Collars and other symbols of ownership and submission in a BDSM relationship

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Kinky Sam Jones (Kinky Sam)

Kinky Sam Jones (Kinky Sam)

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@LilThreat88
@LilThreat88 3 жыл бұрын
Your personalized day collar is so beautiful for you two!! Love the joy that radiates when you speak about it ☺️
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@miafalon6539
@miafalon6539 Жыл бұрын
You radiate happiness and love when you talk about your relationship 😍😍
@_NoraCatFGC_
@_NoraCatFGC_ 4 жыл бұрын
I can relate to the Collar thing alot. My master picked my collar too. And it made me so happy. I'm glad i found this channel, your videos are amazing. I have suscribed too. Thank you for everything you do ❤
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
you are welcome @destinyCatFGC!
@j.s.connolly8579
@j.s.connolly8579 4 жыл бұрын
As I have been in this LifeStyle for over 36 yrs. I can almost ALWAYS tell Someone who is "Collared" even it it is a "Day" Collar. I can ALWAYS tell! I just can SEE it and Sense it in someone female OR male!
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
Cool. You have a sub radar!
@lindahughes696
@lindahughes696 2 жыл бұрын
Hi am mistress Linda would you like to have the kinky lifestyle with the mistress
@chrispinner6123
@chrispinner6123 Жыл бұрын
I wish I could be a sub for a woman. Anyone want to own me ?
@carlmiller8138
@carlmiller8138 2 жыл бұрын
I took my property to a jeweler and designed a custom collar that represents us. And we had a ceremony collar joining/Wedding. Where she announced her undying love, loyalty and servitude. Collared by her two sub female sub friends then attached the leash and she presented the leash to me. We showed our love them on our time together for 4 days in Portugal. /
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 5 ай бұрын
sounds so wonderful... congratulations!
@byttercandy
@byttercandy 2 жыл бұрын
I love the way your face lights up when you talk about your relationship 💕
@darynadixon8759
@darynadixon8759 2 жыл бұрын
I have never been in a relationship like this at least I hope I haven't without realizing it. But I am learning what it is. No judgement. Thank you for this lesson. I had no idea how collars, necklaces, bracelets and ankle bracelets are used to represent slavery. I have always been curious about BDSM relationships and I thought it was just kinky toys to spice up relationships. But now I understand the dynamic of what a BDSM. It's still considered loving but its still compared to a Master and slave were one person is dominant and the other is submissive. I love to learn.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
oh.. there is so much more to explore! This is typically for the D/s part in bDSm. Happy to guide you here:)
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
I would not at all connect this to traditional slavery of colored people.
@kozy15x
@kozy15x Жыл бұрын
I personally don't see it as a symbol of slavery, for me it's more a symbol of trust and a reminder that my sub is taken care of.
@michaelrichardson8078
@michaelrichardson8078 3 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your video. Your voice is very soothing and your eyes are very honest and expressive. Thank you :-)
@MissErika1979
@MissErika1979 2 жыл бұрын
I love how happy your eyes are! You can see your true happiness! That is beautiful!!
@CrazyBolas
@CrazyBolas Жыл бұрын
You look so happy, Sam!
@brianamplified3253
@brianamplified3253 Жыл бұрын
you are a blessed woman . You do your master proud .
@morsmordre4105
@morsmordre4105 2 жыл бұрын
Your collar is beautiful!! Very elegant and lovely unique design! 😃
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@jerrybailey5797
@jerrybailey5797 3 жыл бұрын
You are the most fascinating submissive lve listened to , yiu can hear tge pride in in yiur voice when you talk about Being owned as a collared slave , a truely natural beautiful submissive
@khadijagwen
@khadijagwen Жыл бұрын
At 76 and abandoned, I chose my own Collar. I am my own and safe.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
fantastic. Never too old... thank you for your inspiring story!
@DNSC456
@DNSC456 3 жыл бұрын
I'm always made to wear a choker or an elastic band around my ankle or wrist specially when we go to the club or any party with other males involved, I also usually wear my pants the wrong way around as a sign of humiliation I love wearing his perfume and having his name written with marker pen under my top x
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
love those ideas... thank you so much for adding them!
@scbane
@scbane 4 жыл бұрын
I tend to give my subs subtle jewelry which indicates collared, because I tend to choose professional career women, who cannot wear traditional collars at work.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
Wonderful, that you also take into account what they would find comfortable to wear. I have a friend though who is a university professor and she wears a leather collar with a ring almost as big as my HAND...:) she likes to shock her students with it from time to time... its an interesting discussion:)
@Robert-v9q5p
@Robert-v9q5p 4 ай бұрын
Sttay at home wifebis better
@missyrinaroseBet
@missyrinaroseBet 4 жыл бұрын
Me my daddy are picking mines out this week cant wait
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
ohhhh I can imagine... and also the fun before is wonderful! We have in Dutch a word for it, I really can't understand why the English don't:) we call it "voorpret"- the fun you have before the actual happening.. wishing you a wonderful collar that means the world to you!
@Michael-hw5wk
@Michael-hw5wk Ай бұрын
The biggest symbol of ownership are the types of women who change their last names for their "owners" when they get married.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Ай бұрын
oh! I never thought about it that way! I can imagina that is definitely some sort of "ownership". Although it is always worth it to check why they do it because they might not see it that way themselves. I for sure know many women who changed their names and are very much not submissive, I also know women who are very submissive but don't want to change their last name. So... I totally get it, and it might be a powerful symbol, but check if it's true for them too.
@ElsaGreen
@ElsaGreen 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for another brilliant video. I love your work! My main collar that I have to wear whenever I'm out is thick leather. Its worn quite tight so I always feel it and padlocked at the back. It has a name disc at the front with "Slave" in big letters on one side and "Property of Mistress [my Mistress's first name] on the back. I also have a metal choker chain collar, but thats usually only used when I'm being trained on a leash.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I am planning to start making videos again- had trouble with my laptop (the editing software suddenly didn't work anymore on my new laptop! And then some planning issues. But now back on track- having the time again so stay tuned...
@ElsaGreen
@ElsaGreen 2 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments More! Yay! Love your work so much (and you are gorgeous by the way)
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
@@ElsaGreen haha. Thanks!
@j.s.connolly8579
@j.s.connolly8579 4 жыл бұрын
The Last "Custom Day Collar" I had made was from HIGH Stainless Steel Chain with a VERY Stylized "Celtic Tri-Skell" for the Pendent but it is ALSO a "Leash Attachment"!
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
Sounds wonderful... to me it’s not even so much about what it looks like but also all the symbolism in it... 🤗
@tflynn2232
@tflynn2232 2 жыл бұрын
Love your heavy black training collar 💙
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Got an even better one. But don’t find the time and space yet to record new videos… will be in the new year hopefully.
@jbarrera6024
@jbarrera6024 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a male Dom since I was born! For me it's not a game of simple play, being a dom is who I'm, my need as dom is pleasuring my Sub. I always put her need before mine. And it pleases me immensely. However since 2015 my last sub for almost a decade relocate out of country because of family reasons. I find it extremely difficult to find true sub. I don't want anyone who's just curious about the life style. I want someone is a true sub and want to belong to a caring dom.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing J Barrera. 🤗
@jakejones2482
@jakejones2482 2 жыл бұрын
Dude same, try a Puerto Rican girl, hell I married mine. (We live openly full time) .they seem to be the most potent of subs, yep same same if I'm not in the gym I'm doing security work or martial arts, not a life style. it is my life
@jbarrera6024
@jbarrera6024 2 жыл бұрын
@@jakejones2482 Thanks! I'll look into it for sure.
@marvelousmitch972
@marvelousmitch972 Жыл бұрын
Pray and ask god he will send you your hearts desire
@vijendrapanwar5067
@vijendrapanwar5067 5 ай бұрын
Thank you MISTRESSMICHE for introducing me to this lifestyle, it means the world to me
@davidhunter1538
@davidhunter1538 Жыл бұрын
I like you. You're very honest. It's nice.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
well thank you! :)
@Sky-Child
@Sky-Child 3 жыл бұрын
Lovely! I would love a permanently locking day collar but I do sports which mena I can't do this. My Daddy has gotten me a locking one that only he may take off for me though, so it is the next best thing. It is very subtle for work as well. I do want his signature tattooed on me, but he does not want me to have ink. Maybe one day. Nice video :)
@dominus1204
@dominus1204 Жыл бұрын
The joy radiates from you
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
still does, after 6 years... 😍
@dominus1204
@dominus1204 Жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments yes indeed ... you're a joy to observe. My compliments to your Master
@dkt7922
@dkt7922 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been into bdsm scene since I turned 18, so about two and a half years now, personally if I ever get collared I’d prefer a usual collar for munches and dungeon but ankle bracelet or like a small neck chain though that’s me at the end of the day I would be grateful for any type of collar that shows ownership from a domme
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
There are many subs who choose that- to not have something very visible in their daily life. Remember the purpose- as long as it fulfills that, it doesn’t matter where or what it is.
@FelixstoweFoamForge
@FelixstoweFoamForge Жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Nothing else can come close.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
THank you Felix!
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142 9 ай бұрын
💓Wow! Oh my Queen 😍, it's really cool! 👍👍🌹🍓You the best of the best 💞!
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
Hello
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142 8 ай бұрын
@@Mistress_Tracy Hi
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
@@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142 how are you doing?
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142
@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142 8 ай бұрын
@@Mistress_Tracy I'm fine. And how are you 🌹🍓🥂?
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
@@survivalinthezombieapocaly2142 I’m good. Where are you from?
@brittabrams6486
@brittabrams6486 Жыл бұрын
I had a favorite color it was a velvet one from Spencer's my first one I've gotten others but this one has always been my favorite my DOM Mr. Sigma loves it as well I accidentally left it behind when we moved I thought it was in my bag like you I felt naked and it broke me we just got the money to get but it again the other day he keeps saying how this one makes him feel more connected in that aspect and it looks beautiful on me.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
ahh thank you so much for sharing this! Would you ever wear another one?
@jakejones2482
@jakejones2482 2 жыл бұрын
Im actually looking at getting my wife-slave her first custom collar from black hills gold jewelry at the black hills main location so it's sort of a rose gold and the emerald from Colorado means a lot to us. One thing we really enjoy I bounce at a bar and bring her in collared and dressed up I have a nice chain I can attach and leave her attached to me at the door. We enjoy broadcasting my ownership to others part of our journey is letting are freak flag fly
@davidhunternyc1
@davidhunternyc1 2 жыл бұрын
Wow! She is one lucky girl !!! I’m jealous.
@5050TM
@5050TM 2 жыл бұрын
That's like the number one thing people in this lifestyle preach against. You don't expose your kink to people in public that are not consenting. It's a bar so it's an adult environment but still not recommended whatsoever.
@kbanghart
@kbanghart Жыл бұрын
​@@5050TMadults can do in public what adults want to do, as long as it's not against the law. In a bar, there shouldn't be any children. If someone is offended, they can just look away.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
I disagree with that one, on a certain way. it's simply just taking into account the feelings of other people. I made a video about kink in public where I talk about the fine line.
@jakejones2482
@jakejones2482 5 ай бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments its a freaky kinda bar, but i see what your saying, wouldn't do that at a McDonald's
@HamadQ8
@HamadQ8 2 жыл бұрын
You are a beautiful human being 💙 and I love your content so much 💙
@guntherpetutschnig2705
@guntherpetutschnig2705 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for loading up this video
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
Hello
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
You're welcome. Happy you liked it.
@guntherpetutschnig2705
@guntherpetutschnig2705 6 ай бұрын
Hello mistress tracy how are you?
@JohnBock-nq9lr
@JohnBock-nq9lr 2 ай бұрын
Heh , heh. ....you said 'load" ...heh....
@brandimiller1804
@brandimiller1804 2 жыл бұрын
The main part of your collar is called the helm weave. It's a chainmaille collar and its very beautiful ❤️. I do a little bit of chainmaille myself and I may need to experiment with this 😍.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Oh thank you wonderful! 😍
@charlesayers3188
@charlesayers3188 3 жыл бұрын
I love my collar❤️❤️❤️I feel owned
@nikkidragoon
@nikkidragoon 3 жыл бұрын
I love my collar it's my biggest safety blanket! and i also feel naked and a bit off if i have to even talk it off for medical reasons lol, me and my Sir choose a 24/7 wear locking collar and only he has the alan key to unlock it!
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
wonderful.... thank you for sharing!
@lessons4civil
@lessons4civil 4 жыл бұрын
thanks for this video. if you can, please publish a video how to find the proper partner bcause many kinksters have difficulties in this topic
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
will do that! Thank you. Although I do not have experience in finding kinksters myself, I think I can give you some valuable tips. In the meantime- check my video about FetLife, it might give you some ideas...
@lessons4civil
@lessons4civil 4 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments how about yourself? May I ask are you single, or in a relationship at the moment? How you ever felt lonely because of your kink desire?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
@@lessons4civil I am in a D/s relationship for almost 3 years now. I never felt lonely because of my kink, but I do remember feeling lonely. How is feeling lonely different for you because of having a kink?
@lessons4civil
@lessons4civil 4 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments because it makes it hard to find a soul mate. Where I live bdsm is not publically accepted so finding a kinky woman is very difficult. To be honest if you wouldnt be in a relationship I would propose you
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
@@lessons4civil please.. you dont know me AT ALL. the whole point, I think, to find a life partner, is not about kink. It's about trust, honesty, intimacy. Only if that is there, you can build a D/s dynamic. D/s is way too precious and powerful to throw it on just a random stranger. It's like going to a pub and ask a woman you find interesting to make babies, just because she is a woman! I did create a video on how to find a partner, but I didn't post it yet since I wanted to do some research on dating apps. So far- not a lot of luck, btw.
@RajkumarKashyap-8446
@RajkumarKashyap-8446 5 ай бұрын
I've learned so much after I came in contact with you MISTRESSMICHE and I'm glad I did
@richardbooth4573
@richardbooth4573 Ай бұрын
What of a golden one that locks in place ? still with rings . one in front and one in back . love the silver bell. although i reserve those for nipple rings . ❤❤❤
@mkivpanzer
@mkivpanzer Жыл бұрын
I’m a male sub, Just confessed to my wife this submissive secret, she said she would try to meet this desire / need.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
wow. that is so wonderful to hear! Would love to hear your experiences so far....
@veronicam4482
@veronicam4482 3 жыл бұрын
I have a very serious question and no one to help me. I have someone who I consider my Dom. We haven't fully talked about it yet but I call him Sir and he is the only person I feel comfortable Subbing under. I want him to collar me but I know that isn't an option right now. Can I collar myself until he is ready?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
The only person who can answer this question, is YOU. And, perhaps, your Dom. Think carefully about why you want to collar yourself, and what it means to you, and to both of you. I had a tattoo placed when we were seeing each other not for a long time. He wasn't willing to commit to something so.. permanent at that time, but I wanted it as a symbol for what our relationship already had given me. This was about me... and he consented to it that I would do it, but under the clear mention that this was my decision, and not his. I know more people who are self collared, even without a Dom- to them, it's a symbol. Sometimes it stands for their freedom, sometimes it stands for their identity, and sometimes it simply makes them feel good. All reasons are right. You owe nobody else an explanation but yourself. But if you and your Dom are talking, I would suggest you talk with him. Make sure it's not a signal towards him that you want him to hurry "or I'll do it myself"... but find why you want it, and what it means to you. you can definitely collar yourself as a commitment sign to him- because this has nothing to do with him, but with you. Hope this helps!
@veronicam4482
@veronicam4482 3 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments thank you so much. It actually helps a lot. He is going through a lot and is concerned about attachment again and I would just like him to see that even if he is never going to be ready that no matter what I'm still here for him. Our situation is just so weird and complicated and I'm 33 and completely new to ALL THIS and it's VERY hard to find someone I can talk to and ask questions because I live in a small town in Alabama. So thank you for your help 🙂🙂🙏
@veronicam4482
@veronicam4482 3 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments 😭😭😭 I spoke too soon and now I'm heartbroken the guy has feelings for someone else 😭😭
@adeum9i
@adeum9i 3 жыл бұрын
@@veronicam4482 I'm sorry that happened to you! It sucks when you put your time and energy into someone and don't get that in return.
@LilThreat88
@LilThreat88 3 жыл бұрын
@@veronicam4482 I just ran into your comment and that's so heartbreaking. I'm sorry and I hope you find someone that suits you
@adeum9i
@adeum9i 3 жыл бұрын
Sam, do you have a video on attire for Doms I can't seem to find any. Thank you
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
No, I don't, and what a fantastic topic to make a video about! Thank you! Will take it and will make one soon!
@adeum9i
@adeum9i 3 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments Thank you so much. I see a lot of talk about subs but not Doms. Thank you
@loki6253
@loki6253 3 жыл бұрын
@@adeum9i Exactly I find the same thing
@ArwenUndomiel406
@ArwenUndomiel406 3 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments please do I'm curious
@j.a4982
@j.a4982 2 жыл бұрын
Am I to old for bdsm always wanted to try this 🤔 but I feel a bit to old 60 years young
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
You're never too old for anything. Why would you be too old? I heard from a woman whose husband died after a 60 year marriage that she confessed she loved to be spanked. She was 80+. Nobody can tell you that you're too old...
@Lilcharlie78
@Lilcharlie78 11 күн бұрын
You are never to old. ❤️ Its for every one from 18 years and up. ❤️
@TatianaBigl-cj1zg
@TatianaBigl-cj1zg 10 ай бұрын
I made my gfs collar! I call her my honey bee and it has a bee on it. I made it bright red against her very pale skin so it’s extremely noticeable!
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 10 ай бұрын
oh wow that sounds so beautiful... wish I could see it...
@TatianaBigl-cj1zg
@TatianaBigl-cj1zg 10 ай бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments yah I am her Queen so I just couldn’t help but mark my territory.
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
Hello
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 8 ай бұрын
@@Mistress_Tracy hello!
@Mistress_Tracy
@Mistress_Tracy 8 ай бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments how are you doing?
@Tamer-pz4ud
@Tamer-pz4ud 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your openness, honesty, and vulnerability. Is there a way I could send you messages outside of KZbin to ask about the lifestyle? Thanks
@janemartha4038
@janemartha4038 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Are you ready to and bound under the fetish lifestyle
@johnnypocknee2842
@johnnypocknee2842 3 жыл бұрын
Hello there Sam a most interesting vidio ..i myself know about the lifestyle though never Dominated anyone But you are happy with your life ..have a good weekend
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 3 жыл бұрын
wonderful Johnny, thank you for sharing!
@johnnypocknee2842
@johnnypocknee2842 3 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments you are most welcome you have a lovely colkar and a wonderful out look
@torstenpersson2058
@torstenpersson2058 3 жыл бұрын
You are lovely!
@dravenamor6052
@dravenamor6052 2 жыл бұрын
I wish they made more male slave collars that are not just black leather. I found a few metallic ones but they are not as elaborate as those for females.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Great question! I don’t see why the metallic ones like the one I’m wearing can’t be for a male sub. But I understand that there is a lot less choice. I don’t have a favorite that I can send you to for metallic ones, sorry.
@piperrenewisemen5701
@piperrenewisemen5701 2 жыл бұрын
what is the difference between being collard and owned?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic question! Being owned requires another person- someone who owns you. It does not mean, however, that you then are also collared. Being collared is often a ritual- where the submissive needs to earn their collar. So you can be owned, while not wearing a collar. On the other hand, it is also possible to wear a collar, while you are not owned. A collar has tremendous value as a symbol, and nobody says that you need another person to be collared. It often helps in making you feel submissive, allowing yourself to be submissive. I am running a year program for submissives and there are single submisisves in it. One of the assignments is at one point to buy a collar, and they LOVE it. For their meaning... hope this helps. Good topic for a video!
@yoginetam1032
@yoginetam1032 5 ай бұрын
Gracias to you all the way from Canada MISTRESSMICHE
@edwardmcneill9295
@edwardmcneill9295 2 жыл бұрын
Awesome video.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks edward!
@edwardmcneill9295
@edwardmcneill9295 2 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments You're welcome.
@michaellester9855
@michaellester9855 28 күн бұрын
There are no "symbols" of ownership.....there are only symbols of weakness. Any individual who is willing to own their own personal others.....sees it in their motion and eyes.
@SurreyMan0409
@SurreyMan0409 Ай бұрын
My Wife took me to a pet shop, and has me fitted with a pink studded collar, to the amusement of all.
@mikepict9011
@mikepict9011 3 жыл бұрын
I bet your father family is so happy
@RavenRaven-se6lr
@RavenRaven-se6lr Жыл бұрын
What about a ring as a symbol of ownership
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
definitely also an option! Great idea. I can imagine though that for some it's like a wedding ring- which is more - equal, but in the end it is about the meaning you give it.
@johansomeone1948
@johansomeone1948 7 ай бұрын
Concesuallity 😮‍💨 And the roles... Yes, I know about DS Rellationships. Theyre ok i guess, but not my thing.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
that's ok too. They don't need to be. :)
@j.s.connolly8579
@j.s.connolly8579 4 жыл бұрын
Sam... Have you ever thought of doing one on "Master/Mistress/Slave or SCENE Names"? I think that would be VERY Interesting! Just a thought. Joe
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 4 жыл бұрын
I even DID a video on scene names. The point is- my BDSM relationship is only within a relationship, so I don't have experience with it. So i deleted the video again. I prefer to talk about what I am experienced with. When I find someone who can tell me more, I will make a video with that person. Might wait till the whole covid is gone and we actually can have parties again.
@scbane
@scbane 4 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments We never stopped doing parties and get togethers in my area...aaaand we all survived. Damn Rona kills everyone 🙄
@ZINCO33
@ZINCO33 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤WONDERFUL
@beatgraf9616
@beatgraf9616 5 ай бұрын
i have to wear my steel-collar every day on demand of my mistress. Also in public. I love to be collared.
@sulimonsulimon5188
@sulimonsulimon5188 3 жыл бұрын
Where can I go to find sub looking for long term
@tomarmstrong4761
@tomarmstrong4761 Жыл бұрын
My wife has a tattoo that people who don't know think is a "monster face," but is, in fact, a logo I've used as something of a signature for years and years.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
LOVE IT!! I love tattoos. No way back.
@josephcontreras8930
@josephcontreras8930 Жыл бұрын
Collars arent so bad...ive heard that wedding rings are called handcuffs by some..😅
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
:P
@JohnSchweitzer-gv2vg
@JohnSchweitzer-gv2vg Ай бұрын
Do girls really not know the true meaning of a collar and a choker?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Ай бұрын
Yes. It happens. So don’t assume but check first:)
@guntherpetutschnig2705
@guntherpetutschnig2705 Жыл бұрын
Good informations
@annaharner4749
@annaharner4749 2 жыл бұрын
My fiance and i are exploring ddlg. Is it acceptable to be engaged to a dominant?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
You are the only one defining the rules, Anna! If it works for you, nobody in the entirely world has the right to tell you it’s not acceptable.
@deanhoward4128
@deanhoward4128 2 ай бұрын
I would never be in this type of relationship; I would never treat a woman that I care about like an animal! I believe in freedom & my companion is free ! I dont own her! I dont even put a collar on my dog...unless I am taking her for a walk!
@michaelrichardson8078
@michaelrichardson8078 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, Dear Lady :-)
@arianna-trenzas
@arianna-trenzas 5 ай бұрын
Que collar recomiendas
@Gamergirlyoshi
@Gamergirlyoshi Жыл бұрын
I feel like I am being dominated. I would love to have a neck less to wea as I’m at work. If he wants to feel like he owns me he should get me one. But I think he is taking it slow
@JeffreyVantrease
@JeffreyVantrease 5 ай бұрын
I’ve never been a slave before.
@justhere420
@justhere420 5 ай бұрын
Would you do as you were told ?
@mingiasi
@mingiasi Жыл бұрын
Oh... I absolutely love when women wear chokers.. Am I into bdsm then?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
You're the only one who can answer that question!
@stephenkissane4268
@stephenkissane4268 7 ай бұрын
I would love a woman collared and I'm kind to women and sometimes a sub to them
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
thank you for sharing Stephen. Happy to hear.
@davidhunternyc1
@davidhunternyc1 2 жыл бұрын
I have an odd observation. The collars are really cheap looking. We need Tiffany and Hermes to start making collars.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 2 жыл бұрын
It's not weird! My training collar IS cheap- I replace it every few months- and htat's why it's cheap:) I wouldnt want my expensive collar (I do have an expensive collar that I sleep with) to be covered in all kinds of juices, or break because someone pulls it.
@davidhunternyc1
@davidhunternyc1 2 жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments oh I see, makes perfect sense.
@cedricksamaniego9146
@cedricksamaniego9146 10 ай бұрын
❤️‍🔥
@unitedbolts8053
@unitedbolts8053 Жыл бұрын
Wait what? Woman like this really exists?? I need a relationship like that...
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
plenty! just curious.... if you weren't aware of this before, how the heck did you get to this video:D
@unitedbolts8053
@unitedbolts8053 Жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments I was looking about women being too feminist and aggressive nowadays and how it destroys companionship and keeps men away.. Instead I learned that there is a legion of romantic women out there... I would be totally devoted to a soulmate that thinks like this.. thx for sharing your thoughts.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
@@unitedbolts8053 thanks. Just bear in mind that many submissive women will be submitting to their partner but will not be submissive in life at all... I am quite an alpha woman in the real world:P
@unitedbolts8053
@unitedbolts8053 Жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments that is exactly what I mean. Strong woman, but romantically submissive.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
@@unitedbolts8053 Yep, they exist and there are many of them! BTW I think there are also a lot of women who don't know about it like I didn't in the beginning (read my book Sex Truth and Freedom). I explored in a relationship with someone who introduced me to some. And then I got sooo hooked...
@yodadolphin1
@yodadolphin1 6 ай бұрын
👍
@danielaneily8929
@danielaneily8929 2 жыл бұрын
One grat web sight
@lettuceboy2382
@lettuceboy2382 2 жыл бұрын
NOW YOU LISTEN TO ME AND YOU LISTEN GOOD
@DNS-FRANK09
@DNS-FRANK09 Жыл бұрын
Do Doms wear anything special?
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
There is no specific symbol for doms, but there are many options. I saw rings, bracelets, necklaces and my favorite- a belt:D I absolutely LOVE the collection of Penumbra's bracelets for doms: penumbra.at/en/shop/?filter_pa_produktfilter=bracelets. Have a look if it's something that you like.
@guntherpetutschnig2705
@guntherpetutschnig2705 Жыл бұрын
I like red colour i am latexfetischist
@sketch6995
@sketch6995 Жыл бұрын
I gotta say..... This is something I have wondered about, Like......never.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
🤣 well then you learned something new today! But... what made you watch this video then??
@sketch6995
@sketch6995 Жыл бұрын
@@KinkyAssignments accidental click. now my suggested vids are full of this shit. thanks alot.
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
let's not pretend it's my fault you clicked on this video@@sketch6995 🤣 have a wonderful day!
@josephcontreras8930
@josephcontreras8930 Жыл бұрын
I always like seeing women wearing a choker. Especially if they have a long neck
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
me too!! And I always loved wearing them also when I didn't know what they meant.
@Yucky759
@Yucky759 2 жыл бұрын
Decadence
@chrisruth7057
@chrisruth7057 Жыл бұрын
You should be the Master not him☹
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments Жыл бұрын
Why “should” I be?
@Halgame99
@Halgame99 Жыл бұрын
She is a beautiful submissive ❤ love her
@chrisruth7057
@chrisruth7057 Жыл бұрын
​@@KinkyAssignmentsCause he should be treating you like a Queen I know I would cause it's the 2020s now woman should has a little more say in a relationship😁👍
@chrisruth7057
@chrisruth7057 Жыл бұрын
​@@Halgame99A submissive woman? that's not cool at all bro👎
@Halgame99
@Halgame99 Жыл бұрын
@@chrisruth7057 Most women are actually submissive! You are a clueless
@ChronicExcessiveManliness
@ChronicExcessiveManliness 3 ай бұрын
Well done.
@Jay-O_Carlow
@Jay-O_Carlow Жыл бұрын
I Must have Lived a Very sheltered Life , My Ex Gf Loved 50 Shades , & we Planed to watch it & we did she told me loved the movie But when we did sit down & watch it the babysitter rang & i had to drive her home , & the next weekend she stayed over & she was little spoon & we were having just a loving caring Pillow talk & I brought up the movie , But she got very shy or embarrassed or felt a bit of shame i honestly don't know she kissed me to stop talking lol But maybe i am very naïve & i have had a very vanilla sex life tbh , I Would imagine You need to Unconditionally Love your Partner. I've only told 2 girls ever i love them & im in my mid 30's because i believe you should never say those 3 words unless you Can Not live without that Person I've never done anything like this & If I'm been really honest i'd even be embarrassed to bring it up & I feel im outgoing & a Confident man but yes 100% Fact i would not know where to even start And id never ever want to push anything onto anyone , And I Know some girls / Women Love the thought of BDSM & Been Dominated , But I Imagine its about Full trust & Making sure that lets say I can put my self in her shoes , Because You would imagine a Relationship could end up been very toxic A Guy trying to control & be Cruel , IDK This is Not something i have ever done So im Very Naïve, I Did have 1 very bad relationship in my early 20's Where for well over a Year my Partners at the time was Super abusive & would hit me & Shout a Lot & I'd be walking on egg shells & As the Guy she was Tiny but she knew no matter what she did id never hurt or harm her , & it took me a Long time to get away from her SO maybe that's why i have had a very bland sex life, I Have only had a few Partners so that's i Imagine a lot to do with it to. I Have never heard any of the boys even speak this way so i don't know how common it is. but i think its really nice how open you are And how much you must Love your Husband/Soulmate.. I got here from 50 shades darker i've not seen it |& this was a suggestion. But I Am Happy for you & Ur Man As You Glow when you talk about it So i hope your doing well & thank you for the upload You are a Wealth of Knowledge on Topics like these & I Imagine You have helped 100's of People
@KinkyAssignments
@KinkyAssignments 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing. THe first step is always to have a conversation. Ask her about her desires. And ask if it's ok if you share yours...
@PranikhilRai
@PranikhilRai 5 ай бұрын
MISTRESSMICHE is the best at this lecturing people to develop their potential in the lifestyle
@MaximumDead-j7b
@MaximumDead-j7b 5 ай бұрын
I'm new to this lifestyle and I so much love it and everything about it, MISTRESSMICHE is the key
@kharkongormanar6777
@kharkongormanar6777 5 ай бұрын
Want to learn more about how to train yourself the right person for you is MISTRESSMICHE
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