DeVon Franklin Declares "No More Mr. Perfect!" & Meagan Good Says Their Divorce Is PAINFUL

[@LailahLynnTV]

Sources: Meagan Good's XONecole Interview: www.xonecole.com/meagan-good-divorce-healing-process/ DeVon Franklin's Jeezy Fox Soul Interview: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ppmZeXqDapapoZo DeVon Franklin's book: www.amazon.com/dp/B08N37TFRB

[@dididelgado3742]

He’s not a Pastor..😊 But he’s a Christian

[@shickellesonya88]

From listening at Devon part of his perfection was staying married as marriage is presumably a life time . Allowing himself to come true to being normal could have meant freedom for a marriage just wasn't working. I'm sure he wants children and to create a legacy. I think they were a attractive couple but that's all I saw. I don't know who either of them truly are. I think we need to stop cheerleading for what we are not knowing. I don't dislike Meghan but all I see of her is her posting herself all the time . I like to see a celebrity use the voice and themselves for something of value and purpose. Let's not forget she is a actress and speaks like one. Praying for there peace ✌️

[@keepcreationprocess]

Devon you put success first,but you don't put love first and you don't put God first and humans first.

[@cecileferron4929]

Eyebrows too dark was prettier with other shade this not flattering s

[@brittnaesimmons5170]

Meagan

[@shesosweet2781]

Never enter a relationship planning on changing the other person. It will not fair well for you.

[@deestevens2883]

Very true...so many people think this way. It will be an exhausting journey of pain. 👍🏽

[@kimmelymingledolph386]

I agree with that

[@toppagirl]

change can happen, but it has to be because the other person wants to.

[@livenowliveright8509]

@@toppagirl This is it! Sadly because most people do not like change, that is why most marriages end up in divorce.

[@imo.124]

This sounds like some of the best advice I've heard over and over again. It's such a simple message but doesn't seem to sink in with people. It's sinking in with me though.

[@shirajai]

Divorce is sooooo very painful and something I wouldn’t wish on anyone. It’s like a death that you never truly grieve because the person is still living.

[@barbarascott492]

So true it's like a death

[@sscott504]

...and my exhusband WILL NOT grasp this concept

[@EboNCol]

Sis, I watched my Aunt go through divorce first hand… the day I got married, her divorce was finalized. Although she was very happy for me I could see the pain - death in her eyes from her lost. It broke my heart to see her mourn for months until she was healthy enough to be done! It’s a grieving process for sure.

[@shirajai]

@@sscott504 If he’s the one who left unfortunately he won’t

[@Babziboo]

I'm looking forward to it so it can be over as soon as possible. I'm just tired of arrogant men with narcissistic traits, that think themselves to be the one and only God. Divorce is welcome and will clear the way for THE ONE.

[@TXBornNBred]

Sounds like she expected him to love her unconditionally while she was her truest self and he had conditions and expectations that weren't realistic for who she is. We all have conditions...except Will and Jada. We'll never know the truth..it ain't our business. They were a beautiful couple and seemed to be very much in love. Wishing them both well.

[@uniquejohnson5516]

Except will and Jada 😆

[@Tristan11406]

You silly 😜🤣😂

[@terib5467]

Will and Jada redefined their marriage and stayed together. Devon may have expectations no one can live up to if he expects them to make him happy

[@mysisterisafoodie]

I don’t understand it. They are having all these “mature” conversations on public forums about healing and releasing, and being better and trusting god, why couldn’t they apply these values in their marriage? I have a feeling these “mature” conversations are just passive aggressive digs at each other.

[@TXBornNBred]

@@mysisterisafoodie you done said smthn now....that photo circulating of Meg w/ that jersey that says Ms. Goode if ya nasty....oh that was def a dig or at the very least a proclamation of freedom.

[@theboyersworld7842]

My husband and I have been married for almost 17 years. All I can say is that you will be tested on them vows. Marriage is a gauntlet. It seems like a fun romantic idea at first but there will be extreme tests of the soul. 2 people learning to walk together is a messy process, especially coming from broken homes with no example. But with a made up mind and strong faith it can be done, and is rewarding. I commend anyone for trying their shot at love. It is not given.

[@teew1895]

Well said sis. It's all about seasons. We have to grow with one another.

[@theboyersworld7842]

@@teew1895 Thank you sis. Real talk.

[@honeymoney23]

That is amazing! How do y'all make it work?

[@KLove-md5ml]

Thks for sharing...sooo true ❤❤❤

[@teena82]

Yesss well said..marriage is not for the faint of ❤️

[@veronicahallchambers2004]

I like how they don’t drag each other down. It shows maturity. I love them both and wish them well.

[@jamiejackson1780]

One of my FAV quotes… “LOVE PEOPLE FOR WHO THEY ARE, NOT WHO YOU WANT THEM TO BE!”

[@MsMikie777]

Hallelujah Amen, I SOOOOOOO Agree with that statement

[@Blessed2bhere34]

I’m so extremely proud of how she is handling her hurt and how mature she is speaking. It is the honest to god truth!!!!!!

[@shesosweet2781]

I get where she's coming from. At a certain age, when you're dating, you have a slight hope that it will be permanent but, you don't set your heart on it. And on the flip side, when you're dating at an older age, you certainly pray that it's the last time you'd go through the dating cycle. Most people don't get married thinking they'll end in a divorce.

[@jodyjojo1381]

True

[@redeemablesoul]

Very true

[@drlisa3]

You don’t enter a marriage w/your foot out of the door. That’s a mistake! This couple is too seasoned to think this way which is why it didn’t last. Trust is key!

[@LisaLisaCJ]

@@drlisa3 you can’t trust anyone 100 percent. You have to have one foot set and ready when things go left. I used to be all in and got burned in every way. So if I marry again, I’ll be ready when he decides to act up. No more blind faith in a person for me

[@drlisa3]

@@LisaLisaCJ But… you also cannot judge a new person based upon your past. That means you’re not healed and shouldn’t consider marrying anyone until you can trust. Don’t let one person dictate your life that way. You hurt, learn, & grow to love again.

[@pamelabartelle5285]

I divorced my husband after ten years in 2015 and then we remarried two years years later! What brought me back to remarry him was God, I went to church for New Year 2017 and heard a message the pastor preached, he said can you love a person until the change come, wow! (That was a WOW moment for me)I had to change me not him, I changed my way of thinking & loved him with that Agape love! We remarried on February14, 2018 I’m so grateful for a 2nd chance to love my husband 🙏🏽 I thank God for Pastor Creflo Dollar New Year message that changed my way of thinking!

[@traceykaior]

Amazing

[@TJ-hy7gd]

Pastor fraud dolla approved this message

[@ireneachieng8606]

Wooow.. This can only be done by GOD🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽!!!

[@imlookingforthetoweroflear7871]

No shame in the game, just say it straight : you couldn't find anyone better than your ex. Don't bring sky daddy into this.

[@finqueee]

AMEN AMEN & AMEN

[@brwnsugga24]

I always say equally yoked and not just with religion... you have to be on the same page in regards to all the important things... but I am praying for *both* of them.

[@spiritualisrael007]

Unfortunately, a couple can go into a marriage on the same page, but their spouse can change overtime during the course of the marriage. Marriage is so hard. 😩 I am praying for them too. 🙏🏽

[@dellasalter1158]

Agreed

[@frontrowwithseand.9056]

Perfectly said!!!

[@maudlyn25]

@@spiritualisrael007 I don't believe marriage is hard. I think it becomes hard when we lose focus on who created marriage in the first place. Challenges will come but you have to fight for it. Don't allow the enemy to win because that's his goal. You have to fight on your knees and leave the rest to God. It is painful to go through.

[@toppagirl]

These people were married for 9yrs. That is good considering the times we are in. That marriage was not a failure.

[@sharonstewart4145]

That's right Meagan trust in God and love yourself - stay humble and move forward in a positive way Love, Light, and Peace to you.

[@keynolivia]

A person with this kind of “being perfect” mentality can be draining.

[@LailahLynnTV]

Extremely draining

[@dotchrenee]

Religion will do that too you as well I grew up seventhday Adventist like Devon and their is a persona many struggle with to front as though everything is perfect and no one is perfect but Jesus, we are only made righteous by our faith in the Lord to save us from our destructive selves. Lust of the flesh, lust of the eyes and pride is something many people including christians struggle with but don't even realize it. It's important to walk humbly with the Lord daily, letting go of the expectation, cravings for things, people, places of this world and learn to be content and keeping God first in everything we do and being sure of our identity in Christ is enough. Jesus the living water to quench our thirst. 💜🙏🏽 Jesus desires Relationship with over religion 🙏🏽

[@necigem]

My ex husband was a narcissist and nothing was ever gonna be good enough. These people you steer clear from because they will always find something wrong and to criticize you about. It literally becomes detrimental to your mental, emotional and spiritual health.

[@MIKEO96]

@@necigem lol

[@BlkOnyx0508]

He allowed more from her than non church men do.

[@annajoie700]

I genuinely wish these two souls peace in the journey that they're going through and what they've dealt with thus far.. You can tell that this divorce is something that is much deeper for them than just the dissolution of their marriage.. 🙏🏼💛

[@monique.thenurse55]

I’m sadly to hear this happening to both of these beautiful God’s children. Maybe he wanted Meagan to change her ways that some people negatively perceive her to be . Maybe he wanted a break and just focus on himself by himself. I can hear the hurt in her voice while she’s speaking. I’m wishing the best of both of them on their separate journeys with God in their lives peace and love , Joy ..Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

It’s so true what Meagan said about having faith when things aren’t going your way. That it’s easy to have faith when things are going good. But your faith is truly tested when everything is going completely opposite.

[@BriaBarrows]

Very true

[@chabee3666]

But if you have faith it shouldn’t waiver in hard times. You have faith that this shall pass.

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

@@chabee3666 well this is what I am learning and currently dealing with now in my life. My faith has been tested

[@chabee3666]

@@Dior3llaxoxo whatever you are going through shall pass have faith.

[@Dior3llaxoxo]

@@chabee3666 I hear you

[@marcystalling1758]

Not being sarcastic, negative, comical, and, in no ways insensitive. But, this has got to be the most loving, sweet, tear-jerker to smiling divorce I have ever witnessed!! I lift them both up in prayer ❤️

[@Its_ReneeNicole]

I love Megan and wish her the best. Praying that she keeps her head up and happy to hear she’s leaning on God during this time. 🙏🏽

[@blainemccants1390]

If she was leaning on GOD she would not be getting divorced

[@Its_ReneeNicole]

@@blainemccants1390 lol. Ur funny but sad. 👋🏽

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

That girl is NOT a Christian .......She is RELIGIOUS

[@blainemccants1390]

@@percyastronautstatus.8780 I agree she like a lot of stars use. Christianity for their own good

[@blainemccants1390]

@@Its_ReneeNicole your young wait till you get some age you will see the light

[@chloenchad]

Marriage sometimes fails because of unrealistic expectation

[@Shonnie1122]

Idk it’s hard to constantly feel like you’re not living up to someone’s expectations. If a person is hard to please no religion or personality can never completely satisfy ppl who hard wired for perfection.

[@BlkOnyx0508]

She knew what she was getting into. Tried to flip it at the last minute and it didn't work out. She can be as loose as she wants once the divorce is final. Glad she is free and loving god

[@rayyabdul2822]

Well devon knew all along she wasn't agreeable towards the scripture and the public shamed him mostly on it. And that carried lots of stain in his image. Devon didnt want much from her than to act and dress properly but its tough to take that ratchet behavior away

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

Expectations- needs to be discussed! Marriage, children, family, work, goals, couple time, Social media, household chores all need to be discussed! Not sure whats worse someone not following through on known expectation or being lost when u never knew they existed!

[@destinysky3816]

Shes 40??? Omg she looks great! Such a beautiful woman, absolutely gorgeous.

[@nawal10]

Was about to say the same!! She looks 25! Just stunning 😩😩

[@destinysky3816]

@@nawal10 i thoight she was in her 20's, 28 the most. I I didn't realize they were married for so long

[@Ktwice221]

You must be young lol

[@destinysky3816]

@@Ktwice221 I'm not I'm actually older than Meghan

[@shawneetate121]

@@destinysky3816 you must be born in the 2000s because Meagan was in some 90s movies (“Eve’s Bayou and Friday”) when she was a child.....

[@Sandra-ly1ss]

My prayers go out to both of them. I'm sure both Devon and Meagan are hurting, and no one is at fault. Obviously, they both had expectations that weren't met, maybe not even expressed to each other. 🙏🏾❤

[@leisajacobsg8981]

I agree with you wholeheartedly!! I wish nothing but the best for the both of them!

[@kelliedebore225]

I love Megan good, but as a Christian, God had chosen be to move in Deliverance, so many people don't know about spiritual husband and spiritual wife demons, that destroy marriages. These types of Demons are married to Individual people these demons are relentless and they go to all extremes to separate and destroy a marriage because they are married to them in the spirit world they were even go as far as killing your mate to get them away from the one that’s possessed with this type of spirit please everyone read up on these type of demons that each one can be delivered and set free from that’s why most relationships don’t last because of these demons that’s in the way... Do Not Seek out.. Witch Doctors, mediums, palm readers, voodoo priests, for there help, ( they use demonic powers from the kingdom of darkness, aka satanic )only the true prophets ( people of God )can set the Captives free

[@msprupru14]

@@kelliedebore225 well said. Many Christians are religious but completely oblivious to underlying demonic spiritual bondage that affect our lives on a daily...sigh. May God open our eyes and deliver us all

[@SpirituallySpoken722]

I never clicked so fast. I love Meagan and her spirit. I dont think she had a FAIR chance in this marriage. I hope when she moves on and the next will love HER in a way beyond her expectations, she deserves it.

[@Sleeppoetry]

You don't think she had a fair chance? She was married almost a decade, so I'm very sure she had many fair chances. 🤷

[@SpirituallySpoken722]

@@Sleeppoetry I question if you have ever been married. Times does not equate chances. However it can stand for conformity, swallowing yourself, catering and giving, potential loss jobs and whatever else she may have to endured. 9 years is no time in marriage thats about 5years in real time You get past all the bs after year 15.

[@Sleeppoetry]

@@SpirituallySpoken722 I'm going through a divorce now!!!!! So yes I've been married...✌️

[@nadia4999]

Where’s the vomit bowl? She didn’t have a fair chance? Ma’am please just stop!!

[@eastgate6134]

@@Sleeppoetry stayed prayed up. You gonna make it

[@wanda7453]

No matter how well a foundation is built, it can always be shifted! Facts!!

[@suzybeebuzz3924]

The grief from a DIVORCE can be so overwhelming that you have to take a moment to realize that your spouse was only for that season in your life. You may see this person again and that person is no longer your spouse, that person may have moved on to be with someone else and you must allow yourself to adapt to that change. You must look for a higher power to guide through all of those emotions

[@QueenOfKings0402]

Ok Pastor Megan speaking a word. Rely on God He never change.

[@soroyale7805]

I've been in that perfect mode when I was younger through college and putting high expectations on myself and others. That is something to work on when you hit that realization wall that everything and expectations will not work out and it seems like everything crumbling down no matter how hard you try to do right. Honestly, that was the breakthrough I needed to set myself free..so I see where he is coming from on that part. I hope both of them get the healing they need to move forward and continue to grow!

[@godsgirl7201]

Y'all every time I ask a guy who there crush is they say Megan she definitely will bounce back in a new relationship sooner then later🥂🥰

[@honeymoney23]

Exactly. I have perfectionist trauma as well. It's a really hard habit to shake tbh

[@Leecegyrl]

Sometimes we meet people for reasons, seasons and lifetime. If the relationship isn’t bettering one’s self we have the freedom to walk away and make the best decisions for our own individual future. Best wishes to the both of them!!! Never stay in situations that is no longer serving you is the moral to the story!!! Never normalize unhappiness!! Cheers to life, love and the pursuit of happiness 🥂

[@Kariberri208]

Yes yes

[@latonyahunt5087]

Amen!!

[@selfloveisfirst4970]

Yes❤

[@desertdetroiter428]

So get a divorce although you made a vow to stay married til death do you part?

[@destinyAlvarez1]

@@desertdetroiter428 it doesn’t matter if your not happy 😊 your peace of mind is what matters honey

[@Chancse]

Mannn I can relate to Devon. I recently got hurt but it was due to be hoping and expecting someone to change but they were being themselves. I somehow linked the success of that relationship to my value so when it crashed so did I mentally. I appreciate how Devon stated "they never agreed to change nor did you tell them your expectation". Mannn that hit hard. I also grew up with the work hard mentality. If you work you'll get good results welp life isnt always like that so i had an eye opener too. Especially when it comes to situations that are out of your control. I regret to hear they are going through this but I'm happy he's also speaking up on his faults. Ppl like us need a reality check!!!!!!

[@7EmpathicBeauty]

I agree about keeping your faith in God despite being hurt. Recently, God revealed something I was blind to b/c it's a family member. Feeling angry is valid but I realize God protected me in a way I wouldn't have noticed if I let the anger consume me.

[@LailahLynnTV]

Yeah, it’s difficult but it’s important.

[@naydorsey1398]

That's why separation is good. That time with counseling makes all the difference.

[@Trisha-qv7ul]

He wanted children and she did not. This should have been discussed before the marriage.

[@BSOG3]

Agree. I can't believe she's 40 years old! She looks amazing. If a woman doesn't want kids by age 40, she's pretty clear about her intentions. He deserves children if he wants them and she deserves to be child free if that's what she wants. They just can't be together in that situation. SAd.

[@Livelife95ify]

Meagan Good said that she decided to have children!

[@jeahlashelifestyle6816]

Yea but it really took her years to be okay to do that. I truly admired Devon and their relationship, but she needs someone who would be good with whatever choice she really wanted to make for her life. Him as well.

[@Livelife95ify]

@@jeahlashelifestyle6816 Megan and Devon discuss children earlier in their marriage and Devon Franklin told Megan he would leave that decision up to her if she wanted kids or not he was fine with either decision. Devon Franklin never pressure making good to have kids

[@tessifa2252]

Ehhh, how do you know? Will you be able to stand before God and say this?

[@Sandra-ly1ss]

Such a great video. Thank you for approaching this topic with integrity. I really believe that if we all pay attention, we can learn the lessons gained from this without experiencing their pain.

[@fah232]

Every married couple go through that shift when our expectations of our partner change but we never speak it. It's something that happens subconsciously we don't even realize happened but when our partner doesn't chance we get upset. This even happens to newly married couples that have already been living together. But it's something in the brain that says we are married now and you have a bigger obligation. You have to be very self aware to realize this when it happens.

[@sexyshieky]

Definitely the truth sis... currently 3 years married

[@jeanettejackson1591]

Absolutely. My husband did to this to me...we didn't make it to three years. He thought marriage was all butterflies and rainbows.

[@tennyb2132]

I wish more people spoke on this so we could be more aware and prepared to handle it

[@curlyq690]

@@jeanettejackson1591 Most women think that it’s all about how cute he is, we make a “cute” couple, she got a nice body, etc., etc. But with time, she may NOT have the best figure from giving birth and just the body changing with age, and most men only want that until it’s not that anymore. Most people that get married today don’t have a CLUE of what marriage REALLY is all about. I would NEVER marry again. My expectations were wrong and the society we live in is all screwed up. I’m good.

[@nomalizobiancamachete5454]

I love Megan and Devon so much, even in this process they are being so genuine, I pray for best in their lives 🙏🏿

[@lisaosbourne-eden4576]

Laila you are so pretty, smart and have great substance and class. You are one of the best bloggers❤️

[@pretibrowniss]

I pray that they both find real love and when they do. Devon and Meagan will look back and know that God is still in the land of the living. 💯💯

[@christinekawesha7548]

Real love is when you put God first before your emotions and desires without expecting too much from peaple.that why the bible say seek the kingdom of God first and everything will be added upto you.we need to let jesus be with us(spirit)in order to love another person,without that it a love for the world. What the world considers foolish it knowledge to God.

[@lolagunz]

You can't get remarry so I hope these two get back together

[@itsallfunandgamestil]

Read a bible

[@pretibrowniss]

christine you know the word of God 😉

[@Lokey21]

All I can say is that we, human beings, must learn how to PROPERLY COMMUNICATE to our partners and people around us, what we need or would like to have in relationships. Just “Talking” is NOT communicating. With the right communication skills EVERYONE can know where they stand in your life. I wish them both the best moving forward 🙏🏽🥰

[@gracefullyme4469]

It’s beautiful to see that in the midst of crisis, they are holding on to their faith and working it out with themselves and the Lord.. that in itself is a testimony.. I pray for both of them and their journey and that the good work God has started in their individual lives will come to fruition..

[@Gorjess_J]

Beautifully said!

[@ladya2love286]

God has a nate for them. Amen

[@ladya2love286]

I mean mate/match for them. Let us keep them in prayer

[@prettypetite5712]

I totally agree with Megan. You grow through adversity... whether you are spiritually minded or not it's a hard truth. I really appreciate the maturity and the example that they're showing while going through a grieving process and learning through life experiences. And maybe its messier than what we all know but I respect this couple that once was...

[@debrajames3865]

I embrace the mentality of growing through adversity. I dropped 50 pounds, I got a new job and I helped my relative get a full scholarship. So I can relate to growing through adversity. Their marriage appeared to be very imbalanced from the very beginning. Best regards to her. She did not appear to be willing to present herself as a woman of the church. She is a actress always looking for a moment and a photo/optic moment.

[@margaretsilas7773]

Relationships are hard period. There is and never will be the perfect anything. I think she is a kind soul and I pray she finds peace while going through this hurt.

[@dmorris1256]

No greater or better love than God’s Love. A lesson I learned also. Continue to be strong and live your life for Christ my sistah. ❤️

[@vonamel_music]

Meagan is so gorgeous and such a good soul she will find someone who will marry her again

[@nadia4999]

Stop the cap. But I agree she is gorgeous. That is half the reason this so called man of God got caught up in fleeting beauty. Although she tattooed her eyebrows..she could not hold on to her husband.

[@MIKEO96]

Yeah then get divorced once more lmaoo

[@Exodusllfreedomministry]

@@nadia4999 Lmfaooooo “although she tattooed her eyebrows” 😩😩😂😂😂😂. The slight shade Lmfaooooo

[@nadia4999]

@elesha foreman I wouldn’t be surprised, but I for sure recall reading she got her eyebrows permanent with the tattoo. They cute though lol.

[@bekita3386]

@@MIKEO96 right 😆

[@teeburdtalks]

Devon knew who he was marrying when he married MG. If he didn’t like who she was as a person, he should not have married her. Wish Meg the best. Devon too.

[@beatforjesusbykellym2104]

She knew who he was did as well. Both their fault but as the Minister the responsibility is heavier. He knew she shouldn’t have married her.

[@teeburdtalks]

@@beatforjesusbykellym2104 agreed!

[@monetrene3012]

@@beatforjesusbykellym2104 she didn't file for divorce he did..

[@Creditempowernetwork]

Exactly

[@latonyahunt5087]

Honestly, I never heard Devon or Megan talk similar morals and values of family life and marriage, this is the issue they both need to research within themselves 🥰

[@SACHKIGAL]

Some things aren't meant to be who are we to judge. Wishing them love,peace and happiness on their own journey.

[@lorrettawesseldine281]

Divorce is one of the most difficult experiences of life to go through I'm so sad for the both of them and also for us when I see If they can't make it what about the rest of us

[@jshavone]

I read his latest book before they announced their divorce and I concluded that he is a disaster of a man right now. He’s insecure and petty and he needs to continue therapy and his life coach and not writing books to help us when he’s so in need of help. This is my third book of his that I’ve read and after this one I was hoping Meagan would run from this marriage. He’s not complete yet. He needs to be single and find himself.

[@keta5914]

What did you find in the books that gave you this perspective,

[@janesmith4h]

Kudos to leaving a relationship that no longer serves...No matter who has something to say. May peace be found, and retained.

[@deniseandrews113]

Well said!👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@CameliaKay9804]

Almost all the couples who said God put them together ended up getting divorced, that means God never put them together in the first place, because when the Lord put you together he will keep you together because he’s a keeper.

[@beautiful1539]

Amen🙏

[@nadine8764]

They also need to do the work, it'll work if you work it.

[@MsLi-ef1xp]

I made the mistake of saying that once. I believed it with my whole heart. I will never make that mistake again.

[@beatforjesusbykellym2104]

Thissssss

[@angelahumphrey2824]

Amen amen

[@fonz112goss4]

I am a fan of both them. He gives good advice and she is a great actress. It is hard to stay married and both their careers could but them in a real uncomfortable feel of how you look at questionable choices. Then since both are front and center in a media form they have others adding their two cents about their situation. I wish they could work it out. Who knows what the future holds. Love, peace, and happiness for all!!!

[@nadas.5643]

I remember they did an interview where he spoke about his expectation of her cooking. She said she tried to remember when she is home that he likes for her to cook. I obviously don't know them. But it seems loke he had expectations of a more traditional wife. And she is not that. Not that she is a bad wife. It's just she is an actress she can't be traditional unless she quit her job. I have seen many time that men have certain expectations of you or they are good with you being independent until you get with them. Then they want you to let go of girl time, and working so much etc. That's not fair to do without communicating before hand.

[@realjawn]

She be alright. It happens to the best of us….we make peace and move On. It does hurt but ya Blessings are coming

[@donnamiller6800]

Meghan Good’s revelation on her divorce is her personal experience but also a general statement of how most feel after a divorce. A divorce is a death a loss of a union and for those of us who have been through a divorce it’s a hurtful period. You grieve just as if someone physically died. You go through the grieving process and then you finally should come to acceptance and healing and realize life goes on. What really established their divorce only them 2 know and their close family and friends. And God knows all.

[@OneOfAKindJEM]

@Lailahlynn great content as always. Wasn't the first comment today, but that's ok...😆 In all seriousness, I really needed to hear this today because I too am in the process of a divorce and although my ex is being difficult I am doing my best to walk away as amicable as possible. I realize that at the end of the day, God loved me before I was thought of, in the womb, when I was born, today, tomorrow and always. And although this is a season of change, and it's the unknown, I have to trust that He had something better for me at the end of all of this. So thank you for your content! Peace and blessings to all!

[@brittyh428]

Praying for and with you! God built you to prevail and YOU WILL. Love you!❤🙏🏿

[@LailahLynnTV]

Thank you for watching and appreciating it. I’m praying for you 🙏🏾

[@maryfinkley4112]

When you hear them both speak they have been around each other till they both talk the same language both want to stay relevant do a book, conference probably will be sold out we love them cuz we can identify with them as a everyday black couple with issues

[@OneOfAKindJEM]

@@brittyh428 Thank you for the encouraging words. 🥰❤

[@OneOfAKindJEM]

@@LailahLynnTV 🥰❤❤

[@phenominalwoman833]

Something their aren't telling, so they should just stop talking about it and divorce.

[@goddessoflove188]

Agreed

[@tw7525]

Agreed, marriage ends for a reason. Less is more.........

[@cilla4000]

Facts

[@nadia4999]

They don’t owe us no full explanation. Anybody with eyes know full well what this was/is, and what it wasn’t. Just as she sat here speaking…it’s just beautiful words. What happened is he wanted a wife, and for her to bear her seed. Meg had and always had other plans. Why is this hard to see or understand.

[@perdybirdie]

Agree.

[@Tonyayt]

New subscriber here!! It’s refreshing to see a person realize their expectations can be a “puppet master “ in your life!🙏🏽❤️

[@charmaynesterling8768]

Listening to you share your painful experience resulting from your divorce reminded me of this same experience. And I just want to say Megan, yes it was the most painful thing that a woman could experience. But God is faithful and He makes no mistakes. From this experience there comes a greater blessing ahead. Be on alert because there may come many wolves in sheep's clothing. Stay prayerful and closer to God.

[@VP-fr3cj]

I hope he does not marry anyone else until he deals with his “expectations”. No one is perfect, not even him . He’s breaking hearts in the process. My prayers go out to Meagan that her heart will heal and that God will give her beauty for these ashes. Remember who you are and shake the dust off your feet.

[@gargoyliangaming6556]

What are his expectations?. A Man of YAH usually only has minimum One. Guess what it is?.

[@MissAki1]

We should all have expectation. What's bad is when you except your partner to change. Married the person for who they are and don't settle or compromise.

[@gargoyliangaming6556]

@@MissAki1 Intelligently said. You're correct cannot change anyone where you meet them is where they are at and most can't grow/go with you becuz most are unwilling and comfortable where they are at.. Here's the thing expectations must always be examined/reexamine. Somewhere read expectations is beginning of depression. Ppl will always let you down. Even the good book said dont put ur trust in Man(!humans).Trust the Lord.

[@staceypalmer476]

They can't remarry unless one of them pass away...smh... I wish them well with that one!!!

[@Blue-zx5mp]

Disagree.

[@kimberlywright4988]

Marriage is about two become one flesh...When two decide not to become one that is where marriage doesn't work!

[@Masterfard019]

That is your opinion!! Some people are cruel and mentally abusive - facts

[@tracytrunn5625]

Which « one « do they become ?

[@chloenchad]

Amen

[@tammybenaytv4631]

@@tracytrunn5625 Neither! You create something new (your marriage) outside of the both of you.

[@beatforjesusbykellym2104]

@@Masterfard019 they are not modeling who Jesus is bottomline and the HolyGhost will tell you that.

[@Destiny00364]

🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾…. Keep God first and trust and believe this too shall pass… ♥️

[@striving2beholy]

Thank you for the story ❤️🙏🏾

[@LailahLynnTV]

Thank you for watching 💕

[@norah4892]

You can never change or expect someone to change unless they want to change.

[@mika6516]

Off topic, who hasn't Nick Cannon dated?

[@BITCHY1234]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@candyjamaican]

Us hahahaha

[@nadia4999]

You.

[@mika6516]

@@nadia4999 Absolutely right. Lol.

[@ariellelabelle1149]

He hasn’t dated Meagan Good lol. She probably didn’t date half the guys in those photos but she for sure was only friends with Nick Cañón. They talk about it her most recent interview with him on his show. He says she was the first woman to ever friendzone him at 16 and they grew up as good friends in the industry ever since.

[@leisajacobsg8981]

I'm just so disappointed that they're divorcing I thought they were going to be together forever. Just like Megan was saying. Oh well it is what it is! Life moves on!

[@nadia4999]

They made a good looking couple, but let’s be real… they made it longer than negrodamus could have predicted

[@princessfly9052]

Be disappointed in how things may play out in ur own life please your too grown to be this damn weird and invested in someone else’s damn relationship u DO NOT know wat was happening behind closed doors.

[@graciequiltingandcorner]

He is Big Mad that she is speaking out on the failure of this marriage, makes me think he is The Common Denominator, and he don't want his Mr. Perfect image being damage.

[@QueenOfKings0402]

Did you not watch the whole video or just read the title?

[@ApplePie-ro9lc]

He wanted the divorce

[@JennnSaidWhat]

Yup

[@coolchic24-v2d]

I have mad respect for Meagan. She’s a real woman. Stay close to God chica, He’s got you!

[@so.many.obstacles]

What? Clearly, you listened to respond not to understand. He is being introspective and using “I” statements, aka being accountable so how is he trying to not damage his, “Mr. Perfect image”? Sounds like you are projecting and you’re the one that’s big mad about something.

[@shanevee]

I wish both of them the best. They both deserve to be happy. Sadly it couldn't be together

[@LisaLisaCJ]

So basically he married her knowing who and what she was and expected her to change and well….

[@AshaGlenn]

Marrying someone who truly accepts all of you and is willing to learn and grow with you is so so so so important. It takes a lot of emotional intelligence to make a marriage work.

[@Anabee399]

Been down that road. Partial obedience is disobedience. If you earnestly pray, and listen to God. He will direct your path. However, regarding matters of the ❤, most become deaf to God and attentive to the flesh.

[@aureliapetty-owens6333]

I totally understand Megan's views on divorce. It can be painful. Trust in God's Blessing! ❤

[@TakidaJ]

You share the tea so good and godly I love it ✨❤️

[@jamiechristylivechat2243]

Great research and reporting Lailah. I wasn't particularly interested in this subject but I stayed for your theme song. That shit be rockin.

[@lilrick456]

I remember Devon promoting the book last spring and he was kinda nonchalant abt their relationship and expectations and it just felt weird.

[@getstraight7403]

Well spoken, Meagan. Proud of you! This too will pass and better will come one day soon.

[@miacarter8097]

This just breaks my heart. I feel for Meagan. It had to rough to deal with this scrutiny while being married and then for it not to work out. I wonder why Devon filed.

[@treviseast2645]

Yes. So true. Going through same feelings. Thank you God!

[@larondaspikes2313]

I feel exactly where she’s coming from I’m married to a pastor we’re separated divorce was filed however judge threw it out because we were still living together . Now we have court date coming up for another matter . It’s hard it hurts . Prayers for Meagan and Devon 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@emmanuellafumeh]

I love your reports Lilian, very professional I just stumbled on you today I love Megan. I pray God help them navigate through this and fulfill purpose

[@reginahutchinson4057]

I am sad for them however they are showing respect for themselves and God. So sad.

[@kia517]

That is hard to understand because I was married for 13 years. But when you love someone unconditionally and they put expectations and conditions on the marriage. That's a hard pill to swallow, in my case, I felt married but alone

[@tashundrapeoples7502]

Sounds like Devon had an existential crisis with the unfortunate discovery that his marriage was no longer what he thought it was or possibly what he hoped it would be. We’re human and mostly broken until we do the work necessary to deal with past traumas or realize what truly drives our action ie, come realize which attitudes and behaviors serve us well versus those that are a detriment. Sometimes, along our journeys we enter into relationships and make connections that simply cannot be maintained because they were developed while one was a very different version of oneself. I pray they both heal and find joy in the journey ahead.

[@jojoc326]

Well said!!!

[@olashadeabidoye7624]

@tashundra peoples she doesn't want kids & he does. That's what they didn't properly communicate. She went back & forth for a long time

[@godlygirl]

So good.

[@cindirella2328]

Lailah you ate so BEAUTIFUL! TFS 💐

[@roderickahairston9935]

Did he ask God for help before he considered divorce or even marriage

[@nadia4999]

I am sure he did countless time. This is beyond humiliating. He knew full well those cackling hens would be “I told you so.” He let her go because SHE did not want to be kept. She basically tried to hold on too, but she knew deep down inside she did not want him or that life any longer. She thought she did, and she had to admit she choose wrong. They BOTH chose wrong.

[@nikkyluv2244]

@@nadia4999 I honestly am so confused because I still haven’t heard either of them say WHY?

[@maschatatjanaofficial-miss4156]

RIGHT

[@nadia4999]

@@nikkyluv2244 you’re not listening Nikky. The why is there lol. You just want a concrete spelt out verbatim why, and that you will not get because failure especially of a marriage is hard to admit. So I will tell you my why, as an outside looking in. Devon married a beautiful woman highly desired. If he wanted marriage he could have easily chosen an everyday woman. But he came across Meg, and if you look at earlier interviews it was Meg who basically said god told her that HE was her husband. This man fell for the manipulation, and probably was excited that someone as famous and gorgeous as Meg desired HIM. They courted, and basically thought they were each other’s life support. Meg had been dogged out basically by all her previously men in that they would never marry her after they used her up sexually. Then she came across Devon this so called celibate man, and basically turned him out or on however you want to look at it. In short, the marriage did not work because they were going in opposite directions, or desired to go in opposite directions. And from my point of view it’s foundation is because Meg did not ultimately want to have his children, and be a mother.

[@indiaalmighty]

My mentor always says that “relationships are never ending negotiations.” Most people love with conditions but expect to be loved unconditionally.

[@k.m.8516]

Devon wants an angel straight out of heaven. Untouched, pure and clean in his eyes. He went for her beauty, but didn't value her true worth. She was never good enough and she knew that. God bless her.

[@TheTiaraMakia]

I actually noticed that their interactions were different on social media following her birthday. I was hoping that whatever was going on they would work through, but no one knows their situation better than them. Praying they both find peace and healing in this process and true love again.

[@NecieytheGREAT]

Getting divorce wasn’t painful .. the expectations that he was “ different “ was the painful part… it’s Always better to know what type of man you are dealing with ‼️‼️

[@wendydurrant665]

I feel really sad for her…. Stay strong sis💛

[@starfishstarfish5162]

What Devon spoke about tying his happiness and value to achievements, I thought of guys who run from woman to woman , breaking hearts and feeling proud and wanted . Such men are struggling with low self esteem

[@peopleas1healingtrauma]

i feel for meg i really do and really did HEr lovee lifeeeeee is jus painful nd imm soooo sorry 💟💫sharing loveee nd light n im praying for Healing

[@Whoistiffanynicole]

Before they separated he did mention in an interview that he had to come to realization that he had unspoken expectations for Megan. He said that he found himself being upset at one point because he was expecting her as a wife to be home and cook a home cooked meal everyday or at least most of the time. He said when she didn’t do that he was frustrated and when they finally discussed it, he had to recognize that she wasn’t the type that wanted to cook everyday etc. I think he said she was willing to do it sometimes but that just wasn’t who she was. He had the idea in his head that she would be a certain way and do certain things as his wife and she had a different view. He said he really had to deal with this and his perception of what he thought a marriage should be. He used this particular story about cooking but I’m sure there were other areas as well that may have been conflicting even though they loved eachother. I think they both had a different view of what their life would look like and they didn’t have certain conversations that they should have had beforehand .

[@monetrene3012]

Unfortunately to me church men are very misogynistic so I guess he wanted her to be a stay at home mother too..

[@Creditempowernetwork]

This is the dumbest thing ever and he should be ashamed smh

[@braidslikebrandy]

this is really hard to watch play out. very sad. and people are just dragging them.

[@br3ndaful]

Maybe reality hit during the quarantine and things were up front and clear.

[@youngboss8807]

This is why they say hurt people, hurt people; sometimes unintentionally. He needed to fix himself first before getting into marriage. Never expect someone or something to magically fix you or fulfill you; not even religion. Guess it just goes to show we're all humans trying to figure it out until we find what works for us. I pray they both find healing in their spirit and that true love one day again be their portion.

[@ChiChiKeiannaJ]

Hello Lailah Lynn! Great video. I feel in my heart of hearts once these two beautiful souls dig deep and allow God to heal them individually, I believe they will end up back together. I honestly feel like they are soulmates.

[@honeymoney23]

SAME!

[@melslewis1784]

Beautiful example of revelation in oneself.

[@nakisomadzivire6915]

This is just so sad, am not okae with this divorce, hoping some day they will find a way to each other. Lov u guys

[@saul9050]

You both are perfect the way you are. Sometimes we grow in different directions