The 'Soft Boy' Epidemic

I'M ARTSY :(
Today, we look at the phenomenon known as "soft boys". The dudes who act like they're artsy and emotional for their own personal gain. With a little help from the @beam_me_up_softboi Instagram account, we take a closer look at these fellas, and try to stop...The Softboy Epidemic.
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[@kurtisconner]

UR ARTSY HUH???????? let me know if you want me to make a part 2!! thanks for watching!

[@Bella-ct4xq]

Kurtis Conner make a part 2 please

[@hannahdamanka3304]

Kurtis Conner love u king would love a part 2!!

[@crxskillcrxss8691]

Kurtis Conner do a soft girl version

[@katgalindez1391]

Ye part 2 would be great

[@berrieshoseok9723]

please :(

[@CharleneMuchunu]

"They look like they would play the guitar but they probably can't" That's it, that's the actual definition

[@Fanaz10]

"they look artsy, but probably don't do any"

[@danielsame2074]

But i do play the guitar, am I still a softboy?

[@natasha0599]

The female version of this is those girls with mooshroom haircuts, glasses, that have and ukelele and plays “ somewhere over the rainbow”

[@Fanaz10]

@@natasha0599 nah, they can't do anything either

[@sourcreamdreams]

@@natasha0599 don't you mean "cant help falling in love with you"

[@jadekaay]

"I'm not a softboy, I'm a hardboy" *- Kurtis Conner 2019*

[@melinoia2875]

Jay K yaaaaaa

[@marion.saturn]

I understood heartboy :( I´m disappointed

[@camijohillstrom4991]

That energy carried into 2020

[@silly_7555]

I too, am a hArdboy

[@oldaccount___aa]

I'm a non-boy. *because im female*

[@mandymckk]

The soft boy and the “I’m not like other girls” girl are made for each other

[@taliesinfox5901]

If they only dated each other we’d be totally free of them. No more fb memes about chicken nuggets or dms filled with indie song lyrics sounds like paradise

[@clalyrics441]

@@taliesinfox5901 HAH

[@Yara-us5ey]

taliesin fox bro... I thought ur profile pick was dajjal XD

[@mariannecontrino6297]

Yeah, it sounds good on paper, but you just described "100 Shades(Days) of Summer", and I think we can all agree, it didn't work out too well for them.

[@taliesinfox5901]

Yara is awesome aha it’s just some old artwork of mine

[@ParodyIncTheWeirdets]

i met a lot of soft boys in uni, especially as a creative writing major with an emphasis on poetry. soft boys LOVE joining in classes thinking they'll impress the girls with their shitty off the cuff poetry, heres a hint: no one was impressed. and critiquing the work of a soft boy is hell and it never ends

[@ijk9492]

am starting my masters in creative writing soon lmao should I be worried

[@hondaaccord1399]

Was starting to get scared until you mentioned poetry 🤣 Fr tho fuck poetry it's long novels based on bullshit adventures I make up in my head all the way

[@dextro_whatever]

Are those the guys who write in aggressively purple prose? Because I’ve mostly been blessed as a CW major but I think I’ve workshopped some guys like that.

[@jeremiahinyangotu4023]

i know a couple of softboys in my uni, who think they're smarter and woke than everyone else. A couple of the other guys would make fun of how they would answer every single question that the lecturer would ask about the course, and i would chuckle along 😂

[@Fritz1105]

@@ijk9492I mean if youre doing it for yourself it's not really anything bad. The classes themselves arent the problem, its just the specific people they talk about here

[@babyfox3324]

Oh so when guys dress like that they’re softboys, but when i do it i’m a lesbian?

[@user-io3zv9rb8c]

So be it

[@sinsoftheswamp8346]

Yes

[@oreo_cos]

I mean it's lesbian culture I do it too

[@_pearlhoney_3277]

I thought you were American

[@leahheart2319]

Equality matters, guys

[@stefangaitan3646]

“They look like they could play the guitar but probably can’t” the accuracy is astounding

[@IanKava]

560 likes and no comments lmao

[@edwardharder3312]

@@IanKava ruined it aaaaaa

[@IanKava]

@@edwardharder3312 trueeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

[@zaidlacksalastname4905]

Nice pfp lmao

[@landonhorn5443]

I don’t like that he made fun of me there

[@doubyday884]

A "soft boy" once made a move on my friend. She's definitely not into him, but being the soft boy that he is he send a pic of him crying and said some shit like "I'm crying for you" or something and let me tell you I have never cringe and laugh so hard

[@anyakirana4906]

That happened to me too omg and istg i cringed so hard

[@johndelorean7353]

So did he get the friend? 😂

[@doubyday884]

@@anyakirana4906 I felt so bad for my friend for her to get through stuff like that

[@doubyday884]

@@johndelorean7353 nope. dude tryna act like he's making shit right by telling her to reconcile w her dad and everything and literally playing victim all the goddamn time. Dude was so problematic lmao

[@froggielover587]

Haha omg 😆

[@kaylamullins9068]

I asked a boy if he went to the gym and he said, “I don’t work out my body. I work out my brain.”

[@Schnort]

They're telekinetic and go to the gun to lift weights with their brain.

[@monoduck]

​@@Schnort i too go to the gun to work out my telepathy

[@Flesh_Wizard]

And then you see him telekinetically lifting weights with an "I'm taking a dump" look on his face

[@VizzyInks]

I love to hear him explaining about how a "soft" boy looks like when he actually looks like a soft boy.

[@faith9196]

My thoughts exactly lmao

[@mattdang3362]

He mentioned that you dummie🙃

[@femaleserialkiller]

yeah he mentioned that lmaooo “i know what it looks like, but I AM NOT A SOFT BOY”

[@youareverynoice8805]

Ikr

[@CPRCUS]

Except I'm attracted to him and not to soft boys I mean what

[@Peachypeachykeenjellybean]

Basically women want Kurtis Conner. He’s funny, he looks like a soft boy but is actually a good dude, and he’s got the best hair.

[@kl9915]

Gabrielle Is always singing lmao jokes on you, I'm a lesbian

[@suriyamclean9440]

I agree

[@ghoulenthusiast5731]

my life is a gay meme lmao jokes on you, im gay

[@krista_]

Yeah

[@mia4992]

That’s correct

[@prof.lysander6191]

"911 what's your emergency?" "I got shot in my house" "Where do you live?" "The moment."

[@adeenatinwala7806]

UNDERRATED COMMENT ^^^^^

[@harsheh]

XD

[@purpleup28765]

getting closer!

[@eggcetera761]

PFFF-

[@cheesecheese6950]

Imagine getting shot in the m o m e n t . That's so deep. ✊🏻😔

[@rulerzreachf4n200]

Damn my definition of soft boy was completely wrong. I thought it meant like. A boy that’s more openly feminine. Like idk I imagine a boy wearing pastel pink clothing and a flower crown That’s a soft boy to me.

[@SunshowerWonderlab]

That's a femboy you're thinking about

[@zyerkos]

@@SunshowerWonderlab theres some overlap between the two but that was what a softboy was before it got hijacked like this

[@lizamay722]

@@SunshowerWonderlab lmfao

[@gasterthemaster6490]

--Why did I think of Basil.--

[@drippylad3973]

​@@gasterthemaster6490clothes

[@blanchardgreenez]

the way they confidently abuse the english language is so special and so upsetting

[@jelenabakajic2211]

bm 66 to be honest, I didn't really understand most of words that they used, and... I was kind of happy for it XD

[@Fire-Toolz]

just sayin tho, english isn't always someone's first language. but i know what you mean.

[@luxnoctis4730]

English isn't my first language but even I cringe at how they murder it with their grammatical errors and misspellings.

[@dylanenman3417]

Why did u say they, he’s one person lmfao

[@negligible_reality]

it's the way that you just KNOW they used a thesaurus app to make themselves sound more intelligent and fake having a strong vocabulary, but didn't bother checking to make sure they're actually using the words correctly or correct any possible grammatical mistakes

[@xXxNeonPrincessxXx]

Rose: Draw me like one of your French girls. Jack: hOw aBoUt I dRaW uR aURA.

[@nathmendes24]

Best comment ever hands down

[@liah8624]

in case you haven't noticed: i'm weird, i'm a weirdo. i don't fit in and i don't... wanna fit in. have you ever seen me without this stupid hat on? that's _w e i r d_

[@mariafausti3128]

w e i r d

[@wrenclark4907]

Riverdale oh no

[@hsmacaraig]

i hate how i know where this is from.

[@ylanairias6255]

I hadn't changed my clothes/diaper in the last 2 years, I'm... I'm a weirdo, a quirky, different girl, nobody understands me...

[@elonmust7470]

Who are you talking to?

[@gracemceuen2058]

I’ve got a soft boy trying to hit me up rn and recently asked me if I’ve ever been in love. When I told him no (because I’m barely an adult and he’s in his 20’s) he told me how devastating that was for him to hear and just how utterly heartbroken he was for me. It was condescending, it was manipulative, and it was really, really annoying. 👻👻

[@emic2590]

lol what a creep ...he should be devastated about the state of his brain..

[@gracemceuen2058]

@@emic2590 HAHAHA

[@elisecode2212]

welcome to the life of an aromantic

[@shortentity6853]

They r such male manipulators

[@leofreaking]

"They look like they play the guitar but probably don't" so simple, yet so true

[@notwerkinginthishouse8634]

ArChIkEnS

[@carafeeley]

Ikr!

[@Samrules888]

anyway here's wonderwall

[@dominikweber4305]

I don't look like i play the guitar but i do, what am i supposed to be then?

[@DeathGripsIsOffline696]

"Attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines, that look like they haven't slept in *ever*" They also all have the same two to three haircuts. And they sort of look like you Kurtis.

[@em-ri3ph]

LEGIT

[@MisyeDiVre]

He's playing that anti- softboi but actually softboi no game game. Hidden in plain sight man. We gettin covert in here boiii!

[@amadeus2166]

but noah cents of nero is neither attractive nor does he have a jawline, a chin or neck ..

[@carlye5881]

Petition to make Kurtis the new softboi of twitter

[@LosShabosProductions]

he already is

[@fruitycatfairy]

sIgNeD

[@melizadebelen9831]

Soft boys always try to hit you with the “you’re not like other girls, you actually have a personality” and it always bugs me because I think it’s so wrong to open up something with someone why comparing them to other people. It’s also putting me on a pedestal I’m uncomfortable being on and the whole “relationship” I am trying to chase after this standard they’ve set for me. It’s sooo manipulative, they know you just want attention and validation and they like trick you into thinking they’re the source of it (as you can tell I’ve unfortunately fell for it).

[@daddyreginald5062]

“Yeah I’m into indie music, ever heard of Harry styles”

[@river1409]

This particular comment got me actually wheezing for some reason.

[@SeanStrife]

"I only appreciate true arthouse cinema... ever see Saw?"

[@dumbass9049]

he literally made the video bruh come on

[@daddyreginald5062]

@@dumbass9049 lol what

[@d1m1u]

LMFAOOOO

[@oliviaj3887]

If you look like you’re one cigarette away from dying, you’re a verified soft boy

[@roshii2789]

Olivia J my favorite comment lol

[@mattbrune]

*takes a smoke* *Cheeks start inverting*

[@elijahparks842]

Steve buscemi?

[@Romanticoutlaw]

and/or, one cigarette away from appearing in an adaptation of a John Green book

[@alaasusername]

I'm a female soft boy in that case.

[@emilymadsen9709]

Attractive, white, cheekbones, jaw lines, haven't slept... Kurtis I love you but I think you're describing yourself

[@otterhaus]

Don't forget the curly hair too lmao

[@littelcreatchure506]

@@otterhaus *curly brown hair

[@judi7548]

Curly hair is for fuck boys 😂

[@rileyb3174]

judi cjudie curly hair is for people who have curly hair what stop curl shaming 😤

[@surprisinglysurviving751]

@@judi7548 no u :( *sobs in short curly brown hair*

[@lachlanwong6448]

i know that this comment probably won’t be seen by most people but i kinda just want to say that i’m very very grateful to kurtis for making this video as when i first watched it, i was kind of a softboy. i watched it when i was 13 and i was super pretentious about both movies and music and some of my online behavior wasn’t quite as cringe as this in hindsight i was a massive asshole to people. this video kinda made me change myself for the better and i’m really thankful for kurtis for making his video

[@mal_3157]

One Kurtis Connor video can change a life 💯

[@trixie2558]

Good on Kurtis and good on you. Keep living a good life lad.

[@jimmymushrooms420]

WEEZER AVATAR BASED

[@mostly-void]

soft boys talk like they're trying to meet the minimum word requirement for an essay

[@CernokneznikCeresei]

Oh damn, apply cold water to the burned area

[@edensylvester13]

hahaha true

[@charlestonlove6387]

Get ready to read paragraphs in your dm:))

[@elizabethg9129]

LMFAO

[@collinsje5]

Don't women with any intelligence sniff them out?

[@KaitlinGaspar]

nice guy: *tips fedora* soft boy: *cuffs pant*

[@layneyharbison6457]

Hotel: Trivago

[@gummyemma]

This triggered my fight or flight

[@RibbonVintageGirl]

fuck boy: *gels hair*

[@suwaaa.8306]

wait is this a coincidence!!!1!1!! you said "tips fedora" and fall out boy is in this video and patrick stump wears a fedora oh my god!!!!!11!!1111111!!!!!

[@ptrout_7]

*i am forcibly removed from twitter*

[@Heyzzels9947]

I watch weird indie shows, like you ever heard of the office Edit: thanks for the likes, I’m also into this indie band called AC/DC, there really underground

[@lopipee]

Have you heard of adventure time it’s so underrated and weird

[@tonka_lp]

I was a weird kid i watched this unpopular show Hannah Montana

[@lopipee]

regular show was so quirky and odd I doubt you’ve seen it

[@thejuicerisgone3215]

I started to watch this quicky underrated show, have you heard of the spongbob square pants?

[@WORLD-STAR670]

Dude, ever heard of like.. Peppa Pig?

[@thine.]

since there was the one that said "you look like a sociopathic mess and i love it", i kinda wanna rant. i hate that people are glorifying mental illnesses, like some people saying "I'm such a phychoooo" like ok, even if thats a personality type and not an illness, its not just criminals that kill people and love blood. It's a personality disorder and its not cute. its good to talk about any mental illness, lets say depression, its okay to talk about it, but not glorify it and talk about it like "i love people who have it, thats so cool", its something you need to try to solve and get rid of

[@preachlisa6432]

I totally agree with you. I don't know why people think thats cool 🤧

[@Китти-у8ю]

you can love someone who HAS it but loving someone only because they have it is super weird and romanticizing something that is a struggle for most, totally agree with you Thine

[@Buzzzy-bee]

That last part is just flat out wrong by the way, don’t ever say that to anyone

[@daveyJ0nes]

I was with you until the end. You can't get rid of mental illness there's no cure for them just types of treatments that help you deal with them.

[@XYZ-zn6qz]

Psychopathy/Sociopathy actually rarely have anything to do with murdering people. The vast majority of people with those disorders (which make up 1-2% of the population) are very normal seeming people who live pretty ordinary lives. The whole psycho killer stereotype is pretty much only a movie trope.

[@mudzsoup]

"Yeah I listen to really unknown music, you ever hear of Bohemian Rhapsody?"

[@Dervs-pb5ey]

I don't even know what music is, bruh.

[@ninawth]

The first time I tried online dating, a guy I chatted with hadn't heard of it before. So I sent him a link to the song and he said he didn't like it at all. Basically, a guy lost interest in in me because of Bohemian Rhapsody. It was weird.

[@TheTrueAltoClef]

@@ninawth my girlfriend thought that the song Bohemian Rhapsody was written for the the movie, until I told her it's more than 40 years old

[@Roma-kp4qg]

Oh god, that was me when I was 13. I thought I was soOoOo unIqUe and Not LiKe oThEr gIrlS for liking Queen...

[@lee2791]

YoshiThe1st it’s that old already? wow-

[@carlyndebolt8648]

boy: soft pants: cuffed arctic: monkied docs: martened emotions: played

[@elyses9535]

Hotel: trivago

[@carlyndebolt8648]

birds: boxed

[@natalie-xc7hz]

hair: greasy

[@carlyndebolt8648]

me: depressed

[@sativababyy9060]

Yee: haw

[@kittysrock16]

The biggest irony is Kurtis looking exactly like a soft boy making this

[@JeweleryPower]

kittysrock16 LMAO EXACTLY EHDJEND

[@Peepee4brain]

kittysrock16 He IS a soft bOI

[@julianacarter7091]

kittysrock16 he’s a hard boi

[@asapcrunchy]

kittysrock16 trueeee

[@taeyeons]

the softest soft boi

[@456puff]

Kurtis's little speech at the end about being genuine and attracting the right kid of people is FACTS and I love it so much.

[@jt0n]

i just realized how old this video is, almost 2 years old. it's yesteryesteryear

[@szecr]

Yesteryearyear

[@sayareejamal1406]

Year before yesteryear

[@belle_may_kickahhs]

yesteryear once removed

[@smokenotfire]

It'd have to be ereyesteryear lol. Fun fact, ereyesterday is the official English term for the day before yesterday.

[@june_buggi3]

Its already learning to walk 🤧

[@janedoe-ef2bz]

Soft boys is just the male version of "I'm not like the most girls"

[@DiscoveryBeans]

I've never heard anything more accurate

[@DiamondsRexpensive]

This will be used for research purposes, bless your soul.

[@sarahtonin4727]

Yeah. But I'm not like other girls, so soft boys are, like, alpha males to me.. so...

[@shakyamparo4295]

I'm getting jerm not vibes

[@hakonericson6279]

less garbage (slightly)

[@saturncommitscrimes]

i love how Kurtis’ description of a soft boy is just the same as describing a stereotypical bisexual

[@TheYoungKilljoy]

This is late, but it was the cuffed jeans and Doc Martens XD

[@iexist6677]

​@@TheYoungKilljoyvery fucking late man

[@iexist6677]

Also, your profile picture is- wilbur soot- you should know everything about soft boys

[@saturncommitscrimes]

@@iexist6677 i do, at least i know that they get turned on by their reflections in passing cars /ref

[@koiifsh]

​@@TheYoungKilljoy you have the same last name as my friend

[@blew1t]

i love kurtis describing twitter boyes and just completely glossing over the fact that he's describing himself

[@rachellorensen4199]

I know 😭💜

[@tjasazaloznik116]

i was just thinking the same :D

[@monroe7532]

Asher R. Except he has a better personality

[@kianaalexis5004]

Actually he mentioned it at 4:25 you must’ve glossed over that.

[@StrawberryNinjaNibbles]

Kiana Alexis BOOM

[@victoriakathleen01]

Soft boys: I use big words to make myself sound more photosynthesis

[@strawberrywigz1658]

Shushhh MITCHONDRIA IS THE PWORHOUSE OF THE CELL

[@leisha7784]

Yes and u know my face is very germinating

[@srslydoatm9251]

Why did this kill me

[@skoobydookie_ESBz]

This made me funny

[@Teeeth]

I feel very pneumonoultramicroscopicsilicovolcanoconiosis right now

[@LongBeachGriffy]

I don’t know why this was recommended to me but, I like this young man. “Fall out boy-s” 😂💀

[@jezuzgurl3934]

Griffy!! Appreciate your content man, keep going 👌

[@birdshell1014]

LongBeachGriffy love you Griffy!

[@sebastianarnold1845]

Love you griffy. No homo tho

[@jiminsidekookie2018]

SMASH

[@johariturner2513]

My dude

[@lonesomephreak69]

"arty" is military jargon word for "artillery"...so that still works here. IE, these guys are aiming from far away, firing repeatedly, and then once they hit they move on to the next target.

[@ussdrizzle8393]

this does not have enough likes 😭😭thats fucking funny

[@mayabergersen2144]

“Attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines...” boi thats u

[@cindybenforever7647]

222

[@applelynch6980]

im knew here and i swear hes talking bout himself

[@mayabergersen2144]

Apple Lynch he is legit just looking in the mirror and describing himself

[@meredithabdelnour7198]

that looks like he hasn't slept in...ever

[@milkym9598]

Maya Bergersen don’t forget the curly brown hair. he was literally describing himself lmao

[@HollandInspired]

Kurtis describing a soft boy was really just him roasting himself

[@leiarose4662]

No, he likes Shrek 😂

[@biancalauren4981]

I was like ok white boy cheek bones jaw line looks tired. Isn’t that what I’m looking at

[@jockeytx]

4:23

[@soulmechanics7946]

Who commented "here" where he asks if you have encountered one?

[@pawsnotclaws2772]

lonelywinterbooks lmao

[@banditolwt7801]

so who's gonna tell him

[@elonmuskamakel2874]

guccistylinson lol you go first

[@chuyeanne1535]

Not me

[@acommonbagel2936]

we should have an intervention

[@constance8089]

honestly

[@emmak.2490]

“kurtis uhm-“

[@yongusdongus7351]

so im transmasc and I pass quite well as a cis man and for the LONGEST time I'd act just like this because in my head I thought ''if I got a straight woman to have a thing for me then wow I would feel really euphoric" so I made my whole personality like the romance side character in a teen Disney movie and it was a huge burden on me, eventually I cracked and became emo so idk which is worse honestly

[@virtualmorgue]

soft boy is worse definitely

[@virtualmorgue]

emos are cool!!

[@tfoprincess]

"I'm not like most girls" epidemic is dying out. Now the "I'm not like most guys" epidemic is rising.

[@lonegalaxy9158]

Unfortunately nah. They rise and fall together, and feed off of each other.

[@beautyandtheoffbeats]

LOL no its not it's still going strong on r/notlikeothergirls.

[@mayabergersen2144]

Finally

[@tradutorajuliana]

Societies are changing!

[@iregerttihshahshah6591]

What has our society become?

[@premareyes1881]

a soft boy once corrected my pronunciation of my own name

[@wittyblonde6728]

prema reyes I would kick him in the shins....like I do when people correct me on my last name.

[@selfcompassionate]

@@wittyblonde6728 people do this to me and it's ridiculous

[@ElpSmith]

LOL WTF

[@Eli-vx6xv]

prema reyes dude I hate it when people do that, once in like 7th grade my teacher corrected me in pronouncing my name and I wanted to punch him right then and there.

[@liberty1816]

Mansplaining

[@jessicat3691]

Pants: Cuffed

[@lenepietrusza3981]

beanie: on

[@janakudelic405]

Me: a weirdo

[@yeet4384]

Hotel: trivago

[@rsxax]

harry: louis zayn: liam niall: horan

[@rsxax]

sorry i‘m weird

[@nex6820]

I've never encountered a soft boy but in my youth I dated a pedophile and an emo boy. Then recently a country boy and I've realized dating is just not for me

[@negligible_reality]

oof massive yikes, hope ur doing well these days

[@mckennacal_pencil]

A soft boy messaged me on instagram and said, "you look like someone who I could be sad with"

[@ToothpasteIsGettingExpensive]

McKenna Jarrell You’re not THAT ugly

[@kikiTHEalien]

Damn, it does sound poetic, though

[@mckennacal_pencil]

KränktOLedsen Morot that’s the nicest thing anyone’s ever said

[@ToothpasteIsGettingExpensive]

McKenna Jarrell Congrats

[@ren1245]

kikiTHEalien I’m pretty sure I said something like that when I was twelve on my Facebook

[@tabithathea5136]

Kurtis you meet literally every standard of a Twitter soft boy

[@chaennibal7108]

i thought the guy in your pfp was completely bald since his bangs are the same color as his skin

[@tabithathea5136]

Pucci’s Skin Care Routine I’m CACKLING

[@kaaheiflrt8314]

@@chaennibal7108 about to be with the amount of hair dye put into his hair every month

[@KennMila]

@@chaennibal7108 please tell my Pucci's skin care routine I need to look my best when I reset the universe

[@chaennibal7108]

Pray to the lord!

[@twitchycorpse4378]

"I listen to only underground, ever heard of gangnam style?"

[@samuel-zb4qn]

Yeah but have you heard of this is the best burrito ive ever eaten?💔🥀😣✊

[@lejindaryarmy948]

GANGAM STYLE- OMG! That was a kpop reset lol!

[@lejindaryarmy948]

@Tegan Louise ,BTS was the way for me to know that PSY was a Kpop artist-

[@forestgreen352]

@@lejindaryarmy948 SAME- Idk why but I thought he was speaking English when I first heard it- I legit had no idea what kpop was.

[@rashmisingh1363]

@@lejindaryarmy948 same😂😂

[@baby.nay.]

I know this video is 3 years old but I simply must weigh in as 34 y old woman ,,, this was just art school boys in 2010s …every tactic . How many times someone asked me “ do you wanna paint together “ or something like that and they just wanna f*** 😮😊

[@countesscrows]

‘you could come and read at my place’ sure man im on my way 🙄

[@baby.nay.]

@@countesscrows 😂😂😂

[@doogles.]

4 years ago now 😭😭

[@stick-itproductions.3307]

"Oh god, am I a soft boy?" *Sees the first text.* "Yeah, no."

[@gabescala4558]

Stick-It Productions. Hahahahaha tight

[@mvn4337]

Fr

[@mandas00]

Related

[@aliakeel]

LMAO

[@a_useless_brick]

“brown curly haired skinny white boy who looks like he hasn’t slept in days.” sounds a little familiar kurtis...

[@Peach-dh9pe]

Ikr the irony.... Hmmm

[@heyhorinshi]

You forgot the tattoos

[@SirFlooberis]

MISSION FAILED WE’LL GET EM BACK NEXT TIME. Would probably be his reaction to this comment

[@a_useless_brick]

@floofy buttercup lmao what

[@tret953]

@floofy buttercup actually, you were the pick me all along

[@a.d.9366]

"attractive white dudes with cheekbones and jawlines and look like they haven't slept in forever.." Kurtis honey...

[@sleepysnjomen1707]

who gon tell him...

[@BestBetterBestest]

@@sleepysnjomen1707 :(

[@W0lfm0ther]

LITTERALY

[@finalhazard883]

Who's gonna tell him.

[@kelleysmith9578]

I THOUGHT THE SAME THING LMAO PLEASE

[@morgan5754]

the name for these types of boys has got so literal, it’s just male manipulators 😭😭

[@aliahduiker4911]

Kurtis having “beef” with Noah centineo gets me every time.

[@jessicastar433]

666 likes rn

[@soyswauce]

1,000th like

[@Imscaredofeverything]

2.6k likes. Nice.

[@chonkyoreo8087]

​@@Imscaredofeverything *growl*🐺🥀🌕

[@Random-sk6hm]

F Noah Centineo he knows what he did

[@hakim6158]

Kurtis speaking up for the real soft bois. Speak your truth soft king.

[@tiarastorm444]

kurtis*

[@aquariusangel816]

Hakim words are his love language 😍✨

[@jadawright7464]

Kurtis*

[@hstsvstyve]

how do you know who are the real soft bois.. :C the kind of corny references these softbois put are some of what my friends say as well but they kno they be joking and want to express their shit and just wanna be deep sometimes then be all memey.

[@s.a.8548]

Whyyyyy does that sound sexual lmao

[@eastia7518]

I feel called out, man. I'm an artist. I've been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I like to talk about my emotions. I wear vans and doc martins and I cuff my jeans. But that's because I'm *_bisexual_* okay? I'd never try to manipulate anyone by pretending to care about their emotions or using flowery language to impress them. If I'm into you it's because I genuinely like you and want to know how you're doing.

[@alexisb3829]

Same

[@kelpu3849]

cool, nice, ok

[@kittypeanut4102]

...uh, so, you're saying that you have all of that characteristics just because you're bisexual? That sounds really, uh, superficial, like someone not bisexual can't be like that.

[@kelpu3849]

@@kittypeanut4102 you said what i wanted to say but i didn't know how yea the way they put it doese sound superficial almost stereotyping

[@hurstinion]

@@kittypeanut4102 The cuffing your jeans thing is what they mean, it's sort of a meme that all bi people cuff their jeans

[@TheMundobizarro]

It´s kind of the evolution of the emo boi

[@bhavs398]

It's like the emo boy's emo is now represented by yellow instead of black

[@Bot-uc5ou]

@@bhavs398 Yellow is the new black

[@sadaesthetics5674]

Totally

[@lukabell4607]

A *pretend* emo boi

[@lukabell4607]

*sup **-dude-* bro

[@runbunbun2560]

"Hes got cheekbones and looks like he hasn't slept, dishelved hair" ...kurtis that's you

[@haleybrooks6213]

EX FUCKING ACTLY

[@superrjimmy2747]

RIGHTTTT

[@lala-bb3nw]

but hes not a soft boy, hes a hard boi

[@lame_emo4011]

I actually think that’s cute oof I guess I’m part of the problem

[@eloisebelrose3557]

sAme ^

[@Travel_with_Gigi]

”did your dog afterbirth on your head” is such a strange way to roast someone's hair but it was certainly effective

[@maisierose654]

Certainly

[@timsickler5125]

Certainly

[@oceaneleny1586]

Certainly

[@mostannoyingscaramain]

Certainly

[@sleepysnjomen1707]

Certainly

[@spaghettimist]

I'm in art school... that's like their natural habitat. Fascinating type of person really. In my experience they all wear earrings and worship Quentin Tarantino.

[@min_1713]

kurtis: *gets a damn haircut* Everyone: *Stops the bullying and starts calling him a s0ft boi/calling him cute*

[@rabbiqa]

You know the EXACT reason I clicked on this video was to find a person with a BTS pfp. Jackpot for me because it's Chim Chim.

[@min_1713]

@@rabbiqaAyyyyy, welp you found me lol

[@opheliachex3001]

Uhh kpop fans in kurtis conner vids is the best thing ever!

[@jelkalamawy8563]

@j 3 i know bts fans are getting cringer by the minute

[@lolok5160]

@@jelkalamawy8563 ikr

[@vanon-ut9un]

*"I'm not an e-boy, I'm a skater boy. See, e-boys get girls. I get bullied at school."*

[@girlknight199]

i love that video

[@squeegeeandcrew8619]

what is that video?! i need to watch it

[@graceknowswhatyoudid3064]

we all know that sk8r boys get the most girls

[@slappy1312]

g r a c e kNOws WhaT yoU dID ...i wish man

[@marliejones4021]

did she say see you later boy?

[@CouchEconomyTX]

Soft boys are emo but like yellow

[@miriamgross2532]

Why does this make perfect sense tho

[@taylorbritt499]

^agreed

[@lemonsinlimbo9407]

i hate how much sense this makes

[@duckieirl9617]

Perfect description

[@kitty-xf9ku]

why do understand this perfectly

[@StomeAura]

“Things I don’t care about: *Palestine* “ 😬 Yikeroonie

[@zorozzittiez]

right lmao like how are you a zionist and a self proclaimed soft boy, pick a struggle

[@cometisadragon7772]

i was looking for this comment 😭 especially in what, 2019??? whenever this video was made?? what edgy points were they expecting to get for that 💀

[@emmataylor1758]

bold of you to assume you won’t still be bullied

[@yuzu-ade]

em AHAHA

[@QueenLiasKingdom]

HAHAHAHA

[@murphdawgswizzle]

LMAO

[@raggedyhaggity250]

DUM DUM DUM lmao

[@shauna4320]

Kurtis making it clear he’s not dissing the white boys of the month bc he knows he fits the curly haired skinny tired look perfectly

[@madsk26]

Kurtis you’ve been looking really...soft lately

[@louiseisprocrastinating8448]

the nose ring,, curly hair,, i see it

[@Mx.Pickle]

Is that a good or bad thing?...

[@averydiy8179]

New moisturizer?

[@Meowblivion]

@@Mx.Pickle its.... Bad, lets hope its just a look and he doesn't go full twinky on us

[@lisamonet9200]

cynthia green Good thing....looks wise.

[@_noon]

Kurtis: “the extra greeting is a kurtis guarantee Also kurtis: *forgets greeting*

[@zeldao1692]

"Attractive white boys with cheek bones and jawlines that look like they haven't slept in like. . . Ever." Do you guys wanna tell him or shall I?

[@lucypark4282]

Zelda o you can I don’t want to upset him

[@thanos7449]

lol

[@jiyu9277]

Tommy Phelan kurtis basically described himself without realizing

[@anyam9330]

shit

[@melioras_pheonoraptor8936]

Jiyū he literally stated that he just described himself. You’re dumb. Shut up. Watch the video

[@kggo6272]

soft boys are basically the character that timothee chalamet played in lady bird

[@Tigerheiress]

-kggo ........ ummmmm loud

[@Hvnleee]

YES

[@rnlove13]

he hadnt lied in 2 years abdhasbdkj

[@jill7413]

he nutted so damn fast in that movie lmaoooo

[@Eli-vx6xv]

Jillian P fr poor ladybird 🤣

[@life.is.good.1995]

kurtis: i can’t stand people who say yesteryear also kurtis: says “court”

[@swine13]

Lets be real: Kurtis cant really talk shit about any of the things people say when he makes as many awful puns as he does.

[@skyhideaway]

these are the kind of people who probably make/share ✨ aesthetic depression moodboards✨

[@1025yumi]

my parents live in kurtistown but i live in the moment

[@graceprda7540]

My parents live in the moment But I live in Kurtistown

[@shannon8817]

What an icon omg

[@MaritMarzipan]

I was once in this guys room and he started playing acoustic guitar and asked me if we are alone in this universum. I left

[@kianadresse891]

MaritMarzipan I would have asked for his weed Because he definitely has some

[@okay6353]

and then everyone clapped

[@jessicahoward9046]

No matter what the time or date, you know this is happening someone in the world

[@SosoArts0197]

This is such a universal experience of the soft boy lmao

[@aquaphobia1369]

Did *Did he actually say universum*

White ✔ Boy ✔ Skinny ✔ Curly hair ✔ Looks sleep deprived ✔ Tattoos ✔ You boutta be the next white boy of the month, Kurtis.

[@madisonhall3052]

You forgot tats!

[@LPSJellyProductions]

espressodepresso HDBDBBD FUCJ

@@madisonhall3052 oh shit added it thanks

[@WolfJulia2001]

And he has a checkered phone case, busted.

[@44syy]

espressodepresso also the nose piercing

[@Lunar_DeBrie]

OH! The "Things I don't care about: Palestine" did NOT age well!!

[@Maria-fb1sz]

noah scented mayo is just another breed

[@hihihi_813]

scented mayo. never heard that one before

[@superstellarhere]

I skimmed over this really fast and read “mayo” and breed and my brain thought “Oh, Noah is bread?” So yeah. Noah Centimeter is another type of bread.

[@preciousoh705]

Noah Scent of a Woman

[@hannahtimmons4097]

@@superstellarhere I read your reply and somehow forgot breed was a word I thought you were trying to spell bread it took me a sec I’m so done

[@superstellarhere]

@@hannahtimmons4097 Me too bud, me too

[@ishmaeldoesstuff3657]

Kurtis: “they’re attractive white boys who look like they never sleep” Also Kurtis: is an attractive white boy who looks like he never sleeps

[@shrutikumar9340]

Omg i was thinking exactly this

[@azul4904]

literally lmao

[@papaya3642]

lol oh no awh

[@sailorspacejam]

IshmaelDoesStuff my thought exactly

[@exacto0]

IshmaelDoesStuff i mean tbh the white boys of twitter are pretty average and thats what makes him eligible

[@victoriagillan7525]

95% of those softboy texts: Someone found a thesaurus and it shows

[@jessicahoward9046]

When Joey found the thesaurus feature and wrote Chandler and Monicas adoption recommendation letter

[@yangtotheyang3093]

@@jessicahoward9046 baby kangaroo tribbiani

[@hyde3155]

Like 949😎

[@BramLastname]

Yeah, I use extravagant words From time to time And have random enters In everything I type out, But at least I know How and when To use them.

[@ApertureLabs]

Haha, the only thing that shows is their lack of the ability to apply those words properly.

[@levinyman8790]

This is super late and deff won't be read by anyone but thank you for acknowledging sociopathy as a medical condition. I have AsPD which is the correct diagnosis (psychopathy and sociopathy are sets of traits someone with AsPD may have) and I've dealt with edgy chasers like that guy and it's disgusting. I'm sure that if the person he was messaging actually had AsPD and was categorized as a sociopath he would leave the second they showed symptoms because people like that don't want a mentally ill partner, they want brownie points for dating a mentally ill person.

[@natalienecadova442]

“i'm into indie music, ever heard of Ludwig van Beethoven?“

[@sarahanditakarina1726]

omg no way! my fave musician is Ling Ling (if you know this reference i’ll cri 😂)

[@iman1246]

Ik that reference but I’m not Natálie

[@sarahanditakarina1726]

@@iman1246 yooo ling ling wannabes unite (tho i'm not a musician lol)

[@iman1246]

Oh I am but I haven’t done my practise yet 😯

[@roadman373]

@@sarahanditakarina1726 LING LING WANNABE AYYYE

[@mckennak2347]

can’t believe you got birkenstocks and doc martens confused that’s so funny

[@MS-uc8ie]

mckenna k birkensdocs

[@jessicabailey8972]

BIRKENDOCS

[@amby-mo3vk]

AHAHA

[@miagordon6352]

police:911 what’s your emergency? you:someone is in my house police:ok,where do you live? you:i live in the moment

[@whale2269]

HAHAHAH 😂

[@stygianmoon1716]

999nth like 😏

[@BasicallyIKilledTheCat]

911: sir- that’s deep, how old are you? You: fourteen

[@veryfruityolive]

Chris Hansen: why don’t you take a seat?

[@afroditesis4738]

Police: well, what address is that? You: in my feelings lane

[@FloofyReks]

8:07 "Things I don't care about: *Palestine*" ... That didn't age quite so well *FREE PALESTINE* 🍉🍉🍉

[@SPOOOBGEBUHB]

Israel vs Palestine has been happening for years, it NEVER aged well

[@deiderful]

i want to superlike this video

[@kaepiper]

no replies so i’m changing that hello

[@paisley4197]

one reply so i’m changing that hello

[@ohnoimsorry-3374]

Two replies so i'm changing that hello

[@amydunnefp]

Three replies so I’m changing that hello

[@harsheh]

four replies so I'm changing that hello

[@annabeano8678]

Kurtis Conner: CEO of respecting women.

[@janna7545]

aka simp

[@annieliina]

@@janna7545 bad joke

[@janna7545]

Anni Eliina u must be fun at parties

[@annieliina]

@@janna7545 i don't get invited so i wouldn't know 😔

[@janna7545]

Anni Eliina at least u admit it 👁👅👁

[@elliegacek3741]

“I’m into Indie music have you ever herd of, One Direction?”

[@subeyadav]

JAJAJAJA TRUE

[@niya7678]

Hello fellow directioner

[@thexphant0m653]

@N yo

[@mckenna9428]

lmao yess, and we really stan kurtis for his one direction tattoo

[@chorals4856]

Wow cool, ya know I’m really into this thing called breathing

[@trixie2558]

This video helped a lot of people not be a bad person. I don't know if Kurtis realizes that, but it helped me be a decent kid. Good job Kurtis, you saved a lot of teenage girls from a lot of discomfort.

[@keeghanharris3953]

Curly hair? Cheek bones? Jawline? Haven't slept? That's you bby

[@soha5538]

Hotel? Trivago

[@soha5538]

Im sorry I had to

[@patrischastar6743]

My exact same thought 🙏😄

[@superedmundo1239]

He's not a soft boy he's a hard boi

[@superedmundo1239]

@@soha5538 God, it's not even funny anymore. So overused

[@glowkirby]

“Yeah I’m into indie bands, ever heard of Gorillaz?”

[@hello1079]

Have you heard of blur. It's such an underrated indie band. Doubt you've heard of it.

[@it4065]

ever heard of the neighbourhood? yeah I thought so

[@ethanhogan2463]

Yeah, duh. Nah I'm like *really* underground stuff dude. Please tell me you know the Beatles? You probably don't they're pretty low-key

[@raspberrycrowns9494]

@@ethanhogan2463 Legit had someone actually tell me that. Said I probably haven't heard it and played Hey Jude, one of the Beatles' most popular songs. Then proceeded to rant about how music isn't as good as it was back then while having a Panic at the disco and Hamilton poster.

[@ethanhogan2463]

@@raspberrycrowns9494 Holy shit that's hilarious

[@jeterheggestad5447]

Gabbie Hannah: opinions are bullying Kurtis Conner: thanks for all the mean comments, bullying works 👍

[@ameyacoolestcat]

Jeter Heggestad oof

[@clownworldhereticmyron1018]

Because Kurtis is a HARD BOI with powerful mental health 😹

[@honey3438]

1:23 kurtis literally describing himself

[@azriel82]

Softbois are just F Bois that figured out what emo and manipulation means.

[@benjaminacuna8013]

Azriel fuck boys know how to manipulate soft bois just know how to spell the word

[@gracefrederick6633]

THEY'RE EVOLVING

[@asianlion9769]

Wow. I actually didnt know im that until i read your comment. I go for the emotions, not the body, and most women actually fall for me. Then we would have sex, then I would just leave.

[@soriswikipediapage9131]

Soft Bois is being used wrong it's mostly used by fandoms to describe members of certain groups or soloists. These American guys are f*** boys that are acting out cute guys in films that girls like or fangirl over e.g. Cole Sprouse/ any model/ 90s celebs etc

[@ChristopherTheBanana]

yo this dude fucks

[@maya_chx]

*tall boys, short boys, good boys, bad boys....* *aMeRiCaN bOyS*

[@strawberri3912]

Maya *fall out boys*

[@gabiii-739]

Emø Rat yes. hello fellow rat

[@strawberri3912]

Gabi II-// hello

[@sunny-mg9ug]

Maya fall out boys

[@chyeannelee2224]

🤣🤣🤣

[@1o1nah]

I'm neither a soft boy nor a hard boy.. _I'm a firm boy._

[@serinacrum7065]

EW HAHAHaaa

[@serinacrum7065]

I'm a moist boi

[@Romanticoutlaw]

firm boys rise up

[@collinsje5]

@@serinacrum7065 Never say moist. It's creepy per my niece.

[@user-sg6ww7ts6n]

viscous boy

[@thevoyagesystem]

One of my headmates uses the term softboy in a completely different context for himself. He's just super gay and a little femme, but he's one of our anger holders dude. He just uses the term to refer to how he dresses. **Shrug** but nah weve never actually encountered someone like the way youre describing before. this just sounds like niceguy hipsters lol.

[@juliemadelyne4638]

Plural pride!

[@BasicallyHomeless]

I can’t believe it took me this long to 1: learn that I can get two greetings per video on this channel (excellent deal) and 2: learn that I was a softboy when I was 15 😩

[@bakerzane3055]

Yooo how did I find you here ?

[@shirinatron3585]

The greeting has gone now... ;[

[@elizabeth-qy6mm]

@@shirinatron3585 wddyyyymmmmm-

[@shirinatron3585]

@@elizabeth-qy6mm 😢 it's gone

[@N00btube296]

MR HAMLASS?!