Let's discuss QUIET Luxury vs. LOUD Luxury/the 'Old Money' Aesthetic

[@Blackbirdinthedeadofnight]

I think that trying to look old money is the most new money thing a person can do🤷🏾‍♀️

[@glaciergang]

This is a hot take🔥

[@wintermatherne2524]

Unless it happens to be your true style. I’m not old money but when I see people using luxury to be seen I cringe.

[@LovelyLittleLillies]

There's no reason to shame people who are into that aesthetic. Why is it the most prettiest, intriguing things are left exclusively to the wealthiest - ask yourself? Being lower class doesn't mean you haven't got taste or eyes that enjoy seeing pretty things. From gorgeous, intricate private gardens to architecture that's very artistic to views from the upper floors of sky scrapers.... Even things like cinema and television and phones were once only afforded by the rich. Things like capturing your childhood in pictyand videos this new generation don't know how good they have it. Coming from a poorer world I barely had baby photos and no videos. Yet there's KZbin videos of someone capturing their highschool experience in the 80's and 70's. I don't think we should look down on people enjoying the old money aesthetic. To call it new money thing is elitism and snobbery if it was coming from an old money person just bc they don't like sharing their spaces.

[@janeseemann2527]

You’ve hit the nail on the head.

[@williamkazak469]

Interesting video. First timer on this site. What I found interesting here is quiet luxury. A sort of minimalism; classic color choices, quality fabrics, RL ads. That all sounds y good to me. Good taste acquired over the years of making choices and experimenting with our individual preferences, we find personal style. Thank you for this discussion. Lots to think about.

[@CourtneyDefuria]

The “old money” aesthetic is so popular on social media right now, that when I see it, I assume the person is just playing dress up as the heir/heiress that they aren’t. 😂

[@janeseemann2527]

You’re so right. I sometime wonder what the people with actual old money think of the current craze.

[@Seraphine07F]

These are Americans with no clue, frankly. Even Actual American Old Money get it wrong in hilarious fashion often enough. The American Old Money everything, is them copying the "English College Look" - as Ralph Lauren ALWAYS did, & of course, that's just the look & habits of the English Nobility & our Upper Classes. This particular girl is not the person yo explain it - & moreover, WHY is YT showing me this! I went to Marlborough, & Oxford, I grew up around all of this - you know, in England (where it's real)🙏💜🇬🇧💜 Note; it is NOT Really About Money💡💜

[@RCDiaz-Balart]

I feel like, the average person won't try to do stealth wealth or Silent Luxury because most under 30 are taught they need to be "rich" so they are going to try and flex anyway. Driven by fantasticical insecurities 😊

[@RCDiaz-Balart]

​​@@janeseemann2527 like a guy who only has 1 off the rack suit that he never wears, we know when you don't belong but are trying. It's invisible to those who don't know and blaring to those who do know.

[@stephaniekeyes2928]

Sick of superficial and superior attitudes- we can do as we please

[@VivienneKarlene]

My aesthetic is my money😂😂😂 Meaning…I’m going to buy what I like, what I can afford and what makes my soul happy. Great video Cassie!

[@hotties3v3n]

💯

[@essentiallyann2650]

Amen!

[@MarieRagan]

@user-fv8se5fb2e 12:23

[@LiterallyJustAnActualPotato]

Yesss!!!!

[@AmzrepeBagShows.]

*#amzrepx* There is no competition in the world of fashion replicas. These bags are on a whole new level!

[@glambox92]

This is why I liked Vivienne Westwood as a fashion icon; she was one of those designers who made me feel like it’s ok to be eccentric and loud ❤

[@s.a.4358]

Be who you are!! If being bold is you, be bold! Also, Vivienne Westwood is bomb.

[@isaacmuth7097]

Yes!!!! And it didn’t matter how “rich” or “poor” you looked! All about the art!

[@4lb280]

It is okay to be eccentric and loud!

[@isaacmuth7097]

@@4lb280 yes!!!! And it’s okay to not look like you’re trying to signal a certain socio economic status!

[@drummerlovesbookworm9738]

@@s.a.4358 Is it okay if I am the dumpy librarian in black tights and sensible shoes because they make me so happy?

[@jonnothin]

“The Birkin “Community”, a big word for a whole lot of nothing” 😅 I spit some coffee out

[@CassieThorpe]

😂😂😂 sorry for the mess I have caused 🙈

[@654ujala]

Hahaha! She is hilarious! That’s why I watch her!

[@ianreject]

no this took me tf out

[@idreamtiwasbackatmanderley414]

As a matter of fact the head of Hermès was seated next to Jane Birkin on a flight and she moaned about not finding a bag to accomodate all the stuff a mum needs. Hence the bag which was originally large and made of leather more supple than the Kelly. She was gifted some which she has always treated as regular canvas bags so they are indeed in a sorry state. But that was the whole point!

[@Skyebright1]

@@idreamtiwasbackatmanderley414 apparently the birkin gave her tendinitis and she doesn’t actually like it

[@jaXDke]

I think Ferragamo is also a good old money / quiet luxury brand with a modern take. The quality of their pieces is impeccable. :)

[@katemiller7874]

Boring

[@deborahcurtis1385]

@@katemiller7874 If your clothes aren't boring then Ferragamo is an excellent foil.

[@bella-zk6sy]

no offense but i think their design are ugly af, old lady core.

[@RCDiaz-Balart]

To be fair some Ferragamo is good and some great but, the shoes are poorly made especially at their price point...John Lobb or Crockett and Jones are far superior in their craftsmanship. At a lower price point Thursday Boots and Cobbler Union.

[@vrldc8966]

I don't know if Ferragamo shoes have fallen off in quality, but the pair of oxfords I bought in Vegas 30 years ago is among the most timeless well-made shoes that I've ever purchased.

[@asunbeam5479]

I love having a loud luxury moment, but I would just caution the young adults out there that your workplace isn't necessarily the best place to wear them! Just because your outfit is expensive does not make it business professional attire

[@CassieThorpe]

That’s very true!! When I was working in an office, logos weren’t a part of my work wardrobe 💖

[@s.a.4358]

Also, be careful of people in the workplace who are jealous and even managers who will use the (stupid) logic that you do not need a salary raise because you will only spend it on luxury, or do not need the money or any other prejudice / assumption.

[@imalrockme]

@@s.a.4358 Or pure envy that sometimes leads usually nice people to taunting behaviour. A friend of a friend of mine is married to an accountant that does the book kepping of his parents firm. She still has her job as a textile worker. Her parents in law decided to give their son an old used Mercedes instead of selling the car to a used dealership. She felt a tremendous change of behaviour towards her, in a really bad way, from her superior in the factory. It was in line with "maybe you don't need to work here, you are so well off and we're paying you". TKOS

[@sonyap8253]

​@@s.a.4358 This

[@cartierwhite_lasvegas]

​@@imalrockme I've had that problem and it sucks

[@bridgetdickert5040]

This is sooooo interesting! My older lady experience is it’s the STRIVING for the “old money” aesthetic that’s kind of sad. If quiet and minimalist is one’s comfort zone (that’s me), good on you; but if bright or quirky or shouty fills your life with joy and zip, lean into it and enjoy every minute. I LOVE watching other women (and men) figuratively strut their stuff, no holds barred. Conversely, I have no time at all for folks who sniff dismissively at a certain style because of a “new money” connotation. The whole point of fashion is putting an outward appearance on your inner self. I do, however, draw the line at Teletubbies footwear. No, just no. ❤

[@CassieThorpe]

WORD FOR WORD I AGREE!!! I too draw the line at the teletubbies 👀😂

[@tarreemhacaruso2687]

Exactly. The cartoon boots are a NO for me

[@jjpp412]

Striving, especially doing so in a perceivable way, is the most vulgar thing to actual “old money” people too. People should wear what they want, but looking like you’re trying too hard to look like a caricature of a wealthy person gives the opposite of what it’s supposed to give…

[@s.a.4358]

Agree! I do like colour in life in general, but my personal style is more neutral, soft colours, minimal-ish and comfort / practicality over fashion statement. I also try to have all my clothes and accessories go with each other as much as possible versus having statement pieces that only go with certain looks. So logos, bold prints and colours are not something I buy usually (except for earrings as I love bold earrings). Do do not at all think those things are tacky or ugly. In fact I love watching Cassie and other content creators and often think items looks nice (LV bags especially…they have so many things I find pretty) but I can appreciate the aesthetic while preferring to buy something else for myself. Iris Appel is a good example. That lady looks amazing and I love how she expresses herself through her style, but it is not something I will replicate.

[@michellemcgill9328]

I’m a mix of all of that

[@isaidwhatisaid4130]

To me the real "Old money" aesthetic was always the "Quiet Luxury" because it is about quality fabrics, tailoring, having great posture, manners, vocabulary and being able to discuss a diversity of subjects.

[@CocoB22]

Yes!!! The “Old Money” esthetic is about appropriately dressing. It is also about being comfortable in different situations. And being kind. But one thing about Old Money, they have people to take care of their clothes - or they do it . And it’s not that they don’t care if something is ruined by you spilling wine on their cashmere - they should be well mannered enough to not concentrate on the item damaged but make you feel ok and not as though you ruined them financially.

[@gaiamorgosi7181]

I’m surrounded by people that have some generational wealth and the idea the live by is “I’m rich so I don’t have to prove that to anyone”, who believe in quality over name. Which, by the way, it’s not a bad idea, being judged by how much luxury you have shouldn’t be a thing, many people think that to be important you have to prove that you have luxury things, otherwise you’re a poor person that can’t afford that. No. Please. Have fun and buy what you want, what is good for you and what makes you feel like a boss.

[@iknowright140]

$$$ shout out to Ca$$ie, who loves drag queen level glitter & colour, isn’t wearing a sea of bat-shit boring beige, and is also capable of using the word anthropology correctly in a sentence (& not just referring to the store). We love a self-aware Queen 👑

[@CassieThorpe]

I’m dead!!! I’m also blushing from all the compliments in this 🙈 why thank you! 💖💖

[@Justboatfishing]

This comment made me laugh so hard 😅. Also Cassie everything you said is so spot on 🙌

[@DemureDarlings]

What’s boring to YOU is calming to others. Neutrals help ease my anxiety 😂

[@jennifermcmillan2588]

❤we only live once .. I just can not spend my short life worrying about what anyone else’s thinks ! Do what makes you happy !!!!! ❤❤❤🎉

[@4gma59]

All I can say is choose what you enjoy and stop buying to impress others.

[@jodyqueen8498]

As someone with "no money" I still enjoy timeless pieces. I have found it more important to wear what flatters me. Such as going by my color analysis, fit, etc. I also love vintage for it's uniqueness. It's very likely no one else in the world will have the same pieces.

[@danielle2661]

Last note, Burberry should 100% use this Succession call out in marketing! Be in on the joke!

[@natraybouldweds]

Yes! But they are already too late, so no point bothering now. Would have been ideal as an immediate reaction

[@khameronevans]

We actually discontinued that bag late last year and have replaced it with our Frances bag. It’s ironically more “quite luxury.”

[@x0xdeadlycookiex0x]

Wondering how they would or if they would really want to. The show depicts them as "new money" but they seem to want to emphasize their heritage brand status which is more of an old money thing. Idk how they could spin this and turn the joke around lol. One brand I could see hopping on the trend is telfar with their notoriously capacious bags lol. And they definitely wouldn't wanna be seen as old money quiet luxury.

[@That_dark_ranger]

Given the problem with fast fashion , I would always encourage ppl to invest in quality pieces , look after and repair them if they can . Also Cassie I love how much Britishness is still in you 😂 love to see it ❤

[@CassieThorpe]

Always A Yorkshire lass 🙌🏽

[@sloverConnie]

Love the fact you are forthright in your opinions but they are also considered. The message you are saying which I agree is be who you want to be and not be ashamed- old or new money who cares as long as you are you and you are happy- wish I could go to a party with old money I would scream not old money nor new money but no money and working class and proud

[@pio7763]

People don't wear clothes long enough to damage them, so fast fashion is good enough. Good quality is more resilient etc so what it will never be needed. People buy new clothes to feel better not because they need it.

[@ave_rie]

Unfortunately, as a POC, having an old money aesthetic is a great weapon for getting basic social respect, appropriate service at restaurants/stores, and better perception in the workplace. I do love the old money look (read: plain & simple) as it’s my comfort zone. It reminds me how good my grandparents looked at formal events. But sometimes I also want to have those things while wearing my “trashy” got-this-from-an-NY-thriftstore look. 😂I’m still hesitant about my *obnoxious* pink ultra-puffy sleeve and garden print skirt. People get so snobby when you look *wild or trashy*, even if you’re wearing luxury.

[@erikavasquez914]

This.

[@Odaz]

exactly this!

[@themanifestorsmind]

My paternal grandma was ALWAYS "dressed to kill!" I really raided her closet on a regular basis from 6th grade on up 😂. She was always classy and sophisticated looking, but she also always had some sort of statement piece. This continued until she had a house fire after she retired and she was never quite able to build her wardrobe back up on her much reduced income. But whenever I get dressed up to go somewhere, I find myself asking myself "Would Grandma wear this with this?" I can't help it😂😂😂

[@RayneRain77]

This is an aspect that people don’t acknowledge. For marginalized groups, dressing in this aesthetic leads to more respectability and opportunities at upward mobility. Sad way of the world but it’s a reality. If people perceive you to be wealthy, they interact with you in a completely different manner than if you were just normal.

[@lindahayman9150]

As a person of color, this spoke to me and totally summarized my experiences with the old money aesthetic!

[@jeanwoodyatt7456]

I find quiet luxury so interesting! I totally understand the idea behind buying something that’s classic and neutral that you can wear time and time again but I don’t understand why people will pay $500+ for basics like a button up shirt when there’s no flare or exciting element and you can get it must cheaper and just as good quality elsewhere. I’d say my style is a bit of an old luxury/new money fusion but I can more easily justify spending money on pretty and unique pieces than basics✨

[@CassieThorpe]

Yes I totally get this - I can more easily justify something that’s more unique and interesting! 💖

[@13ikea]

@@CassieThorpe agreed

[@PiggyLovesOllie]

My sentiments exactly! If no one knows it’s luxury what difference does it make if it is or isnt and if you can get o🥲something that looks great that isnt expensive why wouldnt you🤣. unless youre made of money go right on ladies. Oh I know I know. It’s the “quality”. 🤣🤪

[@YRYu]

This!!!

[@bettybbags]

+1 that’s why I justify Casablanca silk shirts, each design is hand painted and unique w flair…no loud logos but very statement and signature of the brand

[@DivaMea201]

I actually like both, the older I get it seems as if I’m going towards quiet luxury ❤

[@CassieThorpe]

💖💖

[@seabreeze4559]

Quiet luxury isn't expensive. And it isn't clothing. Magazines are just trying to sell people on high ticket items in a recession. It's literally always been there and isn't a price tag. It's like, taking time off for family.

[@kathrynmassey1188]

I don't think I will ever be quiet, I want to be the loopy old lady with purple hair.

[@4gma59]

@@kathrynmassey1188 That's awesome!

[@yaz6380]

People put so much effort into trying to look old money, wether they actually have any or not and I think it’s so sad that people feel that pressure. I’m a big fan of wearing whatever you like, what is luxurious to you you should enjoy free of judgement ❤

[@layla-dv2kt]

This is so, so true! I do like the look, but I also like logos and y2k pieces. The problem I have with the “old money” is aesthetic is that often times it’s not organic. It’s choosing pieces that will look that way and it’s restrictive. I suck at explaining things, but instead of “omg I LOVE this bag” it’s “ok this will make me look old money”.

[@SirenaSpades]

When someone is 'trying' to do something, such as trying to look old money, they aren't. lol Old money folks aren't trying. They have no idea and do not give a hoot about identifying particular clothing pieces.

[@Noname-cv3cn]

@@SirenaSpades you took the words right out of my mind.

[@kimle848]

Whatever makes me happy... I could careless if someone thinks I'm old or new money. The truth is it's MY money and this is MY luxury.

[@isaacmuth7097]

I hate the snobbery that exists within the “old money” aesthetic people. People need to understand that all they’re glorifying elitism. It often comes across as racist in some contexts.

[@EughhBrothereughh]

I dont necessarily think they are pro elitism. At least normal people like this aesthetic because its not flashy and obnoxious. For example imagine how your all logo obviously expensive clothes would make a broke not so glamorously dressed person feel? I like it because dressing discreetly wont put someone around you down, wont make them feel insecure in your presence. But thats my personal opinion tho not everybody agrees. Also its often times just better fitted therefore looks more flattering. Flashy brands don't usually accentuate on good fitting they're more about sales. But the main reason for me why dressing in no logo is good because of the feelings of others who cant afford it

[@isaacmuth7097]

@@EughhBrothereughh you make some great points here!

[@seabreeze4559]

that's literally the point, to exclude it's WASP, a racial and religious grouping White Anglo Saxon Protestant? but Americans love to kiss the boot that kicks them, I guess? Even the Kennedys weren't considered white enough as Irish Catholics!

[@seabreeze4559]

@@EughhBrothereughh nope it's WASP, literally the most exclusive thing ever. A racial and religious group. Wearing it won't make you it, that's the whole point. Anna Bey for example moved to England hoping to marry one but they all rejected her - because a blue-eyed half-Swede isn't white enough. ...but there's a lot of cope on the internet with classism. Meghan was kinda right. Not a nice person herself, but right about cards being stacked against her by existing.

[@vimanaarchitects2151]

Also old money INHERITED money.They DIDN'T WORK such as new money people. So weird to me those who hardworking are insulted and mocked.THE HECK IS THAT???

[@rebekkiej]

“Old money luxury” is only something people who don’t fall into that category concern themselves with, ironically enough. Loved this video, subscribed instantly!

[@mariagomesdesousa9357]

I am so sick of the labels. Thanks Cassie. Embrace your own personal style and just let it shine. In Khaite or in Zara. Who cares. ❤

[@jaks_bag_attack]

I always believed real wealth wore custom trailed made clothing that went beyond trend. A well-made well fitted dress somehow now, it means expensive off the wrack even if it's designer. You can make a cheap outfit look amazing if it is tailored to your shape. Go to Asian as just see how many tailors and dress makers are around. Not so much here in the US.

[@Joleenzy]

I love me some obnoxious loud luxury fashion extravaganza! 😂❤ I think there is space for both! I just hate it when people say that only poor people wear logos - not true. I know someone who is 6th generation wealthy wealthyyyyy and he rocks his logos and everything! Rich people wear whatever they like! It’s all about personal style/preferences!

[@CassieThorpe]

Yes!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@prettytalia143]

When I was in my 20s, I was all about the loud logos. Now that I’m in my 40s, I’m all about the IYKYK aesthetic. I still have my Neverfull GM because that is the perfect travel bag and I’m all about convenience. But for the most part, my clothes/bags/ shoes are all on the “quiet” side. Now that I’m older, I make more money, but I don’t want to advertise it to everyone. 😂

[@MA-ry4tn]

I honestly could care less about the “old money” aesthetic. I love to see people wear what they love and what excites them! Additionally, old money isn’t accessible to ~90% of the world given that extreme wealth at that level was often built on the backs of others and inherited through generations. Cosplaying as old money is of no interest to me! 😅

[@chRizma]

Even new money isn't accessible to many and is still built on the backs of developing nations 👎

[@onemustalwaysbedifferent]

A lover of beige here 🙋‍♀️ the older I get, the more I love classic “old money” pieces (I hate the word old and new money). I don’t feel comfortable in logos, but that’s just me. Like other people in this comment section, even though I don’t dress loudly, I LOVE when other people do! Fashion is a way of expressing one’s self. If you want to wear a bin bag, that’s your choice! Xx❤

[@glaciergang]

Yes this!! Other people may find my style “boring”, but its within my comfort level. Im always in awe of the bold women who can pull off big colors and fashion like ca$$

[@hotbons]

Although I appreciate quiet luxury, and would love one day to have the means to replace every last piece in my closet with $500 plain white t-shirts and the like, I’m still more of a shouty/statementy logo-y person at my core. Like, if I spent the money, you’re going to know because you’ll be able to see the crystals, the logo, and the colors from outer space. 😂❤💰

[@CassieThorpe]

Bonnie…we’re kindred spirits 🙌🏽😂🤩🤩

[@noraa.616]

One more problem, though, with the ‘logo’ aesthetic is that it could get the attention of broke, pred@tory m@les, that are plotting on getting you to pay for them, sooner or later. And they usually get angry (so they’re em0tional) when you tell them to go away

[@mscocobelle]

No matter what you wear, you either HAVE old money or you don’t, so wear what you love. ❤ SM and influencers have caused these false narratives to be exaggerated and I’m so over it. Do you! 😘

[@Princess-m3k]

I am old money and I dress flashy so it doesn’t mean anything

[@zabindhanji]

I think that there is a difference between true 'old money' and 'quiet luxury'. Mary Kate and Ashley have obviously mastered 'quiet luxury', but they are not 'old money'. If you are truly 'old money', you generally inherited it from your family, you didn't earn it. You just happen to have been born into it and can afford to pay exorbitant amounts of money for items that no one would recognize, other than other people who also happened to be born into 'old money'. 'New money' can also buy the 'old money' aesthetic through brands that produce 'quiet luxury'. And the Olsen twin that was carrying the beat-up Hermes bag, what was that all about? Is she trying to say that she has 20 more in her mansion? The whole situation is laughable!

[@emilia123zz]

Oooohhh you make a very interesting point

[@tesluxe]

Both are chic! As I get older, I’m gravitating more towards quiet luxury but no denying a good logo will steal my heart real quick. I think my biggest thing is I hate mixing loud pieces from different brands. It feels cheaper to me.

[@emilia123zz]

I don’t think dressing in an old money aesthetic is automatically encouraging elistim because at the end of the day it’s just a style. It’s the behaviour of people who think by choosing to wear that aesthetic means they are above others, that are in the wrong. I like a lot of elements that fall under ‘old money’, though I don’t say I had made any conscious elements to do that, but it doesn’t define my personality at all. I just prefer less logos, sharp lines and block colours 😂

[@LovelyLittleLillies]

Old money loves to gatekeep that's why they get snobbery if you start owning what they own. Yet the prettiest of things in the world, from architecture, to gardens, to clothes (haute couture) has been exclusive for the wealthy. They genuinely consume very aesthetic things, why wouldn't working money not gravitate or enjoy them either? Don't people go to art shows and theatre?. People who dress that esthetic whether cosplaying or just liking the clothes doesn't even matter. To aspire to be old money or daydream about it there's nothing wrong. Better than the tacky dressing of the current times. There's just a level of harmony and naturalness in old money aesthetic - like more natural makeup - that celebrates nature and people in the skin they were born in why new money is destroying every aspect of what you were born with: plastic fake nails, false lashes the size of a caterpillar, plastic procedures that ruin your natural form (bums, boobs, and lip filler) and that harsh heavy makeup from conturing just to name a few

[@coelacanthvalley]

i appreciate this video. What i find funny in online discussions is that many of those who heavily favor "old money" aesthetic aren't really old money or wealthy enough to have the option to dress "loud" luxury. Dress however you want and within your financial capability,

[@no.reply_]

The things that get me excited about fashion are the colours, textures and fit, I do think that some brands got too comfy slapping a logo on uninspiring things and asking for money and on the flip side I sometimes find quiet luxury to be devoid of colour and personality especially when someone is just following an aesthetic. Just wearing what you love looks the best imo

[@mnicolechic]

My aesthetic is no money. 😂😂 Seriously, I believe we should wear and buy what you love. Don't worry about what others think.

[@glaciergang]

Lmao i feel this

[@Tessy29k]

I don't even have a stupid aesthetic. I just wear whatever the fuck I want when I want. If you got the money buy whatever you want

[@afihaileywibowo1095]

I'm so serious and with you about this: Buy whatever you like! 😊❤

[@JediBunny]

Old Money loooooooves changing the goal posts when they sense the other classes catching up; even if only aesthetically.

[@y.preyer]

I fully agree with you. I buy things for myself and my own pleasure. It’s impossible to satisfy everyone around me.

[@armanmislang7726]

Hi Cassie! I think this is my favorite video on quiet luxury vs. loud luxury and how we, as consumers, ultimately decide what works for us. I love my logos and labels. They're stylish, beautiful, and they resonate with my soul. I don't want to be that person who categorizes something as better only because it is quiet luxury. On a side note, I tried some LP bags when I was in Japan recently and while I will concede that they're arguably of superior or great quality, the designs are kinda meh. No hate though for those who love them. Again, I think the point of it all is, and this video very nicely nails it is, to each their own. 😊

[@pbrd4695]

Quiet luxury, but not because it’s now trending…it’s always been my style. I do however, love a pop of color, monogram or logo here and there. Love u cas your channel has been steadily growing, ur a natural at it…

[@hiddenindarkness13]

This was incredibly informative and entertaining at the same time. You and your voice are beautiful too. Keep up the good work!

[@Mandy251985]

Whatever you’re into; be you. Sometimes it’s “boring and classic” sometimes it’s “loud with labels” Life’s too short so you might as well enjoy every aspect of your style I say. I love your content ❤️ especially the shopping blogs and the ones with mom and dad I feel the old money people had a stage of life I mean of course where they were new to having things and money

[@delaiahsimmons4474]

I am definitely "new money" aesthetic. The trendy pieces excite me lol. I might not have them forever but knowing how things come back in style I will probably wearing my little Louis Vuitton Palm Springs mini again when I'm 50 LOL

[@CassieThorpe]

With the way these trend cycles are going it will be time for the LV PS mini next year 😉😂💖💖

[@EughhBrothereughh]

Bruh they will only go higher in value with time so of course you're not losing at all👑🙏❤️

[@jjpp412]

“Ludicrously capacious” killed me, but I did always think of the tiny bag trend as a wealth signifier - it says “I don’t need to carry anything on me; I go from the car to the front door and others hold things for me.” TBE has grown into its own thing, but that’s where I saw the origins of the trend. And one can’t fit their flats for the subway or lunch pail in a tiny bag 😂

[@s.a.4358]

I often wondered of the tiny bag trend us more if a USA thing. I live in Europe where a lot of people do not have cars or use their car every day, so small bags are not practical for daytime especially if one works outside the home.

[@RakeedahsCloset]

Quiet. Loud. 🫣 At the end of the day a person should only wear what they like 🤷🏾‍♀️ If you want your luxury to sneak around the room, cool. If you want your luxury to come in with a boombox on it shoulders, that’s cool too

[@CassieThorpe]

Exactly!!

[@EughhBrothereughh]

I love that we reached that point in this world when we dont judge. I just bloody love it. Imagine if we lived in early 2000s mean era. I would have died really from the amount of judging

[@vonettapratt4797]

What she said! 👏🏾

[@edennis8578]

​@@EughhBrothereughh How old are you? 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 That's absolutely not true. People with power absolutely judge what you look like. Who cares if your neighbor doesn't like what you wear, but if your boss doesn't like it or a potential employer doesn't like it, then you could be jobless. If you have a generous trust fund, or if you already live on government benefits, then you don't have to worry. The rest of us have to account for the tastes of the people we work for. Also family members to whom we may be accountable. And the potential in-laws. People who we might wish to buy a house from (if you think people don't pay attention to who might purchase their family home, think again).

[@voilaid]

Such an interesting insight, Cassie! We agree that it all depends on each person's preference, as long as they are not pretending to be. We love your video! 😃

[@anastasiya8314]

In the summer I love a preppy nautical/ minimalist boho vibe and in the winter I do classical preppy leather riding boots and cashmere sweaters vibe but none of my stuff is expensive I thrift and find quality pieces that fit perfectly

[@heidijay5902]

When I was much younger I had my fun with logos & pieces that made a bit of a statement. I’m now finding myself drawn to everything understated or pieces I make myself out of the beautiful fabric I have collected (I trained as a tailor before I went to uni). Luxury fashion should be about truely loving the items you are wearing, whatever the aesthetic.

[@CalebSnell]

That scene from Succession was everything 😆 I literally been quoting it since! When it comes to quiet luxury, I feel that the current economic climate has people trying to be less ostentatious and this is contributing to the trend. As for me, I do what I want and could care less if the look is quiet or not 🤭

[@niviahenry6218]

Great assessment Cassie! Though I don’t think any of this is new. I think the resurgence of quiet luxury is a slight backlash to the perceived excesses during the pandemic where people were spending more as a form of retail therapy.

[@CassieThorpe]

🙌🏽💖🙌🏽

[@dbmason]

Subdued aesthetics I do find chic but Gatekeeping vibes - not so much. Cheers to staying true ♥️🥂

[@CassieThorpe]

Like if that’s your vibe go for it but don’t force it because of what it means to other people 💖

[@seabreeze4559]

It's WASP fashion, a culture not a costume. It has nothing to do with 'dressing expensive' but magazines dying without affiliate links would have you think that. Of course they would... The minimalism is not deliberate, people starved during the Great Depression in England too. It wasn't sparse out of some Zoomer aesthetic vanity, but necessity. As a WASP, they make us sick.

[@dbmason]

@@seabreeze4559 Indeed. And let's not forget how austere elegance also often means simpler construction. Less design and sewing room time = lower costs.

[@wintermatherne2524]

It’s about natural fabrics in stylish cuts with quality craftsmanship in timeless style. This is practical. The connotations are artificial and incidental.

[@melbagarcia-ventura]

I love small luxury items, and l love using a plain bag. It's a personal choice because I travel and I love being able to wash my bags whenever they get dirty. I dress plain but I think the only thing noticeable are my sneakers lol. I love all different styles and if you're being exclusionary I feel like you're missing out on a lot of takes on fashion. I absolutely love when people can style thrifted items. Or the what do people wear in ____ videos. 😊

[@CassieThorpe]

Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts here 🙌🏽💖

[@s.a.4358]

That’s me with earrings (and jewellery in general). My style is very plain - some may say boring - but I really love bold, big, colourful etc earrings.

[@valerieblouch5409]

To thine own self, be true. If your clothes don't make you smile, something's wrong! Love the content and your unique outlook! You make my day and you make me laugh!! Love you so much!

[@darrellmccall6100]

I have found that over the latter years, my luxury has been understated. Honestly, I started wearing luxury when I wanted everyone to know I was becoming successful...no cap 🎓. Then I graduated to wearing luxury because of craftsmanship, and I didn't care about outside validation. Now, I wear luxury that only the “few “ can recognize. But...I have a ridiculous collection because of all the stages I went through. Luxury makes us feel a certain way, and if that brings you happiness, them go for it. Also, people from ALL WALKS of the income spectrum partake in luxury. Luxury is not just bags, clothes, etc...Luxury is varied and can manifest itself in many ways. Old money is for a tiny percentage of people on Earth. Most of us have brand-new money. Live and enjoy life while being responsible.

[@RosesRawReality]

Great video! Interesting topic. I love luxury (I’m subscribed to this channel so duh) and I love pieces from both. I tend to lean toward “old money” brands but I also love brands such as Versace… I just buy what I love! For me it’s not just for style, it’s a safety issue. I can wear luxury that is “you know you know” and not worry about being mugged or robbed because someone saw me in a recognizable brand. It just also happens that “quiet luxury” I can style more easily for everyday and is more my aesthetic. While “loud luxury” tends to be more statement pieces where I am wearing them for a moment.

[@CassieThorpe]

I totally get this 🙌🏽💖

[@neonCHAPSTICKx]

Hi Cassie, I have been enjoying your up-to-date fashion world commentary videos recently! I would also like to suggest as a video idea a NYC fine jewelry shopping vlog showcasing smaller designers (in line with your previous jewelry recommendation videos) featuring boutiques like Muse, Esqueleto and The Seven. Have a great week!

[@anonymous4142]

It’s worth mentioning that both daniel lee and matthieu blazy worked under phoebe Philo . As well as Nadège Vanhee-Cybulski the artistic director of Hermès (she worked at the the Row as well before Hermès ). phoebe Philo influence is undeniable.

[@MLH2023]

I agree with you. It's all about your personal style and what feels authentic to you. Following all these trends is really ridiculous, because quiet luxury and old money suits the people who actually have old money and it has been their authentic way of living for generations. You can't fake "old money" you can't fake "quiet luxury".

[@AuthorLHollingsworth]

Honestly, I like that style of old money, and enjoyed all of the Nautica, Polo, and Ralph Lauren commercials as a kid. Back to reality, that classicism still exists in this sad world. Hopefully, people will enjoy fashion and stop putting people in a box. Love the video 😍

[@chiaralistica]

I think you mean classism.

[@sofierss]

The point about the Birkin is SO SPOT ON. Applies to all of us who are just one time owners of these pieces, like “yes I have only one and I intend to keep her unscathed thank you very much” !

[@kikiTHEalien]

I am definitely a "no money" kind of a gal, but I quite like the "old money", i.e. "what adults wore in the 80s" aesthetic and especially the fact that it is readily available in the thrift store.

[@RFL9458]

I love the "you know you know" vibe, is so me, I love buying Lemaire, the Row, Hermès, Jil Sander, Zegna... I buy quality not logos, but I feel like people should do what is better for them

[@Princess-m3k]

The quality isn’t better tho

[@nappkins9346]

The giant Burberry bag!!!! Thought it was such a strange choice of designer for her character but maybe that was the point. X

[@CassieThorpe]

I believe so! 🙌🏽

[@tarreemhacaruso2687]

Yeah I saw that episode and thought he was trying to say that her bag was loud/gauche which actually does play into the whole conversation of quiet vs loud luxury. But I found it ironic he was going on this whole snobbish rampage when he unlike Greg and his wife didn’t grow up with money 👀😳🫣🤦‍♀️😂😂🤣🤣😂

[@wintermatherne2524]

Because with some people it’s not about money, it’s about taste.

[@ODaughterofZionMinistries]

Someone called me new money today as if it’s an insult- it’s not. I grew up poor, we lived in a car and i was a homeless teen. I started an online business and now run a muti 7 figure business. I wear what I like, regardless of labels. I have dresses from kmart and also designer outfits. I live in a wealthy neighborhood. My house has panic buttons for security and we have a private country club here. The most expensive home here is 22 million and trust me when i say there’s nothing quiet about the luxury i see here. Prada bags, hermes, tommy hillfiger, ralph lauren, Louis Vuitton, versace tiffanys, i see it all. Perhaps in New York society or some parts of Europe this matters but where i live nobody cares. One of my wealthy neighbors owns a rusty bike she loves, another owns a lambo and aston Martin. It varys and nobody judges because nobody cares. I have a mix of bags my most expensive is Marc Jacobs sequin tote but the bag I get the MOST compliments on is my 45dollar leopard bag that i got from a basic store like 10 years ago.

[@P0SHED]

I just turned 33, and I find that I gravitate towards ‘quit, minimalistic luxury’ But I’m also slowly getting to know more brands, that are not worth it. Getting really tired of bad quality and lazy designs, with logos everywhere. I am sure that more small businesses will see growth, because they are often more interesting and socially responsible.

[@SiedlerAesthetic]

I love wearing low key luxurious outfits because it feels the most me and it is the easiest for me to style BUT I definitely appreciate the fun and outgoing vibe of loud luxury pieces on others 😇😇😇

[@kiltedluxury]

I loved this video! I've actually found myself thinking about this a lot over the last several months. On one hand, I love and appreciate those who gravitate toward the "new money" aesthetic with the bold patterns and bright colors. It's loud and interesting and NEVER boring, and I love that. On the other hand, my personal taste leans more towards the "old money" aesthetic - I'm drawn to the neutrals and the quiet for myself. Not that I have old money and can afford quiet luxury 😂 but I'm just drawn to the look. However, I do not at all care for the snobbery/racism/elitism that goes with it.

[@glaciergang]

💯💯💯

[@AprilBitar]

I agree with you, who cares if you look Old Money or New Money. What matters to me is the clothes I wear spark joy.

[@CassieThorpe]

Exactly!!

[@kristindeltoro1948]

Cass you got me thinking…. So for the most part the core of my wardrobe is old money and then my accessories are new money!

[@CassieThorpe]

I love that - as per the succession scene, a bag can really say a lot 😉😂💖

[@JustineSeynhaeve]

I love how you're all about new money bc it's different and exciting to us AND you have impeccable styling skills, which means we can still relate to you. I'm much more of a minimalist, for example, but you inspire me to wear more colour again. Even if it's just a bag or a pair of sunglasses. Thanks for that 😘

[@dimplesd8931]

I worked with a woman who had a giant Birkin that she used as a work bag. I was gobsmacked but she was/is old ass money and she wore it well. I’m a LV girl and I am a leather bag snob. I have canvas but I use them like she used her Birkin. I have tiny, little, still got the plastic on it money 😂

[@deborahcurtis1385]

Yes the main thing is that you actually WEAR the bags and they fit in with your clothes and lifestyle. Too often it's a fantasy purchase for a life that people are not actually living. In that case you risk looking silly and out of place wherever you try to go, I try to dress appropriately and have some fun with it as well. Some might say I'm trying to look quiet luxury but the truth is I"m making my wardrobe work hard and that's just 'sensible money'.

[@StephEGroff]

I would have never known this was even “trending” but I LOVE watching you explain it. Thank you for keeping me hip in the luxury life ❤️❤️

[@linettebennett5594]

My bags tend to be black, aside from my green Goyard lol. I’m a classics and I adore Caroline Kennedy and Jane birkin so much. I do love old money and I’ve steered away from exceptional

[@karenmarierazee4589]

Cassie - you looked so gorgeous! so beautiful - Love that dress. Thank you for sharing with us! I'm honored. Nii is a cutie - so happy and in love with you!!

[@Carmlmami]

Cassie, you are truly a star! Your explanation of old money was explained perfectly. 👌🏽

[@kholawaddy7678]

Old money. New Money. I'm both in my aesthetic and unapologetic about it. Some days I just want basic neutrals, others, I want to make a statement. There's nothing negative about either. Style is personal, individual, so do you and don't think about it beyond that. Love ya Ca$$ie!

[@chereeriggs7671]

My aesthetic is a mix but I’m definitely “new money” by definition. My family had a lot of wealth several generations ago but lost it during the Spanish American war. We became primarily laborers after we lost our land & livestock in Southern Texas. My husband is an anesthetist & I’m a fine artist & we’re doing alright. I honestly don’t give a crap about new or old because u can simply lose it all

[@marytrem9567]

Ohhh Cassie I loved this video so much! The older I get, the more my style tends towards Old Money, although I've always been a bit more low key. I think the most important thing is to wear things you love. Whether old or new money or in between, wear what makes you feel BEAUTIFUL and CONFIDENT! ❤

[@MissLexi920]

My clothes LOOK quiet luxury but I am not mad at a logo purse. We can’t we be both? 😊 Also, loved that scene in Sunday’s Succession. Can you imagine what Tom would have said if she was carrying a Dior book tote?

[@zerenamafdet]

I’m actually just into MY MONEY😄 ~Whatever makes me feel good and excited. Leave the dog and pony show at the track😂😂😂😂😎💓

[@ackerbat]

Just moved from Chicago to South Carolina and have fallen in love with Old Money ascetics. It’s infectious!

[@stephaniexenia1352]

Max Mara is so nice when it comes to “old money” luxury basics!

[@pearlstella]

this is such an interesting topic!!💸💸💸 I'm probably in the middle -- I only rarely buy luxury with no visible logo at all (like what's the point then😆), but I also don't go for the LV canvas print or something similar that has a lottttt of logos just because it's too "busy" for my style

[@garryanthony]

Mary Kate and Ashley have always been the blueprint! Loved them since I was 4 and still to this day! I think it’s funny how people take a thought or trend and run with it and forget to be their authentic genuine selves. If you love the logos and bling and the Ludacris capacious bags GO OFF and if people can stock their closets with 10 Rod tshirts and a shawdownbirkins, call me because I need to organize the closet! Haha I love both depending on my moods

[@A5jer]

I just think it’s funny that as soon as black women start heavily consuming and shouting about luxury- everyone wants to be “doing quiet luxury”! Logo mania has always been something that has been associated with the black community- que Dapper Dan! Every single time we as a community have access to something, it’s “becomes” garish!🤡

[@MSE_DC]

^^ This 100% Thank you for saying it! 👏

[@notyourbusiness23]

Don't victimize yourself.

[@654ujala]

True…I wonder why that is!

[@MyLifeInTheDesert]

This is a very astute point and doesn’t just apply to race/ethnicity. Any time a product is attainable by the middle class this same phenomenon can occur. Consumerism and materialism have always had racist and classist roots.

[@gonzzceli]

​@@MyLifeInTheDesert it's the concept of luxury and exclusivity. If more people gain access to those products/brands then the luxury illusion fades away, specially when "common people" a.k.a. us get access to them. It's the "we wear pink on wednesdays" mentality

[@sophiasoto1405]

I’m all for 90’s minimalism fashion. But life needs some spice too with some eccentric pieces.

[@d.y.e3803]

I had to LOL when I saw the clip of the woman at the party carrying the Burberry tote. It reminded me of one day, about 25 years ago, while in Beverly Hills and a woman and a man were crossing the same street as I was crossing. They were both in formal wear, the woman in a beautiful ankle-length flowing light-color evening gown and the man in a tuxedo. Then, I looked and noticed what handbag the woman was carrying......a large LV monogram speedy. Yikes! I thought I was going to pass out. Jesus take the wheel! Mais non! I thought to myself, "Why didn't she just go to TJ Maxx and buy an appropriate handbag to go with her evening gown? Greetings from Los Angeles

[@CassieThorpe]

A real-life succession moment!

[@d.y.e3803]

@@CassieThorpe LOL! Greetings from Los Angeles

[@tarreemhacaruso2687]

@@d.y.e3803 but Lady Diana did make the LV Toiletries pouch a purse. Look at old pictures.

[@d.y.e3803]

@@tarreemhacaruso2687 It was about carrying a BIG brown LV monogram speedy with a flowing ankle-length, light-color (formal) evening gown. Sort of like if one wore leather knee boots with a swimsuit. Greetings from Los Angeles

[@jaykay4479]

Love these kind of posts Cassie! I still watch the collections, haul stuff, shopping vlog etc. because you are so fun to watch..but these line of posts are really interesting and you are taking it to another level..keep it up..

[@itstiffany510]

I think I’m definitely more old money in aesthetic, but not because I’m a big fan of IYKYK or the elitism associated. More because I feel a bit uncomfortable wearing logos and having people in my life recognize how much money I spend on fashion. I come from an immigrant family who would FAINT if they knew how much money I was spending, even though I have a good job and am capable of affording these things. I love the quality and design of luxury, not necessarily the logo. But that’s just me, and I very much admire the people who can rock the head to toe logo look because slayyyy. I just can’t get MYSELF to do it.

[@itstiffany510]

also wanted to say. Love how you approach these subjects! You do your research and it shows!! ❤

[@cindyandben3116]

I go both ways! A full, well cut, cream outfit with an LV orange graffiti speedy! What a vision! 😂

[@Seemstobereal]

I think anyone pretending to be someone that they are not is always going to be a failure. Just do what suits you best.

[@bashayer2891]

I absolutely love your take on things, fashion is and will stay as a way to express yourself regardless of what other people think, yes there are certain rules but the fun part is to be different! Quality over everything and that's it!

[@blktauna]

Quiet luxury is not minimal at all. Its just a different aesthetic. Besides you need neutrals to make your Bulgari jewelry pop, don't you? :-P Not everyone can carry off 5 statement pieces at once but almost anyone can look good in restrained colours. Even people who don't do 'fashion' want to look nice. Its easier in a restrained aesthetic. Like Garanimals. Its just simpler. Then it also allows those who like a crazed pop, have a nice canvas to display their wild pieces.

[@poisonivyxo191]

I agree with you. It should be about buying stuff that makes you happy. Personally, I like seasonal pieces and bolder colours/designs. I don’t buy luxury items often, but when I do, I like to buy certain items that remind me of a special time in my life☺️.

[@ubiquitousflow]

An obsession with old money aesthetic is the epitome of elitism. It eliminates any discussion of value or uniqueness of design

[@ubiquitousflow]

For example, a plain white t shirt costing $1000 isn't equal in value to a white t shirt with an interesting cut and unique fabric that costs the same

[@toniadams945]

Thank you for that understanding of “quiet luxury,” I’ve been hearing that term lately and was wondering what exactly it meant. You did a very eloquent explanation, thank you. Love your channel, I have subscribed and look forward to your “living the good life” lifestyle content.

[@deliriablush]

Great analysis as always $$$ I must say, your description of the Burberry bag actually sold me on it 🤣but then the word "quiet" has never once been used to describe me. To be honest, this whole "old money" thing irritates me. What does that even mean? Am I a lesser person because I could not tell Loro Piana or Brunello Cuccinelli from good basics from Cos or Uniqlo? This fashion trend is the opposite of inclusivity and feels to me like the expression of an old - mostly white - elite desperately trying to cling onto their status in an ever changing society. Yes, I agree it's a good idea to buy pieces that last, but who says that you couldn't use you metallic bags in outrageous colours and your bedazzled jeans for years to come? I believe fashion should be fun, now more than ever, so bring on the neons and the sparke.

[@CassieThorpe]

I’m with you!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@talya1877]

This topic is so fascinating. I didn't realize till recently many wealthy folks associate the smaller the bag, the higher the social status. I also notice a lot of executives and corporate employees tend to go for quiet luxury so they can feel the richness but not look to flossy when it's time to ask for a raise.

[@Skyebright1]

I guess it indicates that you have people to carry things for you, even if that person is just your boyfriend or husband ;)

[@portiahurtt9357]

As a Black woman, I wear what I want because all of our "old money" was stolen 🙃

[@LulaWestLuxe]

“Entry-level Birkin” 🤣 omg I’m dead. I’d settle for an entry level Birkin lol

[@kristinb5121]

I like classic styles and have always dressed that way because it’s what I grew up with and I like the aesthetic, the cut and feel of the clothes. I’m not old money and would never claim to be. Quite the opposite, I have tremendous pride in overcoming the struggles of my “lean” years and feel like that should be part of everyone’s education so they know what it feels like. I like your channel because you have a contagious enthusiasm for fashion that’s fun. What I don’t like is preening and pretending. Your attitude is character, the other is surface.

[@glaciergang]

You said this so perfectly i feel the same!

[@shartropicambassador7473]

I have to say, as I get older, I am partial to a button down and some nice tailoring. But i love the look of the trend pieces and like to see how the yoinger ladies (like yourself) style them. I think fashion is to be enjoyed, wear what makes you feel comfortable and makes you feel good about yourself and to hell with everyone else.