letting go is what makes it stay

[@cecerataza]

"How can you make any wrong turns on your journey? How can your story be written incorrectly if youre the one writing it?" This really put me at ease because i tend to overthink every decision and try to see the outcome before i even put it into action.

[@GThaTruth.]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@simoneasquith3806]

'you're gonna be here regardless. you might as well just be you' Y E S .

[@BillyBologna333]

“In letting go of treating yourself like a project, you allow yourself to develop “. I am 60 years old and … wow… just wow. Thank you for this video young man.

[@ZumaXaki]

All respect to you as well. The youth need a leader.

[@yuleydiperezz]

“How can your story be written incorrectly if you’re the one writing it” wowwwwww👏🏽

[@brodysamson8033]

I just need to be honest you really helped me truly appreciate my life and understand that my purpose in life is to just truly live. I was talking to a girl yesterday about how worthless I was and how I wanted to unalive myself but I then found your videos. You and her helped me get through that time as I now realize that you are truly an amazing person and I also realized that even me, I am an amazing person. It really made me happy for the first time in years and I smiled genuinely for what felt like forever. After watching your videos I talked to her and she helped me laugh genuinely in 6 years. I went to bed last night truly happy and woke up today realizing that I can be a new person and that new person is truly just being myself instead of being someone else for others. So thank you Eyan.

[@sprd-luv]

i hope and pray that ur happiness is perpetual and everlasting. amen

[@mohamedkamara8225]

Glad you got to this point

[@debunkedlettuce3572]

you got this!! it may get hard but then it’ll get better again you matter and you have the strength to create the good life u deserve, u have the strength clearly because you’re still here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@profoundpondering8575]

I’m so glad bro

[@1D0N.1]

!!!!!!!

[@ydd_dizzy]

the way popularity is is idolized in our society messes up our perception of just being human

[@conlawmeateater8792]

Sometimes being unique makes you popular. Conforming grows stale

[@thaconqueror777]

I agree

[@Lee-xw7gf]

“You can’t walk the path without taking the steps.” So powerful from the start

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@kyle1732]

"What am I doing with my life. Open your eyes and see" Bruhh that goes wayy to hard.

[@cddrive34]

I noticed since I was young, one of the hardest things for me to accept was goodbyes. This ties into my ability to let go in a bigger sense. I’m slowly getting better but I see this as an area I still struggle. Thanks for the words

[@rdtfghj1238]

i have the same issue and i want to stop clinging to whats familiar

[@cddrive34]

@@rdtfghj1238 I feel that, we are creatures of habit so breaking those habits is hard. I’ve found you have to have a good “why” to want to change and better yourself. And also cling to yourself bro, I believe in you and send you my support

[@morgann17]

Bro, i've let myself go so bad I can't even recognise myself a few months ago. I'm sat here writing a bunch of stuff you said to try and grow me better. You have a gift and I'm so glad you're preaching what you have to say. Seriously, thank you from the bottom of my heart, I will try and grow better and better each day.

[@dices.]

we are here with you

[@chris_bean12]

"If you're in your head, how can you be here"? This hit me like a truck, I have a problem with overthinking with my relationship and its been feeling weird after because it still feels like something is wrong. But what you said really opened a whole new perspective for me, I tend to be in my head a lot of the times we call and its been rough these past few weeks. I overthink about her talking to another person behind my back, or falling out of love with me. Her past tends to bug me a little but knowing how to let go is an important thing because it can cause a lot of damage without even knowing. So hearing this really helped on how I am just intoxicating my own mind as myself, but also my love relationship as well, I thank you Profound Pondering.

[@baddestliyah]

this man is wise AND fine

[@Ronaldoisboss]

I'm in the process of letting go of someone wonderful who had to leave before things got serious because she finally had the courage to face her demons on her own and keep me out of it since she didn't want to hurt me. She realized she couldn't give me her full attention because she would further lose herself. We agreed we can't speak unless she's in a better place. I wish I could send her this video, not to tell her how I feel but because it's wonderful. In the meantime I'm learning to move on. This is my first heartbreak.

[@lostconsciousness]

You know man. I cant express how well spoken your words are. They hit like daggers. Thanks for helping me realize that nothing worth having is easy. Its made me truly appreciate everything. I will always make mistakes, but dwelling on them only hurts me.

[@profoundpondering8575]

W

[@jjturner7463]

i'm going through a very rough breakup right now. i recognize my actions that led me to where we are in the relationship, and i've been practicing and working on all the things that i know i need to work on. my biggest problem now is, not knowing if i'll ever get the chance to make things right. to do all this work and become a better man, only to give it a stranger vs the girl who was with me when i was an asshole. she deserves it more than anyone, and i don't know if i'll ever get that chance again. i know i need to make these changes for myself, to be better for myself, and happy with myself. But it's hard to just ignore the possibility of living a life without her. we'd only been together for about 4 years, but it was like 4 years of all day everyday. we built such a strong connection, and she's the only girl i've ever thought about a future with, house, kids names, everything. you really don't understand the value of something until you no longer have it

[@axel7801]

Im sorry youre going through this but I hope youre doing well

[@Ap9-q5f]

Im in the exact and spot

[@prakhya123]

Not to be weird but I hurt him in our relationship. I feel exactly how you feel. Growing and learning, becoming better just to not have a future again with him hurts to even think about. But now, this is my life and I have to deal with it. I have to learn how to live without him. Now he is with someone else, it kills me to think thar he treats her as good as he treated me, I can never get him back again. I will just get better for my future connections with other men. Even though it was just 2 years, I will always cling on to those memories forever.

[@Ap9-q5f]

@@prakhya123 did he move on quick

[@prakhya123]

@@Ap9-q5f he actually had been talking to another girl (whom I know of) for months but still giving me attention......When I had the guts to actually, you know, confess my feelings, he switched lol. He ghosted me and went towards her all because she texted him more than me ( I was busy with my studies, I have trouble managing my connections along with studies). Its okay though, I am not the type of girl he wanted, things would have ended at some point, it is better that they did ( in Feb).It was never meant to be tbh.

[@FelDivan]

“A lot of our life is in reference” hard

[@redblazer29]

meaning? we look at others and see how they're living and try to emulate that?

[@xavluc]

"in preparation for the future thought is amazing, but the application of it happens in the present". spitting wisdom right here, thanks bro

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@GThaTruth.]

How can you make any wrong turns on your journey? How can your story be written incorrectly? If you’re the one writing it! Sometimes you make mistakes, most of the time you make choices. My guy is special! 🙌🏾

[@aimat2715]

I appreciate these videos so much. And the fewer views these videos get, the less people need these. And I think that's beautiful.

[@profoundpondering8575]

Real

[@gabrield8385]

im currently in a very strange transitional phase in life right now, and your videos are the backbone to my growth. as i enter college, i’ve removed all social media and have given myself more time to myself. i internalize your words and it fills the silence. i’ve been looking for new perspectives. thank you for sharing a piece of yourself.

[@GMG-v9ff]

I feel you man, I just finished college and am in a very weird transitional faze :/

[@madeaqueen2251]

Bar for bar!!! I can’t wait to get home to listen to this again, and really let it marinate… I appreciate the new found perspective you’ve shared ! Thank you! ❤

[@shirleympati]

"Watch life happen than look for life." 💯 There's too many many beautiful quotes in this video. #CarpeDiem

[@daricruz235]

your videos truly do ground me & it's just so refreshing.

[@HomechillGaming]

I’m gonna start my day with one of your videos. I feel like it will give a lense to view the day with and ponder on. Respect brother keep making these

[@zackgreth7838]

🙌🏽same here brother

[@patricia-kc5kx]

"if you're stuck in your head, how can you be here ?" Damn.

[@gloriouslyaesthetic]

I truly appreciate your videos, my brothe. Truly, thank you for shining the light. 🙏

[@Mzbal998]

I am a person in recovery and your videos help me a bunch. I am working a 12 step program and focusing 100% on making my life the life I always wanted to live. I really needed to hear this message today. I am a few days over 2 months clean and sober and hearing your messages brings me back to where I need to be mentally. Thank you

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@KaneHankins00]

My mindset after watching this=📈📈

[@profoundpondering8575]

W

[@nathalyaoliveira8896]

I’m dealing with the loss of people I’ve loved dearly and moments of life I truly cherished. It’s been depressing and there are days I just don’t feel anything. But your videos are one of the things that are helping me get through that. Thank you very much.

[@biancagonz-o]

you came to me at such a right time. i get too caught up in questioning myself and scarcely let myself and my mind be, just think things and experience this universe without judgement. thank you

[@finesseb305]

really going through some shit these last few months. the past year has definitely been the worst of my life it’s crazy how fast stuff can go down. i feel very lost idk man. these videos be hitting hard thanks for your wisdom my guy.

[@connor-td3jj]

"You cant walk the path without taking the steps". I dont know why but this one really hit me and i would like to just say thank you for making this content as its helped me develop the way i think and look at life. Once again thank you.

[@Titohan]

"sometimes you make mistakes, most times you just make choices"

[@MEISURHUSBAND]

This is the first video I've seen from you and my perspective on life has completely changed. Thank you for that.

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@Aman-lt3pf]

I’m just 20 but going through a lot i had plans for my life since i was 15 been a road downhill for a year now almost lost everything i had or valued the people the financials and everything I’m learning the art of letting go your videos act like my dad who use to talk to me about life but he’s not with me anymore, i’m so glad you’re here for these videos bro

[@Rixkythedon]

you open my eyes to the world and the parts of myself I don’t normally acknowledge with each video 🙏🏻

[@HannahGladney]

“you don’t have to try to act like yourself, just be you.”

[@metulip6003]

Man your videos make me feel something. Thank you for doing what you do🙏🏽

[@ranpo9339]

changing or not comes only after acceptance is so true

[@carmiebbt]

you are so eloquent, and comforting. i've been going through some things and i have been trying to figure out how to let go of my current situation as it has my heart aching, thank you for the compassion and perspective you provide in this!

[@j.k.warren3757]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. You’ve guided me immensely throughout the year in approaching adversity and being present. You’re making an incredible impact on myself and others.

[@evelynbaek4774]

The depth of your thoughts really makes me feel less isolated in this world. Your videos are so profound and authentic. More of what this world needs.

[@fatihcollak7751]

I was just going to sleep ,i was really tired of to be honest everything and now i feel actually in peace. Tomorrow is a big day and of course a new day LETSSS GOOO THANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@ToastedToast198]

I like to watch these videos simply to listen to your perspective on day to day emotional navigation. It’s like building upon what should be known as common thought and I really appreciate that. I work in the healthcare field and I hear so often of people referencing good days, wishing for better days, but it’s so important to just let go. Let go of the feelings of the past and the feelings of what we assume the future will be like. It helps me keep a positive attitude for my patients and helps me grounded to better help them and keep my spirits up when times get tough. Everyday is a day to realize I am life and I am the driving factor to my environment. Really appreciate your ability to explain and expand on your thoughts and perspectives on life and such, thank for another great video!

[@destinysaye5217]

“It’s easy to get lost in the detail of consciousness.” wow

[@mtonic3352]

You have helped me with the big changes in my life right now between silence and chaos you’re like a friend I can sit and nod my head to.

[@oliviavalenzuela7857]

I found a video of yours on TikTok and I resonated with it so much. I looked up your KZbin channel and was blown away at how you're able to delitcaltley articulate exactly how I feel. I appreciate your videos so much. 💕

[@JohnSmith-g1v]

Your videos have really helped me bro, I have been in a bad spot recently and watching your videos have really helped me start to get through it. Keep uploading these man it always makes my day when I watch one of your vids.

[@ksniderdesign]

your voice is so calm and really helps these messages download 🙏

[@BZaragoza04]

Yoooo the timing of this video is crazy! I was watching your video about the law of detachment earlier. Your content is great bro I appreciate what you’ve put out, it’s helped a lot

[@joywilliams2821]

literally bringing this knowledge to my counseling internship this coming fall semester!! ..ur words hold a heavy impact truly 🙏🏾

[@leball]

i’m currently going through one of the most confusing and puzzling times in my life, i’m going to the navy and won’t see the girl i’ve been seeing for a few months until december, i’ve been so confused but you’re videos are really helping. thank you

[@DaveSuchilt]

This guy read the power of now i see it in the bac., Lots of wisdom can be taken from that book.

[@seisvv]

its hard to break out of the mindset of living in reference especially when it’s been painful experiences. Ive been on a self growth journey and it’s hard to navigate on my own. I lose sight of the journey a lot but your videos help me snap out of it and start switching to a more present perspective while keeping in mind the past but not living in it. ❤

[@jebsenaddun7356]

being able to let go, is holding yourself together

[@profoundpondering8575]

Yes

[@ceciliaswendso]

Man did I need to click on this one today!! You always speak volumes. ❤

[@linamorelia4715]

thank you sm you're healing something in me i didn't know was broken

[@Caramelinfused]

Me too he’s just so insightful

[@Jo-jackson]

I wish this guy one days shares his diet. Whatever he drink and eat is 🔥. Great job and thanks and PLEASE KEEP GOING!! 😀

[@MindfulMulling]

One of your best videos.

[@alexiscrocker885]

I held on to every word you said, you are beautiful and thank you for this video

[@Jakehab01928]

This advice is very great thank you man! First time watching.

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@avant-garde8602]

Hey I was having an emotional breakdown earlier and this video helped me calm down. Thanks :) Lost sight of what truly matters for a moment there.

[@jaydencameron5538]

I could listen to you for hours

[@LYJmusic]

Needed to hear this. Thanks 🎉

[@Caramelinfused]

If it’s not in your hand it shouldn’t be in your mind don’t control outcomes let life be ❤ I’m really learning here thank you 🙏

[@jeffreyjamessb]

thanks man i feel so much better in my head.

[@simonsjoholm96]

Really needed to hear this at this time. Thank you

[@bellad777]

You’re helping me through some confusing times thank you

[@burnett.kaylaa]

needed to hear this. thank you

[@victoriaortiz3394]

“ you can’t walk the path without taking any steps “ ‼️

[@scpp127]

choices, not mistakes!!! i love that

[@skyler9295]

you been my apart of my guidance when i most need it. most people don’t think like we.

[@skyler9295]

you mentioned trying to grasp control over our thoughts but i wanna add. “by trying to hold control over everything you now have control over nothing. but once you learn to let go you’ll find the light at the end of the tunnel. hold on for me”

[@skyler9295]

appreciate you a lot man 🙌

[@skyler9295]

when you brought up, allow things to be unknown is something i just had a realization about last night. i was thinking about my life and the choices i’ve made to be where i’m at now because i’d always love to aspire better for myself and i’ve always known somewhat without knowing i know it. but i got stuck in wanting to know more and more and more. then got tangled in the cobwebs lol. there’s always gonna be information you missed or never even come across that maybe you will 20 years from now. everything you say is beautiful and purely coming from the heart.

[@gaffgaff6885]

You helped me out man i wish just the best for you

[@Strixs]

at my lowest again. it was spontaneous too, i have no idea why it came back. i keep telling myself its a temporary feeling, but its so hard to accept. im not able to let go of these feelings no matter how hard i try, i just have to wait until my brain's ready again to start trying. no realizations are helping now, it's a sort of brain chemistry that won't let me be. last week was very good too, i was on the up. now, it feels like im back to square one.

[@profoundpondering8575]

@@Strixs then climb back up

[@profoundpondering8575]

@@Strixs sometimes we get pushed back down to see unresolved issue

[@Zuhaileysinthelife]

Your words speak, your words help me be my highest self , you made me realize you do everything for yourself. You change my perspective on the world. crazy what words can do. And crazier how i can make an action, to change.

[@miguelcarlon5025]

Thanks brother this what I needed to hear today!

[@ilysunnie]

thank you for existing. ❤

[@profoundpondering8575]

Thank you

[@angelofautumn]

def needed to hear this, thank u so much

[@trulylexa]

I love watching you , you be talking real spill and your handsome 🥹

[@cosmic7ny]

most gratitude to you eyan 💞!!your videos truly do help.

[@Uhhh22]

“Not necessarily acknowledging it as a negative thing but as a thumbthing…a thumbthing.” Hahaha so cute

[@FrostGemMonster54]

I thought the same thing

[@barbaradominguez777]

“period!”😂 new consciousness unlocked 💯

[@bossanovalvr]

you keep me grounded with theses videos; thank you

[@isouille]

Lil Nas X shared this video on his instagram story 🎉

[@OuuulalaRiRi]

Every single day I have to watch your uploads it’s amazing what you’re doing I’m proud of you ❤

[@Dumpyyling]

fully described how I feel about being present in the moment

[@piepielj]

Upon a recent conversation with my therapist, an idea that I haven’t really been able to work out or through is this: why do we feel so loyal to our suffering? Like when we hold on to the wrongs that were done to us, as if we have some type of loyalty towards our 18 year old (or whatever age it happened) self that went through that turmoil. From a personal perspective, to maybe help clarify, I feel as though I’m betraying my 17-19 year old self (the person whose habits got me through everything and helped me survive) just by truly letting go of the behaviors and habits that no longer serve me. Why can I not let that version of myself go without feeling guilty or feeling like I’m letting her down or abandoning her? I guess maybe it could be that I would rather be the person suffering than the person causing the suffering? Like if I don’t identify with the sufferer, what do I identify as? If I don’t continue the suffering pattern, why does that make me feel guilty? Hopefully that sorta makes sense, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this, cause been internally struggling a lot with this recently, while also seeing others around me struggling to let go of the loyalty they have to their suffering.

[@abrahunkmaslow]

thank u 🦋

[@sprd-luv]

god bless u brotha

[@a1y444]

I am about to be a senior in literally a week I feel my goals in life don’t connect with my friends goals and I have such a vast feeling of leaving them and being on my own and not gaf I don’t know what’s stopping me I know they don’t really care the way that I care I wanna learn how to be ok with being alone with myself, give myself that comfort that I get from people

[@profoundpondering8575]

You got this

[@FelipeLawall3710]

Needed this video l, really appreciate you man

[@be_happyy3]

you're amazing... thank you, I needed it

[@hyd119]

I like your channel and your introspection. I see that MF DOOM album behind you. I want to be your friend simply because of that. I miss MF a lot. "Ever since the womb til i’m back where my brother went, that’s what my tomb’ll say"

[@profoundpondering8575]

Yes sir

[@thesofiacode6336]

This made me cry.

[@eggzbenedict4150]

I really needed this, thanks a lot

[@willdixon7951]

Yo bro I’ve been with your channel for a bit now and you are killing it. Where did you learn the skill to talk so freely and educated? I feel that I read a lot which helps but you seem to spit non stop bars so effortlessly and it’s so profound (no pun intended)

[@GinevraFlorida]

I love the way you think man🙏

[@patricia-kc5kx]

bro is spitting BARSSSSS

[@danielastark76]

Thank you i needed to hear that right now! This made my Day:)

[@kermit637]

These help so much I keep watching