How to Create Lasting Change in Your Life | Diary of Becoming

[@lavendaire]

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[@jessicasimpson8201]

She is my that person whom i turned to everytime to know what i want to be like . I have been following her since lockdown era and i am growing with her

[@lavendaire]

✨✨ love that we’re growing together

[@chrissy5291]

^this

[@ChildofGod98765]

Needed this today. 😢 Heavenly Father give me your strength being a single mother is one of the most difficult job in the world. Not only do I have to raise my children on my own, but I also have to make all of the decisions for my sons and both have special needs. Please help me to be more patient with myself and with my kids. Lord I will lean on you to renew my soul each and every day. Lord I’m also struggling to support my sons. Every month is a struggle. Please help me to make wise decisions as a single mother. Guide me in all I do, and help me to always put your will first.💕

[@PurpleFlower22]

🙏 sending you strength and love

[@NokthulaMadondo]

You're an amazing mom. The fact that you seek the Lord and ask for wisdom speaks volumes. Those boys are lucky to have you. May you continue to have strength and May God lessen your load❤

[@inprogress9757]

Sending you strength and love. You've got this for sure 🎀

[@mariebunny]

Wishing you courage and sending you so much love 💕 God only gives the toughest battles to His strongest soldiers, you can do this.

[@Chinyere-zr6uc]

Amen

[@xoxogurleen]

i find the idea of life being like a garden and the different aspects of life being the different flowers and plants in your garden so beautiful and it made me pause and reflect on how i can start to take care and water my flowers and plants (different aspects of life). thank you, aileen ♡

[@Sapphire_Itarille]

I'm really enjoying this Diary of Becoming, and this "chapter" especially. Several things you said resonated with me a lot, and made me realize how well my life was going in different aspects, until due to various circumstances I had to start prioritizing other things and I left myself aside. Little by little I was living more and more on autopilot, and I lost my way. This year has been my "Healing Season" (a bit obligatory), because life itself began to put obstacles in my way, especially related to my health, and I had no choice but to "realize", it was like an awakening and remembering where I was going. , and wanting to get that back, I felt overwhelmed and frustrated by all the changes I needed, and by wanting to do everything at once. Precisely I have to cultivate one of the qualities that is most difficult for me: Patience; and accept that to recover my life I have to go little by little, like "seasons".

[@kelsorose9236]

This was all like a big hug. Thank you for sharing the therapy segment esp. my goodness that was vulnerable and beautiful to see as I’ve been doing this for a few years. We do feel alone at times. Lots and lots of love

[@lavendaire]

💗💗 thank you & sending you love

[@MeditationForSleepguided]

*If you are reading this, I want to tell you that everything will be fine. You are incredible, you are unique, you can face anything in your life, you have the strength within yourself to overcome any obstacle, loss or situation. You are not alone, you are loved, you have the right to feel bad and good, you have the right to feel. Be blessed by these positive vibes and live your life to the fullest. I am sending my love to the universe so that I can reach you.❤❤❤❤❤*

[@Love-x1i3f]

That's a Sweet ❤ comment,Thank you ❤

[@amnasyed1173]

I really like how you always compare life with a garden I think this is the best explanation of human being ❤❤❤

[@savannahking03]

I'm glad I watched this video when I got ready in the morning before I had to leave for work. This was very motivating and I feel like this will help push me in the right direction and start doing better. Thank you

[@IVL548]

In this series, The Dairy of Becoming is so beautiful every episode of this series is very eye-opening. I have been watching it from the very first episode, and I wait every week for new updates. Every episode taught me how much I can work on myself, how much place is there, where we can work without throwing the blame on others or the situation, how deeply we can know ourselves, etc. Each episodes give me new insight into life and about myself. I am very much thankful to you for making this valuable and resourceful content for free. Every diary entry of your are very beautiful and meaningful ❤️ ♥️ I can watch this series again and again without feeling bored cause it's like healing for me. 😊😊

[@lavendaire]

This is such a nice compliment 🥹 thank you so much 🫶 I also feel that I can go deeper with this series yet show a variety of life. It’s really fun to create.

[@IVL548]

@@lavendaire I am really grateful that you are making this type of content and helping us to grow with you, showing us the light to get out from our inner darkness, showing us how much love and compassion we can find inside us and even outside in this world when we decided to grow together, love together, and live together ❤️ ♥️

[@tramvu1042]

I agree! I loved all the advice videos before but when this series came out it touched me on a deeper level and I really am enjoying it! I feel like I am healing and growing with her because there’s more emphasis on the process rather than like the finished product. I’m looking forward to more :)

[@chloegould6905]

Hi Aileen, I'm so happy you talked about something like this. I'm a new mom of a 6 month old boy and I have an awful relationship with my body and food. I'd love to be healthy, fit and look a certain way or be a certain size but I find it so hard to stay motivated, finding what I should eat, also my inner critic is relentless and I'm so hard on myself. I give up really easily so I'm hoping I'll find a way of prioritising my health, wellness and fitness (but baby boy comes first of course). Thank you xxx 🤍

[@burmakara]

you need to find book Hidden Manifestation by Oliver Mercer even if it's the last thing you do in life

[@LittleSanch]

I started to get teary while seeing you cry. Resonance is a very powerful thing 💖 Thank you for this pick-me-up dearest Aileen 🌄

[@samruddhiingale3666]

I have recently embarked on a health and fitness journey as I am about to turn 25 in 2 months. Honestly, it's such an enlightening process as it exposed me to my toxic eating patterns and stress eating as well. I had to accept myself through that and still try to change not just physically but also mentally to rewire my thoughts and create new habits and neural connections. I haven't been that success but I will keep trying till it becomes a reality.

[@Hicks-g1m]

I agree with you Aileen Consistency and constantly improving yourself is a never ending process to make you're life better I exercise almost every morning to keep myself in shape and feel better about myself as I get older in my 40's now. It helps a lot with my mental health and the way I look and feel about myself 👍

[@lavendaire]

That’s amazing!

[@annoar9776]

The energy healing part was so interesting because I started crying with you. We have so much emotions build up in our system, especially from childhood, because as children, we don't know how to release or express these emotions or we do know, but can't do it due to our family and social environment. so we suck them up and keep them closed as a coping mechanism and a protection strategy, because we can't process something big as children. And then in teenhood and adulthood and seniorhood, it all comes out and we have to learn to express, process and deal with it for a healthier and more balanced life in tune with our mind, body and spiritual wellbeing. ❤

[@lavendaire]

yes ❤️❤️ you’re so right

[@FallAsleepMeditationhelper]

*Whoever reads this message I wish you a lot of peace, health, love and money. I hope you have a roof over your head, a healthy family and food in your stomach. If you don't have it, I wish it, I also wish you prosperity and work. May the universe bless you and fill you with opportunities. Greetings💜😴💫*

[@dbby_st]

Words cannot express how much motivation and light u bring, I started learning about self growth with you and this amazing youtube channel, and ever since I got so inspired to learn about myself so much that now I am a psychology student, thank u from the bottom of my heart for putting all the effort in this and show it to the world and for how brave you are for share this amazing journey with us.💜✨💫

[@lavendaire]

Amazing ✨✨

[@IamRAEdiant]

The change in my life now is shifting careers, letting go of clients who don't serve my purpose and principles in life. I've been marketing for brands for the past 7 years, now I want to market my own. ❤ I just pray that I will persevere through this as it's been already too consuming. 💔

[@shughl1]

So glad I subscribed to this channel all that time ago. Thank you for this video! You always have a lot of great points for us! Thank you! And you look a lot leaner and toned.

[@lavendaire]

aw thank you!

[@Daizydreamer21]

You don't know how you changed me for the good . Thankyou love you a lot ❤🎉

[@gōl-z3x2x]

You're so beautiful and I am just so inspired and grateful that I came across your podcast, starting with looking for good affirmations by a "fierce female" as I like to call ladies that I am inspired by. Then, watching your KZbin videos has just made me completely grateful that your shares have found their way into my space

[@yeshijoseph5049]

I believed that season concept too. these days i trying my best to stay on continuing focus on my physical health(little workouts for the day) and financial savings. I think thats my season for these days. year ago my life has totally changed with my marriage and that was my season for growing embracing relationships. thats how life went. i learnt that from u. I do ur monthly reset and reviewing series since u started it. now its a part of my first thing in the month

[@johngomes4278]

This channel is a breathe of fresh air on a warm summer day 🌞

[@Thehealingmotherjourney]

My wellness journey is definitely present as well as my family it’s been a season of purging and really dismantling my old life and the people I was once around that’s the hardest

[@lauraleediallo5066]

Long on and off follower - I LOVE seeing how you’ve progressed and your home is beautiful. So happy for you ❤❤❤

[@lavendaire]

Thanks love!!

[@cigdem82]

I love that you are a real, genuine person... Thank you

[@ThanhNhanNguyen-pk9hv]

Hi Aileen, I am about to step into the important change in my career path. It took me such a long time to make this decision because I used to be scared changes in the couple of years. At this time I am just 23 years old an having a beautiful youth in ahead. When I decided to require my manager that I wanna learn something new in the other division, please approve for my change (she lived up my expectation and I will be transfer in other division next month); honestly I am still worry about everything will happen and the empty feeling survive in my head for many weeks. Nevertheless, watching until the end of your vlog, suddenly I am strongly believe that I made a right choice, I can do it and ready to encounter with any changes because I have a lot of quality partners who can assist and grow with me.... Thanks for your sincere advices for 5 years ago - I started following your vlogs from 2019! 💖

[@tailynhudu2306]

I’m focusing on choosing what type of career and lifestyle because for the last few years I have struggled figuring out what to do with my life but now after my appointment I have something to do with it. Right now I’m looking into some things based on my skills and passions this way I would be able to have purpose, but to do that I would know the characteristics of what my life looks like 👍 which makes more easier

[@innocentbacchi]

Heyy best of luck to you. Hope you have fun, recognize your purpose and live happily❤❤

[@wittyshweta2101]

Your voice is so soothing as gentle as you are ❤

[@vaizzzzzz]

I really like this series and I want u to continue this as long as possible 💓

[@lukemiller_6]

I'm 24 and you make me so much more relaxed about getting closer to my thirties. Thank you so much 😊

[@lavendaire]

it gets better & better 😊

[@mohsinamansoori5512]

I really learn a lot from u, u r my inspiration u always guided me as my elder sister, I've no words for u I just wanna say..... A big thnku from my heart..love u ❤😘

[@aymenarifmalik]

I have been following you for a very very long time. like when you had a few thousand subscribers and your hair was lilac/lavender. Thrilled to see how far we have come. I am also in my opulence era. Perhaps its a 30s thing. :D

[@lavendaire]

Awww wow! Love that 💗

[@elenyjanice]

this was really nice, totally needed this !

[@mariebunny]

Motivating video as always 💕 Thank you for sharing the therapy healing session, I was always curious and it looks like something so amazing for the body!

[@muskansoni581]

Hey lavendaire! I am Grateful to you .I Believe emotional well being is the area I currently want to work in my life .

[@chaymabenhamed1776]

Your energy is so beautiful and inspiring 💕. You always give me the push I need to continue changing for the better 💕so I wish you all the best. And about the changes I 'm going for, I'm going to start with searching healthy food recipes. Thank you for this video 💝.

[@LuckyMeCandy]

Your diary of becoming is so beautiful. And your posing tips are cute and helpful too. Thank you.

[@lavendaire]

hehe thank you 💗 glad they helped

[@pinkface7759]

Absolutely love you and your channel Lavendaire!!

[@quynhanhtrinh7]

Thank you a lot Aileen!! Really needed this!!

[@suzenguyen8714]

i'm so grateful to watch this, to know you even in youtube babe, thank you for sharing :)

[@Mar-ME-s3h]

Happy early 🎂 birthday! As always, beautiful & motivational video. You are very talented 🤩🌸.

[@euro8029]

Thank you for your content, Aileen, and for sharing your journey. ❤ I've been in such a stressful place and your words and encouragement are like a breath of fresh air. Also, Gemini Rising rise 😁 ✨✨🙌🏾

[@lavendaire]

yesss we have a little more luck this year ✨ things will get better

[@Jeff_Slown]

Such a beautiful and inspirational woman. Option#1 btw on shoes with the dress. Love your inspirational discovery about your life and how I can relate snd make changes also. Love the idea of thinking of our body and our life like a garden and understanding how to water and nature our lives and body like we would our gardens. Thank you.

[@arashdeepkaur895]

OMG ! Queen posted 💕✨. I think I'm the first one to comment 🥳

[@lavendaire]

🥹🙏🏼

[@S.user-oy2vt7no6v]

Thank you so much for this channel nd this vid , happy b'day in advance 💖

[@tiffanygladstone7142]

I crave more social interactions.friendships,relationships, Family

[@fatema40880]

I can’t wait for the Artist of Life workbook, it is my birthday month too So I love starting to plan my life in Oct

[@lavendaire]

Yayy happy birthday love!!

[@Thehealingmotherjourney]

Thank you so much for sharing, I truly appreciate it

[@chanelamber218]

Loved seeing the posing tips will definitely use them!!❤❤❤

[@ellicamayebauyon6911]

I needed this! Thank you so much I love you ❤❤❤

[@priscillajimenez27]

3:00 that's especially important as us women during our cycle 😊

[@virginialinares3705]

I really enjoyed this video. Made me very interested in trying energy healing

[@umchileanywaysso]

The posing tips were very helpful aileen🎉😊🎉

[@kaysiehesebeck]

Make Jesus the center of your life. It will change forever❤

[@MagsNLily]

May not have asked for wedding dress posing tips but sooo needed as I went to a wedding last night!

[@shondataylor2091]

What is the little brown hopping animal in the background at point 7:56? Just curious. On another note, I love how peaceful and relevant to young and not so young your content is.

[@lavendaire]

lol! I didnt see that, but it’s my dog Togi

[@josephmurace2987]

Thank you for this entry, u have helped me with a decision I've been struggling with

[@putulayhtet]

I like your blog the most I found self love in your KZbin video So when I reach to Singapore I wanna to see you Now I'm trying to come 😊🎉

[@johngomes4278]

I want to be member of this channel !

[@ClefairyFairySnowflake]

Happy birthday!!! Hope you have a great day!

[@TeacherShanti23]

I badly needed this. Thank you so much for sharing. I’ve been watching your vlogs ever since pandemic era. I wanna share which area I needed to focus right now is my healing journey as I am going to turn 25 next month and I am still lost in my life and career path ❤️‍🩹

[@jessicaxsmith1]

Love this thank you 🙏🏼🥹

[@chrisoulalakkas7935]

Truth! 🙌

[@lohithamani6506]

Advanced Many more happy returns of the day dear 🎂

[@cheneejoysocuano4773]

love to know your recipes...

[@vaizzzzzz]

Sending you love 🌺

[@명상음악일기]

Thank you😊

[@NerissaTuti]

♥️

[@Andreamussi]

🙏🏼

[@desireehaynes7041]

I love your videos was wondering if u could give me those recipes that u were making

[@robertrubi4693]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@sreelakshmi2317]

🤩

[@SainiJi-f1c]

Mam I have a question that I am trying to focus on my study but I can't focus so please can you tell me how I increase my focus and concentration level please mam tell me

[@beyzaltintas1]

Hi Aileen! If you following a youtube channel for doing pilates can you write it please? I just started to do pilates at home and need some channels! and if you can take a video about doing pilates it will be awesome! Like when did you began, you took classes or made them from YT... thank you love!

[@chrissy5291]

I feel like when they started saying “demure”, it’s because they were inspired by Aileen.

[@GregoryM504]

need posing tips for the guys!! LOLOL

[@lavendaire]

LOL okay next time

[@daljeetkaur7441]

I love you r video

[@Mondalfamily-fp6vk]

i love you

[@Daveeff]

Aileen I wanna be like u one day

[@libragem]

Also Jupiter in the last decant of ♊ means it's trining your last decant planets (like ☀️) in ♎⚖️ 😊 And I wonder now... How have you been feeling lately on Pluto finally about to leave ♑🐐?

[@lavendaire]

you’re right!! feeling brighter and motivated lately ✨ also so ready for Pluto to finally move onwards lol. It’s been squaring my 3 planets since 2021 😅😅🫠

[@libragem]

@@lavendaire Yaay 🩷

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[@khadoojchan7486]

👍👍👍👍👍👍💕💕💕

[@VaswatiDeb]

7:58 😮Girl whats that moving behind you? Your dog? Cat? Lizard? What is it

[@lavendaire]

🤣 why is this the second comment I got on this. it’s Togi’s tail. So subtle can’t believe you guys caught that

[@kaysiehesebeck]

Jesus heals.

[@libragem]

Looks like you're ready to grow a jungle, Aileen 😁

[@priscillajimenez27]

14:45 We haven't seen your boyfriend in your recent videos a lot. When do you think you guys will get married and maybe have some kiddos 😊❤

[@thaliaer1129]

thank you for always creating positive and impactful content 🤍🌿

[@PerlaEReyes]

uuuuuu!!!! LOVEEE THE TIPS ON poses!!!!!! ✨✨✨✨you GO GIRL!!! @lavandaire

[@lavendaire]

Hehe ok thank you!! I was inspired in the moment ✨

[@jadiotentik]

in my emotion healing now❤‍🩹

[@annebellamy]

I love watching videos blessed heart what you do because im feeling a bit better ♥️🫶😔🙏🤝