7 Things Women Must Know | Kingsley Okonkwo & Stephan Speaks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It was a pleasure doing this video with you 🙏

[@KingsleyOkonkwo]

yes it was a pleasure too, we love you

[@mwilaluchembe7070]

I love your collaboration, it was powerful.... I follow both of u .. #Pastor and #Stephan ..power!!...

[@marynone8681]

Stephan is so REAL! U know exactly what men n women r doing.

[@EmeraldLuvsYouALL]

What an insightful great conversation! Amazing luv it simply Amazing 🙏

[@momentswithbeth]

@@KingsleyOkonkwo Talking about standards @kingsley okonkwo What of christian guys that holds their standard of wait till marriage How will you know who is toying with you or want to commit to you

[@missrd395]

Two legends togheter!! Look at God 🙏✨✨

[@kele6wele]

Wow that’s such good step at such a young age.

[@Cynthiasobservations]

Look at God. No be small

[@chigozirimbata6167]

As in ehn🔥🔥

[@nnekaude9336]

I said the same thing! I clicked so fast when I saw these two together in a video!

[@Akuao_]

Exactly what I said too

[@christanishimwe1469]

1. Men do want relationships&marriage 2. around minute 4 Standards do matter 3. 7:30 Men aren’t tricking you, you’re tricking yourself 4. Minute 11 You are more than beautiful! Facts😉 5. Around minute 15: stop worrying about what we tell men. Worry about developing yourself. 6. Around minute 20, Be out there and available 7.around minute 24. Stop letting friends and family scare you.

[@Aliciahj_]

Thank you❤

[@mulberrystudio22]

Thanks for the recap.

[@tetelo_sebothoma]

😊

[@lifegemsanimation9518]

Thanks for this highlight. It's really helpful

[@kashopatishikongo3110]

Always appreciate the person that summarizes the talks for us. 🤗🤗

[@Forzykay]

What Stephen said about divorce in the last point is literally very relatable. I was always wondering how a man and a woman can love each other and don't love each other again when there are issues. This made me start attending marriage seminars and single programs at 13.

[@kele6wele]

Wow that’s such a good step at such a young age 👏🏾

[@Lilas_lilas]

🎉! Can you please share what you have learnt about relationships from a these seminars? Do you have a channel?

[@christianasinger8719]

More to your ables you are indeed a blessing to this generation.

[@onome7074]

Absolutely 😊

[@delphinekerubo4976]

😂😂😂

[@Veekeetochi]

I'm so excited seeing my two favourite coaches together as a team. Wow

[@onome7074]

Awesome 😊

[@goddessdaphne3328]

This is so beautiful I have been following both of you and I love the fact that God is using both of you to develop minds positively.

[@byrnenoel6317]

1. Men Want Relationships 1:49 2.. Standards Still Matter 4:02 3. Men Aren't Tricking You/ You're Tricking Yourself 7:45 4. You Are More Than Beautiful (Guys pick women based on how she makes him feel).10:55 5. Stop Worrying About What We (Relationship Counselors) Tell Men/ (Worry About Yourself) 15:08 6. Be Available 20:35 7. Stop Letting Family and Friends Scare You 24:33

[@teethart9865]

Thank u. 😂

[@sarahcypriano2063]

You're a good student, thank you.

[@mulberrystudio22]

Thank you.

[@aphavieadeline3945]

Point #3 was me a year ago.....the signs were very glaring that I should leave but I got myself thinking I should make it work, I should be a little patient I should keep on praying that he will change. Well news flash he didn't change infact he was proud about what he was doing (the wrong) and obviously blamed me for his actions. Well I was broken 💔 when everything ended but by the grace of God I was able to come out stronger and faster than I thought. I became better and was at peace with myself and God. He later came back begging but this girl is far gone.

[@ckks0nyoutube]

Wow, am surprised but NOT surprised! Pastor Kingsley, I hope your next stop is dear future wifey accompanied by the one and only Pastor M!

[@whit2daTruth]

I appreciate so many truths that you shared @StephanSpeaks! I am a licensed professional mental health counselor & my most recent specialty is Narcissistic Abuse. Got my specialty from life (with abuse/trauma), and healing from 2 domestic violence marriages too. So The only thing I want to add/point out is that even though you are right about how women need to listen to their intuition, you need to know that a lot of women have been so hurt, gaslighted, & generally *manipulated* so much that they do NOT know *HOW TO LISTEN* to their God-given, Holy Spirit (if they are a believer) Intuition ❣ So while you are right when you tell women to listen to their intuition, I highly recommend & encourage you to do a video that teaches women *HOW* to 🙂. I developed mine 1-thru God, love of His Word, growing in faith, etc but my intuition really took off through my journey *healing from Narcissistic Abuse*!! This took lots of mental health learning, training, reading, personal therapy (esp EMDR for trauma) which can be a long process. I am sure that there are many ways/layers to developing the skill of listening to one's intuition. God bless you b/c you are doing great work for His kingdom. And I would also like to tell you that only b/c of your videos/advice did I not run away from my soulmate when I met him! Thank you for helping me to recognize my fear due to intense, real intimacy & love with my intended that I would have possibly just acted on & run the other way rather than recognize in myself b/c you mentioned it!

[@secret2517]

STEPHAN SPEAKS IN THE BUILDING!!!!!!!!!!🙌🏽 I LOVE THIS COMBO!!! My favourite relationship coaches in one video!😍 Adding Tony Gaskins will make it even more phenomenal!

[@dillyselad1170]

And Bishop RC Blakes jr

[@agatham9004]

My 2 favourites are actually friends, and they did a video together!!!! YESSSSSSSSS PRAISE GOD!!!!

[@atutakasolutions]

Pastor K is full of surprises! See how he surprised us with this combo. I thank God for the day I landed on the channels of these two masculine intelligent speakers. You are a huge blessing to our generation. Pastor M I salute you for hearing God to get married to Pastor K. You are a diva💕

[@lolaokunlola]

This collaboration will go down in history as one of the best conversations ever!

[@itamaebanehitaomoye5415]

This is a wonderful message. Thank you for this. I think another thing women also need to do if they really want to embrace love is to be done being single. Some ladies crave to be in a relationship yet want to be alone at the same time. This is often as a result of fear of letting go to truly allow themselves to be loved. I think making oneself available and accessible is not only about coming out physically (online or offline), it's also about coming out psychologically (mentally and emotionally) as a whole being. It's okay to want love. It's okay to want marriage. It's important to be careful but understand that you can't be too careful least you step on yourself. Thanks once again for this awesome video.

[@kingdomtalk2526]

Pastor K on behalf of the men, you need to tell us 7 things we need to know too Sir.... Thank You Sir ❤❤😂

[@Aypantsula]

❤yes

[@mychikky1]

I was thinking out loud about it too

[@MissAlomo]

Maybe WIFEY, Mama Kingsley can do it!

[@kimrichardson4579]

I understand what you’re saying, that every relationship is not going to lead to marriage. More often than not a man knows he’s dating this woman without the intention of marriage possibly because the vibes are cool & there’s no conflict. Is she then just a filler until he finds the one he feels is worthy of that commitment? So what are his intentions for her & is he not just wasting her time? That can appear quite selfish.

[@dianearrington6666]

Okonkwo from Things Fall Apart-Achenua Achebe😮🙂.

[@graceacquah246]

God bless you both, I'm learning a lot

[@kathy-annyoung7965]

OMG is amazing seeing these to men who believe in positive relationships, especially with women. Thank you, guys..

[@adedoyinodedina1539]

Wow!. My two favorite people 🤩. I'm anticipating.

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

Thank you Stephan Speaks for honouring Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo's invitation. We really enjoyed your points. Though those of us that are regular on your channels have had these points regularly before and we would keep listening to it,till it sink well into our brains. More Wisdom Sir's.

[@digitalbimpetv]

Make your own money ✅

[@kashopatishikongo3110]

Love that men can come together for the good and betterment of women. God bless you both 🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@gabriellabanzimbo1041]

Can this hit more than a million views already? These two are amazing❤

[@tkan1909]

One of the prayers I pray is May husband see me and know me. May I see him and know him. I don’t want mine or his past experiences to cloud us from each. The Lord is setting our path.

[@ninawaryaro9415]

I honour Pastor Kinsely and the wife. Your a true Blessing to many of us. Good to see Stephan speaks

[@Aypantsula]

❤

[@confidenceblesson]

Just like PK for being real...he didn't try to fake his accent for once... thanks for the wisdom points😊

[@jessyjonas4988]

Are we listening to two married men who are believers in Jesus Christ Two married men who are walking in obedience to the Word of God

[@akorededanielthereadingspe3007]

I love how Stephan laughs

[@lucymuzungu7258]

Two beautiful strong masculine men that I admire and follow religiously. God bless your ministry. Your reward is in heaven ❤🎉😊

[@allthingshighlifeh7668]

I agree that it is good to have standard because normally like you Said, it will help you discern whether the person is ideal for you or not. I think both men and women should have this standard. Kingsley, I also like the point you made about how men also pick a woman because of how they feel, the charm! Like men , women stay with a guy because of how he makes them feel as whole.❤

[@britneyfonki]

Immediately I saw Stephan I quickly clicked!!! I love this guy, together with pastor is gonna be boom!!!🔥

[@SotonyeAfiesimama]

My two favourite relationship experts! Two very gifted men in the field. Definitely brings a smile to my face. Awesome advice. God bless you both for using your gifts to bless millions worldwide.

[@hessyayo2125]

I didn't know this Stephan guy was this wise, I always judged him because of his looks lol. I repent!

[@thatokholoane1655]

I am learning to be available. I struggle with Social Media a lot.

[@gracefullyauthored]

The last point on finances and career was mind blowing!!!! I had never considered that view point

[@Essamtiya]

-Men want a relationship too -have standards -Listen to ur intuition(ur spirit) -I am more than beautiful -have a powerful,sexy aura -Stop letting friends and family scare u, or dictate for u.

[@eugenialartey4663]

Wow! these two wonderful souls together? These two are more than Legends ❤

[@ireenbwalya1923]

I am among the women who feel men don't take time to learn about marriage and don't do their part in relationships. I am grateful that you are addressing this concern, and giving balanced teachings. May God bless you both and grant you more wisdom as you continue ministering 🙏

[@fueldz]

About privacy... Whose shaking the table 🙈, thank you so much Pastor. Being public has always made me feel scared, and I do not know why but I'm gonna change.

[@dainiebunoluwa135]

I am guilty of not listening to my intuitions

[@ugochiee]

Wowwwwww I cannot believe this combo actually happened…I imagined it happening and here it is Hurrayyyyy

[@nokuthulatsanga2163]

What a great blessing. My favourite coaches together. Thank you for this great enlightenment!!!

[@fragrancedeparadiso443]

Bring Stephan back by popular demand.. Was excited to see both of you!

[@oyomar66]

A collab of my favessss. I truly never saw this coming 🙌🏼🙌🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@remithefirst]

Pastor Kingsley likes completing people's statements. He does it apparently unknowingly cos he pays so much attention when listening to people 😂 it's a bit funny 😂

[@laaswithpaechpee1781]

Whosh!!! I just want to hug God for His blessings to the world that takes the form of men! (His sons) 😩❤️

[@Molarawil]

I love the part where it was stated that women should make their own money but why do some men or some society see such women as proud especially if they are still single?

[@nkechivivian425]

I am blessed by this ,this is actually timely. The part where staphan said ask God for wisdom to work on the relationship he has given you did struck me very much

[@speciozakabukire131]

My standards are my protection and my identity

[@valerien673]

I screamed when I saw this powerful combination🙌🙌

[@innerpeaceandselflove]

😂

[@MsShako1]

😊😊😊😊😊 me too. Quietly lol

[@rebeccal.nyange219]

the two relationship experts I listen to every week, Im always learning a lot from you. May God continue to bless you1

[@susan8576]

I,m not doing a disservice to myself by not paying attention to these great men. they have blessed my relationships in different ways.

[@michaelmedubi8273]

Stephan and the word "Ree-ality" 😂😂 love it. Great talk 👏👏👏

[@aloebeautiesinternational]

Why do marriages fail /break up? Should Marriage be Endured or Enjoyed ?Why is Money and Sex Important in Marriage

[@oyekunleoyeyinka7470]

Wonderful Collaboration. My top best relationship mentors. More wisdom to Pastor Kingsley and Stephen. I love the point Pastor Kingsley made after explaining setting standards (you can't talk rudely to some women twice) that's me.

[@gracevictorarchibong2696]

This duo combination is the real deal, I have learned so much from you 2, and I love the part where you talked about standards and also being accessible.

[@AuxarionClare]

This collaboration is gold 😊 🌟🙌🌟

[@Terispoken2uwisdom-tt6wc-e8d]

Coming from a married man is experience knowing, when a man chooses to have a relationship and marry a woman, falling in love is not complicated, it's emotions passion, feelings, desire to have someone else to share love, the best time to fall in love and marry is when you've been there, done that and don't desire to play the game anymore, when that desire is over being in love with someone last a lifetime.

[@anndiestephen7671]

Two wise men. We are listening. Thank you ❤

[@kemilolafadeyi5483]

This is amazing . Two legends together . Much needed at this time .

[@oladunsiajala7144]

Jesus, my two favorite persons in the same building 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

My two people who speak without sugar coating..

[@smartpageprints8617]

I clicked the video at the first sight of them both. Two wise men on one platform. Let me take a listen.

[@lovesharose2960]

I have the biggest crush on Stephan and he has no idea at all! I absolutely adore him! And I truly believe me and him would be a great fit for most certain. My KZbin name "Lovesha Rose" is not my real name, I only use it for KZbin. I just wanted to express how I felt whether I ever meet him in real life or not, I just had to say this which I have been thinking for so long lol, his smile, his sense of humor, his laughter, his wisdom, his understanding of me as a woman and always so spot on is just a few reasons but I pray for a man like him someday because he gets it and I learn so much from him. It doesn't hurt that he is attractive also. God bless you Stephan! ✨

[@saraya-D]

Me when I saw the video thumbnail: *Hmm! It's about to go down!!!*

[@priscillag5734]

My 2 most favorite dating relationship coaches in 1 video?💯 💙

[@rasheedkamalideen-ku4fp]

Stephan's last comment is very mind-blowing. This dude is so intelligent. Thank you.

[@aprekumainiangaemi4301]

Wow pastor K and your special guest this brings home my personal experience. Thanks love you for this. Is a hit for me

[@mirabelche8739]

Intuition is what I pray everyone listen to always please we keep hearing this and ignoring it I intentionally ignored mine and later got what I was ignoring the hard way which was bad😢😢.

[@nnennaokorafor9569]

Discernment is the word.

[@treasuredanielz]

What a collaboration... Hi Stephan now your Nigeria audience will amplify... thanks Pastor k

[@RobBKowalski]

What's up fellas!

[@Aypantsula]

❤❤❤MY TWO ROLE MODELS 😁🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼Wow. GOD BLESS YOU BOTH.

[@leyancuisine6426]

My favourite couches in one video.May God bless you couches.

[@forevercoldasfire]

The Rise of Simp podcasts! There you have it!

[@chizzy4109]

True talk 100%, I'm going to put everything that I have into actions

[@julietonuoha5931]

Wow, this is a great collab. Two great relationship and counseling Experts. Mhen this video is gold. Thanks Pastor K and Stephen 🤗🤗

[@MarachiO]

Honestly this is it, especially the trauma part

[@annmuazu]

The way I jump in here.

[@magdalenemarfo9102]

Wow! How can a small space like this contain such Wisdom and Word! With these two, prayer and God’s Word we really have NO excuse Single OR Married why our relationships should not work ! Thank you Sirs for availing yourselves to be used by God 🙏🙏

[@jenniferekwuru9048]

This show has uplifted my spirit and changed my perspective about men/marriage. Thanks

[@omololaakintola96]

No one is talking about their resemblance! Enjoyed the message regardless

[@okechukwuchika2293]

Omoh,As I Saw This I Clicked To Watch Immediately

[@marypeaceofficial]

You two,[Pr. Kingsley O. and Stephan L.] in one Video got me going WOW!!! ALL THE WAY. WELL DONE.👏

[@preciousglory6735]

Two knowledgeable legends ❤

[@ikeijeoma3500]

I meet my husband online, he sent me friend request on FB, we got connected boom, 2weeks after he introduced me to his mom as his wife, it works people.

[@estherbabatunde9955]

Awwww Pastor Kingsley and Stephan 🤎☺️

[@andreatorluemke4982]

I’ve done my work Stephan. I’ve always done it. Always will do❤

[@sarahroberts6413]

yes, but when we are young, we do not know this. We think everyone is good like us

[@dor-osherdor-osher1154]

Oh wow my two favorites in da house maaaaaan!!!!incredible

[@healthforall8127]

My two favorite fathers. I'm glad I saw this video. 😍😊

[@ruthngube3515]

Yaay!! Pastor K and Stephan. I love these two. Great message! Please do more videos together 😊

[@t.g.4311]

You have to teach people how to treat you....Joel Osteen said it best in his sermon....great video guys!

[@dachshundtimmy]

The most unexpected collaboration ever 🙆🏾‍♂️🙆🏾‍♂️. I didn't see this one coming 😅😅 but I'm glad it happened.

[@Elizabeth-cq3iu]

Stephen has trained me immensely through his videos am grateful.....

[@carolinenakiwala9813]

Oooh my two best relationship councillors

[@21urbana]

Stephan is the Goat💗🙏🏽

[@onyinyesspace9085]

Oh my my! Stephan and Pastor K? Wow!

[@ladyboss2944]

We need an interview with Tony Gaskins

[@Snqobss547]

My 2 favorite relationship coach what a blessing glory to Jesus

[@estherkimani5418]

Txs ..some things I din t know I thing meant for me...That men r attracted to how u make them feel...wow alot of us women need to know