Times Aren't Looking Good For Average Men

[@monk4ever]

After all these years I finally found the ONE. ....... I AM the *ONE.*

[@Well-Put]

Do you know Kung Fu?

[@MrJames-eb6rp]

💀 ​@@Well-Put

[@monk4ever]

@@Well-Put I met Jet Li once, so that counts.

[@jhp4012]

Yooooo I love this. Gotta love yourself and put yourself first! Amen to that

[@user-buck-b7j]

White zombie did a song about you

[@focusdrew717]

I’m 36 just paid my house off, have motorcycle, truck, car, hobbies. I had good success in my teens, twenty’s, and early 30s. With women. Just nothing stuck and now it’s a dumpster fire. I still get women but it’s much harder by far and I’m above average in looks. What I’ve learned is nothing is worth your freedom at this point! Life is still good

[@SolutionOrientedMan]

Why is it harder now?

[@brianmeen2158]

I’m on your age range and above average looking as well and I have solid game. I can attract women fairly easily but I honestly find the entire courting/dating process pretty mind numbing at this point . It really doesn’t help things that the women I meet in my age group tend to be jaded and have at least 1 kid and they can’t wait to dump their trauma on you. So it’s hard for me to relate to guys that don’t get attention from women but I do relate to the guys that struggle to find a somewhat attractive and remotely compatible woman .

[@Geraldbrucejr]

Keep on riding is the best way to go bud grip it and rip it !

[@edhog]

Why is it harder? I’m 35 and in the same position, just scooped my 2022 road glide sports bagger from the dealer… looking forward to this summer and the bikini boat parties. Spin plates bro have a blast

[@sammencia7945]

I am 60+. Men "hit the wall" at age 37. In that, 18 yo women see you as "a totally older man yuck". You may get some success to 43 but then it will fall off a cliff. Age gracefully and know when to stop.

[@jrd3675]

Average no longer makes the cut. The world is intensely competitive.

[@thedon0516]

But that's ironic cause most men & women in the world are average tho

[@krazzyvibestv8657]

So true man just greeting a beautiful woman is a struggle if your pockets ain't full of money

[@gravemind3859]

Facts. It touches all aspects of life. Dating, mating, careers. As Capitalism furthers in time, the game has opportunity shrink. The most genetically gifted are the ones reaping the majority of the benefits.

[@Frank-pc2rs]

Best move is to not compete. Enjoy the quiet and whatever hobby you like and be happy.

[@MarkanVaran7]

@@Frank-pc2rs or compete with yourself.

[@BREEZYM6015]

One failed marriage was enough for me. I'm staying single. 😂

[@killionaire486]

good choice brother dont fall for it again 🫡

[@coryleblanc]

stay celibate forever, do it

[@ghostinthemachine8243]

You spent your time in the penalty box, so enjoy your freedom.

[@joepic85]

I hear ya. Me too. 1 and done lol

[@taras3702]

Same here, no regrets.

[@kareemcallender3799]

Things are horrible for below average man. I'm 5'7. Black. Poor background. I have to work 2 jobs, bust my ass in the gym, dress well at all time and cultivate good social skills just to not get treated like an absolute dog. Things have been slowly getting better with age though. Hard work and a decent attitude gets you a long way.

[@highfxorthis780]

Go overseas Colombia Phillipines you well have more options than you can handle

[@darkheart3770]

Don't care so much about what women think of you my friend. It's an ugly trait, to everyone, not just women..

[@kareemcallender3799]

@@darkheart3770 Yeah I just turned 30. IDGAF anymore

[@darkheart3770]

@@kareemcallender3799 Keep giving a fuck but only about the things you give a fuck about. But don't box yourself in with that "I'm this, I'm that" mindset. You'll be good man. Just don't do all the self improvement stuff for women, do it for you. I believe in you.

[@williamparrish2436]

@@darkheart3770 That is horrible advice haha! He's not boxing himself in, society is. That's like saying a woman should wear whatever she wants in the darkest alley and expect no trouble. Maybe no one should touch her, but damn if she shouldn't know how people see her. All he's saying is when you are short poor black man that nobody is checking for you. Those are just facts!

[@bmelvin1234]

If Tom Brady is getting cheated on we’re all screwed

[@bluoval3481]

Don't waste your time chasing butterflies. Mend your garden, and the butterflies will come. And if they don't, you'll still have your beautiful garden.

[@CodyDaGoat_]

🙌🏼👏🏼

[@AZITHEMLGPRO]

Cringe cope

[@TIgodzilla1]

Snakes ans wasps likes nice gardens too.

[@bradschwamberger1217]

At 64 being single for years, I have given up. No matter what a man does, its not enough.

[@prasmitdevkota4251]

You gotta keep trying. You should not give up.

[@masteryoda498]

@@prasmitdevkota4251 Mate, he is 64, who do you think he is going to pick up, a Stacey?

[@coryleblanc]

@@prasmitdevkota4251 nah, women should like us for who we are, they dont do anything to improve themselves either

[@kenkoza873]

63 here same boat

[@prasmitdevkota4251]

@@masteryoda498 lmao. I didn’t mention he would need a Stacey. Just someone to be with him. No matter what age you are you still need love and company. He can definitely look for single women in their 50s who are in similar situation single and looking for love.

[@Pazuzu-]

When the game is rotten and rigged, you'll win if you quit.

[@brianmeen2158]

Quit and do what? Sit around and feel Sorry for yourself?

[@Pazuzu-]

@@brianmeen2158 No. Do something else with yourself, like was said in the video (I recommend lifting and retrogaming).

[@monk4ever]

Most poons are rotten, but it doesn't stop men from wanting it.

[@zaq1337]

@@brianmeen2158 if that’s how you decide to view yourself, that’s a you problem. Sigma males aren’t doing that lol

[@zachmitchell9982]

All you got is the self... Nothing else matters, the more you do in this matrix the harder it gets. Self love, self acceptance, and observing the game for what it is, is apparently what's happening.

[@js5189]

I don't even hold doors open for women now unless she is old

[@Ominiumshadow24]

Dont do it for anyone old either. They allowed this mess to happen.

[@mistermiyagi6073]

@@Ominiumshadow24 come on old people get a pass they're from a time when feminism didn't even exist. But these young 304s I close the door in their face actually

[@Gunshow86]

Today's average man is tomorrow's hot commodity. Do not simp. PERIOD

[@danieldigiuseppe7912]

What do you mean?

[@takumifujiwara4503]

Gigacope, unless somehow our technological society will collapse

[@martinsvensson6884]

@@takumifujiwara4503 Everything goes in cycles.

[@yoshi314]

it will be tomorrow's old single man.

[@rattlehead999]

@@danieldigiuseppe7912 Importnat part is not to simp, if men treated women like women treat men, we'd be in a much better place.

[@Moriningland]

I think you’ve got to ask yourself if the game is worth playing. For me, I had to give up because it was effecting my mental health and making me feel like crap with the one life I’m ever going to have. I’ve been in the gym, paid off my debt, I travel a lot, but I’m done feeling bad for being a loner. Love your content brother

[@caesar2050]

Playing the game was funny like 15 years ago. Now it is like walking in a sh* rain. Not worthy.

[@DoritosBurger]

If you only knew how good you had it. Sure it would be nice if we could get all the women but we can’t have everything in life. Let’s just learn to appreciate the things we do have and find enjoyment in those things. It’s not the end of the world if you can’t bang every girl you find attractive.

[@DarrenSmith-x6h]

Being single is not a loner man I think of myself as a future human as being single will be the future ,embrace and enjoy brother

[@gfighter2400]

Same thing here bro.

[@jasonduke3608]

For me the game is not worth playing anymore. I never had a lot of luck with women. I seamed to only find the mental ones that get off hurting me. Im 50 now, my home is paid off, im not financially well off but I get by. Somewhere in my mid 40's I slowed way down, as in sex drive. Personally I truly believe Jesus freed me of my curse of constantly being sexually aroused. Im good now. I know medically its probably loss of testosterone, the way I look at it is im not missing what I did'nt get to use. I used to be so whoa is me, it was sickening. Im more at peace with myself because ive been single for 19 years. I have'nt gone crazy or did anything bad. Im getting by ok. I can get by by Myself now the rest of my life. Its not what I was wanting but its just the way it worked out.

[@jhp4012]

35 single for the last 10 years. Painful to healed. Stronger healthier more then ever and on semen retention. God. Family. And loving myself more then ever before. Everything in Gods time. But I’m enjoying the present. Stay strong fellas. God speed and stay Focus. We are the prize

[@raczyk]

what will you do with all your accumulated wealth when you die with no children?

[@jhp4012]

@@raczyk waiting on God to give me the perfect spouse. I want kids

[@LaoSoftware]

35 years old? You still got youth on your side. My uncle is not so lucky. He is 43 years old middle-aged man. He hides his receding hairline with a baseball hat. He dyes his hair and plucks out white hair from his beard. He fears that no women will find him attractive since he's getting older now.

[@williamparrish2436]

@@raczyk Should he put you in the will haha? It really won't matter at that point will it?

[@Daniello385]

​@raczyk I rather be single. And do whatever I want. Instead of being divorced raped by modern wahmen. And have my kids and half of my assets being taken away. By a wahman. Are you living in a dream world bro ?

[@kingdingaling9756]

If only women loved men the way they love THEIR dogs

[@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027]

Not pragmatic

[@anamericanman]

I think you mean their CATS, and their box wine.

[@GearRaider89]

That’s great

[@sneakyninja5802]

Dogs won't beg them for s*x.

[@PaulAllen786]

@@anamericanmanmany women actually have big dogs like huskies, bull dogs, Labordoodle, to take up space in bed. i've seen more single women with big dogs than with cats.

[@jimb3093]

How true that is. Many of us didn’t go our own way, we were sent our own way.

[@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485]

I’ve said that for awhile its MSTOW

[@RaptureHead1993]

Them red pillers gonna stone you bro 🤧🥲

[@barbellsamurai8014]

props to you for having the guts to admit it. it may be a harsh truth to face but I could not look myself in the mirror if i lied to myself and claimed mgtow or sigma like some delusional copers do

[@selfish2.0]

​@@dr.vonslifeinvesting6485Alot of men go their own way so it's MGTOW.

[@JuanSanchez-tk4vr]

If all Men would get off these dating sites, then Women would loose this advantage they have in dating. Then we would have a level playing field.

[@CoreyLad-yf7tq]

I always think that haha I think I wish all men would come off the dating sites and teach the women a lesson haha

[@zaq1337]

🤔🤔🤔What would happen if all the $imp$ stopped paying for OF lol

[@grouchdouglas5507]

There is never a shortage of simps. It will never end

[@dannylaza1326]

First it was social media (instagram) now its dating apps. We need to get rid of dating apps and social media if we want any chance of society not collapsing. It may already be too late because 99 percent of these women are F'd mentally from social media.

[@adamchilds9132]

I can't imagine Chad ever getting of the sites

[@oldhpirs4]

Yall need to understand one thing, Even good looking men are struggling, men who are tall, handsome etc. Sure it might be easy for them to get laid but when it's time to get serious even the handsome guys are struggling, dating is a complete joke it's almost as if you could have everything a girl wants and she'll still play games lol

[@jwillwork3683]

100

[@poopyhole101]

I’m a 6 foot tall, jovial, good looking guy thats been told I look like Ken, and even I struggle.

[@oldhpirs4]

@@poopyhole101 bro iv been on dates with girls that were 9s and 10s talking about how they want a good man etc bla bla bla when the masculine confident good looking man arrives that shit intimidates the f out of them, believe It or not girls will ghost dudes just for being too good looking

[@nickpage7951]

45% of women will be single by 2030 you will have the last laugh brother

[@oldhpirs4]

@@nickpage7951 oh I know bro! I can't wait, iv already had my fun iv been with plenty of women, maybe too many 😂 so at this age (35) I am OK with not dealing with these creatures lol I just get laid and back to work

[@spaceted3977]

I'm 70 yrs old and I have my own place with 2 Dogs. I don't want a Nagging Wife !!! Peace and Quiet is Wonderful.

[@Clintsessentials]

Totally!!

[@BrutalOrc]

Congrats on surviving 70 years in this chaotic and turbulent world.

[@spaceted3977]

@@BrutalOrc It hasn't been easy !!! I had 2 near death experiences, a motorbike crash and a stroke !!! But I devoted my entire life to being happy. So I never got married or had children !!! That was a really good Decision !!! You see when men get old they look like Charles Bronson. But when women get old they also look like Charles Bronson !!!

[@hanalala3164]

​@@spaceted3977u bitter😂

[@bangbang2070]

Average men are going postal, we don’t care anymore lol

[@DuncanL7979]

Gone Galt waiting for things to collapse

[@desertraider8628]

Not postal ,just focus on yourself

[@sneakyninja5802]

Yes. I had a mental breakdown last year. I no longer feel anything.

[@braskabani8011]

@@sneakyninja5802 Yeah I gave up 100%.

[@brianmeen2158]

I think many of you guys still care because if you didn’t you most likely wouldn’t watch this content .. the guys imo that truly don’t care about dating or women are out traveling or building things and they definitely aren’t watching content like this

[@J0sh351]

dating for the average man? dating dosen't exist for the average man now days

[@brianmeen2158]

Bullshit. I know several average looking guys and most have gfs or are married. Hell just go Out and look around - u will see plenty of average looking guys either women on their side . Many of you have such black pill thinking so it’s no wonder you can’t attract women

[@geekiepooh]

​​@brianmeen2158 It's mainly due to online and what they see online. The 6' 6 in 6 digit thing is mainly talked about online. Black bill. Redhill, incel and Simp terms. Who talks about these terms in person?

[@zaq1337]

🤣🤣🤣Yes it does, just be a $imp lol. A lot would rather be $imp$ and disrespected than be happy alone. Sad af

[@louisf.2816]

@@geekiepooh I am 6`6 and make 6 digits, good looking, ripped, full head of hair, top career, social life on point... still, if you get weak, they will crush and rip you apart

[@MaryBlandford]

I'm really sorry so many women are like that. I'm a nice looking 63 year old nurse with no debt, paid for house. I left a philandering, another, critical lying husband, after tolerating this crap for 35 years. I've had one boyfriend since then. We dated 2 years. He wanted to get married, but said I needed to work more! I was working my Nursing job by day, waitressed evenings, and have an Etsy store. He asked me to sell my house & buy a property with him. But, he had his lawyer record a meeting to let me know I could never be on the title of any car, or deed of a property. I would have lost all the equity in my own home to pay for half of a property I would never be an owner of!!! The last straw was when I asked for ONE thing. If we were married 15-20 & he passed first, to please leave me something to live on. He said no, & I asked why? He said, "You'll be no worse off than you are now". I think there are many bad people on both sides. I haven't dated in almost a year now, & its a relief.

[@davidwright1115]

Average men? How do you think us disabled men who can’t work feel!

[@cupocity303]

How do you think 4 foot tall dwarfs feel? Lets not go down the pitty list. THis is a video for average people who used to get women in another time. A disabled man? Not so much.

[@onlyicedcrybaby7297]

​@ProudToBeBritishFlmao

[@zaq1337]

@ProudToBeBritishF 🤣🤣🤣that’s being done everyday😂😂😂look at all the miserable single moms on tiky toc crying for a man to save them

[@mannygonzales1985]

It must be rough! I’m above average and it’s rough! It’s crazy.

[@User98681]

What makes you disabled?

[@peterwilliams6361]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@peterwilliams6361]

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

[@TrentReeves-c2k]

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

[@logan_wolf]

It's even worse out there for us below average guys: we don't even get to the date! And it's not just in dating, either, seems employment is rough to come by, too.

[@MrTimbo1111]

Actually, they are doing us a HUGE HUGE favor! Avoid having your life destroyed by hate filled 304's

[@whereeaglesdare9584]

Average men won't have a chance. Above average men have to grind and settle for low quality women. And high value men are now high value targets.

[@monk4ever]

So fckin true. I know 4 high-value men who are also millionaire. These dusty wymin themselves at them.

[@johngalt6838]

They can just afford the damages and get more tail.

[@alphaevolution]

That's a good point I haven't seen mentioned. The average 80% gets left out The next 10% of guys who are doing well have to deal with the average girls who rejected the average guy. Sure the top 10% get the 10s but they also have to deal with the rest of the girls. It's a knock on effect.

[@johngalt6838]

@@alphaevolution 80% men have been supporting these women. Invisible men need to provide nothing....no validation, no money, nothing.

[@Yuri-nc9vl]

In that case why average men should care about womens anymore?

[@tennbones]

Two divorces and 54 now. I am done! I spoiled and loved my wives and got nothing but disrespect. I know there are equations to use with women that take up an entire dry eraser board, about how to keep a woman but I refuse to use them. If I can’t love them and be me, forget it. I’m loving my freedom and my bank accounts! Never again.

[@notillatall]

The eraser board of Game is a good point. Manosphere guys come up with convoluted theories which might work for a bit but change who you are as a person (in addition to making you tired from having to basically be an actor). Waste of time in the extreme

[@tennbones]

@@jamesbrantley8105 I assure you it’s a joke.

[@tennbones]

@@notillatall Fact, too much work and games.

[@MX-CO]

I totally agree that they aren't looking good for average men. The only solution is to be above average. Working out is a must, eating healthy is a must, dressing nice is a must, and trying to improve financially is a must, without doing these things as a man you have no shot, unless your genetically blessed, or born rich!

[@marse7092]

No really a solution on a population level. Only half the people can ever be above average. Even if you’re work hard to be top 20%, you’re a try hard that’s not a natural top 10% 😂

[@BigG6179]

This guy gets it. I knew when the video popped up this was not about me.

[@jwillwork3683]

Also be rich 😂, Smh this planet is A mess.

[@seanguzy9601]

Or if you are a 5 foot 5 inch Mexican that has 6 kids that cuts lawns for a living?

[@zaq1337]

🤣🤣🤣They could be all of that and as soon as someone that has more catches her eye she’ll be gone. It was just your turn

[@josiah5776]

Compliance is huge, and it's a red flag if you don't get it. I was growing a relationship with a woman some years back and noticed her becoming less and less compliant in small stuff. I dug deep into her social media, and her friends and family's social media ... and eventually found pictures of her and another guy all over each other. So, I kicked her to the curb immediately. After that, she spent several months begging me to come back to her and increased the intensity when she found out I was already seeing someone else. Although tempted, I did not take her back. That would have just signaled to her that she could do whatever she wanted without consequences. Also thought about just smashing it a few more times and then dumping her, but decided that would be taking the low road.

[@ampersand6375]

The closer and stronger the bonding, the more women revolt. When you kick 'em to the curb and got another one.... they want you back!!! Pffft.. typical....

[@dieselmccheese8320]

Easy test- if a simple "show me them t!dd!es" doesn't yield immediate results, dump her and dump her fast, cause it's a dead relationship walking.

[@agnosticevolutionist3567]

The last 35 years has been a fuck fest for both women and man ,the moral guidance of both parties are to blame,the fall of Rome

[@poopyhole101]

It hasn’t been for most men

[@godpilled9077]

Men do have good women when they are young, but when men are young they aren't trying to get married so they miss out. Prior generations of men focused on getting married early. To late now, you cannot go back in time.

[@dbgn]

I got into a relationship with my "dream" girl, I was 29 she was 27, we started living together I started new job everything looked perfect on paper. Then a 6.3 model slides into her DM's and she could not resist flirting with this guy, she was very very average girl, this guy probably had 100's like her in his DM's, I am normal to good looking dude, but I cared for her and would had given her good future. What shed did, she chose to flirt with some random guy on Facebook and throw everything we build in the trash. From that point on, I don't see the point in making effort to build relationship with a woman, if I can get easy lay I take it, if not I just move on.

[@sanketdeshmukh7490]

"I cared for her and would had given her good future " that's it you're done, you don't keep women on your head you keep them below your feet

[@tracym6652]

Sorry she did this to you

[@davidnorris5675]

I’m out

[@LFA]

never too late...

[@JangoBlader]

@@LFA congrats on 100k LFA i enjoy your stuff

[@MATT111MARTIN]

Yeah im feeling it. Its like i don't exist

[@brentmiedema7002]

My favorite thing about you, LFA; is your absolute bluntness in the face of uncomfortable subject material, and your audacity for synical irony. Love your content and presentation.

[@pat-mc-hagon]

Here the solution: individualism and stoicism. Walk away if you are not respected or appreciated. Look for happiness inside of you, not outside of you. Find a purpose, something that can be achieved only by you. Get in touch with the spiritual part of our existance. Travel, read, excercize... Meanwhile, society will slowly collapse, because the average men choose to not participate in it and there wil be a huge reset.

[@AZITHEMLGPRO]

Just get vr bro

[@yeahdonaldgaming3348]

The day you realize that you never need to chase the girl is the day the girl chases you and even if they don’t, you shouldn’t care anyway.

[@daviddietsch]

You should never care but if you get her to care, and then not care, you’re set

[@jonovah]

Glad I got my body count in my 20's. Now I'm retired (from them) and enjoying MY time

[@Frank-pc2rs]

Similar situation here. I had a run and it's just boring now. I've seen every size pair, every type of rear and every type of gash and honestly the nasty things I saw and had to deal with sometimes really put me off. They really are gross today.

[@whocarescrapsa]

Women assume that men only want to date younger women due to their looks. There is something else happening to women the older they get. As an example, I was taking a group of hikers on a 5 day hike. There were two women in their twenties and one woman around my age (40+). A common issue we see is toenails lifting. I instructed everyone to make sure their toe nails were cut as short as possible. The two younger ladies nodded and the older one had a fit. “I have been cutting my toe nails for 40 years and bla bla bla” I just turned my back and ignored her. 3 days in and guess who’s toenail lifted? We had to pull it off and I told her to soak her foot in the sea water because we don’t want it getting infected. The group of us laughed watching her hop on one foot as the salt water burnt like hell. Why is it that you can share knowledge and experience with younger women but the closer they get to our age - something happens to them where they can’t absorb information anymore? This is just one example but it happens often. Any ideas what’s going on here?

[@mrtozo]

you were “mansplaining”

[@amazingjane2703]

You're talking about a type, not an age- specific condition.

[@petttroville5510]

Or its just you.

[@szumy_]

Holy shit a literal instructor was explaining something no way. ​@@mrtozo

[@JosephFarrier-c8q]

We get older and bitter and think we know too much because we've been burned so much

[@anuragchakraborty8766]

You're worried about dating when people don't even have money in their pockets to afford rent and groceries?

[@lundhead]

Why are you watching and commenting on a video that you don't like?

[@anuragchakraborty8766]

@@lundhead because sometimes it's important to remind people to get their priorities in order

[@moraitisgeorge2189]

True... Priorities how women react,i wonder... In economy where struggling everyone shows their character.

[@mat.se57]

Not everybody is struggling

[@anuragchakraborty8766]

@@mat.se57 don’t talk about things you don’t understand

[@sebastiancostanzo8989]

I’m 21 and am starting to believe that women are a bad investment, a liability. Why waste my time, and energy chasing tail, spending money on going out buying drinks and food when I could be going to the gym and chasing excellence? If I consistently invest in myself going forward, disregarding women altogether, what would my life look like in years to come? At what age do I allow women back into my life? I think it’s far better for me to just focus on myself for as long as I can. If I’m meant to have a woman in my life the universe will make that abundantly clear.

[@retrogamer82]

Like Rich Cooper says if you’re a 6/10 or under you don’t stand a chance

[@AlexRocks80s]

Unless you’re rich

[@MX-CO]

Yup gotta workout and get an edge by having a great body, Or pay, those are really your only choices at that point.

[@defeatisfinal]

BUY MY TACTICAL SOAP!!!!

[@brianmeen2158]

That’s bullshit though. I know guys that are average or below and they have gfs or wives. Granted they most likely put more effort into it than other guys but they make it work . We gotta stop telling men that it’s over for them as we are just going to drive them to deep depression

[@brianmeen2158]

@@MX-COthese guys don’t want to put consistent effort in though - they’d rather binge watch this content and feel sorry for themselves

[@lewispiritual]

Always be ready to leave a woman no matter how much you love her.

[@CodyDaGoat_]

That’s so sad but yet it’s factual

[@sonicboom2723]

That's very sad but true as ever. You know something is wrong with society when we have to live like this .

[@thealisterr]

You can hope for the best but ALWAYS expect the worst. Especially when it comes to women. They’ve been given too much freedom and liberties, to do whatever they want. And no consequences for their actions. They’ve become extremely entitled and narcissistic. And most guys are just tired and done.

[@BluefaceTrice-jo8vr]

True statement. Some guys think they have it in the bag but never say never it’s happened to the best.

[@247Coby]

Another brilliant video. Thank you LFA.

[@radiohobbyist13]

I've finally reached retirement age but I'll probably work a few more years. I never got married because of my home life in childhood. By the time that I figured out what went wrong and what should've been happening, it was too late to fix it. After this many years I'm okay with it and I realize that I'm much better off. It's too bad that I didn't at least have the experience of fatherhood. Women are clueless about how to treat men. It's kinda sad but it is what it is. 😕 🤷

[@jessekuchinski1172]

Im 42. Probably a little bit above average looks. Just paid off my house, i have no debt and i have no problem getting laid, i just have no energy or cares whatsoever with womens games. Im loving the single life. Dont need any woman telling me what the rules are gonna be. Its instant adios felecia. Take that nonsense to some other guy. But hopefully not, for his sake.

[@Gigafi]

Men & Women have always "loved" in different ways going back to antiquity. The ancient Greeks believed: • Eros (sexual passion) • Philia (deep friendship) • Ludus (playful love) • Agape (love for everyone) • Pragma (longstanding love) • Philautia (love of the self) • Storge (family love) • Mania (obsessive love)

[@brentmiedema7002]

LFA is greatest dating '🎉coach' out there. He gives advice for free, and he's an obvious Chad- he's obviously been in the trenches; he's the type of guy women want. And his advice is sage, sound, verifiably true. LFA is a great man, and possibly, even a Christian.

[@a.f.s.3004]

This is the new reality. It can’t be changed. The genie is out of the bottle. A human being is going to go for the best possible option they think they can get. For years, the men held this power by being good providers. Today, women hold the power. When the best looking gal in a small rural town is getting hit up by professional athletes and celebrities a thousand miles away, it’s OVER. That same good looking gal that was supposed to marry the local guy, is now partying on a yacht with what she perceives as better options. Technology isnt going away. This is the new reality. Women hold the cards….

[@williamparrish2436]

I think you are missing the effect VR is going to have. VR combined one-to-one with sex robots. Here me out. At first men are going to laugh at it, but eventually its going to get so perfect that it will seem real. At that point the male sexual revolution will begin. Men will completely stop dating real women for sex, because virtual sex will satisfy their needs. When that happens women will change their behavior, because they will always crave real men. And the only way to get a man at that point will to be to be actually helpful, kind, and family oriented. I don't think that world is very far off to tbh. All it will take is a 3D Sora type program and maybe a Gen 4 or 5 Tesla bot.

[@masterandkerranginparticul4324]

This old lady of a friend she said to me once: you and her (some pretty girl they were talking about, her relative) would make a good couple (I am a little above average in looks, that's why she said it. and i live in germany, turns out that one day she has been. pulled out to dubai, via internet, to some sheik who put made her rich. I guess we will not see much of her again, guess her standards are now a bit off. what do you think? meanwhile my invbox on dating apps remains empty.

[@a.f.s.3004]

@@masterandkerranginparticul4324 Wow…you seen first hand of what I described. I am 52,,,growing up in the 80’s and 90’s was so much easier. I feel bad for the young guys.

[@BigG6179]

No celebrities or athletes are hitting up random average small rural town woman.

[@juliend9495]

Cope.

[@1Shot4]

I am 60 and not many people impress me these days. However LFA is a straight shooter and a thinker and credit where credit is earned. Young folks listen to what the man has to say. He is on point. My life is exactly opposite as his in respect to being married 40 years and counting. I have an interest in what the hell happened to society as I have kids and grand kids.

[@iamxaviernelson]

I have a MGTOW album for my average men. Keep healing guys🖤

[@alphaevolution]

I'm beyond caring at this point. I'm at peace and I'm in the mindset of never needing a woman to fulfil my life. Accept the reality of dating. Wish people the best. Don't even hate on women because hate is an emotion and it is still an emotional investment in someone.

[@kevinwilson3337]

The big problem is looks . If you’re struggling as a young man in dating (constantly getting rejected), its your looksa

[@masterandkerranginparticul4324]

I love your way of communicating these issues. makes me realize I am not alone in this experience.

[@BringMoreDread]

As I approach 30 at 5'4ft and bald, I have had no women in my life. I did everything else and now my life is empty, there is nothing to do, nowhere to go, nothing to buy, no one to talk to. What else is there to do in life?

[@supersonicslashx4741]

Same brother, I'm short as well (5'6"). I'm 23 and i've never even kissed a girl before. 2 years on tinder and not a single match, tried cold and warm approach, joined clubs, etc. Pretty much accepted I will never have a girllfriend and I am saving my money so I can live in an isolated wooden cabin in the middle of the woods

[@OldSchoolStrength]

@@supersonicslashx4741 Have you thought about getting a boyfriend? Just saying 😂

[@stevegordon2869]

Go to church a good woman could come your way.

[@JMGENTERPRISES]

Do you think men would approach and date women if it wasn't for their libido? I started an anti-anxiety medication a couple years back as my both my parents were having severe health issues. The medication did wonders for my anxiety but also completely destroyed my libido. At first, I thought this was a negative side effect. But fast forward to the present, I feel completely content without a woman. I see an attractive female and don't give it a second thought let alone the desire to talk to her. It sounds kind of sad in a way, but I've noticed more smiles, more friendliness and more available dates because of which. I think these women just can sense my "could take it or leave it" attitude, and they are right. I just don't care. It made me start to think...if it wasn't for men's sex drive, would they still be pursuing women? The issue I am experiencing now is these interested women want to date me, but I find I would rather just hang by myself, eat Teriyaki and watch The Shawshank Redemption. I should probably quit this medication but I have to say the peace it brings is something truly unexpected and hard to give up.

[@THEquaterx]

Nice ending. Shouldn't take everything too seriously, it's just a game anyway, right? :D

[@tracym6652]

Woman here, i fell in love a married an average man. I wabted to date him because he was kind and funny. He was handsome but didn't act handsome. I struggled throughout our relationship because he struggled with liking himself. Over time he crawled into himself and hid from the world. He put my inlaws before me after they madexracist comments to me. I am that girl who wanted a relationship with an average man because i thought it could be something amazing. In the end, we got married and he stopped being an active participant in our marriage. He stopped caring to spend time with me. Ruined our honeymoon, ruined romantic road trips i planned for us, and dreaded going out with me. He just wanted to stay home and watch tv. So i left this average man and he begged me to stay. I never returned. He didn't want to be a husband, he just wanted a wife

[@SolarSteamroller]

Blah blah blah... Thanks for airing out Your dirty laundry on youtube. 🤡

[@formula112967]

The phases of a man's love life: blue pill (ignorance), to confusion (a response to hypergamy), to red pill (awareness), to red pill rage (anger finding out the truth that life is not fair), to living alone with peace and quiet. Thank you for another great video brother, subbed.

[@Materva-hv6sz]

The problem is the average woman is easily scoring the above average man. I'm 49 and what I see is this...girls of the millennial generation and generation Z have outrageous expectations, because social media and dating/hook-up apps have conditioned them to see the supply of men as endless. Therefore there are vast numbers of young men who are alone. Now the women of my generation X have all these lonely young men approaching them and they are getting spoiled and don't want the old men of their own generation anymore. Even if they are married they are dumping their husbands (almost 80% of divorces are initiated by women) So the future looks bleak for men going forward

[@toddjohnson271]

Average women are scoring with top guy for a good head board smashing....that is all. But yes, they are damaged after that.

[@josephwilcox9641]

Your videos are pretty good i understand why i have failed in dating and relationships. I'm just going to be the best person possible and work on my career and see what happens.

[@driiifter]

I was dating before COVID happened, but I found my purpose during the down time, so I haven't gone back to dating. Plus I was dating women who were like 10 years younger than me and it started to put a bad taste in my mouth. None of them had a brain or a skill, I'm not sure if they even had hobbies, they literally just surf social media on their free time. A lot of them were talking to other dudes while talking to me, their friends would tell me they were on their own I didn't even need to dig, they put all their business on social media anyway. I think if I ever dated again I would vet to see if the woman has a sense of self control, which means they can't be overweight.

[@busterscruggs5397]

Just curious, what is your newly found purpose?

[@BigG6179]

7:45 Oh that felt real real good. A throwback to the 2018 days.

[@ryandeffley7652]

My rule that's taken me years to master is to treat every woman the same and focus on their actions. It takes discipline and self-control to stick to. I think what we've all done at some point is change our behavior to accommodate women who we find hotter than others. 😂

[@johnnyjohnn281]

It’ll only get worse if you’re involved and it bothers you. For me, Monk Mode is the path to peace.

[@kimb6508]

Goddamn this guy is speaking my life word for word literally everything in detail. How do these people know this stuff haha.

[@jaedo71]

I have devoted my remaining years to bettering myself! Selling more of my artwork, learning another language or two, learning to play the guitar, traveling, and more!

[@tonydiesel3444]

It's all about checking the most amount of boxes for whichever female 1 through 1000 box check:-)

[@brentmiedema7002]

LFA, if I ever get my novel published, and get a movie deal, I'm definitely gonna want you as one of the character roles of the main guys in it. You got the face, charisma, and authentic alphaness, to be in epic movie roles.

[@troutrunnerjh6535]

90% of the people in the comments also probably don’t have kids and have never been in a ltr with the mother of their kids under the same roof not even LFA and let me tell you that’s a whole nother beast to deal with after the almost impossible task of finding a good one and attracting them and having chemistry and making it to that stage of at all. If you go through that gauntlet and very low odds of making it to living together with the mother of your kids and the kids after about 4 years maybe sooner the women will start to miss the single life because she sees social media everyday and it’s conditioning her and nowadays most mothers want to be part time mothers. They will gladly accept week on week off custody so they can give the kids off to you while they go back to having simps chase them and spoil them and if you’re a simp idiot you might even still help her out when she needs it thinking you guys can make it work again (don’t do anything for her) women just want to be part time mothers so it’s funny to me all these men spend so much time stressing and freaking out over attracting girls but have no idea what follows after that and having kids. You have no time to build your money high because like I said women nowadays think as soon as you get home from work their job with the kids is done and it’s on you the rest of the night so no time for building money or a business beyond your main job. Best thing you can do is stay single and live the life of a bachelor or get your kids with a girl you trust and do the week on week off right away which sucks cause you miss half your kids childhood so somewhat a losing situation there but that’s if you really want kids which most do. The most important factor in a having a ltr last and be somewhat loving and enjoyable all comes down to the lifestyle you give the girl so it’s almost all about money nowadays. What car is she driving with you opposed to her simps, can she be lazy and not stress about any bills, can she buy Starbucks or shop whenever she wants, can she go on vacation a few times a year etc if you can’t provide shit then don’t even bother. Also, you must be solid at sex because if you can’t provide any of that and on top of it you don’t have amazing d game and blow her back out then you have absolutely zero chance and good sex game can only delay the not providing a good lifestyle for so long before she finds a simp to do it knowing she can cheat on him and have a good lifestyle from the simp while she cheats on the side.

[@LoudGatr]

100 % agree with LFA as well!

[@monk4ever]

This is why I'm a monk. We don't have these issues. Nor does a poon have power over us.

[@paigesta]

Gosh this is so upsetting. I’m so sorry you had to go through, and continue to go through, that.

[@martinsvensson6884]

This is what happens when you dont lead the woman and the relationship correctly.

[@troutrunnerjh6535]

@@martinsvensson6884 you can be the best leader there is but if you can’t provide a new nice house to show off or a new car to drive or take on a few vacations each year to post about then no leadership matters. Social media has ruined the minds of women. They care more about how other people perceive them more than they care about how good a leader a man is that nobody on their social media knows or gets to experience. With social media all these women do is compare to their lives to other women’s lives. You can go find thousands of strong good man testify to it. Money is the most important part. They secretly need breaks from their kids and if you don’t facilitate that they rather have them half time. If you don’t make a lot of money like a major percentage of the population then chances are you live in a smaller home and if a women has kids in a smaller home she starts to feel suffocated by her kids while seeing other women with kids going on vacations etc or big houses where they can send them to some massive play room or hire a nanny. Take the advice or not idc. Make money. Manosphere has fucked so many of you guys brains up. Most of those guys have zero practical experience with girls. Especially long term relationships and kids involved. You keep thinking you can solve everything with leadership haha.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

I’ve come to terms with it. At this point women just anger me so I just avoid them if all possible

[@mindsetmotivation9124]

But what exactly is "average" it varies from person to person.

[@BigG6179]

Average is dead set in the middle. A 5/10. You want to be around that 7 range for body, status, money, and looks.

[@rayjuneau1120]

Don’t get hooked, buy a professional.

[@toddjohnson271]

Dreaming of a long term relationship lol.....good luck. Store up some money for the fleecing.

[@whatisthisevenfor26]

I’m going to be 39 years old March 12 this year I have been single for the past 9 years, it sucks, I never drink or smoked in my life I eat healthy and go to the gym my paychecks after taxes every week is $850 every Friday I need more money and I don’t want to be stuck seeing a sex worker once a month I want to find a blonde woman skinny but it seems like they’re looking for high income earners now it sucks being alone I hate it

[@FreeAgent797]

Honestly dude, the last thing you need to be worried about is getting women. You need to get your income up because women are expensive as fuck. 40k a year ain't gonna cut it bro.

[@monk4ever]

Why so desperate for a dwindling poon?

[@thealisterr]

@@FreeAgent797it’s crazy how modern women claim they’re strong and embrace female empowerment and independence, they have their own careers and houses. BUT they still need a man to protect and provide for them😂😂😂 Their delusion is INSANE. You gotta pick one! You can’t have your cake and eat it too!

[@The2ndFirst]

Actually times have never been better for average men. We don't have to spend money on women anymore.

[@petttroville5510]

Because they have their own they dont need yours.

[@The2ndFirst]

@@petttroville5510 Whatever it takes. I'm results driven, not process driven.

[@selfish2.0]

​@@petttroville5510That's cap, they want the rich guys money.

[@TheOneAndOnlycE]

your tax money goes straight to single mothers.

[@healthyminimalist]

Good talk. I like the guitar at the end, nice touch.

[@alvertosb.p.9424]

Yup, I figured as a man I am perceived by women as either a disposable condom or human ATM for the purposes of leeching as much time and money as possible until Chad comes into the picture. Until someone taller comes into the girlfriends' life-Then that is when you find out quickly how much your worth to her, which means zero. But not having a woman in your life means peace-no drama, emotional drama, dealing with a cheater, and money will stay in your wallet. Because you do not have to spend your money on a town bicycle.

[@MuahMan]

It's the experience of Tom Brady as well. So keep that in mind. Unless you're Genghis Kahn, you're just average.

[@bellavita3097]

Haha Applebees never. But yes emotional intelligence/maturity, and boundaries makes for a good relationship. Along with friendship, respect, and passion. Know of anyone?

[@LFA]

Haha

[@andreiindru4570]

The music at the end is a blaaast! Nicely done men!

[@davidgoliat2119]

Women don't leave you if you're doing things great, they will even dismiss the approach of the guys even if they're "better" on paper than you, if she has feelings for you and you're a masculine and strong dude it won't happen.

[@JohnnySideburnsX]

Very valuable lesson. I wonder where men and women will go from here on now, too many single and wise people though.

[@Jesse-qk1uy]

Worth and value is in the eye of the beholder. Remember that. Men and women can’t rely on the other for happiness; it only comes from within. So, find your inner worth as a man and don’t let worldly rejection lead to self-rejection. Ultimately, sadness and pain lead to salvation, not the attachment to worldly pleasures.

[@desertraider8628]

Absolute truth pain and sadness leads to salvation 🙏

[@franekwrobel1449]

That boundries thing is very crucial. Learning it may be tricky.

[@Niko-je8ic]

Dating experience is Great for the 1% Man, the rest of the 99% of Men have to work hard. Go to the Gym daily, play mental games, strategies, be patient, be strong, humble but agressive, look for opportunities to build experience over years, to find a woman to marry then divorce in less than 10 years, when the sex and love fades. Find you Passion Men, because woman already have and are content to be the Boss Lady, with no remorse. The book on Men Self Improvement is longer than the Lord Of The Rings Trilogy, however, the Woman just have a sentence, She is Perfect the way God created her.

[@DontSpySpying]

the 1% had to do that tho to some degree

[@BigG6179]

I say 1% is a headache but from 33% to 10% it probably is more fun.

[@blockaderunner]

I’m late 40s and finally got married to a child-bearing-able woman she’s cute and fit too -I could carry her 100 yards. It took travel to another country namely Asia to pull it off though.

[@tobbyrtox7887]

Passport bro !! Amazing job

[@monk4ever]

Does she love you? Or does she love your wallet?

[@SimpHarderPlz]

​@@monk4ever get used to providing for a woman if you are a man

[@blockaderunner]

She wants tender loving care first of all. Must hold hands or even her sides at all times.

[@martinsvensson6884]

@@monk4ever Seems to be the problem with all women... so does it really matter? Would you chose a homeless low IQ woman yourself?

[@OvertIntelligence]

Looks marvelous for the average man. All you have to do is grind and grind some more. #GRINDCHAMPS

[@MateuszCHUDY]

Great speech!! Regards from Poland! Thank you!

[@impulse894]

I guess I’m average if not even below average in every way. However, I still dated a lot and have had several girlfriends over the years (I’m in my mid 30s now). I’m done for now, at least. At the point, honestly, all I want is peace. Most bring drama and BS, and want you to be their ATM, emotional tampon, or entertainment venue/clown, among other things. I got no time for that, and going out with my friends or enjoying listening to a podcast seems a better use of my time, and reflects better on my mental health (and wallet).

[@ois-jy9kl]

Shift the focus on myself in the last year... I have time for my hoobies...building a guitar amp, a partcaster guitar and a old bike. Paid 12k of debt (and anothet 9k to go... (getting there) and started to build saving to get myself a second house. Never had so mutch money, time and peace😊 and yes I've started to read my bible. The bible study version whit archeological details... facinating👍

[@damiandevine1643]

Commodities we are 👊100%

[@igrenne7121]

Im really sorry to heard what man are going through on these days. I been watching videos like these one to learn what is going on. Hope you find a good woman im pretty sure you will 🙏

[@petttroville5510]

He said men love womwn like they love their pets....what sort of womam do you hope these losers get? I wouldnt wish these type of men on my worst enemy, you pick mes are wierd.

[@lqla4837]

Hey man, if I book a coaching session, will it be with you or someone on your team? I appreciate your videos. Thanks

[@LFA]

Me

[@lemme999]

All good advice and helpful 👍 I decided to be free of marriage and kids after seeing so many others get divorced and go through hell. My 20’s were the best back in the 1980’s with being in the service and dating a great gal and life’s been slowly downhill since those fun days. What helped me in the back of my mind over the years is knowing that relationships WILL end eventually, whether it’s death, divorce or breakups, so I don’t get beaten down over it and move on.

[@areolaman]

like listening to Socrates for17 minutes

[@BladeObssession]

One good thing about being single for a long time is you can be very selective when it comes to women because you start to enjoy the peace and quiet and some women are more like wrecking balls anyway

[@ttpp7993]

My favorite car is the Lexus LFA

[@JokerDR71]

What helped me was acceptance, it made me free.

[@erbthatsright1103]

I’m going to listen to Dust In The Wind by Kansas after this. Thanks Brother!

[@boatingcharlie1]

Good talk, wish I could have heard this when I was 16. I had to learn these things the hard way in my early 30s. Being "too nice" is the killer.

[@Daniel-tc1to]

Smart man is better off without 3o4s