10 major red flags 🚩 in men that you MUST pay attention to

[@briattnybrittany6843]

my trick with people, especially men, is to listen. if you listen, people will tell you all you need to know. it's that simple.

[@reneemassey-2827]

Sooooo dayum true!!!

[@EnchantedAnn]

And when they don’t talk, it is absolutely all you will never know💯

[@rosalind7678]

💯‼️

[@desrinesimpson561]

So true just listen

[@monikawoodson3789]

So true!

[@annaa6259]

“someone who wants you to be their peace is at war with themselves”🤯😱👏👏👏

[@UnityJ12]

This guy told me one time while dealing with another girl at the beginning that he thought I’d be his peace. I thought that was a punch line he was just trying on me. He was already distant. Called me once every other year. Not until I reached out and all this in the friendship that I thought we had came up.. Huge turn off!

[@alana523]

Yeah so sick of that line

[@PriorMO]

At war with themselves. I Love it!

[@LRey85]

My ex loved saying that…hence he’s my ex. My man now never says it. He knows if he brings me chaos don’t expect peace

[@anacollado742]

Wow wow thank you❤❤❤

[@pamelawilliams2739]

This is why some men end up alone in a nursing home 😅😅 because KARMA IS REAL

[@aries81M]

Yep what you give us what you get 💯💯💯

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@KM-oy5yh]

​@aries81M AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

[@FGC-ku4ez]

I used to teach art in a nursing home where there was a ratio of about 40 women to every 2 men, and what did the men do? Hit on me when I was in my early 20s, and there were dozens of age appropriate women around them! They actually thought they had a chance even in diapers, with serious illnesses, and in complete destitution. A lot of men never think they're over the hill, and they don't give a crap if they have nothing to offer or are trying to waste the best years of a woman's life. Some men overplay their hands when they're still able to date and age themselves right out of the dating market. Then, they scramble at the end of their lives to find a free young nurse and end up making fools out of themselves. Karma is real, people!

[@KM-oy5yh]

@@FGC-ku4ez Lord Have Mercy, Sister, This is Soooooo #TRUE N YET #SAD N #PITIFUL 🙏♥️

[@Soulhearts4ever]

I think people need to start noticing their own red flags... Self awareness is important.

[@portiamagaqa1536]

Yes. Wanting security is a red flag identified in myself

[@ShellonMendonca]

So true,and a lot of people keep blaming the other person but not knowing they are the one giving the red flags

[@outsidethebox8406]

Right & work on being better, how about that part!

[@Zazezoo]

@@portiamagaqa1536that should be every woman’s want, not a red flag!

[@barbarabermingham9385]

Absolutely 👍 💯

[@shabanabegum9623]

words and actions can fool you but patterns never lie 💯

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN 🎉

[@claudiarainone5548]

What do u mean by patterns?

[@ahamed6702]

@@claudiarainone5548 watch what a person does (patterns).

[@kadinethompson9442]

Hence why I only watch actions

[@Erica-cf1xb]

​@claudiarainone5548 people are creatures of habit. They like consistency. You will pick up on it. Most people are hiding something and that something Is usually a flag. Everyone wants to present as the angel.

[@sephiwejoycesithole6118]

Red flags...💔 Sleep with you on a first date. Not committed. Doesn't give you a break. Brings up marriage/ loving you Who brings you to date and ask who's paying the bill?. Quick to talk bad about their ex Tells you he doesn't trust women easily. Who asks you to be his peace. He's always busy and you hear from him once or 2 a week. When he just disappears. When he comes over at night only. Or calls at night only. Still learning thank you🙏👌💕

[@LeftHimDead]

So its a red flag if i dont trust women, yall are crazyy as hell 🤣

[@senorita-qh6bm]

@@LeftHimDeadif you have a hatred for all women then yes you should be with a man not a woman

[@mandanaa9578]

Thank you.

[@Bri-nc8yp]

@@LeftHimDeadif you don’t trust women then stay single. But don’t play games with peoples lives and emotions it’s that simple. There are a ton of women looking for stability..honesty …loyalty…fidelity etc so if that’s not you then be fully single…however that’s not what men do…they say the don’t want anything serious ..they say they don’t trust women yet they still want the perks of being with a woman while being nothing to the woman’s life that’s positive just bunch of headache and drama.

[@shontasmith9362]

Absolutely, well said.

[@tarothijadevenus4017]

Never believe in his words, watch his actions ❤

[@LeftHimDead]

Same thing men gotta do wit women.

[@VisibleTimes]

Exactly 💯

[@FGC-ku4ez]

I had a friend who would only contact me on holidays asking when I was coming into the city. I got together with him for lunch once, and he seemed rude, distracted, and upset. I excused myself after an hour of strange behavior and my gut telling me something was wrong. I found out a month later that he was in a relationship with a 21 year old girl (he's 46) and he'd proposed to her and gotten turned down right before he met me for lunch and tried to get me to go to his place. Trust your guts ladies!

[@KevonnieElaine]

Whoa😳

[@SharelleCountz]

That's insane

[@kmydesire12]

Who different level of scumbag

[@Katrica670]

@FC yes they take out their problems from the ones that do Not want them on you!

[@RoseMalaneigh]

​@@Katrica670 Exactly ‼️❌ And mess with the wrong one's & 🔚 up finding out the hard way about WRONGFULLY doing thing's to innocent people. It's flat out ridiculous & pathetic. If dude's (in general) can't handle rejection, then they need to just stay by themselves. Period, point blank..... it's not 🚫 that durn hard!

[@justsayit476]

A man that constantly looks at other women whilst in your presence

[@angelicelevationtarot1]

When people show you who they are.. believe them! - Maya Angelou

[@VisibleTimes]

Great advice ❤❤❤

[@MarieN8959]

Also when people show you who they are ,don't treat them like who they could be . Believe what they showed you the first time..

[@sweetlo3424]

This is the most honest healthy advice on dating I've ever heard.

[@konsciousKirk]

Awwe. Thank u

[@teresahendley1316]

I agree! Very direct and to the point also. Thank you for sharing 😊 this information with us!

[@Mzlilunique]

My red flag I keep encountering with men is not being invited to their house. Smh. Big red flag. Always want to be in my space.

[@howardcinnamon]

I made up my mind. If I can’t come to your place, u can’t come to mine PERIOD.

[@suebaybee]

I was having a conversation with a guy and he says "i need my woman to be my peace." I told him he must first have peace withink himself.

[@freespirit-111]

😂😂

[@Virgolove]

....he heard it and thought it sounded good and thought you'd like it.....but yes...peace comes from within, sir. Be peaceful...

[@vodkavuitton]

Most stalkers do not have peace that's why they live for drama

[@MzBates815]

They definitely always reveal themselves no need to go looking 💯

[@LeftHimDead]

Yall sure do.

[@latoyaalexander8951]

Sometimes they will call you while their spouse and children are inside of the house or at the store. They will also pretend to be divorced or a single parent.....

[@Katrica670]

@latoyalexander and where are they, in the car if they own one, or on the road? Then when the family is at the store, it makes sense he is calling from the house.

[@latoyaalexander8951]

@Katrica670 No actually inside of the house at the same time as their wife while the wife is inside of another room watching TV, sleeping or running a business. They will say that their on the phone with a family member, coworker or friend if asked.

[@sylverista3505]

Happens to me all the time 😂😂😂

[@latoyaalexander8951]

@sylverista3505 I am sorry that this has happened to you. These things have happened to me during my marriage and before getting married.

[@trinjuwan4422]

I'm DONE with men, but I do like listening to "warnings" feedback from men & love to see ppl in love❤

[@rachaelrobinson2185]

4B movement

[@AhsinacLifeStyle]

SAME...

[@shakiesympathy9852]

Same story with me 😊

[@Shai8212]

Also, another red flag is the one that can’t pick up the phone to call always texting

[@vfree4579]

I got pulled into the texting big red flag never 📞

[@VisibleTimes]

💯

[@youvegotmel2844]

10 Red Flags 🚩 1. Ready to sleep with you on the 1st date 2. Openly telling you he doesn’t want to commit 3. One that doesn’t give you a break 4. Brings up love & marriage on the 1st date 5. Ask you out & convo about who’s going to pay 6. Quick to talk bad about his ex 7. Tells you he doesn’t trust women easily 8. Ask you to be his peace 9. Who is always busy 10. Disappears

[@Katrica670]

"The one who lies in the beginning, then you catch the lie, it never ends!"🤔

[@SL-ez5rv]

I achieved 40 years of that

[@Katrica670]

@@SL-ez5rv of what?

[@Kashmir-lt4cx]

​@@SL-ez5rvare you a male?

[@vodkavuitton]

They'll keep the lies going for years to keep from moving on

[@AnnaParada-x3y]

GREETINGS FROM ARKANSAS SOME OF THIS IS VERY TRUE AND A MAN WHO TALKS BAD AND TREATS HIS FAMILY PARENTS WHO IS STINGY AND TALKS BADLY ABOUT THE POOR THE WEAK AND THE HOMELESS OR THINKS CERTAIN WOMEN ARE UNATTRACTIVE AND MEN WHO DO NOT TRULY LIVE FOR GOD....A BAD TEMPER AND ANY TYPE OF DRUG USE MJ AND OTHER DRUGS CUSSING IS ALSO A BAD SIGN

[@TheNisiu]

"Be your own peace!" Thank you!

[@ZaraUchiha13]

he gave 5 out of 10 red flags. no commitment, disappeared for days, was there for the benefits only))) and yeah tried to sleep with me on the first date, pushing several times and backing up after i firmly said no the 3rd time i left him and the trauma bond, feeling better a month later... trust me, it works. if u'r going thru sth similar, please be strong, it does get better, there's a better u at the end of the journey :)

[@annaa6259]

“Don’t just collect the flags” wow- words of wisdom straight at the beginning 👏

[@diannwhitaker6]

I just called off dating this guy last week. We were dating for a month and he "loves me" and wanted me to be his wife. This was after i told him that i don't want to get married. He would call me everyday and always ask where i was. If i said i was home, we would continue having regular conversation. If i said i was out somewhere, he always wanted to come where i am. I told him that i didn't want to date him and he immediately talked about what "I" was doing to him is wrong. What I was doing to him????? I blocked him and then 2 different people told me that he was married.

[@peacendukwe]

😮 wowwwww

[@---nj7hl]

Narcissistic as his Finest. Don't do onto me But I can do onto you. They are crazy!!!!

[@KassieP-sf6nz]

That happened to me 7 years ago. I want them to play with me now am I a whole different person now.

[@IamCoachCourt]

Don’t just collect the flags 😩😩

[@konsciousKirk]

Exactly lol

[@SS-in1ts]

Coach Court!! 🙌

[@Leahmoonbeamflower]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 that was FUNNY.

[@Erica-cf1xb]

We playing flag football.

[@mwoods2375]

Yep when they NEVER ask YOU any questions

[@toptier6356]

Thiss!!!!!!

[@mjparham6430]

Or Answer Yours!

[@angiepurpleyoda]

When you connect with your true self it all makes sense. If you are true to yourself and what you want emotionally, you’ll be in a desperate situation…and you can save yourself if you lean into truth. Discernment is very very important. People tell on themselves in the first meeting but you’re not vigilant enough to see because you’re stuck in desperation mode evaluating the situation for yourself emotionally instead of logically. Train yourself to not respond emotionally first and you’ll see a lot.

[@cynthiachavis9678]

If his mother tells you my son ain't no good and you gonna fix him

[@joynurse9598]

I have never heard these things explained so simply in my life!

[@ToosdhiBerry-v3f]

This definitely is very important in Dating today and one more thing when you see a narcissist run

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER 🎉

[@kysharooks5219]

You got that right! The love bombing, compulsive liar/cheater, toxic, trauma

[@StephanieHarvey-g8g]

Yes 💯💯💯

[@cassandramitchell802]

These are PURE FACTS!!! I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE 😊

[@chrishanswann433]

❤🎉😂I LOVE THIS😂 Sir I Am 45 & Been Through These Things, You ARE ON Point Once Again. I Pray All Your Female Listeners Take Your Sage Advice❤🎉

[@KM-oy5yh]

AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, ME 2, I just turned #52🎉

[@rachaelrobinson2185]

Just realized I've been doing the 4B movement without even knowing it for years!😅

[@zimbinigijana-gz4xu]

A man who talks about having kids with you on the first date, run ladies

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Great advice. He is into raw semen sex early. That's a BIG issue with the matrix. Nobody cares who gets what. Boys and girls can get it. Wild outside.

[@Tend2Rose]

My ex took me to measure my finger, he was always the one to mention the 💍 not me!…I waited to see if it would ever manifest. 6 years later…🧐 He was all talk and no action and he wanted to be the MAN and LEAD? How he expected me to let him lead, when I could never trust his word. Talk is so bloody cheap and will cost u years of wasted time

[@Duraceljones13]

Wow. I'm going through the same 😢.

[@joeroot9142]

but you stayed 6y smh.

[@kmydesire12]

Right💯they already trying to lead us into a ditch, and run off with the person when stuff hits the fan

[@joyricherson4570]

Curious why did you wait 6 years

[@Frugal637]

They will waste your time until your biological clock ticks and thank toks. Don’t allow them to waste your time.

[@rialee9789]

I agree! Listen to what people say and believe it!

[@P9q-f1w]

Appreciate your knowledge & tips! Trust your intuition! When in doubt.....

[@konsciousKirk]

🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️ thank you

[@wongiwesamana3482]

No7 😢 i was there....i broke up with him 4 days ago, we've been fighting and forgive each other but it never stops. So i decided to leave him. Thank you Kirk 🙏💞

[@Virgolove]

Don't go back. God, universe ..is trying to save you. Good relationships have fwd movement, and last. Bad ones are chaos and heartache..❤

[@portiamagaqa1536]

They never ever leave until you leave

[@crystalgeter.6294]

One More The Man or Woman who says I Just Want to be Friends With Benefits Great Message❤

[@MissOne]

At least they were honest. I respect that.😂

[@shahneezyswayyy8689]

Yeah they're honest, but then starts acting like we are together, giving mixed signals. Never again will i entertain that notion. Broke my own heart with the back & forth. He wanted me to be with him & only him, while he did him and of course lied. Smh

[@MissOne]

@shahneezyswayyy8689 EXACTLY 💯 when you know you know.

[@ShellonMendonca]

My brother,you're real. God bless you

[@Uwhowhereareyou]

I can spot the red flags,now that I'm older.

[@tlbb8199]

When they only visit at night 😂😂 This did make me laugh but ur so right ❤

[@indiagragg27]

This video of all the videos is by far the most detailed and straight to the point. This guy is literally being purely honest with no chaser.😮

[@MissOne]

If I can heal my trauma, maybe I will no longer attract these types of men. And if i do, i wont suffer them for very long.

[@Virgolove]

It's exactly how it works:).you heal....and after that hard work, you will find yourself to be much more discerning, boundried up.....and won't take anything less than u really deserve. It's ok to be single. Many of us are now preferring it🎉❤

[@VisibleTimes]

​@@Virgolove on the journey now ❤

[@Virgolove]

​@@VisibleTimes so happy to hear that. I love that for you❤❤❤❤

[@kmydesire12]

My ex had all of these traits. He was rude to waiters just to not foot the bill at restaurants, he would never have money but all see something he like at the mall. To make it worse this guy I recently mentioned marriage after having 2 conversations I told him right of the bat, I don’t think I’m the one for him to try and date he’s already talking marriage in the talking stage. And other little nuisances in his way that he watches me and notices every , little, detail about me. It’s giving major turn off vibes, Deleting and blocking

[@jacquelinefarquharson5848]

Discerning Spirit.... Have to have that ❤. Real facts bro 💯

[@reshaundaliv9176]

I just meet a man that said, he couldn't trust women easily, and he was always busy, emotionally unavailable. I removed myself fast.

[@chinadoll534]

1. Sleep with you on first date 2. Openly telling you he doesn’t want to commit 3. Doesn’t give you a break (controlling factor) and 4. Brings up marrying you on the first date. Men know exactly what you want to hear 5. Who ask you out on a date, but then want to know who’s paying 6. Quick to talk about their ex in a bad way 7. The man who tells you he doesn’t trust women 8. Man who ask you to be his peace (a man who’s at war with himself) 9. He’s always busy 10. The ones who just disappear 🫥 There are many more red flags, habitual liars, some red flags can be something familiar to you. Someone who doesn’t call in the evenings. A man who calls you from work, etc, doesn’t ask deep questions. A man who does not want to ask deep questions because he doesn’t want you asking them the same questions.

[@samanthalake5011]

Just leave men alone period. 😅

[@Tend2Rose]

😂😂

[@mommynti3stewart391]

I’m telling you. This shit shouldn’t be so complicated.

[@AsheBee123]

I agree!

[@LeftHimDead]

I agree, men will still win without yall.

[@The_torero]

​@@LeftHimDead..Dude, you've answered several women on this video. You're definitely afraid of being alone/single and you're deflecting.

[@carlamitchell466]

You're correct my husband did this to me and I lost all my friends bc they Said I don't like him he's controlling

[@SharleyPaul]

“If you connect with the truth within yourself, you will know everything.” 💯 God = Truth

[@MaureenBenjamin-i2o]

Thank you. EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS SO TRUE.I AM IN THIS SITUATIONSHIP.

[@PriorMO]

Thanks! This is so good. Where were you 20 years ago, when I really needed to hear this. Thank you for it now.

[@konsciousKirk]

Thank you so much🥰🥰

[@aandreahodge]

This was a red flag for me I just met a man within two months he stood me up twice first time he said he was sick after I call and asked was he still coming. Next time he stood me up he didn’t call me like the first time. When I asked he why he didn’t call to let me know he wasn’t coming, he said I didn’t have anything thing else to do. I was furious . I said to my self he didn’t value my time. So he doesn’t value me. I hung up the phone. He kept calling and calling me leaving voicemails, so I blocked him. Just to let you know I never slept with him.

[@---nj7hl]

I would have Bailed the First time he stood me up on the alleged date.

[@TheTeeChannel7]

Thank you, and thanks for getting right to it. 😊

[@Katrica670]

@7:54 this male did that with me about his ex, and I said stop that ain't cool, funny, or flattering! I ain't that chick!

[@bernetajohnson3296]

Excellent video. You kept it 💯! Every woman in America should take heed.

[@nyneegardner6235]

They should listen to rhos Worldwide! The dust is global!!

[@tlbb8199]

Time after time I always get the BEST advice here ! 💯

[@angelamhlongo1749]

Thank you 🙌🏽 💯👌🏽

[@awrightlove]

Great conversation & content tips. Really enjoyed your flavor or style when delivering your messages. 💖

[@konsciousKirk]

Thank you so much ❤️❤️

[@MissChannin]

Ran across ur video randomly. It is right on time. Thank u!

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

You are absolutely correct!!!!

[@viviennetse1207]

You hit the nail exactly on the head! no bullshitting! love this.... thanks for coming up with this list.

[@NB-xt7tj]

Real talks 👏👏👏 your so right, thanks for sharing

[@MAGAMomma27]

You have great energy. Your nature is refreshingly straightforward and full of common sense. Thank you & God Bless. 🙏🏻

[@LetsTalkAboutItWithTALEYA]

Thank you for these confirmations…it’s very necessary, as it truly does take a King to heal a Queen!

[@iamtaliba.divine.love1322]

Every time I hear you speak, it saddens me because it seems like the state of Men these days is almost hopeless. 😢❤️‍🩹🙏🏽 Thank You for the enlightening though. 💝🙏🏽🤴🏾

[@shahneezyswayyy8689]

Needed to hear this. Thank you.

[@candyyelton7286]

So true. I love your wisdom!

[@gingermark2321]

Thank you Kirk - valuable information

[@802lioness]

When someone moves funny (🚩), lies a lot and/or cheats (🚩)...of course you're gonna have trust issues. At this point, it's time to move on.

[@hannahkhannahk9289]

Thank you so much ❤❤❤

[@MelitaLabort]

Thank you so much coach 🥰 Very clear advice, I hear you. I already feel so much safer learning from you. Love and blessings 🙏🏽💖

[@marvetteaiken4534]

Thank you for that!! I needed to hear this.

[@Njeri79]

Nothing but the truth! Thanks for this…

[@marissahumblytherealistone8950]

Wise Man 🦉❤ Thank you!! God bless you Abundantly 🙏

[@barbarawarren9443]

Such excellent advice. ❤

[@tracikrueger1170]

You just validated my last relationship. Thank you I needed to hear this.

[@moja105]

Thanks for this ❤

[@spice174]

Oh I am paying attention 💯thank you for the 10 red flags❤️

[@rosalind7678]

Teach!💯👍🏾💪🏾🖤👑 Everything That You Stated Is All Truth‼️

[@vfree4579]

Thank you you are a GOD SEND❤

[@joannpotts819]

Peace and love my Brother thank you

[@lijon.pichon27]

I wish so much as women, that we could make better dating decisions when choosing men. We are hurting ourselves and our future family units.

[@Iliketogotolunch46]

Thank you for the honesty

[@shaunierockett4964]

You are such a blessing with your wisdom 🙏🏾

[@debralewis111]

Wowwwww!!! Kirk I've be apart of all of them an totally miss read them, I took it as they were so into me, an of coarse when they got what they wanted, they left or only kept me as an option. Wow ❤ so stupid

[@romansmommy7460]

Ur not stupid. We just fell for the bull. It happens to the best of us. Its okay❤

[@adelaidemethola4052]

Thank you. It sank very well and makes sense.

[@moonchild66]

Many 🙏 thanks❤

[@deborahandrews5933]

Listen to what he says! They will tell you everything you need to know about them!

[@VisibleTimes]

Especially in the disclaimers ❤ Watch and listen carefully ❤

[@tay468]

Thank you for your advice

[@aliciapaul9246]

Great advice and they are all true! I kept asking where are the good men?

[@mandanaa9578]

Good video and quick to the points. Thank you. Just subscribed.

[@constancehaiden7315]

I really like your videos.

[@buttaflyantics8618]

Glad I found you, sad not sooner. New subbie ❤

[@Pamela-sm7xo]

God bless you

[@livie1111]

This has to be the most transparent, wisdom based advise on dating I have ever come across! Thank you ❤

[@konsciousKirk]

Thank you so much❤️❤️

[@mz.judeee2529]

I greatly appreciate you opening up and being transparent about men, the good, the bad, and ugly. WE are listening and learning!! Ty!!

[@s.l.copeland1549]

this is good! Thank You so much! 💯 appreciate your realness!

[@Butterflyheart7]

Hello I ran across your video and I'm glad I did because these red flags are going to help me

[@sylverista3505]

So valuable!!! Thanks 🙏 ❤