Kuala Lumpur Housing Struggles: The Nightmare No One Talks About

[@QueenofDC]

Have you faced challenges finding housing in KL? Share your story below! ☕️ BUY ME A COFFEE☕️ www.buymeacoffee.com/queenofdc Thank you for supporting my channel, liking the content, and subscribing. If you gain value from my content and would like to support me on this journey, please contribute to Buy Me A Coffee. I appreciate you!

[@WovenPsalm]

Being a creative, I always consider the movement factor of being a nomad. It will be a full commitment of mental and physical energy. I need to be able to go home, rest, and have an expanse of creative time. I appreciated you.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for sharing your perspective-it’s so true it requires a unique balance of mental and physical energy. Prioritizing rest and giving yourself the space to recharge and create is so important. That's why I enjoy those three months of rejuvenation. 🤗

[@derrickadrake7458]

So love the transparency Shawn! Speaking miraculous favor in your travels! ❤❤❤

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you so much! I truly appreciate that, and just trying to help others along the way. I receive the miraculous favor you’re speaking over my travels!🥰💕 Hope all is well and always love hearing from you! ❤️

[@syameze2227]

Thanks for sharing your experience! It was very informative.

[@QueenofDC]

You’re welcome! I’m glad you found it helpful-thanks for taking the time to watch and share 🥰.

[@rubylimey7614]

Thanks for sharing your experience.... We were just talking with friends how ppl views n taste can differ. I always like to see for myself 😊❤🙏🙏

[@QueenofDC]

You're welcome ☺️! I appreciate you watching and sharing your thoughts. Personal experiences can shape our perspectives so differently. That’s the beauty of exploring new places-everyone connects with them in their own unique way. Seeing it firsthand really does make all the difference! 💕

[@annew.1]

I got back recently from 7 weeks in KL after 5 years of no travel from the pandemic. I canceled my Northern Thailand portion of my trip (Chiang Mai and Chiang Rai due to their massive flooding) and then cancelled a later trip to Cambodia (PP and Siem Reap) because I was exhausted by that point. I was actually relieved to stay in KL because even with its shortcomings (hygiene, inefficiencies, to "did you think this all the way through?") it was nice to rest and recover. I shopped for items I couldn't get in the US because it was unavailable or too expensive. I stayed away from fried foods, and most sugary drinks. I could only manage at most 5 or 6 weeks in SE Asia even though there is a three months visa free travel for US citizens. It made me more appreciative of home rather than trying to see it as a substitute home. Vacation spot, absolutely.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for watching and sharing your experience! I’ve been living in Southeast Asia for two years now and have adjusted to the weather, so it’s a viable option for me. That said, I’m still exploring the world and going with the flow-who knows where I’ll end up! I completely understand the need to rest and recover during your travels, and I’m sorry you had to cancel part of your trip. KL is a great place to recharge, and it sounds like you had a chance to really get a feel for the city. Experience is the best teacher, and it’s great you figured out what works best for you.

[@emulatemetheuniverse.3670]

I'm a realtor in California and as inconvenient as this maybe for short turn visitors, this makes sense when you say you are "moving" somewhere. Especially to another country for a cheaper lifestyle. They have their own lives to finance. It is very hard to constantly have different people moving in and out of your apartment in under a year. They just want you to go for it. If you say you are moving somewhere for a new experience you should be willing to at least stay a year. If you cannot commit to 6 months to a year, you should stay at home stays where you were living with a family.

[@QueenofDC]

Rental markets vary across regions, and this perspective doesn’t apply universally. Just because someone is moving to experience a different culture or lower cost of living doesn’t mean they’re obligated to commit to a year-long lease. Short-term rentals, co-living spaces, and flexible housing options exist precisely because not everyone operates within the same framework. The terms are the terms, and if those terms don’t work, so be it-no one has to settle for something they don’t want, nor are they required to stay in home stays. I’ve learned that I can obtain whatever I desire with patience and time. A cheaper lifestyle isn’t the issue here, especially since you don’t know the lease agreement amount. What a landlord wants isn’t my primary concern; if it’s negotiable, we’ll work it out. This is just one market, and the entire world doesn’t operate this way. There are countless options and housing models globally that cater to different lifestyles. There’s no need to settle, or stay at a home stay. No one dictates my choices or where I stay.

[@WovenPsalm]

Thank you! I am a new subscriber. Will be retiring in 2025 and preparing for travel on a modest pension and savings. Lots to do before then but your information is a blessing. Kind regards, peace, and all the best. 😊

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you so much for subscribing and for your kind message! Congratulations on your upcoming retirement-what an exciting new chapter ahead! It’s wonderful that you’re planning and preparing for your travels now. I’m so glad the information has been helpful to you, and I’ll continue sharing tips to make your journey even smoother. Wishing you all the best as you move closer to your dreams and Happy New Year 💕🎊!

[@jelliotharris]

I lived in KL for about 9 months. Something they won't tell you is that after you obtain three visas in a row you may not be allowed a fourth. They say the visas are for tourists and if they think you are a long term visitor they want you to use MM2H, (My Malaysia Second Home). There have been expats refused entry after three consecutive visa runs - BEWARE!

[@QueenofDC]

Thanks for sharing and the tip! Each situation is unique, and it’s always best to consult with immigration if you have concerns. This hasn’t been my experience, and it’s likely a case-by-case situation at their discretion.

[@andreandree4384]

Really?. I have been living in kl since 2011 on 3 months visa and each time I am in and out , immigration never tells me anything 😊.. And now with the egate, it's even better; I never see an immigration officer when I go thru the airport 😂

[@QueenofDC]

@@andreandree4384 WOW!! Since 2011 they should know you and gates fly open when you come🤣. I've never used the egate but will start using it to save my passport pages.

[@andreandree4384]

@@QueenofDC yes, egate has saved me lot of pages on my passport since i need to go out once in awhile to reset my visa; i often travel for my work anyway, so it's not a big issue and i don't have any intention to go for MM2H 😊

[@ExpatGlobalGirls]

Hello Queen! So sorry to hear of your exhausting and frustrating experiences! But I'm so glad you're in a good spot now - comfortable and relaxed. Thank you for sharing all of this good-to-know info.

[@QueenofDC]

Greetings Friend 🥰! Thank you so much for your kind words and support. It's definitely a journey, but I’m grateful to be in a better place now. I’m glad the info was helpful-sharing these experiences is all about helping others navigate similar challenges. I truly appreciate you taking the time to reach out! I'm encouraged 🥰.

[@ExpatGlobalGirls]

@@QueenofDC You're welcome - anytime! I really like your personality and content. You're a bright light in the world and I agree - sharing such experiences definitely helps others. Keep shining, darlin'!

[@PhilCherry3]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾 Great insights & tips for travelers!

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for watching and I appreciate your support! Happy you gained value from the video ☺️.

[@heathervalentinemitten8024]

thank you for being authentic and transparent.

[@QueenofDC]

You’re very welcome! ☺️Thank you so much for watching and supporting me. Just a couple of hurdles to navigate along the way.

[@RayvenMichelle]

GURL! The same thing happened to me in Bangkok with 2 Airbnbs back to back - ROACHES! I told a couple of people and they were like "Well, it's Bangkok." NOOOOOOOO! I REFUSE to live with roaches. I was supposed to be there for 30 days but I left after 9 days and came back to Kuala Lumpur. Thank goodness I haven't had roaches here in KLCC, however, it does cost SO MUCH MORE on Airbnb and getting a year lease is a lot. So I feel you 100%, sis!!! And I hope you find your ideal place SOON!

[@QueenofDC]

Right?! Roaches are an absolute dealbreaker for me too. I’m not about to pay to live with them, and worse, they can get into your bags and travel with you to the next spot. That would’ve been the final straw for me too-I don’t blame you at all. Issa sign! The prices here are way higher, and the inventory is mid for what they’re asking-it’s such a racket😩. Thank you so much and you know it's been a process. I's tiyad!! Hope all is well 🥰.

[@trace3254]

Queen, check in with fellow youtuber Andrew Taylor. He's lived for years and has great contacts. Don't do it on your own.

[@QueenofDC]

@@trace3254 Thank you!! You definitely can’t navigate it alone here, or you’ll get played. It’s far from straightforward like the American way-you need a solid game plan and the right connections and team to make things happen.

[@trace3254]

@@QueenofDC Queen, something is weird. I don't see my comments below the video. I checked her just to be sure you weren't sick of me and banned me. I am such a fan of yours. I get your frustration with airbnb. Im so sick of these folks too. When I returned to Calif from KL a few months ago. That flight wore me out all I wanted was to shower and a good nights sleep. When I opened the door to the house, I knew I had made a mistake. That evening I went to bed and yep felt something crawling on me. Turned the blanket bank and there were 3 bugs crawling on me and the sheets. I ended up going to a hotel at 2am ! Fortunately, I had enough presence of mind to grab my phone and video it. They still had the nerve to charge me for one night. You've opened my eyes to these airbnbs. Ill be more careful. I ve been using Agoda when abroad thanks to you. Will you be in Vietnam for Stephanies meetup? Yes, slow down and rest . Don't let these folks mess with your love of life and travel.

[@QueenofDC]

Oh no!! Didn't ban you and not tired of your comments ☺️. KZbin was acting strange yesterday because someone else informed me. OMG 😱 gross!! I would flip out too and leave regardless. That's a shame they didn't refund you. Clearly, that's not part of the agreement. Oh nice so happy you're using Agoda too. They've worked out well for me. Yes, I'll be there for the meetup 🎊. Stephanie announced when I was guest on her show discussing my life in Vietnam. 🇻🇳 Hope you'll be there too so we can finally meet!!

[@che7001]

Thanks for sharing that info with the queen. The Queen is just trying to enjoy her life! I pray for her continued blessings! She’s such a wonderfully kind and beautiful person inside and out. 🥰

[@Peter-pe6pp]

I have lived and worked as an expat in Kuala Lumpur amongst other countries . Am currently in Hong Kong. I was in KL from 2015 to 2021. I have never heard of anyone else ( colleagues and friends) having such bad experiences as you. Did you book very low budget Air bnb places? I had friends from Australia and UK who booked Air bnb during those times and were always happy with what they got. There is a range so if you book really cheap places perhaps those problems occur. Frankly, I have had worse experiences with cleanliness in the US and Australia. As for rental , had no problems with that too. Thw key is to get a good agent. As for requirements, 2 months deposit, utilituy deposit, rent up front are all pretty standard.

[@QueenofDC]

Excuse me, I didn’t “book very low budget” Airbnbs-nice assumption, though. Just because you haven’t heard of anyone else having bad experiences doesn’t mean they don’t exist. Maybe you need a more diverse circle because I’ve come across people with similar stories. Let’s not compare apples to oranges-perhaps your friends’ expectations aren’t at the same level as mine. My issue isn’t with the standard requests-it’s with the unnecessary complications and inefficiencies in the process. Let’s not act like your experiences define everyone’s reality. Navigating the systems here can be convoluted, even with a “good agent.” You’d better have your own attorney on hand to ensure you’re getting a fair deal. Also, in KL, you can book “expensive” or “cheap” Airbnbs and still encounter the same issues. You haven’t been here since 2021, and it shows in your out-of-touch comments.

[@trace3254]

​@@QueenofDC What I also know is folks who go to other countries for work are protected by built in friendsr and ready resources and folks available to help them with the transition. They ain't out there navigating it all by themselves. In addition, sometimes the companies have western standard apartments for these incoming employees.In addition, oftentimes the company pays the rent too!!!. These folks don't have a clue about travel and navigating it solo. To be honest, some of these folks were still living at home, then went to another cocoon...a job. Sorry, but this guys attitude pissed me off.

[@QueenofDC]

@ Chile, he’s just talking out the side of his neck. Like, who is he and his friends? 🤷🏽‍♀️ A bunch of foolishness.

[@QueenofDC]

@ I completely agree with you-they still got Similac on their breath! 😂🤣

[@Peter-pe6pp]

I havent been here since 2021? 😂I visit KL on work at least 3 times a year though I am now based in Hong Kong. I have ex colleagues still working there and expat friends still living there. I am very much in touch. I have never heard of anyone needing their own attorney to rent in Malaysia😂. Attorneys are only needed when buying or selling property. As for expectations, I usually stay in Service apartments like Frasers or Somerset when I travel to KL or around the region. Sometimes we book an Air bnb and expect a similar standard but without the frills like daily housekeeping. Generally you get what you pay for. You cant compare KL with a smaller city in Vietnam. But KL is still relatively cheap. For 300.Ringgit per night you can get pretty decent accomodation. You sound pretty entitled. I can predict you arent going to be happy in Malaysia but if you go to Singapore you or Hong Kong you will find landlords are picky about tenants and wont rent to some even if they are willing to pay and of course we are talking about a whole different price range.

[@lizcarlyle2477]

☔Hello from CA. I have been struggling with housing for the past 35 years ever since I moved to the Bay Area. When I lived in Asia, I found knowing owners at small stores helped me the most to find housing. Warm weather is the ideal condition for bugs. Lived in Hawaii & Indonesia with insects always there. Loved your Mexico City hotel with all the art, Viva la Mexico! The more connections you make, the easier it will be to find housing! Do u feel comfortable contacting the American expats in KL? When I lived in Tokyo, I had to go out to the public bath. Adapt, my dear girl!

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for sharing your interesting journey and for watching! I had an amazing time in Mexico City and loved Hostal Juárez. While I have both local and American friends here, it’s still a work in progress and system you can't escape. Connections definitely make things easier, but sometimes, as part of the process, you have to roll up your sleeves and figure things out along the way-that’s all part of the adventure. It can be frustrating at times, but that’s the cost of living in a new place. Everything will fall into place when it’s the right fit, and I’ll come out of it much wiser. I’m grateful to have the flexibility to take my time-this isn’t permanent, and I can always move on to better options. I had a purpose, and this is part of the journey to figure it out. Along the way, I’ve met some cool people. Adaptation is something you’ll hear me talk about often-it’s just part of this life. And public baths are freeing 🙌🏽.

[@che7001]

I appreciate your experiences. Thank you so much for taking the time to share all of them. I plan to visit Malaysia around the middle of February thur middle of March. I personally don’t care for the corporation AirB&B, because they go around the world buying properties making them unaffordable for visitors, with their fees etc. They’ve ruined Portugal that has a high vacancy rate due AirB&Bs buying up properties, causing property values to artificially increase; affecting even native Portuguese who can no longer live well in their own country. As a future expat, Portugal is off my list. I refuse to rent AirB&Bs. Their investors only care about profits, they don’t care how their greed decimates economies. Rentals have increased in many European countries because of AirB&Bs. Thank you for sharing. You and all you do is greatly appreciated. 😘 Hugs

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for sharing your thoughtful perspective! I completely understand your concerns about Airbnb and its impact on housing markets -it’s a significant issue many communities are dealing with. In Penang, Malaysia, they banned short-term Airbnb stays a couple of years ago for these reasons. Portugal has certainly changed since my last visit, and I’ve been hearing similar feedback to what you’ve shared. I’m sure you’ll love everything Malaysia has to offer-it’s such a vibrant and fascinating place to explore. I’ve always enjoyed my time here, though navigating the housing market this time has been a disappointing hustle! I appreciate your kind words and support-I’m so glad my experiences resonate with you. Wishing you safe travels and an amazing adventure in Malaysia! 🤗💕

[@andreandree4384]

I live in kl since 2011 (except during COVID when i returned to France) and never had any issues renting out; always pretty easy, they are lot of choices. It's always one year lease at least and 2/3 months deposit. Recently i move out from my lease of four seasons residence klcc to an airbnb in the center of kl which i pay monthly; no signed contract, no deposit, no lease of 1 year, no electricity bill, no internet bill, however the rental is higher but i am ok with that. It's a choice. I found renting in Malaysia much easier than France for instance, in France agents /owners can ask your salary slips, your tax income, guarantor etc 😢😢😢.. Good luck in kl

[@QueenofDC]

Yes, I hear France can be quite a challenge 😩. There's a lady in the comments talking about her rental issues in France. I've found the terms here are pretty standard. You’re right-it’s all about choice. My goal was to research my options in the housing market, and I’ve definitely learned a lot from the experience. Thanks for sharing your experience and insights living here in KL.

[@che7001]

They ask for your payment statements, bank statements, and tax returns in the U.S. to verify your identity. I ran numerous background checks for law enforcement and that’s the way it is these days. Everyone is trying to survive, make a living without getting ripped off.

[@Walk-retirement-travel]

As an owner of rentals I'm not about to rent to anyone for less than a year. you definitely will sign a lease. Plus you're going to pay two months in advance and pay a one month security deposit. You will get a rent increase after one year. You will be charged for damage to plumbing and charged for maintenance when you call about clog toilets or sinks.

[@QueenofDC]

That’s fine, and it’s your right to structure things however you see fit-it’s also my choice not to rent from you. I don’t have an issue with signing a lease as long as the terms are reasonable and agreed upon. The real issue here is people resorting to games or dishonest tactics to serve their own interests. I have no problem walking away from the deal. Just be straightforward, and I’ll make my decision accordingly.

[@lindc1070]

What you expect is standard from any landlord here.

[@QueenofDC]

@@lindc1070 I beg to differ. Until you’ve walked a mile in my shoes, your statement isn’t justified. It’s ideal, but it’s not always the reality.

[@trace3254]

You must have rentals in the US. It just sounds like this. You probably aren't dealing with travelers.

[@che7001]

@@QueenofDC that’s so true Queen. My parents because millionaires renting properties. We had to clean those houses and apartments, it was horrible how people choose to live in filth! That’s why I don’t want to be a rental property owner to this day. Property owners are fearful of acquiring bad tenants and they need to pay their mortgages. Therefore, a year’s lease, rent in advance, and outrageous deposits ensue. All my parent’s properties were pristine until they were rented. As a property owner, you should consider the quality of a business type renter, whose is seeking peace, and is obviously a professional person. The Queen of DC has is so professional in all of her post, her style of dress, etc. Why haven’t you reached out to help her find a rental. She has been nothing but stylist and kind in her postings etc.

[@cheryldurham6021]

Hi Queen. I can imagine that the search for housing can become grueling. I just heard the same thing from another digital nomad. I am sure that you will have the situation resolved soon. Again, like you said, that’s the reason for having that additional money…it aids in taking care of that jam that may present itself. Stay safe, keep bopping and keep us updated!

[@QueenofDC]

Hi Cheryl! Thank you for watching and sharing your wisdom. Yes, it's good to have emergency 🆘 funds for times like these. At that point I just needed some good rest. It's been a learning process but all is well and I'm still kicking strong 🥰. Appreciate your kind support and encouragement ❤️.

[@FunandBudget]

Having options is the best brand of freedom!

[@QueenofDC]

Absolutely, Amen! It gives you the flexibility to create the life you truly want-it’s the ultimate form of freedom. Knowing you’re not tied down opens up so many possibilities! 🙌🏽💕

[@pillpshr321]

I feel so validated watching this! Housing in KL is a mess!!

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you!! 👏 Speak on it! You’re absolutely validated because it’s a hot mess. No lies told-I couldn’t fit every detail into this video, but they be on some bull.

[@annew.1]

There is a lot of speculation in housing, not in flipping homes, but buying up units to Airbnb for income. You get many second or third rate type buildings where most are Airbnb rentals. It is like a chop shop with dozens if not more private owners who think they are wannabe hoteliers or property tycoons when they are not. Personally I never stayed in an Airbnb because of varying standards (or lack thereof.) I like newer boutique hotels in the center of town or close to public transportation (KL Sentral) so I am not dependent on Grab or have to walk on broken or missing sidewalks.

[@QueenofDC]

@ When you’re living somewhere rather than just vacationing, hotels often aren’t the most cost-effective option and typically lack the amenities necessary for daily life. In such cases, Airbnb can be a practical alternative.

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

​@QueenofDC there are hotels with suites or service apartments like Somerset which in Malaysia are reasonably priced if you are talking about weeks. Not for months though.

[@QueenofDC]

@@Sunshine-zi4nq Thank you! Yes, Malaysia offers plenty of serviced apartments, but this assignment was specifically focused on long-term housing options.

[@davidg4058]

Thanks for sharing. There's always a few thorns in the roses.

[@QueenofDC]

You're welcome! That’s how it goes. It’s all part of the learning process, and now I’m wiser for it.☺️

[@trace3254]

@@QueenofDC You are so right. And, your ability to comprehend and adjust is exactly why you are capable of this type of journey. You are growing in ways that will be difficult to explain to many. I have no doubt that after you rest and find your spot you will be reenergized and excited about your next step. Your growth, to me, is enviable. Trael ain't for sissies. And, to be navigating on your own! Well..... I envy your journey. I'm back in Calif now . I had to return from my SE Asia journey because I, too , got an eye issue in KL. They wanted to cut....I said oh no! But mainly, I returned because my bank goofed me up and I had to return to solve the issue. But, you make me want to return. I miss the adventure.

[@nesadcruz7840]

Your options might be limited because though realtors might not tell you this, some landlords in Asia are picky about ethnic origin of tenants. Realtors will not show you units of such owners. Whether in Singapore, South Korea, Malaysia etc this happens. Look up the video Africans decry tenancy ban Malaysia on KZbin. I am just informing you of this if you don’t already know. This doesn’t apply to Air bnb I am guessing but rather rentals directly from owners through realtors.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you very much for sharing your insights and perspective. This is absolutely true and very obvious. Some will openly share their preferences, others will hint at it indirectly, and some just assume you’re none the wiser 🤡. This definitely happens-I’m speaking from experience! There are layers to it in KL, Malaysia, and most of the units I've seen owners are in China. It’s a systemic issue with unnecessary hurdles they expect you to jump through for their average apartments. Honestly, if it’s overly complicated, count me out. It’s just not worth it for what they’re offering.

[@nesadcruz7840]

@ You are welcome. Just putting the info out there. Not from personal experience but what I have heard as a Malaysian from my expat friends and also realtors as I am a landlord myself though not in KL.The Chinese owners you refer to might be local. There is a big local Chinese population in Malaysia who are fourth, even fifth generation. But there are also what is called PRC Chinese( from the Mainland) investors and Singaporean Chinese investors who run Air bnb businesses in KL. Possibly you could have viewed apartments from all of these groups . I would say this view of landlords isn’t limited to East Asians but is more prevalent amongst them possibly as they make up the larger group of landlords. Have you sorted out your accommodation now?

[@QueenofDC]

I meant the owners are reportedly based in China, or at least that’s where you’re wiring your money. Who knows where they actually are, but that’s where your money is being sent and where they claim the owner is located. Yes, I'm good on my accommodations now 😊.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you for shedding light on this and breaking down the details. I’m piecing things together from my own research and experience, and I truly appreciate your insights and knowledge of the market and area.

[@nesadcruz7840]

@ then they are mainland Chinese most likely.

[@trace3254]

Even when they say they've cleaned and sanitized, I'm still a bit apprehensive because I always wonder if they are using the same sponge or towels that they use on kitchen sink to clean the bathroom. Or vice versa . I always take my lysol wipes. Or something.

[@QueenofDC]

That's the truth!! Wipe it down yourself because they didn't clean it like you would or hire your own to monitor. I expect a fresh and clean place when I move into a new spot. I’ve learned that’s not always the norm here. They’ll do a quick wipe and spray, but the rest is up to you. Still, if I’m paying a hefty upfront fee and signing a lease, certain things should be in order. They do not care 😩! When I brought up painting, the lady was like, “Paint?! Paint? What do you mean?” 😂🤣 Ma’am, look at that dingy wall-come on now. She even mentioned that Americans tend to have higher standards. Well, yeah-when I’m paying my money, I expect clean and fresh. Geesh.

[@che7001]

@@QueenofDC I heard that! It’s so funny, those same people would have a fit if they were given a dirty place to rent. I’ll have to view the property before any funds change hands.

[@QueenofDC]

You absolutely better review the property before transferring the money. Once they have the money, there's no incentive for them to do anything and negotiations are over. Yes, the same people talking noise same ones wouldn't want a dirty dingy raggedy place but then again some people are just nasty 🤣😂low vibrational types so they may accept mediocrity.

[@SeanOfSeattle]

I live in the Ampang area. No problems. Grab is good BUT if they go to the wrong location they will still charge 3 ringitts.

[@QueenofDC]

Cool! Glad you're enjoying your neighborhood with no problems. Grab here is funny. I just know to give myself plenty of time depending on where I'm going.

[@khadijahwashington168]

It’s been 2 months of abroad living . . I am finally some place for 2 weeks . . The thinking exhaustion is real. . I just booked for a little over a month. It’s a process Facebook groups would recommend places to stay that are $150- $200. I get they think everyone is on vacation but nope I am staying an awhile . . It’s alot of planning . . WiFi issues , food availability, seaside versus beachfront, cleaning standards , things you have to think about . Places with no outside lights . . Like Pitch Black at 7 pm. .

[@QueenofDC]

Preach!! 🙌🏽 You feel me. It's definitely a process, and the exhaustion from constant decision-making is so real. Booking a place for over a month sounds like a good move to give yourself some stability and breathing room. I always say that about travel Facebook group recommendations-those are vacation budgets, going back home to recoup my money suggestions 😩😂. When you’re staying longer or living in a place, you have to factor in so much so we can't do $100 per night. Constantly making decisions can be draining, which is why I often tell people, Don’t ask me for recommendations or things to do-you pick; I’m tired. Sounds like you’re starting to figure out what works best for you and find your rhythm. Enjoy your month stay 🎊 and wishing you happy travels with ease ✈️💕!!

[@khadijahwashington168]

@ exactly . . I have some weeks to sit and when I want to go enjoy parts of Zanzibar I do. . It’s so tropical and beautiful Or just watch Tv and enjoy AC and an audible. Asia is on my list 2025

[@QueenofDC]

Very nice and relaxing!! It's on my list to visit 🥰. I love doing a bunch of nothing which is very much something.

[@PowerEnglish4ForeignExecs]

why not try house sitting globally. granted you may have to water owner's plants or walk the dog. However, the accommodations can be much better.

[@QueenofDC]

Thanks! Not into cleaning up dog poop 💩 and don’t like cats 😆. Just watering plants and housesitting without animal responsibility is rare, as I used to be a member, and it’s just not for me unless I know the people. I have several friends who have been successful doing it.

[@edrisd.1285]

Don't cry for me, Argentina, or don't cry for me, Malaysia! I'm in Airbnb Hell in France. The French even need help finding housing. You need a long Dossier in France, and they offer a one-year lease furnished and a three-year lease unfurnished. The French don't care how much money you have in the bank. They only want to know if you have a French job and apartment insurance. Also, European apartments have only a washer or a combo washer and dryer, which is a dryer that really leaves your clothes damp. Other countries are old-school and use clothes lines to dry clothes.

[@QueenofDC]

@@edrisd.1285 Thanks for sharing your insights and experience. I’m familiar with French housing… Sorry for you 😩.

[@lindc1070]

If you are renting anywhere there are challenges. At least it is so much cheaper than Singapore and many other big cities. I used to be Malaysian and now am Singaporean. For short term rentals obviously you need to pay more , same in Singapore and most other Asian cities.

[@QueenofDC]

You wrote that like I don’t understand the basics. I know there are challenges, and I’m fully aware this isn’t Singapore or other big cities-which I’ve lived in and never had have to go through this rigmarole. Of course, you pay more for shorter terms, but that’s not my issue. I’m talking about KL, where I’m learning their system and process for how they do things, and that’s where my frustration lies. It’s not just the price-it’s also about navigating the systems and standards that can make it unnecessarily complicated. And we’re not talking about a penthouse in Manhattan-their units aren’t even at that caliber for the complexity they present.

[@lindc1070]

@QueenofDC you do sound like you dont know the basics of how things work in Malaysia. FYI i have 2 condo units rented out in Malaysia and 4 in Singapore. In our part of the world deposits and leases are required even for short term leases of 6 months. Landlords are especially wary of foreign tenants who might just up and leave, with damage that isnt paid for. This isnt DC or the US. Just because you dont understand it doesnt mean its complicated .

[@QueenofDC]

Whatever... I said what I said. Get off my page if you can't accept differing perspective but what you not go do is come to my page and try to check me because you don't like what I said. Poof puff be gone!

[@lindc1070]

​@@QueenofDCit is you who cant accept a differing opinion. Dont worry I am out of here and why.dont you just leave Malaysia since you have so many complaints about accomodation. You wont be missed.

[@che7001]

@@QueenofDC I concur with you Queen. I also appreciate you sharing your personal experiences. Thank you.

[@disableddivatravels]

I got catfished in an Airbnb in Hurgadah and in Paris. It was unbelievable

[@QueenofDC]

It’s so frustrating when a place doesn’t match the listing-it can really throw off your plans. As much time and effort as we put into this process, it's frustrating. In 2025, our future stays will be smooth and drama-free! 🙏🏽

[@SeanOfSeattle]

I had a huge problem with mosquitoes in my unit. I loved leaving the windows opened. DUHHHHHHHHHH😅 closed the windows and had no problem. Maintenance also sprayed

[@QueenofDC]

The spoiled bologna drain smell is a common issue in many places. With my sensitive nose, it always hits hard. However, in well-maintained spots, I’ve never experienced any major problems.

[@SeanOfSeattle]

@QueenofDC SO ITS JUST NOT MY BUILDING😂🤣😅 I was raising hell when I moved in and I tried so hard for the black American in me to not come out on these people. The smell comes and goes and this is a fairly new building.

[@QueenofDC]

Yes, it's in the newer buildings too. They need some bleach or something. The more it rains the more it smells in places. It doesn't even phase them the realtor said it's because you have to fill the drain with water. Ma'am... ok LOL!

[@inquisitive4928]

You are hysterical!! I feel you when it comes to telling people what you want, and you get the opposite. WT?!

[@QueenofDC]

She hit me with the bait and switch. Get on lady ain't nobody got time to be playing with you. Shady realtors are the worse! Like I'm BooBoo the fool.

[@Yasin_Affandi]

Oh dear, hope that you have managed to find a most suitable place to stay in KL, Malaysia, despite all the challenges.

[@QueenofDC]

A pure bonafide mess right 🤣😂😩HAHAHA! I'm good now but Geezuz take the wheel as we say at home. Good grief Charlie Brown, I'm tired LOL!! Thank you ❤️.

[@Yasin_Affandi]

@QueenofDC I do understand what you've gone through, it's like a long process, sometimes like going through a long & windy roads. That's exactly what I've gone through in Mumbai, looking for the most suitable apartment to stay, from the dozens of apartments that I've visited. Luckily, I had a good landlord, a good neighbor, in a good location. However, being in Mumbai, wherever you are, you can't escape the noise pollutions coming from the motorists, and it happened that the strategic location of my apartment that is closeby the main road, attracted lots of traffics, hmm, hehe. I hope that you are settling in comfortably now in KL. 😁

[@kitty_s23456]

@@Yasin_Affandi hi, how is/ was Mumbai? Is it safe for a solo female traveller? How about the rest of India? TIA.

[@Yasin_Affandi]

@kitty_s23456 Mumbai wasn't my cup of tea, I had to work there for 3 years. I'm not too comfortable to say yes for a solo female traveling in India, however, I would advise you to check out the safety issues on the places you intend to visit. 😁

[@kitty_s23456]

@Yasin_Affandi thnx for the info! Yeah, based on what I've read, India is not entirely safe for female travellers but there are areas which can be safe.

[@SeanOfSeattle]

YESSSSSSSSSS ! ITS THE MEN WHO CLEAN.

[@QueenofDC]

Ok, you see it too. It’s something I’ve noticed, especially here in Malaysia.

[@jerryG-p3w]

I lived all over Asia for a total of five years. I can’t handle the noise. It’s too much in every country. The poor construction of even the nice buildings is not enough for me. Also, the constant staring at you all the effing time and being charged way more for everything even though you know the price gets to be exhausting. I’m glad I’m able to fly away like a bird anytime i feel like it. My American passport equals freedom and I thank god for it. Countries like the PI are a literal prison for the poor there.

[@QueenofDC]

Thanks for sharing your perspective! I completely understand how the noise, poor construction, and constant staring can be draining, especially if you’re sensitive to it. Vietnam is definitely loud and busy, but I love it 😆-maybe because I’ve lived in a noisy city my entire life. At night, though, it’s much calmer, which helps. I’m also grateful for the freedom my passport gives me. This lifestyle is a journey, and I’m happy to have the flexibility to flow with it, just like you said-being able to pick up and leave whenever I choose.

[@KayDejaVu]

Good to know. I am looking at Singapore and MExico.

[@jerryG-p3w]

@ Singapore is crazy expensive and super duper crowded.

[@jajones431]

Planning has been the least of my worries aside from coordinating the dates to ensure they align. It's great to suggest recommendations of cities and countries to visit; however, when it comes to accommodations everyone's expectations are just not the same 🤔

[@QueenofDC]

@@jajones431I understand, but it’s ultimately up to each individual to research the information shared. It’s no different from watching KZbin videos to gather ideas and recommendations. I appreciate being presented with options while you share your suggestions, and I’ll do my own research.

[@arivfotomoto3642]

If you think Grab is expensive (which they can be), try alternatives like Bolt or AirAsia plus some other. I tried Bolt, they have discounts, they don't have many cars yet, but if you're not in a rush, they're okay.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you very much for your helpful tips and information. You are correct! I've been using Bolt as the alternative and it's been less expensive than Grab. Used them in Thailand and reactivated here and got a great promotional discount. Appreciate you sharing ☺️.

[@kitty_s23456]

Hi Queen. In many places in Asia, if they don't have the combo was her-dryer, they'll have a washer only (with spin dryer inside). They'll dry their clothes on the balcony (drying rack) or outdoors in the sun. In some countries, electricity is expensive so they'd rather save on electricity by air drying. Re: lease, are you allowed to lease for, let's say 6 months, if your visa for Malaysia is only 3 months? I've heard that you can get an extension for another 3 months, then some immigration officers will frown if you get a 2nd extension (making your total stay 9 months). Malaysia wants foreigners staying long term to get the digital nomad visa or the MM2H visa, both of which have financial requirements. Btw, have you tried Penang or Cameron/ Genting Highlands? Safe travels.

[@QueenofDC]

@@kitty_s23456 Thank you for sharing your insights and guidance! I understand about the washing machines, but in Malaysia, the places I stay typically have a washer and dryer. Since I don’t always have a balcony, having a dryer is essential for my longer stays. In Thailand, I’m fine hanging my clothes on a rack or balcony, but in KL, I prioritize places with dryers. If I’m on a lease, I’m paying for electricity anyway, so it works for me. As for leases, visa discussions aside, the key factor is money. They’re not offering six-month leases-you’re looking at a year minimum, though some might negotiate down to nine months. Every realtor or owner is different, and securing a lease for less than a year can be challenging. It’s not a straightforward process, but if you have the money to invest, it’s manageable. Money allows you to lease. And yes, I absolutely enjoyed my time in Penang-it was wonderful! 🥰 Thank you for tuning in and for your support-I truly appreciate it!

[@kitty_s23456]

@QueenofDC Hi Queen, I'm glad that you enjoyed Penang. Have you tried Cambodia? Siem Reap (tourist town), Phnom Penh (city) & Kampot (beach) are the main tourist & expat zones. In SR, I've seen from vids that some landlords accept 6 months lease. Some even accept 3 months! (vlogger "Nan with a backpack" was able to get a 3-month lease). However, you said you're a city girl so PP might work better for you. Rents are higher in PP, though. I've been to SR & PP on vacays. I liked SR more - but then I'm not a big city person. I suggest you try visiting both, and Kampot too! The channels of "For Real" and "Itchy Feet" give good info abt Cambodia. Once inside Cambodia, one can get a "business"/ retirement visa for 3, 6 or 12 months - just use an agency. Cheers & safe travels.

[@QueenofDC]

@ Hi!! I’ve visited both major cities in Cambodia and, while it was a great trip and I enjoyed exploring, I have no interest in living there. I’m in no rush to settle into a lease or force myself to stay anywhere. Moving from place to place can be frustrating and exhausting, but thankfully, I have options. This journey has been a learning experience, and I’m taking all that knowledge with me as I move forward. 🥰 Thank you so much for the suggestions and all the helpful details-I really appreciate it!

[@kitty_s23456]

@QueenofDC I understand. Cambodia is not for everyone. if you're still in Malaysia by April or May (hot months), I recommend Genting or Cameron Highlands because they're cooler/ high elevation. Have you been to the Philippines? If not yet, then I'd recommend Baguio city (for April or May) because it's also cooler/ high elevation. It's also near to the town of San Juan, La Union province = it's a beach town (good for a few days getaway = you might get bored if long term since you're a city girl). If in Manila, I recommend the area of BGC (but only for a few days or 1 week then move to another place). BGC is modern but pricier than other areas. Other tourist/ expat places are the cities of Cebu, Dumaguete, Iloilo and Roxas. Cebu & Dumaguete cities have lots of older expats (men). Good luck. Happy researching & safe travels! 🌻

[@QueenofDC]

@kitty_s23456 Thank you for all the wonderful suggestions!! Noted for sure as I research the areas. Appreciate your thoughtfulness and wealth of information as I've never been to the Philippines 🇵🇭 .

[@SeanOfSeattle]

I ALWAYS ignore the channels with people saying $300 a month stay and their mouth is opened as though they are saying wow in the thumbnail picture. They are full of shite and it's click bait.

[@QueenofDC]

🤣😂🤣It's definitely click bait because they never tell you to get this price you have to sign a one year lease. Thus, upfront money is required.

[@SeanOfSeattle]

@@QueenofDC and they are usually passing through.

[@WA_Rior.Artist]

Agota? What's the Airbnb alt you mentioned?

[@kenya9540]

Hello, Where do you stay for the three month break? Have you decided on a permanent home base? Would you live in Vietnam permanently?

[@QueenofDC]

Greetings! I travel to the places that interest me, I don't have a set location. I’m not particularly drawn to having a permanent home base. I tend to change my mind often and prefer to avoid the commitment. I enjoy living in Vietnam, but I don’t see myself staying there permanently. There are so many other places I want to explore and experience before considering anything permanent.

[@Aba_Ifeoma]

I'm with you regarding the suburbs. No thanks!

[@QueenofDC]

🤣😂What is I'm go do out there?!? 🤷🏽‍♀️ Not to live long term, I can't do it.

[@trace3254]

Queen, please reach out to fellow KZbinr Andrew Taylor. He's lived there for years and has contacts. Maybe he can help.

[@QueenofDC]

@@trace3254 Thank you so much for the suggestion! I truly appreciate your thoughtfulness and the tip. Navigating this housing market is tough-it’s a grueling process, especially since many owners aren’t even local, so you really have to stay sharp in this game.

[@MACOO7.]

Its so frustrating, feel your pain.. I won't ever use Air BNB for shorterm.. Marriot have apartment leases, they look very good for short term, ill definately use them on my arrival to KL, just had a thought what about using or talking with relocation companies? surely they have good relationships with owners/estate agent?

[@QueenofDC]

Marriott’s apartment leases sound like a great option for short-term stays, especially for peace of mind. I’m not new here, though this is a new experience for me, so I’m not interested in using a relocation service. However, I think it’s a great option for newcomers or those with a different mission or timeline. I really appreciate you sharing these suggestions-they’ll definitely help others! For me, my rule of thumb is simple: when something becomes too complicated, it’s not for me, and I’m perfectly fine with that. I’m not in a rush or desperate either. With the ridiculous terms some places come with, you’d think we were talking about a penthouse in Manhattan! I set out to explore the housing market here and gained valuable insight into how it works. There are decent realtors around, and I’ve met a few, but one key takeaway is that they don’t work for you-you’ll need to have your own attorney ready to review all contracts before signing. I can take it or leave it. There are so many other options waiting for me! ☺️

[@MACOO7.]

@@QueenofDC love it ‘it’s a journey’ your an inspiration… ☀️

[@che7001]

@@QueenofDC you go girl!

[@solo.life.travels7215]

One thing about airbnb, the host don't want those bad reviews, so they will surely refund you. My cousin had an air full of roaches in Atlanta, they refunded her asap

[@QueenofDC]

She had an army of roaches ready to party!! So glad I caught them before going to bed because they were coming OUT! Nah, just refund me my money, no way I'm staying here. Rolled out at 2am 😂🤣.

[@solo.life.travels7215]

@QueenofDC i know that's right🤣🤣🤣😂😂‼️

[@QueenofDC]

😂🤣😂 🧳🎒

[@SilWilson]

⁠@@QueenofDC😂😂

[@QueenofDC]

🤣😂🤣Roaches say GET OUT!!! You don't have to worry bout me HAHAHA!

[@gg13308]

I hope you updated the airbnb comments /reviews to let future people know they had roaches there..yuck..sad. …yes she knew they had /roaches…

[@QueenofDC]

Yes, after you cancel your reservation, Airbnb sends you a link to leave a review, which is good. That entire building got to have roaches. It's a wrap for me!

[@che7001]

True That

[@Sunshine-zi4nq]

Are you on the Digital Nomad visa or social visit pass?

[@QueenofDC]

Tourist Visa

[@iantawashington-allotey9913]

Are you able to use your credit card or do you have to have cash or their currency?

[@QueenofDC]

You can use your credit card and local currency.

[@keangwooichoo6138]

I see. I never knew that. How about 6 months?

[@QueenofDC]

Now you know 😩. Nope they have no interest in doing 6 month leases. The most one lady would entertain is 9 months.

[@keangwooichoo6138]

@QueenofDC no wonder American (new yorker) Mr ben fishermen rent monthly only. We locals have no idea about rental / long term issues faced by travellers. However, you may try to talk to another American expat living on mm2h long term visa Mr andrew Taylor. He lived in DC(like you) but grew up in florida. He knows many agents and maybe able to help pull some strings

[@QueenofDC]

For me, it’s the system here that stands out. After dealing with a few less-than-ideal agents, you can eventually find a decent one-but it’s important to remember that agents work for the owner. Even if you’re referred to someone, you’ll still have to navigate the process, and every owner operates differently. The best advice I can give is to build your own “dream team,” with a lawyer being the most crucial member, as not everyone operates with integrity. It’s been a valuable learning experience, and I’m sharing these lessons to help others understand that securing housing here often comes with more challenges than you might expect.

[@JamesBondEsq.]

This is why I 1) Only travel 4 months a year and 2) Take my happy @$$ straight to Park Hyatt or JW Marriott when I'm on the road. I'm not bougie. My tastes are quite simple---I want the best! 😂

[@QueenofDC]

😂🤣I usually have a go-to spot, but I decided to explore the neighborhoods and do a little research-bad timing during the holiday season. I ended up getting caught in the web 😩. Live and learn-now I’m more knowledgeable about the process.

[@PatJohn-d8t]

Everthing you said is the same in the usa.

[@QueenofDC]

Nah, I disagree based on my experience. I’ve never encountered issues like this with an apartment lease-it’s usually pretty straightforward. I get that this is a different country with a different process, but I’ve never dealt with leases that have terms this unusual or outrageous.

[@Retired-jr3qs]

Well you are certainly a fellow native Washingtonian. I grew up in DC near the Shrimp Boat. I retired 5 years ago at 57 years old. Life is great. Enjoy your channel.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you and Congratulations 🎊🎈!! The Shrimp Boat is a staple 🥰 and I'm glad to hear you're enjoying your retirement. Appreciate your support happy you enjoy the channel!

[@keangwooichoo6138]

I heard Airbnb sucks

[@QueenofDC]

You heard right 😩! Airbnbs in the city can be such a gamble-you never know what you’re walking into. The suburbs tend to have better options in terms of accommodations, but they’re not exactly budget-friendly considering how far they are from the city center. Still, they’re usually a step up from the unpredictable city listings.

[@keangwooichoo6138]

@QueenofDC pudu and ampang area are very near downtown. Can consider.

[@QueenofDC]

Thank you! I’ve already tried those areas and found they’re not a good fit for me.

[@Aba_Ifeoma]

Something strange is happening with your likes. When I hit play, you had 49 likes. 14 minutes in and you are down to 37. I'm watching the likes go backwards...

[@QueenofDC]

Thanks for letting me know! KZbin often experiences glitches and usually updates us once the issue is resolved. That might be the case today.