Luxury is living life on my own terms. Luxury is debt free. Luxury is financial peace. Luxury is good health. Luxury is my clean, organized quiet home. Luxury is a walk in nature. Luxury is my vacation. Luxury is my altruistic career. Luxury is my gratitude to God for all of the above. Dam I'm lucky.
@sskiddles31081 Жыл бұрын
In Jesus Name....Amen!
@chanellovely2836 Жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
@sbusisiweshaba1715 Жыл бұрын
👍
@mermaid30019 Жыл бұрын
Don’t forget luxury is love ❤❤
@toyia8158 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jellieloveee Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me is Peace of mind . That’s priceless
@MizzNee796 Жыл бұрын
Baybeeee! Talk about the PEACE! You can have this bag, those shoes, that car and houses/mansions....but if you don’t have peace? Shame on it all.
@danyelleterry2138 Жыл бұрын
Amen! You nailed it! Thank you! 🌹
@iamspeaking6686 Жыл бұрын
ABSOLUTELY! 💯
@bobugly4401 Жыл бұрын
💯💯
@gwentowson902 Жыл бұрын
Bingo!!
@ganderson7790 Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me as a black woman is having God at the front of my life, a roof over my head, a job and financial stability
@harlowgreen6916 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@sandracabrera1748 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes working
@dreamdelights Жыл бұрын
Whole facts
@mochamommyATX Жыл бұрын
Luxury is working less, delegating more and being compensated for my EXPERIENCE over my labor.
@IamKiaWoods Жыл бұрын
THIS!!!!
@gozio Жыл бұрын
A word!
@themanifestorsmind Жыл бұрын
Yes, being paid for your mind vs your might, your knowledge vs your time, THAT is luxury!
@LaKymanaАй бұрын
🎉
@sisterstaketoo1981 Жыл бұрын
My current luxury is that we have a housekeeper come out once a month. It’s about $180. It really takes the pressure off of me for deep cleaning. We still have to straighten up but it’s definitely different.
@dogsalwaysbarkatbetamaleswoof Жыл бұрын
100%. I love cleaners and I tip my hat to them. They deserve great tips and cleaning is such a chore.
@ashfitrn Жыл бұрын
Wow. That’s cheap and amazing. Are you in a small town? That’s definitely luxury. 👏🏾
@airicadotson Жыл бұрын
I've been fighting with myself for the past year over this. I want to get a monthly deep cleaning but I keep feeling bad about it. Like why can't I clean my own house but I'm overwhelmed.
@dorisnamondo97 Жыл бұрын
I love that !!
@mizzmiami3242 Жыл бұрын
@@airicadotson look at it like you’re supporting someone’s business. They clean things you can’t see. The AC vents, the exterior windows, the baseboards. They are professional cleaners . They are trained to clean better than you.
@ultimateenigma6038 Жыл бұрын
We do NEED luxury. We are women ......time...sleep...financial freedom..self care. The right to do what we want how we want for US. Not so giving of our time....energy..finances.. effort.
@ultimateenigma6038 Жыл бұрын
We are WOMEN..black women...ladies..do not listen to those regardless of gender who are unsure of their attributes. We are black WOMEN. ..the world came from our uterus historically..geographically. Govern yourselves accordingly. Hugs
@IamKiaWoods Жыл бұрын
I agree. We did and do need it.
@ashfitrn Жыл бұрын
Luxury can come in many forms. All black women deserve luxury (not just material possessions). Having peace can be luxury. Financial freedom can be luxury. Having good health can be a luxury. Not pumping my gas is definitely a luxury ☺️
@nenesibanda4171 Жыл бұрын
We black women in Africa believe in luxury. We deserve it especially since we lacked it so long.
@learning5188 Жыл бұрын
It's this woman in Uganda who posts about her life in her village. I would trade my American life for hers in a New York minute. Think of America as a woman with tons of makeup. While she may be pretty, what she really looks like is hidden, and her struggle you will not see until you really get to know her.
@ifeifesi Жыл бұрын
@@learning5188 I think I know the woman you are talking about! But the reality is African village life is hard. Often basic amenities such as electricity and clean water don't exist there. Also women do the bulk of the work and as for health care, it's often non existence
@learning5188 Жыл бұрын
@@ifeifesi I have no delusions about the struggle of village life; and the lack of the healthcare and clean water bothers me. However, there were new homes there that have electricity and running water. The last time I checked, she was in the midst of building a more modern home. I understand your point though, and I appreciate your reply. It just hit me that to many people, utilities are a luxury that I don't even think about🤗
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
@@learning5188 - but you could easily give up your American life and go to live in Africa?
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
@@ifeifesi - people who talk like this have usually never been to Africa. And they never go there either - I wonder why that is?
@miag6211 Жыл бұрын
Tell ‘Em. We deserve the absolute best
@Ms.AnnDrist Жыл бұрын
Currently, my skincare routine is my luxury. My next piece of luxury will be a skin care fridge iny room 🥰
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
Hmm, I actually think Jackie sidestepped the core issue here. The "black women in luxury' movement (along with the wider self care movement) was very much needed in the black community as a signal to black women that we deserve the best of everything and that WE are entitled to benefit from what we work so hard for instead of handing all those benefits to everybody else.
@rachellerockel Жыл бұрын
Yes
@themultifacetedmami Жыл бұрын
I agree with you
@truthspeaker1508 Жыл бұрын
But building wealth isn’t important? This is my issue. Honing broke for bags and perfume is pathetic and sets us back.
@themultifacetedmami Жыл бұрын
@@truthspeaker1508 everyone knows she’s an OG. People still don’t get social media makes real money. I purchase perfume in my bracket though, not hers
@themultifacetedmami Жыл бұрын
@@truthspeaker1508 you can’t blame her for other people trying to keep up with the Jones’
@sarahgivens7182 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is peace. Luxury is being able to live peaceful situations. Enjoying nature and loving yourself. Having money enough money to live comfortably.
@aprilstafford8829 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is different for each person because we all prefer different things…Luxury for me is taking care of myself and making myself a priority…especially since I’ve neglected my personal wants and needs for so long….Luxury to me is loving yourself unconditionally flaws and all… ❤ And much needed in our community…expectation of the black woman and even the black man is to work harder for less…It feels good to be soft and gentle to yourself n others compared to being work horses…
@lauraboudreaux6581 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is being allowed to wake up and see another day and able to have your right mind.
@deborahn601 Жыл бұрын
I’m just trying to figure out what black woman told her we don’t think we deserve luxury. Ugh! Stop prefacing things with “black women think” If those are YOUR thoughts - speak for yourself please and thank you ❤
@tamikal.7346 Жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing...my whole face scrunched up.
@realtalktina Жыл бұрын
Exactly 🎉
@rollymayola363 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!
@thirteen2978 Жыл бұрын
❤❤THIS!!🎉🎉
@salanasilver Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure she meant it as for the longest time black women as a collective put the needs of others before our own. Now, especially in these times of social media, black women have the luxury mindset (as a lot of us may not have been exposed to certain ideas), but that was not always the case. There is definitely a huge difference with the way we see ourselves and how we should treat ourselves and be treated than just 10 years ago - there's been a major shift.
@coilyheadedbby Жыл бұрын
I really liked Jackie’s answer. Anything that shines black women in a good light is acceptable for sure.
@FaithfullyAsia Жыл бұрын
I’m going to go ahead and say what Jackie wouldn’t… it’s Needed! Representation is important and lack of representation of black women living luxurious was a void that influencers such as Jackie has filled. It’s OK to feel like we deserve the finer things in life. Jackie has inspired me to pamper myself more with my time and self care.
@FineNaturalHairROCKS Жыл бұрын
I love this! Jackie Aina left it completely wide open for luxury to be whatever we feel like it should be.
@itsHappening-ry2ef Жыл бұрын
Ladies a man giving you money and having your own money is important ‼️
@puddincup9879 Жыл бұрын
WTH?
@lane89 Жыл бұрын
Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie Jackie in Jackie voice
@nekea93 Жыл бұрын
Things I can't buy like peace, quality time, access
@Wolffamily36513 күн бұрын
Positive representation of black women is always NEEDED online to combat the negative stereotypes and propaganda. Black women luxury content is my favorite by far.
@nancymarunya7121 Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me is GOOD SLEEP. 😍😴
@shaneyg253 ай бұрын
Black women have been experiencing luxury, we just didn’t have the platforms to present it. Jackie does an amazing job, and I love her for the authenticity of giving her self what she deserves
@1RoyalHustleumadd Жыл бұрын
That is correct, Luxury is knowledge, morals, goals, setting boundaries, following your intuition, carrying a type of authority with you, so when people who don’t know how to perceive you or low vibrational try to hurt you and you persevere you begin to get the royalties for standing on your beliefs and knowing that your standard wasn’t so high that people couldn’t understand you they just wanted to see if you are who you say you are❤❤❤❤
@SELFCAREMODEL Жыл бұрын
And it baffles me that some of us look down on “soft life or BGL”. Like it’s okay for us to want different things. I watched a BW creator I won’t say her name laugh at soft life. It was hurtful and I honestly think she doesn’t understand the movement is about black women enjoying themselves and resting etc…
@sparklesp9304 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, I can see both sides of this... When your community is falling to pieces, it seems selfish to rest and seek luxury, which may have been why she laughed. Our community is in the shape that it is in because we keep giving our wombs to men who haven't positioned themselves to care for a wife and kids BECAUSE we don't think we are worthy of luxury.
@ashfitrn Жыл бұрын
What is BGL?
@laurencameron3150 Жыл бұрын
@@ashfitrn Black Girls in Luxury
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
@@sparklesp9304 - it isn't selfish at all, in fact I see it as a necessity. I also find it interesting that black men are free to spend their money as they please and it is only black women's spending patterns that are policed even though we are the ones that are carrying the community.
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
Black women are often the biggest enforcers of the rules that hold other black women back. A lot of black people don't want black women to enjoy luxury or a soft life because that means we are rejecting the role of mule that the black community expects us to play. They really believe that we should spend our money on everyone and everything except ourselves.
@Theocita Жыл бұрын
Luxury is peace of mind knowing everything is ok.
@CharleyAngel Жыл бұрын
I’m not going to lie, seeing black women live luxury lives in regards to tangible things is FIRE 🔥 not to mention inspiring. Growing up in the 90s I had an aunt who was truly the rich auntie. Money maker , and did what she pleased and went where she pleased and had finer things! As my own woman Luxury doesn’t quite come in the form of tangibles. Having peace, a clear mind , being able to excercise and simple things such as taking a walk or being able to decompress. In regards to tangibles for me, traveling seeing new things and places outweighs anything!
@MLL124 Жыл бұрын
luxury to me is an experience, it’s all about the ambiance and the quality of tangible and non tangible things.
@dorisnamondo97 Жыл бұрын
Hmmm....luxury to me is traveling, decorating my house exactly how I want it, having "me time" just because!
@metalgearsenshi10 ай бұрын
I was literally just saying this out loud to my friends. Getting to the level where you can treat yourself the way you'd like to be and deserve, it is so amazing. The guilt does come and try to hit but over time it does die out. May we each keep luxury in our lives and be proud and grateful of being able to do so.
@blaquehippie Жыл бұрын
*JACKIE AINA BE HAVING ALL THE SPOTLIGHT TO STAND UP FOR US .... SHE ALWAYS DROPS THE BALL!* 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
@Shashayaway Жыл бұрын
Deserve ..is a strong word..girl I've yet to meet any women who would agree that they don't deserve
@LuvBugs822 Жыл бұрын
For me, luxury is spending as much uninterrupted time with my grandchildren.
@MamiTT237 Жыл бұрын
I’d rather have $5k in my $20 purse, than $20 dollars in my $5k purse! Luxury is NO WORRIES! Being able to smile because…. Just because! 😊
@candacecheatem6545 Жыл бұрын
So true
@lovemywife698 Жыл бұрын
Peace of mind
@GodYermonia6 ай бұрын
It's an energy ✔️✨ and she's definitely right about it being time. It's a feeling etc. Honestly. It's versatile. Not just Versace.✔️✨
@dolcifioricakes Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me is being able to afford a destination wedding, drive the best, wear the best, live in the best and have the best friends, eat out at the best, best health care, education, luxury vacations and the list on. It is not reality for many. It should be. Hard work can make these things a reality. Keep going!!!
@k3sh1a218 ай бұрын
Jackie is spot on
@Grace-zy9qx Жыл бұрын
It’s is needed. My mum struggles to see her worth n have nice things or demand to be treated right. This was partly cus of our culture n times she was born in . I had to break this cycle for myself. N in my 30s i finally won’t settle for less. My daughter is 15 and has a positive self image n high standards cus make sure she know her worth n should have nice things and good opportunities. Overall Luxury
@adayinthelifewithkliv5995 Жыл бұрын
as a white woman who grew up in a predominantly black neighborhood it breaks my heart to know that black women think they don't deserve luxury regardless of what luxury is viewed as🥺I have so much respect for black women and not just because I'm with a Black Man but because when my own mother wasn't there for me I had mother figures-black women-through neighbors and women in the community,I may not know personally,but I know from growing up around it,I know it's hard but please go easy on yourselves.yall are so loved and deserving of ALL THE LUXURY❤️stay beautiful,queens.
@shawilliams5747 Жыл бұрын
STAY OUT OF BLK WOMAN SPACES..WE DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR UPBRINGING OR YOUR NEGRO...GO SOMEWHERE THE WHITE MAN HAVE CREATED MANY SPACES FOR YOU...AND THIS IS NOT ONE BECKY
@butisitsugarapproved618 Жыл бұрын
I’m black and I have never thought I don’t deserve luxury. They r reaching tbh lol
@sparklesp9304 Жыл бұрын
@@butisitsugarapproved618 Are you African American as in descendants of American slaves, Carribbean or African? Three different psychologies , and three different sets of issues. We have all three in the US. The black women who probably have the lowest self esteem and issues with luxury are the descendants of slaves, especially the older generations.
@sparklesp9304 Жыл бұрын
And to the OP, thank you for your support! It is definitely an issue in the African American community that we are trying to unravel, especially the older generations i.e. over 30.
@ari7836 Жыл бұрын
@@butisitsugarapproved618 you cant speak for every black person though, i know a lot of black people, myself included, who grew up with this ideology of luxury isn’t meant for us or feeling unworthy for certain things because of our color. if you can’t relate, i’m glad for you but don’t invalidate other’s experiences
@Tatianarain Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me is being able to have enough money to avoid regular minor inconveniences or stress. So it could be having a maid or a cook. An assistant to book flights, avoiding long lines, flying first class, booking the best hotels wherever I go. Oh and not having to work to survive. Wanting to work and having to work are 2 different things.
@satnadc12 Жыл бұрын
Love Jackie
@zeeechanged5352 Жыл бұрын
Luxury for me is being financially stable
@djlivvy46 Жыл бұрын
I'm laughing because we all know that Jackie definitely likes her 'tangibles'! 😂😂
@NaNa-er4sw Жыл бұрын
Luxury means freedom to me!
@cautrey8925 Жыл бұрын
I think its perfectly fine to also just admit out loud, that we enjoy the ability to afford expensive comforts & experiences. Not having to succumb to the pressure to be politically correct and relatable at all times is a luxury to me
@eatinghealthywithkym3945 Жыл бұрын
Luxury for me is having my home the way I imagined my house should be. It's called peace.
@ZJ200810 ай бұрын
Babes you deserve all the luxury in the world! You deserve the best and only the best ❤
@c.l.9344 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is a birthright and part of the abundant life. The abundant life is nothing broken, nothing missing.
@suga.spice.yum.3769 Жыл бұрын
❤Jackie, Jackie, jackie Jackie!! 🎼🎶
@shehalk1238 Жыл бұрын
HEALTH is a luxury.
@vicktory214 Жыл бұрын
I love Jackie 💖💖💖
@a.k.williams9775 Жыл бұрын
Love Jackie ❤
@thejen24 Жыл бұрын
Yes it was needed. Not sure why she didn't want to say that, but for somewhere deep down believing that she herself doesn't deserve luxury
@KerringtonF Жыл бұрын
Love this look, JACKIEEE! 🥰
@BeBlessed706 ай бұрын
Luxury is peace of mind and good health.
@candyc4713 Жыл бұрын
It means something different to different people. Luxury for me is the ability to take time for myself to get my mani pedis, a monthly chemical peel and weekly facial, a comfortable well organized living space, driving a nice foreign car with all the bells and whistles, a few nice bags, sunglasses, the ability to travel well, amongst other things that involve lifestyle, health and self care.
@Msx_xIrene Жыл бұрын
It was needed.
@mercykoyalie1574 Жыл бұрын
As a black woman in this era, I know for sure I deserve luxury 😌
@Purrl1775 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is financial security
@Hottybanger8 ай бұрын
Her eyes are so beautiful
@angelsweet9611 Жыл бұрын
Strong relationship with Christ number 1, 2 healthy, 3 financially stable 4 being able to hike, my luxury!!
@TheDermit123 Жыл бұрын
Everyone is kinda defining luxury incorrectly! Having joy or peace shouldn’t be a luxury! Luxury is in addition to the necessities!
@Dollieglitz007 Жыл бұрын
Most young black women have never been exposed to class. Westerners only expose the urban struggles in the media. I’m not saying that classy black woman don’t exist, there are many, but as far as an example there are few to none. So I do think that black luxury lifestyle is needed in order to show an alternative lifestyle. It’s not necessary to be rich for luxury, just think of the women living in the era of Dorothy Dandridge, Eartha Kitt, or Diahann Carrol. Those woman’s personality and attitude exude poise, class and etiquette, and were an example of black femininity.
@learning5188 Жыл бұрын
Black women care about the luxuries in life. For some ita a walk down a safe and quiet street, while for others its haute couture and anything more or less in between. It's not just Black women who care about things, it's all people. The more we separate ourselves by every day life experiences the more we will be separated and uncounted.
@lindseywarrior7999 Жыл бұрын
Luxury to me is peace of mind, wealth and with wealth more time to do the things that I love instead of sacrificing them because I have to work all the time.
@cattleyasheila2264 Жыл бұрын
Luxury can be anything. As long there are people who can afford it and those who can’t
@Aquabo7765 Жыл бұрын
A peace of mind is very important to me ❤❤ that’s my luxury
@B.Champagne9 ай бұрын
True luxury is existing without worry.
@gifty2595 Жыл бұрын
Luxury for me is being able to get an Uber rather than using the bus 😂
@fel6533 Жыл бұрын
I dam well deserve luxury in all forms
@CC-pu6qn Жыл бұрын
I agree it’s time, but having the resources. I have a personal assistant, hire dry cleaning to do laundry, spa days weekly, I’m trying to do way more because I was working way too much.
@LuxeSciTech Жыл бұрын
So access and time comes from having what first?
@no-one00 Жыл бұрын
Dating men who have a lot of acces ,!having jobs with a lot of access , universities with opportunities that give access , having multiple different friends that can give you access
@sparklesp9304 Жыл бұрын
@@no-one00 Thanks for your comment.
@sparklesp9304 Жыл бұрын
Guard your womb. It's our biggest sabotager. Don't have kids for a man before he's able to take care of a wife and kids.
@evolvingishpod Жыл бұрын
It’s so multi layered, what may be a luxury to one, isn’t for the other.
@blaquehippie Жыл бұрын
*INFLUENCERS ARE ALWAYS TRYNA BE SO HUMBLE WITH THEIR ANSWERS TO THE POINT WHERE THE AVERAGE WOMAN ENDS UP WITH THE SHORT END OF THE STICK AGAIN* 🤦🏽♀️ 🗣️ *WE DESERVE NICE THINGS!!*
@sammiesmith3454 Жыл бұрын
I like how folks are changing the meaning of luxury
@MakeupandMentalHealth Жыл бұрын
Luxury is time. Luxury is feeling unburdened.
@MultiBnine Жыл бұрын
Luxury is time that I don't spend thinking about my finances. Time i spend for myself
@trishbarnes730 Жыл бұрын
We been doing this stuff it was tooken away .. so yes we deserve luxury as well that’s in our nature but that doesn’t make u happy always.. trusting in most high n having a rock by your side to set the best foundation for the family is the best luxury a woman can ever have but it’s very hard to find at times and this is why there are so many women single .. sometimes by choice or sometimes they don’t have a lot of options so that causes them to be in relationships they aren’t even aware of or how things will turn out later if it’s not solid from the start .. my black women deserve the best .. to much has been taken away .. be successful young women n make good decisions when it comes to men .. cuz it can go from sugar to shit real quick so be real with yourself and make sure your happy as well .. if not get away fast n save yourself the agony of any unhealthy relationship n again luxury can be many things it’s always not materialistic…
@videorocketzmillar007milla5 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is sitting down after a bath of a long day with big cup of hibiscus tea and relaxing.
@Haterzarefans Жыл бұрын
Luxury is having no worries....and having free time.
@harlowgreen6916 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is what you see luxury is not what others say it is
@Yesshecancan Жыл бұрын
Too many people equate "doing well" with having STUFF.
@melaniejones99025 ай бұрын
Luxury is working less doing more me time and bring positive and relaxed 😊😊
@DIVASFORTRESS Жыл бұрын
okayyyy with the lil yitty piercing
@sandra.mendes279 Жыл бұрын
I think it was needed and I’m happy to see it more and more
@addabhala Жыл бұрын
Love this where can we watch the rest,what do I type can't find it on your channel
@drmichelledaf Жыл бұрын
The interview segments were posted in October 2022, so you have to scroll down a bit. The entire full length interview was posted in December 2022.
@drmichelledaf Жыл бұрын
Here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oYGmqIpuhrSJqtU
@godsowndeploy Жыл бұрын
Luxury is GOD... WITHOUT HIM I HAVE AN AM NOTHING... TOO EXPENSIVE.
@chatwat7832 Жыл бұрын
Luxury is being given everything taken from me. It will come back I declare and decree. It's all the above! 😊😂
@9188jenni Жыл бұрын
representation matters so much. because for me, unless I've seen it, it'll seem foreign. I'm so thankful for this era of people being able to show an example
@kathy8428 Жыл бұрын
Luv ya Jackie Jackie Jackie
@purpleflowers149Ай бұрын
Luxury is having God in your life, spending time with your loved ones, and good health, luxury is loving yourself without putting down or belittling others to make yourself feel good, luxury should not be loud and it is not attention-seeking
@qetsiyah17665 ай бұрын
Where did you get your home screen from?
@didralamond8145 Жыл бұрын
For me, I don't have the money or resources Jackie has but I do have my own style of luxury. Where she may vacation in French, I may only be able to go to Miami. That's okay! Everyone may have a different definition of what luxury is for them and I don't have to keep up with the jones. LOL I may not be able to buy a $250 bottle of perfume but I can buy an $80-$100 bottle but you won't catch me looking down on $5 body sprays!
@ManifestE111 Жыл бұрын
Yes. Yes. Yes.
@Happymind-happyworld. Жыл бұрын
Luxury is peaceful existing Having self love both physically and mentally and just being very stingy with who you let into your space
@Ladyfaithke Жыл бұрын
Luxury is unlimited access to viable life solutions.