you MUST stop caring about WOMEN

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KoldHeartKam

KoldHeartKam

Күн бұрын

stop caring about girls so much

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@LilFredoBeats
@LilFredoBeats Жыл бұрын
Purpose come first….women comes last 🤷🏾‍♂️💯
@marland1529
@marland1529 Жыл бұрын
God, purpose, family and friends and then girls…. That’s the order I go in and I’m happy with that.
@thamesplayz7406
@thamesplayz7406 Жыл бұрын
@@marland1529 How tall are you man?
@marland1529
@marland1529 Жыл бұрын
@@thamesplayz7406 this is the weirdest question I’ve gotten in some comment section 😂 but I’m 6’1
@iscreamloyalty887
@iscreamloyalty887 Жыл бұрын
@@marland1529 that’s actually smart
@thamesplayz7406
@thamesplayz7406 Жыл бұрын
@@marland1529 Ok, I’m just curious man. 😂
@impati3nce50
@impati3nce50 Жыл бұрын
As a woman idk how these get recommended to me... but I agree. Don't worry about a partner, one will come if you focus on YOU and take care of yourself, you attract better people when you don't look because you don't compromise. Good women and good men will stand out if you're not looking at every woman and man. Plus, life is so much more than a partner!
@Anthony-dj4nd
@Anthony-dj4nd Жыл бұрын
Women are 🗑
@alexandermase8622
@alexandermase8622 Жыл бұрын
​@@justchill5628Excactly! It's Purpose over everything for me at this point, Purpose comes first.
@leccion5282
@leccion5282 Жыл бұрын
Life is so much more than a partner??? I hate when ppl say that ish. . Life is partnerships. Men need women. As a Man if you don't have a penis. Don't comment
@impati3nce50
@impati3nce50 Жыл бұрын
@@leccion5282 I Hope you can open your perspective one day 💞
@eigelgregossweisse9563
@eigelgregossweisse9563 Жыл бұрын
It mostly is about a partner. 80% of what human civilization is founded on, is for a partner->offspring. That and intrinsically to survive. Sure, we have skills, hobbies and activities to do aside from a partner, but even that wears out.
@peytonstamper97
@peytonstamper97 Жыл бұрын
Been talkin to this girl and decided to end it because I wasn’t getting the right vibes. She would say she was interested and all that but would never want to hang really; was dry, she was bad asf but I had to realize my worth and know I deserve better. Advice: don’t mess with a girl for only their appearance…. Let yourself fall for their souls and who they’re and how they carry themselves 💯
@zeppkfw
@zeppkfw Жыл бұрын
You're mentally stronger than most men. Be proud of that. You did good bro
@peytonstamper97
@peytonstamper97 Жыл бұрын
@@zeppkfw appreciate that man, much luv
@thamesplayz7406
@thamesplayz7406 Жыл бұрын
You’re strong mentally man, I’d go this route like you did man, despite the looks, it’s honestly a mixture of both and more. I think you did the right thing, also how tall are you man?
@iscreamloyalty887
@iscreamloyalty887 Жыл бұрын
I was in a similar situation where this girl was doing the same thing and it made me lose interest really fast. I understand where you come from
@peytonstamper97
@peytonstamper97 Жыл бұрын
@@thamesplayz7406 I’m 6’2 rn lol why you ask?
@keifer7813
@keifer7813 Жыл бұрын
This is exactly me. Everytime I'm out, I'm thinking how many women are noticing me. I'll adjust my walk and how I talk to get their attention.
@GingerFishey
@GingerFishey Жыл бұрын
i’m having a child your videos helped me meet my fiancé a few years ago
@Metro3OO
@Metro3OO Жыл бұрын
Thats wassu
@mysticblue3387
@mysticblue3387 Жыл бұрын
god Bless
@karna5998
@karna5998 Жыл бұрын
That's amazing!
@SirTerenceTheThird
@SirTerenceTheThird Жыл бұрын
Dude you give real good advice fr 🔥
@mronewallahbinmeer1567
@mronewallahbinmeer1567 Жыл бұрын
Never cared about a single women realizing a girl won't take me to jannah
@MD-xl3lj
@MD-xl3lj 6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@habibiii4126
@habibiii4126 Жыл бұрын
I needed this so much right now man. You’re like an older bro thank you man 🙏
@jaydencampbell3321
@jaydencampbell3321 Жыл бұрын
Bro speaking my life rn. I’m trynna change n switch my mindset n not value females like that. Real stuff he speakin
@keltecdan
@keltecdan 11 ай бұрын
It’s a hard thing to do and takes constant action. As men we are fighting our natural instincts to go after women. Especially when your testosterone is high. It’s our nature to go after them and to conquer.
@jdr_212
@jdr_212 Жыл бұрын
needed this fr. thank you.
@tuhmatic
@tuhmatic Ай бұрын
I don’t usually post on vids, but I gotta say… I’m a bit older watching this. And I’m really impressed you’re thinking like this at 22. Good shit king.
@Emmanuel-j2o
@Emmanuel-j2o Жыл бұрын
your right bro you always speak the truth bro i admire you always! 🙌🏽 keep it up
@Brainmusique
@Brainmusique 4 ай бұрын
Nothing hits the nail on the head more perfectly than “you have to stop caring about women”. That’s really all you have to say.
@recklessnotion1899
@recklessnotion1899 Жыл бұрын
These types of videos are the reason I still watch your content. We gotta get better for ourselves, and whoever mess with us is for us. Can't be worried about the opinions of other people.
@Osmium87
@Osmium87 Ай бұрын
I always have loved your content Kam. I always come back to it when I start to struggle. Really needed to hear this right now. Been having all my friends say the same thing to me, but I was too hard headed to listen. Thanks for the wake up call
@lgp36643664
@lgp36643664 Жыл бұрын
dam i really needed this rn, the self improvement part hit me different
@222yessir
@222yessir Жыл бұрын
kam consistently uploading and we consistently bussing to his vids😈😈🔥
@dalitsobanda8295
@dalitsobanda8295 Жыл бұрын
I have to admit due to the fact that am about to finish graduate i feel like I've missed out on a lot the more obsessed and desperate i became with wanting to have a girl but then i realized i became too distracted to a point we're i couldn't even just focus on my art and other hobbies i guess it's high time i dusted myself of from this continued cycle of desperation really good video gee much appreciation 🙏
@backseatoftherollstruck
@backseatoftherollstruck Жыл бұрын
Oi same here man. The desperating becomes crippling too when you really dont get the women
@shapies_7923
@shapies_7923 4 ай бұрын
Wow this is what I needed it like everything you said word for word I just hate that I couldn’t see this myself thank you g
@6lu5ky86
@6lu5ky86 7 ай бұрын
A through Y, that's all for you. Z, that's your attention to women. Thanks for this Kam, great encouragement for even a guy like me at 38.
@remqtch9868
@remqtch9868 Жыл бұрын
probably one of the most important vidoes ill watch in my life thanks kam
@robertmendoza4718
@robertmendoza4718 9 ай бұрын
Women is VERY EXPENSIVE AND WE CAN'T AFFORD THEM ANYMORE..
@Wicc_234
@Wicc_234 Жыл бұрын
I been doing the same thing but I used to put the women first before myself and now every since I watched TrueCam I started focusing on me.
@omarlascares4474
@omarlascares4474 Жыл бұрын
Back to back uploads preciate it Kam💪
@jro4670
@jro4670 Жыл бұрын
Ohh dude, I've been in this situation many times. Now I'm finally starting to realize not giving a f*** anymore actually feels good but really took me time to realize. Thanks for the video, that was what I needed to hear :D
@brandnew9552
@brandnew9552 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kam. This really helped me bro. Keep it coming w the content 💯
@Klw_n
@Klw_n Жыл бұрын
yeah i used to do muay thai,dirt biking and alot of stuff just to get girls but whenever i am alone i dont really self improve fax dude.
@NeezDutz
@NeezDutz Жыл бұрын
"30 years old at a bar"... My life be like ooo waahh OOO WAH
@IvanLDY79812
@IvanLDY79812 11 ай бұрын
Yeah, been hard but I'm trying. Noticed my life been going down hill thinking about girls. Ironically the one time I was concentrating on myself, through boxing was also the moment alot of women actually started to notice me alot more. I wanna go back to that, wish me luck guys.
@Wicc_234
@Wicc_234 Жыл бұрын
You can talk to women but it’s up to you, But if you do always put your goals before her.
@steezypayton2087
@steezypayton2087 Жыл бұрын
priority’s, you gonna attract what you need when you ain’t worried abt it. go to the gym. have fun w ya boys. 🤝🏽
@ddotnyc8709
@ddotnyc8709 Жыл бұрын
What if u got no friends
@GuyVick
@GuyVick Жыл бұрын
@@ddotnyc8709 you don’t need friends
@AboutDatMoney
@AboutDatMoney Жыл бұрын
miss me with dat bs cus yk you lying
@AboutDatMoney
@AboutDatMoney Жыл бұрын
@@GuyVick who wanna be bored with no friends, not I
@GuyVick
@GuyVick Жыл бұрын
@@AboutDatMoney that’s on you. Your life
@paulcooper5748
@paulcooper5748 Жыл бұрын
True especially the type of women that are out there of today.
@kevss7786
@kevss7786 Жыл бұрын
This comment section became a wild thing
@K1rz__
@K1rz__ Жыл бұрын
I understand the msg but everytime I open the comments I am like wth 😂
@sergio7103
@sergio7103 Жыл бұрын
Onf
@sergio7103
@sergio7103 Жыл бұрын
Ong
@jareddustin7940
@jareddustin7940 Жыл бұрын
Thanks brother I needed to hear this
@antifye1041
@antifye1041 8 ай бұрын
I’m 35 years old I had to learn you can’t worry about a woman who don’t like you make your money you lose money we chase wanna but you never lose women’s
@tjgotbands
@tjgotbands Жыл бұрын
it really been messing with my mind i pray that i will find the right one. one day.
@RealJamesJones24
@RealJamesJones24 23 күн бұрын
Needed this gang
@infiniteprowess
@infiniteprowess Жыл бұрын
Thnx Kam💯👍
@TheLastMin_Revision
@TheLastMin_Revision 3 ай бұрын
I don’t know man if u will be reading this or no. There’s always that one guy whose few words just exactly show you where u missed the step. Destroy the inner void through work and god. May god bless u ❤ g
@shafyethossain8220
@shafyethossain8220 Жыл бұрын
So my advice to the next generation is to lower your gaze to protect yourself from looking at lust and find a good person who cares very much about you.
@George-ds3hx
@George-ds3hx Жыл бұрын
Needed this
@ajohnson2344
@ajohnson2344 Жыл бұрын
this is some good advice man keep it up
@trollbay2605
@trollbay2605 Жыл бұрын
Needed this!
@SantiagoSuazo-o1r
@SantiagoSuazo-o1r 3 ай бұрын
I love how you use God's word for these things. Amazing combo ❤
@draden2150
@draden2150 Жыл бұрын
Nah y’all should be thankful he puttin y’all on this level and category of game rs 💯
@AboutDatMoney
@AboutDatMoney Жыл бұрын
nah im good
@Sunny-nn2ym
@Sunny-nn2ym 8 ай бұрын
What an amazing video bro. Keep working on it.
@Lala_playzzzz
@Lala_playzzzz 3 ай бұрын
You deserve a mil sub bro no cap love u bro u saved my life
@Betegfos
@Betegfos Жыл бұрын
You are right, I am the 35 year old dude wanting to have a girl and that is always on my mind. I would like a family and I feel like my time is ruining out. I quit smoking weed and started to approach girls but the void is still there. I trust the father that he has a plan for me but I fed up with loneliness. What is your advice for me?
@kwekujakese
@kwekujakese Жыл бұрын
develop a relation ship with yahweh
@jiri5640
@jiri5640 Жыл бұрын
Life is terrible.
@jake4404
@jake4404 Жыл бұрын
It's done for u. Whether you trust "Yahweh" or not, ur done
@DarkWolf13911
@DarkWolf13911 7 ай бұрын
​@@jake4404Savage jake
@judahkhitv
@judahkhitv Жыл бұрын
You right bro💯🤝🏾
@kendawg44
@kendawg44 Жыл бұрын
Lotta truth in this video
@donak2773
@donak2773 2 ай бұрын
Realest shit I ever heard needed this
@esaiebyishimo3112
@esaiebyishimo3112 Жыл бұрын
this video really got me thinking and this the most hard hitting video i watched.
@Illumination444
@Illumination444 Жыл бұрын
Subscribed cuz the shirt g 🔥
@Malik_Hoff
@Malik_Hoff Жыл бұрын
Amen bro!
@222yessir
@222yessir Жыл бұрын
im boutta explode🥺🥺🥺😩😫😫😫😫
@intuitivelymagician2076
@intuitivelymagician2076 Жыл бұрын
Divine timing ✨️
@wop2784
@wop2784 Жыл бұрын
Thank u for making this video 💯
@damondshelton411
@damondshelton411 Ай бұрын
Good words my brother
@caleblopez7840
@caleblopez7840 Жыл бұрын
Kam should be a politician
@mitenaperrick5744
@mitenaperrick5744 Жыл бұрын
Thanks Kam ❤🤝
@younesaitdabachi7968
@younesaitdabachi7968 7 ай бұрын
when god shows me my purpose then i will stop chasing women but for now i see nothing to live for
@t1_hodges
@t1_hodges Жыл бұрын
He’s right. It’s time to wake up.
@Haddonfield63
@Haddonfield63 4 ай бұрын
When in doubt fall back on the grind
@JrVilakazi-e8p
@JrVilakazi-e8p 5 ай бұрын
Focus on yourself Kings✊🏾
@michaeledwards5647
@michaeledwards5647 Жыл бұрын
Bruh wtf Kam u too on point
@blurryfaseswayez9238
@blurryfaseswayez9238 Жыл бұрын
Came here for a pep talk and left feeling like shit 🤣I’m 32 brah…but I feel old as a bitch now
@jaylencousin
@jaylencousin 5 ай бұрын
I remember every girl I've liked but hate thinking about these past feelings I'm not saying they're full names but only their initials KL. Actually dated JG BP GR AB ED But I agree with everything in this video
@biob5629
@biob5629 Жыл бұрын
Gentleman's of culture we meet again
@khironashton1498
@khironashton1498 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kam ❤
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis Жыл бұрын
Exactly build yourself up then they'll come.
@davesmith5939
@davesmith5939 5 ай бұрын
there’s two girls now, one who doesn’t respect (listen to) men and all they will say like you are saying. they want to totally focus on themselves only. Which would be okay if they truly did expect the same from the guy. So, if she got pregnant it is hers and hers only and didn’t bother him with it at all. But that’s not how it works/plays out. The other does respect (listen) to men, not women or themselves, so are marriageable. So the answer is either both totally focus on each other and their family. Or it’s total self-invilvement. And the argument about the children really becomes: “You take it” “No you take it” because the kid just gets ‘in the way’ of them focussing on themselves. So for the guys watching, if you’re like Kam, where all that matters is himself, these girls will be fine as they think the same. If you do want to focus on a family and someone else, you will need to move as not all cultures are the same. You need to accept that it is ‘all’. as that’s how culture works. So if you truly do want to focus on your family over yourself, you will need to move over seas. Or, to adapt, you need to be fully self-involved and selfish. Which will implode when kids become involved.
@MontyTaylor-oo7rv
@MontyTaylor-oo7rv 4 ай бұрын
Very motivational
@Swayjren
@Swayjren Жыл бұрын
Got my sub man
@MetalSnake6199
@MetalSnake6199 Жыл бұрын
Take his knowledge so seriously, people think we gay.
@laurincechetty
@laurincechetty 3 ай бұрын
Thank you bro
@inversionesalfa923
@inversionesalfa923 Жыл бұрын
Right mindset
@Sunny-nn2ym
@Sunny-nn2ym 8 ай бұрын
My bro is so wise in this age.
@massimokaufmann7941
@massimokaufmann7941 Жыл бұрын
Yo I'm 15 and never had a girl not even kissed a girl in my life. I like a girl at school and think I might just have a chance at being with her. I'm on self-improvement and progressing my life and levelling up, but I've never had the experience of being so close to girl. I want to go for it, what do you think?
@omarlascares4474
@omarlascares4474 Жыл бұрын
I remember being 15 wanting to ask my crush to the highschool homecoming but never did. Im 20 now lol but looking back I would have wanted younger me to go ahead and just do it. Just like you I never had the experience prior and I let that stop me smh so I'd say go for it bro you got this👍
@massimokaufmann7941
@massimokaufmann7941 Жыл бұрын
@@omarlascares4474 thanks bro this rly helps
@omarlascares4474
@omarlascares4474 Жыл бұрын
@@massimokaufmann7941 yessir go get her bro💪I believe in you
@oscargonza2748
@oscargonza2748 Жыл бұрын
No matter the outcome, the important thing is that you courageously took a chance, like the saying goes, better to try and fail than not to try and regret, trust me you won't regret it even if you don't succeed, bruh, may God bless all your endeavours
@LiamThorn69
@LiamThorn69 Жыл бұрын
yo bro i’m 15 and this year was the first time i ever kissed a girl don’t worry about it too much because it will happen eventually
@matthewmc1aurin
@matthewmc1aurin Жыл бұрын
Best vid yet, gls gang
@appete6931
@appete6931 9 ай бұрын
I’m just saying thanks you really helped dude
@imyourgodscar117
@imyourgodscar117 Жыл бұрын
Real ahh shit right here
@kinga8299
@kinga8299 Жыл бұрын
Facts brother teach these lil boy she not worthy.
@fearlesspreacts6028
@fearlesspreacts6028 11 ай бұрын
I think about women so much like conversation with them,even having sex with them but no release from my semen retention journey. This is why I can’t stack my bread like I should because they’re a distraction and I really never attract much women in my life. I do want to be more open and present with them during conversation. I have to quit that and it kills my brain and get brain fog. I will stop thinking about women attraction from now on.
@davesmith5939
@davesmith5939 5 ай бұрын
You’re essentially saying: “fully go into the woman’s frame” be absoluteltly subservient (to her fears) and become her servant. Acting exactly the same as her. Women (who don’t trust men) put themselves first out of fear. And instead of finding a mariageable girl who will put your business and life above her own, you’re instead ‘buying into’ and going into. the same frame. You can put your family above yourself, it just needs to be with a girl who was taught and believes to do the same. What REALLY fucks you up thouhg, is think it’s ‘most’ and not accepting it is actually ‘all’ women (in your society). And it’s not ‘not caring at all’ it’s putting the focus on caring what you do, no one else. So under your philosophy, you can just steal and lie as: “who cares”. Wheres what it should be is: “I will do my work well”. If I then hire someone who’s not the same I don’t “care”, I just hire someone else. Which, I personally still struggle with, but know it is the answer.
@burberrycross8640
@burberrycross8640 Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro.. this where I'm stuck at
@Nash_boi
@Nash_boi 8 ай бұрын
That got deep
@a.27777
@a.27777 Жыл бұрын
Great video I needed this
@davesmith5939
@davesmith5939 5 ай бұрын
1:46 none of them are even likeable, is just to smash
@bonkchoy5544
@bonkchoy5544 10 ай бұрын
listen to your own advice fam
@mikor1u-um1do
@mikor1u-um1do Жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed with singular girl that i don't know like that girl have given me no sort of value yet!! and i think I'm in love with her!! What can i do with that 😭😭 how can i stop thinking about her??😭 any advice????
@michaelgales4286
@michaelgales4286 9 ай бұрын
FACTSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@Serve_99
@Serve_99 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯🔒
@viralspooky
@viralspooky Жыл бұрын
Me when i get rejected:
@Caitura
@Caitura Жыл бұрын
Yea kam I searched up how to stop caring about girls this was the first vid to pop up
@souravjoshi3398
@souravjoshi3398 Жыл бұрын
This helped me a lot
@Drian24.
@Drian24. Жыл бұрын
Hey kam could you talk about failure and success?
@BrianCisneros-s5i
@BrianCisneros-s5i 8 ай бұрын
Monica nett Maria Brianna Nancy, Kimberly. Sabrina
@ANTINATALIST_lewis
@ANTINATALIST_lewis Жыл бұрын
The west has ruined many things about life.
@Dtown1996
@Dtown1996 Жыл бұрын
You gonna end up like PatBat69
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