KEY DIFFERENCES THAT LED TO MEG'S DOWNFALL

Can you spot the difference? The little things that Catherine Princess of Wales does that Meghan Markle refused made a massive difference in their public image, perception and the amount of respect the public afforded each woman. In today's video we dive into a few of the problems that Meghan brought upon herself in regards to how she chose to present herself during duties including wrinkly clothing, poor posture & floppy hands, these are things the people noticed so we are taking a look deeper. It does give off the impression that you do not care about your position, were ill-prepared or did not try to put your best foot forward when you repeatedly make these sorts of mistakes over and over again, like we saw with Meghan. So surely that contributed heavily to her dwindling popularity from the start and it could've been prevented by following a few etiquette rules.
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0:00-1:10 Intro, Wrinkle Prevention
1:11-4:19 Meghan’s Error & Duchess Slant
4:20-6:12 Adjusting Poor Etiquette & Solutions
6:13-6:59 Hemline Secret
7:00-10:00 Floppy Hands!
10:01-11:58 Walk Small
11:59-14:21 Power Moves
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[@hl6876]

Key difference is Catherine took advice while Megsy did NOT!!

[@rosana847]

In terms of class and elegance, Catherine is far ahead of Markle .There is no comparison.

[@Kis-met]

So true, and while Catherine may have had a few fashion faux pas at the start, she learned so quickly . I love that Catherine picks lengths that are elegant .

[@swissuz]

@@Kis-met I agree on this too. I like Katherine's dresses much better now that she wears them longer. She's a beautiful mom, and her long lines and elegant figure are much more graceful with the longer hemlines. That could be a great video too...before and after?

[@amo7588]

I agree Catherine dresses like a future Queen 👸 ❤❤

[@Kis-met]

@@swissuz - well put, and yes that would be a great video idea...hope Beebs see's it.

[@coolerheadsprevail9312]

Catherine is a person who understands the importance of being part of a community. She comes in, she learns, she adjusts, she continues to grow. Unfortunately, some people resist and are repellent so they get bounced out.

[@frugalissima2930]

MM put ballet in her CV. No evidence of it in her posture or gait.

[@motherhenn8850]

That's obvious. My daughter took ballet for 8 years. Then she took up bowling as well. You never saw such a graceful bowler! That graceful movement has never left her.

[@heidimeigs5192]

She’s very ungainly.

[@pain-killeryates5448]

Megaliar is known to lie about things so this is no different. Maybe she did practice Ballet, but when she was aged 5 to 8 years of age! Just because she did ballet at one stage of her life doesn't make her an expert. She only out it on there because it looks sophisticated.

[@mezzamuddle]

​​@@pain-killeryates5448she did do ballet but quit when she wasn't given a starring role in a performance they were doing. Her Dad talked about it and I've seen videos of her at ballet as a young girl and wow did she have a bad attitude!

[@theConquerersMama]

Or her curtsey.

[@mayamusse2688]

Catherine didn’t always get it right. If you notice her early wardrobe there are some considerable missteps. What helped Catherine is that she was silent and had a warm demeanor that afforded her the benefit of the doubt. She learned and kept going until she struck a balance between tradition and modern dressing. Meghan came in hot and wasn’t ready for any criticism or change. She didn’t even want anyone to take credit for styling her. The lesson here is to be aware of your own shortcomings and the necessity of due process.

[@ElvisRose_]

It's interesting that Meghan Markle didn't adopt the Duchess Slant considering she says she thought that being royal would be like the Princess Diaries and I do remember that scene! 🙄It's just sad that such an opportunity was squandered on someone who just wanted fame.

[@Pinkranger87]

Also when cross your legs for too long your legs will fall asleep

[@cheriem432]

Well, she *got* fame; just probably not the kind she wanted. She was never interested in fitting in. She just wanted to stand out and 'reform' the BRF!

[@spiritmatter1553]

@@Pinkranger87Or worse, you could develop an aneurysm!

[@felicianocera6471]

MM refused to follow the Royals suggestions about how to sit. She always had to do it her way ie not wearing nylons, crossing her legs and off the shoulder dresses. A real hot mess.

[@Pinkranger87]

@@felicianocera6471 She wanted to be the new Diana. Diana knew the palace Rules and mined them the only time she didn't is when she wanted FU to Charles and Camilla

[@SusanSaysSomething]

Yes, to more etiquette lessons!

[@OsloTime]

I'm the opposite of pigeon toed, haha. I walked on the outside of my feet, I think it's supination? But yeah, I walk funny and I've tried to correct it so many times. It looks even worse in heels because I roll my ankle accidentally from trying to correct the supination. Anyways, I'm trying to learn to walk in heels properly, finally after 30+ years lol. Beebs' lessons are so helpful, especially because I feel like I need to learn to look more put together. Her videos are so helpful!

[@bagus853]

The real problem is her narcissistic brain cell ( I know better mentality than IA & Google ) so she wouldn't listen to anybody and/or take any advice. No boundaries are also another level in her brain cell .

[@likalika2198]

MM refused all advice from royal advisors, it is well documented. She was and is too arogant.

[@pattidrapala5623]

One would think that someone who supposedly practiced yoga would understand how to breathe, how to move and how to glide gracefully. Her mother, at some point in time, was supposedly a yoga instructor. Mystifying!

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

Could you imagine how bad she would be without the yoga

[@charlottepembroke5446]

Agree - I thought she looked like a carthorse most of the time

[@ah5721]

as history would tell it is seems like she spent a lot of her childhood with her unkempt tasteless father as well.

[@nativevirginian8344]

I would not be surprised if Doria was a drug trafficker.

[@katedavies9578]

I think one has to question statements like that. How do we know that is true? Probably just another lie to give a respectable image of herself.

[@catherinelynnfraser2001]

One thing I never thought I’d say was ”Meghan Markle had no trouble keeping her legs crossed”. I was never quite sure how someone from Hollywood could be so awkward in front of a camera. It’s like she’s only aware of her face.

[@missfoo1451]

There are a lot of pictures where she is not aware of her face either 😂

[@damsonginqueen1180]

She was never ever Hollywood material, she’s a z list cable tv failed actress, failed royal, failed at everything she’s done.

[@katedavies9578]

She never made it in Hollywood. Her father worked in Hollywood as a very successful lighting engineer, but she only got tv roles, and that was in Canada.

[@colormetakenaback]

Imagine how much time Princess Catherine has spent practicing all these postures and stances developing the muscle memory, so to say. Wow

[@Melshed]

That’s what I was thinking. I can’t imagine how much went on behind the scenes to get her where she is today. And that’s work she doesn’t get any “credit” for, nobody is congratulating her for her fantastic elbow posture 😅

[@colormetakenaback]

@@Melshed lol I totally had some "my fair lady" scenes in my head thinking about it!

[@resurgem]

Her mother is very graceful, elegant, and refined in her movements. I suspect Catherine has learned from her excellent role model mother.

[@Mary-he1od]

@@resurgem Catherine's mother was an air stewardess before she got married and would have learnt deportment as part of her job training. That's why she carries herself so elegantly. Something that she'd have taught her girls bringing them up.

[@parkerbrown-nesbit1747]

Plus Catherine played sports -- you have to have decent posture for that.

[@windycityliz7711]

While I am an ordinary person, I actually found this helpful and realize how, if I just relax a bit and pay attention to details, I could feel more confident by making just a few changes. Thank you.

[@melissakeller2644]

I totally agree! Very helpful information to help look our best for interviews, photos, life in general. Another great video from Babs!

[@egoings4733]

If Meghan Markle was sincere about being a working royal and committed to representing the RF, all of these faux pas regarding her dress and personal appearance would not be such an issue today. All of these issues would have improved in time, as she learned how to be royal. But, as we all know now, she never intended on staying and doing the job, or following the rules of dress and etiquette. And left to herself, she’s a mess. Being a Royal would have enhanced her not taken away who she was. We always become better people when we honestly serve others. She doesn’t appear to listen to good advice, even from a royal stylist. Thus, she is often the object of “what not to do” fashion lessons such as this one.

[@christabell-zc9rn]

Fabulous comment. Thank you

[@joelleurack8590]

Agree with your opinion 😊

[@susancunningham7933]

No amount of etiquette could enhance Megham's nasty personality, may have just fooled the public for a bit longer imo!

[@mezzamuddle]

Precisely, but of course Rachel knows best 🙄

[@ellevillamor4454]

Before Megnut married Harry, she survived kissing ass and putting up with their nonsense, just to come to where she is now. Now that she is a royal, she doesn't see the need to hide her true nature and expect everyone to be okay with it and start kissing her ass. As if that will happen.

[@TheLegalCodeNYC]

These lessons were lessons all women knew at a time. Not just royalty, there was a time when women were expected to conduct themselves in a certain way. You’re doing God’s work reminding women of their elegance. ♥️♥️♥️

[@ClaireEmilia]

I am so glad we have outgrown these times

[@druidriley3163]

Thank goodness those petty times are behind us.

[@Fillyfillyme]

@@ClaireEmilia is there anything wrong with receiving tips about how to look more attractive, how to sit or stand to make ourselves look more confident, pretty and - ladylike? After all, do we really want to get a flash of someone’s underwear at a charity or business event?

[@colliecoform4854]

My mother was a stickler for standing up straight, good posture when standing and sitting. When I grew up most mothers were.

[@Cooksongrl]

I feel like there needs to be balance. No need to be overly formal or a stickler for every single thing. But we also shouldn't be walking around like we don't care either. Some women find doing their makeup relaxing while others find it a chore. There's simple ways of being more attractive so yeah we can work on those for sure.

[@LadyMonica]

Princess Catherine inspired me to teach myself to walk with my arms down when she and Prince William arrived to greet the public with her in-laws outside the palace when Queen Elizabeth II passed. Princess Catherine is POWERFUL right from the start to walking to the flowers. Thank you again for this video. Brilliant.

[@deecee9548]

Meghan is so used to elbowing people out of the way to push herself forward it's become her natural stance 😆 Brilliantly fascinating video - I would love if you are able to share about etiquette training, it's not something that is discussed much these days

[@Mary-he1od]

Those outward elbows remind me of a man inflating his personal space around him to make himself 'bigger' (not in girth, but rather in power space) - feet apart and elbows out.

[@factcheck5224]

I’m watching this in March 2024 and The Meg is STILL taking enormous steps and standing with her legs apart!!😂😂😂😂

[@lenabans579]

Our dear late Queen laid down "rules" like not crossing legs at public events and not wearing black. ... But there are reasons for the rules - and you've explained the sitting with your legs crossed and the wrinkling. The fact is: you're in the public eye and you represent an institution. MM just didn't get it. From your vids we can see that her way wasn't really even doing HER any favours either!

[@mezzamuddle]

She didn't want to get it

[@spiritmatter1553]

Traditions are solutions to problems we forgot we had.

[@nativevirginian8344]

The Queen was head of state, some decorum should be shown as respect to the British people. MM apparently does not even respect herself.

[@kevinpoole6122]

I believe that anyone can better themselves through education, observing others, learning from those to whose position in life or work one aspires. This does not mean rejecting one’s upbringing or heritage or regarding it as inferior. However, such a transition begins from a posture of humility and openness. Doing so can result in the difference between a gentleman and a cad or a lady and a tramp. Wonderful video, Ms Kelly, and as always, you look so lovely today.

[@BeebsKelley]

Thank you 💛

[@Shakespearelover1717]

I learned something new!! Thanks for the information about fabric wrinkling when you cross your legs. I never knew that. The difference between Catherine and Megain is that Catherine listens to stylists and Megain thinks she’s above any advice. It shows in her appearance. Megain looks like trash.

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

It seems as if Catherine is much, much more intelligent than Megs as well and retains everything she learns

[@MsLouisVee]

Megan is trash that looks like wrinkled trash

[@PageHawkins-wm6en]

Absolutely!! Another delusion Meghan has is that she is “the smart one”. She has called herself the smart one in interviews. She is average at best. But she does excel in manipulation and lying. I will give her THAT!!

[@teresaroby4441]

I don't know why, but I really did enjoy learning these little tidbits around fashion & her late Majesty, QEII. I never would have known or even thought about her sticking with the same type of wardrobe for years because she never had to worry about having to "readjust". This was overall just a great video, I never thought I could still learn so much more at my age!

[@Alberto-wu1mj]

The queen was so fascinating. She was duty first in every way including her hairstyle and clothes.

[@LynetteMcGrath]

The Queen always looked beautifully turned out, but the only thing about the coat dresses is that we never got to see what looked like very pretty dresses underneath. I've noticed that with Sophie and Catherine too. Do they put as much thought into the dress underneath that remains unseen? We don't often see this style of clothing in Australia because it would be too hot to wear so many layers.

[@ChloeLouiseTheRonnieRepublic]

@@Alberto-wu1mj Her style was solid and confidant--I am here--I am The Queen. She was never screaming look at my edgy dress, I want attention.

[@spiritmatter1553]

@@Alberto-wu1mjVogue did a “style book” video on KZbin on Her Late Majesty’s style. She embraced the coat-over-dress look very early in life. I’ll post a link if I can find one.

[@spiritmatter1553]

And here it is: kzbin.info/www/bejne/o56bn3ulobFjl68

[@revk8611]

Catherine did have a couple of faux pas early in her Royal duties. Everybody remembers the wind catching her skirt and blowing it up very high while visiting Canada. The big differences is that she learned from that. The other one will never learn from it. She doesn’t think she has to

[@animalian01]

You can guarantee that Megrain has been given this exact advice when she was in the RF, but because she knew better, she ignored it.

[@Cooksongrl]

I feel like H&M felt like they were being bossed around all the time when actually ppl were just trying to help them not look like fools.

[@julieblackman4969]

I’m so excited about this series!! There is a wealth of “do this/not that” photographic evidence to pull from. I think it’s very interesting to look back at when Princess Catherine really had her major “finishing school.” I think it was in the time slightly before/after Charlotte was born. There is a marked difference in how she carried herself, dressed and presented herself-which coincided with when Harry met his “1st wife.” Well done as always!❣️

[@swissuz]

I agree!

[@AnitaMRoberts-xh4de]

"First wife"! LOL

[@jeannelipham2583]

"...1st wife..." Perfect!

[@barbara1407]

Markle was and is, crass and vulgar, because she just would not listen to anybody’s advice. Her narcissism has destroyed her and her husband with her.

[@k_spats]

You are always far *too* kind when it comes to MM. 🤣 So glad I found your channel, in all seriousness. I understand much more about my own body and what I should be wearing for my body type... Not to mention, a million other great tips!!! Thank you for all your hard work and dedication. 🙏🏻 Thanks, Beebs! You're the best! 💛 *Yellow represents Friendship.

[@BeebsKelley]

💛💛💛💛💛 I'm always happy to see your messages!

[@melindaflick631]

Dressing for the body you HAVE, not the body you wish you had, makes a world of difference in appearance! You will always look worse when your clothing does not fit you properly. Even in her very early days, Catherines clothing fit her beautifully. Too often, Meghans does not. You know they both have space for tailoring in their budgets, but Catherine uses that money, and Meghan, I think, too often does not.

[@jeannelipham2583]

I think she has fitters but makes them do things to the garments that either the garment is not made for, or, more common, her figure does not allow. She is a mess

[@josephineshields5869]

Dear Beebs, I love this video. My mother was very critical, but the one thing I remember as a positive was "stand up straight, Josephine!". She had impeccable posture well into her 90s. I am constantly "checking" my posture, and when all is in alignment, I feel so much better and more confident. Thanks for this video. Would love to see more.

[@beverleyevans3262]

You are absolutely right , Meghan Markle would not take advice , but then neither did her husband once Meghan was on the scene

[@alisoneichler4257]

I am a HUGE fan of slips! I feel so much better/more confident when I’m wearing a slip.

[@windycityliz7711]

I am as well; I thought I was the only person left on earth who still wore them :)

[@Songbirdstress]

Same here. Plus the swishy sound makes you feel a million dollars.

[@thatsauntay1756]

Trying to find a decent replacement slip that isn't clingy or short is like a part-time job. Arrgghhh!

[@Songbirdstress]

@@thatsauntay1756 They're so easy to make.

[@alisoneichler4257]

@@thatsauntay1756 slips are available at Amazon but are kinda pricey. I am fortunate to be able to make my own clothes - so I make my own slips!

[@sandyloer2249]

My mother taught me most of these techniques when I was a teenager! She was so wise!

[@elkelewtschuk9894]

I feel that I am never too old to learn something new. Beebs, your fashion and etiquette advice is wonderful. I would love ❤️ as much as you are willing to give. 😊

[@BeebsKelley]

💛💛💛

[@michellefrench4748]

The Meg's big downfall was that she didn't realise that she had to learn how to be a Duchess. She then wasn't willing to learn either. The Princess of Wales has learned all of the procedural, postural and clothing do's and don'ts. She hasn't always been as perfect as she is now!

[@fatima19891]

It always was so odd to me why Meghan just didn't appear as elegant, put together as I expected her to. Catherine makes all her outfits and appearances look SOOO effortless it's incredible, but I love how you covered it and highlighted these subtle differences. A lot of women aspire to look as elegant, effortless and put together as Catherine does and I love the little pieces of advice. And I love how you explained the importance of etiquettes in conveying messages and earning respect! Usually videos about MM are just snarky, callous and unforgiving but I love how you approached this subject :)

[@janyth1329]

I learned something today, and it's obvious that Meg did not.

[@blackbeardsdaughter2613]

I've liked all your presentations thus far, Beebs, but REALLY loved this one! I believe very much in posture and etiquette. I worked in Japan for 11 years and know how these two topics are so important for well-mannered people. You can't, for example, successfully wear a kimono with bad posture, big sloppy walking, swinging arms or poor manners. Body language and behavior are favorite subjects of mine too! My Dad was a police officer/detective and taught me throughout childhood how important understanding body language is to sum up character, honesty, respect, etc. Having also been in the military, he also knew how important it is to always look neat and tidy on the job. My Mom is as feminine as they come so we both love everything about Catherine and loved dearly Queen Elizabeth II and Diana. Keep up the brilliant work, Beebs! You are an absolute joy!! Warm wishes from Northern California ❤🤍💙 PS: Everything is wrong about The Madam M: Her poor manners, poor posture, bad walking, sitting and standing habits, wrinkled and poor fashion, lack of tailoring, messy hair.......

[@BeebsKelley]

💛💛💛

[@mottawa1]

MM is consistent.

[@charmaccents6278]

Oh that messy hair drives me out of my mind. Geez, am surprised the queen didn't make her wear bobby pins or barettes. Whoever told her messy hair was good or that she looked good with that hair hanging in her face did NOT do her any favors.

[@stepheboyd17]

At school we were taught deportment and it was always knees together and ankles crossed. Also to swivel around in your seat and put both feet on the ground when exiting a car.

[@markjohnson7400]

Thanks for those valuable tips. I noticed that Catherine always appears flawless but never understood why.

[@BarbItalia]

Loved this, thank you! MM is a MESS, literally, figuratively and visually. And so bull-headed she can't be told a thing; she knows it all and bucks any and all rules.

[@lesliesmith5797]

Loving this video ❤. I have mentioned before the really long strides mm takes. The is really nothing feminine about her. You are spot on about her flailing limbs. She presents herself as an old plow horse, bulling her way through any situation or obstruction. Catherine, Princess of Wales, is so refined and elegant. Catherine has always exuded class and elegance 💜. The other one just wants to be noticed, and it’s not usually in a good way. Thanks Beebs, have a wonderful day 🌸🦋

[@kerrypapworth1526]

Agree MM desperately needs some lessons in deportment.

[@Karin77722]

Yes, more like this please, and thank you!💜 Good posture is so important lest you look like Gollum... hunched over, neck extended with floppy hands clutching for the "precious".😂

[@Alberto-wu1mj]

These etiquette videos are helpful for women in business settings as well. I regularly have to wear business outfits with pants and skirts. These lessons are good for those long days.

[@charlottereitberger6253]

The Princess of Wales is near perfection. Markle does not have class. Unwilling to learn. POWales is just a admirable woman. 🇺🇸

[@stacey5925]

Enjoy this informative series of etiquette do's and don'ts.❤

[@SurfSideSams]

Etiquette is becoming a lost art! I personally am looking forward to your etiquette series!

[@BeebsKelley]

Yay! Thank you!

[@charmaccents6278]

Yes!

[@colliecoform4854]

Me too! I took etiquette lessons in sixth grade. I attended a private Catholic school. These lessons were offered offsite. We giggled and laughed a lot but learned a lot also. The first lesson was on posture, sitting standing and walking. We did it over and over until done correctly and then ojr homework for the week was studying the book on posture, sitting, standing, etc., to be tested on it the following class. You can bet the Nuns saw a lot of great posture, sitting, standing and walking that week. We all thought they were spys for the etiquette teacher! LOL.

[@RLW369]

I had never noticed before how consistently Meghan’s arms are bent and angled awkwardly. Now I see how much that contributed to a messy or chaotic appearance. I get the feeling that Catherine is a very thoughtful, intentional person. She was probably a very good student and continues to be someone who takes in and processes what she is taught, and that is reflected in the confident way she carries herself. From now on I’m going to be very aware of what my arms and hands are doing in pictures. 😉

[@gabzzzrodzzz9547]

I saw this video and found it interesting that a lot of these rules were common a couple generations ago. My grandmother went to finishing school at 17 before her wedding and a lot of these were covered there. How to seat, to avoid wrinkles, to do small talk, to pose properly for portraits, to conduct yourself properly in school, work and public events, etc. I am imagining some poor people at the Palace attempting a Princess Diaries scene and Miss Mess saying "No thanks, I am a queen!!"

[@whitechocolate072]

Someone I did know back in 90s who was working for the late Queen as a wardrobe assistant (she was preparing her luggages for travel) she told me they were putting small curtain weights in her skirt border. They were putting a small stitch to keep in place. It was cheap and effective and because it has a small hold it was easy to stitch it.

[@BWings-ub4ej]

The difference is class, elegance, and decorum which M has none. This is why it doesn’t matter what M does she’s absolutely NO comparison to Princess Catherine.

[@kimchristianson4743]

I love the advice for non wrinkling. I appreciate the reminder on posture too.

[@colliecoform4854]

I !oved the photos. They clearly demonstrated how Catherine has mastered the "rules" while Meghan thought she was the master and completely bombed it all. We all knew she was wrong right from the beginning and now another reason why.

[@Kis-met]

Such a good episode with great tips today Beebs ! Loved it. I'm guilty of floppy hands and elbows sometimes, so this was a very handy episode. Keep up the great work ❤

[@wendyclayton5709]

Meghan holds her wrists out in weird positions so she can show of her jewellery. Just in case we forgot she has Diana's watch, a diamond bracelet and a beautiful engagement ring.

[@kathrynaston6841]

Natasha Archer, Catherine, Princess of Wales personal stylist deserves far more credit than she receives. She is so talented and quiet! She makes Catherine SHINE. The perfect pairing of a gifted respectful stylist and a receptive, advice-following Duchess.

[@LynetteMcGrath]

While watching this, I tried the sitting postures, and found that if I sit with my feet together flat on the floor, my knees tend to drift apart as I relax, so I get why the leg slant and crossed ankles. Also when I was growing up we were advised not to cross our legs because the pressure would lead to varicose veins later on. I'm going to remember the 'elbows in' rule when my son gets married & I have to be in some of the photos!

[@judidonnie1167]

Meghan looks like she’s going to go the Birdie Song dance 🐔😂

[@lauramorgan9608]

What gets me is ladies (hesitate to call them ladies) who stand with their feet far apart. It’s unladylike at the very least. Masculine at the best. Great video as always.

[@qhluvr77]

Great video Beebs, really good, practical advice on how to improve ourselves. I’d love more of these. ♥️

[@chexpression2822]

Yes! Another great video! Beebs is providing desperately needed advice to people who value refinement, comfort, good manners and good taste. She needs to write a book!

[@janicewilliams2076]

Thanks so much for this Beebs. I have my granddaughters wedding coming up this week end and the standing and walking advice is brilliant. Also I took your advice on a body shaper and my goodness that made such a difference to the dress I'm wearing. My body type would probably best be described as 'beer barrel' or possibly 'rotund' (sounds so much better than fat!)and wearing a soft body shaper has really smoothed out some of the more unfortunate lumps I have. So in case you were wondering if your vids are helpful....yes they have helped me immensely and I'm really grateful. Thank you.

[@annewalden3795]

Janice hope you enjoy the wedding . Keep smiling .

[@janicewilliams2076]

@@annewalden3795 Thans Anne xx

[@susancole6793]

Thank you so much for your tips and advice! Everything you said is absolute correct and should be passed on to our daughters and granddaughters 😊

[@ElizabethS-wv2ge]

Oh, thank you so much, Beebs! Slips, stockings, weighted hems, and proper “foundations” ( what the undergarment department was called when I was young) be still my grateful heart❤❤❤, so happy that you’re “supporting” a return to wearing these garments!😊😊😊 PS edited to start out with Ty Beebs

[@spiritmatter1553]

“Supporting” ha ha-I see what you did there! 🤣 I’m another one who’s old enough to remember “foundation garments.” The copy writing for print and commercials for those products was so discreet back then: “It lifts and separates!” I kinda miss those days, though I do love modern improvements like tag-less 🏷 underwear and the use of soft ☁️ microfiber as opposed to 😬 scratchy nylon.

[@judyholiday1794]

I was not allowed out of the house without proper undergarments on..My mother was an old school southern lady and I was taught to dress properly starting at a young age..I just don't understand Rachel and her lack of caring about her appearance..

[@ElizabethS-wv2ge]

@@judyholiday1794 , Southern gal here, too! Came with the territory then. I will say our Girl Scout troop leaders gave us our etiquette education through our earning the hospitality badge…white gloves, party manners and setting tables for occasions including a multi course formal dinner with finger bowls!😂 AND Curtsies!

[@BeebsKelley]

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[@PageHawkins-wm6en]

Both my boys went to public school in a suburb of Birmingham, Alabama. But it was better than most private schools. In 5th or 6th grade all the kids had to wear suits/ ties for the boys and dresses for the girls. They went to dinner at the country club ( but of course could have been at a restaurant) and were taught etiquette and manners. How to place their napkins, which forks to use, pull out chairs for the girls, etc. How to act properly but not uncomfortably formal as to not be fun and relaxed. I think it would be great for all kids to have a manners and etiquette class. It wasn’t a long class but was very beneficial.

[@austenmckenna5555]

Thank you for doing this video!!!❤ Many people have been wondering why the Spare's wife always wore wrinkled clothing. We thought perhaps she slept in them the night before and rolled out of bed the next day to head out to her public appearance. Another simple explanation was that she didn't own an iron! Thank you for enlightening us about what happens to the clothing we wear when we cross our legs! I never knew that, and it was the first time I heard anyone explain it!🤗 That probably rains on the wife's parade since she probably thought it was sexy to raise her leg in the air to cross her legs in front of an audience. I guess she thought she was Sharon Stone in the movie, "Basic Instinct."😂

[@kathyevans2968]

I often think MM looks like she’s never done ballet where your arms and hands especially are trained to look graceful. I was surprised to hear she did ballet and dance classes with the way she awkwardly holds her arms and especially claw like hands.

[@flyonthewall8122]

She wasn't especially talented in that area. There're videos of recitals.

[@Melshed]

Oh dear, I’ve never thought for a second about my elbows, hands, or steps. Now I’ve gotta watch myself 🧐. Thank you so much for little tidbits of etiquette school!! I’m really loving the tips on how to be more classy and feminine 😍

[@r.altman6458]

I did see recently a video featuring Blake lovely where she kept one arm bent intentionally for photos (at in this one glittery bodysuit) - at least that’s how it was suggested in the video.

[@jaynetanner3757]

This was very interesting , I understand there are certain Palace rules\guidelines about posture and dress code and looking at the photos of the late Queen, Catherine and Meghan....you can see why. The biggest mistake that Meghan Markle made was not understanding the HUGE difference between Royalty and Celebrity

[@EvelynElaineSmith]

Following this advice, however, would enhance how observers perceive Meghan even if her ultimate goal is to be a Hollywood celebrity.

[@Jollygood-br5pd]

Spot on this is precisely what Meghan failed at.

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

Simply bc she didn't care

[@beareeves4923]

I have found the slanted legs crossed at the ankle is the most comfortable for me. There is a clip of Katherine and Sophie where a breeeze lifts the bottom of Katherines dress. Sophie subtlety steps closer to Katherine's side. This helps avoid the skirt being lifted.

[@spikesgirl9371]

It's one of my favorite times between the two. It shows they truly like it each other.

[@charmaccents6278]

I saw a video of Catherine quite awhile ago, it was a collection of scenes where the winds pushed up Catherine's skirts. Oye! I remember thinking at the time that I was happy she had such pretty legs because sometimes those skirts were pushed way up by the wind. Have not seen anything like that lately.

[@spiritmatter1553]

Fascinating topic today! We used to call “etiquette school” “finishing school”-like you’ve had your basic education, now let’s “finish” by brushing up your etiquette! I remember learning about not showing the inside “big side” of the elbow. The lecture from the body language expert must have been amazing. I also loved all of your practical tips for looking better and more confident in photographs. Edited for brevity.

[@fredadunne5382]

These videos are fascinating. I didn’t realize how my early training in K-12 Catholic schools imprinted on me with the constant reminders to “act like a lady.” The other day a friend sitting next to me at dinner remarked that she loved the way I always sat up straight at the rubber chicken dinners we have to attend and don’t slump, even with the prospect of that rubber chicken plate looming.

[@flyonthewall8122]

What's puzzling is that Meghan attended Catholic schools.

[@lizhorton5333]

Very interesting and informative! You would have thought Meghan being an actress would have understood these things, but obviously she didn’t and it affected how others perceive her.

[@redeagle999]

That bright green outfit the Queen wore was just so gorgeous!!

[@qhluvr77]

Ooh first! eyes and ears glued to you Beebs ♥️

[@BeebsKelley]

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[@Tlyna1952]

Thank you Beebs, even an old bat like me can learn new things here. My grandmother taught me a lot about posture and what colors and clothes would look best on my body type and I took her instructions to heart as they worked well for me. I hear a lot of younger women whining about wearing slips but I never wear a dress or skirt without one as they give a smoother line and also prevent panty lines showing. I do have to admit that at home I tend to sit in manners that I never would in public.

[@mbod2gigi]

I am sure you are not an old bat.

[@Tlyna1952]

@@mbod2gigi LOL, I'm 71 in a couple of weeks and have had that thrown at me by some young guy in a store. I simply laughed at him..

[@charlesmkline2]

Good Evening, Beebs! I love your series. Thank you so kindly for sharing about the importance of these things that you covered today. YOU are the FIRST person that has mentioned the “Duchess Slant” in years. I found out about this as a little girl sixty years ago and simply thought young people paid no attention to it in this day. I thought perhaps you were a designer, or perhaps had experience in pageants but you unlocked the mystery for me today…you went to Etiquette School as we did. Thanks for the lovely content!

[@bessfogg5036]

Russ childers our

[@tonyascancook]

I can't believe how much my eyes are opened after watching one of your videos 😄 *crosses ankles

[@BeebsKelley]

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[@kathleenmckeithen118]

MeGain is just plain clunky.

[@MK-cc5ve]

This was fascinating. I never noticed the Markel chicken-dance arms. I think I was overwhelmed and possibly cross eyed trying to make sense of the other appendages.

[@RecordingsofaReader]

This was a really interesting video. I never thought about the differences that you talk about here and how one comes off more professional than the other. I had noticed the clothing but not the arms and everything else. I enjoy body language stuff too. I frequently watch The Behavior Panel and The Behavioral Arts. There's also a guy that does linguistics videos, Martin DeCoder, that compared the engagement videos of William and Catherine to Harry and Meghan, and the differences were very interesting.

[@ileana8360]

The first person teaching me how to behave as a young woman with regard to clothing wasnt indeed my mother, but my father. Here are some of his lessons when i was a teemage girl: - make small steps and force the guy to shorten his insteed thus teaching him to be a gentleman - it is not the length of a skirt which makes you look cheap or like a slut, but the way you behave whilst wearing it: how you walk, sit etc. - he baught me my first pumps (8cm) when I was 14years old and I had to walk up and down in the house until he was satisfied with my posture and walk Still to this day it hurts me physically when I see young women in high heels walking like a tramp.

[@julia.95]

what a wholesome comment, thanks for sharing!

[@OakwiseBecoming]

But weird about the walking thing, though. But at least he stepped in where the mother was failing.

[@ileana8360]

@@julia.95 Thanks. I´ve just realised the vast number of typing errors I made 😉

[@ileana8360]

@@OakwiseBecoming why is the walking thing weird?

[@liliana8977]

I genuinely believe Meghan takes such long steps in order to not let Harry walk in front of her. I've seen multiple photos where she looks like she's rushing to some finish line, to get her foot past him. She knew the rule of the royal walking in front, the way Prince Philip walked behind the Queen was famous worldwide

[@barnesCh430]

Shout out to the late queen's milliners who perfectly matched her hats to her outfits!

[@patirvin-bz9pg]

More like this, please. Very interesting and helpful. Thank you, Beebs

[@quietgirl2185]

I love your channel. You've really helped me make better choices when I sew. Style and poor fabric choices are the biggest mistakes I see most of us making... besides poor tailoring.

[@criticalmass5402]

It's interesting to note that so many of us would look at Meghan's outfits & think 'good grief no' but not necessarily always analyse it. So it's great to hear your in depth reviews that explain what it was we really saw. thanks!

[@chrisf1202]

Lots of people have bad postures. From looking at our phones. I need to work on mine it gets worse with age.

[@JerseyGirl50]

I as surprised to see the wrinkling on Catherine’s dress at Wimbledon this year. I love the green dress, the color and the style, but it did wrinkle. A rare issue for Catherine.

[@despicabledavidshort3806]

Ik, I was wondering what Beebs was thinking about it 😂

[@cathyblackhall5237]

I think linen is wrinkly no matter what you do so I’m surprised she wore it,the colour and style were good though.

[@emerybayblues]

Linen wrinkles just by looking at it 😎.

[@nearby4539]

She did hv about 5 hours seating watching the game.

[@annewalden3795]

You are right the dress was slightly wrinkled and perhaps that was attributable to the cloth it was made from.

[@Ferdinand314]

Please more like this, Beebs! So many ladies will enjoy benefitting, as I do, from your knowledge and training. You present info really well, you're engaging and interesting, and your focus on the royal family adds a different dimension for women (like me) from countries that don't have one.

[@colajax]

Be grateful, Beebs, Me -gain's mishaps give you material for your Y-T's. LOL

[@mandylall8649]

Thank you so much for this series and service, which is aptly warranted in today’s society! On can never stop learning! Much appreciated, from a most grateful Grandmama from Québec, 🇨🇦 💕🌺

[@BeebsKelley]

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[@virginialangford6257]

Thank you for mentioning slips…I have tailored for men and women for 50 years…when women gave up slips…well so many bad things began to happen…rump sprung clothing (is hard to rework), lumps and bumps, nipple show, undergarment construction began to appear. Stockings and panty hose helped to provide “glide” to skirts and pants…also to mute undergarment color and line show through. The hang of an unlined garment is greatly improved with a slip and wrinkling is greatly reduced. Also slips are an all girl thing…sort of sexy. Back to stockings: they shade the legs…make ankles look slimmer, hide irregular leg color and look finished. Oh, also a slip makes certain “ wardrobe malfunctions way less embarrassing. Now…weighted hemlines…a nickel in a little silk “bag” with a spot of Velcro can go from garment to garment ( just have the corresponding piece of Velcro added in the proper area to each piece that needs weight. I have known seamstresses and tailors to use fishing weights and even lengths of braided wire to hems. Double sided clothing tape can keep an arm hole from gapping…( tip for short woman and/ or large busted women…use this tape on front fastening blouses and dresses to prevent “gaposous” especially when sitting…you know the area between buttons opening).Along necklines it can be used to keep a deeper cut necklines from becoming an embarrassment when you lean forward or bend down. I could go on and on…this is why well dressed women have dressmakers or tailors.

[@debrastewart-leigh8845]

Thank you for sharing these tips. You are absolutely right about the things that made one look sloppy, ehile others look dignified.

[@kathym.7088]

These are wonderful tips that anyone can use. It's amazing how much your posture and mannerisms affect how you are perceived and also impacts beauty and attractiveness. I'd love to hear more about the etiquette class...

[@cherylcain1924]

thanks for the etiquette lesson!

[@DutchJoan]

Etiquette has always interested me. It's lovely hearing you talk about it.

[@katherinebaer6798]

Very interesting and enlightening video, Beens! Elbows in from now on. Never really noticed how weird it looks to have them out and hands hanging down like MM.

[@michanone]

Taking smaller steps. 🙈 Now, no need to call me out! Yes, I tend to do large steps. Maybe because I walk a lot and I like reaching my destination fast. I try to remind myself when I'm wearing skirts or dresses, though. Thanks for this.

[@dianemartinez8126]

Crossing legs is against protocol but the rebel without a cause, is always biting her nose in spite of her face.

[@Spiritmourn]

Ohhh the mess that was that dress at the recent polo! Hells bells.... would love to hear your comments on that. I love your videos. I've learnt a lot ❤

[@kbparlin2736]

I would love more etiquette vids! Not just of Megs, but that of Royal etiquette❣️

[@BeebsKelley]

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[@Shoshana-xh6hc]

Excellent video 😊🎉 why does mm always carry bags/ purses the size of briefcases? 🧳

[@vickinoeske1154]

This was very valuable. We don't always know what our bodies are doing. Becoming more cognizant of arm placement, seating posture, etc. Is important.

[@voices_vary]

Wow, there was a bit of a Basic Instinct-Sharon Stone moment when Markle crossed her legs at the Queen's Commonwealth Trust stage! How crass. Yikes.

[@coolcath]

I am sure MM had advisors . Too bad she didn't listen to them

[@charlottepembroke5446]

Even though Harry is a complete idiot - it is such a shame he married her when he could have had his pick of beautiful, elegant girls

[@jmoore1939]

ive learned so much from your videos about fashion do's and dont's