Why You’re Not Successful (& What To Do About It)

[@Tomisinshalewa]

The goal is not to pursue money nor women, but to pursue excellence. Thank you Kevin. You have given me hope today.🤧

[@derek8149]

Victim mentality is so common today. I used to have hardcore victim mentality from a chronic mental health disorder that made me suicidal and self destructive, but when I started adopting a mindset of self responsibility and focusing on things I could control, my success went on an exponential uptrend and now I’m in my second year of medical school for a dual degree program at a T20 school, have a loving girlfriend, and doing well for myself financially through stocks and crypto trading/investing. Victim mentality does nothing but creates more problems for yourself, makes you focus on things you cannot control, and promotes learned helplessness.

[@louisjwiese5515]

My wife used to say, to the annoyance of all her friends:"everything is a decision. So get over yourself and make a decision." To which I agree completely. Many of the younger generation have been taught to revel in being victims. And to also blame someone else for whatever grieves them. Taking responsibility for your life, and your decisions, is a lot more liberating than people think.

[@MoreHumane]

I’m also a south Asian. Former illegal alien fugitive turned US physician. Excellent video. Victim mindset needs to end. 3 Idiots movie quote: “Chase excellence and success will come running after you”

[@Tappedbravo549]

I needed to see this today. Was honestly struggling with self doubt, and taking the victim mentality. The thing that I've appreciated from this the most is pursuing excellence. Not money, happiness or so on. But truly going after being your best. Thank you Dr. Jubbal. I've been watching your MSI and vlog videos since I was in High school. It's been a tremendous help. ESPECIALLY the studying videos. The other series that I like the most is the So you want to be series. This is a long winded way of saying thank you. Thank you for being the voice of support when I most lacked it.

[@savedbygrace5416]

Pursue excellence! I love it!

[@Lobi10879]

My first thoughts were "people have it way worse dude, calm down". But who am I to judge someone else's struggles through adversities. I remembered I always hated people who I told my problems and then they came back and told me they had it worse and they are just fine. We are all different and deal with things in different ways. I'm glad you are able to share your adversities and used that to fuel the successes you have now.

[@RA109E]

Good stuff man. I need that f you bring it man attitude. RN I’m in aviation school now and my goal is to start my own company eventually. Please keep making videos on how to have a successful mindset, It really helps.

[@elissahui]

Stumbled upon your channel purely by chance (not in the medical profession) and wanted to wholeheartedly thank you for this video. Such an incredible journey of resilience, courage, and victories in the face of big struggles. I'm personally at a junction of choice (again for the second time in my life, sometimes lightning strikes twice) after an unexpected medical battle that reset the clock on career and personal successes. What you've shared deeply resonates and transcends as an inspiring and hopeful reminder of the importance of mindset during/after life disruptions. Many thanks from a tech/media industry follower from Los Angeles and wishing you continued excellence and successes.

[@nicolaigonzalezstoylov3307]

Battling depression and burnout while being an intern in surgery. This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you!!

[@mohamedsayid6403]

Dealing with IBD is only woth and more than struggle. Keep going hero.

[@aadarsharavind2549]

One of the best pieces of advice I have ever heard on the platform. Really drives the unprivileged listening to your story!!

[@masonolinger7870]

Amazing video, great message!

[@fearful5312]

This video was life altering in a genuine way. What you mentioned relating to pursuing money & women vs pursuing excellence had such an impact on the way I think. I really appreciate you making this content and putting the time into teaching me and others what life could look like from a different lense. Much love for you Kevin, much love.

[@sebucwerd]

I love the message of personal responsibility. I've been figuring this stuff out as well. Letting cognitive distortions run your mind is a hell not worth all the material resources of the world.

[@steve19149]

Truth. Perception is reality. How you view the world is everything.

[@dinoradoncic3752]

Best advice for ALL young people

[@SimplifyingMedschool]

Thank you for sharing! Very helpful and inspiring!

[@blondie1018]

love your content, Kevin! You’re a big inspiration for me, in my professional pursuit toward medicine and in my pursuit to be a good person in everyday life. Thanks for the all the advice!

[@ashog1426]

Interesting to hear this all bro thanks for sharing 💪

[@samuelarmatage6679]

Dude, you are awesome

[@hatem4223]

I made this video in my watch later list and i watch it once a week ❤

[@hatem4223]

Third time Still it sounds great

[@hatem4223]

i really like these kind of videos from you, thank your for sharing your thoughts

[@adambomber96]

I actually remember Tiger Woods saying this after he won one of many golf titles. “You work hard to overcome, and you make your own luck” that’s kind of a good summary of your video

[@kaungmyat-no7ii]

Good lesson bro I m your big fan From million miles away❤

[@ramdompersonontheweb]

Dr. Jubbal is a big 3 Idiots fan

[@accountnumberone]

fucking loved this video

[@ziesam]

man no offense but u sound like a finance bro. still love the med and study advice. much love:)

[@shanzayhummayoun3794]

love you kev🤍

[@xJddj44]

Kevin Tate, MD🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@rockymogstad8428]

🐐

[@harrypewpew901]

Alot of people like this cannot differentiate between talent + hardwork, I don't care how hard you work if you are not smart enough (if you do not have that certain wiring in your head) you will NEVER be able to achive academic exellence like this guy, I am sorry I have to break it down to you but for some people life is and will be hell

[@redindigoorange-rio2539]

what is kevins ethnicity?

[@sebucwerd]

Sorry to be that guy Kev, but you shouldn't be prejudiced against people with successful parents. You don't have enough information about their lives to make that kind of black and white judgement. That's a cognitive distortion. Someone might have a rich lawyer as a father and a schizophrenic mother who just lost it at some point. They could even have more money than they could ever spend, and have to constantly contend with chronic pain from a bad car accident. "It speaks to grit, resourcefulness..." is just self-aggrandizement

[@kevinjubbalmd]

I’ve met people from comfortable backgrounds whose lives I would never want. I’m not prejudiced against them - it’s simply a different set of problems

[@steve19149]

You totally missed what he said. Perhaps you need remedial reading

[@sebucwerd]

​@@kevinjubbalmd 100%. Each of us is on our own journey with its own context. That's why everyone deserves "a certain level of respect"

[@juanmanuelgarzon4490]

Very aristotelic man

[@cappyadachi5642]

First comment

[@Nabonidus-m7x]

wOwZeRz!

[@emocuta]

PURSUE EXCELLENCE - the best advice ever given 🙏🏼🤍