Kenyan Men REFUSE To Simp For Women and Here's WHY| Ep. 150

[@Kenganda]

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[@davidcornel2060]

We needed a Kenyan man on the panel to defend us

[@CharlieDmus]

Facts

[@kurokaizen1889]

Oshay literally did nothing but defend Kenyan men lol, but I understand.

[@mediheal-mindrelaxingmusic711]

🤣😂 these women deserve the bare minimum

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂😂

[@BigReddthehebrew]

I agree! As your brother from the diaspora They LOOOVE to trash us. Its honestly getting old and its sad because I want to come to the continent but I dont want to deal with more feminist western minded women. Its so old, Ive been told Im not needed all my life Its getting old

[@Silverbackugx]

Dr. Oshay D Jackson is officially Ugandan.. He has gone sockless😮

[@Kenganda]

Lmao I had them on but they were low cut

[@363y]

Ahahahaha 😂😂😂

[@LosAngelesMade]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kinjamatt]

😂😂😂😂

[@simulizizadudumizi8417]

Are Americans known for their sock wearing?

[@Muriuki218]

Our culture doesn’t accept us to simp

[@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee]

Excellent culture

[@Cahluvca]

🎯

[@YaHsrael]

So The ones yapping at the side of their necks r just annoying feminist hyenas 🎤👋🏿

[@KaiPhD]

🤣 The ladies started on a high note. Unfortunately, they fell flat. I can see why most men are confused. 🤣 I was confused. Fantastic show as usual. ♥️♥️♥️🇧🇷

[@jacksonmugwe3025]

This podcast started as a lashing towards East African men, then ended up with the women finding out they are their own worst enemy.

[@nubianpaige]

These are immature women attracting immature men. The women mindset change she may just find not only a man, but a GENTLEMAN. Great broadcast & great topic.

[@cjbanks547]

Big up to all the Kenyan Men and East African men. Rest In Heaven to Kim the Cómic.

[@edwinojiambo3899]

Kenyan men should have been represented on this pod. As a Kenyan man with Ugandan roots I need a woman to just be a woman. A woman with traditional feminine aura.

[@Kenganda]

The one guy we had was not available sorry he had to leave

[@edwinojiambo3899]

Cool

[@afrakanaswahilitv5520]

So basically the Kenyan man was prosecuted and judged without representation! What kind of justice is that? "Haki yetu! Haki yetu!"

[@NileGoddess]

You need a woman you can control lol silly

[@edwinojiambo3899]

Yes

[@tileartist59]

I have a different level of respect for Oshay, he has a way of getting one to tell on themselves through humor and before you know it, your saying to yourself "wait a minute, I'm the one that has an issue"... who needs a therapist when you have one sitting across from you allowing you to talk long enough to resolve you own issues... this is why I subscribed 👏

[@enriquekings9099]

At last Oshay has found above his match in energy. 😂 Now you understand why Auston says the energy with Kenyan 🇰🇪 ladies is unmatchable

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Have you watched the Ugandan women on his shows? They're something else. The men too.

[@maliwoodtalks]

This studio set looks really good Oshay. 👏🏾👏🏾👌🏾

[@Train2Liv]

Great channel and topics! The more I watch, listen, and learn, the more I’m hearing that there’s a significant amount of African women that sound and think just like American women! Not good….! 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@princessprincess7708]

Wow. You identified people like they are humans. Very well done. No color used.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

​@@princessprincess7708great comeback.

[@ronniewamala5768]

The problem is some women want Princess treatment without putting in any efforts to reciprocate, if she wont appreciate your kind gestures then keep your money.

[@Cahluvca]

Burden of performance goes both ways

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂

[@jack.sparrow]

love the ladies. they were really sober and measured in the convo. refreshing take on kenyan relationships

[@jenniferrubio4846]

A lot of African men would have numerous women as part of their culture and the women knows this and was brought up with this culture.

[@sarahnamazzi8855]

The women know it , but don't like it. It's one the reason our society is messed up.

[@princessprincess7708]

Its true . They complain of wigs lipstick how you dress blablaa etc . But the ones they get freaky with are the ones with all those things.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Repeat for the ones in the back

[@papd3532]

Obama father was Kenyan . Kenyan independence constitution was partly written by first black US Chief Justice Thurgood Marshall, who was friends with Kenya Independence Nationalists ,Tom Mboya , Jomo Kenyatta and Oginga Odinga . He wrote the part on racial integration and racial Minority right , Asians , White , Arabs,Indians etc . Tom Mboya was close friends with Dr Martin Luther King and a Key note speaker at the march in Washington DC . Kenya VP Oginga Odinga was arrested in Atlanta while protesting alongside Black students as a guest of Civil rights leaders Ralph Abernathy etc .

[@Speedy300]

Indians do not act like minority(but majority )in Kenya because they are all business owners and look down on the locals .

[@j.o.o793]

History 101 na haturingi

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

that part of racial minority was bulshit, do they do the same for us in their country

[@papd3532]

@@mpendakiswahili3053 On paper . Blacks and native Indians in US were racial minorities . Oppressed racial Minorities . In 1950 white 89% population Black 9% today white 59% Black 15% .100 Million native Indians wiped out in 100 years only 3 million left today in bad shape and they still want their territory back . Thurgood Marshall wanted to avoid the problems in Kenya similar to the problems that racial minorities had faced in US . Targeting racial minorities or any other minority group in the long run is counterproductive and costly . Today most of the negative indicators in US affect Black and Native and other minority groups more than white it is costly socio-economically and politically . It is better for Minorities to be more affluent than majority . Majority typically have an established social capital than they can utilize outside government help . More than 80% of social conflicts worldwide are initiated by Oppressed Minorities . Banyarwanda tutsi in Rwanda . Ethnic Irish in UK . Nilotic Dinka ,Luo, Nuer in the greater Sudan where at least 2 million died before annexation to South Sudan . Ethnic Albanians in Kosovo . Ethiopian Luo-Anuak/Anywaa against Habesha and Ethiopian govt . Afro-Colombians against white Colombians etc .

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

​@@papd3532appreciate the history and geopolitical points.

[@CharlieDmus]

I think theres this up-and-coming african middle class who have much more public visibility than the majority of regular africans. And they have a greater affinity with the west. They live more western lives but quite superficially, they have western networks and western problems and talk about them as if they are real problems to everyone. I agree that they are real to them because of the more westernised lifestyles they choose to live, but they are such a minute part of the population that it ultimately doesnt matter. Just that they have disporoportionate public visibility through social media. To most Kenyans, Ugandans and South Africans opening doors and buying flowers means absolutely nothing. A man who works hard, pays the rent and childrens school fees, is kind and respectful and is a respectable member of his community is like gold. Many of these flower wielding, blessing, public affection performers are the guys who are off on the next conquest once they get what they actually want. They've just figure out that our girls who assume everything western is better fall for that stuff, thinking the west is a romcom. Not saying the western culture is inherently bad. Also not saying flowers and openning doors is bad. Im just saying that it has its pros and cons and dudes can easily learn a superficial version of western culture to play the field. The west is very good at marketing and the first rule is never show the the bad. Africa only shows you the bad. Africans are still getting married, raising and educating kids, starting businesses, raising themselves out of poverty, falling in love and all largely without flowers and opening doors. So its ultimately about mindset.

[@jomurugi3385]

I like your analysis, expecially on the social media representation of the rest of the population (which is majority)

[@simulizizadudumizi8417]

Quite apt!

[@ruqayyahcurtis7504]

@CharlieDmus Very well said my brother.❤

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

bro umesema yote, hawa watu wa social media are too westernized, representing very badly

[@afrakanaswahilitv5520]

Ndugu, umelichambua hili suala vizuri sana. Eti nini? Kununua maua na kushikilia milango! Sahau kabisa. Hatufanyi huo ushenzi.

[@chrisamoi8663]

If a woman is right. If she's not stressing her man. If men do not feel stressed or even reluctant to come back home. Then the man will see and feel the need to invest in that woman. They will also see the need to love them as they should.

[@gyeboor1270]

I am a kenyan Open doors, why? ooliskia wapi? That is the stupidity invented by wazungu. We leave it for other colonial relics like Nigerians. Those ideas of romance are soo silly, hilarious. Most are picked and copied from movies, and a certain white novelist (I forget the name) that every kenyan girl or their mothers were weaned on. The panel though?

[@byttlejuice145]

Am Ugandan and u have said it brother! They watch movies and think that’s reality. I would rather open a door for a disabled than a woman.

[@ajNKaj]

@@byttlejuice145😂😂😂😂😂eeh banange

[@mariachristinagrecia-wagas2688]

Cultural differences...

[@moseskazungu1158]

Kenya Women duty if you don't lestin your mama or dad you rong .Kenya Women should go to Uganda to see senga to teachers them to how to treating your Men !!!

[@YaHsrael]

Yes South Sudan is right ✅. Women most know when to speak, otherwise most of them behave like kids🎤👋🏿

[@Easyork]

And that is why most Kenyan men are settling with Ugandan and Tanzanian women. and are very happy.

[@kevinlipps2817]

Depends upon what you mean by "simping," but no man, should be a financial commodity.

[@thomasowino5927]

When a lady says "Open the door for me? Slide the Chair for me? etc."....I am wondering, Don't you as a woman have hands? 🤔

[@sarahnamazzi8855]

African men are not taught to treat women nice. But are taught to take care financially of their children.

[@kevinumba6281]

That's crazy

[@j.o.o793]

The day women learn and understand what Laleti said we are going to have the most perfect world ever

[@Isuraaye]

I have been to Kenya and I will tell you what the problem is there, the women outnumber the men almost 8 to 1. There is no way they can satisfy all these women, hence the mass complaints.

[@Ronobuildstech]

when you listen closely to these women you'll notice how they contradict themselves ; and more of "I feel like " rather than the real actual reason

[@jomurugi3385]

Its called 'opinion' ,it's not based on any extensive research to make it a fact, it's in the same class as heresay'

[@odongemma4170]

Ladies .. trust me You dont want a guy who show his emotion.. Most of those guys are in prison

[@anthonyclementson9658]

😂😂😂man I wish I could've post a video of my Kenyan brother in these comments. Bro is catching a fit here right now lol. Smh man is saying these two girls are delusional.

[@KaiPhD]

🤣

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Women not girls

[@AskTheAdjutant]

Great conversation!🇺🇸

[@AmosHashaka]

The studio in Nairobi is lit, well decorated like the scandinavia minimalist interior design of the studio, however designed this well done 👏. The podcast is great as well very important discourse, the ladies, very good and very intellectual 👏

[@godsonjohnson6257]

The black lady with glasses is very intelligent and spoke very eloquently.

[@princessprincess7708]

Bring more of these lovely Ladies of Quality

[@LastREalone]

but if he a white guy all he need is a backpack.

[@jkjk1194]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

facts

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😅😂 oh well

[@kevinumba6281]

Spot on 😂😂😂

[@mississippi4589]

WoW what a crazy ass show !!! 😂😂🤣🤣👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@SeanFit]

BOOTY CLAPPIN SOUNDS 🤣 miss them days

[@simulizizadudumizi8417]

It's very interesting how ladies think it's all about them. A man is looking for something in a relationship too. Superficial stuff such as flowers are for jokers. If a man is thinking of how to handle real life, please don't confuse the trees for the forest. To a man, showing love is more important than saying how you love someone. There is nothing wrong in expressing love in our African way. If I don't hold your hand in public, it doesn't mean I don't love you. In fact, when you insist on holding my hand in public and remind me every other minute of how much you love me, then I start doubtling you, because you end up sounding like the ladies we see in the movies rather than just being real and showing me respect, loyalty and care. Also remember, if you want to see the soft side of an African man, you had better present yourself in your femininity. The latter is like a hot knife on butter; it melts a man's heart and ego. When you come in your masculinity, then it becomes a case of two men having to relate in a heterosexual context, and it is super confusing. Be tender, he'll soften; be hard, and he'll show you that he's the original rock of ages.

[@TheSockbottom]

Facts 💯

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

that is it, plain and simple...those westernization concept will never work on us....

[@ruqayyahcurtis7504]

Exactly, there are many more important things than flowers and opening doors. Real women getover this trivial stuff by age 30!! When a man us doing everything else right, what do flowers mean? Sometimes a man is tired, stressed, etc. Why don't you rub his feet or give him a back rub? Some women are self-centered and that goes beyond whatever culture they are.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂😂

[@jennywinter3025]

💤

[@kurokaizen1889]

Great show as usual guys🙌🏾

[@MartinBaraza-q1e]

I understand what you say but what do the ladies themselves bring to the table?

[@mosesogutu9935]

Gangster points in men's remains undefeated...Men..NEVER SIMP!

[@FearlessConvo]

What they’re explaining is as both girls sit there you have two women one who’s modern and one who is traditional/modern. Just choose the woman you want wisely.

[@princessprincess7708]

Girls you look classy. This is coming from someone who is not easly. Impressed. But it has been easy within few seconds.

[@thebigblacktraveler]

Lool got to respect kenyan men now

[@errolduncan9305]

You people can learn a thing or two from the people of Trinidad & Tobago in the Caribbean about women having equal rights to men. A woman in Trinidad & Tobago can be anything she wants to be. If she wants to be a stone mason, an electrician, a carpenter, a bus or truck driver or even a scientist, she can be just that. In Trinidad &Tobago, everyone does housework or house chores, including men, women and children

[@Cahluvca]

Good for them! Burden of performance vs princess treatment just because

[@sophiemclarke6556]

When they start making money, they start to empress there friends. Men please other men.

[@henrywamae4629]

Nothing like a heartbreak everything is comercialized in kenya love doesnt exist anymore these women have lost culture and our african traditions they can do anything for money.

[@lugaritzbrown2250]

This gangster thing is really a maturity thing by 20 year old men.

[@talijahtalijah1258]

@25mins, " men are not expected to to say hey bro, i like your shirt." That is a HYPERBOLE.

[@ell6074]

hey Oshay, i see kenganda is in kenya now, bro yu gotta du a episode wit andrew kibe,

[@RyanFagan_RealEstate]

This was a really good conversation

[@princessprincess7708]

Orange girl has real thing to say. I agree. If Your own hurts . it is a forever bitterness. And never ever touch them ever again. Others treats us better

[@gheechiedan9299]

Good show Oshay! 😀👍🏾

[@TheSockbottom]

The truth is the average man making $300 a month in Kenya is not checking for these kind of women. Now imagine me that earns mid 6 figures in $$$. If I move to Kenya I ain't settling for any woman with 1% of disagreeable attitude.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Jaredbuncher]

Nairobi women are not our best products, they been passed around more than a blunt. Drive an hour in the country and point. Now That's a Kenyan woman.

[@noelwasonga1454]

Nairobi women are becoming westernised.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

​@@noelwasonga1454they have been that way for decades 😂

[@kevinumba6281]

Stay away from them. They're definitely westernized. Nicki Minaj has a big following there

[@edwinmacharia9015]

With that lady mentality No going anywhere

[@kenbeda]

I volunteer as tribute to represent Kenyan men on the podcast and fight the wilful delusion coming from these women in the first half of this conversation.

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂

[@freshreserve2503]

They like Nigerian men because they playaz and no what to say and give ‘em money … this I seen and heard

[@anthonyeden7063]

Are east African men Romans ? So ,why do you expect them to be romanic? Everyone is missing the point; we all have to go back to the ancient ways of courting; our ancestors was successful otherwise ,we would not be here as an extremely great bantu nation,but with baggage. Why?.😮

[@wildflower7925]

I love our East African men, 😊, but they do sometime cheat on us 😂. We are Africans are meant to be polygamous 😊, to avoid our men cheating.

[@lifeoflimitlessvibez]

Definitely Kenyan men we don't simp😮 that's why our ladies like simp kings of Africa from west Africa 🇳🇬

[@fredefosa]

You must be very daft to think Nigerian men would simp over a woman. You lots misplace taking care of your women to simping. A typical Nigeria man can’t be walked over. You and I know, Nigerian men don’t tolerate shits.

[@markorenge9840]

This was really awesome and eye opening🔥

[@brian.mwangi]

Aki si these women can talk, parrots. I hope they're not like that off camera.

[@Ronobuildstech]

there are probably worse

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@jimmy-e6l]

the self hate is crazy

[@irineougo2677]

Kenyan men are very different online and in reality. They say much to keep their mates in the dark but in reality most Kenyan men are so good, romantic, we argue alot with them about life and we enjoy everything about them. I speak as a Kenyan woman who has dated Kenyan men

[@Indicesproptrader]

Great episode

[@rbggwapo]

Domestic tasks are part of female rites of passage to create good mothers.

[@lucywaithira3050]

The whole open the door, pull chair, propose marriage one knee nonsense with this young generati...stop copying western culture

[@YaHsrael]

Indeed. I need u in my #

[@davidngwesa]

It's sad. Romance is measured by the actions that don't make sense.

[@mpendakiswahili3053]

very fake

[@lancejack8507]

Interesting content sister with the dreads capture my attention

[@anthonyclementson9658]

Lol watching this podcast with my Kenyan brother here and he saying relationships in Kenya these days are transactional.

[@ronniewamala5768]

Not only in Kenya, it's a global thing.

[@Speedy300]

😂It is like cancer🤣🤣.

[@mich5696]

They date two set of guys simultaneously, one who they use for transactional purposes and the other side guy probably broke with game that they date for love. Of course their ideal man would be a combination of both, but if they cant find both the money and game in one guy they tend to explore.That's why most Kenyan men decided to be bare minimum guys coz why pay for something that some other guy is getting for free? This is what happens with passport bros and other foreigners dating Kenyan women, they provide the resources while some broke Kenyan is getting the goods for free. Our Nigerian brothers should also learn a thing or two about the dangers of leading with your wallet, paternity fraud in Nigeria is the highest in the world thanks to their women who have been taught to marry for money and not for love

[@ronniewamala5768]

@@mich5696 very good points.

[@ObaOrisha]

@@mich5696What you don’t understand is some of these men giving women money have no intention to be with them. It’s just transactional. They may already have their girlfriends or wives. But to you or the women that think the men are being used, they do not see it that way and have nothing to lose. Most relationships are transactional anyways, you have to spend money on dates, buy gifts for your girlfriend on her birthdays anyways.

[@KingPorter]

So women everywhere don't make no sense got it.😂

[@ronniewamala5768]

They don't know what they want.

[@Cahluvca]

😂...reality is no joke once it's accepted!

[@Mwomwa]

Exactly 😂....it has always been that way since the garden of eden

[@TheSockbottom]

Now you get why Arabs and some Africans do an arranged marrage. 100% of women are naturally confused people 😂

[@noulafrantz8589]

😅😅bro women stay women everywhere only different is culture

[@Bronx718]

Kenyan people are the best 👍🏾

[@angelozue7925]

Are these ladies tipsy or what? Lol they looked so hyped up😅

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Because they're not drunkards 😂

[@princessprincess7708]

Its true that. Gangsta points . I do not like mean men.

[@coolbreezeinpuertoplata4470]

Congratulations 🍾 🎊 🎉Oshay and Joanita on your upcoming baby

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

What? Did I miss something??? Where's this at? Still watching video.

[@irisvincent7850]

When did this happen

[@KBTheGeneral]

I am glad i am seeing this 😂 I will not be going to Kenya, it sounds a lot like the women in America. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@princessprincess7708]

I don't think it should be called cheating . We must call it something else. Prostitutioning without pay

[@princessprincess7708]

Quality video than Uganda

[@sammyjambion3316]

Thank for that we can't simp

[@ichooseviolence2532]

I'd rather deal with an ashawo than deal with a girlfriend

[@MoKnows89]

I’m getting “Single forever” vibes

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

And?

[@kokolee7262]

😊I enjoyed the podcast as akenyan woman we still lobe our men though 😂 they show love through actions maybe vacations, paying rent etc never flowers😂

[@kod4130]

Forever pimpin neva simping

[@princessprincess7708]

Black American Angry woman fights you in The club?!😂 Masculine women

[@AfroJamaican]

Hello and Good evening all

[@Kenganda]

hello brother!

[@BigReddthehebrew]

They sound just like American women.....and thats very unfortunate

[@fresham7425]

Kenyan men keep going. Those women what to make you simp.

[@princessprincess7708]

Classy girls pretty

[@bigwalt3898]

These women are for the savannahs!

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

😂😂😂😂

[@princessprincess7708]

Why are all these guests pretty

[@SmileySimian]

5:10 "Bombastic side eye" 😂😂😂

[@KenyanGhost]

I Need to be on this show to represent men

[@363y]

OMG!. The young lady in the black who life you know?!.. This is soooo me!!..🤦🏽‍♀️ I’m trying tho. 🥹

[@brodiejr4real]

Those gunshots...#classic

[@OpinionatedGlobalCitizen]

Yes sir

[@Gandamoo]

O’Shea start a comedy show 😅

[@coolbreezeinpuertoplata4470]

Congratulations 🍾 🎊 🎉Oshay and Joanita’s pregnancy big blessings on your upcoming baby👍🏽

[@thebigblacktraveler]

What baby

[@ramaken254]

what ?

[@marym-w2e]

Is that reason I saw jonita tts as a woman I thought they were extra big😂😂😂

[@keepcool460]

👀

[@sonofnok2153]

Lol! Stop! You mean he tap that? Oshay is business man won't do that.

[@princessprincess7708]

Oshay. As long as you call you our brothers . Who wants to date their brother. Smh Am not your sister

[@jimmy-e6l]

who hurt these urgly cats