What Traits in a Man Turn on Chinese Girls?

[@laowhy86]

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[@konstantinschafer342]

When you like your own comment 😂

[@loonytbom7843]

Vivi and Serpantza's wife touring around on motor cycles .... that's a show

[@syntaxerror8955]

In a way, my eyes and your eyes, Cmilk, and a billion other white people's eyes, are boring. Vivi's eyes, now that's spicing things up! (On the other hand, that's a woman's eyes in my twisted head.) :-)

[@sanchomemark6292]

Hmmm.... Are you coordinating with Abroad in Japan?

[@rongyaowang1075]

fuck you😡😡😡

[@SupremeLeaderKimJong-un]

North Korean women like Rocket Men and I’m the only one

[@dektran4843]

your pleasure squads lol

[@JustDavidMinistries]

Kim Jong-un 😂😂😂😂😂

[@Taeonas]

can't believe you made a profile just for this. 😂😂😂

[@guiponzi]

😂😂😂🚀🚀

[@DORMlN]

Elton John's a commi....🤔

[@richardc5100]

Would've been funny if Viv said "money" and the video ended.

[@nachofdc7941]

that was probably the first shot and he asked her to make up some other stuff to come up with another video...

[@RonaldMcPaul]

@@nachofdc7941 - "You mean men have other characteristics? I don't follow. You're not making any sense, C-milk!"

[@Swimfinz]

Laowai is delusional. He wants love. All women want POWER. Winston is in same boat. A Chinese "doctor" doesn't mean jack-shit in America and you know this. .

[@lyhjiba]

Or an American Green Card

[@carljung5743]

@@Swimfinz Is she even a doctor.....what kind of doctor dates english teacher/bike repairmen.

[@nachofdc7941]

anyone who has ever dated a Chinese girl would know that the most important thing for them is money and if you are a foreigner her mother might only accept you if you have lots of it.

[@syntaxerror8955]

Really? Her mother has accepted me, and I certainly don't have much money.

[@nachofdc7941]

@@syntaxerror8955 glad to hear there are exceptions

[@nachofdc7941]

@Joe Blow I heard many Japanese teens prostitute themselves not for necessity but to buy luxury bags... However I am not in the position to judge Japanese women since Ive never been with one myself

[@IainMcfly]

@@nachofdc7941 thats why the brothels are full of Chinese/Taiwanese/Malaysian girls with Japanese names.......

[@lisar3777]

@Joe Blow It better be true for my daughters!! When I meet the new son in laws, I want the first meeting to go like this: "So, this is my company parking garage. This is my spot. My Father founded this company many years ago. It's ok, security. She's with me. She's My mother in law. So ma'am let me introduce you to my employees and then we'll go up to the 12th floor so you can see my personal office space. There is a running track on the roof to burn off your obvious excitement" That is an optimum son in law.

[@nightmaster5593]

Honestly bro, that took major balls to make. I couldn't handle asking my lady those exact questions. Very insightful video! I appreciate your dedication and honesty. Love your channel. Keep it up!

[@laowhy86]

thank you!

[@Lopezflies888]

The questions and answers seemed rehearsed. Esp as he was acting "uncomfortable"

[@arjovenzia]

I once asked my missus at the time 'what she liked about me', guess I needed an ego bump... but her considered and honest answers were not a all what *I* thought were my "features". it was insightful. the things that were valuable to her were not things I had been 'improving myself' at, but innate mental and physical things. which I had not attributed value to. I cant buff them, you like what you like. no way I'd have recorded that conversation though.

[@robichard]

I have dated many Chinese women. Be careful. They will criticize you mercilessly and be more committed to their family than to you. On the good side, she will likely not cheat on you.

[@miriamtiuseco2nd]

Depends on where she's from. If from the north, more they say their mind Than the southern ones, who are more reserved and obedient. I don't think they are more committed to their family than the husband. They can't just "let go" of strong family ties because of upbringing... Filial piety. Criticizing is one Chinese way of making u better, think of it like a "wakeup call". Yes, they remain loyal till the end unless you renege on your responsibility as a husband

[@mitchmclean3898]

Oh they cheat, they're way more sneaky about it.

[@Xslices]

@@mitchmclean3898 dam bro

[@miriamtiuseco2nd]

@Paul Smith there are no absolutes in this world. But in average, chinese women don't cheat. I attribute this to their upbringing and culture. Family is very important to them. If they cheat, family will be disintegrated

[@karlbryant5706]

Not cheat on you? Lol wake up boy…lol

[@northernbohemianrealist]

Money. I was married to a Malaysian Chinese lady. Try to build a business with one of these. Every nickel I put in my business "proved that I did not love her." I heard it over and over and over. Money

[@fixt100]

Wierd,, my buddy was with a Chinese girl for 8 years and all of hhis money spent on crap while she saved and saved to start her business (100k) she came to me when she was ready and we got it all setup, the only thing he did for her was a small bit of construction (1 weekend worth) on her location, the rest was done by me out of common interest and friendship,, and she would do nice things for me in return. i think you got hooked up to a foul bird for sure man.

[@Lopezflies888]

And you stayed with her ? If I were a dude and heard this 1 time I would have run for the hills

[@miriamtiuseco2nd]

@Forsworn poor you

[@miriamtiuseco2nd]

Poor you

[@เรียนภาษาอังกฤษวันนี้]

get a white wife. White and white is better.

[@AverytheCubanAmerican]

Be a man! We must be swift as the coursing river! Be a man! With all the force of a great typhoon. Be a man! With all the strength of a raging fire. Mysterious as the dark side of the moon!

[@BothHands1]

Yessss

[@teambeining]

Avery the Cuban-American 😂😂😂😂😂

[@norwegianblue2017]

I always think of that scene in The Godfather when the old man grabs that Hollywood fop by the lapels and slaps him around when he starts crying. "You can act like a man!!!"

[@Lopezflies888]

According to Chinese woman the only thing that defines your worth is $$$$$$$$$$$$$

[@meanderingmangomanthe1stof611]

And keep your pimphand strong

[@HotPepperLala]

I don't even need to watch the video to know the answer is MONEY and MONEY AND LOTS OF IT!

[@mikewazzupski]

Hot Pepper Lala that goes for pretty much anywhere tho maybe more in china iduno

[@pissoffdriverg3022]

I support this message.

[@jojo94101]

@@mikewazzupski Definitely more in China, its ridiculously common among the female population there

[@Lopezflies888]

Wise, I hope your a man thats one less foreigner who can get duped by a "charming chinese girl"

[@AnOriginalYouTuber]

They've been married almost 7 years and still laugh and banter like newlyweds. What a wonderful dynamic!

[@asggerpatton7169]

1. Money 2. Height 3. Money

[@Lopezflies888]

No, Money, Money. Money and Money. Ive worked with many Chinese women in China and that is what thier conversations revolve around regarding men's worth.

[@morphkogan8627]

1. Money 2. Height 3. Attractive

[@boracay12]

@@Lopezflies888 so i was going to say money , after all its women we are talking about . but every one beat me to it .

[@Iffy]

1. Money 2. Height 3. Money 4. White

[@StinkyDinkins]

I am sorry but I can't believe you made this video. Everybody is special and different. We are all snowflakes.

[@laowhy86]

lmao

[@peacefulworldh9902]

Stinky Dinkins there do exist wise persons in his followers! Lmao! Waste of time seeing their topics!

[@AmazinglyChina]

@@laowhy86 I blame laowhy86 for all these bickering because it's his video we get to comment on.

[@dallasdelay3468]

@@laowhy86 I am shocked. I clutched muh Pearl's while my Glass heart shatters

[@ronniemaclaine5234]

The funny thing about saying we are all snowflakes is that the whole thing about snowflakes being unique has been debunked there are snowflakes that are exactly the same as other snowflakes there are fingerprints that are exactly the same as other fingerprints the fact that nature will make one of a kind unique things has been debunked

[@johnmoyle4195]

I was married for 14 years. I have absolutely no idea what her favourite colour was. The only reason for this is that I didn’t care.

[@alligatormonday6365]

Hell yeah dude.

[@Bob31415]

If you knew maybe you'd still be married. Just sayin'.

[@dabillya6845]

welp, not good with woman i see eh?

[@MichaelGordonFinance]

I think this proves that the idea of a "type" is too abstract. The real truth is that one can fall in love with someone who is radically different from their "type."

[@joshboston2323]

Michael Gordon-for sure! My Chinese girlfriend is also into these Korean pop star types.. she says I’m not her type physically.. 😅

[@Hashslingingslasher-]

@@joshboston2323 I know your comments a year old but thats really nice, you got a good one imo

[@Hashslingingslasher-]

@@joshboston2323 or maybe you're rich, nvm

[@joshboston2323]

@@Hashslingingslasher- hahah, not poor, but not rich. She has received quite some attention from richer guy than me, lets say. But I've noticed that for woman, looks generally matter less than for men.

[@Hashslingingslasher-]

@@joshboston2323 that's good news for me :PP

[@EvaldasJocys]

A lot of people retain childish view of maturity and attribute "seriousness" as a main property of maturity. Real maturity is about fully developed brain and life experience, which allows to understand complex multi-level links between causes and consequences on others. Mature person agrees to take responsibility more frequently because of this understanding. It is not about not-doing something crazy, but about understanding.

[@birdtj82]

Well said . U just spoke of what I thought 💭

[@MaxAmerica.Freedom]

All the Chinese women I have dated wanted a rich guy with a good house. After a while, so as not to waste time, I told them on the first date, "I am not rich and I have an old house." It saved me a lot of time. Sometimes they would say they did not want a rich man but they really meant I need to make over $100K per year. Rich to them meant millionaire. I only made $50k. However, they all said I was super nice and very kind and funny but that was not enough. They were all honest. (There was one exception. She was rich but was very mean. She got mad when I told her I could not take off a month because I only had 2 weeks vacation. She had a real temper and I broke up with her.)

[@Mr_Valentin.]

Jesus is lord they're brutal

[@annly666]

Yeah and all guys would prefer a hot, young, not fat woman to date with a stable career. It's not that much different. Women from all countries would prefer a successful guy. This is the same for both genders. Please don't make all chinese women look shallow like that when guys are just as picky as girls.

[@arjovenzia]

On the humor thing, in my experience, there is the 'funny guy', who can make a joke for any situation, standup funny, the class clown. but if you can make a small private joke for your girl, that tickles her sense of humor (which probably means your on the same wavelength as her), your probably gonna do OK with her. almost the more private the joke is the better. an observation that you find funny and that she also finds funny, probably hints to alot more other compatibility.

[@yeagermcbipper9008]

Vivi said 'when they still have the hunger'. EPIC

[@30803080308030803081]

The hunger doesn’t really go away. A lot of women just try to suppress it.

[@ohhi5237]

this is why men buy sportscars

[@stanis_gaming]

02:29 She: says 'package' He: licks his lips

[@voxer99]

Humor not a big deal in NE Asia. An elderly man once started talking to me on the Seoul subway. He told me he had worked for many years in New York and had now retired back in S. Korea. "You know what I liked most about living in the States?" he asked. "The jokes." I said, surely there must be jokes in Korea. His answer, "Not many."

[@eddieohearn17]

I met a really nice Chinese woman and we just talked and laughed about things. She would ask me for advice not and again and I would just give her what I thought made sense. Then I realized I wanted more but was not sure what she wanted. So I asked her to marry me, expecting her to tell me she only wished to remain friends. That is when she screwed me up, she said yes. Shock not what I was expecting and then I thought - now what! Chinese women are so sneaky, just like fishing you wait until we have the hook in our mouth and then - caught. And we love being caught.

[@k8eekatt]

Awww that is a sweet story💙💚💜❤ with all the feels

[@Rezzmari]

Why would you ask her to marry you if you were not sure what she wanted... Should have started with dating first.

[@eddieohearn17]

Rezzmari there is never a certainty in life and if I knew what was in any persons head I might either have a great advantage in life or go insane. Just yesterday I was shopping for a never fishing reel and stopped to talk to a clerk. He was going to ask his girlfriend to marry him. They had been dating for 2 plus years. He hoped she would say yes. This is your answer, just because you are dating and in love does not mean she wants to marry you.

[@Rezzmari]

@@eddieohearn17 You never mentioned dating her first was why I said that. And yes, that is always a possibility that the person you are dating does not want to be bound to you for life. Everyone has their own reasons.

[@eddieohearn17]

Rezzmari what you like me to tell you about her and my sex life, that it is and was amazing.

[@erickortizfranco]

Women will never truly confess what turns them on either to another man or to the public, it's too personal and intimate to discuss in public...

[@Lopezflies888]

Viv knows it's $$$$ but don't want to say

[@ohhi5237]

yeah like that rape shit

[@andrewcannon587]

it is a dream of ALL women that they want to be a rich divorceee or a rich widow.

[@dabillya6845]

thats just you bro.

[@danmyself5341]

I find her answers so honest and transparent, it's helpful because of that. Hard to find true introspective women

[@nawtsurprised]

Resources, Security, Social Status and a man who is EASILY MANIPULATED.

[@RonaldMcPaul]

Shhhh _ don't let C-MILK know his brains have been scrambled.

[@30803080308030803081]

That’s accurate. But she will cheat on him with men who are very different from that type.

[@nawtsurprised]

@@30803080308030803081 Of course she will. When her fertility window begins to close she'll go looking for some different genetics, or at least try to get away from C-Milk, thinking he's the reason for her depression.

[@30803080308030803081]

@@nawtsurprisedI don't think that applies to C-Milk. He's good.

[@andrewcannon587]

the 5 C's requirement 1. cash 2. cars 3. credit card 4. condos 5. career job Extra C's 6. carats 7. connections 8. country clubs

[@akiraraiku]

About the study, i'd advise caution, while it does show some facts known for a long time in psychology, only 60 couples is a really small sample, it's likely it's not a random representative one, given how small it is. Many social science studies in the recent years have, for ideological purposes, mainly marxist infiltration (intersectionnality and all the woke garbage), used very dubious samples to make conclusions. They mainly used small non random samples of white middle class urban people, this is not on the par with the standard of scientific testing and statistical analysis. So the data may be skewed. But many of these conclusions actually makes sense if you think about women's psychology in light of evolution, and the effect natural and sexual selection have on the brain which is the source of the mind.

[@ohhi5237]

well this stuyd wasnt done in germany

[@nvno1943]

Absolutely agree! So many “scientific studies” are manipulated to support a specific agenda!

[@jagardina]

My advice is to not get married. But you probably will. You never listen.

[@RonaldMcPaul]

Winston and C-milk have both states numerous times that there is absolutely zero benefit to getting married. They still did it, but there's no benefit. They did. No benefit. Come on Ace Ventura help us out! Finkle... Einhorn...

[@torrestorrestorres488]

I have never been married, will soon be 60 years old. Most think I am in my early 40's …. marriage life can be very, very stressful.

[@markdignam3525]

@@torrestorrestorres488 Well I am a little older than you and as I work out every day and most also think I am a lot younger. I even tease the young guys at the gym as I can lift 2-3 times the weight they can. But putting that aside, I do NOT have a stressful life despite being married to a Chinese woman who has her own career and is not dependent on me. I will not accept being micro-managed or emotionally blackmailed. You CAN be married and still retain personal sovereignty. It helps that I have a strong personality and have had many learning experiences, but managing stress is a normal human experience and it happens whether you are married or otherwise.

[@HR15DE]

i dont need to get advice. I wont get married. If i need a babe i can get it.(still relationship) enjoy the time with her. without every downside of having a very long term relationship with a woman. You can literally do this and you wont have issue. but peopl will call you playboy. (if they know lol)

[@Swimfinz]

Leading cause of divorce is marriage!

[@dl4511]

Yes, they like your cash, credit cards, home, car, your pension and the fortune cookie that reads, "you will be coming into big money."

[@svensshed1564]

I have been married to a Chinese woman for 8 years now and together for 10 years and we still have some cultural issues from time to time, but my wife is my dream

[@momotheelder7124]

The graphic with the stretched man, builder's body woman's face was brilliant lol

[@HeadlessChickenTO]

For my wife - status aka money - height - not bald - non-smoker - non-drinker - fit - relatively quiet aka won't talk back I only fit maybe 50% of these. But she said she chose me because she saw my photo as a little kid and thought "oh his kids are gonna be good looking"

[@michaelwalters7333]

You Guys Rock, Really Enjoy the Videos

[@TheColonelKlink]

"Horrifically generalized." A C-Milk turn of phrase if I ever heard one.

[@syntaxerror8955]

Generally horificized.

[@AyeshaKhan-yz9ze]

Loved the way you were in this video. Very respectful and chilled out.

[@johnomirth]

Chinese women don't like men who show anger in public. My wife certainly doesn't, and at least one Chinese woman friend I know dislikes it very much, even what I consider normal amounts of openly expressed emotion. That may be a gender thing though...my mom didn't like it when dad lost his temper. Chinese women don't appreciate humor, though that may be a cultural/language difference. Chinese humor and Western humor are so different, and humor that's not slapstick/physical depends on nuanced language. I need to frequently remind my wife that most of the time I'm joking, or being sarcastic, or ironic. My wife finds physical humor funny that I think is borderline sadistic. She shares examples of Chinese humor that fall flat with me. People are commenting here on the importance of money. Let's be honest. Money has been important to all women in the past. Now, not so much perhaps, especially in the West where women are more self reliant. China is catching up in that regard I sense. As Chinese women become more like western women, the bad boy/nice guy thing may become more of an issue....bad for the nice guys and maybe bad for Chinese women.

[@Lopezflies888]

Same for Chinese men. I am hot tempered and would show it and he couldn't take it in public. I would get upset at ever little social slight I would see and had to stop as I was constantly upset in China.

[@peacefulworldh9902]

Live it or leave it ! Lol

[@joshboston2323]

dundreary-my girlfriend is chinese and my observations are very very similar to yours.

[@agalah408]

Ahh... The Flying Lizards captured the essence of many relationships back in 1979: Your love is such a thrill But your love won't pay my bills I want money That's what I want That's what I want...

[@lovepotionsinc]

Pearl Bush, you may not be, but Laowinners love you anyway, Rose Bud.

[@laowhy86]

[@JHall-dl1sb]

Laowhy , you got the jewel from China. She will make you a happy husband and a happy life.

[@rjdrakon2492]

Question for Vivi: are your answers more for younger women for the most part, and do those answers change for Chinese women who may be in 2nd marriages? Or are you still too young to know that?

[@Lopezflies888]

My Chinese ex husband is on his 3rd marriage . His wife #3 was 50. She had a small retirement and he had next to nothing. After 50 these requirements drop. Under 50, women even in thier 40's can still have very high standards if they look good and have a very good job. All Chinese women want men to at least make 2-3 x more than them so they can quit thier job after marriage (if the guy is a foreinger esp).

[@captainchaos8032]

Well in asian woman marriages, the second marriage is when they seem to wake the hell, up and realise that they need to work.

[@jamallabarge2665]

I'd recommend - "learn Mandarin". If you can sit with her family, which could become your family, you will have an easier time getting to know them.

[@timotot123]

There's every reason for guys to be a bachelor for life 😂😂

[@wannaberedneckprepper7030]

MGTOW

[@wannaberedneckprepper7030]

Tim O'donnell MGTOW is not red or blue pill. Its just men going their own way after having bad relationships with women. Geez.

[@captainchaos8032]

always more puss..

[@joshboston2323]

Alex Tan-I would take issue with that last part: “after having bad relationships with woman”. It shows a deep insecurity that one is deciding to avoid pain due to a personal experience. I would respect mgtow more if it’s based on preferring to actually be on your own or it’s being some spiritual journey of some sorts.

[@wannaberedneckprepper7030]

@@joshboston2323 As a woman, I would think it is. Don't see anything religious attached to it. Cause in religion, if according to bible, reproduction is the purpose of marriage. MGTOW don't encourage that if it's telling men to go their own way.

[@petuniawigglebottom3392]

Chinese culture is so alien to me, it might as well be another planet. On the other hand, I work at a Chinese restaurant, and the staff is wonderful, now that the only jerk they had was fired. We also have a lot of Latinos, and they're awesomely cool too. I just wish they'd correct my sorry grammar.

[@BothHands1]

Vivi's pretty old fashioned, huh? :P Really interesting to hear her perspective. I personally agree with almost all the points from the study Especially the dog part

[@be2Gee]

Before Vivi met C-Milk she had HUNGER for men, but later in life she just chose C-Milk haha :)

[@_Pyroon_]

She describes hypergamy to a tee.

[@UseTheSupeRsonic]

thinking the same thing. She represents the idea to the letter.

[@user-mw4dx3nu7t]

You are the man laowhy. Awesome videos

[@shanti3152]

C-milk looks like a Celine Dion look a like in that one shot! Too funny! Great vid. Thanks...

[@jamesdean354]

Isn't that a rule , never trust a women's opinion on what they say they like versus the reality

[@jamallabarge2665]

Make more sense to see what she likes. Most people do not understand themselves very well.

[@helenaalicia6987]

I have watched many of your videos, mostly about 1-2 years ago before my daughter decided to move to China. And I watched so many from the beginning. And now... I see grey hair! 😂😂😂. Welcome to our world family man! 😁

[@justinmorgan6288]

Get fit, get money, grow balls and be the leader of every social settings. Girls will fill in her place.

[@overcraft1441]

Money can be used to obtain an emotion wether it is food, safety, health, sex, comfort etc. only thing money can’t buy is love or time everything else is possible so asking for money is the best bet

[@krakoosh1]

My wife told me I can only by red shirts now after seeing me wear a red one

[@KA-vs7nl]

Cmilk I love your attitude in every video, you are alive and human. Love you babe

[@EdwardBerryy]

Loved it, loved it, loved it!

[@aromaticsnail]

0:05 awkward silence. C-milk you need to stop putting yourself in these corners🤣🤣🤣

[@jamesleseke5313]

I kinda suspected it, Viv seems to have a wicked sense of humor.

[@nia6849]

Money is the most popular line. Ever seen an old movie called "If you have 7 wishes, what will they be?"

[@okagedesu]

That cut at 1:35 though... Poor C milk definitely died inside at that moment !

[@Deedric_Kee]

Right from the jump WTH 😂 . . . But really good video, very interesting episode. Damn you two are fun 👏

[@tah3099]

I think we can't generalize. Our surrounding determine our view on life and relationships. I was brought up in totalitarian regime and came to US as young adult. I distinctly remember my shock when I re- read Somerset Maugham's The razors blade in English, 10 years after reading it for the first time in my original language. The way I related to characters in this book was so drastic from my initial reaction that I literally couldn't read anything for months. I couldn't wrap my head around how it was possible for a person to change SO much! Where 10 years ago I was outraged by this guy's selfishness... to ask her to give up lavish life and parties, social events and so forth...what an a..hole..yes she was right to leave and marry a guy who was willing to shower her with money, even if it was not her love! Lifestyle was definitely worth it! Fast firward to me living in different society where I could support myself and my family doing what I loved to do. Different ideas emerged...completely opposite reaction to the same story! - OMG ..give this dumb materialistic shit up! A loft in Paris, wine and free conversations with artists ..what can be better! A point I am trying to make - we do things to survive. We adopt. If Chinese or Russian or American women acts like money is the most important thing is because it IS at this particular time for her physical survival. STOP generalizing..things are not that simple. If you were hungry for a bit..you eat and go back to normal. But if you were starved, especially as a child when your views were forming, changing your relationship to food is Very difficult, even if food is in abundance. Some people were never hungry (metaphorically) some were starved, some were severely deprived. There is an old saying that person who just ate will never understand a hungry one. I have seen 'hungry' people of ALL races. So if people from one country are acting in certain way, its not genetic or racial. Its economic. Just like a point you were making in your videos on good samaritan activities in China. People in Taiwan act differently :) That is precisely what I am talking about. Just look at history of how these people had to survive and you will understand why they behave so differently. I know what it means to be afraid and to look another way because its the only way to survive. Fear is what drives it, but that is way too much to cover in one post :) Sorry for such a long post..if anyone actually made it to this apology:)

[@cincinnatifunk]

very wise words here. I made it to the apology. no apology needed. 🙂

[@CubasAutomotive]

This was a cute topic! You never cease to amaze me! Great vid! 😉👍

[@Lopezflies888]

I have seen to many foriegn men in China get screwed over big time by Chinese wives. I mean, big time. I only knew 1 guy it worked out for him BUT she had an MBA and used it, kept her career and did not want children, so together then both kept careers in the marriage. If she plans /wants to have a family, be prepared for you to do all the hard work, her to wait at home eating sunflower seeds waiting for your check, once shes done with it shell leave you enough bus money to get to work.

[@Bruce_Wayne35]

Sunflower seeds?

[@hectorcarrasco3394]

That was really informative!! And I am not even searching for a Girl right now but I will definitely be keeping this in mind Thank you!!!!

[@bbsqtlead4939]

I wonder why it is that Vivienne does not seem to want to compliment her husband when he asks about himself? Is that a cultural thing, where a Chinese woman will not respond to a “fished” compliment, or does she actually not think her husband is particularly good looking? I think he is quite handsome, and it makes me kind of uncomfortable when she balks at confirming to him that she finds him attractive. If she does not think he is attractive, then that is sad. Everyone needs ongoing confirmation from their partners - it’s part of good relationship hygiene. I have been married for 45 years, and my sweetheart and I still tell each other how hot the other is to us, if not every day, then at least every other day. Her husband apparently feels insecure enough about it to think that he has to ask. If a couple are keeping their relationship nourished, neither ever has to ask. Confirmation is always there. Come on, Vivienne, if you love your man and your relationship, let you man know it. Don’t make him beg you for your compliments. - A subscriber who watches and enjoys your videos.

[@teknologist7914]

I think she might be trying to make out to the viewers that Chinese women are not obsessed with white guys. Typical CCP propaganda these days is to tell them all that westerners are colonial imperialist predators out to get them and just play around, etc

[@HellPaul.]

People here talking about money and such. I mean, generally speaking it can be true, but according to my personal experience, none of my two Chinese ex-gfs have never cared about money, and one of them comes from 湖南。

[@miriamtiuseco2nd]

They're just Anti-chinese, that goes down with the women. Oh well...

[@joshboston2323]

miriam tiuseco-no true Scotsman fallacy..

[@softnest]

1. Money 2. Money 3. House + car

[@trumpet5531]

Great stuff, I respect

[@beckyjake8333]

it really depends on the chinese girl herself, then maybe you should categorise chinese girls first then try to conclude their preferences on men haha, however i can assure you that most foreign boys like adventurous and open-mined chinese girls while chinese girls are attracted to curious and honest foreign guys who are obsessed with chinese history or culture, when two cultures collapse, understanding is really important

[@joshboston2323]

Becky Jake-very much agree with your last sentence. It’s not easy to date internationally when cultures are radically different. You need a lot of patience and understanding from both sides for it to work!

[@Bob31415]

@@joshboston2323 "...very much agree with your last sentence." Her entire post is one "sentence". Actually it's no sentence at all. No capitals and no periods.

[@joshboston2323]

@@Bob31415 hahah, yes that's true. I guess I was referring to her last point about obsessing over Chinese history and culture.

[@Bob31415]

@@joshboston2323 I understand. It just seems people don't know how to write in sentences anymore.

[@joshboston2323]

@@Bob31415 I think this girl is not a native English speaker, so I would not be too harsh on her. Perhaps I am wrong, but the way she constructs her sentence seems foreign to me.

[@redwolf979]

In my experiences with Chinese women is that NO most Chinese women do not like men with beards light or heavy.

[@johnc2438]

Don't worry, C-Milk. Vivi chose you! That's how it actually works. Always love your videos when you're both in them! My own Chinese wife of more than 40 years (imagine putting up with this now old white guy for 4 decades!?!?) and I always laugh from beginning to end. 😂

[@captainchaos8032]

so she picked him up at a exotic pet store: "picked him"

[@MountaintravelerEddie]

Well....I’m 40 years old, retired out of the military and have been dating a woman that is 9 years older then me... It’s been 3 years and we are still dating...I’m going to be tying the knot in January... She has her own business... She also don’t care what her parents think... Her kids are grown... My kids are grown.... It’s not about money... Believe me....if you’re a good man that is successful and does good..you are attractive I still run 3 miles in 17:49 I run a few 1/2 marathons and go to the gym I also speak 9 languages....thanks to the US military...it’s easy to communicate to her. I have been to 56 countries and 48 US States....thanks US Military I was deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan for 8 years total....been blown up, shot and stabbed...yes I’m still alive and kicking ass. Of course the women coming over from China don’t want to come to a house or apartment that is nasty and hasn’t seen cleaning in 5 years... They don’t want to worry that you will be a brokedick and not get them a few things here and there... It’s a basic thing for sustaining a relationship and the woman to be sure she won’t be going to a foreign company and be a homeless woman.... Think you damn knuckle dragging cavemen..!!! Don’t be a slimy fucknuckle..!! It’s simple, but a majority of you fuckers make the simplest thing too fucking hard..!! Maybe it’s because I have 4 college degrees....a stable civilian job and take care of my own...still able to travel when I want... I will be retired 5 times when I’m 50 years old... I’m currently 40 years old Any questions..!!!

[@dearg_doom]

Beards are polarising in China. Plenty of the women there hate them, but a significant minority like them, probably because it's "exotic".

[@owelic]

Good video!

[@jeffreybarry64]

Did she just say "Don't Snack around'' ? everybody likes to snack

[@ravineseder3133]

I'd say that, based on knowing plenty of SE Asian women, that SE Asian women in general find "playing around" to be a huge turn-off, whereas in Western societies if a man has not demonstrated his ability to have success with a fair number of (but not TOO many) women, that man is considered less worthy. The men who can't get a woman turn up on youtube and post misogynist comments all day.

[@billstev100]

Speaking strictly in “generalities”, experience has shown that Chinese women can’t be trusted. You never really know what you’re getting into! Generally........

[@captainchaos8032]

Same for japanese, and the 3rd world asian countries..

[@threexfromwsg]

All.correct answer men.

[@minimalisttraveler9337]

So once again. I'm fucked because my legs aren't long.

[@rjdrakon2492]

Fun topic

[@hannakinn]

I hope you can do a comparison between what American men look for in women vs what Chinese men look for in women. The differences are interesting.

[@RonaldMcPaul]

Black men butts. Latin men hips. White men boobs. Asian men cute face. Black women shlongs. Latin women dancing. White women abs. Asian women wallet.

[@tommcguire6773]

They WANT everything. They only NEED to be laid correctly.

[@mild_meme]

Exactly, if you're providing the good dick, you're excused on most other areas...

[@RonaldMcPaul]

This guy fucks.

[@nvno1943]

Don’t kid yourself. Good sex only goes so far.

[@Matt-qm7eq]

Well that counts me out

[@psylinx]

So...Laowhy, I paused the video with your face seemingly very neutral in the frame and and my daughter said that you looked like a character out of the game "Oblivion". So, I have a request; using the most neutral face you can, say: "I saw a mudcrab the other day".

[@juleslefumiste9204]

Lol this comm deserves a like

[@KPOP4LIFE247]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 when you said "transluscent bastards" I lost my shit !

[@macktheripper7454]

Let’s be totally honest here: money.

[@EricLehner]

Young men have become so INSECURE. The tone and body language of this couple dynamic is painful to watch. He is so tentative and seeking personal approval from her. Terrible.

[@jameshanes2346]

nice video.

[@BobSmith-jf8dt]

im painting my bedroom pearl bush

[@limosine]

I'm painting a bush with pearls in my bedroom.

[@BobSmith-jf8dt]

@@limosine lol

[@norwegianblue2017]

I recently turned 50 and am happily married. There's definitely something about the older men thing. I get way more attention now from random (younger) women then I did in my 20s and single.

[@Hhutuber]

"I got these, right?" 1:35 "eh..."

[@jerryhayes3337]

the best thing to start off about Chinese woman is the ones who speak English.I want a woman who works like I do.

[@Flastew]

Cool subject and it sounds accurate kinda. Even though in real life women mainly check the wallet before anything else. Is Vivi getting Younger?

[@alexanderlachmann7292]

Make a video about how stereotypes usually have some truth to them, and why we perceive them as weird because we lack context.

[@hahaLOLhaha72]

A green card to US. Or some other Western country. Some like foreign dong too

[@captainchaos8032]

I just watched your old rap video, hell i think it's the most amusing video you've ever made. ;)

[@ruinprince8225]

*Mr. Krab's voice* "Money"

[@the98themperoroftheholybri33]

Well i got tall, skinny, and strong on my side, I'm quite hairy too, don't know if thats a good thing

[@theillusionswithin]

Are there any more requirements or I'm missing something?

[@44rpalermo]

Many of those qualities that are mentioned, also depend on the cycle of her menstruation. Early in menstruation cycle, women prefer soft features and characteristics, while later in the menstruation cycle they prefer rough characteristics.

[@Rezzmari]

The hell did you read this from? 😂😂😂

[@studiokiselbach]

In Japan, traditionally they had arranged marriages, love should come later. Not lovey dovey, romantic stuff either. I think having kids, continuing the legacy is most important in Asia. In fact, Japanese hand over their whole salary to wife, she manages home, doesn't work, focused on family and man receives an allowance of a couple hundred dollars.

[@30803080308030803081]

A K That type of marriage is terrifying to imagine. Oriental societies are brutal for men. It’s amazing that men allow women to treat them that way. But, the balance is tilted that way in the whole of society, and most men have no power to do anything about it.

[@captainchaos8032]

From what I've seen {I lived in japan for 5 years} Japanese women are financial disasters.

[@freespirit6209]

You two work so well together on camera. Nice!

[@elchupacabra3232]

You guys are great for each other. Viv makes me laugh.

[@voxer99]

One thing I've noticed in South Korea: Korean woman marries Korean guy, she keeps working. Korean woman marries western guy, she quits working.

[@IndigoXYZ18]

Just be White.

[@IndigoXYZ18]

Silver Snacker It helps, just statistically not as much as being White.

[@IndigoXYZ18]

T Doran Haha, yea. I was never one to believe in White privilege but after going down the social science rabbit hole it was nigh impossible to ignore.

[@IndigoXYZ18]

Hayosiko Takagumi Nah, the men who women have one night stands with are still wanted for long term relationships, but never commit because they have so many options (or so research in the social sciences indicate).

[@captainchaos8032]

@Silver Snacker Yes 1 nights are pointless. But which is more negative? 1 nights, or being in a marriage, where 2 people fall out of love, get divorced, and then hit with 18+ years of child support, alimony, etc.. just keep hittin it and quittin it pal.

[@shonitbolar4532]

Just be stupid like you since you think like this