Let's Talk ASMR - A Relaxation Session Discussing the Triggers, Community, Future and More

A relaxing ASMR session where I use a few trigger objects such as wooden blocks and bubble wrap while I discuss, contemplate and explore my thoughts and ideas on a wide variety of topics related to the world of ASMR ranging from the triggers to the amazing community and people, the energy involved, spiritual aspects and even the future of ASMR and beyond KZbin.
As always, thanks for watching and for your support.
Namaste!
E.R.
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[@dreamdivination]

A muffled gulp, the delicate smack of lips parting and inadvertent throat noises produced in speech...I don't know if it's intentional, and I have never seen or heard it explicitly mentioned, but these are triggers I particularly enjoy.

[@Whetfaartz1]

yo how ya doin

[@BossDoubloon30]

I love the way this guy explains the subject. He's very down to earth. He simplifies the subject without sacrificing any of ASMR's...I guess you'd say the "finer points" of ASMR. Well done.

[@EphemeralRift]

Denver Chandler Well thank you kindly, I try my best...

[@henrythemasterful]

ER is literally the best ASMRtist out there.

[@unity__3829]

Still holds true to this day

[@DaScribbler]

This is like those ASMR lounge vids that I so enjoy. I really love it when you sit down and dig around your thoughts for things to share. Please share more thoughts on things in an ASMR fashion.

[@EphemeralRift]

Thank you. I appreciate your comment because I sometimes think people don't want to hear what I have to say. I will try to do another Lounge video soon.

[@Norwaykis123]

I really loved this video. The depth of thought you give ASMR is truly remarkable. There's only one ting i disagree on. You are not just a regular guy. You are kind, relatable and seem like a good man all round. Thank you for your thoughts and for the relief you give to so many people. I think that i can speak for all of your subscribers, in that you can have all our gratitude.

[@SquidPartyGames]

I think it's safe to say, everyone is doing a pretty good job growing the ASMR community on youtube - so many videos. The more made the better!

[@EphemeralRift]

Agreed.

[@blackneosnineforty8706]

Ephemeral Rift That was a good video, good sir..... :3 SPINE-TINGLING..... :D Now, if you'll excuse me, I must meet with a man called Chris Crinkle, who has a House, that, well..... Tingles....... :3

[@macejaso]

quantity over quality. where can it go wrong?

[@NinjaNina_D]

As a medical student I found it incredible to learn how ASMR can lower blood pressure and even stop a persons heart attack, truly, it happened on one of my shifts at the ER during my internship, it has to do with all the endorphin's our body is releasing during the process (The Tingling). It is so awesome that we as a species are naturally equipped with a mechanism like this one that can bring so much good into our lives in so many different ways, mother nature and human beings are so incredibly powerful. I Loved this video.

[@hawk622]

+Nina Divine I am a big fan of ASMR, but just gonna say that saying AMSR can stop a heart attack is a bit overreaching. Without knowing the exact situation I'd say it is more likely the medication and specific care that is typically given by EMS or the ER team to individuals potentially having a heart attack. For example most patients are given aspirin and some form of nitroglycerin asap to help with blood thinning and blood vessel dilation respectively.

[@ObviouslyASMR]

Seems like I just learned some new stuff I can try out; thank you sir!

[@InTheMorning]

I think you've made a lot of interesting points here and I appreciate your obvious honesty and enthusiasm. Regarding one topic in particular for which I have direct experience: I'm relatively new to the community and I don't have ASMR triggers myself, but I am into relaxation and meditation. I was introduced by some of my viewers about 2 years ago and I have to say I whole heartily agree with you about the community being full of caring. Most of KZbin is full of people making the comment sections on videos into trash heaps, but 99.99% of the comments I receive on a daily basis are all positive and full of caring. Because this community is awesome. Empathy abound here. Most of my viewers thank me for making their day, but knowing that I can do something like that for someone else, makes my day.

[@Maha-dr6fz]

Your videos are a real therapy to me, thank you so much.

[@emilyhancock3456]

One of the things I love about the ASMR community and that I wish could be more widely spread, is the respect and kindness we afford each other. I don't think there is any other place on the internet so devoid of cruel and rude comments as this one and it's a shame that the rest of it isn't like this

[@EphemeralRift]

The community does get its share of trolls but it's like any community really. The majority are genuinely good people. Thanks for your comment.

[@asmristafan5294]

It is rare to find a fun and relaxing ASMRtist to watch in a pure pleasure and interest. So glad I found you!

[@EphemeralRift]

I'm so glad you found me too! Thanks for your kind words and for watching.

[@mariesoundhaven3720]

I'd love to take a trip inside your mind. You're so full of wisdom, you're a great soul Paul.

[@CoreyQD]

I've been under a lot of stress lately from school and just social interaction overall. I'm not much of a social person and now lately a lot of people have been needing and wanting more of me and it's a lot of stress to me, these videos are really helping me cope and they relieve a lot of stress.

[@alexismanthos2172]

This was the video that introduced me to ASMR, I had no idea what it was before. Now I listen to it almost everyday especially when working 😺

[@gecalebsmith]

And the idea of broadcasting asmr is probably the coolest idea I have ever heard of. I wish someone would do this!!

[@odgykins]

ER, you make your presence so evident in a community primarily dominated by females. You are one of my favorites. Keep doin what you're doin!

[@pijinnn888]

The relaxation blocks are my absolute favourite. And no one has done it as good as you.

[@SharlynRipkaSharzStarz]

I love how you help people in many different ways through talking to us as if we are all your dear friends...

[@brockwie5196]

Ephemeral Rift Dude ever since I have been watching your asmr videos, my anxiety is reduced big time. I am an HSP, always have been. When I get in to a high anxiety state or when I get to stimulated and frustrated, I think back to your HSP info video. It helps to calm me. I wish I could treat you out to a beer just to say thank you for everything you have taught me. I wish you and your family all the best man.

[@Prewrite1]

Saw one of your comments where you said you didn't know if people wanted to hear what you have to say. But I think these are your best videos! I love how long they are and I think your opinions are smart and innovative, especially regarding the ASMR community. Love this stuff, don't stop.

[@EphemeralRift]

I definitely plan on continue making vlogs and Let's Talk type sessions. The majority of people like yourself have been supportive of the idea. So thank you!

[@nonononononononono]

your talks are the best! thank you so much for sharing!

[@carlosmurrah4226]

I believe ASMR is being in a state of observational trance, Not worried about anything other than the current, being aware of everything around you, and the soft noise and movements are like dancing for the brain. Seems to me as if it is the state that a cat would be in when it purrs. Just complete joy, calmness, and relaxation. If it is in fact something every human can do (Which i'm quite certain it is) Then I really hope more people learn to do (appreciate) it because its an amazing part of being a human in my opinion =) Thanks for the vid Ephemeral!

[@jamesallan4485]

This is the only type of video where I fall asleep but not by being bored but relaxed. Great job!!!

[@irisheyes805]

Quiet and soft speaking are wonderful triggers for me whereas whispering isn't and is actually even irritating. Different for each of us. Thank you for the lovely soft speaking here. Whole video is great.

[@celestialpotato7392]

Listening to your ideas about ASMR and personal attention really make sense. The key of feeling taken care of really is what sets my tingles off, but i didn't notice the pattern until you put words to it. There is a lot of brilliance in what you have to say. Minds like yours change the world :)

[@EphemeralRift]

You're quite kind. I just enjoy thinking deeply about things and stirring things around and seeing what I can make sense of personally. Thanks for watching.

[@CS-nw9si]

I've always known I get the sensation (and truly love it), but just recently learned the term ASMR and you can imagine how elated I was when I discovered the ASMR online community. I told both my psychologist and psychiatrist about it, neither of which have heard of it, and they were extremely intrigued. There absolutely needs to be more scientific research behind this phenomena; imagine the mental health and well-being benefits if we were all aware and understanding of ASMR. I'm so grateful for people like you who make these amazing videos that have a true impact on those who experience ASMR. I'm excited for the future of ASMR, I truly believe it can help change the world.

[@fatrat84]

I happened to be totally hammered, angry, after a brutal day of work, and voila - new video from you. Totally calm after 5 minutes. Great stuff as always.

[@Aztesticals]

I often have large amounts of stress from my graduate classes and after a day I love to lie down and just listen to you. your videos are great with or without visuals.

[@ixnexus]

I don't even get ASMR, I just like the sounds.

[@gecalebsmith]

I'm a devout protestant. I disagree with some of the things you said man, but I like your videos and respect you. Praying for u.

[@gecalebsmith]

Why so serious? im trying to relax ;)

[@jemmanola]

Beautiful as always, Ephemeral. Thank you so much!

[@JohnnyyPC]

The true face of Ephemeral Rift has returned! Good to see you Paul ^.^

[@clintclore4055]

Thanks for all you do, the time you spend with us and all you do in ASMR. :)

[@krismer7742]

13:20 got me so nervous. Your right sleeve almost caught on fire with the hand movements. Otherwise, excellent work, as usual.

[@AZHooligans49]

ASMR is new. First comes acknowledgement of ASMR, then comes acceptance. It has only been about 2 years since this phenomenon has been discovered, we need more publicity before anything major occurs.

[@EphemeralRift]

Agreed.

[@ПоЩучьемуВелениюПоМоемуХот-ъ6э]

Alan Chumak (Алан Чумак) was doing an occult procedure of ''remote charging water with healing properties''... TV viewers were supposed to place a container or carafe full of water in front of the TV set ... so that Alan could ''remote charge'' the water ... I remember those sessions well ;)

[@kjnuminous7224]

Your talks and the way you communicate w/ us is hecka good

[@casualbydefault]

Wow just got an asmr related ad... it was about a hardware store in germany.... love how it chooses quieter ads for these vids.

[@iamthewendigo]

Thank you for taking the time to make these videos.

[@sluggo206]

Good ideas here. I'm not a deep ASMR fan but I find some of the talking videos complement the hypnosis/meditation videos and soft-spoken storytelling I'd been listening to. Your point about what if KZbin goes away and nobody in the communities knows how to contact each other is important both for ASMR and beyond. I'd suggest, first, an ASMR website to collect video/audio files independent of KZbin. Second, an Internet radio station, because it would be easier and faster to set up than terrestrial or satellite radio, which could come later. I listen to an Esperanto station (Muzaiko) which broadcasts through Radionomy. They have a 3-hour program which repeats for 24 hours.

[@TheNeop216]

The wooood. The WOOOOOOOD. Oh my god. I fell asleep shortly after the wood blocks. Thank you ER

[@EphemeralRift]

My pleasure! Thanks for sleeping ;)

[@thecatswhiskers]

Sublime as usual... Great ideas for the future Paul, get ASMR out there to the world! Tingle on!😀

[@EphemeralRift]

Thank you kindly :) Just doing my humble little part.

[@sagebismack7404]

I absolutely LOVE your idea for an ASMR radio station. If that was to come into fruition, I, as a comic book geek, would like to host/produce a comic book ASMR program on that channel. Now, I have never done an ASMR video before but i feel that it would be a hit for ASMR/Comic fans. Guys and Gals out there, lets get this ASMR party started!!!!

[@dandm20]

You are the most amazing ASMRtist. Hands down!!!

[@MrHunterZero]

GREAT job mate! tantalizing vid..... u have such a great outlook on life and we all thank u for providing us with such beautiful words and relaxation.... I think u might be onto something there with the radio and shows. Its a terrific idea!! ty again for ur efforts and hard work to keep us relaxed and for us night shift workers like myself we salute and thank k SIR!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@lynnen264]

I totally agree ER, people who love ASMR are highly intune with their world and their bodies

[@DHanzzP]

First time listener-- not sure of what to make of asmr conceptually. But whispering was relaxing while reading and tuning in and out. Thanks.

[@lilo19951995]

I know exactly what you mean...I think it was you who said (in one of your previous videos) that a really cool thing to exist would be ASMR lounges where people live perform triggers and such. People all sit down at little tables and wear headphones and just listen and enjoy (^ u ^) I really wish something like that could exist. Thank you for your insights

[@rlatprjs1]

ER is the best ASMR artist. I sometimes wonder how many more subs he would have if he was a hot gril

[@arcxcc]

Lol wut?

[@arcxcc]

Opa Pelailee oh. he said gril soooo

[@lehtokurppa7824]

CM Cardenas Lol, missed that

[@user-gq8ht4nw7i]

Hot grills are nice, can cook a savory steak

[@ethanyeeyee2796]

+CM Cardenas some people say gril instead of girl

[@Clodect]

Keep up the good work, you are the best ASMR youtuber! Thank you for your videos!

[@FedeleEFX]

When you started talking about the essence of empathy, I realized that I believe you would really enjoy the film The Darjeeling Limited, as it's theme lies within that idea. Also it's comedic, yet heartfelt and intelligent. Beautiful cinematography and color as well. (It's set on a train going through India)

[@EphemeralRift]

I do need to watch that film. Thanks for mentioning and recommending it!

[@MrPlaidFace]

I enjoyed every word of this, thanking you for sharing this.

[@jshWhelan]

I have a trigger that associates with effort. When someone is trying to do something really intensely for a good cause. They are trying to help someone or save something and they are trying so hard. It matters so much to them I just get tingles.

[@colorsred2771]

This video made my ASMR light up like a Christmas Tree, well done Ephemeral Rift

[@gtheg130]

I LOVE the fade-away exits

[@Maunalee]

Your videos always make me think. I like that. Thank you.

[@moongirlgetszapped]

Someday when we're all part of the collective soul/knowledge/whateveryou'recallingit....asmr will look like the rudimentary beginnings of people getting the *feel* for each other with evolving (possibly new) senses. Or something like that.

[@EphemeralRift]

Love the way you think Moon :) Thanks for dropping by.

[@moongirlgetszapped]

I drop by more than you think-but I'd get lost in comment land and become just another comment, un noticed. But I am watching you.....LOLZ

[@lynnen264]

As I always say ER, your talks are the best ever.....most soothing voice, lighting,wonderful face :) Beautiful kind Eyes

[@EphemeralRift]

You're too kind. Thanks as always Lynne

[@russell6646]

I have a question for your idea about ASMR radio. Would it be safe? i mean dont most people listen to the radio in their cars? Wont this be a problem since ASMR can make you sleepy?

[@charlessears1715]

I like your thought process. It's very innovative. I've been keeping up with your channel back when you had like 5,000 subs. I also remember when you accidentally deleted your channel lol. Anyways keep up the good work. Your videos and herb are what get me through the night.

[@Ankie3011]

You look good P :) You look so tanned aswell...... :) -hope everything is going well.... Hugs

[@EphemeralRift]

Hey you! Where have you been? I hope all is well. Don't be a stranger. Thanks for dropping by :)

[@SharlynRipkaSharzStarz]

I absolutely adore your ASMR videos😊💞

[@LandOfSteez]

Very interesting thoughts on the purpose of ASMR and spirituality. I agree that it is part of something bigger but we can't quite explain it yet. From personal experience and studying other faiths, I believe the "energy that brings everything together" most religions try to address has something to do with love. I think love is the reason we are all here and continue to exist, so maybe ASMR is a part of that?

[@jonathanstevens3040]

Another amazing video. Thanks Uncle E!

[@RaidersLove20]

Great video man!! The radio thing would be kind of scary if someone fell asleep while driving. The Asmr TV thing would be great though!! You could have like talk shows and stuff but with whispering haha :)

[@JohnnyyPC]

HHNNNGGGHH. That hand motion part had me paralyzed! Love the video so far ER. :)

[@TheWhisperingFrog]

Very good. one of the best vids I think you have done. really liked the ASMR Lounge vids. and this was even better. Keep up the good work :@)

[@dantehikari1]

Awesome as usually

[@seren1ty930]

I think the radio station idea is great! I would love it.

[@Leiaza]

ya listening to ER I fall asleep like 10-20 mins in I just see a lot of people falling to sleep if they were listening to ER in their cars.

[@NickBishop]

I think internet radio would be cool, so that way it wouldn't affect drivers as much maybe

[@adriansalinas7374]

Salam aleikum ... you soften people's hearts with videos like this one

[@JFDffdp]

I've gotta say ER that I loved this talk, so thought provoking!! I couldn't help but draw a parallel between what you're saying about the next stage in our evolution and what Russell Brand has been saying in recent times!! If you haven't already I think you should check out some of his recent inquests into the spiritual self and how we as a species can come together and act for the progression of humanity!! He doesn't always say it in the most serious of ways but the fundamental message is strikingly similar!! That there is a higher frequency of consciousness and union that connects everyone and that if we align ourselves with this higher frequency, be it through ASMR or meditation or music, then we will have reached or next level of evolution and can achieve so much more than the individual.. Would love to see a vid from you discussing your thoughts regarding this topic further. Keep up the amazing work, and thanks for such a great video x

[@EphemeralRift]

I will try! Thanks for your comment!

[@21chemists9]

absolutely loved the video, but you scared the crap out of me at 13:39, the flame touches your sleeve!!! What kind of shirt are you wearing? Sorry for the weird question, but I work with fire a lot, and a shirt like that would be helpful!

[@ASMRGRATITUDE]

Asmr radio or TV shows would be awesome!

[@hotchowder]

Not sure how much I like the idea of people listening to ASMR while driving to and from work. Driving is already dangerous enough..

[@Lankari]

Its's about watching people do things, services specifically, for you. It's the personal attention. It's not about specific sounds or watching someone play with a PS3 controller for no reason. It requires showmanship. Making an event out of, for example, putting aloe on a person's wounds, as ER has done at least a few times, is an example of what is in my opinion real ASMR. ER's first Santa's Helper is still one of the best ASMR videos I've ever seen. I still go back to it. His woods ones are good too, especially when he gets you things from his backpack. It is NOT just whispering into a microphone as so many people do while labeling it ASMR.

[@EphemeralRift]

Different strokes for different folks. But I will say that personal attention is probably the main trigger. Thanks for your comment.

[@elliotrodgers6702]

I feel you brother There are ways in which we can bring that ASMR sensation, and the exercises we've developed around it, to bear in a conscious society. I think bringing it out into the art of the day is a great way to go...at least, that's something I've dreamt of doing for about 7 years now :-) hopefully one day I can get back to you about this and say, hey check this out man, be a part of this. Fingers crossed, I'm going for it. I hope you and your wife and son are doing well. The same things you were saying about ASMR being a ball of energy that can turn out to be something really special, if treated as such, sounded much like a parent talking about a precious child. Reminded me that you have a son. I hope you're all doing well :-)

[@TheMineyist]

This is a very relaxing video. I have a question though, do you get ASMR when you are making these videos? Or does it only work when you listen to them through the microphone?

[@WOGZHACKS]

I really enjoy these sorts of videos! Keep it up :)

[@CoinHuntingDrew]

Very interesting theories, the one about being a person with empathy and sensitive is a very interesting thought of it. When you talk about the fate of ASMR, and youtube in general, in my opinion I think youtube will be everlasting for a long while. Who knows, it may be around for another 5 years, 10, or even longer like 50+.

[@EphemeralRift]

I hope so! :)

[@Oplutmagicman]

Whoa! Whenever you get a new trim you look so much younger! It's amazing. With a beard and some growth on top you look aged and wise, then when you have a trim you look reborn XD

[@VampireHoliday]

I thought emotions and music was more tied to frisson? Also, you've put in so much work these last couple weeks and I just want to thank you for the great material you've put out.

[@EphemeralRift]

Hey thanks, it's my pleasure. I don't know about frisson. Could be, but I can tell you the feelings are the same for me personally.

[@TheASMRPlanet]

ASMR Radio is a brilliant idea, I would love to tune in to my favourite artists. I might do an RP for that one day if you don't mind ;)

[@falloutseriesftw]

I experienced ASMR watching Food Network as a kid. Now, the only time I experience it is on binaural videos. It just relaxes me mostly.

[@14stevestick]

Very good ideas ephemeral

[@jackie62]

Once you got to talking about the real world one things crossed my mind and that is that while many asmr things would be ok in a real life setting, there are also things that I for one only get the asmr experience from via the mic.... many sounds are made so wonderful this way.... crinkly bags in real life don't do anything for me but watching a vid of someone slowly/quietly crinkling does..... guess it would just be a case of finding out all the things that work one way or another.

[@EphemeralRift]

Well maybe if the real life place was soundproof from the outside world and was almost like a massage parlor, with different rooms, but instead of getting a massage.. people crinkled bags. LOL I know, but hey... you never know... it's gotta start somewhere I would think.. thanks for your comment.

[@DmitryShvedchenko]

Hahahaha!!! Alan Chumack!!! Friends of my grandmother would charche water near the TV set during his program.

[@votemonty1815]

I'm from the future and ER controls the ASMR community. He is Uncle to us all.

[@doggo9421]

Stephan Monroy I’m more future than u

[@RustyPipesable]

I just watched a trailer for a documentary called "Following The Ninth", and got some of the most intense ASMR that i've had in a long time. Just thought i'd let you guys know, Its amazing!!

[@jcos_currency]

I love how the one candle kept randomly making a sparky noise hahaha it was almost scary

[@MrRemorseless]

My friend, I dig your channel, I love your passion and I agree so much with you, but I do believe you should rehearse some things for these kinds of videos to make them more fluent. After all, it's the fluency of vids that gives us these triggers. And hesitation, be it verbal or physical, does tend to break the immersion. Also, personally the sounds and smells of the dentist give me intense asmr triggers. I love the sound of the tools they use to check the teeth - the mirrors, the hooks to examine gums, the way they pull gently on the tooth to check its stability. My god, I wish I had the money for weekly checkups!

[@macbassett14]

HEY!!! i loved this video and I've got a quick question. Are you going to continue the Relaxing Dead series? especially after last weeks controversial episode?

[@maxpowers3494]

When you started talking about ticks and lice I remembered this documentary that mentioned that communal grooming in animals and humans releases endorphin's that improve one's mood.

[@businessasmr1775]

Nice ideas. Also asmr concerts with wireless headphones might be a thing

[@roomhairs]

Awesome video!

[@upnudirty896]

You almost burnt your shirt at 13:40 😂😂

[@craigs6045]

+kyle pullin He did; it's black underneath afterwards :)

[@Reece634]

oh my god thats fucked

[@Aanthanur]

As a social animal, caring for your fellow group members is a evolutionary advantage icreasing the group's survival chances. Interesting ideas so far

[@Leiaza]

First off just wanted to say you were recommended to me by ASMRrequests. Second of all I deal with PTSD my therapists wanted to put me on REM but they said since watching you and ASMRrequests that it has helped with my disorder some but it's a slower process. I seriously rather listen to you then pay a therapist millions of dollars heck I rather pay you millions of dollars if it will help with my disorder.

[@EphemeralRift]

Thank you for the kind words and I'm glad to hear you are on the path to recovery it sounds like. Keep working and keep at it. Day by day I hope you'll grow stronger and get to a safe place :) Take care.

[@Leiaza]

Your welcome I love your video's most of all I feel like your getting one on one with me personally and that really helps when I am having the worst of days.

[@SquidPartyGames]

Ephemeral Rift Check out MassageASMR session with an ASMR artist, sounds like what you're speaking of.

[@Fan_Made_Videos]

Maybe you can petition TED to allow you to give a presentation, in ASMR format of course, at their next gathering?