Lesbian Bed Death and Flirting With Women (Lesbian vs Baby Gay Ft.

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Alayna Joy

Alayna Joy

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@pacifistcactus
@pacifistcactus 3 жыл бұрын
Ok but wouldn't it be amazing to have Lesbian v. Bisexual where ALAYNA Is the lesbian and the GUEST is the bisexual!?
@Octobris
@Octobris 3 жыл бұрын
ACTUALLY..!
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
OH IT'S COMING
@johnlondonbimeetup7961
@johnlondonbimeetup7961 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial Melanie Murphy (or sis)? Jamie and Shaaba? Anna Akana? Dodie (her new album/songs...)? Or is it Jessie Paege (her recent evolving things/music). Or someone more masculine or non-KZbinry... Can't wait either way. PS have you had any bi guys on the show before really? In mention/quick promo I think, trying to remember through all those so many Don't Bi It episodes....
@willlimah
@willlimah 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial OMG YES
@JulietteVeronica1201
@JulietteVeronica1201 2 жыл бұрын
@@johnlondonbimeetup7961 I think there was a bi guy but it was more focused on his trans experience at pride. If I'm wrong someone correct me😂. EDIT: I found the video. His sexuality is in the fluid spectrum, but he refers to himself as queer.
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the echoey audio at parts!! I should have worn headphones, I’m new to this whole virtual collaboration thing and am learningggg 💛
@Esmee5212
@Esmee5212 3 жыл бұрын
just sounds like the lesbian queen speaking to her kingdom :D love it
@niki3722
@niki3722 3 жыл бұрын
No worries the echoes in the end just made what she said about being yourself sound even more important and epic :)
@pattimcfarlane8504
@pattimcfarlane8504 3 жыл бұрын
kept it real and gave visual echoes of Phil Donahue walking through audience
@conlon4332
@conlon4332 3 жыл бұрын
I didn't notice.
@Tessa_llate
@Tessa_llate 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley Gavin is the frickin best. Great video 🏳️‍🌈
@zen.9034
@zen.9034 3 жыл бұрын
"I don't know what the vibe of your channel is" Chaos. it's chaos. but heartwarming, fun chaos.
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
This comment wins
@zen.9034
@zen.9034 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial my life is now complete
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
I thought she said she knew Alayna. How can she not know about I Don't Bi It? Of course Alayna is always 100% serious. No joking allowed.
@zen.9034
@zen.9034 3 жыл бұрын
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle this is a no nonsense channel
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@zen.9034 exactly
@theopinionatedwoman
@theopinionatedwoman 3 жыл бұрын
As a 30 year old baby gay I really needed to hear that point about being with men and liking it in the past making you less gay now. I really needed to hear that.
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
@lovingweirdo4727
@lovingweirdo4727 3 жыл бұрын
I'm only 19y old, but I've known I'm a lesbian for like 5 or 6 years and I just wanted to say, you're valid no matter when you come out (to others or yourself) and what or whom you've done prior
@theopinionatedwoman
@theopinionatedwoman 3 жыл бұрын
@@lovingweirdo4727 😊😊 Oh my gosh you are so so sweet, thank you for taking the time to reach out and say that. Its really kind and you made my day x
@lovingweirdo4727
@lovingweirdo4727 3 жыл бұрын
@@theopinionatedwoman Of course! It made my day that it made your day :) Everyone should know their identity is valid
@unwrittenbook
@unwrittenbook 3 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh, thank you for also writing your age...I’m 33....and I’m so confused with my sexuality right now...
@MossyBear
@MossyBear 3 жыл бұрын
omg joybabies and joyriders is killing me edit: I really actually like these names and I hope they stick omgakhdfahsjkasdjh
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
yay :)
@EmmaxHobbits
@EmmaxHobbits 3 жыл бұрын
Emoji to help the sticky factor: 🍭
@hannahdavison6874
@hannahdavison6874 3 жыл бұрын
YESSS!!
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
ALAYNA I LOVE IT!!!!! ZOOM ZOOM ZOOM
@morgankovac3632
@morgankovac3632 3 жыл бұрын
This is the collab I never knew I needed
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to this channel. As a member since before Alayna first came out as Bi, i think you will fit right in. We always take everything very seriously.
@sandruhhh___3828
@sandruhhh___3828 3 жыл бұрын
“You have a kid and he’s half republican” 😂💀 absolutely terrifying.
@turtleandbear1179
@turtleandbear1179 3 жыл бұрын
today i learned: sexuality is a choice, but political stances are inherited
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
nature vs. nature.
@Whitewolf1827
@Whitewolf1827 3 жыл бұрын
Its not always a choice sometimes you are born like that
@turtleandbear1179
@turtleandbear1179 3 жыл бұрын
@@Whitewolf1827 i know, it was just a joke. i was referring to 14:16 and 14:56
@shannonm8340
@shannonm8340 3 жыл бұрын
I know it's a joke, but research actually suggests there is far less choice involved with political stances than we typically believe... Check out jonathan haidt :P
@virginialee5065
@virginialee5065 3 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@bedheadmusic
@bedheadmusic 3 жыл бұрын
we are the joyriders now like if you agree
@bedheadmusic
@bedheadmusic 3 жыл бұрын
joyriders/joybabies i apologize
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
i agree. i am so proud of this.
@rhymemelodies1018
@rhymemelodies1018 3 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks it sounds kinda dirty? Lmao
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@rhymemelodies1018 nope
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
+
@nicolereimer3556
@nicolereimer3556 3 жыл бұрын
I’m starting a petition for us to be called the joyriders 😂
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
where do i sign?
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
+
@Quiteinfamous
@Quiteinfamous 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@Steertanzer
@Steertanzer 3 жыл бұрын
Sub-petition for the channel to then also have Roxette's "Joyride" as the theme 👀
@arcepaola007
@arcepaola007 3 жыл бұрын
I second! And sign me up!
@alienorfrei6867
@alienorfrei6867 3 жыл бұрын
If she’s looking at your mouth she might be a bit deaf. Just saying. Not understanding what you're saying is also a really good reason to fixate on someone’s mouth.
@maggieo1683
@maggieo1683 3 жыл бұрын
As a person who's hearing periodically gets bad, I agree with you. However, it's important I think to note whether they're looking at your mouth looking focused like they're trying to figure out what you're saying, or if they're looking like they're admiring you suggestively lol.
@alienorfrei6867
@alienorfrei6867 3 жыл бұрын
@@maggieo1683 that's true haha 😂 however, I do think the different isn't always as obvious as one would hope
@maggieo1683
@maggieo1683 3 жыл бұрын
@@alienorfrei6867 Yeah that's valid sadly. I hope I'll be able to tell, because I need a girlfriend lol
@emmaunderwood9201
@emmaunderwood9201 3 жыл бұрын
...
@dabigsqueezy
@dabigsqueezy 3 жыл бұрын
I get what you're saying but it's easy to tell the difference.
@LesleyvanderLaar
@LesleyvanderLaar 3 жыл бұрын
"I'm afraid men are republicans" 😂
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
i am.
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashgavs So, you're not Canadian then?
@lilabs_
@lilabs_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashgavs as a straight woman its a very real fear. The last thing I want is a child who is half republican
@boozoochamp
@boozoochamp 3 жыл бұрын
@@lilabs_ as a lesbian, I wouldn’t date a democrat.
@echofoxtrot1820
@echofoxtrot1820 3 жыл бұрын
@@boozoochamp Same here. Glad I'm not the only one. Lol
@votip
@votip 3 жыл бұрын
Joy babies and joyriders I’m here for it 100%
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
yay
@manisha3455
@manisha3455 3 жыл бұрын
Ashamed to admit I had no idea this amazing lady existed but as a newly minted joybaby I can safely say I’m OBSESSED
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
WELCOME
@julis.6667
@julis.6667 3 жыл бұрын
With the echoey sound she just sounds like a celestial messenger. 🙌 It's beautiful and I'll listen to her wise words with joy
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
wow, i appreciate this so much.
@catienoble3191
@catienoble3191 3 жыл бұрын
Who else needs the "You can be gay if you want to" slogan on a t-shirt or button or sticker or something?
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
Stay tuned 😘😘😘
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
But it does make it seem like a choice.
@mariebourgot4949
@mariebourgot4949 3 жыл бұрын
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle Yep, I'm not sure why Alayna keep saying it this way. Should be more like, "if you want to be gay it probably means you are, so go on and love/accept yourself".
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariebourgot4949 Much more simply "It's Okay To Be Gay."
@Lisa_Flowers
@Lisa_Flowers 3 жыл бұрын
@@mariebourgot4949 It seems to be in a more tongue in cheek kind of way. I think queer people should be able to express their feelings about their orientation and identity however they want, even if that's playfully and even if that might be misinterpreted by homophobes already looking for reasons to delegitimize queerness. We're not responsible for 'being gay is a choice' rhetoric anyway, so I don't think our self-expression should be limited by it, and I think it's awesome to be able to reclaim it. The argument that being gay isn't a choice, while obviously true, can sometimes be based in framing queerness as undesirable and inherently bad instead of framing homophobia as the thing that's bad.It can limit queerness to victimization and even make it seem like we're being victimized by our own queerness or that it's something that we all want to run away from. So espousing the message that 'Being gay isn't a choice but even if it were, it would be a great one because queerness is great' is super positive and refreshing. It obviously has personal meaning for her because her wanting to be gay was a reflection of the fact that she actually was gay, but sometimes having something that says 'hey! You're allowed to be this way if that's a desire you have' is something people need to hear. And it's kind of a fuck you to the idea that everyone should want to be straight or that your only relationship to queerness is one where you are victimized by it or have no other choice. None of us want to be oppressed, but that doesn't mean we want to be straight. I realized I was gay because I wanted to be and having the permission to have that desire was a big deal for me!
@conradkorbol
@conradkorbol 3 жыл бұрын
My Brain went “are baby gays like baby carrots?” I couldn’t figure out how they are similar after I asked this question.
@cecel6643
@cecel6643 3 жыл бұрын
Well, like baby gays, baby carrots are just new to the carrot game! It doesn't make them any any less of a carrot. They're not really sure how to "be" a carrot, but you know, they're figuring things out. Every seasoned carrot has to start somewhere!
@cecel6643
@cecel6643 3 жыл бұрын
I apologize. That was truly awful lol.
@zen.9034
@zen.9034 3 жыл бұрын
@@cecel6643 thank you
@faywillowstream
@faywillowstream 3 жыл бұрын
some people pass on us even tho we taste the same
@elelem358
@elelem358 3 жыл бұрын
@@cecel6643 unfortunately baby carrots are just full grown carrots cut into a small size, which is DEFINITELY not what baby gays are
@lanatherana157
@lanatherana157 3 жыл бұрын
The echo kinda adds to the celestial, seasoned lesbian vibe here. XD
@irradiated_woman8016
@irradiated_woman8016 3 жыл бұрын
I found it very healing to hear Ashley, who I perceive as this deacon of the lesbians-so self-assured, so unapologetic, so HERSELF as a long-out person-talk about her teen years of hoping she would some day like men. I've gone through a ~journey~ very similar to Alayna's, and am still trying to find my sea-legs, so to speak. It's really validating to hear that it isnt just "late bloomers" who grow up desperately wishing for het attraction and relationships up to the point of actually lying to ourselves. To know that this is a more common experience in the community makes me feel good... like I can still grow into the confidence that Ashley exudes in her identity and in general. That is something I deeply admire and strive for.
@Mac-bj6fs
@Mac-bj6fs Жыл бұрын
Mom and Dad back in the early days!
@bhumiinkling1678
@bhumiinkling1678 3 жыл бұрын
I'm 15 and i identify as an elderly geriatric gay. c: im so tired
@AnniBaby94
@AnniBaby94 3 жыл бұрын
I am 23 and I have been tired for 25 years
@Jessica111978
@Jessica111978 3 жыл бұрын
Well...you made me feel like whatever is beyond "elderly geriatric gay." I came out five years before you were born!!! :)
@mjp2palmtree
@mjp2palmtree 3 жыл бұрын
This must mean that I'm like a thousand in gay years 🤣
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
@mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 3 жыл бұрын
@@mjp2palmtree Hahaha! That’s literally what I was thinking! In a few more years, perhaps we will obtain “Immortal Gay Status!” 🌟🏳️‍🌈😇😹👍
@mrcakeday1439
@mrcakeday1439 3 жыл бұрын
I am a baby gay in a very tired and decrepit adult body. It’s a weird mix of wanting to do fun stuff and thinking “I’m to old, tired and lazy to do new things”.
@ragreen2
@ragreen2 2 жыл бұрын
The combination of Alayna Joy and Ashley Gavin is golden and brilliant. I'm a 58 year old straight guy and if other straights can't enjoy content like this they just need to relax and enjoy all the different kinds of lovely humans ...
@chocolate37131
@chocolate37131 3 жыл бұрын
“So you fucked that guy and you liked it, you can still be gay” THANK YOU BOTH FOR THIS VIDEO. That was literally what I needed to hear and now I feel like I can be who I am fully
@TomiJamison
@TomiJamison 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Alayna! Long time viewer, first time commenter. Wanted to touch on the "lesbian bed death" question. My wife and I have been together for 21 years, and for us and some of our friends, both straight and gay, have gone through long periods of no sex. But seeing them together you can see how much their relationship transcended physical shows of love to a more cerebral one. Not to say sex isn't important, it is, even in long term relationships. There is the emotional depth of love as well. My wife and I are still physical, we do have make out sessions, but we can go long periods without sex and still feel that intense closeness. We have moved beyond the idea of, "well, if she ain't getting it at home, is she getting it somewhere else?" I guess what I am saying is this: sex should not be a definition of a strong relationship, in my opinion. All of that being said, sex is awesome!
@IceESole
@IceESole 2 жыл бұрын
I use to think that happened with "married straight couples" until I met a few lesbian couples. And either one of them would hit on me and then tell me her dead sex life...😬🧐.. I've never experienced lesbian death bed.. I've met a few lesbian couples who are in these relationships!
@talwyn_cc
@talwyn_cc 2 жыл бұрын
That's a nice insight.
@falconbritt5461
@falconbritt5461 3 жыл бұрын
I notice bed death occurs when a couple is living like they're attached at the hip, never apart and becoming more and more the same energetically speaking. Electro-magnetic attraction starts to drop if they lose their differences. So my advice would be to read up on codependency and avoid it!! Keep your separate activities, separate friends, separate hobbies, separate interests - don't just do everything together or become mirrors of each other - and definitely don't meld into one person. Be able to bring to the table things to talk about that you experienced separately. Sleeping in your own separate bedrooms can also help keep the sexual charge alive, so if you must spend a lot of time together (if you're running a business together, for example, so you're together all day), that's another possibility for keeping your own unique energy your own (thus keeping the sexual charge alive). Keeping your energies different from each other's seems to be what keeps the attraction charge going. Otherwise the magnetic charge dies over time.
@Gandellion
@Gandellion 3 жыл бұрын
I appreciate Ashley because unconditional love and unconditional roasting is exactly what I love.
@RoisinsReading
@RoisinsReading 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like the "gay or European" thing americans apply to m how men dress could also apply to the touching thing. If she's touching you she might like you, or she might be European/Latin American.
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
She might just be Alayna or Willow.
@dutchik5107
@dutchik5107 3 жыл бұрын
I mean some girls in high school literally bullied me that me and my friend weren't friends because we didn't hug. I used to not touch people but now i do When alone with my gay gang we just lay our heads on eachother or whatever. Or with my best friend (straight) even head on chest. No attraction to her, she js like my sister love her to death. And in the netherlands we are more distant than other places. The tree kisses but me and my cousins have switched to a bro hug type thing. And my boyfriend wants to take me to spain. Where he has already warned me i will likely be touched a lot although maybe that will be not such a thing given corona will not completely be gone. I am bisexual hence the bf but also gay group
@skidooomaas4296
@skidooomaas4296 3 жыл бұрын
That might be true, but also I have to say that not all European cultures are touchy. For example the nordic countries. (I live in Finland)
@idathorbjrn4110
@idathorbjrn4110 3 жыл бұрын
Well some og us are touchy (Danish here). Especially females.
@somethingbambi875
@somethingbambi875 3 жыл бұрын
Agree on the not in the North (from Sweden). I had a friend from East Europe and she was very touchy, just her way. But when a swede touch me it may meen something? 😅
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
GO WATCH ASHLEY'S VIDEO PART 2: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qJuwYZluiN53qJo
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
PLZ AND THANK YOU!
@DaSuTro
@DaSuTro 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashgavs Say hello to your newest subscriber!
@annarita_rss0
@annarita_rss0 3 жыл бұрын
JOYBABIEEEEEES assemble.
@AlaynaJoyOfficial
@AlaynaJoyOfficial 3 жыл бұрын
ALL OF YOU STOP THIS RIGHT NOW
@annarita_rss0
@annarita_rss0 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial im sorry, we're on a.. joyride.. that cannot be stopped 🤪
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial never
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
@@annarita_rss0 keep ridin' that joy.
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@AlaynaJoyOfficial You're right, Joy Riders is much better.
@VlargPro123
@VlargPro123 3 жыл бұрын
After 5+ years watching you, we finally have a name!! Joybabies!
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
glad to be of service.
@larayanez2375
@larayanez2375 3 жыл бұрын
i also think “if i was bi i would choose to be gay” and that’s how i finally decided i’m a lesbian, cause if i was really bi/pan i wouldn’t think that (bi people you’re valid and awesome btw ily)
@hunterzeep4989
@hunterzeep4989 3 жыл бұрын
That is by far THE MOST HELPFUL advice I have watched on how to tell your friend you're in love with them! So well put! Thank you millions. Also the colab vid was great.
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
wow didn't know I was a genius, thank you
@savannahking544
@savannahking544 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who just dove deep into their lesbian side, and fell madly in love with my best friend who constantly cuddles me and kisses my cheek and all that, this video broke my heart bc they aren’t ready to date me and I respect that so much but bc of how overly sensitive I am I had to take a step back from the friendship
@tuanoini
@tuanoini 3 жыл бұрын
Been there too, it's not easy :/
@IceESole
@IceESole 2 жыл бұрын
Ouchie .. yup been there...good luck with that
@fireruby1882
@fireruby1882 2 жыл бұрын
😭oh man I’m sorry
@kylietokar1344
@kylietokar1344 3 жыл бұрын
Watching these two flirt is really touching. I love you both
@peggingmothman
@peggingmothman 3 жыл бұрын
"I'm actually always crying like a little bit" SAME! 😂
@isabelamuzzi3096
@isabelamuzzi3096 3 жыл бұрын
The question about knowing if the friendship has a vibe or not, it's sooo much harder when she's also gay and you're like "oh, fuck"
@tuanoini
@tuanoini 3 жыл бұрын
THIS D:
@livbrooks4194
@livbrooks4194 3 жыл бұрын
This video made me audibly laugh out loud MULTIPLE times. I love both of you so much. Your loving energy combined with Ashley’s chaotic one makes the perfect vid. This is my new comfort video lmao.
@kay-sp4gk
@kay-sp4gk 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley’s energy reminds me of Entrapta from She Ra and I’m here for it
@ilTHfeaa
@ilTHfeaa 3 жыл бұрын
Omg now i cant unsee it yesss
@MsAaannaaa
@MsAaannaaa 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I didn't know I needed this collab SO BADLY.
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
I did.
@Princess_0f_Trees
@Princess_0f_Trees 3 жыл бұрын
I really love the god like echo happening as Ashley gives solid advice.
@charlie2.048
@charlie2.048 3 жыл бұрын
"If she's looking at you're mouth" * sweats in hard of hearing lip reader * Disclaimer: not a lesbian, not even a woman, I just love this channel.
@Peppermintytea
@Peppermintytea 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley Gavin is 🤣🌈 🔥💜😅 Thanks for introducing another cool lesbian to us!
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@nenapennington9866
@nenapennington9866 2 жыл бұрын
Okay but WHY DOES EVERYONE IN THIS SERIES DO SUCH A GOOD JOB!?!?? Please bring all of them together in an episode!
@stargazingduckling9242
@stargazingduckling9242 3 жыл бұрын
OMFG I haven't even watched the vid yet but when I saw your faces next to each other in the thumbnail I actually gasped aloud
@ellasolinger4039
@ellasolinger4039 3 жыл бұрын
Longtime gay but bad at the dating and social stuff this had good hilarious information 😂 thanks ladies!💜
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
youre welcome!
@LivGreene
@LivGreene 3 жыл бұрын
joybabies unite! also holy hell Ashley is hilarious.
@Marina-kv9tf
@Marina-kv9tf 3 жыл бұрын
Hiiiii i loved this i have a question and it has nothing to do with this but HOW IS YOUR SLEEP PARALYSIS????? i haven’t heard u talk about it in so long and i’m just curious. anyway i like your channel(: much love from spain
@tess3709
@tess3709 8 ай бұрын
youtube just recommended this video to me and you and ashley are both so baby faced and bright eyed in this video 🥺
@casebeth
@casebeth 3 жыл бұрын
"I'm afraid that men are republicans". Uhm yes I feel this
@casebeth
@casebeth 3 жыл бұрын
I kinda avoid talking to any new men soooo....
@ripmyfictionalfriends
@ripmyfictionalfriends 3 жыл бұрын
meanwhile non-americans: ...
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
@@ripmyfictionalfriends Canadians too
@dianeaishamonday9125
@dianeaishamonday9125 3 жыл бұрын
Log cabin republicans exist, dude
@ripmyfictionalfriends
@ripmyfictionalfriends 3 жыл бұрын
@@ireallyreallyhategoogle ah right
@Ariana-zr2cr
@Ariana-zr2cr 3 жыл бұрын
My first crush was towards a female and I just always knew I was a lesbian. Never had any sexual or romantic experiences with men which I am so glad I didn’t! I agree, some people just have the gut feeling and don’t need to be with a man to figure it out.
@dylannicholas6921
@dylannicholas6921 3 жыл бұрын
i kinda like “joy babies”
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
me too.
@dylannicholas6921
@dylannicholas6921 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashgavs the queen has decreed
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
Joy Riders is better.
@haleyfischer5316
@haleyfischer5316 3 жыл бұрын
As a bisexual woman, same, so afraid men are republicans haha
@elliottluke6020
@elliottluke6020 3 жыл бұрын
as a bi man(ish but im gonna repress that for now), same! why r there so many of them !!?
@boozoochamp
@boozoochamp 3 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian, I wouldn’t date a democrat.
@justicethedoggo3648
@justicethedoggo3648 3 жыл бұрын
Imma gay guy but republican lol
@elliottluke6020
@elliottluke6020 3 жыл бұрын
@@justicethedoggo3648 no one cares 😀👍
@justicethedoggo3648
@justicethedoggo3648 3 жыл бұрын
@@elliottluke6020 why did u respond then
@Skittles1278
@Skittles1278 3 жыл бұрын
So glad u said 33 is prime I’m 33 this year and recently single lol so yay thanks for that xx
@sjcross8
@sjcross8 2 жыл бұрын
I relate to the idea of “tricking” one’s self into believing that you like guys. I had two crushes on guys when I was young and I had to like /work/ at it. I never had those feels again, even when I met guys that I wished I liked in that way. Specifically there’s one guy that I honestly think I could’ve fallen for if I wasn’t queer, but now I see that it takes like ‘work’ for me to be attracted to a man and even then it’s like next to impossible. I still haven’t had feelings for a guy since I was a kid. The words I use to identify my sexuality are much looser now because while I felt that having labels to help me navigate the landscape of what sexuality is and it’s different variations, I realize that I’m always going to be learning more about myself and it might just take a specific person to stir up feelings inside of me. Today I go by Queer, Gay, Lesbian, not straight mostly but maybe one day that’ll change. I see labels as a stepping stone to get to a place of understanding that other people like you exist in the world but once you’ve realized that you’re not straight and/or cis, then you can kind of shed or be more flexible with those labels. Like labels are there for /you/ to recognize who you are rather than for others to confine you into a box.
@HairBiggerThanMyFuture
@HairBiggerThanMyFuture 3 жыл бұрын
this validated the HELL out of my feelings thank you so much
@lucypeters9476
@lucypeters9476 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! I knew Ashley was funny but she actually has really good advice too!!
@hcoake5743
@hcoake5743 3 жыл бұрын
Also this was iconic! I feel like there were so many things you all discussed that just made sense! It was awesome and helped! Like Alayna how you couldn’t tell the difference between a strong platonic love and a romantic love I felt like you explained that well. And how I forget her name...... ☹️ she offered the suggestion on asking a girl out!!! Omg I’m like honestly saving this video and coming back to that. That was immaculate, iconic, and 10/10 will use! Thanks you two are the best!
@maubeerbluffin4552
@maubeerbluffin4552 3 жыл бұрын
thank you guys for this, it's amazing. I loved watching this. Just. Thank you.
@a7xxlove7
@a7xxlove7 3 жыл бұрын
This collab was both hilarious and informative, and I absolutely loved it. You two are so funny together!
@boland73
@boland73 3 жыл бұрын
I can't believe she didn't call out your cough intro after you called out her zoom 😂😂😂
@MissGodessOfLight
@MissGodessOfLight 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so excited for the bonus content on patreon from this one omg
@virgilmcclendon5072
@virgilmcclendon5072 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@carolineg830
@carolineg830 3 жыл бұрын
When my two world collide, I LOVE Ashley 😁
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
hi!!!!
@carolineg830
@carolineg830 3 жыл бұрын
@@ashgavs I’m deceased 😭💕
@lornastephens4222
@lornastephens4222 3 жыл бұрын
I am living for this outfit Alayna Also this was so entertaining
@amycallner4584
@amycallner4584 3 жыл бұрын
This is so incredibly helpful and informative, and I really wish this convo had been more accessible when I was younger.
@tarynriver
@tarynriver 3 жыл бұрын
LOL paused cause when she said if she’s looking at your mouth I was like oof I hate looking people in their eyes idk it freaks me out lmaooo and I feel like at least if I’m looking at their mouth it looks kinda like I’m looking at their face and maybe they can’t tell now I’m questioning my whole reality lmao but also I think my adhd sometimes makes it hard for me to hear idk how to explain it and sometimes just like subtitles idk I feel like I understand people more looking at their mouth
@alienorfrei6867
@alienorfrei6867 3 жыл бұрын
I was looking for other comments on that. I always look at people’s mouth because otherwise I get so lost with what they are saying (exactly like subtitles too XD ). Also d/Deaf and hard of hearing people would stare at people’s mouth to understand. Another trick I’ve heard to deal with not wanting to look at people in the eyes is looking at their nose, but somehow that makes me very uncomfortable too. Like, noses are weird. Plus they don’t move when you talk.
@tarynriver
@tarynriver 3 жыл бұрын
@@alienorfrei6867 noses are so weird lmaooo I can’t stare at someone’s nose id start to laugh I’m so glad I’m not the only one who does this LOL tik tok has shown me my weird quarks arent just a me thing and I’m so greatful
@ilTHfeaa
@ilTHfeaa 3 жыл бұрын
I'm the same way!! My friend got pissed at me in highschool bc i was staring at her bf's mouth when he talked and i was like "lmao wut"
@bambams87
@bambams87 3 жыл бұрын
"You have a kid and he's half Republican" lmao
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
:)
@boozoochamp
@boozoochamp 3 жыл бұрын
As a lesbian, I would not date a democrat unless they were center of left. I’m gay and conservative and there’s plenty of us out there. There’s nothing wrong with being a Christian who likes lower taxes and freedom.
@cassandra1032
@cassandra1032 3 жыл бұрын
My vote is for Joyriders🤟🏻
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
me too. where do i vote?
@ireallyreallyhategoogle
@ireallyreallyhategoogle 3 жыл бұрын
+
@MH-bb1pi
@MH-bb1pi 3 жыл бұрын
lol I feel like I can relate very deeply with alayna's journey although I'm not a gay woman, and I really love that I experienced a very similar case of comp het, it was almost as if the universe lead me to this channel so I can get help from her ❤️🐨
@rochellavanderwal9320
@rochellavanderwal9320 3 жыл бұрын
This video was the absolute gay chaos that I want in my life
@KA-bv1wc
@KA-bv1wc 3 жыл бұрын
This was such a wonderful serotonin boost!
@audreka13
@audreka13 3 жыл бұрын
Omg I didn’t know who this other person was and then as soon as I clicked on the video I knew. This is actually so exciting.
@Princess_0f_Trees
@Princess_0f_Trees 3 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite episode ever.
@aaailicec
@aaailicec 3 жыл бұрын
I know the 33 being old is supposed to be a joke. Life does not end at 30 folks.
@somethingbambi875
@somethingbambi875 3 жыл бұрын
I heard it starts there. Hope so, gonna be 30 in some years 😁
@klabeck1097
@klabeck1097 3 жыл бұрын
@@somethingbambi875 My 40's have been absolutely amazing! Enjoy the (joy)ride!
@notlucadaniel
@notlucadaniel 3 жыл бұрын
the data thing makes so much sense! I always felt bad for not being able to tell for sure who I was attracted to without actual experience.
@Mariethechaotic
@Mariethechaotic 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my God, I'm fans of both of you separately. I was so excited to see this. Ashley telling Alayna how much she loves her. So cute
@the.rest.is.confetti
@the.rest.is.confetti 3 жыл бұрын
I loved this video! Your dynamic with Ashley is excellent
@StianHanger
@StianHanger 3 жыл бұрын
I'm crying from laughter. From one joybaby; That was awesome!
@JulietteVeronica1201
@JulietteVeronica1201 3 жыл бұрын
The zoom in with "Meghan" gave me Drake and Josh flashbacks
@meganbeehler
@meganbeehler 3 жыл бұрын
This was actually so helpful and funny, thank you!!
@incandescentbri4437
@incandescentbri4437 3 жыл бұрын
I laughed so much, love this series!
@teigan7283
@teigan7283 3 жыл бұрын
This was my dream collab omg, great video
@leannecullane5550
@leannecullane5550 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE this collab! Totally here for more of it! 🧡
@Agoraphobic_Luv
@Agoraphobic_Luv 3 жыл бұрын
I freaking love your content so much Alayna!! This video was awesome, super enjoyable, and helpful. ♥️
@t.deshawn6519
@t.deshawn6519 3 жыл бұрын
I feel so validated, finally given a name 😌 - Joy Baby/ Joyrider
@sami_tibbs
@sami_tibbs 3 жыл бұрын
I loved your episode on Ashley's podcast! It's so interesting seeing her face instead of just hearing her voice lmao
@Osaosamu
@Osaosamu 3 жыл бұрын
4 dislikes are from Megan in different accounts xD Loved the video!!!
@cooki3monstrrr
@cooki3monstrrr 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Ashley Gavin is hilarious! This was great
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
thank you!!
@ripmyfictionalfriends
@ripmyfictionalfriends 3 жыл бұрын
So glad this series is back, although under a new name 💕
@TheVitaleMob
@TheVitaleMob 3 жыл бұрын
This was so fun to watch!
@shadowcat4529
@shadowcat4529 3 жыл бұрын
OH GOD I'M LAUGHING SO MUCH! HAHAHAH! GREAT VIDEO!
@Julienbilien
@Julienbilien 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU TWO SO MUCH, you bring me so much JOY 😏😂 oof
@elodie9898
@elodie9898 3 жыл бұрын
the duo I needed in my life!
@KUYITOLOKONUMERO1
@KUYITOLOKONUMERO1 3 жыл бұрын
Who is this very good looking and funny veteran lesbian and how can i marry her? Also, I'm all on board with Joy Babies as our new collective name #TeamJoyBabies
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
it me.
@beckiiwarren1104
@beckiiwarren1104 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley is my new fav Les$bean! 🤩😂
@ashgavs
@ashgavs 3 жыл бұрын
aw thank you!
@onorafinn3611
@onorafinn3611 3 жыл бұрын
Question/advice needed: (and I hope nobody i knows sees this because kind of vulnerable). I was pretty sick as a teenager, and in a bad place mentally. I’m now almost 20 and gay. Because of not being well (as well as some heavy medication) I never wanted a relationship. Most things people have done by the time they’re 16 I haven’t done. The only kiss I’ve had was also non-consensual so that’s also not fun. Now I’m in a. Better place mentally and I want a relationship, I want to experience all these first times. But I’m so scared. Idk what anyone would answer to this but any advice would really be appreciated
@jessicaandaluz5793
@jessicaandaluz5793 3 жыл бұрын
There’s nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about. As you explore these aspects of yourself, just remember that you don’t owe anyone your life story or an explanation. Also, go at your own pace. Don’t feel rushed because you’re not falling behind. It’s just a popular societal narrative that you do x at y stage. Your personal development is totally valid.
@Andy-ru2eb
@Andy-ru2eb 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 18 and exactly in the same position you are. I have moved to a different city to study and all the friends I’ve met have done so many things and have experienced so much more than me. That makes me sadder and more insecure each day 😞
@Jacyl
@Jacyl 3 жыл бұрын
One thing to remember is that, first of all is not that weird, a lot more people than it seems have those experiences later in life, it's important to go at your own pace, there's nothing shameful about that. A good person for you won't shame you and will be happy to explore new experiences with you.
@onorafinn3611
@onorafinn3611 3 жыл бұрын
@@jessicaandaluz5793 thank you so much. That really means a lot
@onorafinn3611
@onorafinn3611 3 жыл бұрын
@@Jacyl thank you :) it really means a lot to me
@BELLACOXPOET
@BELLACOXPOET 3 жыл бұрын
i loooooved this! Ashley is hilarious! great start to my day :D
@jadeheizer4846
@jadeheizer4846 3 жыл бұрын
Gah, I loved this video. Helpful, to the point, and hilarious. I'll be looking into Ashley's stuff now and you two mesh really well. 👌 Hope to see more collabs between you two in the future.
@terrystar6124
@terrystar6124 3 жыл бұрын
Really enjoy your content and how accepting your community is. It would be so cool if when you have other people in your videos, you ask what their preferred pronouns are. I think it normalisés asking that question and also makes nbs feel more included. Have a great day :))
@blurrble5
@blurrble5 3 жыл бұрын
I love Ashley shes hilarious! Instantly subbed to her podcast
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