LAMH S4E7 | Martell Samuels Wants to Use Fred and Marsau the Way He Used Melody

Instead of getting his own builder's license, Martell wants to use Fred and Marsau's to "get back in the game." I wonder if he'll start to resent them the way he eventually resented Melody.
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[@mindoflilith]

My apologies for the explicit language, I started to get heated the more I thought about this topic. #Marsin3rdHouse

[@tangajTANG]

Although I don't use and cringe when I hear expletive language. Forgive me, but I enjoy hearing you passionate about a subject matter. You keep things basically tasteful so you are 👍🏼 Be you, I appreciate real.

[@ShellzC63]

No apology necessary imo.

[@vjfromaroundtheway777]

Appreciate that authentic energy. Please don't apologize.

[@andreababb7525]

Listen u can curse all u want I have no problem, I just love to listen to u explain on these topics.

[@divaslm1]

It is understandable

[@TheRealVeeBee]

That’s why Melody DISSOLVED all that mess! She was like you will not live off my hard work and money with coleslaw! Team Mel all day!

[@jenniferrogers3717]

TEAM Melody all day 🌸💜🌸💜🌸💜🌸

[@aishaAliyq]

ALL DAY.....

[@mariahardy1201]

EXACTLY 🎯 She knew what was coming.

[@glorysmart2618]

Team Mel

[@glorysmart2618]

There seems to be a lot of paid bloggers trying to make Mel look bad and gaslight everyone, we all saw the energy tisha and destiny brought to the reunion and said she was not a good friend, so why are they shocked they did not get a invite to her home, her party, I know I wouldn’t bring those jealous backstabbing copycats into the new year either

[@tangajTANG]

People on the show are twisting truth with lies to make Melody look bad.

[@soulstarmusiclover1254]

Strangest mess I have ever seen. Why are they all on the Mel take down?

[@carolynminter7839]

Thank you but we saw the gang gang on Mel. We were happy when Tisha's a&$ was proved to be a liar. We can see what those snakes was doing, and Mel won't lose not one Melometer and fan because she checkmated Tisha and Keke said little or nothing but Kimmi the old snake juiced up what Keke said. None of those Scott's are fooling me. I see them very clearly.

[@logicalspeaks5666]

Melody is doing a great job making herself look bad!!! she so not need any help!!!!

[@C.VEEJay]

@@logicalspeaks5666 You mad,mad 😠 😠 😆 🤣 😂 .

[@thundercat6709]

@S B The haters can never elaborate yet claim to be objective and unbiased.

[@CandieTalks]

Martel wanted Mel to cater to him and his sexual needs while also managing several businesses, attending various professional networking events, and being a mother to their children. She still managed to make their house feel like a home but that wasn’t enough. He needed to “humble” her as a means to have control AKA I’m going to cheat on you and tell the world it’s because you could not sexually satisfy me. Martel had all these “traditional values” while exhibiting modern man traits AKA my woman is really providing for the family. As you stated, he had TWO beautiful slim women and they are both single mothers right now. There’s no winning with a man like Martel; he is a narcissist to the bone.

[@gegin3235]

@ Candy Leshay So well said 👏. The mistake that Melody made was doing 195% of the work and allowing Trashtel to believe that his 5% was equal or more than what she was doing. He believed the hype and thought that he was the brains. Mel knew he wasn't s..t but tried to make him better. He is a child of God but he is still isn't worth a darn.

[@jenniferrogers3717]

Facts

[@angelaread3715]

Well said!!

[@Solofomahdolo]

He wanted a hoe at home and melody was like fuck nah so he went and got a young girl who was down for it….and he thought she (Melody would just let it ride and again … he’ll nah she (Melody was like fuck that and dipped out!!!

[@divaslm1]

Malignant Narcissist

[@tangajTANG]

KeKe came out with receipts showing Melody ALWAYS inviting her to events and she turned the invites down, because she didn't want to make Tisha angry. She recently decided not to allow Tisha to futher control her since she doesn't stop Tisha from doing whatever she wants to do. The receipts showed at least a few years of invites with responses.

[@mindoflilith]

I know that, but it still looked bad because of the timing. I said this weeks ago.

[@CandieTalks]

This vindicates Mel inviting her but it doesn’t take away the initial interpretation of it being done as a jab at Tisha. I do like that keke offered Mel this vindication though, because so many people want her to be the villain.

[@nicolehonore7568]

You right, Mel has invited het to things for years. But, to keep down confusion with Tisha. It look like Keke was trying to avoid conflict with Tisha insure butt. I think she said since Tisha not going be there, so why not come. I didn't see it as being messy as that party Kimmie give. Kimmie went back and said more than what happened at that pajama party. I can't wait until Keke get her right on that. Period! You need to talk about this party Kimmie gave to set Mel up.

[@divaslm1]

@@mindoflilith Truth hurts sometimes.

[@carolynminter7839]

I'm glad Mel invited Keke to the PJ party for this simple reason. Mel cleared her name about trying to break up her sorry marriage and showed Tisha for the liar she is. Mel's supporters know this and think she should have done it sooner. We know Mel's haters are going to hate no matter what she does or says, that's what the Mel hating bloggers do. Especially, those gay male bloggers who hate Mel's guts for some reason, and her brand will not suffer because of her inviting Keke and letting it be known that Tisha has been hearing the rumors about her cheating husband for years. In fact, the lying, fake and phony Scott's all of them should be removed from the show and Keke and her husband and Stormi and her husband should replace them. At least Keke and Stormi tell the truth. Unlike the lying Scotts.

[@BrowneSugarBabe]

At the 7:10 mark, you hit the nail on the head. This is exactly why he messed with Arionne for such an extended period of time. She made him feel dominant. Her self-esteem/self-worth and financial dependency was directly tied to Martell and he loved that.

[@rros970]

Agreed. Remember on the reunion when Marsau indicated that he’s more aggressive with Arionne too. He had never seen him act that way with Mel.

[@BrowneSugarBabe]

@@rros970 Yup!

[@MekaHall1078]

I am tired of this idea that Melody have to be perfect or make sure she don’t offend others, when they don’t mind doing things to offend her and they stay talking about her behind her back, she even overheard them that onetime and she wasn’t asking who initiated that conversation about her! This show is full of double standards and I’m tired of Melody always being the one held responsible! I feel like Melody have every right to invite whoever she wants to her home, and fu*k how anyone else feel about it, they never give any fu*ks too how she feels, so why should she!

[@carolynminter7839]

Honey, I wish it was a way for me to put a million likes on this. I'm so sick of these Mel hating tricks. They want her to lay down and get beat and stomped and do NOTHING to stop it. Awwwwwwww Hell naw Mel needs to address every lie told on her this season, and she need to read them like a newspaper at that reunion.

[@tamikorush9915]

Thank you, it’s her house and her party!!! Destiny knows what is going on but Melody is done and she didn’t see that coming just like Martell didn’t see her leaving him. Mel is no longer giving out second chances, especially when she’s helped you and I don’t blame her.

[@MekaHall1078]

@@carolynminter7839 Thank You, I appreciate it! It’s just very frustrating to see this and people are expecting Melody to be above it all and let things go all the time, and that’s just not real life! Everyone want to call her messy and theses are the same people who are messy all the time!

[@MekaHall1078]

@@tamikorush9915 I agree 💯

[@ms.cassie7526]

I 1000% agree. 🎯💯

[@nicolehonore7568]

Nobody is not about to become a partner in business without him having his builders license. Martell is a liability to everyone. This people are not about to put their livelihood on the line for Martell. I don't care how much dirt he has on these guys. I think that's why Marsau is going to tell on himself.

[@kenyagreen-Maat]

I agree and I peeped on Episode 11 Saturday that Marsau is about to spill the beans on himself. Remember Marsau told Tisha that he need to hire a CFO (Chief Financial Officer), Tisha said "it better not be a young woman nor a pretty woman". That's Marsau side Fiance (I think he Respect his choices of women)

[@roddaniels2976]

That's the best thing to do

[@divaslm1]

Melody has every right to speak truth. Folks who don't like her will take anything to criticize her. Let the chips fall.

[@Tammy-se2hu]

FRED seems like he is going to protect himself. I'm waiting to see.

[@vjfromaroundtheway777]

Fred will require a real partnership. No leaching off my credentials. It's only fair. Go get your paperwork.

[@carolynminter7839]

Martell the snake makes one funny move and Fred is going to kick him to the curb. He is probably the only one in Huntsville who would mess with him. Everyone knows what a fool he has been. How he treated his wife, and they have seen who he lost his ex-wife and only having his children for two weeks out of a month. He blew millions and his wife is making millions without that dead weight. Mel is well respected in HIS hometown, and he is a joke and a laughingstock.

[@tangajTANG]

I feel Fred chuckles and under his breath he says I see you, loser.

[@elainemalcolm8349]

@@tangajTANG you are so so right Fred was thinking the same thing we all are thinking 😂😂😂😂😂😂👂👂👏👏👏👍👍🤝🤝🤝

[@sexybrownsugar7862]

Fred don't hire him, he a looser, user,and liar.

[@mrsannprofits1965]

Melody can invite anybody she wants to to her party and don't need nobody's permission she ain't nobody child! She don't have to invite anybody that don't like her or have a problem with to her party! Nobody can make her! People are weird how in the hell do anybody think they can tell Melody who she can associate with and who not to disassociate herself with! The Nerve! Melody is a grown ass woman and nobody dictates what she should and should not do concerning her!!!!!

[@mindoflilith]

She doesn't need anybody's permission you are correct. But does she expect people not to have anything to say about inviting Keke when she's on the outs with Tisha. People have the right to do whatever they want, but they have less control over how people respond to their actions.

[@ToniaAlex13]

Right, she can invite who she wants to especially if Keke hasn't done anything to her that she knows of. And I would say the same thing if it was any of the other ladies on the show

[@moniqueayers]

@@mindoflilith true but people would’ve had something to say about her regardless of her inviting KeKe or not. Just by her not inviting Tisha or Destiny, she still was talked about. At this point, she’s damned if she do or don’t. I don’t necessarily think she cares if people have something to say and she shouldn’t.

[@carolynminter7839]

I would never let hating a&$ Tisha and Destiny in my house. Their hate for Mel is really deep and those kinds of people might do anything or drop something in your house. Mel was right and I hope she never let those two in her house EVER.

[@carolynminter7839]

@@ToniaAlex13 I don't think Mel gives a damn they always talking about something Mel does is childish but not Tisha and Destiny. I don't care who my cousin fell out with, if they are cool with me it would be childish not to go just because they and my cousin is on the outs. Nope Mel invited Keke and she came so that's it. That's exactly what Mel should have said to Tisha. I'm not friends with you but Keke is good with me and I can invite any damn body I please up in my spot PERIOD.

[@anitafrasier9764]

No one is going to tell me who I should and shouldn’t invite to my home , Mel always invite KeKe to her events. This is all for the show , KeKe showed proof that Mel invited her to many things.

[@thundercat6709]

This!

[@JustBecause-n3z]

Right and this all could have been avoided if kimmie wouldn't have lied and said she was the main topic at melody party ...last season melody was trying to be good friend to tisha she went to las Vegas with them, she sponsored their destiny race and she was at tisha graduation party so when tisha said on the reunion that melody wasnt a good friend and she was trying to runine her marriage so melody was blindsided when tisha said all that and Destiny agreed and that's when she knew she was thur.....

[@ayingi3461]

Martel was being satisfied, Mel just didn't have time to cater to his obsession with attention.

[@divaslm1]

By having many women, his ego was satisfied

[@mariahardy1201]

*On the contrary, Martel is insatiable....there's never going to be enough for him.* He had it all + sidechicks....yet, that wasn't enough. If he had the world, he'd want the galaxy, if he had the galaxy he'd want the universe.. etc.

[@ayingi3461]

@@mariahardy1201 Exactly. Bottom less pit.

[@divaslm1]

Hoetell wanted to CONQUER her and humiliates her. He is misogynistic and illiterate. He is a child.

[@roddaniels2976]

What is satisfied? Satisfaction don't pay bills Catch that! See if satisfaction keep the morgage paid. Foreclosure. See if satisfaction pay car notes, Repossesed.

[@feliciarowser308]

Powerful commentary which I really enjoyed. Melody is an executive producer on the show and always understands the assignment which is to bring the drama AKA Keke in this situation. Melody always makes sure when it’s turn or her segment on the show…She shines bright like a Diamond and brings the drama and keeps it interesting. Team Melody Shari ❤️

[@logicalspeaks5666]

Be messy on the show... and then go live and say everyone else is messy!!!NOt her...everyone else...is a liar...an energy vampire...enemy's opts. All the women... but her she is REAL!!!! and is never wrong!!!!yeah...stupid!!!

[@jenniferrogers3717]

TEAM Melody All Day 💜🌸💜🌸💜🌸

[@msdiscreet30]

Right she plays chess not checkers which people do not seem to get.

[@Signe917]

I believe that we are observing Melody navigating a return to her former self (pre-Martell). She is really seeking genuine connections without having to worry about the balance her current "friends" have to make between Melody and Martell. Melody just wants to have a good time and be around people who don't feel bad for Martell or judge her for her decisions. KeKe is an attractive addition because she can jump into the friend group without the growing pains that Tiffany and Destiny had to go through. KeKe has an ease about her and doesn't require much from Melody. The bad optics are just a product of Tisha's immaturity and Melody's apathy. Destiny is stuck trying to work things out with Melody because she is in the wrong and she knows it. She allowed her jealousy to cloud her judgment and her trauma to justify becoming a snake. There is nothing more dangerous than a woman scorned. Melody is wise to keep her distance from Destiny. It amazes me how self-destructive Martell has become. Someone please take the matches and the gasoline soaked rags away from him! He insults his current manager and women who would financially support his endeavors. He’s unhinged.

[@mariahardy1201]

🎯 I keep saying he's his own worst enemy. It was obvious early on in Season 1 that Mel was the brains, the driving force and he was just window dressing. It became even more clear after the divorce when she hit the ground running, she had her new office up and operating before the ink was dry. Since then all doubt has been erased. By his own admission he hasn't even worked since the divorce! 🤯 How triflin can he be? He has 5 children, how is he not working by choice? Guess that explains what happened to the marital home.

[@pagehardy4767]

Melody can invite who she wants to her party. Why would she invite negative people into her space? Tisha doesn't like Mel and when Destiny talked about Mel to Tisha she became her enemy too. Mel elevated the status of all the couples on the show, by pitching the idea to the networks. Women in general (Black and White) who are highly intelligent become a threat to the men ego. Martel choose sex over his marriage and the business. So many men egos can't stand highly intelligent, visionary women. Kudos to Mel for taking a stand and building her brand and leaving Martel's cheating a$$ behind!

[@miamigardensnow]

Also, remember when Mel left Martell the first time on the show and she spoke to the two employees and told them of her plans? I don’t remember the episode, but The female employee asked Mel would Martell know what to do in the business when Mel leaves? This is when I realized he’s never in the office. Go back and watch that scene. Look at the demeanor of the employees. You are dead on with you analysis.

[@tamikorush9915]

I remember that

[@shifragri]

I remember that scene as well.

[@prettyeyes8864]

I remember that and she said to Mel you know everything.

[@miamigardensnow]

@@prettyeyes8864 Yep!

[@Theblackbumblebee]

25:38 Kevin Samuels damn for sure would have said that. He was pimping the hell of her. But GOD said no more!! Melody is holding back a lot !! I hope she LIGHT that stage up when the reunion come. Burn them all!!

[@CandieTalks]

Exactly, because even by Kevin Samuels standards Mel is a high value woman. She’s thin, beautiful, accomplished, and had no “outside” children. She came into their marriage baggage free and that wasn’t enough for Martel.

[@buttaflygirl05]

In Martells twisted mind, he thinks he's going to get the same level of partnership from these guys that he had from Mel. Again, I said it before, he thinks it has something to do with how great he is- not understanding Mel did what she did bc she loved him and she wanted her family to thrive. He's probably never had to work for anything..being a star athlete in high school, then college and Mel came along and boosted him so this is probably his 1st time really having to work to get what he needs.

[@carolynminter7839]

Well, we know he didn't want to work, because he got busted trying to steal ATM machine's

[@thundercat6709]

And yet he hates her for it.

[@mariahardy1201]

All that!! 🎯

[@mariahardy1201]

@@thundercat6709 For me, that's the crazy part!

[@MrDomonique3]

Melody encouraged and assisted Martell with funds to finish college. Him being an athlete also contributes to his idea that ppl are around to serve him. I saw from the first season that Melody was the brains of the operation and w/o her that ship would sink.

[@bevgreer8866]

Arionne like so many others, thought the married man wanted you over his wife. Now she'd looking like a fool, because he will never make her his wife, unless she has clout like Melody.

[@dcw8631]

You spoke that truth! Martell is still showing his ignorance and audacity, thinking someone owes him anything. Now telling his friends, just let me ride y'all coat-tails.

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

A true narcissist

[@nolaflav3637]

This show is very triggering and has complex socio-psycho issues that many aren’t recognizing and are simplifying, in my opinion.

[@thundercat6709]

Agreed 1000%!

[@BlackButterfly504]

Why are people telling Mel who she can and cannot invite to HER HOUSE?

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@NOLA right, everybody that’s blood is not always family. Who she should not have invited was the bone collector Kimmie. If she was so offended by them talking about Tisha then she could have shut it down or left. You don’t come as a guest to someone’s home and then go back and snitch on the conversations that was had there. Snake behaviour. If the situation had been reversed I bet she wouldn’t have ran and told Mel because that’s what Tisha and Kimmie used to do all the time in season 1 and 2 was laugh, throw jabs and gloat about Martel cheating on her. She needs to pay all of them dust because they wouldn’t be on a show if it wasn’t for Mel and this is how they appreciate her genorosity. All of them are Martel’s friends they never were friends of Melody. Her real friends are still her friends and they aren’t on the show.

[@carolynminter7839]

They are mad because the cover was pulled off of that snake Tisha. The lie she told about Mel trying to break up her marriage has been shown was a lie and the Mel haters didn't want that to happen

[@BlackButterfly504]

@@marilynjohnson6298 yes I am not liking Kimmie this season

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@carolynminter7839 facts, Keke vindicated Mel and I am glad she did so Tisha can stop whining and making this her storyline every season. Nobody care if you stay with cheating ass Marsau.

[@miamigardensnow]

Martell’ s mom fall into the description of a black woman over 35, never married, single mother. I would love to hear your take on this and his relationship with his mother, wife and mistress.

[@patwilliams9175]

I thought I saw a wedding ring on Martell’s mom’s ring finger, am I mistaken? Martell expects a woman to cater to him and it’s rather obvious. He holds a woman to a certain role

[@jenniferrogers3717]

Destiny needs to stop trynna ACT like she don't know why Mel had to cut her off 🙄 Mel keeps telling her it's due to her actions on that reunion stage , joining forces with Tisha, smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ but she likes to play dumb & innocent & clueless ... Mel already spelled it all 👏🏽the 👏🏽way👏🏽 out 👏🏽from A to Z

[@MsSugarSweet]

At this point, I don’t think Melody cared about how Tisha or Destiny felt, or the optics of it & I don’t blame her. In my opinion, Melody can invite whoever she wants to her home or her events.

[@bevgreer8866]

This is why Martell got mad when Fred went to Melody to finished the project. Martell is superficial and shallow!

[@shifragri]

Martell is lazy and had no problem riding on Melody's coattails, he wanted to take credit for her success, he was constantly saying how he push her forward to shine, as if he was some selfless caring husband. He is a user and became jealous of his own wife's success even though she was more than happy to share power and influence he didn't earn.

[@daniellegreen6287]

I'm gonna say it again, I am SHOCKED every time people realize things in later seasons that were basically highlighted in seasons 1 and 2

[@kekelah7857]

Martell is the type of dude that will come in anybodys life and mess it all the way up. He leaves babies everywhere he has no career/job but he feels he is a high value man. He really is delusional. I love your commentary ❤❤❤❤

[@divaslm1]

FACTS

[@MsMimiWN]

It seemed like Martell was intentionally coming for Vivica because of her status and the attention he would get from it. He didn’t care whether it was good or bad. He may have been looking to see if this could be his next business endeavor since he’s already the ex husband people love to hate. We see Martell has an issue with women who are independent and strong because they always show the reality of the delusion he wants to live in and they show he’s less than the personality he’s attempting to portray.

[@bevgreer8866]

Martell has the right personality to followed someone like Kevin Samuels and you see how this ended up! Kevin Samuels used women for money too!

[@sindiswamoolman5505]

Two words that describes Martel; “lazy narcissist”

[@ms.cassie7526]

The YTuber "Color Me Pynk" has a video of KiKi showing screenshot dating back to 2019 where she was invited to several of Melody's events but she declined due to Tisha and Melody's contentious relationship. I don't think Melody was being "shady" by inviting KiKi, I just think she extended the invitation as she usually did and KiKi for reasons of her own decided to attend. Please check out the video from "Color Me Pynk".

[@mindoflilith]

I already know about this...but would you invite your enemy's family member to a party; as I said, the optics look bad especially since she didn't invite Destiny either. People can do what they want, but nothing happens in a vacuum.

[@vjfromaroundtheway777]

She is constantly being accused of trying to break up Tisha's marriage. If the agenda was to establish that Marsau's cheating rumors were long before the show. Keke confirmed what the small town of Huntsville already knows, thus clearing Melody's name to her own satisfaction.

[@ShawnteAmoure]

@@mindoflilith We are not in high-school. Melody did not meet Keke through Tisha. AND she knew Keke FIRST. She went to college with Keke, worked in the same department as Keke & met Tisha years later. So now that she & Tisha aren't friends she should no longer invite Keke, whom she has ALWAYS invited? This isn't realistic and it's an unfair ask.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@ShawnteAmoure facts, plus Tisha and Destiny knew they were no longer Mel’s friend and they knew why. So many people are attacking Mel inside and outside the show and she has been silent but even a dog gets tired. Just like she said any glimpse if snake behavior no matter who it is because of what she has been thru, she was cutting them out of her life. Tisha used her, Destiny used her and Martel used her and all of them has given her their ass to kiss. I don’t blame her at all now that she is standing up for herself.

[@carolynminter7839]

@@vjfromaroundtheway777 Thank you and showed Tisha up as the liar she is. Iron wears out and you can only take so much. Especially someone who is as intelligent as Mel. She cleared her name and all of her haters can go straight to hell because it can't be taken back because everyone heard it and they can drag Mel all they want. Her fans ain't going nowhere and will continue to support her in whatever she does or sells. We refuse to let the lying Scott's take her down or any of the paid bloggers and gay male bloggers who hate her guts and have never even met her.

[@ShawnteAmoure]

I usually agree 💯 but Melody knew Keke before she knew Tisha & has ALWAYS invited Keke to her events. Melody said it weeks ago & Keke just posted proof with invitations all the way back to 2017. I personally feel like Kimmi had to know this and she intentionally presented things on the show to make it seem otherwise. Keke also said Tisha always tried to make her feel bad about going to Mel's events. So was Tisha speaking negatively about Mel all that time? That to me says that for whatever reason Tisha doesn't want Melody & Keke to be friends. This is why she went to Melody's house telling all Keke personal business. She thought that was going to end that friendship but it didn't. No one should have to tiptoe around Tisha & if I was dealing the type of pain and scrutiny Mel has endured I would not be worried about how my invite list appears to others. That's an unrealistic and insensitive ask.

[@kianidavis2042]

Melody can invite anyone she wants any time she wants!

[@selloanemahlatsi541]

Martell is pathetic 😂. This man who has with 5 kids is intentionally avoiding taking a test that will set him up to be able to provide for his kids but has the audacity to call himself high value . I'm amused

[@atorelli33]

This is why I can’t watch other KZbinrs talk about this show. They’re so worried about Carlos dangling BS in front of their face and can’t even see the layers that are unfolding. Amazing review, nothing but facts

[@natashahayes4813]

Enjoyed your commentary. You brought it straight and hit the nail on the head! Powerful insight.

[@blessed9499]

Martel in for a rude awakening

[@divaslm1]

It is critical you date and marry folks you are equally yolked too

[@nolaflav3637]

Folks betta listen and understand what is meant by “I’m a go getta (“her”) and SHE’’S A GO GET IT!” That’s what Martell did with Mel, and now he’s riding everyone else’s wake, but they wont let him fraudulently stand in the front…

[@pamelabeaudoin8206]

You always sum things up and put it all on the table just as it is … I love it - it’s so true We as Women are always busy taking care of everybody else we do not make time for our health and strength… then we get put aside instead of being recognized for all we have done to elevate others esp. men. Wow - Very well put. God Bless - Love listening to your commentary.

[@get_aclue4218]

I think it’s clear Melody is giving tisha and destiny the space they deserve and require 🤷🏽‍♀️ no shade just pure realness. A song comes to mind “I don’t phuck wit YOU…”

[@tangajTANG]

Martell has always shown pimp, it is coming out more noticeably. Yes he sees women as workers for his gain. Martell should have stayed in the MAINTENANCE business where he was the initiator in the business. Melody's potential was greater and he went along, but started losing grip of his area of expertise; his limited intellect was spinning and needed AC to come down to his level. As I said Martell is more suited for being a janitor or maintenance entrepreneur.

[@carolynminter7839]

Coleslaw didn't have to come down to his level. He went back to his ghetto roots and picked her up. He said out of his own mouth that she was low-classed and a peasant. He went where he came from and where Mel kicked him back to where he and she came from.

[@tangajTANG]

@@carolynminter7839 No, he needed her to COME *back DOWN, to the level he belonged. She was lower and gave him that sense of being smart like he felt when he was running his lawn cutting business. My wording is not clear, forgive me for causing any misunderstanding

[@tangajTANG]

Edit: come *BACK down

[@marilynjohnson6298]

@@carolynminter7839 facts💯💯💯

[@carolynminter7839]

@@tangajTANG No problem love

[@PN2Ross]

Thank you for explaining why he want get his license. I believe that relationship with Fred is going to end soon , just by his response.

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

The way Fred laughed in Martells face said it all..I see the builders license study book with tagged and highlighted pages stayed at his office too.

[@rellie_90]

I’ve been saying, it’s amazing how Melody really covered for this man. He showed out when the envy got to be too much. This was why Mel was so tired, because she was doing it all, that is exactly how he got the time to cheat as much as he did. For him to believe it doesn’t take energy to cheat is ridiculous. That removes energy for actual work. So, of course, he’s a fan of the likes of KS. That scene was so disappointing and gross tbh.

[@propertybycrystal1]

Drop the freaking mic, Lilith has left the building. 💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@shifragri]

Martell wasn't even doing the field work he was suppose to do, I saw a clip of when they were trying to get a show, Melody had everything together, but Martell's lazy ass didn't remember the code for the house he was suppose to be checking on routinely. Mel said you don't remember the code? Because you haven't been checking on the property.

[@divaslm1]

FACTS

[@ToniaAlex13]

Melody can invite anyone she wants to the same way, Kimmie and the other ladies can. Plus receipts were shown that she always invite Keke, so we all can lay that to rest now

[@moniqueayers]

Exactly! It’s her house and she pays the mortgage so no one can dictate that invite list except her. And I’m unclear as to why I’ve seen some people on other videos say that she should’ve invited Destiny & Tisha when they are clearly not friends at all.

[@ToniaAlex13]

@@moniqueayers I realised sometimes we think we know what's best for these ppl than they know themselves.

[@TheRealVeeBee]

And then he had the nerve to get mad cause she wouldn’t go down on him all day everyday! Then have the nerve to say she wasn’t doing her duties as a wife! Wth! Mel is making the babies and the money for this family!

[@Theblackbumblebee]

That was so disgusting!!🤮🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢

[@Winnib7479]

Keke recently posted text messages where Melody invited her to events numerous times even when Melody was still associated with Tisha. Like Melody's baby shower and the gender of the baby reveal. Keke declined a lot of them . So she is in fact friends with Keke. Why would she invite Tisha and Destiny ? She told them she was not bringing them into 2022 , they are too toxic. It's not her fault if they can't handle the truth. Martell is a user and is very insecure, he knows his limitations and hopefully Fred will decide to sever ties with him. Another excellent commentary !

[@TheLorraine1964]

You are so spot on. The first blogger to break it down and tell it like it is.

[@pacinorules752]

It is sad to watch fractured relationships on the show. None of the ladies in conflict with each other were in a frame of mind to reconcile their differences. I watch the show every week to see if Martell is learning anything from this debacle. Alas, no.

[@sspresswood3]

This needs to go viral. You told nothing but the truth and facts. lol

[@angeljones7427]

Yes!! Finally someone speaking on this situation with some sense!! We can all use this situation for our own growth and journey to self love and esteem. Great commentary!!

[@mindoflilith]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@here4drealt333]

You are running this thing down! And you are 100% right on every point!

[@michellesimmons3393]

My thing is.... The last time MEL INVITED Tisha to her taco party in effort to repair the friendship at the REUNION Tisha basically told Mel she just isn't here for her. Then after Mel overheard Tisha and Destiny talking about her at the hotel, she received it. Why would Mel want TWO HEIFERS who don't really like her all up in HER HOUSE? My momma use to say, "The devil can't come in your house unless you invite him in!" I've never seen so many full grown women PENENE PRESSED over a silly sleep over! This whole situation is being completely GASLIT. So what Melody invited Keke to her party and not Destiny and Tisha. Keke said it herself that Tisha has tried to BLOCK her from making connections around Huntsville. It be your own people... I guess that's somehow Melody's fault too?

[@carolynminter7839]

I hope people with good common sense saw the looks on Tisha and Destiny's faces. It was pure D hatred that those two feels for Mel, and ain't no way those two evil B's would step foot in my house again. I know Destiny might set Mel up because that's the kind of greasy want to be slick B she is. I just hope Mel keeps her guard up

[@thundercat6709]

And let’s not forget how Tisha acted at the retreat with Ima. Every time Mel has tried to extend an olive branch, Tisha slaps it out of her hand.

[@sexysdub]

You said a whole word in this video! Martell literally said in the first season "I set it up for you to take on most of the work in the company" then had the audacity to say he chest bc Mel was busy! He needs to fall off the face of the earth til he can stand on his own!

[@Theblackbumblebee]

Why do you think Kiwah was so mad at Maurice?? Kimmi elevated Maurice and it allowed him to get his schit together. That house maybe in both of their names but Kimmi purchased that house. She waited 7 years 😥😥. The reason why Maurice felt obligated to buy Kiwah and Zah a house? He felt guilty of having the life he has now that he couldn't give her. Maurice only married Kimmi in my opinion was for the show and to carry this status of a stand up man. Also, most attorneys are married. We all can see Kimmi is intelligent and Maurice is out his league. She settled for that wedding ceremony to me😩

[@kekelah7857]

She big time settled and she fawns over him like he is her son. Those Scott's are using her and her son but she so in love and so happy to be married she can't see it.

[@thundercat6709]

@@kekelah7857 I’ve never liked Kimmi. Saw through her the first episode. But I agree Maurice n’nem definitely use Kimmi. Hell, he moved his mother in two days after they got married for nurse Kimmi to take care of and then there was the situation with Monster. No wonder he didn’t take her on a honeymoon.

[@kekelah7857]

@@thundercat6709 you peeped that too to nurse his mama and babysit his son while she done raised her son and put him through college by herself smh

[@jackiejackson7428]

What you discussed is so very common in the black community. I am having the same challenges righ now. Black men don't like it when their women improve themselves.

[@latoniarobertson4026]

Everyone on this show is grown, Mel has every right to invite whoever she wants to her house. Mel and Keke have been friends for years so no immature women is going to tell me who are who not to bring into my home in my space. People need to grow up, I have never seen a bunch of immature women in my life upset with a women because she refuses to be her friend.

[@marilynjackson6252]

She can invite whoever she wants to HER house period!!! Meaning Mel ✅

[@lindacromartie4951]

Tisha is and was by not Melody’s friend. Melody can invite whom ever she wants. Destiny’s is a lying two faced person who is only a friend to herself. Kudos to Melody. Leave Tisha and Destiny in the dust. Kimmie may have to join them on the outside due to her two faced maneuvers

[@andreababb7525]

I appreciate u for speaking on this episode.

[@kimjohnson9121]

Ty ty ty this was everything 💓 and so on point we appreciate u 💓 👏

[@Tammy-se2hu]

Wow. 🤒🤒🤒😳😳😳 this was triggering. You help us see the deeper layers to the mayhem. Thank you again. There is so much power in the unifying of the melinated man and women. I pray for the day of our complete unity.

[@toyachinfloo3212]

You need to look at KeKe’s recent receipts showing the history of Melody’s invites to several events… KeKe was the one who reclined from previous invitations Not Melody being out of character to invite KeKe. I also feel as an adult person Melody can choose to invite whom she chooses to her home or event. Not sure who was invited but if you view the footage of the Seventh Avenue Beauty launch Keke, Tiffany,& Kimmie are in attendance but Destiny & LaTisha are not seen in any pictures. So if Black are to gain independence from abusive relationships with men why do they have to stay in unhealthy relationships with other women🤷🏾‍♀️

[@VeeStandingOnBusiness]

I remember the super sad look Martell had when Mel was being awarded and not him (season 2 I think). He wanted all the recognition and ego stroking.

[@jenniferrogers3717]

According to coleslaw, Martell cheated for 7 years, instead of 5.... smh 🤦🏽‍♀️ disgusting

[@carmtrav]

So, Mel doesn't have the right to invite whoever she wants to her house? Keke didn't have a reason to be there? Come again? Someone she actually knew before Tisha? Mel was really supposed to be concerned about Tisha and Destiny's feelings...after the knives they have put in her back? Interesting perspective. Microaggressions? Wouldn't that be what damn near the entire cast does to Mel on social media, as well as, the show? Except sometimes what Mel is subjected to can't really be described as micro now can it? This event was a straight up ambush(but I guess that's ok) meant to take Mel down and it failed miserably. Orchestrated by production, facilitated by bone carrier Kimmie, and sloppily executed by jealous backstabbing Tisha and Destiny, this is just further evidence that Carlos King will always screw up a good thing.

[@marilynjohnson6298]

I agree with everything you said!!!!

[@thundercat6709]

Exactly!

[@kemiajakaiye1151]

Well said! He’s nothing but a self serving narc. It’s sad that he can’t even discipline himself to study and get what he needs. The nerve to call someone foolish when he’s the biggest fool.

[@charlottejones6067]

I disagree with you in that Melanie had every right to invite Kiki receipts came out just last night that Kiki was invited to a numerous events of Mel since 2019 so why should that stop to appease teacher

[@mindoflilith]

Melody has the right to do what she wants but she can't control how people perceive her actions.

[@mrsannprofits1965]

@@mindoflilith But you don't seem to precieve the fact that destiny and Tisha locked in a hotel throwing daggers in Melody's back and got the nerve to say how Melody would be precieved for disassociating herself from people that are fake friends? And she has to explain herself to the likes of them! Or anybody! Hell No!

[@channeldemi]

@@mindoflilith I hear what you saying and I love your commentary but those receipts proved keke been invited to everything. This in my opinion proved Tisha and kimmie as well is also a liar because they act as if they didn’t know Mel and keke were friends. I like keke but keke could have declined if anything its more vindictive on keke end. From those receipts it seem like no matter how much mel invited keke she kinda try to avoid going to a lot of the events because of Tisha , but chose to go to the sleepover. I also heard she was at the album release party and they intentionally did not film her. Which I feel Tisha and Marseau could be responsible for. Point is Mel getting to much blame in general for everything. Keke could’ve declined.

[@carolynminter7839]

@@mrsannprofits1965 I don't know because one of my comments was taken down. I was coming ate those snakes and now its gone.

[@elainemalcolm8349]

Until Martel get down on his knees and ask God for forgiveness for all he has done to Melody and continue to hurt her, also apologies to Melody in public his blessings will never never ever be restored to him.

[@RoseColored125]

I think Martell thought by making that dumb statement on Vivica's platform, he could slide into becoming the next Kevin Samuels and he could get his following. Martell is lazy, but he loves to bash his beautiful, black ex wife. So glad he got bashed and shut up. Do some real work,instead of always looking for a quick hustle.

[@reneemosley8363]

OMG...I just said the same thing in your video title on another video!!!! Confirmation lol

[@doreenblank4870]

who cares what the people nor Tisha & Desnity think . they are not Mel friend . She has told them tbat before she had her event. Mel is free to invite whomever she wants. Mel could a flying fig what your think about her inviting Kiki to her party. I would say next time don't invite Kimmie either.

[@patriciacarroll1235]

Nothing but the factual truth.

[@loudnoise4576]

Your analysis is so on point!

[@jenniferrogers3717]

Treat them like KINGS & they ain't runnin nothin , smh whewww 💯 I used to do this with my baby daddy...when we went out to the movies or whatever, I had to give him the money 💵 in the car secretly, so he could be seen "PAYING" for it publicly 🙄 then what did he do? Yep... cheated with some white girl... it was deuces ✌🏼

[@deannalawson9456]

I agree 100% as usual! I’m finally taking the time to take better care of myself and people looking at me side ways lol but I’m doing it and it feels GREAT!!! 😉

[@vickiesanders5610]

Marsau and Maurice are afraid to piss Martell off, because he will tell on them, if they cross him out.... Maurice was trying his best to tell Kimmie to invite Martell and she said no, he brings drama, he acted a fool at Jalen's little graduation dinner, jumping up chasing after miss Wanda and arguing and Wanda ruined the celebration arguing and Marsau iis trying to buy some time because he is definitely not about to let Martell back into Scholt but he's knows Martell is going to blow up and tell on him cheating, Marsau is going to say Tisha doesn't want you back in the business, watch.....

[@vanessawoods8179]

You guys kill me saying Mel was wrong not inviting them to HER HOUSE! Why would she invite them after what they said at the reunion? Am I the only one that seen that part? Tisha and KeKe’s beef was because The Scott’s told her personal business to Melody because she couldn’t make it to Melody’s event, now everyone is surprised that she was invited AGAIN to Melody’s event. Am I STILL the only person that heard that too????

[@jenniferrogers3717]

Whewww! Girrrrl, Peach! 💯 Lilith, you layed it D O W N !!

[@renophoenix2188]

Martell agrees with Kevin samuels,melody should take those teeth from hoetell I bet he looks like somebody’s great great grandfather.

[@TDB21]

Like I commented on another video, he gives Selena/Yolanda Saldivar energy. So do Tisha and Destiny to some extent. If they can’t benefit from her and use her, they want to destroy her. Not that I feel it will go that far in this situation, but the mentality is similar. This dysfunction runs deeper than most people can see on the surface. Perhaps that’s why this show gives you anxiety. You’re definitely tapping into some dark energy.

[@carolynminter7839]

True and that snake Martell, all of the Scott's, and Destiny are filled with NOTHING but darkness and it's all trained at Mel. Their jealousy is off the charts when it comes to Mel. Kimmi, Destiny, and Tisha's face showed the hate they feel for Mel, That's why I'm going to ride with Mel until the wheels fall off and after they do.

[@darlenehill4350]

It’s funny cuz inviting KeKe is probably what Carlos wanted. And just like Kimmie invited the people that she wanted , why is it a problem? If you’re not talking to people would you invite them to your event?? Come on people we got to look at where the show is going, I know this was Carlos doing!!! Ijs 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@faithlewis4628]

I heard he was a felon. He can’t get his builders license. I don’t think you can’t be felon, and get your contractors license.

[@delaniquelawrence1173]

Very insightful and it all makes sense. I wish Kevin Samuels would have had women on the show that could shut him down.

[@chitaylor2775]

Martell won’t succeed until he makes it right with Mel. And I’m meaning that he 💯 percent respects wholeheartedly!

[@Kittteaa]

We as the viewers get too invested. You can NOT tell ppl who they can and can’t invite into their home. Furthermore keke dropped receipts for everything Mel has invited her too.

[@2BGMedia]

This was spot on.

[@tiffstruth4039]

I think the back and forth between Mel and Tisha is fair game. I think if she didn’t invite Keke to the event then there would be no storyline. I know everyone wants to take the mor high ground and say oh they should focus more on successful business the same people would complain the show is boring. Keke didn’t really even say too much about Tisha. Melody knows why she cut Destiny off and she doesn’t have to explain that

[@kieshacoleman2017]

Melody can invite who she wants into her home. Keke put the receipts out there showing her and Mel been friends. These are grown women. Let's be clear no bitch on this earth is going to disrespect me in my own home. If I don't f with you I don't f with you. The person stirring the pot is Kimmie. She listening to her husband and keeping the mess going. People come into your life for a reason, a season, a lesson, a blessing, or a lifetime.

[@luvinme4ever745]

YES MA'AM! LOVE THE COMMENTS🥰

[@sdjames2580]

Melody didn’t invite Tisha or Destiny because neither they are her friends. Keke was more of a friend to Melody than them and just as Tisha would throw jabs at Melody in an attempt to hurt her, she brought Keke along to do the same. It was like a jab because everyone knows KeKe got some information on Tisha and her husband’s affairs. It was jus a jab.

[@renophoenix2188]

Martell next book 📕 how not to steal an ATM MACHINE

[@jovialjae]

I'm gonna warn you right now.....I most definitely will be stealing Martell Samuels from you. ✅️ 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@_empresslioness]

This whole video is 💯% the truth

[@goodlife8044]

When I’m being petty I claim it. Melody needs to admit and own up to being petty by inviting Keke and not inviting Tisha.