life as a low energy person - not leaving my cottage for a week

I have had pretty much 0% in my tank up until these last several days, so I was finally able to put together a little video, stringing together all the very few things I actually did in order to make things look somewhat interesting - but I pretty much stayed in bed. However, I wanted to give myself a little pep talk and hopefully encourage all of you that it's ok to take things slow and steady, whether or not you are not feeling well. Take care
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[@TheCottageFairy]

I am feeling so much better now and was so happy to meet some of you this weekend at my bookstore

[@kathyduer7108]

Hello sweet girl. Glad you are feeling better. So looking forward to your up coming video as I always do. You bring such peace to my day. 🥰

[@SoloAdventureDiva]

I am so happy you are feeling better!! Those infection sneaks up on you sometimes. I had one a month ago it was really hard on the body. Rest is awesome! And sometimes we just need to mentally, physically and spiritually ✨️ it can be a good reset 🙏🏾 😌

[@kimcalvert332]

Happy you are feeling better at your own pace.

[@sandraghigliotti1524]

You are an inspiration,Dios te bendiga🙏😍

[@yonakim2761]

We are More Than Happy that you are Well now..and We all know that you are Going to Make new Great Videos But you are Right..I just learn my lesson Tonight as well(Its Evening in my Timzone) and I really need to refect on what Im trying to do..and How Can I possibly do it slowly..While Trying to Slowly take a Good care of myself...I realized how Hard it is to Be enemy with yourself..amongst of Possible people..Ourseleves is Our Worsts enemy..I forgot how to Take care of myself..and Not abide the Standards of The people around me.. I questioned My worth and realized how Amazing I am By remembering the Things I can do,Love to do..and My Hobbies, Talents and Plenty of Interests..I am Amazing more than I think Little of myself..and I worth of Love for myself..No one else Can tale care of Me..first..By myself.. I am SO Happy that This Is Coincedence..I will Now try my best to Finally do My goals slowly...By first Taking care of My Basic Selfcare needs and Then Moving on to the Most Ambitious Ones... Im So Happy..Tonight✨ And Thank you so soso Much💌💐 Still Rest Well❤ Also I wil Def. Do the Artworks You showed me Today...Theyre TOO ROMANCTIC😭💋

[@laurah6381]

It does seem like being an extrovert is the desired trait in this busy, loud world. As an introvert I’ve never quite felt like I belonged. Always misunderstood. Always asked why I’m so quiet, as if there’s something wrong with me. I value your channel 💗💗💗 Thank you for making me feel not so alone.

[@patriniacopeland6891]

Amen. This channel is such a blessing for all of us introverts. And you are right, we are not alone🥰

[@Sarahla91]

Just letting you know I feel the same. ❤️

[@denisec8488]

@laurah6381...Your not alone, I've always been an introvert, I always felt like I didn't belong. I use think it was a bad thing, but I don't anymore. A lot of us are so capable of entertaining ourselves. We are just as special as anyone else!!!!

[@saragonsalves941]

you are most definitely not alone 🙂❤

[@r.d.durfey5862]

Totally agree!

[@pixel9548]

This has haunted me all my life. It astonishes me that the world expects 8 hours a day 5 days a week minimum. When I worked fulltime it exhausted me. I've always needed naps, always needed 8 hours a night, always gotten tired easily. Emotions wear me out and I feel everything deeply. I never felt that I'd be adequate in a relationship, because how would I ever keep up or contribute enough? Though I feel good about myself in other ways, this has always been a source of shame. Thank you so much! I've never seen anyone else address it!

[@rosep5502]

I relate to this. I don't work full time for this reason. I'd rather have less money and feel happy with my life

[@thunt9697]

I am to the point that I am ready to work part time, and go at a slower pace. Working 5 days a week has always exhausted me. Working 8 hours a day exhausts me. I want so badly to find some kind of a job where I can work part time and live full time.

[@fairy7101]

@@thunt9697 me too

[@june.w.1288]

@@thunt9697 me too. I want to study, so that I can have that kind of job. But there are bills to pay, so I have to work full-time, I have two kids to take care of, and of course I miss them and want to spend time with them too, but I also have the endless household chores and cooking, and I don't have the energy and focus to study something in earnest now. I am learning a little Italian on Doulingo, but your know, for that,I only need 15 minutes a day. To do an evening or weekend course, I would need to have time every Saturday for 8 hours, and Friday afternoons, and also to submit assignments. I hope when my kids will be a little older, I will have more time to study.

[@leannshort2211]

Wow you just described me. I never knew exactly how to word it. The feeling of inadequacy, not contributing enough. Working part time, I felt like I wasn’t enough. My husband never ever made me feel that way, that was just my way of thinking. I also get tired easily. Too many people wear me out. My husband and I are home bodies, and prefer it that way. I was also just diagnosed with chronic Lyme disease so I don’t know if the fatigue has something to do with that or not. Always been a very cozy/crafty person. Gives me great peace of mind and relaxes me. I hope we can all find our inner peace and go with the ebbs and flows. ❤️✌🏻

[@jilljensenliving]

People wait their entire lives to be able to sit back and smell the roses. To relax and read a book. For some, it never comes. You are living the dream. A country lifestyle, surrounded by nature. Connected to everything around you. You are from another time. I am embracing this experience through you and your stories. Thank you. ♥️

[@eternitywithjesus777]

I concur. She is blessed to understand so young to start being herself instead of feeling less than.

[@njokiawiti1780]

Totally

[@braveheartlioness]

"You do not need to produce anything to be of value. You are already of value. Some of us might feel that we need to produce in order to feel worthy of receiving." Well said indeed!! 👏

[@willowsmom5757]

I wish I could make myself believe that

[@braveheartlioness]

@@willowsmom5757 You are inherently of value because you are God's child.

[@mikioni]

👏👏👏

[@francescaferrauto4052]

"There is no easier way to feel that you are lacking than to worship a personality that is not your own". That cut through like a dagger. Wonderful sweet video

[@sierrasebring5144]

Completely agreed. I want to make that a poster on my office wall. So moving.

[@LuminousDualities]

Me too

[@AudioGardenSlave123]

Sounds like self worship new age atheist crap to me. As though any of us are the fulfillment of all good and great things and we are wonderful objects of our own desires. Gross statement that, when lived out, is ironically the best means in growing to loath yourself.

[@baskoller5506]

@@AudioGardenSlave123 self worship new age atheist crap. This negativity has a purpose? While completely missing the point.

[@ocevicheband502]

@@AudioGardenSlave123 Thank You grasshopper. For fuck'n nuthin.

[@d.c.1851]

I'm actually crying at your words. This was so needed especially now, I work 4 days a week and I feel burnt out. It's really hard to admit because "most" people work 5 days a week without any perceived issue. I relate so much to the need for a slower life. Thank you for sharing this beautiful video and kind words.

[@FreyaGem]

I relate. I quit the job I was working 3 days a week at because it was too stressful. I stopped working full-time years ago. While I don't make as much money now, I'm at least able to have a nervous system that's not in overload and overwhelm all the time. That's no way to live!

[@MelModica]

I relate because for many years I worked full time and sometimes over time but about 5 years ago I had Lyme disease. I am recovered but since then I only work part time 6 nights a week around 30 hours a week and I work alone. I wish I could do more more but I just can’t handle the hectic pace and all the stress that comes with it. I prefer to be alone most of the time and I have always been an introvert anyway.

[@I_cReAtE_and_YoU_hAtE]

I just quit my job where I felt burnt out all the time. Even though I’m a fast worker and everything. But it was too much. Now I’m trying to find another job.

[@I_cReAtE_and_YoU_hAtE]

@@FreyaGem wish I can work part time but I can’t pay bills and feed myself with a part time job.

[@Weightingtablesafter]

Im low energy also but have to work 6.5 days a week. Coffee.

[@xsystem1771]

Personally, I admire people like you who are calm, soft and kind. People with similar personalities as your own are the ones that bring calm and happiness into the world. You're a beautiful, artistic, and caring person. You see the beauty in the small things, and bring beauty in the world.

[@marianneeckertjensen4723]

My oldest daughter is a low energy person too. I often think that she is more aware of the little things in life than so many other people, that is a plus. :)

[@TranceGurl20]

I don't know of low energy is part of being an introvert but I'm an introvert myself with high energy I think it's because I have a good diet I eat nutritious food I don't mind because there was once a time where I didn't have energy so everything felt like a drag even walking lol

[@shockingdocumentaries4255]

I’m glad you appreciate your child’s individuality instead of trying to change them which can lead to insecurity.

[@shockingdocumentaries4255]

@@TranceGurl20 I’m glad you mentioned nutrition. At 38 year’s old, I’m just realizing how much my diet affects my energy and health. The Kale I’m growing in my apartment is like an energy booster. Fermented drinks are helping my digestion problems. Diary products are bothering me less. Theirs other benefits but they are squarely in the TMI category. Lol I wish I knew all of this before. Instead of trying pills…Along with the fact that being an introvert is not the same as being anti-social. And being a thinker is actually valuable when it comes to creating a life worth living. I wish you the best of happiness, health, and wealth. 🖖🏾

[@HealthHorror]

The only time to learn about ourselves and how we see the world is when we are alone. Extroverts hate alone time so they never really get that time to absorb life's lessons. They also see themselves as their peers see them, which is a trap.

[@Nyuffykah]

It has a lot of plus. The sensitivity, the psychic gifts. But no place for us in society. Our gifts are almost wasted.

[@instagamrr]

I remember my third grade teacher telling my parents that I moved too slowly. Even typing this now brings me to tears - I never realized until this video how deeply that affected me. As a people pleaser and overachiever, I ended up doing everything I could to move as ‘fast’ as others - until ultimately all that stress of trying to live a life that wasn’t mine landed me with an autoimmune condition that slowed me down permanently. I don’t know if I’ll ever have kids, but if I do, I want them to know they are beautiful and meant to be exactly the way they are, and that’s okay. They don’t have to change to meet someone else’s expectations. Thanks for this cathartic moment

[@cds8249]

I just had to say thank you for sharing what you'd tell your possible future kids bc it's exactly what I needed to hear today. I woke up in pain due to a pinched nerve. It served as a wake up call for me to slow down and do the bare minimum, which some days is hard with my baby, but we made it through the day. Anyway, I think its fantastic what you said bc my own mother held an opposite view of things. She herself has a hyper personality compared to my introverted/low energy self and she made me feel terrible for taking naps, or reading so much (even though all my chores and homework was completed) bc I could've been doing something productive instead. I think everyone is different what some may think to be "not doing enough" may truly be another's best. Anyway just wanted to say thanks and I am sorry your teacher said that. She sounds like my Mom, but guess what? There's a need for people like us in this world, too. Continue to be gracious with yourself and as I say to myself, "Do what you can and leave the rest to God." Blessings to you!

[@instagamrr]

@@cds8249 Thank you for your sweet and thoughtful words! One thing I have learned is that slowing down is a way to connect with the divine. When you slow down and do things mindfully and with pleasure, it can make tasks that normally feel like chores you can’t wait to get done instead feel like bliss and happiness as you relish the beauty of the process. Perhaps view that pinched nerve as the Universe inviting you to take a much needed break for yourself, so you can keep your cup full. Better to pour for others out of a full cup than an empty one! We can have just as much impact, and sometimes even greater impact, by slowing down and taking time to connect with others and ourselves ❤

[@sarahurbana7307]

What do you have, if you don't mind me asking?

[@instagamrr]

@@sarahurbana7307 rheumatoid arthritis. I take some heavy meds for it which knock me out most of the time and contribute to extreme fatigue, so i just can’t get as much done in a day as many people can and run out of steam quickly

[@cds8249]

@@instagamrr Thanks for the great reminders! You are so very right about it being more helpful to others when we have a full cup ourselves. I recently had to step back from somethings bc I realized I was so drained. At first it was frustrating but then I was grateful I stepped back. I find when I am having a time like this it makes me all the more grateful for the days when I am not in pain! On a side note my grandma had RA. You are so very strong! She fought RA and lupus into her 80s! Keep persevering. You sound like you have the right mindset.

[@noneya9035]

I realize there’s a bunch of us alone, but not alone. Thank you for this. Very comforting for me.

[@denisewiseman7316]

Me too!

[@laceandribbonsviolin]

Introverts Unite (separately in our own homes)😅

[@kaylathomas9331]

I was always a mellow and calm child and got tired fast. I later found out I had an autoimmune disease, which causes chronic fatigue and I am also a Very Sensitive Person - my body is very sensitive to toxic personalities which wear me out fast, weather and astronomical changes tend to give me headaches, and I feel very in tune and close to nature. I am at peace with plants and animals, less with people. Your videos are so soothing and helpful for me

[@Nirosha101]

I’m a sensitive person too. 😊 Do you feel you also have an abandonment wound. I do so I was just curious.

[@stj971]

I can relate.

[@jenniferw1595]

I can relate. Sitting here in silence trying to calm a migraine after too much interacting today.

[@Soulsomeliving]

@@Nirosha101❤feel that as a HSP

[@annatjieoosthuizen3803]

I think the universe needed me to see this. I am literally lying in bed ill, because of too many overwhelming events the past three months. My anxiety about work is not allowing me to rest, because I worry about not being productive. I am good at pretending to be normal, and mimic what others does, but I do not fit in, and feel so lonely. As an introvert I find people exhausting and shallow and prying energy vampires.

[@tshaolin971]

Lol

[@gaiaswarrior6158]

@@tshaolin971 don't think it's funny at all

[@tshaolin971]

@@gaiaswarrior6158 The last sentence yes. For the rest, the toxic feminist propaganda brainwashed modern western women into believing the very men who build and maintain the comfortable society where they live are oppressors to be feared whereas made them believe being independent from men was a goal to achieve to feel strong. Mother Nature is not redundant, women do actually need men in more ways they can possibly think of and this can’t be substituted by nothing else, that’s how it always been and intended as the most intelligent and healthy way to live life. Meanwhile they wonder why they are depressed, miserable and get all kind of illness.

[@carmin9550]

Jesus saves ❤

[@shockingdocumentaries4255]

Me too. I’ve been going through a lot. While I use to be considered a friendly person, I agree with everything you said and feel the same way. That’s why I watch these videos. Seeing honest, healthy people validates me and contradicts my current toxic environment. You are not alone. Even if you are surrounded by emotional vampires. The fact that you can enjoy channels like this shows that even with you not feeling well, you still are able to appreciate positive interactions wherever you find it. You probably can’t help yourself and don’t realize you seem more hopeful than the ‘great pretenders’. I hope you are feeling better. Thank you for your honesty.

[@joshb7326]

Thank you for this video. I'm a guy, 31 from UK. I'm an introvert, sometimes quiet, sometimes chatty, I also feel "low energy" a lot and I have also felt ostracised by this. When I was dating my partner did not like when I was quiet and it felt like there as something wrong with me. However I do have the job of my dreams, a wonderful family, hobbies, passions and pets that I adore. I keep to myself and do things that make me happy and peaceful

[@rickknight3823]

That's wonderful. Out of interest, what kind of work do you do?

[@joshb7326]

@@rickknight3823 I work in wildlife Conservation, as a data analyst using data to explore population changes

[@bettinastebner]

Some of us empathetic, sensitive introverts have jobs that drain us so we have little energy left at the end of our day. I appreciate quiet, peace and an evening of reading.

[@Debilee16]

Think my Daughter has low energy, takes for ever to get her up and about, she is just happy staying home ,was getting worried, but feel more assured after watching this ,and seeing other people's comments!

[@thesavingsorceress]

As someone with chronic fatigue due to illness who rarely ever leaves their house, it was so nice to see you talk about taking things a bit slower. It’s been hard for me for come to terms with my lack of energy as well, and society is so quick to deem someone worthless if they’re not constantly being productive. Thank you for sharing your experience! It made me feel less alone. I hope you continue to feel better and better!

[@marvin2678]

cfs ? after tick bite ?

[@jesskass9769]

We’re def productive! Slowing down to take care of ourselves is extremely productive but we live in a world that production is about the dollar.

[@marvin2678]

What kind illness?

[@marvin2678]

@@rebeccasnell2953 how hard is your CFS ? Muscles

[@elysiadawn]

Most of what society produces is worthless. And actually destroying the planet. Think about how much good you're doing the planet just by not driving constantly.

[@ARPorganics]

There's nothing wrong with being calm, quiet and introvert. It took me years to find that out after pretending to be someone I'm not. I do go out especially if it's a walk in nature away from the city. Other days I stay home relaxing next to my garden, drawing, reading books or working on my car while listening to music.

[@donnaschmoyer9027]

Thank you for sharing. Sounds lovely. And I feel like you gave me permission, too.

[@andreachumley2247]

That's the dream life!

[@maybee...]

Being an introvert has been associated with a criminal element, that is so far from the truth, I love my quiet time, reading, sewing, gardening, painting, cooking. I am never bored even though I have been called boring. As a child my favorite places were our barn on a rainy day, the chicken coop, or out by the river that flowed through our property. I strive to be far from the maddening crowd.

[@a.katherinesuetterlin3028]

@@maybee... I'm a weird one that doesn't mind so much being around people, to a point. But I'm not a gal who thinks she's gotta have an entourage or "posse" with her when going out places. I am perfectly happy with eating in a restaurant by myself. Or, if I'm eating or shopping, it's gonna be with two other people, tops. Mind you, that's just counting the beings around me in physical bodies. I am pretty clairaudient and clairsentient, so I know a boatload of guides and other Higher Beings are with me, no matter what. 😅 Those are the ones I'm having amazing banter with, most of the time. 🤣

[@flowergirl7260]

@@a.katherinesuetterlin3028 we're never alone even when we're alone.

[@vanitapant970]

You do not need to “do” anything, you just need to “be” .❤

[@marysebellerose7636]

I'm 42 and I just tarted to accept that reality. All my life, I felt tired, even when I was sleeping well...no disease, all tests were ok but I don't have a lot of energy. It feels good to see that I'm not alone.

[@lovepeacebliss]

Are u living your hearts purpose? True energy comes from within. Drive for your lifes mission.

[@Noelia.pleyad]

You Need a reiki's session ♡

[@maiden5427]

Listening to people talk makes me tired.

[@pabloescobarschanclas]

@@lovepeacebliss it’s almost like you missed the point of this person’s comment and the point of the video…..

[@drbuni]

@@lovepeacebliss Man, that is a load of nonsense.

[@windust4503]

Paola, I am the exact same way... a true introvert. Have been this way since childhood. For 30 years I have struggled with Fibromyalgia. I get tired quickly and tend to really loose steam by late afternoon. I busy myself with craft projects and working in the gardens amidst nature and its peaceful sounds. The best therapy. Just going into town once a month to get groceries is too much stimulation and wipes me out for the rest of the day and oftentimes the after. I used to think something was wrong with me as I preferred alone time rather than be around people. Now in my 50's I am quite at peace with who I am ;) Many blessings to you!

[@judyk.657]

Me too. 💐🤗

[@phyllischaffin4052]

I have fibromyalgia too. It's hard isn't it?

[@windust4503]

@@phyllischaffin4052 Yes, it truly is, Phyllis. One could easily become bitter and overly depressed. You find out what you are made of with this disorder. Very humbling ...

[@judyk.657]

@@windust4503 that’s for sure.

[@Nwladylaura369]

I take things one day at a time. My cousin just visited me for a day and he is a travel bug, while I am happy to stay at home. Health and personal lifestyles are what define us, one is not better than the other.

[@athieliagriffin7957]

Sweetie, I'm 58 years old and I can honestly say your advice or epiphany is some of the most valuable in life. Constantly comparing yourself to others in any arena can be life exhausting. To see someone your age get that is wonderful. To be true to yourself means first knowing who you honestly are and respecting it. So glad you are feeling better and thank you for this video. Sometimes we need to be reminded of what we have already learned.

[@MsSumbich]

Thank you. I have been called lazy and anti-social when I am truly physically and mentally exhausted. It’s nice to hear that someone else understands. ❤

[@rowenaconahan4803]

As a life-long low energy person admiring high energy folks and struggling constantly to accept my way of being, it was wonderful to receive your beautiful video!

[@neurolotte2406]

I relate to this so much: as an introvert, a quiet and homey kind of person, I sometimes feel inadequate. But, ultimately, I can't be any different, this is my nature, and I try to embrace it. Thank you Paula, love from Italy! 😘

[@TheCottageFairy]

thank you!! Sending you a big hug ❤️

[@AllShallOBEY]

@@TheCottageFairy 💕 just be yourself don’t try to be no one else trying to keep up is draining you you need to learn about your energy reserve what do you do spiritually it’s so much more you need to learn about yourself before you envy someone else you are a very smart girl a path of loneliness is a path you should take to clear your mind and soul world war 3 is upon us we will meet soon

[@deliaeva]

I was just writing in my diary that I feel like my strengths as a sensitive and introvert person are not really valued in a fast and loud world. And just 5 minutes later I see this video. I hope that I can live in a more rural and quiet place someday, too. Thank you so much, it helps to know there are other people similar to me. There is a reason why we are who we are 💛

[@laurah6381]

I feel the same way about life. Being an extrovert seems to be the desired trait. I’m very quiet and love alone time. Glad to know I’m not alone

[@TJ-kz1ul]

@@laurah6381 you are definitely not alone =)

[@TJ-kz1ul]

I write similar things in mine frequently too. This world seems to thrive and put so much value on being aggressive, loud, and busy. I am a sensitive, INFJ, introvert. I need so much time alone in order to feel like myself. In fact, when I have a busy, demanding week, typically by the end I feel physically unwell, and I know it's because I need rest, solitude, a journal, my cats, and a good book.

[@theheleneway8945]

Definitley not alone!😁😉👋

[@patriniacopeland6891]

I used to feel that there was something wrong with my personality as a kid. I loved the slow, intentional pace of things. Reading for a few hours. Taking a long, long bubble bath, where relaxing with my daydreams was therapeutic. I don't care for the hustle and bustle. I take my time to appreciate and absorb all the natural beauty that our world has to offer us. Taking walks in quaint little towns, antique browsing, lunching at a Victorian tea room. I find that now as an adult, I'm that person that my family and friends seek advice from when they want to just slow down😊. This video was much welcomed by me. Thank you!

[@TheCoffeeCat]

That's me too, a low energy person. Introverted and very grateful for moments of solitude, simple happiness and calm. I believe there are many advantages to being like this - for example, not being in a constant state of frustration, boredom and thrill-seeking, and also being able to age more gently and peacefully, as we're so used to a mellow lifestyle. For some reason I feel closer to mindfulness and to happiness than the high energy people. And I think that the extra dose of reflection makes us wiser, but that could be just my bias!

[@cathyp541]

I’m 68 and I wish I had been more introspective as a young woman. You are setting a good example for young women like yourself. Thank you for your realness - living life on your own terms with no apologies. May God bless you in your marriage and life, Paola. ❤😊

[@annapugh4199]

As someone who is very low energy and has multiple chronic illnesses, thank you for this video. It's so hard to give yourself permission to rest and to be as you are. In a world focused on how much you can do and produce, it takes constant reminding that it's okay to be as you are and that's not a moral failing.

[@daynal9594]

That last line in your comment really hit home for me and I needed that. Thank you for the reminder 😊

[@ginanovo6285]

@@daynal9594 may i ask what your illnesses are?

[@jh2419]

I hope my son finds someone like you one day. As a Mum I would be overjoyed. In a world full of materialism you are a breath of fresh air. Wise beyond your years and in tune with what life is all about at such a young age.

[@petershadwell4155]

I find the hardest thing is finding people who don’t judge, and to maintain personal relationships. I feel embarrassed to explain my situation fully and so for them it’s very difficult to understand my reality and therefore lack empathy. (It turns out I have suffering from sleep apnoea since my late teens).

[@lindagreene6437]

I too relate & understand...

[@brutusl2786]

I can relate too. This is especially difficult for guys in this society, so un macho. Unfortunately it can be isolating I think, but better honest isolation than fake socialization. It’s exhausting to try to be what you’re not.

[@schaughtful]

It makes more sense to say “what is the least I can get out of my day to feel good about it instead if what is the most.” This is because we can be proud of just living in the present, living “in the least” instead of being trapped by some maximum output ideology that pushes us to forget that somehow, strangely enough, we’re alive.

[@roguenerdd]

I appreciate this. I have trouble explaining to people that we are different n not everyone is the same 💕

[@laylacooper1058]

So relatable! I always felt like I was so boring because I can never hang in a group too long without needing a nap. I don't know if I've ever seen anyone talk about this topic as you have. Thank you 💜💚for bringing this up!

[@crownedbee5840]

I have fairly high energy but groups can be draining for me too maybe you are an empath?

[@dlm1166]

I'm the same way. Socializing drains me and I need a lot of alone time to recharge.

[@rachaelmorrow6669]

histamine intolerance

[@gabriellealessandra8181]

At 21 years old, I've started to come to terms with the fact that I'm a low-energy person, much like my mum. I'm still trying to accept that ending my pre-professional dance training was the right thing to do, but I'm getting there. Thank you for this video, I related to much of what you said, and it feels comforting to have others understand.

[@Bgonzo20]

Were you vaccinated? Retroviruses. Have you ever been checked for EBV?

[@marvin2678]

"low energy "person does not exist

[@bronwynisabel8417]

I went through the exact same thing! Decided to end my pre professional ballet training at 21 because I realized I didn’t have the energy to be the best I could be and to survive in such a demanding profession. Two years later it’s still hard to come to terms with it but it’s amazing to know that my options for my life are so open now! I get to do things I never could’ve done as a professional dancer🤍

[@gabriellealessandra8181]

@@marvin2678 sorry?? Do I know you? Am I supposed to care what you say? lmao

[@genesisansbro4936]

Genuinely curious, was structure a big roll in your life? Outside of dancing… in your day to day life at home was there typically always structure

[@__wm_]

The coincidence of watching this while I am curled up under a blanket, massive mug of tea to hand, while knitting a jumper for the winter, recovering after an exhausting stint. Wishing all of you reading slow days and ease 💕

[@empope188]

So glad you are feeling better Paola and honestly this video has brought tears to my eyes because I have felt shame and lack for being a lower energy person for so long especially in a world that values high energy people and output. You and your videos have helped me feel less alone, so thank you for that. Sending you my love this week and I can't wait for your next video

[@nevermind7253]

❣️

[@KasThinks]

🫂

[@r.d.durfey5862]

Sending a hug💜

[@carolanderson2142]

The depth of your wisdom, observations, and life philosophies and way you express them, are both remarkable and soothing - especially for someone so young. Blessings and thank you … ❤️😊✝️🇺🇸

[@joyceconnolly1065]

Carol . . . I fully agree! 👍💗

[@joyceroberts1760]

I agree with you 💗💗🌹🌹

[@sylviekempler797]

So true !!!!

[@gailvanschaik6379]

Totally agree. It’s remarkable that she shares such sage wisdom. What a very special person.

[@clivec10]

Yes, I was thinking the same. Very insightful person , shows the value of understanding how you feel and why. Inspiring

[@DreamersPathways]

I am extremely comforted by your honesty about being a low energy person. I’ve been struggling with this my whole life. By putting your voice out there, you can help other low energy people seek self acceptance. Thank you. ☺️

[@Nikola5982]

Madam, you`re basically living my dream life. Negating the pace of modern society is something I badly need. Keep doing what you`re doing 👍

[@debweissler7808]

For those of us who live in the slow lane, we seek the scenery instead of the road markers. So glad you are recovering. I’m using my COVID timeout to read & enjoy napping.

[@annanorth7997]

I love that! The journey not the destination.

[@catherinelee6890]

This channel is such a safe, gentle place. I feel like I can return to it whenever the world feels like too much noise, too much weight, and remind myself what's really important. A little haven to rest in when our hearts are weary ❤‍🩹🧚‍♀🌱🌼

[@kaitlynroberts5027]

Agreed. 💚

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Yes.

[@nocapproductions5471]

Its not nornal to bired all the time. Check your diet

[@Vicky-ke5bi]

This is exactly how I feel. When it gets too much, too loud and overwhelming I check in here and find peace and hope. Thank you for showing us your world.

[@catherinelee6890]

@@nocapproductions5471 Um that's not what I meant... I meant that whenever we feel tired of the world, this channel is a safe space.

[@lilsheba1]

I have always been a slow mover, ever since I started working as a young adult back in the 1980s I needed extra time to get ready. If I rush I feel panicked and make mistakes. And now I'm even slower due to disability. A very slow, methodically planned life, no rushing about or overworking or any of that.

[@mmmmlllljohn]

I hope you feel better soon. Your miniature houses are lovely. You have an old soul but also the kid in you is still there - it’s a good combination to have! ❤️🇨🇦

[@fatimashaikjee6408]

Each finger in a hand is different but still valuable and worthy of love. The different personalities and perspectives make life interesting and beautiful. I love that you are being truthfully and authentically you.

[@JeffJensen55]

“Isn’t it wonderful to just celebrate all lifestyles and see what each perspective on life has to offer.” Truer words were never spoken. If only more people felt that way. I hope you realize just how powerful your voice is in this crazy world in which we live. Thank you for sharing your life, and thoughts, with us.

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@letitiakingsley775]

I really enjoyed listening to you.

[@mattconway7409]

What a wonderful voice you have. So calming. Thank you

[@GypsyMaeRose]

I'm a low energy person, due to invisible disabilities and most people don't seem to understand it, which sometimes leaves me feeling isolated. Thank you for this video, it's nice to know I'm not alone 🙏❤️

[@toliveischrist950]

Some people close to me have called me a “flower,” delicate, sensitive. I tend to get ill quite often and can’t seem to maintain a typical American work schedule because I burn out faster than others. I accept that and I work with myself instead of against myself. I love what you said about having inherent worth. It’s all about love which creates a perfect bond. Glad you’re feeling better! Those miniatures are so adorable.

[@clairebearie87]

yes this is me too..but I am Australian

[@EdenAvenue84]

I was thinking there was something wrong with me because i burn out after work a lot and i just dont want to do anything, afterwards, i just want to be peaceful and calm but i think i just move slower. I appreciate this video and these comments.

[@lifelikeatob]

Have you looked into HSP (highly sensitive person)? Getting to know about it helped me so much

[@CindyWarren2004]

Omg this perfectly describes me!

[@gabrielaburcea5734]

In the mbti you might be an infp

[@MicheleLRid]

You have such a beautiful soul, Paola. I’m glad you’re recovering and I appreciate your honest reminder that however we are “wired” - we are worthy and not broken or wrong. It takes some of us decades to realize this. Best wishes for a complete recovery!

[@lynnh4923]

I'm sitting here in tears because for me you are the first person I've heard saying the things you are and I can so relate. I try to keep up with my spouse who has tons of energy but I just don't and a lot of people interpret that as being lazy which I'm not but sadly society puts a lot of emphasis on how much one can get done in a day. This is been a real eye-opener and thank you!

[@lynnehorizon5532]

I lost a potentially valuable friendship because I simply couldn’t keep up with her. She was fed up.

[@ginaclosson4479]

Your authenticity is so appreciated, you may never really know how many people you help. Although if it was just one person that would be worth it to you. Thankyou for sharing your life.💕

[@Seeking_Myself]

Glad that you listened to your body and rested in bed for those few days. Wishing you a continued recovery - but it doesn't have to be speedy. Take time for you 💜

[@karenbean271]

Very beautifully explained. I and my husband are both pretty low energy. Our two kids seem to be as well. Now that our children are teenagers, they are noticing how much more other families seem to do on any given week, and how much more their friends seem to accomplish on any given day. I love what you said about not comparing; admire their energy and success, but don’t undervalue yourself for doing what others perceive as “less.”

[@Arielleoo]

Wow dropping some wisdom “there is no easier way to feel like you’re lacking than to worship a personality that is not your own.” 🔥

[@FlyGuy457]

I have a more "slow going" love in my life. She is more thoughtful, decided, and filled with life than I find myself to be. The trade off is worth it. She seems to care more. I do admire you and your openness. Be well.

[@bergannon6585]

How very refreshing to hear you give yourself permission to admit that you vibrate at a lower energy level. You are so right, so many of us go against our own unique personalities, just so we can fit in. It's crazy. I am so glad you highlighted this and by doing so help us to embrace our unique individuality. Many heart felt blessings to you from Ireland ☘️💐☘️

[@ctube221]

Your voice, presence; just overall persona is very calming and pleasant.

[@PeachiPixie]

I absolutely feel the same way. I’m currently seventeen, and most people after school want to hang out and do all sorts of stuff. I’ve never been the person to have enough energy for the hangouts, especially not after I’ve had such a long day where I had to force myself to be social and interactive. I’ve found that often times friends see this as a negative thing. They think I don’t like them, or that I’m boring and such. Even though in reality this isn’t the case at all. Im an introvert, I’m also hyper sensitive, and I have quite bad general anxiety. I’ve had therapy for a year, it ended a few months back. And it really helped me to understand why I am the way I am. But it’s still quite difficult. I find myself wishing I was more extroverted, wishing I didn’t need those hours locked up in my room. But then I realise that I’d be even more miserable if I did do the things that I really didn’t want to do. It’s a struggle. And I really am stuck between two worlds sometimes. I suppose it doesn’t really help that all my hobbies are activities I do in solitary. I too kind of am embarrassed to admit that I’m exhausted when the last hour of school or work ends, exhausted to a point where I don’t want to talk, where I don’t want to have a conversation with anyone. Even if it’s my mom asking me how my day went. I just don’t have the energy, and I hate that. I dislike that about myself. But I’ve never been any different, so I suppose it’s not very kind to be so harsh on myself. Putting one foot in-front of the other seems like the only option in situations like that. School is starting again for me next week, and with that also comes my anxiety lurking behind the door. Kind of a package deal at this point. I’ll do my best to keep my head held high, and in cases where I don’t have the energy to do so. I’ll try to be content with looking at my shoes. Wish me luck :)

[@animalkingdom8844]

Good luck sweetie. You are not alone.

[@sweetkarma1345]

You already have a great understanding of that aspect of yourself than I did at your age or many many other people older than you! Don’t worry, everything comes with time, you will see. Just know you are loved and supported.

[@AmB39]

You’re definitely not alone. I’m 37 now and am basically exactly the same way. It does get a bit easier as we get older though so that should be a comfort for you.

[@kimai111]

I feel like I’ve been where you are. As an introvert and “sensitive,” learning to protect your energy is vital to your well-being. People can draining but only if you allow them. Also learning to do things that replenish your energy like spending time outdoors in nature or anything related to self-care are crucial to keeping your energy grounded and feeling good.

[@PeachiPixie]

@@animalkingdom8844 thank u!

[@theheleneway8945]

I feel quiet the same. Ive always had less energy than others even as a child. Much love to you slow living is great💚💚💚

[@euniceloy7120]

Paola (I apologized if I spelled that incorrectly) you are my kindred soul sister. I love the quiet and solitude, I am a homebody and love to just rumble around my home. I love your creativity I admire it greatly as I am not that creative. Having been ill myself this past week, just getting out of a 4 day hospital from an abscess, I was thrilled to walk into my quiet place, curl up into my recliner with my down comforter and a heating pad and just melt listening to the quiet. I pray that you recover soon and be back to your normal active life. God bless and keep you.

[@adilfarooq1892]

you speak so so well, can't explain how relatable you are. loads of prayers for your health.

[@AshatHome]

I too have always been an introvert even as a child books and calm were my favorite things. I have fibromyalgia and chronic migraines so I completely understand how fatigue can take over. This video was lovely💛🌻

[@the_real_littlepinkhousefly]

That "low energy" thing is my daily life, as a person with chronic illnesses. And brain fog makes having hobbies difficult (although I still manage to crank out a novel from time to time ... ADHD hyperfocus helps, ha ha). It is VERY hard not to compare myself and my life with that of "normal", healthy people, especially with the "value" or "productivity" or "usefulness" thing. It's easy to feel "put on the shelf" and beat myself up for only being able to do a few things most days. I can't work (as in, paycheck type stuff) at all. I'm working on seeing myself as valuable even when I can't really contribute to the larger world. It's hard. I enjoy your channel because I get to live a bit vicariously through you. I'm so glad you're feeling better now!

[@carolynfettes1785]

So nice to read your comment and to hear of others struggles. Thank you.

[@aaloha2902]

@littlepinkhousefly @TheCottageFairy Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼🌺 I relate to this so much, with chronic health issues, ADHD etc. There are weeks that my body is so exhausted, it hardly digests food and I eat soup from puréed vegetables. Hard not to compare and even harder to fit in with my own generation (50 y.o) but as an Empath & single mom, my home is feel-good space for my daughter’s friends, many are on the spectrum, HSP or ADHD. Even the ADHD support is much better now for girls now. I personally was never diagnosed, but with what I learned about it with/for my daughter (20 y.o) it made a lot of sense in hindsight. It helps me to stay away from people who compare everything to healthy outgoing ppl and devalue me & my life, because it’s different. I choose to surround myself with kind gentle people, even if there’s just a few that really know me. It’s how you fill in your time/energy what matters and makes your life beautiful in your own experience. You are all beautiful and worthy❣️🫶🏼

[@georgina1921]

@littlepinkhousefly Thank you for sharing your story. I can really relate to it being chronically ill and exhausted for over 30 years myself. I’m sorry for your struggles and I hope you find peace in knowing you are as valuable as anyone else, just being you. Peace and blessings to you.

[@koyelachakrabarti]

wish you love light and joy. It's a pity, the world today fails to recognize that happiness is all we are craving for, each one of us. Not the competition, not the accolades not the productivity..

[@yunalee13]

Hello!.. I have many chronic illnesses too. It started with multiple sclerosis and now much more. I live inside my home I'm not able to go out. But still I'm trying to find happiness in small things that usually people don't even notice :)

[@susangage2954]

I'm so glad you got a diagnosis, a treatment, and are recovering! Our bodies tell us things when we are ill, so it sounds like you got the message from your body that said "Whoa...slow down...and heal." For someone as young as you are, I am amazed at your maturity and insight. I am 76 and still learning what you already know! I love your videos -- I am a "slow" introverted person as well and when I watch your videos I'm so much more relaxed, calm, engaged, and full of love for not only your way of life but for all the little things you beautifully capture with that camera of yours. Flowers, insects, clouds, mountains, trees, plants, your dog, your cat, your bunny (I miss him, as I'm sure you do), your painting, your books, your mellow voice, the way you move through your house and the surrounding area outside, your love of your husband and family, and so much more. I'm so glad I found your channel -- it keeps me sane in this insane world we live in.

[@tomdsilva4014]

i agree with everything you have said. the world does not appreciate us introverts as i have experienced. be yourself and proud of who you are!

[@williams8705]

It’s so nice to see when you’ve put out one of your peaceful videos. There’s so much negative to watch on the ytube, yours are a breath of fresh air, thanks!!

[@brendawhite3156]

As a cancer survivor, I've come to learn that even illness must embraced. It's through the embracing that we enter into our growth for that season in time. It was during my recovery that I learned many valuable lessons that could nor would have otherwise been learned. Oftentimes, our difficulty is a period of transition that cannot be recognized until we've gone through it and stop to reflect. And it's in those seasons that we must embrace the moment, live in the moment, be fully present in order to get the most out of that experience. Resistance will only produce a setback. Then what must be done is to allow the setback to become our comeback.

[@Molly_Bakes]

It was relieving to hear that there are other people out there with low energy. I've been struggling with energy considerably for months and working with my doctor to solve this seemingly mysterious drop in energy. I've been trying to take it slow, take care of my plants, and embroider lately. Although it doesn't feel good to have to take it slow and be low-energy, there is something magical about actually being *able* to take it slow in our world today.

[@medusalegna]

just as an fyi you should look into long covid and ME/CFS. I hope you find what's causing it and restore some of that energy!

[@alwayslearning7672]

I would like to find out more about what causes this low energy in people. I mean, there must be a cause ,right?

[@arianamooon]

Well said

[@rachelweyenberg9574]

Same here! I've struggled with low energy since I was a teenager... I'm 42 now. Recently, I worked with a functional medicine Dr and I'm getting answers I wish I had long time ago. You might want to look into getting tested for reactivated epstein barr virus. Wishing you well.

[@isabelmartin40]

Yes, very true!

[@EmelineKnits]

I'm finally recovering from a 3-month-long illness that crushed all of my summer plans and forced me to slow down and focus on the most basic things (praying and feeding/dressing myself). Slowing down gave me so much inner peace, which is more valuable than anything I could have accomplished this summer. I hope you will continue to take it slow even when you feel all better 😊

[@imwithyou6187]

That's amazing we all can discuss this topic! Thank you, Paola and all people in the comments🌸 Magic is I know this point of view but I needed to hear it from another person. Because I didn't choose such people in my life. My surroundings was about work, tasks, surviving, social status all the time. And I literally could find any possibility to match myself to somebody or something! So I used to think "I'm doing not enough" despite my hard working. Let's rest and enjoy our life, lovely people!

[@suzukibandit400]

Almost seems like we are being punished sometimes for slowing down; for not rushing. Thanks you for your content. 💗💗💗

[@Liam421Liam]

I love your channel! Thanks for being inspiring to so many:)

[@luisv7117]

It is nice to see you again and happy to know you got your energy back and that wasn't appendicitis, again thank you for sharing your life with us, you are part of our huge world wide family God bless you.

[@aprilsun8562]

Beautiful truth beautifully expressed. Thank you. Acceptance of low energy is the beginning of happiness.

[@tessarae9127]

Wow, totally was caught up reminiscing my own amphetamine addiction from a time in my life where I felt pressured to keep up. Nobody talks about legal addictions and it’s almost seen as a virtue in America and other fast paced parts of the world 🌧 glad you touched upon that a bit! I’m happy to say that I left that life behind permanently once I began having seizures from the medication and my doctor’s ONLY solution was to prescribe anti seizure medication. That’s how it goes here. 🌧💊🌧 Sometimes we need to take control of our lives and I’m so glad I listened to myself in that situation, because I feel it could have easily gotten much worse…

[@visionvixxen]

I’m sort of constantly chasing energy and on vyvanse right now … but for clarity, ADD and energy. Even mood. Still, I am slow…. I need a life that can accommodate my health as we all do, but have a hard time reconciling this with my actual desires-to create, adventure, see and do the new, be around groups of people. One cannot take vyvanse and caffeine forever though, without crashing. So it’s hard to figure out when to retreat even more and when to get out there. This is really hard for me and no winning both ways. Have been a long distance runner and for the past two months, my exercise has devolved into almost nothing except maybe one or two slow days a week. Wondering if my HPA axis is off, stimulants burned me out, I’m just bored and this translates into low energy, but moving my legs feels like molasses and motivating my brain just as hard.

[@tessarae9127]

@@visionvixxen Ahh… Yes, Vyvanse was the exact medication I was on in that time in my life… And I also used it to help with being more social, now I prefer to spend most of my time alone. Though that could change I don’t party near as much as I used to! The first thing I noticed when on it that was not so good - everyday around four o clock I would just start to really feel like shit and honestly hate myself for no apparent reason… Like just really tank it in every way. Eventually I realized oh, that’s probably when it wears off 😝 When I went off, I didn’t do it with no backup… I started taking a high quality DHA fish oil and taking note of the omega 3/6 ratio being ingested in my food. This helped with my brain health (I felt like my brain was damaged permanently from that and other unhealthy lifestyle choices)… Studies have found DHA can actually reverse brain damage so that was really encouraging, and it helped stop the seizures from happening, I had a sort of ptsd from the seizures and eventually stopped stoking myself out and experiencing them, or feeling like it could happen at any moment without explanation, within two or three months. But the other thing that really helped me was adaptogens, I began taking rhodiola rosea after moving off the meds… ((didn’t really move off I just quit cold turkey because seizures are one of the most terrifying experiences a person can have, you lose control temporarily of mind and body…)) Rhodiola helped me stay focused without being as intense as meds and is recommended as a herbal way of treating attention disorders. Like meds you can eventually build a tolerance to it so you need to go off it for a week every month or two. It helped a lot though, now I no longer take it because it can also exacerbate bipolar like symptoms in some people and while I’m not diagnosed, I’ve wondered sometimes 💭 Also went off artificial food coloring completely (I have my own theories now on why artificial coloring sucks; it basically tricks your body into thinking you’re eating fruits and veggies when you’re not)… red 40, blue 7, those sort of names on ingredient labels I avoid completely, and luckily there are many natural alternatives available now for candies and such 🙂 And took a high quality milk thistle to help with liver problems (eventually did a liver flush to permanently reverse liver “damage” caused by the meds) All this I share for if you find yourself in a space of wanting to quit or possibly feeling like I did, you either quit or die (literally how I felt at the time)… There’s better ways of quitting than others and all of this helped reduce the overall load on my body and brain. Best of luck to you on your journey… 💗🙏💗

[@annabell3385]

I call it the cult of busyness. So many of my friends and family overextend themselves but complain constantly (but like they're proud) of how "busy" they are. They usually do not need to be half as busy as they make themselves.

[@braklola]

Tessa this was so helpful for me! I also have seizures and have been medicated. It is a very scary reality. I will try your recommendations. Take care. 💜💜💜

[@sierraelizabeth3817]

I’m recovering from Covid pneumonia and recently relapsed because I pushed myself too far and wasn’t taking care of myself. Now I’m back in bed and I really, really needed to hear this message today. Thank you for sharing and I hope you feel better soon!!

[@sandrarenner4402]

Feel better too!

[@TheCottageFairy]

Thank you and I hope recover as well! ❤️ much love

[@valfletcher9285]

Warm wishes for your recovery. UGH it feels awful. I have had it twice.

[@ktjovander]

I have been ill for a month because I got post-Covid bronchitis. The person who exposed us came over for dinner extremely run down and fatigued, but unwilling to listen to his body or respect us enough to stay home. The next day we got the text that he tested positive for Covid. It’s hard to let go of the anger my hubby and I are feeling over basically losing a month of our own lives to misery and isolation during the best part of summer in Wisconsin. Rough to watch the garden struggle and lapse into late summer wildness because I do not have the energy or breath to tend it as usual. The message in this video hit my heart also. We can accept less productivity and necessary rest. Hang in there and don’t push yourself. You are not alone! Blessings for a strong recovery!

[@janetburgess5781]

This is my life.... I was almost finished my comment when it disappeared. 🤥 Just want to say, I love watching your channel because you make me feel okay about myself. I am aloud to be weaker than maybe I was. I have been diagnosed with chronic fatigue. I thought having a name for my low energy would help others understand why I can't keep up with them but no. They have great advice like, you just need to get out more, you need to fight this feeling, everyone gets tired even me and your not that old. When I was working all I could think about is retyring and doing what ever I wanted to, in my own little home at my own pace. Yet with the ''amassing '' advice I am getting from my so called friends, who by the way are all younger than me, I feel like a useless old lady. Today you made me feel like it's not my problem it is theirs. Oh, and I am in constant pain with two types of arthritis. Thank you Please continue to make videos at your own pace. They are worth waiting for,❤

[@ola-teashbies3480]

Hey, I feel the same. I'm always sleepy, having brain fog and low energy (also diagnosed with Hashimoto) understand you perfectly. I only wany to say you are not alone. I hope people around you understand what you feel. If they not it's not your fault. I hope you will be okay and try to life your life in the best way suitable for youself ヾ(˙❥˙)ﾉ

[@michelleslifeonrepeat]

I share the illness too and I too fell like the old lady… well, I probably am but… oh well. Nice to meet you.

[@janetburgess5781]

Thank you for the replies. It is good to know I am with good people. Hugs

[@ktkrogstad]

As someone living with severe ME/CFS, I am housebound and sometimes bedbound. This demands a very slow and mindful lifestyle of pacing myself as I go about each activity, letting energy trickle, rather than rush (which usually leaves me bedridden for days or weeks.) It has been a huge adjustment for me, as I was someone who traveled and danced and loved being around people. After several years of learning to slow down, I’m much more at peace with this way of life and starting to enjoy it more and more. I always appreciate your reflections and insights. Thank you for sharing 🥰

[@jenniferfanucci4700]

I am so glad and thankful that you’ve chosen to honor your more introverted, slower paced self because you and your videos have brought me great joy, calm and peace in this very loud chaotic world that we’ve been living in these last few years. ❤️

[@tiffanywatson7615]

I love this video so much!! I’ve felt guilty for needing time to myself. I am a mother of 3 boys and a director of a non-profit. My natural mode is slower than most. I had a large to-do list today. But you encouraged me to drop the list for today and bake some bread 🍞 Your videos helped me so much last year. I spent a great amount of time in the hospital then needed major surgery. You have brought my spirit so much peace!!

[@farmhouseonthemountain]

I'm a quite introverted person and can easily spend days indoors. It's therapeutic for me. I'm sorry your hideaway was sickness induced, though. Even when you're unwell, your presence brings brightness to my day. Feel better 💜

[@a_new_life_41]

Thanks so much for this post. I’m a “slower” person myself and often am out of gas at the end of the day. I prefer to focus more on meaning rather than (endless) achieving. Our current world isn’t really oriented that way, but still it’s nice to know I’m not alone.

[@MinaFem]

Beautiful thoughts ❤️❤️ thanks for sharing, oh indeed you have a lot to offer, everyone has, in its own ways.

[@Fg4e]

I so enjoy your channel. I have worked retail my whole life and your worth as an employee is often based on fast and efficient. I loved the fast pace and being around lots of people but I'm recently retired. And that need for speed is gone. I never realized how much my job affected my view of myself. Your videos are teaching me that there's worth and beauty in a slower pace and how to find it in my own life. So, thanks for being you 😊 and sharing a part of yourself with us!

[@luisv7117]

I love the idea of a street on a book shelf wow wow

[@weknowlah]

I have so many extroverted, outgoing, and energetic friends and i feel really insecure about my own personality. I’ve always been very shy and my social battery tends to die very quickly. I thought that i have to change and overcome it somehow. But thanks for telling me that it’s okay to have low energy and to take things slowly. Love your videos so much, take care CottageFairy! Wishing you happiness and health 😊❤️

[@evonne315]

You're a goddess, your message is so needed ✨️ Thank you 🙏 - From a person with disabling CFS/ME, a living example of what this fast paced world will ultimately do to us if we don't slow down to our OWN individual pace. Nobody elses but ones own. Congratulations, you have done it!! 💃

[@karmakauffman7445]

I’m so glad to hear you’re feeling better! Perhaps your naturally slower rhythm is what helps you to be the artist you are. I think creating art requires a lot of time - time spent observing (the natural world), processing what is seen, planning, creating, etc.. I’ve started playing with watercolors and one of the first things I noticed was that I hadn’t been observing the world as closely as I thought I had, that looking closely at a flower or tree required me to stop and actually pay attention to all kinds of things I normally wouldn’t take note of. And the creating itself requires time and deliberation. It is a wonderful practice for me as I tend to rush my way through projects. Perhaps a naturally slower pace through life is a wonderful gift.

[@michellenelson11]

As someone who spent much of my life trying to have a personality I thought people expected of me, I LOVE your message here. I wasn't usually comfortable being the energetic, outgoing girl who made everyone laugh. Chronic illnesses have forced me to slow down and listen to my body in many ways, including accepting and appreciating the introvert aspect. Since doing so, people have become convinced something is now wrong with me because I'm not meeting what they feel was my "healthy" personality. I've learned to stand up for myself but it hasn't always been easy. It is so important for those of us who have learned this to speak out to help others. Thank you for doing that.

[@rubyrayman5701]

The miniature forest house you made is so adorable, I want to live there hehe. I also love the book nook you made. You are so talented and the creativity that reflects so much in your videos is so lovely to watch. Thank you for sharing such uplifting and comforting content 📚🧚‍♀🍄💕

[@ReneeC43]

Thank you for this; I'm so glad it's not just me that finds the traditional 9 to 5 40 hour work expectation to be draining and feel wrong ❤️❤️

[@ATC.Tigerlily]

I’m almost 50 and have finally learned to stop living as a personality that is not my own, even if I was high functioning by society standards. It was not my standards of life as I resonate with. Such valuable wisdom you share. I’m the "odd" one out in my family,at least the way it’s perceived by others for all my life. In reality my unique is a gift as the way God made me to bring variety and depth to the world like all our uniqueness does. And those who didn’t recognize and honor it missed out the the chance to experience something positive. Blessings to you in your positive journey. And thank you for honoring us all for who we were born to be. May you feel better soon at your pace and in the way that nurtures you the best. Namaste 🙏 Amen 🕊

[@rachelweyenberg9574]

This is a beautiful message. Good for you for finding your pace and embracing it. I am 42 and really trying to find the peace you are describing.

[@tomdsilva4014]

it is really sad when people want you to change from who you are and not just accept you as you are.

[@ATC.Tigerlily]

Rachel, thank for your reply. It required some very tough decisions but distance or removing toxic people, places and things is the most freeing despite how long I’ve lived with them in my life. You deserve that freedom in your soul. At your own pace and in your own time. You’re brave for just starting to make your way step by step. Namaste 🙏

[@ATC.Tigerlily]

Hi Tom, sad indeed yet I found sadder for those that do it to others for the lack is in themselves. And many inadvertently do it out of love and protection. But still not positive even if intentions were good but poorly applied. Truth is the only answer if they are open to hear it. Otherwise, we each must make our choices and live our consequences of them. I pray for the best for everyone but I can’t control it or do it for them or have anyone do it for me. Such positive energy in this community. Namaste 🙏

[@lovelykitty_]

I am the odd one out in my family since I didn't attend few weddings, I just can't handle them and have to recover from social events after

[@Anne-fv6nc]

i’m (slowly) becoming okay with needing a slower pace in life, and it’s so helpful to have a “friend” who’s gone through the same thing. you talk about looking up to high-energy people - we also need thoughtful people to look up to. thank you for sharing your life with us and being an example of how beautiful life can be at a slower pace.

[@Wtfwhatisthis]

Your channel is such a safe place for me on KZbin, as I’m sure is the case with so many others. Thank you for being a place of calm in such a chaotic world.

[@scottbrown6774]

Thank you for sharing your calming nature I can never slow down my mind or body long enough to enjoy just existing😔

[@ladyinthemountains2527]

This has come to be my philosophy in recent years when I tend to beat myself up over things I cannot do... "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid."

[@shaynajanelle]

I have always struggled with feeling “lazy” compared to others. When I was pregnant with my first child I learned the hard way that I needed to honor my body. I wanted to just push through and keep up with everyone else but my body suffered greatly. I am now at the end of my third pregnancy and I choose to take care of myself as an act of love to my whole family. I don’t push myself physically and I don’t feel guilty about it anymore!

[@rachelweyenberg9574]

I am trying to find that peace that you are describing. Embracing your own unique pace. I feel like being a mom is my greatest hurdle in finding and embracing my pace. My daughter is so energetic. Plus, I always try to work more to give her more. Any advice?

[@tomdsilva4014]

yes, since i have such severe thryroid and adrenal and low storage exhaustion etc., i too have been called lazy. i am not lazy just tired. if we could change we would. would love to be high energy.

[@rebeccal.h.anderson9292]

@@rachelweyenberg9574 By working harder and longer, are you focused on giving her “things?” A lot of inexpensive, slightly used items can be found at thrift stores. Sometimes you need to but new and groceries can add up. But by taking time for yourself, you are teaching her values to follow and teaching her to respect your needs and to respect her own needs. Simple things like baking cookies together or even chores of cleaning can be made fun when the end product is a house that smells, looks fresh. Simple things in life are important and her seeing you smile and hug her are very important. Teach her Faith, Hope, and Love.Sending you love from God above and Me.

[@rebeccal.h.anderson9292]

*sometimes you need to buy new things and groceries can add up.

[@rachelweyenberg9574]

@@rebeccal.h.anderson9292 Yes, I agree with you. For me it's not material things that I work hard to give her. It's experiences, opportunities, supporting her in what she's passionate about like riding lessons, private lessons to work through challenges keeping her from getting her black belt. But I love this conversation and the support. I feel inspired💙. Blessings🌈

[@karenrichardson8918]

I truly identify with this. It took a long time to realize this for myself. Often I've been considered lazy, but I'm now much more comfortable just being myself. Thank you.

[@linkedinlove106]

Paola, I'm low energy too, but when I look like I'm doing nothing, I'm actively observing, listening and evaluating. I've recently recognized I'm an empath, and this discovery has opened my world! There is nothing wrong with me - I simply approach life differently, enjoy my alone time (crave it!), and feel so blessed to finally understand there is a name for who I am. Suffering for years with panhypopituitarism, anemia, fibromyalgia and, recently, leukemia, I've always blamed my health for my quiet nature. Now I know that, while these issues certainly do leave my body fatigued, my mind is sharp as a tack! I've used my terrific intuition to help others understand themselves and this is truly the biggest blessing of all. How can I purchase your adorable mice? (Tried your Etsy) I also donated:)

[@journeytheworld8848]

Every time I watch her videos and I am an older adult male and somehow she draws you in and there's this calmness and reminiscing with her storytelling. Additionally, all the people out of thousands of KZbin videos I see the most engaging comments. So beautiful!

[@GreenGino]

That's the effect of a woman that is actually feminine in nature will have on a guy very pleasing to us, one day I hope to find a woman like that.