The Relationship RED FLAGS You're Still Missing (and a few green ones too)

You guys loved the last one, so we're giving you more red flags in relationships, BUT this time we added some green ones too.
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Chapter Markers
0:00 - Introduction
0:50 - We Need To Talk About Relationships: Lecrae Shares Some Red Flags
4:01 - Download The BSide App
5:09 - Red Flag: Social Media Posts
9:30 - Green Flag: Not Married, No Sex
14:28 - Red Flag: Let's Go 50/50 (But It's Layered)
20:31 - Red Flag/Green Flag: Breadwinner
26:26 - Red Flag: Only Looking For A Financial Asset
34:08 - What You're Doing Wrong And Why You Can't See The Red Flags
39:59 - True Story: Running The Race
44:20 - Conclusion
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[@LecraeOfficial]

What's your biggest green flag??👀🟩

[@_brickman15]

Listening to Lecrae

[@thatomofolo452]

🤯🤯🤯

[@__J_____]

She fine and she a Christian!!!

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

He has a healthy relationship with his family, especially parents. This includes healthy connections AND boundaries.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

My biggest green flag is that she perceives the potential in her man and accepts people for who they are rather than what they have or can provide. She honors her man of God and defends him regardless if the world and her family is against him. She's not easily influenced and have a strong relationship with God.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

The idea of a flawless marriage or relationship is unrealistic. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Nevertheless, I've learned that solutions exist for every problem. Five years ago, my wife and I faced the brink of divorce due to challenges in our marriage. Fortunately, we managed to reconcile. It was a tough phase, but we made it through...

[@oglaskubuot]

Your words hold significant weight, and I earnestly hope my feelings reflect yours. Despite our current separation, I cannot imagine my life without her; my affection for her is profound. I pine for her presence, and I'm ready to take any steps necessary to bring us back together. We've explored various paths, including therapy, in our pursuit of reconciliation..

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

Letting someone you deeply care for go is always difficult, but in my scenario, I was fortunate to have the counsel of a spiritual mentor who preserved the unity of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.

[@oglaskubuot]

Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.

[@Newtonwilson-yw4kg]

You definitely should... I promise you will not regret it.

[@tracysnipes2144]

I wish mines would have did that instead of having multiple affairs partners through my marriage and never left. Never asked for a divorce. Never ask me to leave and never left. Waste of my time.

[@ladyofspa]

2 years dating is a red flag. 2 years not discussing marriage,or sexual lifestyle is a redflag.

[@user-sc8ux4nn1u]

I agree and don't spend the night? He's married

[@themalawiandiner180]

It depends on the situation, it's not always clear, cut.

[@Seznumerouno]

I wish churches spoke to young people and explained these things, especially when I was young.

[@Chrysalis369]

He can hold several intelligent conversations without them becoming sexual in nature... self-control.

[@mac9683]

Agreed

[@reginabyrd8903]

❤

[@Passion84GodAlways]

@Chrysalis369 - YOU 👏🏾 AIN'T 👏🏾 NEVA 👏🏾 LIED!!!

[@samiak112]

Agreed

[@aka1990bez]

This!!!!

[@jssberry]

For the lady that said 75K was too low, my first thought was, "Does she live in New York?! Cuz 75K in Texas is pretty nice!" 😆

[@tehewhatthe]

Heck £75k in the 🇬🇧 is good too, she might be touched with a bit of cray cray delulu 😂

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

Exactly!

[@Tanya-wc4rn]

She might make more

[@Anointed1s_TV]

Pocket watching and wage gauging to determine a suitable spouse will cause someone to miss out on their God given spouse. A man or woman's wages should not be considered to determine compatibility. Wages can always be attained by anyone and doesn't require growth or faith, but a righteous man or woman is precious.

[@user-sc8ux4nn1u]

If she makes more I'll want equal too. If he doesn't make as much she'll bare the burden for carrying him

[@crisspyg.9742]

I was an ignorant walking red flag. Now I live every day to be a walking green flag. A year so the guy I was dating dumped me, I was depressed and instead of giving up on life, I gave it up to God. I slowly started listening to better music. One of the first songs I heard was Lacrae, and I am now back in church every Sunday with my Mom ❤

[@meganp8766]

Glory to God! 💛

[@Braveh3artGirl]

Forgive the past you! You are born again ❤❤ a brand new creature in Jesus Christ ❤❤ be blessed sister! Our past traumas are just an old reflection of the past self, God gives us the healing and the power

[@tierramonique]

That "if he ain't following Jesus he can't lead you" is the truth and Yet some of us settle for a little bit of Jesus and stay in a posture of praying to Jesus to change our boo to follw Jesus all the way. That's a cycle we must break...I'm talking to myself too.

[@Salvation123..]

Period , thank you ❤

[@nikf1315]

Absolutely 💯

[@EritreanChic]

Girl, speak on it.

[@kimberlynhughes3658]

“Where we going “? “I don’t know” Get out the car girl!! 😂

[@dannikaliforn-ia]

I'm absolutely cracking up when he was like..." He needs better friends, I can be his better friend. NO!" 😂😂😂

[@__J_____]

Keep hope alive my single people!

[@chassityg.1643]

I heard you speak at a concert in Dallas and you said something to the effect that as two people are running in their own lane living out their purpose, you’ll look to the side and see someone who is able to keep up and are going in the same direction. I’ve been holding on to that statement ever since. Thank you for the wisdom.

[@j0rdxnf0rjesus]

That’s crazy🔥🔥

[@Anointed1s_TV]

Sometimes, God may give you a spouse that will help you work on you're patience and to slowdown for them while encouraging them to pick up the pace. We always want a spouse that is at our "level and pace," but God care more about our growth rather than comfortability.

[@chassityg.1643]

@@Anointed1s_TVThat's an interesting perspective. Thanks for sharing.

[@utamu80]

@@Anointed1s_TV thank you for your perspective, I do think that Christians are often selling each other a fantasy of what an ideal spouse should be as opposed to encouraging each other to be sober minded and led by the spirits in this area. We have to be careful not to add to what the word requires based on our preferences.

[@kiarichmond9401]

Churches never speak to the younger audience about relationships and without that guidance were lost and left to figure a lot out on our own.

[@ikechia.13]

This maybe an unpopular opinion but I feel like instead of being obsessed with looking for “red flags” in others, we need to look inwards to see our own red flags, get healed emotionally. Most of us are walking around with so much trauma that everything is triggering…that emotional radar is just going off on everything both good and bad. It’s like being sore all over from a work out or accident…everything hurts! Another point I’d like to make is that sometimes when people talk about red flags they are looking for a short cut to happiness. Kinda like a guarantee that this person will make them happy(which in my opinion is a very unrealistic expectation). For someone to make you happy, they have to not only know you but be quick enough to process your feelings in the way you need them to do they can always respond the way you want….thats a computer…it’s not a person. I really believe that instead of happiness ,joy should be the goal. Joy requires looking more at what is happening on the inside more than the outside. Joy can have a healing effect on emotions and mental state. In my experience people love to be around people with joyous people and when you are around someone with joy there’s a sense of “calmness” around them, that makes you want to stick around longer Joy is an attitude regardless of our circumstances while happiness is tied to our outward circumstances (maybe that’s why the fruit of the spirit is Joy and not happiness). Even in marriage, an attitude of joy causes you to take responsibility for your emotions rather than saddle your partner with the weight of regulating your emotions.

[@A.M.T.E]

I wholeheartedly agree, take the speck out of your eye so you can see clearly to take the speck from your brothers 👁️.

[@Loretta2323]

Well said.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

This is true.

[@mikehollier86]

You're absolutely right! Too bad we're living in a world that takes pride in finding flaws in others. Doing the inward work to figure out self takes real grit, and most aren't built for it. As someone who's done the inward work, I've regretted it many times. However, once I've gone through the process, the outcome has been gratifying. Nowadays, everyone finds peace in knowing that there's a problem with everyone other than themselves than working on self. Which is why vids like this are created.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

@@mikehollier86 truth

[@makebakaili764]

"You can't even see the red flags 'cause all you see is red hearts" LOL real

[@lashaydavis8593]

It's like we ladies have to face reality and stop living in this fairy tale fantasy about relationships that doesn't exist. Relationships are work.

[@utamu80]

Yep. The rhetoric that if you just focus on God and doing Christian behaviors God will send you a perfect spouse has done a lot of damage to be honest.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

​@@utamu80that's not true. People either refuse to use discernment or are naive and some people just don't make themselves available while seeking a spouse. God is not going to drop a spouse from Heaven out the sky onto our doorsteps, we have to make ourselves available and seen.

[@queenofallusa5391]

❤️

[@themalawiandiner180]

If the person is the right person, it shouldn't feel like work, it just flows, I feel like most of the work should be internal and individually and then coming together as a whole.

[@AnnaJPosh]

Marriage is to make someone look more like Jesus... I felt that! Lecrae be dropping some GEMS🗣🙌

[@nataliewalters2759]

It’s is and about holiness to more like Him

[@dannythebaker77]

I believe you should not post a relationship when it’s new. When you are solid on if that person is your husband or wife then yes you can post. But when you’re first learning about each other and getting to know one another and having confirmation if this person is your future spouse, you should keep that private.

[@themalawiandiner180]

True. I truly believe you should post each other after engagement or marriage, cause that's concrete and stepping into a lifetime commitment.

[@natashavictor4946]

I agree!

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

One of the first guys who asked me out when I moved to Atlanta in the 90s asked to go dutch after we finished our meal. I didn't even hesitate to say, "Absolutely!" But I never went out with him again. He was my son's barber, and I adjusted the future conversation to friendship instead of interest. I never called him out or addressed it, but I knew that he was not serious about me. The thing is that during our "date" I think it became clear to him that I was not going to sleep with him (I was recently divorced and was co-parenting with my ex). I was taught to always bring your own money everywhere you go, and I teach my daughters to always have money to 1. pay for your own meal, and 2. take an Uber if you need to get home. Never cause a scene or confront a person for asking you to go dutch. Pay and keep it moving.

[@evaj3259]

Thank you for the advice the same thing happened to me. Ladies keep note

[@Anointed1s_TV]

This is an interesting read and good advice. 😅 I was curious, what is dutch? I'm from the south 🤷🏿‍♂️ and if it was an ungodly activity, why did you decide to commit to it, only to friend zone the guy. 😂 Deep down, you wanted to go with him and truthfully, he probably was the chosen spouse that God had for you, except he wanted the desert before the meal (premarital sex). Probably should've shown him some grace to grow and he probably would've repented.

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

@@Anointed1s_TV going "dutch" means each person pays for their own meal, what they ate and drank. It's not the same as splitting the bill. So when men ask you to help pay for a date that they asked you on, and then realize it won't go as planned, they are clearly showing a level of manipulation that should be a huge red flag. Grace is for when you are in a relationship or married, and the person is struggling. If you show me exactly who you are on the very first date and I give you grace, I'm creating my own heartache. And...while I'm going through a divorce??? NOPE. That grace was MUCH better spent on the father of my children so we could figure out how to co-parent effectively.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

@@dawnbedingfield1159 if you want a new relationship, you will have to make sacrifices. Nobody is perfect to set perfect expectations. Sometimes, people make mistakes on a first date due to nervousness, but later down the road, the relationship turns for the best. Not all signals hold as concrete evidence, sometimes you have to give others time.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

@@dawnbedingfield1159 that's never cool. If he didn't want to be there, he could've paid for you're meal and left. You weren't supposed to divorce you're husband, you were supposed to reconcile with him for you're family sake. You're right, you should've given grace to you're ex husband for restoration. Seeking a new relationship after a divorce against living spouse, except if that spouse committed adultery against you, is a sin.

[@Stories_that_Build]

Biggest 🟩 flag is she follows Jesus (loving God, loving others, and loving oneself) even when it is considered unconventional.

[@timbridger4681]

I'd say, following Jesus should be made clearer. If the man or woman doesn't at least read the Bible 3 times a day just like you eat to feed your physical body, then that's a red flag in the long run. You need God's word and spirit to maintain the blessings that He will give you, and that's the same thing for marriage. Spiritual discipline should be the ONLY element that matters above all else. Reading the word, meditating on it day and night, praying without ceasing in your heart, all of these make up the recipe. The love that you have for God will later overflow to others. It's a game of priorities.

[@whyZaya]

That isn’t a green flag. That’s just a requirement. If that’s all they have going for them, they probably aren’t worth your time.

[@ShaneGuyton-mj1mv]

To bad it doesn't mean that she don't have problems.

[@ShaneGuyton-mj1mv]

​@timbridger4681 You tripping and legalistic, period point blank.😂

[@TheLovelies95]

@whyzaya if that’s all they have going for them, you have a firm foundation to build on

[@RoseKB22]

I've been saving my heart for a long, long time. So long that people who meet me decide that they should start matchmaking, lol. My default is turning guys down for a handful of reasons. Maybe I'm supposed to be single. Maybe my future husband is out there getting his own heart prepared. I don't know. The main thing is that I continue to follow Christ, and allow Him to refine my character and hone my faith. God is going to take care of me, husband or no husband. If I end up getting married, I'll definitely count it as a huge blessing. If I'm an old maid to the end of my days, then ok. Jesus is coming back soon. God has things for me to do here in the present. I can't let the world tell me single is bad, or married is bad. Doing what's right, and cultivating healthy friendships is a way more joyful way to live, than letting a million voices that aren't God, tell me what to do.

[@Shalom.Asamoah_]

Wow Rose, this is beautiful

[@Shalom.Asamoah_]

29:34-30:10 I am cryinggggggg Lecraeeeee 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Anointed1s_TV]

Hopefully you're not turning down guys for petty reasons 😂. Truthfully, God chooses cornballs, clumsy, and ignorant men to represent Him. You should humble yourself and be gracious towards men that aren't at you're level of thinking. Usually God will give you someone who isn't as intelligent as you to humble and grow you in patience, forgiveness, and grace. Relationships that requires alot of work creates the best marriages. Not everything is meant to be peaches and cream 😂

[@RoseKB22]

@@Anointed1s_TV I have grown up on the poorer side of life, and I have seen friends vanish off the face of the earth and come back with a child and no husband. I have seen when a shady dude isolates the woman he's chosen, to where she has to sneak to even stay in touch with family members. I have seen guys jump between girls like it's nothing. I've seen a guy ask current girlfriends to ask me out for him. Many of the men of good character I've seen, are already taken. I gain more grey hairs every day. I look at the core character of a man. What is he planning to do with his life? How does he treat the people around him? Does he love God truly, or does he just flippantly say "Oh yeah sure, I'm a Christian too!" while smoking weed and cussing out his friend?

[@RoseKB22]

@@Anointed1s_TV Not sure why my reply vanished. I have seen a lot of sad things that men have done to women. People I know and love who have been hurt by shady dudes. So I save my heart.

[@JoshMitchell116]

33:55-34:55 💎💎💎 "She believed in me, she believed in my character, she believed in the type of person I wanted to be, and she knew by hell or high water I was gonna take care of her *based on her friendship with me over a period of time.*" Essential. Insightful.

[@krisleshiba3390]

At times you gotta learn to sit with yourself only then will you be able to focus on God and make the right choices

[@melaninmoxiellc963]

Preach

[@DopeGoats2022]

bro, you hit 1.16M subs, congrats

[@the5gguru]

116

[@tomassjurelonis6408]

Praise God

[@natashavictor4946]

Praise the Lord!

[@LifeLessonsforWomen]

Ladies, know your worth! Don't fall for fake dreams & smoke screens!

[@BrieLani]

Holding hands running the race .. I love that ❤

[@user-sc8ux4nn1u]

If you ask me to pay half, you just put yourself in the perm friend zone! Im ordering shots and wings because I'm officially, "yah boy!"

[@sashaclarke2749]

Basically!🤷🏼‍♀️👍🏼😌

[@justlillian__]

That analogy Lecrae made about his wife and him running the same race in the same direction was everything for me. It gave me lifeeee!!! That's literally what i desire with all my heart. Not me draging him, but we on the same pace chasing Jesus and our purpose in Christ. Ill even say ill date him running a little faster than me bc he will be the head, but i still would want him to look back and grab my hand like come on bae, i got u. However, i do not want to drag him. I don't mind holding him up in certain seasons when he is feeling tired and weak from the race, but i refuse to drag him. Thanks, Lecrae, for that mental image. That was EVERYTHING!

[@aninfphilosophy]

Hey Lecrae! Can you talk about red flags that seem kinda camouflaged? Like, dating someone who is actually in the church and claims to love God. But they could be a religious narcissist or have some narcissistic tendencies that are not so easy to spot initially. I feel like my sisters and I have only ever met men in the church (or who claim to be devoutly Christian) but turn out to be different than expected in relationships. For example, my youngest sister dated a man who claimed he was devoutly Christian but turned out to be a misogynistic abuser. He would use the Bible against my sister for being a woman. That relationship really messed her up. Now she has a lot of trauma and is terrified to date another Christian man.

[@danilaroche1156]

Anyone can claim to be a Christian. Even Jesus said this. It's a matter of the heart. A heart to please God. To hear His voice. The Bible is clear. A man is to honor a woman. To love His wife like Christ loves the church. If a man is abusing or tearing down a woman..he's in error. Only date/court a man who respects you. Period.

[@danilaroche1156]

She needs to ask the Lord to heal her trauma. Restore her soul. She needs to begin process of forgiving her ex and it takes time. She'll be aiight.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

The Holy Spirit will give you discernment of a religious narcissistic spirit. Dealing with those kind of spirits requires intense spiritual warfare when you're alone, but you have to not judge them or reciprocate coldness towards them. It's better for a woman to date a Christian man instead of an unbeliever. It's harder for Christian men in society, because we are under constant attack from the Devil and his children. Christian men should love and respect their wives, but they also need strong Christian women to be their prayer warriors.

[@user-sc8ux4nn1u]

I don't even want a church dude because they ran through the church I like dudes that respect god

[@user-sc8ux4nn1u]

Church folks always damage folks

[@YRighteous1]

Red flag: if a man ask you to go dutch )split the bill) on a date! The below applies to some women and men: If the woman orders the whole restaurant "just because," then what should the man do? Some people order things in a restaurant that they themselves have never seen or heard of before but orders it because they are not requires to pay. With the above in mind, I will say this: when invited on a date, be reasonable and don't be exploitative

[@melaninmoxiellc963]

Sounds reasonable.

[@jasonbiggs9261]

The woman who claimed $75k was too low makes sense…she obviously is a product of a wealthy family/circle and woman are not attracted to men who earn less;

[@lifeventures6651]

Yes, it depends on background and where you reside. 75k is good in some places like Illinois or Florida, but peanuts if you live in California or New York.

[@Athens3192]

I met my husband high school we were friends for 2 years. We started dating after. Dated for 5 years and broke up. 3 years later we reconnect and get married a year after. Been married for 4 years been Christian all this time and now he’s questioning his faith in God. I remember your story about when you stepped away and how it affected your wife but I think I need to hear her story…could you have her one one day to have an in depth conversation about this because this isn’t a commonly discussed topic and I’m struggling!

[@danilaroche1156]

You have to be wise. This is warfare (Ephesians 6). Don't berate or criticize him for his struggle. Be an example. Is there a brother who can encourage him? Pray with him?

[@danilaroche1156]

Also you must repent if you had premarital sex. Soul ties affect marriage.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

​@@danilaroche1156excellent response sis, but the premarital sex soul-tie was canceled out when she got married. Their marriage is now sanctified 😅

[@danilaroche1156]

Yes but past soul ties and sexual sin still must be dismantled in Jesus name.

[@Anointed1s_TV]

@@danilaroche1156 it's dismantled when a Christian Spirit filled married couple becomes one (sex). A demonic spirit cannot coexist with the Holy Spirit. It will flee from the Holy Spirit.

[@dawnbedingfield1159]

Not, pee in the pool! 🤣🤣🤣

[@xJessiGirlProx]

“You’re getting so emotionally involved so fast you’re not even seeing the red flags 🚩 cause all you see is red hearts ❤”

[@EmbracingElevation]

That's good brother 🙏🏾 to God be the Glory!

[@Missp99]

I appreciate your honesty! This was so good and pure. Thank you for sharing!

[@user-xv3md7pl5b]

Awesome video! I agree it is important to identify our strengths and weaknesses. It is also very important to collaborate instead of competing for relationships to be whole and healthy.

[@jamariharrell3484]

The wisdom engraved in that running analogy was incredible good stuff Lecare🔥👍

[@dannyboysable]

Praying and hoping the best for you man ❤🙏

[@jensheedy]

You’re so needed in this culture. Thank you.

[@Tattiiana5]

So glad lecrae with good advice very much needed

[@lorellmothiba444]

This episode came at the right time. Thanks Crae for the wisdom. ❤ 🙌🏾

[@kaylamariegilmore9835]

Can we get some more of this.... this is gold and so many true statements.

[@samanthaperez1050]

Lecrae you explained this so well. Plain and clear. Thank you for always keeping it real ! 💯

[@kimberlynhughes3658]

This is a very on time message! I’ve learned this on my own but it’s great the way he expresses it. Hopefully people will take this to heart and use these practices in how you develop your relationships! You will avoid a lot of heartache and unnecessary struggle!

[@frankquattlebaum6126]

My first time seeing your content. When you first started out with the bedroom voice I almost skipped ahead, but I got distract by some work I was doing and your actual content started. Very well done. Glad I didn't just skip past based on the first few seconds. Keep up the good work.

[@heidirporter08]

Very insightful...Bless you and your wife💚🩷🙏🏽

[@orangeslices990]

I’m so glad you’re back, man!

[@gailburns5201]

Every young person needs to watch this and the other ones like it! It is valuable information.

[@arielbooth2012]

The podcast I didn’t know I needed!! Thank you Lecrae

[@KelseyArnold23]

Your like the big brother advice that I always needed

[@MelodySchultze-js5kf]

Yes I am 43 n single. There are a lack of good men n woman. Where in the world are people of character

[@dropalikeforallthebeautifu4711]

I appreciate you so much lecrae! I used to look at myself as a failure of not being in a relationship, but I learn to improve myself and be closer to God in order to prepare myself for someone like me and have my desire in life. Thank you so much🙌🏾

[@goodflow3766]

Thank you Lecrae for dropping wisdom on us, we need it fs 🙏

[@angelinesanders6471]

It's a MARATHON, ❤NOT A SPRINT

[@kayla1196]

I NEEDED THIS!! Thank you. Appreciate all your videos with this pod

[@Gingersnap484]

THIS IS SOOOO FIRE 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@CONOCE.CULTURA]

This episode is a blessing.

[@jre1378]

Alexa.. play “Wait” by Lecrae (2004)

[@taylor_mmaaddee]

This is so good!

[@lauraquigley9332]

We don't even go to church together I've had it.

[@brightsparkle9547]

Loving this content 🙏🏻

[@xJessiGirlProx]

I love how practical lecrae is. In a lot of ways he thinks similar to me in a way I feel seen 😂 even though we don’t always agree. I like that he is very spiritually minded but also practical! I come from an area in the Christian body where a lot of people, imo, over spiritualize things and fail to think practically or understand how things are day to day. So I appreciate that he tries to keep that balance. He considers the spiritual side, the cultural side, etc etc

[@aminataseck3254]

So true. Thank you very much

[@lauraquigley9332]

I'm leaving a man who dies not go to church and doesn't believe in my religion I know he's not the one for me I can't and won't be unequally yoked.

[@walkerfam8681]

@Lecrae Great advice and wise counsel! I truly appreciate you and your platform. Thank you for being counter cultural and setting a standard. Thank you for being in the world, but not of it and letting your light shine before men. 💯

[@JtinaM26]

...u missed the question about the bank accounts....🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔

[@TEEKAY.812]

This is just really good

[@bellalove1805]

18 years? Not married? Isn’t that a 🚩? 😂❤

[@KimPossible911]

Yessss this is exactly what i told my ex...he left because we were just on 2 different paths...I was seeking God...he was seeking wordly things...we are cordial now and I told him we jumped into a relationship without even being friends first. Im no longer interested in a relationship with him...and of course he regrets leaving. But like you said if he aint seeking God he cant lead me! 🙏🏼🙌🏼

[@Anointed1s_TV]

What brought you 2 together? Where did you 2 meet? How did you attract such a man void of God? 🤔 It could be possible that since you're more mature in the Holy Spirit, you should've prayed for his repentance?

[@KimPossible911]

@Anointed1s_TV I did pray for him, everyday. But I can't make anyone make changes...you have to seek God for yourself. The same way God gives us free will to make decisions. My ex has to make that decision for himself. But we met at work. And he knows God...but is lukewarm. 1 foot in the world and 1 in the word. I'm all in and can't compromise that. But I still pray for him...I'll pray for anyone 🙏🏼

[@Anointed1s_TV]

@@KimPossible911 truth is, when it comes to marriage in this world, you are supposed to have 1 foot in the world (so that you can relate to worldly people) and the other foot in the word of God (so that you can help worldly people come to Jesus). The Bible says, that a married couple are concerned about the things of the world for how they might please their wife or husband. When it comes to marriage, it's all about balance, because you want to give you're spouse Heaven on earth until y'all both go to Heaven later. Life is complicated for a Christian couple, but as long as you have a conscience towards God, God will always honor you're marriage.

[@KimPossible911]

@@Anointed1s_TV we weren’t married

[@thisisCOBI]

Great message

[@Kelzmerish]

If I'd be honest, hearing someone else's view on things helps way more than doing it alone

[@Chris_The_Cameraman]

Thank you brother

[@Passion84GodAlways]

Lecrae, if you've already addressed this aspect of dating then please pardon my oversight...but if you could speak to men about how courting/dating is NOT supposed to be a one-sided Therapy session with them talking solely about themselves and their hopes, dreams, and aspirations it would be GREATLY APPRECIATED. 🙌🏾🙏🏾 I say this because I've experienced this time after time with men of various ages, ethnicities, and socioeconomic statuses.

[@iiBorxz]

I remember listening to “tell the world, and “find you” - by Lecrae.. just listened to it and it brung me back so many years when I was in 3rd and 4th grade bro! I’m in 10th grade now listening to this on repeat lol

[@zabrinatheteacher]

Good teaching.

[@nottheoneneo9471]

the last segment of running is one of the best things on the internet on the subject of relationships👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@GvannD]

This was so good

[@dariahannah8890]

@Lecrae I’ve been looking forward to your podcast all week. I can’t wait for tonight episode.

[@LecraeOfficial]

Preciate you!

[@Shalom.Asamoah_]

Lecrae this video is cracking me up 😂😂😂😂😂😂 especially when you say “that’s weird” on the bread winner issue

[@kingcheflos602]

Love it !!! ❤

[@suzannedouglas1068]

Great video. Confirmed a lot for me.

[@LiveWire1908]

Needed this about 4 years ago lol " I don't know I'm just driving." lol All is well. We live and we learn.

[@tenishastairpraisegod7648]

Hey Lecrae and Happy blessed Thursday!🖤🙏🏾🖤🙏🏾🖤🙏🏾🖤😀

[@LecraeOfficial]

Same to you!

[@JesFos]

Thank you for doing this video. I started thinking im crazy & what I want is the problem, then started lowering my standards. I prayed for someone to help me learn the bible more, boom, found my man, but he isnt ready. I rather wait for him to figure out his things rather than going back in the dating pool tho

[@eienshi]

this is everything

[@nikf1315]

Your description of you and your wife running inthe same direction was the best!! No looking back🏃🏽‍♀️‍➡️

[@breannagladney646]

The way you said “monastically” has me crying 😂😂😂😂

[@JayWilliams-ox5ob]

Preach!!!

[@skggofficial]

😂 thanks a lot for doing this

[@victorwallace21]

Preach had the same humbling experience on arrogance, bro. It's 🤦🏿 one of the best things that happened to me , all glory to the Lord

[@AddyElvis]

The led lights got me laughing 🤣

[@chatimuphiri]

Uncle Crae? Always spilling tea!!!!!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@lauraquigley9332]

Don't want to pay for anything you need.

[@LloydsofRochester]

Solid!

[@nyamushagibridget9853]

Thank you

[@CherylrhondaMoreland-wv2fj]

Oh its bad out here very bad

[@L0ve365Beauty]

23:58 😂😂😂 me saying I'm not washing all the dishes, but we could use the dishwasher.

[@jonathantiggs4628]

Good content

[@mzkoya3]

I needed this. So much conformation for this season of my life. Thank you🤍