech, and infact its my opinion so take your seriousness with you somewere else

[@CarlosRIOS777]

I FANGIRLED SO HARD WHEN I SAW MY TWO FAVORITE SHIPS IN ONE VIDEO!!!!!

[@justaguy1768]

That ending was a delightfully awkward mixture of everyone's personal sign-offs and catch phrases :)

[@teammmx]

My two favorite KZbin couples! Very sweet! :')

[@vegasridealong]

Quietest version of Mark I have seen in any video. You two are the chatty power couple in that room!

[@Rabbitsliver]

Yes! been hungry for this!

[@jds106]

Looking forward to the next episode

[@BradsPitts.]

i luv all 4 of you guyses!

[@Harleigh_19]

I find it so hard to even know who to flirt with or talk to. Like if im at the gym Im not going to go up to every random guy I find attractive and talk to them or flirt them. I feel like its so hard to even know who's gay or not unless you're super flamboyant.

[@11142002th]

I love Mark and Ethan

[@GrantsInYourPants]

*finds boyfriend within minutes*

[@frankvillegas9983]

OMFG MY FAVORITE GAY KZbin COUPLES IN ONE VIDEO!!!! HOLY SHIT IM SCARED TO EVEN WATCH THIS IM SO EXCITED. lol id die if Jenna and Julien were there my heart would swell up like a ballon from all that beauty...hehe movie reference.

[@winonad.9660]

FINALLY! been waiting for the this!! aaahhhh :)

[@ck44052]

Wow! I just noticed that you did do a video with David Levitz. I don't know how I missed that. So much to keep up with. Anyway, I will definitely be sure to watch it. He is definitely another favorite of mine. Thanks also for having him in an episode. Maybe sometime I will here from either you or Will? I know you both are busy and it's really hard to respond to everyone. Plus I'm not really asking a question. Pretty much just commenting and saying hello to you both. Again, take care, X.

[@rororiri1234]

loved this video!

[@wdmikeiv]

Facebook stalking is okay?! *sigh of relief*...also, LOVED the tip about not starting the flirtation with the intention of 'getting' the boyfriend. It really does help to not have that mindset. It can help minimize the possible disappointment later, lol...

[@justicelex]

I like Ethan. He gives good advices. :)

[@pygmyhippo21]

Had to stop and fangirl when RJ said babe. Little things, but adorable things :3

[@ELenaJoyce95]

You should do more videos together! :)

[@kierucom]

If you're going to do the online thing it's absolutely essential you present yourself as honestly as you can. My boyfriend and I 'met' online and I was absolutely not into him. By complete chance we met in person like a year after that and we've been together since. The only bit of advice I would contradict is calling it a date. Do it. Call it a date. Stop pretending that you're 'just going for coffee'. You aren't. You're both feeling out a potential sexual partner and possibly a potential relationship.

[@haldir1991]

Happy couples trying to explain us how to get a boyfriend ... I'm like "ain't nobody got time for dat !" LUCK ! GOD DAMMIT ! It's all about luck ! :D

[@cjay2]

There's no such thing as 'luck'. And if you ain't got time to listen to good advice, or get to know someone, then you'll end up inevitably alone.

[@haldir1991]

Some people just can't get humor ...

[@crazyguy5880]

good looks help a ton...for just about everything in life :/

[@KevinTimmsOnline]

Awesome vid, RJ

[@conbin13andcora13]

lol rj was talking about himself and then will thought he was talking about him

[@ichorinmyveins]

Mark: Hey, man, are you using that bench or something? Will: That means...are you top or bottom? lol

[@auroraborealis7415]

Oh em geeee you have mark and ethan...they are proper fit

[@LouisObviously]

Alcohol + Flirting = A Slap!

[@feedmechipotle1120]

Lmao at the special guest slide (and also will) awwww beyoncès

[@Emily18184]

Ethan, Mark, & especially Will are not having RJ's self deprecation. Sweet.

[@Stephenrsm7600]

Conrats RJ on 57,000 subscribers!!!!!

[@cousinscantu]

Omggggg, i think you messed up on the tumblr link for mark

[@gnarlish]

I lost it at the "Linked In" part. Oh my god.

[@JeamesGranger]

I'm guessing Ethan & Mark haven't seen Davey Wavey to pick up guys at the gym. I love these RJ, keepin' them coming.

[@stephenmcrae1955]

EXCELLENT VIDEO!!!!!!!

[@plokiju88]

so much hotness should be illegal, my monitor melted.

[@isnerdy]

Great video!

[@VampyricDeth]

"Its okay to stalk people" thanks for that XD laughed so hard

[@inseongmingi]

I didn't know this video existed

[@itscarloscruz]

The link to Will's channel 5:50 says "eeeeEEEeeee" omg I died haha that's what they say to each other!!

[@ck44052]

Hi. Thank you so much for having Mark & Ethan. The four of you plus a couple others are definitely my favorite vlogers. I love the dynamic between the two of them, along with you and Will. I also love David Levitz. It would be cool if you did an episode with him and maybe someone else? I think the guy that you watch Game of Thrones with is totally hot. I'm not sure that he's gay. He may be heterosexual? Of course I'm sure he would come on an episode if he could add something to the subject matter. Does he have his own channel too? If so, I would definitely subscribe. If you read this, do you think you could tag me for his channel? I would appreciate it. Keep up the good work. I love watching you both every day. Take care and kiss the puppy for me.X. Ps. I got a notification email saying that my merchandise was on the way. So happy!

[@samp1025]

do you mean Wren? his channel is wrenthereaper :)

[@JoeyLloydPhotography]

I love mark and ethen. They are so postive and fun and Dr ont whine like the other couple does

[@Julia-qj6un]

YAAAAS OH MY FUCKING GOSH I JUST CHECKED THIS CHANNEL OUT AND I DIDN'T EXPECT TO SEE #Methan HERE

[@notmtvorbet]

nice bracelet, ethan

[@TheFrancynana23]

Omg! Amazing video! You are the best RJ and Will too! I love you so much! Kisses! Bye

[@drewjpyrc]

how am i just now seeing this what tf

[@inseongmingi]

Right??

[@MrHillflower]

I got RJs joke lol. Anyway, no probs with the flirt game here, the chase is almost the best part!

[@PiriKatyCat]

I'M FANGIRLING SO MUCH

[@mikehermsen836]

Love it!

[@kimdegris9164]

RJ's never going to live that glasses and tie comment down.

[@beefree2003]

Thanks for the great advice. Big Dave

[@westlifer36]

such a cute video :)

[@sara1eo]

love you, boys^_^

[@sophiegriffin8880]

ummmm Mark's tumblr link. . .

[@crazwizardlizard]

(and also Will)

[@gabrieldaily7240]

lmfao Will said Ethan's line and Ethan was like "Oh Helllll Naw"

[@sandybeason331]

Something with lushlaws would be fun and RJ could tell Nick why he wanted to kill him and not marry him...lol.

[@MacX2112]

Well because he'd prefer to bang Ethan and marry Ken. And who wouldn't?

[@ReginaYu]

Luke Maclean couldn't agree more.

[@charliedavis340]

*fav*

[@andrewvogl4107]

See, I always have the issue of being a huge flirt over text, but once I'm face-to-face with them, I freeze up and struggle getting words out that sound vaguely like English. But around my friends, it's almost impossible to shut me up. I think I'm just so scared about what they'd think if they say how stupidly I acted that I rein that part in. I just need them to see me in person, being the fool that I am, first, so they know I'm not completely socially inept, I guess...

[@ck44052]

Thanks Samantha! ;)

[@nicklasvb2]

Awh I miss Ethan and mark we’re together 😩

[@kristophernexus9269]

LOVE!!!

[@Tiaeula]

Cool video! Loved Will's completely appalled face! But the background music is always distracting me.

[@AtTheEnd1000]

I used to to that. Saw a guy and wanted him as my bf. That was so bad!

[@Spiralobsession]

Thinking I need to be confident to be attractive is just going to make me feel less confident in myself because now that's one more thing I lack. T__T

[@TessaDavies2015]

I remember one of my exes asked me out via the promise of coffee (but had to change it to hot chocolate cause I don't drink coffee) lolololol

[@RomanStranai]

this actually helped me.... that's weird

[@christheconquerer9944]

Sorry this is so old but i just thought i'd ask. I'm kinda at the age(15-16) where like you cant always tell and a lot of people(myself included) ar'nt out yet, but there is this guy and i do'nt just wanna like say "hey are you gay or what?" so i was wondering if anybody has any ieas on how to possible obtain that information without being hella blunt.

[@inseongmingi]

A year later. Did you make a move

[@IHeartBigBlueBubbles]

OMG WILL AT :17 I wonder if Mark and Ethan sent each other winky faces, blushing faces when they were flirting on facebook. You gave some good tips, Ethans tip about not going into looking for a boyfriend is good. Cause sometimes somebody looks good, then they open their mouth and then its all like, oh shit my grandma just died I have to leave the country so please never contact me again. 1:47 RJ sometimes people want to fucked when they meet a person so that is a good thing.

[@melindaphillips3275]

The Facebook thing. It's okay to like message them and stalk but I just had this one guy who was to blunt about flirting the first he message me it was " I just want to let u know ur the most beautiful girl in the world" And then " goodnight sweetheart"

[@kakairuislove]

ive never gotten the whole 'never directly asked them out' thing. Like yeah never go into meeting someone wanting to date them but if you have a friend and want to date that friend just ask them out don't fuck around.

[@vidiesel]

I really am hopeless!! I'm so socially awkward and I hate Facebook. Ughhh. Oh, well at least I have my books.

[@MrAudienceMember2662015]

Is there a difference between flirting to hook up? flirting to settle down? And of course, there's the flirting to see if you still got it. ;) (could be for a hook up if you're in an open type relationship) And why are we calling it flirting when you're talking about how you met each other? Flirting is the things you do to catch the other guy's attention and make him interested. Technique, ya know? A smile-nod as you lock gazes across the room. Maybe matching his pose, like if he's leaning against a bar, or perched on the arm of a chair, do the same and slide your hand down your thigh when he's looking at you. You'll see his eyes follow your hand. If he licks his lips or you see his adam's apple move, he likes what he sees. If you're moving through a crowded room, like a bar or club, you can brush against his bottom and be ready to catch his eyes when he turns. Smile, maybe wink, as you excuse your familiarity and blame the crowd. Put a little growl in your voice to let him know you enjoyed the touch and want to do it again. If he seems receptive, do it again and chuckle. Small talk, perhaps something about the immediate surroundings - old building...did you know they used to embalm dead bodies here? - or, this used to be a whore house 75 years ago- or, this was once a secret location on the underground railroad back in the day. (If he's goth or you're goth, down to nerd/geek/intellectual, as examples.) Flexing the arm muscles at the right time, the casual hand across the shoulders as you guide them thru the door you just opened, then slide the hand down to the waist as you lock step with him and keep him close for snuggly quiet talk while walking along. If he's into you as much, he'll slip his arm around your waist, too. This is a perfect indication that a sexy kiss is appropriate. don't slobber on him and don't force the tongue. Hope this helps...

[@adinson2010]

Maybe Mark and Ethan's name should be in the title...... :D

[@catkisser]

What is wrong with asking someone you like out on a date? If you have chatted a few times and get along why not a date? A date isn't a commitment.

[@Super_Mario128]

I wish that I could be this optimistic about finding a boyfriend, I'd love to feel emotional and physical intimacy.