Kurt Cobain’s Mother Wendy Passes Away At 74 | Her Reaction To Kurt’s Passing

On April 5, this month, France’s bean cobain took to instagram to post a tribute to her father Kurt. in the instagram post she wrote “30 years ago my dad’s life ended. The 2nd & 3rd photo capture the last time we were together while he was still alive,” Frances Bean Cobain began before sharing a story about how her grandmother say that her hands resembled her rock star father’s hands. The first photo in Frances Bean Cobain's Instagram post is a photo of her father's hands taken by Michael Stipe.
“His mom Wendy would often press my hands to her cheeks & say, with a lulling sadness, ‘You have his hands’. She would breathe them in as if it were her only chance to hold him just a little bit closer, frozen in time,” she wrote. “I hope she’s holding his hands wherever they are.” An obituary posted, shows that Wendy passed away on June 5, 2021.
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[@gloomgirl]

Wendy did pass away on June 5, 2021 in Sedona at the home of her daughter Kim. She died of breast cancer 🤍

[@lanovia3838]

3 years ago? I thought she died several months ago

[@knowsnotwhatitmeans]

Save Travels

[@mjmartn]

I’m guessing the family wisely kept it under wraps, knowing from experience how much hate mail they’d receive otherwise.

[@danielhall-wl4ql]

likes are on 27 i cant hit it and mess that up , thats weird

[@ChristinaSpringsteen-on5vm]

RIP Wendy

[@EdwinHernandez0001]

She kicked him out of his house at the lowest part of his life. I've been there before, and so has thousands and thousands of youths around the world" it sucks!!!! Something In The Way "🎸🕊

[@garytaylor-ty6xt]

True comment bro 🇬🇧 👍

[@desolategrey]

Did not know this until recently ......thank you Wendy for the gift you bore this world

[@Badha78]

Now they are together again. 🙏

[@The_Crow78.]

Oh don't worry, she will deny and ignore her own son. Just as she always did when he was alive.

[@plawl05a]

@@The_Crow78. D***, not the time or place for that.

[@PitBullPlaysGames]

@@The_Crow78. who cares

[@letitbe3625]

​@@PitBullPlaysGamesWhy didn't you say "who care" why used "cares"

[@NovChivon]

BS...kurt was murdered by a man that courtney paid to do it & kurt's mum sided with courtney believing her son killed himself

[@rockrealmm]

For those who are confused, Frances referred to Wendy in the past tense in her instagram post. “I hope she’s holding his hands wherever THEY are.” a few obituaries I found looking up Wendy’s maiden name show her death as June 5, 2021. It was kept quiet as she’s not very famous and slipped under the radar.

[@grungegods]

If I'm wrong my apologies but I just don't see every other youtube channel & every media organization/journalist missing this 😕

[@rockrealmm]

@@grungegods I thought that too.

[@joleneloveland4602]

Wendy remarried (and divorced) so O'Connor was her new married name after Cobain.

[@thebellakittylove]

Too bad Wendy didn't spill the beans on everything she knew about Courtney having her son killed. I get that Wendy was afraid of Courtney and wanted to continue to be taken care of by Courtney with a new house and whatnot, but Wendy should have spoke up on her death bed at the least to try and get justice for her son Kurt. Why would she not do that?

[@Digital_Artz]

@@thebellakittylove Because it's not true. Try looking at the facts, not the BS put out there by those who haven't done a proper investigation including the originator who took advantage of the situation because he needed money and stood feet from the body but couldn't find it - not a good look for an investigator. He had to do something to distract from his incompetence! He never gave a good reason why he didn't check the greenhouse, just ones that prove he's not a good investigator IMO. If he were any good, why hasn't he worked a ton of high-profile cases since? You'd think he would've been in high demand if he were any good. Why can't he get anyone that matters to agree, why doesn't he have evidence that the SPD could use either initially or when they reopened it? IMO, he wasn't a talented or even a decent investigator then or now, he was just a failing PI who had retired early from one of the most corrupt departments. The only reason CL hired him was because she was desperate. If she wasn't so panicked and was more clear-headed she might have realized that he was desperate too - he was the only one to pick up the phone that day since most don't work on Easter Sunday. The fact that he was about to go out of business before this case, was working Easter Sunday, and couldn't afford to pay the experts he hired after milking CL says a ton, especially when you include his performance, handling of the case, lies, and the way he treated the experts, cherry-picked the results then twisted it all for the documentary makes things pretty clear to me. I have looked at everything that those like you claim is evidence but NONE of it stands up. There is lots of twisted info and misinformation, most created by the originator of the claims which proves he can't be trusted - don't trust the grifter profiting from lies and using tragedies to scam unless you want to be misled! I recommend that you dig through everything yourself but you'll need to set your bias aside unless you want to continue being lied to. As an investigator, I've learned that to find answers, my goal has to be the truth. I attack my findings from all angles to make sure they will stand up to valid scrutiny, I try to debunk EVERYTHING so I know what I'm left with is the most likely answer. I have to stay open-minded while skeptical for all research and investigation - no matter the subject. If you go looking to prove something/a side, you can easily be swayed by bias and that is why we have people believing in something that there is no evidence for. If you want the truth, you can find it but if you want to believe in fantasy, you'll find plenty of grifters waiting to peddle lies. I prefer facts over fantasy. As always, I say provide me evidence for your claims but please don't bother with the BS that's already been debunked - give me something real!

[@josevillarreal9920]

Kurt knew his daughter was the good that came out of it all. You can see it in his eyes he was a very proud father.

[@piaparadis1253]

I don't know how this was not reported on the news or the blogs or any music channels! I had no idea Wendy passed.I am certain she is with her baby boy, Kurt and he is finally together in his mother's loving arms, safe and secure. May God bless them both and may they rest in peace. Love from Paris, Pia Paradis ✝

[@melissamissingchriscornell2513]

Not only her hands. Francis looks just like her father, but with her Mom's nose (both pre-surgery). It's so sad to think how a lot of us knew Kurt more than his own daughter ever will. You can tell she suffers growing up without & never knowing her father, & rightly so. My father abandoned us when I was 5, & it sucks to never have had the love, guidance, & protection from what a father should provide.

[@candicelewis1785]

And she never had a mother . Wendy raised her why she was out doing drugs. I don't think frances really even talks to her mom anymore.

[@DouglasRichardson-er4ky]

... fathers are a dime a dozen, even present, not all are DADS 🤷🏻‍♂️ best wishes to all who pulled themselves from difficult beginnings and those that have fallen RIP 🥀

[@Marcus-hb9ll]

If only Kurt could be alive today to see how beautiful his daughter has become

[@CleoHarperReturns]

Wendy nailed the feelings of depression/anxiety disorders. Her gentle words are part of her legacy and I hope more people heed them. You can't be angry at people with these disorders any more than you can be angry at someone with diabetes or cancer. I'm fifty and I can't believe I made it this far. The only helpful change in thirty years has been my own crawling out of toxicity and into a healthier emotional support system. Did it take away all those feelings? No. But it makes the load bearable. I'm so sorry Kurt didn't have the time to find this for himself. And I'm terribly sorry that Wendy didn't get the chance to be there for him when he was ready -- but I'm glad she understood; it surely gave her more comfort while she was living. This is it, people. Everything we do matters. Be good to your loved ones now while you can. All life is an emergency.

[@danielhall-wl4ql]

im 48 and truly hate myself because I dont have the balls to end it, all I think about yet here I sit, just horrible to always feel the same, my own father is embarrassed by it , tells everyone im just strung out on meth, man truly needs his mother in his life, or I do anyway, but her suffering ended many years ago.

[@danielhall-wl4ql]

she didnt take her life , she had a big heart and thats what killed her, enlarged I guess

[@CleoHarperReturns]

@@danielhall-wl4ql I am so sorry, Daniel. It sucks when the people who are supposed to love us the most are the same people who guided us into misery in the first place. It's even worse when the one who did love and support you is no longer. For me, it was my father. You just don't get over that, especially if it happened at a young age. It cements who you are and can leave you stuck in one spot, as if someone poured that cement on your shoes. But I've learned (recently) that while it's a part of who you are, it doesn't have to be all of you. You can't remove it from your person. You have to make room for that pain somewhere in your soul or it will consume you. You *must* find a nontoxic support system. I'm sorry but I have to say this about your father: Fuck that guy. You're his son and you're clearly in pain. He's supposed to help you, and listen to you. Instead he judges your vulnerabilities and then betrays you by heralding his decree to others. That fucking disgusts me. I'm so angry for you. I can't tell you not to end it because it's a hollow, boiler plate statement that helps no one. Only you can make that decision; I can't tell you not to do it. But I can honestly say: I Don't Want You To Do It. Whether the world is a better place with you in it or not, all I know is that it CAN be. If you don't give up on yourself. I'd be irresponsible if I didn't say you need to get the hell away from toxic people. If there's no one left that feels like a safe place, just walk in somewhere that's held professionally accountable and say, "I need help." Don't complicate things with a plan. It'll only overwhelm you; there'll be a greater chance that you won't do it. You can't keep feeding that bad wolf, Daniel. It feeds upon your misery. I'm not a religious person so to say I'm praying for you would be disingenuous. But I'm out here, keeping you in my thoughts and wanting a good life for you. I want you in this world, man. Feel free to contact me if ever you need to. I'll try not to sleep so late next time.💜

[@Bubble3320_]

Im so sorry ​@@danielhall-wl4ql

[@jeremyshanemcgowan5949]

Wendy said it herself. Kurt was never diagnosed. Personally, I believe it was the large amount of heroin he used which caused his depressive episodes

[@jessferrell9479]

I suffer from generalized anxiety & severe panic attacks. It’s like being trapped in my own personal hell. Depression, anxiety runs on both sides of my family. Sometimes the brightest, smartest most artistic people suffer from depression. He also had an extremely traumatic childhood. Hopefully he’s at peace now. You’ll never be forgotten Kurt.

[@ariente]

didn't need to know that kid

[@candicelewis1785]

Didn't need to know what?

[@margaretwebb389]

Out of pain, becomes art!! A healthy way of expressing, but wait…. Here comes the drugs

[@frankie3791]

I'm with you! I'm well above average intelligence. I regularly pick up books and finish them a few hours later. I'm a Songwriter, Poetry, Novels, Excel at Sports with phenomenal memory, Strong and tough yet Anxiety and Panic attacks have held me back my entire life. It can make the simplest things quite a struggle and seem insurmountable, Even Travel, making plans, Family gatherings or a work day can be terrifying and crippling for most people in my condition.... We all tell ourselves a story to make ourselves feel this way and it's time to tell ourselves a better story!

[@ariente]

@@candicelewis1785 Everyone has problems don't go around sharing them like they're pokemon cards. Keep it to yourself and get help, don't go to youtube comments to share em.

[@ChristinaSpringsteen-on5vm]

Frances just wants to have a life with her husband and no drama

[@benallmark9671]

Can’t blame her one bit.

[@jeremyshanemcgowan5949]

Until you hear what her ex husband has to say about her and her mother.

[@benallmark9671]

@@jeremyshanemcgowan5949 what did they say ?

[@MadumBerr]

Frances just posted a happy heavenly mothers day on her reel todat for Wendy

[@EdmundSampson-pd7vi]

Its so odd that Frances calls them kurt and Courtney, instead of Mom and Dad at the end

[@aisle_of_view]

She always called her Courtney, even when she was a kid. A friend owned a clothing store and the two would come in and she'd hear them bantering.

[@EdmundSampson-pd7vi]

@@aisle_of_view I sense her mother and her don't have a very solid bond

[@The_Crow78.]

@@EdmundSampson-pd7vi no one can have a bond with Courtney. Everyone she ever dated ended up dumping her with hate.

[@EdmundSampson-pd7vi]

@@The_Crow78. Eric , is that you?

[@KCFarms910]

@@EdmundSampson-pd7viit can’t rain all the time

[@candicelewis1785]

Depression is horrible. I've suffered with it for close to 20 years and there have been many of times that I didn't want to be here anymore. Wendy is right when she says because of his depression that she is not mad at him. Unless you have mental illnesses like depression/etc. you don't know what it is like to live with it everyday. It is not a good feeling to feel like there is no other way out.

[@jeremyshanemcgowan5949]

Yeah but Kurt caused his depressive episodes by heavy heroin use. That should justify any anger towards him.

[@sambatal]

RIP. We should thank her for giving birth to him. Kurt was special.

[@grungeisdead8998]

Yeah and for making Kurt homeless at 18 years old

[@dewilew2137]

@@grungeisdead8998 He was never homeless. He was also an adult. No one is obligated to have their adult children live with them. Grow up. 🙄

[@grungeisdead8998]

@@dewilew2137he was kicked out of her house and basically left him to his own devices because he quit school and didn’t get a job exactly when she wanted him to, he was couch surfing and would sleep in libraries and hospital waiting rooms to keep warm for at least a year before he moved in with Tracy.. like you said parents aren’t obligated to take care of their adult children however doesn’t make that story any less true and it also shines a light on how rejected Kurt felt not even his own mother wanted him once he became old enough for her to cut him loose she did without worrying about a safety net

[@gloomgirl]

I don’t think anyone here is claiming she was ‘mother of the year’ but she got married at 17 and had him at 19…mistakes were made but she deserves to rest in peace and to no longer be vilified

[@deathrowlemon7367]

@@dewilew2137please never procreate.

[@theseattlegreen1871]

This is the first time I am hearing about Kurt Cobain's mother's death.How did she die so many years ago and I had no idea?

[@thtsnico]

she had breast cancer. was kept very private

[@gloomgirl]

She was with Kim in Sedona. The family didn’t want anyone to know…

[@dewilew2137]

Because she’s not your family, and it’s really none of our business? She never asked to be famous.

[@djwalkerfemaledj]

Some

[@deathrowlemon7367]

“So many years”. It’s barely 3 years.

[@brett8074]

oh woww, really appreciate the honesty

[@maryoconnor9360]

Kurt was sensitive and depressed for a reason. He was physically ill because of it and his lifestyle Sure he had issues with with his father but he was unindated with the pressures that fame brings ,and to stop the world and get off to just lead a normal life for awhile after he had ' made it ' was becoming almost impossible due to money hungry people.He had a huge Heroin addiction, a narcissistic , manipulative wife riding his coattails and felt paranoid and like giving up at times because of her need for personal success and lots of fame and money as well as her ongoing infidelity and her need to control Kurt by surrounding Kurt with the most horrible self serving people who were controlled by her. No one arround him had the patience and love to want to take the time to truly help the guy as she portrayed him as a big pain in the butt due to her herion habit and due to his drug use and ill health. And she told him that and said things to make him small. etc. No one in their circle wanted to listen to him and to truly love him. He had problems yes . After years of not knowing anything realy about his death I came upon this 25 years later with fresh eyes. Very fresh ,in fact. He could have solved those problems and you can see in his eyes and hear in his voice the strong will to live and to raise his child . He knew he could . He wanted to be a family man and wished to have the family he never had. It doesnt take an expert in all the new developments in forensic science and psychology, and homocideto become familiar with the overwhelming documented evidence and interviews and ALL the weird facts of his death to come to the conclusion this case should be reopened. I have become so tired of " Oh stop it ....!just let Kurt Rest in Peace " Yes of course Kurt should absolutely Rest in Peace but there are no conspiracy theories - only facts hidden away ready to be exposed, such as credible testimony by reputable people , and most importantly -;there is Justice to be served . Then Kurt would be able to truly rest in peace. One day it will be. When documented properly - Death bed confessions are just the best thing for complete closure

[@CLARISSAALLEN-ze8em]

We need to have the case of Kurt Cobain's death surely opened. You are so absolutely correct about the evidence and how many things DO NOT ADD UP & POINTS OUT THAT KURT COBAIN DID NOT COMMIT SUICIDE. EVERYONE PLEASE READ, "LOVE ,& DEATH 'BY IAN HAPERNIN & MR. WALLACE. PS.. I'M HERE IN SEATTLE... IS THERE ANY WAY WE CAN COME TOGETHER AND TO DO WHATEVER WE CAN TO SEE ABOUT HAVING THE CASE REOPENED TO FINALLY PROVE WHO ALL WAS INVOLVED IN TAKING KURT'S LIFE.

[@Wooley689]

That's sad, don't know how she carried on with life after Kurt went so tragically. I hope she didn't feel guilt.

[@7viewerlogic670]

Thanks for the video.

[@annmarieelliott6717]

God rest her soul. Amen 🙏

[@theseattlegreen1871]

I'm confused, so, Wendy cobain (Kurts mother) Died in June 2021? Why are we talking about her death now?

[@grungeisdead8998]

Yeah I didn’t know she died 3 years ago I thought she was still alive until I saw this video

[@theseattlegreen1871]

@@grungeisdead8998 I am still very confused.I even tried looking her up on wikipedia and I cannot find anything about her death

[@atlanteantruth]

I agree. Makes no sense whatsoever.

[@vushna8]

@@atlanteantruthit was kept under wraps intentionally. It had been rumored since the Fall that she passed away a few years ago, but nothing was confirmed until Bean’s post last month. She had cancer. I think the family didn’t want a bunch of media attention

[@dewilew2137]

Because no one knew about it. Obviously.

[@user-hn1el1ck7c]

RIP and we will see this Holy Mother again. We love You❤️

[@hickoryhippie]

Holy shit. I didn't expect her to be so insightful. I mean, that is some Camus - esq levels of reflecting on depression and anxiety. That panic... I actually wrote that down. No wonder Kurt wrote such great lyrics.

[@user-ds6ov8jr5n]

He should have been in major treatment. So tragic.

[@aisle_of_view]

So, she had Kurt when she was 18 or 19?That had to be hard, raising kids when she was barely a kid herself. At least she got to live her last years in beautiful Sedona.

[@ItsALLCAP]

News you didn't need to hear, because you're sad but now a little more... :(

[@Anson120]

I have severe treatment resistant clinical depression and many other mental health conditions. The worst most treatment resistant symptom is anhedonia/loss of interest. It is like having ALS of the brain. Anhedonia is the symptom that causes the vast majority of people to take other substances and/or do the "deed". You know what Mr.Cobain did. I was in a "death death" situation with TRD and only one reuptake inhibitor and a "controversial" substance is saving my life. I am still bad off ,but I am around 20% better. That is more than all the meds I tried so far. The substance is in the Rubiaceae family. Starts with and M.

[@Black-lq2pb]

Right there with you. Likely doing the deed after getting addicted to amphetamine, though.

[@grose2272]

Oh no guys this is so desperately sad😢😢😢

[@Lampy94]

How come when I search her name up on Google? It says that she is 76 years old I am so confused right now. Did Google not update her death or something?

[@NiueanHoney]

It was pretty quiet but we’ve had direct family confirm this to us through one of the groups I admin.

[@bichonmomr]

Google and other people finders says my ex is alive and well too. he died 13 years ago.

[@wandaclark5020]

❤ rest in peace

[@subliminalsgore]

I hope she and Kurt reunite i feel so bad for Fransis. i hope her pain wasnt long and that her and shes happy.

[@maryoconnor9360]

With all due respect - Kurt - as his friends and older relatives say that he was NOT close to his Mother. Kurt states himself that his relationship with his parents is what made him feel alone , depressed and misunderstood. This is sad. I only wish Frances would encourage the manner of death be changed to undetermined so the truth surrounding his death would finally come out Kurt just like everyone else ,deserves Justice. I pray she could do this. RIP KURT ❤️

[@RajHK8]

Thank you for Kurt Cobain.

[@jusme8525]

My gosh I didnt know.RIP

[@thaddeuswadzinski9806]

I had serious depression i lived in a nursing home its a depression that you can never get away from he had a lot of problems i think Kurt Cobain had borderline personality disorder if you study all the symptoms it fits

[@LEANNNTRAPPP]

you did a video about the drug struggles of Jerry Cantrell but would you do the same for Sean Kinney?

[@dewilew2137]

That long ago?! Oh man 😔

[@bichonmomr]

France’s paid tribute to Wendy in a mother’s day IG post thanking Wendy, calling her mom and referring to Kim her big sister, friend and aunty. Not a word of anything to Courtney, which speaks volumes. Yikes

[@aletnieuwoudt2717]

Shame it's so sad 😢

[@Bubble3320_]

Rest in peace

[@JanaLalewicz]

The question "Aren't u angry about Kurt taking the cheap way out...?"...What so many people don't get,and u CANT get it unless u have suffered from depression, they don't understand that it's anger we turn inward. We also are usually buried under a mountain of guilt & shame which we of course turn inward on ourselves as well. People ask us "why can't u just pull up your big boy britches & get on with it?!"....You think WE DONT ASK OURSELVES THAT MORE THAN YOU DO? Especially when we are not yet diagnosed. We DESPISE ourselves by the the time that end of the road comes so much we believe in our hearts that our wives,our husbands,our children would all be better off WITHOUT US! That the pain will end not just for us but for all our friends il& family as well. THAT IS WHY we don't think we are hurting anyone if we end our lives. We truly loathe ourselves. We don't believe we have anything to offer those around us because our worlds are soooo dark. Our perceptions are so fucked up,the way we think about the world is disturbed whether drugs are involved or not! It's very sad😢

[@Skrillon]

Damn I'm not far from Sedona. Wish I somehow could've visited her. R. I. P. You sweet wonderful lady.

[@marymoscardini5203]

Strange...if you look her up she's still alive and 76

[@PersonalityShifter]

I feel shitty...I didn't know she died

[@stephaniediaz7057]

I miss Kurt. I wish there was more help with depression. Wish I was able to before I became really deep. I take it day by day. It is sad but friends and family think you can just turn it off. I wish it was that easy. Kurt has a beautiful mom and they will be missed.

[@emilyustick3738]

That’s eerie. My grandmother passed on May 24th 2021 💔

[@southphillylilly]

What's eerie about it? What significance is May 24? His mother died last month, which was March.

[@rockrealmm]

his mother reportedly died in 2021 it was just kept quiet and was only announced this month.

[@dewilew2137]

That’s the complete opposite of “eerie”. Old people die. I could see being surprised at the coincidence if they died on the same day, but you think it’s “eerie” that they died the same year? Okay, and? Wendy, your grandma, and probably 20 million other people died that year. 🙄

[@mztweety1374]

The worst part is knowing that sometimes there’s nothing you can do…

[@stevestevens8749]

2021? So -- 27 years after her son?

[@nicholasgeoghan7338]

Why is the the word suicide bleeped out?

[@D-Fens_1632]

KZbin wants to protect you from thinking about scary things. That and they'd probably demonitize this guy's video.

[@nicholasgeoghan7338]

@@D-Fens_1632 that’s lame. On KZbin!

[@Teekay617]

The Jesus thing made me sad

[@tiffanypayne2086]

I like how Frances doesn't say 'mom & dad' lol 😊😂 whem talking about the monkey.

[@barbarasciortino3058]

Wendy did the best she could. Every parent does.

[@nicholasgeoghan7338]

I didn’t know Wendy had a tapestry of Jesus hanging in her house.

[@freebandz509]

😢😢

[@jamessnyder620]

Those pictures she posted are from October of 93. Francis saw her father for the last time at Exodus the day he left and flew back to Seattle.

[@johnlimpkin]

Once again, this guy had no intention of killing himself

[@johncollins211]

Yeah he did. That's why he shot himself.

[@The_Crow78.]

Someone did it to him. It is too obvious.

[@nirvana_veggiegirl]

@@johncollins211You can’t shoot yourself after taking that much heroin come on.

[@gloomgirl]

He shot himself with heroin then he shot himself with a (edit): 20 gauge shotgun . He committed suicide twice, 1000%! Stop with the conspiracy theories and allow him to rest in peace!! 🤍

[@BenCase88]

​@gloomgirl it wasn't a 22, it was a 20 guage hunting shotgun.

[@oldironsides4107]

Noooo! Not Wendy! Omg iomg omg omg omg omg gaaawd!

[@BrianPetone-tc7lw]

She’s not dead

[@alexisc1970]

This was very sweet. Except the narrator trying to sound like Kurt.

[@rockrealmm]

that’s my natural voice. Haven’t gotten that response before though lol

[@letitbe3625]

Is frances single?

[@bichonmomr]

no. happily married (October 2023) to Tony Hawk son Riley

[@letitbe3625]

@@bichonmomr im interested in her

[@Violeto777]

@@letitbe3625good luck getting that pal 🤣

[@F417H]

🌊

[@tiarabrown8468]

🕯️🕯️🕯️🕯️🌹

[@alejandroarevalo3712]

What zodiac sign was her?

[@margaretwebb389]

My comments are not showing!!! Why???

[@Digital_Artz]

Been having this same issue with every comment on YT, it appears to be sitewide. What I've found is that if it's deleted in the first few seconds, it's probably YT automatically deleting. These seem to disappear forever. If it lasts several seconds but deletes in the first minute, I think it may get sent to a holding area for creators to approve, I suspect these may be triggered by creator-specified words but I'm just speculating. Otherwise, IDK why they're sent to a hold while the instantaneously removed ones appear to be vaporized. Those that last several seconds do reappear occasionally but only if a creator monitors their holding pen AND approves. If they delete after that first minute, I think it may be the creator. This issue combined with the inability to easily view/track all of my own comments, the guessing game of why, and not knowing if they'll ever appear means I rarely bother now. I'd complain on Twitter but they won't listen to a nobody like myself.

[@D-Fens_1632]

Did you use the S word?

[@margaretwebb389]

@@Digital_Artz Sorry you’re having the same issues! Annoying

[@NRBrand]

Couple weeks ago I made a comment on a video and it disappeared. I checked my previously watched video and it was on that one instead. It may have been user error but i never do that kind of thing… weird

[@margaretwebb389]

@@NRBrand AI is bizarre!!!

[@peacockthemusicman2163]

Why the hell do you bleep out suicide?

[@MichaelWaisJr]

De-monetization issues. It’s really stupid.

[@TheErsatzMode]

Nothing to do with depression. He was murdered. The murderers continue to get away with murder while you people continue to believe their lies.

[@geracaocobain00]

❤

[@mickielynnsimmons5468]

Spot on and he didn't even like his mother

[@deadinthewater218]

Agreed

[@Crash184]

Kurt took his own life and bailed on his family weirdo. seek help.

[@Crash184]

@@mickielynnsimmons5468 how do you know? did he tell you that personally?

[@bradleybnelson391]

Well she can be with Kurt again and Dimebag Darrel’s Dad recently passed so he could help her on her transition

[@bradleybnelson391]

I dont mean any disrespect to anyone I just try to lighten situations I try to get a laugh I have been depressed and ive even unsuccessfully committed suicide That is one thing im glad i failed at I had to kill myself to learn that in that act it doesn’t stop the pain It transfers it to those who love you

[@ztkrx]

l hate when kids call their parents by name. it would’ve been so beautiful and probably meant the world to kurt, if she called him dad…cause that’s who he was, is her dad…not kurt.

[@tt-du6vc]

That brat hates Kurt

[@lintsay]

Why? She never knew him. If they’re your parents and you’re all adults, it does not matter what you call them, especially if you had a fraught relationship or no relationship. Plus I’m sure Kurt would have gotten a kick out of her calling him by his name, absolutely.

[@StONed-yx5qq]

Where was Courtney??????

[@vushna8]

Oddly they died a little over 27 years apart…

[@dewilew2137]

That’s not odd. Jesus Christ. 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@vushna8]

@@dewilew2137 stfu you pos. He died at 27 and she died 27 years later. Go crawl back in your hole you cuck

[@UrRandomKiwi]

@@vushna8They're right it isn't odd. Let her rest in piece tf

[@vushna8]

@@UrRandomKiwi How am I not letting her RIP? I didn’t post the video. I’ve also been correcting people in other comments. What a weird comment for you to make. Back to the basement you go.

[@vushna8]

@@UrRandomKiwi Anime character as your profile pic. I can’t take people like you seriously. Go fantasize some more.

[@sadderthanyou7793]

She knew Kurt was murdered, but she did nothing about it after Courtney Love threatened her.

[@gloomgirl]

He was not murdered. Stop and have some Respect

[@sadderthanyou7793]

@@gloomgirl He was murdered. Maybe have some respect for Kurt before you start having respect for those who betrayed him?

[@gloomgirl]

@@sadderthanyou7793 lol you know nothing. Stay in your fantasy world-depression kills. That’s what did him in✌🏼

[@sadderthanyou7793]

@@gloomgirl It's people like you who allow such horrible things to happen. You are the one who knows nothing. Kurt Cobain did not commit suicide. It was impossible for him to do so the way we were told. The official story is a poorly-concocted fairy tale for the masses.

[@dewilew2137]

Shut tf up. Y’all are so cringe and embarrassing. His leaked autopsy actually proves that he shot himself, you’re probably just too dumb to understand it.

[@Michael.A.O90]

She still lives!

[@krisfrederick5001]

Wendy only loved Kurt after he made money.

[@JoeSmith-eo7rc]

Women are like that generally as soon as you make money then you’re it lol if you’re broke forget it

[@The_Crow78.]

Wendy is not qualified to be called a mother. She ignored and neglected her son since he was a kid. She never cared for him when he was a live, and never cared after he was murdered. Shame.

[@margaretwebb389]

The drugs took him away from him self and ended his life

[@Elsa.qxhz7]

He was murdered

[@winkstar9265]

More Money for Courtney.

[@grungegods]

She is not dead

[@deadringer333]

Then why is that the title of the video?

[@dewilew2137]

Shut up. As if you’d know either way. 🙄

[@Lisa_marie1212]

She did not pass and is very much alive.🙄

[@shirahgantman9307]

Not dead

[@dewilew2137]

Shut up. As if you’d know either way. 🙄

[@shirahgantman9307]

I do

[@catherineflanagan1587]

Depression is an terrible thing.no one really understands.I understand Kurt's mother when she says its like been hit in the stomach