Lady Gaga on when a loved one has Alzheimer's

The singer talks about how she connects with Tony Bennett: "There is a way to communicate. And there is a way to touch the magic inside of them that's still there."
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[@oliviacasino8888]

As a devoted, lifelong fan of the incredible Tony Bennett’s, I want to sincerely thank Lady Gaga for her kind, thoughtful, insightful, intelligent association with my beloved Tony. I’m 81 years old and have nothing but respect for you and your sweetness toward this man. Ps you two sound wonderful together and we’ll always have your mutual talent’s to revisit and love.

[@alexdiaz8537]

Hello Olivia How are you doing today?

[@heath2510ok]

Beautifully said

[@georgiehollander2199]

She is sensational, isn't she ??

[@djm4457]

Besides being so incredibly talented and beautiful, she is obviously very smart, articulate, and intuitive.

[@guysumpthin2974]

SOOO BEAUTIFUL

[@Sicilia928]

A lovely human being.

[@bkewl3980]

nevr met her have you? get a life.

[@sodarndonestopthelies6514]

@@bkewl3980 when one clicks on your name you are the one that needs a life . your angry and miserable. Maybe you should listen to Lady Gaga again or watch the entire show. it's an absolute tearjerker of love

[@bkewl3980]

@@sodarndonestopthelies6514 Popular culture is for children.

[@Ale-jb8kq]

this woman is SO intelligent, humble and kind it‘s unbelieveable

[@Ernie1978]

She has become an influential person in all the right ways. Gotta love and respect the talented and gorgeous Lady Gaga!

[@alison4316]

Once upon a time, I wasn't crazy about Lady Gaga. I've been converted-- she seems like she is just a truly good, kind human. Like the talent and fame are secondary and tertiary.... Her heart is what takes the stage, to me.

[@jamesjvalvano9737]

You have expressed my feelings. I also am converted. TU

[@sodarndonestopthelies6514]

Same ....l saw her in a meat dress then next thing l know shes wearing the most elegant Couture clothes I've ever seen with impeccable hair and makeup and I'm like what??? The entire 60 minutes interview is mesmerizing, wonderful , joyful, sad ,and happy all-in-one. Gaga is incredible. Probably one of the best 60-minute interviews you'll ever watch it's that good

[@blueturtle1719]

Amen. Very well said. I admire Lady Gaga too for how kind she is and how respectful she was to Tony Bennett.

[@erikandrus4387]

She's just so real. She has respect for others. She has respect for herself. May Gaga live FOREVER!

[@suelyons531]

Ms. Gaga did the most amazing job when she sang with Mr. Tony Bennet. She was in his mind and soul during the entire performance. Simply outstanding. My father, who was a music teacher and died from dementia 20 years ago would have benefitted from some music therapy. His friends did come to sing to him on his last days and he cried.....the first emotion we had seen in a year from him and then he passed 2 days later as if he needed that music to be at peace.

[@djm4457]

The story about your Dad is very moving. I'm happy he found his peace through it. I think music creates the most powerful connection to our emotions. It imprints so deeply the experiences it becomes associated with, the last bridge to our memories and our inner selves when all others have been washed away.....

[@utubefreshie]

@@djm4457 What both of you wrote above is so beautiful. Thank you!

[@deadfred5968]

Free Britney.

[@Africa-ky1bg]

Ditto...my Dad had Alzheimer's. I played my Dad ALL his favorite music ~ he died peacefully the next night.

[@karifoto]

Brenda Staeb 💜that's wonderful. I wanted my dad to have that too. There was music where he was but thought he would've benefited a lot from listening to his favorites. Unfortunately, I was in a different state so I wasn't able to do that for him. I'm glad you did that for your dad. Alzheimer's is such a rough thing to watch a loved one go through. Sorry that you know what that's like. My grandfather died from it too.

[@stefanijoanne2168]

I could literally watch and hear her very well articulate words in every interview she has done. I really love how genuine she is and so very well prepared knowing what exactly she’s talking about.

[@JAWilsonwhitetidelinedesigns]

Lady Gaga is an incredible human being in addition to being a seriously talented singer/actor, too.

[@deadfred5968]

Incredibly fake and uses other peoples' struggles for her attention schemes.

[@RaymondHng]

And a musician.

[@RaymondHng]

@@deadfred5968 What a very apt name you have.

[@scotchwhisky6094]

@@deadfred5968 Foolish if you think that.

[@deadfred5968]

@@scotchwhisky6094 RIP Lina Morgana

[@gregorbos]

Gaga is on her way to being a national treasure of her generation. Bright, crazy talented, and wise beyond her years. Now she's acting. House of Gucci Coming Soon starring Gaga, Adam Driver and Jared Leto. Life is good even in messy 2021.

[@lindseycarribean5113]

She already is.

[@Winterdog6]

A lady of great class and a true friend to Mr. Bennett. He was right in everything he saw in her.

[@jimkeappock7558]

Her relationship with Tony Bennett, is truly a match made in heaven. With his decline with Alzheimer’s she has given him the strength to carry on a little further up the road. Their duets are are great to listen to, can’t wait for the new duets release. Tony you are among the Greatest performers around!!

[@ArtistYellow]

This Lady is wise beyond her years

[@lindseycarribean5113]

I think she is an old soul.

[@LostInTransition7]

She looks amazing with that hair color

[@ManiacRider3113]

I bet that's her natural color. She's absolutely beautiful.

[@laurajayne5681]

@@ManiacRider3113 It is her natural colour! ❤️

[@dollartreeeminem]

SHES SO CUTE AS A BRUNETTE💛😩

[@johnboor3335]

Beautiful. LGG's comments on Tony's not losing his magnificence, in spite of losing his memory, reminds me of how my dad, not even remembering exactly who I was any longer, never stopped being the kind, considerate gentleman he always was, with men, women and children, until his last breath.

[@CrankyGrandma]

Likewise with my grandmother. She did have moments of fear and hallucination, but basically she was the cheerful person with a great sense of the ridiculous to the end. It did not always manifest as in the past. But she was still inside.

[@sanguine9331]

When my late mother had Alzheimer's, in a way I had to forget along with her, meaning I had to release who she used to be. Dwelling on the incredible loss of who she used to be only sustained sadness, not connection. You have to meet them where they are in the present and be surprised by redefined small moments of joy.

[@dianemoonstone4715]

Agree completely.

[@elainepowers4321]

Thank you, this helps my perspective so much...I want to find delight & joy in who my parent is now

[@specialk4107]

I'm a caregiver for my 89 year old Mother for 5 years now and I haven't had her as she was for a very long time, but I don't know if I'll be able to ever fully accept who she has become. I am also human and struggle with my own form of mental illness that may be part of the reason why I have such a mental block. There is some guilt, but she is nothing like she used to be. It's such a disconnect for me. The reality is she was my best friend, and we were so close and I just miss her so maybe I am a bit selfish, but again human.

[@MRantzWI]

The person below called Lady Gaga a class act. Who could argue with that? There are a lot of "stars" out there, who can sell out a venue, and yeah, they can give you a good show for the money. Then there are those other "stars" out there - and we all know who they are - they do all that, sell tickets and albums and songs. But their real shine is off stage, away from their work, when you can see all that heart and all that passion being thrown into things that benefit a great good - whether that may be just for one, or it may be for many - both equal important. Those. Those people. Those are the REAL STARS! They're the ones that generations are proud to say they were one of ours. Thank you Lady Gaga for being one our generations true stars. Thank you for what you do on stage... but more importantly.. thank you for what you do off of it.

[@ireallydontknow8616]

Very eloquently said Lady Gaga 👏👏👏

[@Julieglam3]

I love her so much. What an amazing, loving, talented young woman who has such an open heart and choosing to collaborate with Tony knowing he has Alzheimer's. They have put together a wonderful collection of songs together. Both such class acts!

[@jamesdooling4139]

I cared for my Mimi through Stage 2 until death from AD. Now my husband -- who was already the victim of a gay bashing in the 90s and has organic brain damage -- had a stroke last year. He now has all the symptoms of late Stage AD. I'm his only caregiver. We've been together 19 years and he's only 54. This is going to be a long road ahead. Very long. We need better healthcare in this country and better support for caregivers. I live on my last leg every day. Alone in a hurricane...

[@BbGun-lw5vi]

I’m so so sorry. I really pray you’re able to find some help.

[@anitapricecheck9554]

Honestly, better support for caregivers! I did feel like my mom & I were out there alone on an ice floe. Try to get even one night to yourself once in a while so you can take care of yourself. 🌹

[@WaynoGur]

This reminded so much of my Dad. He had Alzheimer's. God bless you for doing this for everyone.

[@gingermiller1087]

She is so very gorgeous and talented.

[@2legit64]

When she first came on the scene, I just thought that she was a flash in the pan. However, as time has gone on, I find that I admire her more than ever. She is an incredible talent and has amazing depth and empathy for others. BTW, she looks absolutely gorgeous with dark hair. Now that she has proven to the world that she is the real deal, she doesn't have to wear meat dresses to get attention. Her talent speaks for itself. Meanwhile, Madonna is still trying way to hard in her sixties.

[@runner4life551]

Even her meat dress had a message behind it, don't ask don't tell! It's sad to see what Madonna is trying to do for relevance and attention, she should be able to enjoy the successful career she's had and do whatever she wants.

[@hestiaa9354]

@@runner4life551 Well, when you don’t have the voice, you have to try something.

[@lisaj4247]

Very very well said. Thanks

[@edum.6353]

that's how you keep relevant for more than 10 years... by using your voice to empower and inspire. Lady Gaga, one of a kind.

[@clivem24]

she is one cool lady, her friendship and connection with the great Mr Bennett is an inspiration to us all!

[@johndavidson4128]

She's so elegant

[@deadfred5968]

She's tacky. Just good at being fake.

[@lorennz]

His new record with Lady Gaga called 'Love for Sale' is a great way to bookend his amazing legacy. This segment was so emotional.

[@EJSJ54]

Lady Gaga seems like a genuine loving person with an incredible singing voice!

[@felipevinicius8966]

Lady Gaga has an admirable sensibility. I love this woman 🤍🌹

[@TheEdoardoCC]

Dear 60 minutes We need more. Please upload the whole interview with Lady Gaga . Thank you. Dearly, A Lady Gaga & Tony Benett & Jazz big Fan 🎺 💕

[@RosaLopez-zw2ff]

Such a beautiful soul... You are a rare musical artist.

[@andrearenee7845]

Lady Gaga at her best. She's just a natural beauty, and tender soul. Thank you for sharing ..

[@julianhenao09]

She looks amazing, but also shows how profound and human she is, National treasure

[@jeffs6819]

You can have her.

[@allwheeldrive]

Tony Bennett is very, very lucky to have her around now. And she's very lucky to be with such a respectable, talented human. I took care of a family member who was on a slow slide for over ten years. It was painful, but what is undeniably true is they are still in there, and they can still receive. It is inconceivable to not put in the effort and time to maintain a connection with them. It takes time and patience, but nothing is more important. Staying away because "it's so hard to see them like that" is, frankly, quite selfish. You're the best of humanity, Ms. Gaga.

[@mi81tkne47]

Caregivers need to realize that they are not alone and that this disease affects millions. Patience with your loved one is absolutely necessary as is the understanding that your loved one does not want to be a burden to you. The disease is absolutely merciless and unfortunately there isn't much anyone one can do once the disease starts getting into the middle stages of its course. I would love to see all Big Pharma in all countries increase their efforts on finding medication to reverse this nightmare of a disease. Good luck to all who are facing this with a family member, my prayers are with you.

[@jayusa879]

She is so beautiful and genuine I love Lady GaGa.

[@florianwolf9380]

First time I've seen her "in the flesh", and not only is she very pretty, but a smart, empathic woman, too. Her recordings with Tony Bennett are sensational - you MUST listen to them...

[@Rickhelps]

She could not be more right. With my Dad I learned to understand that he knows everything I am telling him but the process of communicating back was lost. It was the little thing I picked up on.

[@marybethhanifin3683]

She is incredibly insightful Has a connection with Tony Didn’t want to lose that Found a way to communicate with him

[@sarahdee374]

There are some videos on KZbin of people deep into their dementia, far away from everyone, and some music from their past is played and it's so amazing, they come out and can sing and interact. It's so moving.

[@monkeyface3985]

I am amazed how she said she was called ugly growing up. This woman is beautiful and beautiful inside.

[@maryannruffini2169]

Both my parents had Alzheimer and it was the hardest and saddest time in my life. Lady Gaga is right when she said it's how you treat them with respect and dignity. God bless Tony Bennett.

[@tracyroweauthor]

I used to consider her odd. But she is an extremely compassionate, intelligent, articulate and creative woman. And stunningly beautiful

[@jinjerman4903]

i so love her... so beautiful. I lost my dad to Alzheimer's

[@ChristianCandelaria]

Thank you for bringing Tony in our lives Gaga!

[@caroleoneill2872]

Wow she looks way better with dark hair

[@kathybright6784]

She is a natural Brunette, being Italian, she is beautiful inside and out

[@mickeypaul7540]

Absolutely love Lady Gaga!!! Fantastic entertainer singer songwriter actress and a beautiful human being sooo much empathy for so many people, Her love for Tony Bennett is priceless he became a young man in her presence. i love you Stephanie mp

[@mrthomas5512]

Lady Gaga made me cry She is so real It's not about her it's about the music God-bless you Lady Gaga

[@highlandhousestudio6638]

Gaga is the TRUTH son!

[@kathleentyson6727]

I’m so sad about Tony Bennet ,but I was also amazed when he began singing when Anderson was in his home interviewing him,Gaga is also incredible,I will never forget when she performed the Sound of Music at the Oscars ,I was enthralled by her performance,I was the lead in in it in high school ,but when Julie Andrews walked out on stage after her performance,i knew that Gags had truly made her mark .

[@yellolab09]

She's spot on wise woman Generous heart too

[@askmeificare336]

This woman is the epitome of class and love, she is the real deal!

[@mikemazzuchil4359]

Lady Gaga is a true angel

[@Readit4Life_2Chron7_14]

Saw Lady GG & Tony B. in concert at the Ravinia Festival Amphitheater in Suburb of Chicago, IL. I really enjoyed their performance. Being seeing Tony B for > 4 decades now, priceless treasure of a man & a class act. Lady GG's lovely personal integrity & class shines through in the thoughtful interview. She's so right, most of the time it's about fighting through what we're going through when dealing with a loved oner with Alzheimer's Dx. I've experienced this up close & personal be the care-giver for my Mom's brilliant sister with Alzh. Pushing through & getting help with our own issues really allows us & those w. Alzh Dx. to be free & sensitive to their needs, in a different way than before, in order to really enjoy & love our family, friends & patients with this disease while they are still with us. Blessings to All

[@michaelcharlesthearchangel]

Keeping Tony's dignity and manhood intact despite the Alzheimer's Disease is what makes Lady GaGa a class act 👏🏽

[@colleencreamer2472]

God I love this woman. I saw that concert and she was so tuned into him. Bless them both.

[@blmparade4223]

Don't forget to buy the new Tony's album LOVE FOR SALE. it will be his last album of his career

[@marvelousjoe5819]

I just love her. Her love and devotion to her partner Tony is extraordinary! Can't wait to see the whole interview!

[@jansonshine9082]

Actually they are a "work couple". While stricken with this horrible disease, he has an attractive young wife who loves him dearly and caters to his every need with a full heart and positive energy. Tony has graced us with his gifts for years, now it seems he will be well cared for on stage and off. Lady Gaga is a great work partner for him as well.

[@lalagonegaga]

A real friend sticks around - no matter what.

[@Susileedean]

As a singer and also a nurse working with Alzheimer’s patients, I can vouch that she makes a lot of sense. Thank you, Lady Gaga💖🙏🏽

[@kylehollie]

She simply a class act. Timelessly a beautifully person.

[@blindfreddy]

Wow. My mum had this dreadful disease. A kiss on her forehead always got a smile because she knew it was me. Even when she was in her last weeks and in her own world, the kiss got a smile. Mum and I were close. The official diagnosis was Bensons Syndrome. It's nice to see Tony Bennett has a very loving wife that supports him so well. Kudos to Lady Gaga for supporting him in his twilight years.

[@tractor0011]

she is so sincere and to be as kind and compassionate to tony is a natural for her.

[@t3hsis324]

You know she's special. She understands patience and how to read people, so she can meet them where they're at. I love it so much.

[@danielschriftsteller3177]

What a beautiful lady! Both inside and outside.

[@equalityforall8418]

Ms. Gaga, you have never looked more beautiful. This elegant look fits you so well. When you're singing jazz, it's as though you were made to be a jazz singer.....and I don't even particularly like jazz. I listen to Tony's music, and have been for years, because Tony draws me in like no other. His persona and voice is pure magic. I get that same feeling when you're singing jazz. I wish we could all hear more of that.

[@russellfarina9099]

Been watching her grow as an artist since pokerface, and it's obvious her growth as a human being is also quite impressive. A great lady.

[@jeffamunoz]

*Their music together means a lot to me, as a kid I'd have it blasting during Christmas with my family. When I went on my first drive solo I played their first album together in my car as the first song. Their music really means a lot to me.*

[@adamphillips6747]

The best thing you can do for someone who has Alzheimers is buy all the music you can from their hay day. Play it and watch the lights come back on. I worked in the fields for 10 years and it's absolutely amazing what happens then they hear music they are familiar with.

[@frankied.roosevelt6232]

Love you so much, my fellow hypermobile chronically ill and beautiful person, lady Gaga. Gaga, Freddie would be so proud of all you've done and accomplished under his song title's name. You should be proud of all you've done and accomplished! And boy have you truly earned that trumpet tattoo! Queen of modern day jazz! Your WV momma raised you so well!

[@cami-loo108]

Spoken like a TRUE human

[@MyFatherIsTryingToKillMe]

She's such a lady! ❤️

[@Native-Kitty]

To see Lady Gaga working with Tony Bennett during his illness says a lot about her character. To say that she is amazing and a blessing to this world is an understatement. She is one of those people who make the world a better place.

[@breathe4430]

I cried for most of that interview.

[@accesstotheredcarpet]

Did a coverage of both Lady Gaga and Tony Bennett together few years back and they are a great team! Lady Gaga is truly gorgeous underneath all her character persona for her music. Even though I don’t always agree with her politics but damn she’s truly talented and stunning with dark hair. Her Italian roots radiantly pops out. Such a good soul indeed! My step mom was just diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. 😞

[@espitiag84]

Sorry to hear about your step mom. Sending hugs your way

[@dannybourne_]

Lady Gaga, such an incredible Lady.

[@Shedfreak18]

She is so lovely in every way imaginable ❤️

[@mj-cq8sf]

Love her. She's amazing

[@MeredithHammett]

I'm mesmerized by her.

[@janetbeebe6578]

Tony Bennett tried to help Amy Winehouse, and when Lady Gaga went through her "Dark Night of the Soul", Tony helped her too. Now, Lady Gaga is by Tony's side.

[@ColRusSer]

That is all true. My mother has advanced dementia but she is still THERE. They have a devastating brain disease but they are alive and feel.

[@MicheleMJJ]

She is amazing. What a caring and loving woman. I am so happy that she and Tony Bennett recorded together. They are fantastic!

[@saadswg]

She looks beautiful❤

[@bernacaner544]

My mom has Alzheimer’s, every day is a struggle but there are some special days.

[@alexdiaz8537]

Hello Berna. How are you doing today

[@carolcanuso8636]

I love Lady Gaga 👍💞

[@AmericanPatriot-1776]

I never thought much of her until I heard her sing for the first time. She really has a talent. Her friendship with Tony Bennett, who we all love, is so sweet and sincere. I really can't get enough of her interviews.

[@suesunshine444]

Thank you so much Gaga for such a beautiful interpretation to the mystical world of Alzheimers. I was a CNA for many years and can only tell you, I have learned so many love languages from the people I cared for. It really is a full focused listening skill one must develop in order to help the person “understand”. So, I worked for the Sisters of St Joseph I’m their long term care facility. I love our memory care unit. One day, around 4 pm (sundown) I was sitting at the nurses station doing paperwork and waiting for the other CNAs to finish their 15 minute breaks. The tv room for the residents was right in front of me and everyone was beginning to get very antsy. So, I called out “Our Father” and everyone sat down, pulled out their rosaries and started praying! When they finished that I called out, “Hail Mary” and off they went right into a nice Rosary 🥳

[@miguelvictor8002]

Gaga is a talented sweetheart ♡

[@atiyehatiyeh8322]

Beautifully done ,respectful ,to Mr Bennett and his wife. I am a Care Provider my sweet patient passed away at ripe old age 104 two mths ago.I used music therapy to bring her back and she did just like Tony

[@Peeweesachi2023]

Thank you so much for the beautiful words that you speak every time Lady Gaga and you give us a sense of your dignity and your intelligence and I have played your CDs in my car of every musical beautiful feat you and Tony Bennett created together…. And my heart just sings!! I am indeed so grateful he came to you in one of your shows and said to you you are a jazz singer you finally got the opportunity to prove the gift that you always carried silently within yourself to give this world the magnificent view of your voice your jazz and your connection to this extraordinary music!! The respect that you carry Lady Gaga for yourself and your music and your fans and your lovely friendship with Tony Bennett has given us so much and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for your humility and the grace with since you carry yourself to talk about him and your relationship with him and what he has done for you!! May you continue to give us your wonderful voice and I am so thrilled you have become the singer that you were meant to be!, I adore you and your jazz voice for it is just brilliant!!!! I am so excited to see what you will bring to us in the future it will be a gift and a legacy that you will continue to carry forward for Tony Bennett and for us and for yourself and for everybody!!!!

[@Kuhng]

Respect, talent and humble

[@joycemanigault828]

Beautifully done! Lady Gaga is gorgeous!

[@ACurvyMillennial18]

1 more reason to love her. Tony and Lady Gaga's duets are simple one of the best duets there ever was.

[@sharonmickey4566]

I did this with my father. I played a lot of Glenn Miller and Big Band and he would light up! God bless all families who go through this. xox

[@julieriley1059]

Tony Bennett my favorite singer saw him live in 2005 what a loving friendship she has with him thankyou for caring for him YOU are a true LADY

[@ghlee2300]

Love that. I would’ve liked a longer interview with her and or an interview with her and Tony Bennett together

[@jetxsctr]

This is part of a longer interview

[@ghlee2300]

@@jetxsctr id like to see it

[@inma5665]

@@ghlee2300 very recomended! that mini documentary is poetic beauty

[@Shedfreak18]

She is so lovely in every way !

[@OriginalBigThing]

So much love in this icon! Thank you!

[@jonathaneffemey4892]

Thyanks so much for posting.

[@philaman1972]

Just beautiful! She is wise well beyond her years!