Life Simplified - Lessons Learned | Dominique Sachse

[@renephillips6739]

I stopped buying new clothes and started focusing on diet and fitness so I could fit in the clothes I already have. No more gym membership and personal trainer. I've stopped depending on (and paying) a trainer to make me accountable. I spend a lot more time outside - even in this Texas heat - and it is so renewing. The best therapy.

[@TermiteVideo]

Rene Phillips sounds amazing Rene

[@imdbtoo]

Rene, since Covid started I have taken up running. I laugh when people tell me I should run earlier to avoid the heat. Unless you live in TX, you don't realize that there is no earlier. Whether I run at 2 am or 7 am, the temp is high 70s/low 80s :D

[@renephillips6739]

@@imdbtoo IKR!!??

[@kathyczulinski1280]

Rene Phillips, same here! No buying more clothes, just working on myself. A fit, trim body can be a great accessory. But here in the cold Canadian winter, it's more about layering up before a walk or run!

[@Jholachaapresearcher]

I am trying to do this Rene ...

[@pamelaeber9014]

Amen sister! So often I go out shopping and then say, “nah, don’t need it” , its like we’ve all weaned off of “STUFF”! We are free! Btw, my tip about face moisturizers that you pass over... I’ve started taking those underwhelming face creams and using them on my feet before I go to bed. My feet love it and I don’t feel like I have to put a product on my face that I’m not fond of. Another thing that I’ve started, adding in meditation/devotional time before bed and not just in the morning... the pressures mount and by the end of the day I’m stressed again. I go back to my bible and journal, prayer and writing, sort of “apply as needed” with the good stuff- makes for good sleep knowing you’ve put yourself and your life back in faithful hands. Xoxo xoxo

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Exactly! I'm using unused creams for my body to help get rid of them. If they can work on my face, they can certainly work on my chest and elsewhere :)

[@maxinemewis4300]

Me too! I’ve been using up hand cream on my heels! 🙊 x

[@mommabear5059]

Pamela Eber great idea!!

[@joycea3561]

I have taken all my hotel samples and unused lotions and have combined them all in one bottle. The same with shampoos and conditioners.

[@ursulaclarke6066]

Great idea

[@pjritter7049]

Yes! My journey in this area started with my breast cancer diagnosis in 2019. My life was moving at a pace that I couldn’t sustain, and I had no idea how to slow down until cancer redefined what “essential” means. I had been only been back at work a short time when COVID struck, followed by my employer’s decision to cut my position. At 55, I have no idea when or how I might step back into the workforce, but I know that in this season of sabbath and quiet, I am listening, learning and leaving some parts of my life behind, including many of the things you touched on in your video. Thank you for these timely reminders, and for modeling the way for so many of us subscribers! Blessings to you, Dominique!

[@sherielehr5684]

I too have went through breast cancer and changed for the better. I pray that you stay Cancer free

[@estig.1798]

God bless you with happiness and health!! May you only experience good in life❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jeanettehigginbotham]

Best of luck to you in your continued good health. The same thing happened to me when I had breast cancer in 2006. Bless you!

[@tellytighe]

Pj. What an inspirational response to Dominique’s video. I think Covid has reminded us time with family and good friends is everything. I’m very blessed and honored to live the life I have so far but I’m sure clouds are forming for me at some point. However, like you achieved, the I hope to rise to the occasion and push thru at that time. I’m hoping for your strength at that time. God bless. X

[@glenda7846]

May God provide your needs and make you flourish during this time.

[@misspoes8362]

I worked 50 hours a week for 30 years and raised my daughter alone (25 years single mom) and got sick. The last 5 years I took care of my parents and brother (down's syndrome) with love and respect. My mother died and now I am taking care of my father (85) and brother. I also try not to think how I do it, I just do. I love them very much. We take care of eachother 😉. I want to thank you for all your tips on make-up but especially on how to take care of myself. Thank you 🙏

[@dianem7771]

I'm with you on simplifying, decluttering, and not wasting money on things we don't really need. Life is not about owning stuff. The biggest shift in my life is I'm taking time to rest, relax, meditate, garden, and do what makes me truly happy. I've made myself a priority instead of my career. Watching you is so relaxing. I could listen to you for hours. Your voice is so calming. Thank you for everything you do for us. 🙏🏼💜🤗

[@judybunch160]

I agree!!! I always feel like we are “friends”, and you help me... 💗

[@sandrabubon7699]

Please I do need you, I'm 80 yrs. Leave alone & depresión. Thank you

[@juliachapman1053]

Does anyone else now cringe/ feel sick when they see “Massive **** Haul” on a video? Best video EVER!! Would love to see this on Prime Time TV (though I bet you’ll be getting the message out even faster, Dominique with all your subscribers). Why can’t everyone see this is the way we Have to live to help save our amazing planet? With side effects of increased happiness, gratitude, peace and more cash, what’s not to love? Well done, Dominique - keep getting this message out! Many thanks ❤️

[@judithpearson8870]

Thank you Dominique. You have a wonderful way of delivering your thoughts and feelings. I’m 82 and I’m still not too old to appreciate your very wise and poignant ways of thinking 🤔. I’m still trying and still learning. Be blessed Dominique and continue giving us a part of you.

[@marydecker2562]

You speak so beautifully, eloquently, articulately, meaningfully. God graced you with a wonderful heart and mind combo. Thank you for sharing what has risen to the surface for you during this time. Your awakenings resonate with so many of us.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Wow, thank you!

[@marydecker2562]

Dominique, you're so welcome!

[@nancytimpa1981]

You hit the nail on the head with this post. These have been rough months but having the time to slow down has been life changing. My heart breaks for so many with financial difficulty but I pray they have found some peace as well.

[@karenheddleson1936]

I’m 76 years old and still learning how to live a simplified life. Thank you for sharing your insight and faith. Every video you post has provided me with knowledge.

[@beweslee]

Dominique, thanks so much for this! I have had the same thing happening. I'm a physician, and I realize I've been running since high school. This has been time to honor myself. That is very new for me. My life has always been pushing myself to accomplish a goal or to satisfy someone else. I do start to feel more present in my own skin. I love your perspective and suggestions.

[@cynthiamartin1631]

I have realized and done the same things as you. And staying at home and PAYING ATTENTION to my life has caused me to make changes that at some level I knew I needed. I have had the time to look around and see that I have everything I ever wanted. Relationships, my home, my schedule, and a wonderful husband. I have found myself thanking God for the many blessings He has given me. What I have and what I am is all I need. This has been the such an important few months for my life.

[@dianewicks8934]

Oh, boy, I could have written this about myself. Everyone always told me I was so busy, and I would just say I was trying to live a full life. But rushing out the door every day for so many activities, even though they were great things like community service, church related, classes, etc., had left me more exhausted than I realized. The first few weeks of the pandemic were actually a relief in the fact that I could get off the hamster wheel. Thank you for your wonderful honest and inspiration.

[@Stellaperez658]

2020 has been a huge eye opener. I’ve gotten rid of all things I don’t need or use. I’ve saved a lot of money without hardship! I eat better. I feel I live better keeping only the things I love. I don’t shop bc I’m bored. It’s not been a wonderful year bc of Covid n restrictions but also opened my eyes as to what is important! A silver lining!!!!

[@LFerrill]

BINGO! 🥰. My mantra is “Use it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.” 🤗 This mindset has afforded me the funds to travel the world and have incredible life experiences! My 50s have taught me to never be a hostage to trends, excess, and other wasteful things.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Love that! So true..

[@stardresser1]

What a fantastic mantra! I love it. I'm gonna use it. Thank you, very wise indeed!!!

[@marialeon3167]

Just wanted to thank you for this. I have been feeling so much lately. So much anxiety. So many realizations. As a mother and wife who spent the last twenty years concentrating in my kids and what was needed for them, I lost myself. My kids are all grown up now and I have come to terms that I need to take more good care of myself. This resonated so much to what I am going through. You are an inspiration. Thank you again for using this platform to help others! Many blessings!

[@peaceatlast2684]

My son rang me today to tell me he has lost his job I’m praying that something good will come out of it He has a passion in life for a different market and I’m hoping this watershed will put him on his true path xx

[@betsyross9503]

PEACEATLAST - When doors close other doors open👍🏻. Wishing your son the best 💛

[@peaceatlast2684]

Thank you xx

[@mladendjukanovic7891]

Good times build confidence! Bad times build CHARACTER! God will never give you more than you can handle! Best regards and wishes from Belgrade, Serbia, Europe!

[@peaceatlast2684]

Thank you from Ireland 🇮🇪 xx

[@mladendjukanovic7891]

@@peaceatlast2684 🤗

[@KristinaL1698]

This is one of the most meaningful things I've seen and heard in a long time. Thank you for boldly sharing the things you have learned. They're such personal lessons that apply to so many of us. With so much unrest of so many varieties, I've found myself looking at my own feelings and deciding that getting upset wasn't working for me, so I wanted to focus on love -- how to notice it, and how to share it. It's been one of the best gifts I've given to myself this year.

[@Amy-qe7ti]

Tina, such a beautiful comment. The world needs more of you! Thank you for sharing, this hit home. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💕💕

[@howtoloseweightwithdietchanges]

Tina S. It is absolutely true

[@carmengail61]

I agree. Me too!

[@agentglow6334]

Tina S. Love, love, love this! ❤️❤️❤️Imagine all of us sharing love to all! Positive feelings of love can heal in so many ways, not only others but ourselves too.

[@mariabarradas4235]

Really?...she is a nice person but when you top list revolves about buying...I was hoping for something with a bit more substance, times are terrible for some people and this is just about clothes, manicures and pedicures, restaurants,...sorry, very disappointed.

[@JJSolitude]

I stopped spending money on manicures and pedi's when I experienced horrible conditions to my nails from having them covered in toxic paint all the time. Now I enjoy the look of good healthy natural nails.

[@butterfly-girl6867]

Me too. I like natural looking nails. I keep a good nail strengthening top coat and filed neatly

[@eijaananda2539]

This has been the time to simplify. I really got into gardening and that has been so rewarding. Being outside and in nature really lifts your spirits. One thing that was really helpful to save both time, money and sanity, was to have a weekly meal plan. This month has been quite busy with work which is great, but I noticed that how easy it’s get back into working all hours. Balance is so important, to remember to shut the computer and go for a walk. ❤️ Stay safe, blessings from Finland

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Well said! Blessings to you, too..

[@NenaLavonne]

♥️🙏

[@karlas2434]

My epiphany came a few years ago and it started with hair. I decided to stop coloring, blowing out and straightening my hair (too much time, money, products, tools, sweat). It turns out that my "wavy" hair is actually curly now that I treat it more kindly. And I can pack for a one week trip in a carry-on - less hair stuff AND because I've always leaned toward classic clothing and accessories. Then I moved on to rethinking makeup, then my home. It was all quite gradual. I didn't know it was preparing me for lockdown. All the money I had stopped spending became my cushion if I lost my job. I am so blessed to have a job that allowed me to become a work-from-homer and it has worked so well that it's permanent. So my meaningful purchase this year was a solid wood mid-century desk that fits perfectly in my decor. How can I think of it as "work" when I'm doing it from a piece of art?😊 I have to say that I'm loving your softer makeup (though you're gorgeous anyway)❤

[@kathybondi4143]

We are all, to one degree or another, sharing a very unique paradigm shift. It was a huge adjustment but with that adjustment came the quiet time, time to go deep and discover what’s truly important, what we should prioritize and focus on the things that bring us the most joy. I liked how you shared things that are so common to many women. There’s a freedom when we come to understand a “want” vs a “need”. We can’t go back to the good old days but the days ahead can certainly be much richer as we learn the meaning of contentment. Thanks Dominique!

[@iceblue1457]

I agree with you, Dominique. Totally. I made that shift several years ago after my cancer diagnosis when I had to face the situation where I was receiving only 50% of my previous salary. During my healthy years, I maximized my contribution to the disability fund only to realize I would only get 50% max. Others who did not contribute much, got less. So in a way I was also grateful. Frugality has always been my way of life, even made more meaningful these days. Thank you for your affirming video.

[@Bigdogplantation]

We just recently "cut the cord" and canceled our directv. If you pay an average of $125 for 20 years you have spent $30,000 just to watch tv. There is more “quiet time” in my house now and time to read Gods Word which so much more edifying. Thank you for the sage advice/tips. Gods Blessings to you and your family.

[@tribbles2955]

I cut the cord years ago and have never looked back. When my cable bill was inching towards $200 a month I said this is crazy. I love to travel and in two years there was enough money to take a very nice trip. and it's happened over and over. I subscribe to Netflix and amazon Prime and that's more than enough. I get the local channels for news with an antenna.

[@anitatate9852]

When we retired 6 years ago, we cut the cable, the landline phone, and so much else. I have Magic Jack instead, which is about $30.00 a year, and our cell phones. We have one car now and one car insurance payment. So much you don't need! We have what we need and want, but we try to live frugally. I do like Amazon online ordering and that too has been cut. It's too easy to buy online.

[@JoJo-rz1vz]

@@tribbles2955 Same here.....local channels, Netflix and Amazon Prime. It is so nice to watch a tv show on either one without commercials. TV shows are now around 42 minutes, and 18 minutes of commercials. My time is precisious.

[@kristinwatkins2406]

❤️Love This!!!

[@houston5568]

@@tribbles2955 we always negotiate with the cable company and never pay more then $50

[@barbarabb2178]

Dominique. Greetings from Poland! I truly love your YT channel. Thank you so much. 2020 has taught me to cherish even the smallest happy moments we've got and to focus on those I really trust and care for. I decided not to waste my time and effort on people (or things) who make me feel down. My time is too precious!

[@manualgearshift4965]

This year I decided corporate was not for me, so I left and started welding school. There’s 2 of us women over the age of 40 in the class 😊 Simple life.

[@TracyD2]

Clutch is far left You remind me of myself. I’ve always done “typical men” type of work. The funniest was waste water plant operation

[@oneofthosecreativetypes24]

I LOVE this!!

[@sonnyecho9195]

Wow I love this awesome I remember watching flashdance the movie hahahaha awesome just great

[@debramoen3070]

Hve hd uch a big chnge these past w years. In Decemberof 2020 i wes diagnosed with lung cncer. Life as i kne it broght a big change. First radiation, then chemo and the biggest del, haing to be on oxygen. This will be the first summer that i amactually going to get out and walk again. I am looking so forward to getting back at doing some excising and feeling energised agàin. Also eating healthy

[@vickicade8380]

You are the epitome of class. From the way you speak to your hair and style. When I die, I want to come back as you.

[@lisarhoades9715]

This is such a breathe of fresh air, Dominique! To be honest, I have had a love/hate relationship watching your channel because as much as I wanted to love each and every video, I could not relate to those that emphasized consumerism just for the sake of being current. However, I have always checked back in to see what was new in the terms of content that focused on being the best woman possible from the inside out. My favorite video still is "Keep it Classy" and I can not tell you how many times I have referred to that gem and recommended it to younger women.

[@carolynsanner8253]

Keep It Classy was the first one I watched, & then became a subscriber.😃

[@brendalusk472]

Thank you for your post! We realized years ago as a family we had to learn to say ‘NO’. and not feel guilty! As my husband says, there must be margins in our lives or we will crash!! In reference to the ‘STUFF’. It really hit home when my sister and I cleaned out my mother’s clothing after her passing. Our dad was heartbroken when he looked at her things and wanted them to be given to people that could use them. Then 4 years later when he passed, we had to clean out the home they built together for almost 60 years. They were not ‘pack rats’ but after years of marriage in the same home that was quite the task! I came away with many new outlooks but one above all..... Thanks be to God that the value of one’s life is not determined by the value of what is left here on earth when they pass! This created in me a whole new way of looking at stuff!! whether it is for my home or my wardrobe, it needs to have meaning and real value. Thank you the opportunity to share.

[@karendobbs8153]

What you’re saying is so true. I have such a problem with getting rid of “stuff.” When I finally get rid of it, that I think I might use or need in the future, but have not used in the last year, or longer, I always feel much better, and realize that I don’t even think about it anymore. I also take stuff to the resale shop, and donate.

[@jackpotdreams2954]

Dominique, you do such a beautiful job speaking. You speak from your heart and it’s clear you live and believe what you say and do. You are really amazing. So that you know, I am 55, a married mom of 2, have a full time job (with a pay cut), and so many new challenges thanks to Covid as I am so sure we all have. I have put on the “Covid 15”to boot. I, like you, started purging and reassessing what is really important. I found your videos while looking for inspiration. Thanks to you I started focusing on me a bit more, exercising, eating better, budgeting, and even trying to get my wardrobe to the basics. Just wanted to thank you. You don’t know me from Adam but you inspired me to focus a bit more time on my family, my health and well being. I have historically cared about everyone else, and you made me realize I have to care about me too. Enough rambling. Thank you from Coral Gables, FL - thankful to you.

[@dpinar21]

This is a great video. I also downsized my whole life! Sold a ton, pay a debt...wow. This pandemic has been bad but also good on so many levels. I agree wholeheartedly with you. I'm now so calm, I don't even recognize myself... Blessings to you.

[@vickiecopeland7131]

We are down sizing and have our home for sale that takes a lot of time to maintain outside. We have purchased a garden home & we are very excited to get moved in. I am decluttering and going through my closet/closets! I am donating all our things we do not need to a charity that helps teenagers. I have enjoyed most of my purchases so now it is time to let someone else enjoy them as well. We head to Houston next month once again for my husband's annual check-ups at M.D. Anderson. We will be watching YOU on Channel 2 as always! 10 years cancer free!! Great video!

[@muziklvr1729]

This was a great message! Due to no indoor dining, I’m cooking more. We’re saving money and eating healthier food. I usually cook two dishes that can be reheated as needed over the next two or three days. We always have a big bag of salad on hand as well. This saves me quite a bit of time too. When we order take out we like to be supportive of our favorite locally owned restaurants. They really appreciate the business.

[@joangentile2731]

Everything you are saying, Dominique, is very true! We have to realize what our priorities are and stick with it. I got rid a lot of clothes in my closet. I gave them away to charity. They need the clothes more than I do. If I buy something new, I give away something, too. One for one. It makes me feel better about myself and my life. It's called decluttering. I feel so much better for it. Thank you, Dominique, for your wonderful advice! I appreciate it!! 💖

[@anitatate9852]

Dominique, everything you post is from the heart and well thought out! You have uncommon common sense. Since my husband and I retired 6 years ago, we let go of a lot of things like cable T.V., landline phones, and recently, I have given up an addiction to Amazon online ordering. It's so easy to "let your fingers do the walking", but it can really run up a debt. Paying cash for everything is a lot harder, but saving for a rainy day is worth it....Thanks for your insight!

[@tommyetaylor]

You have made me feel better about myself, I totally enjoy your commentaries that you do each week. There from your heart I feel. I’m going to be 70 yr in January, UGG . And you have brought back some basic idlers I grow up with. My parents were not well of, father was in the navy an then there were 5 children. We wore hand me down Or grandma made use cloth. Never had a store bought dress till I married and then I learned fast if you spent your money on that dress you my have to wait for a couple more payday for those new shoes. I wish my daughter and granddaughter could hear you speak, I’m send them your video with hope they listen. Thank you again, your inspiring to me.God bless and have a super happy day

[@barbarafreedman3360]

Decluttering feels good, it makes me smile. I declutter twice a year and I make a list, AND STICK TO IT, when going to the drugstore for products. For clothes and online, I wait a day to be sure I really want the item. Nine times out of 10, I really did not want the product.

[@vickybowers8341]

Dominique you are a true inspiration to me and mentor! You have allowed me to think of the important things in my life and what matters most. My faith, my family, my health and bettering myself for the god of others as well. I truly appreciate and am very grateful to see your videos on everything in life! Thank You 🙏 Thank You 🙏 Thank You 🙏. I’ve allowed myself the privilege of furthering my true hearts desire in giving back to others by going back to school to get my license in real estate and join a gym at the age of 56. I became disabled in 2011 with a disease called Ménière’s. It is an inner ear disease that causes severe and chronic vertigo among other symptoms. My Dr. sent me to the only ENT in this small town of Texas that I live in. I was treated with a drug called gentamicin. Long story short, the gentamicin destroyed 80% of my vestibular system. It took me two years to even learn to walk again and 5-6 years to drive. It cost me my marriage and much of my self-esteem among other things. I became disabled and the process of getting my disability approved took nine long years to prove. I went from being financially secure to literally next to nothing. It was a very dark place and time for me. But, I’m very tenacious and driven and my faith in God has become stronger because of these events and I’ve become very humble and grateful for the smallest achievements and blessings in my life! You are a very beautiful, bright light in this world and I Thank You again for being one of my mentors! I CAN AND I WILL is my mantra now. Keep on keeping on and God bless you for the beauty that you spread to others!

[@juliemoore6957]

YES, YES, YES!!! Me too, Dominique! I feel God is using this Covid experience to get people to turn back to what really matters: faith, family, friends, kindness, giving, health, home, fresh air, sunshine and less stress! We were never intended to live life at such a crazy pace! Bravo! I'm sharing this with all my friends! Love to you, Dominique!

[@meriamthomas2955]

I love your input Ms. Julie.

[@jancharron5947]

Great video, Dominique! At 73 and retired, I have learned to simplify out of necessity, with no "every other Friday" paycheck. It is AMAZING how much "stuff" we accumulate that we don't use or need. I am much more intentional now when I buy things, and I put into practice almost all of the things you mentioned in your video. It makes me feel good that I am being a better steward of the things God has blessed me with. One more area that I would add to what you have said, and that is in purchasing food. I do find sometimes that I have bought an overabundance of things for my pantry or freezer. How many boxes of aluminum foil or cans of diced tomatoes does one really need? Thank you for what you do. You are truly a beautiful person, from the inside out, and I appreciate your transparency in sharing your thoughts and habits with us.

[@Kindness-vl8hc]

Such a great message from the start. I was a compulsive clothes shopper and I've stopped cold turkey!. Many don't realize that if you buy something online- say Amazon- not only are you making this guy richer and you poorer but if you return clothes they most likely will end up in the trash! They are not restocked.

[@peggyekena9966]

Work-Life Balance is so important! Your previous schedule was eventually going to be your ruin. You need to take care of you or you're no good to anyone else. And, I know you know that because you have told your subscribers. Covid-19 has changed our lives dramatically, sometimes it's been difficult, but we have all learned many new ways to live our best life. One thing that I continue to miss is attending church and worshipping with fellow Christians. My church is open now but I still don't feel comfortable attending in person. Great video Dominique. We all have needed this time that Covid-19 gave us, to reevaluate our lives.

[@mbunstine]

Every year my daughter, her mother-in-law and I have one big joint garage sale. We scour our houses each year for things we no longer use or want from every room in our house. We purge! It's an amazing feeling and we enjoy spending the time together, selling, talking, laughing, and counting our "loot " over a glass of wine. I'm 65 and simplicity is calling me. I want to be released from the burden of stuff. I wish I had all of the money I spent on useless things over the years. 🤦‍♀️

[@AnEmmeni]

That is such a great idea. All the best to you and yr family from Melbourne Australia xxx

[@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger]

Garage sales! 💝

[@kelmom25boys60]

Great ideas, I feel the same about simplifying. I’ve simplified our dinners by deciding we will do, for example, Meatless Monday, Taco Tuesday and leftovers on Friday. It takes the decision fatigue out of it. I also like to batch all my cleaning into certain days...vacuuming, doing laundry and cleaning the fridge on the same day each week...makes me life so much easier.

[@magn0lia_tree655]

This is amazing. @DominiqueSachse thanks for these tips. There was a Pinterest quote ‘All this clutter, used to be money’ this had a profound effect on me and during lock down, I finally unpacked some boxes from when I had moved house, years (yes years 😞) earlier, with a view to sorting through my clutter. I filled a skip and a half and feel better for it, though am now back at work, thank the Lord, so still have some to do. The new space in my house, created new space in my head to exercise and I signed up to ‘race at your pace’. I do the walking challenge and lost 1 stone in 2 months! Thank you 🙏🏻✨💫💖🇬🇧

[@heididikekingston]

Yes! Just yes! It was really easy to live a minimalist lifestyle when I was younger and poor!normally, as a family, we would be saving money for a really fun fancy vacation. No vacation here at this point - but we were able to find a Montessori program for our son so he can go to in-person school this fall. Very small classes with only 10 children in each class. That's a blessing and it was a blessing to have the extra income. Despite the stress from the pandemic, I think we've worked hard as a family to figure out how to take advantage of some aspects of the change.

[@donnarimmer4953]

I have been living this way for some time now, so it was nice to hear others confirm - we should never take more than we need. Great video.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Thanks for sharing!

[@pattishugs7458]

Yes, so very much to ponder. I retired and then moved across the state to begin life with the love of my life. There is love after 65. You are so lovely; I so enjoy your channel.....hugs....patti

[@rogojo9853]

Thank you for your video! You’re so right! I’m reevaluating my life but it’s all about centering myself in my faith, readying faith based books, my bible. I removed myself from social media and only watch KZbin. I’m letting my back heal, not major but a muscle and pinched nerve pain. Trying to take care of my diabetes and will start to get back to walking three miles at least 4 days a week. Be Bold / Be Blessed. By the way, I told my friend that and said it was your mantra...

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Good for you Rhoda!

[@DontCareBeare.5791]

I've decluttetd my home and closet. However, I've decided to brighten my home up. I noticed it was gloom and colorless. So, I've slowly started decorating with colorful portraits and paintings. I feels Great!! I gave my stuff to Goodwill.

[@ruthvanmackelenberg1095]

It’s all about budgeting time as well as money. We need to be kind to ourselves as well as others. It has been challenging but also valuable. Blessings to you too.

[@PennyPerasso]

I've been working this entire time and had to really fight to get basic, common sense protection from my employer. My stress level has been extremely high and I find myself crying, at times, while driving home from work. I've never been really "big" into makeup aside from the basics, or for special occasions but I really enjoy your tutorials and have incorporated some of your suggestions. When there is so much negativity and mistreatment of each other swirling around us, thank you! Thank you for offering a caring word and an enjoyable escape every week.

[@cloudflowers529]

This topic is what I really need and want. Thesedays I try to think like this, "Life doesn't have to be complicated" Simplicity seems to be a right answer! Thank you for sharing!💚 What great wisdom!!

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Glad it was helpful!

[@cindysmaha8873]

Sometimes when I watch your videos my heart is so touched I can't help but cry in a good way. Your honesty and frankness about the truth of life and how we, I am living it, moves me to action. I have become a lot less busy and a lot more frugal. I can't say thank you enough for your channel and for you! You truly are a gem 💎 Peace and Love ☮💙

[@ruthfalcon-erazo1785]

I just love the way you express yourself. I would love it if you can do a vlog on social interaction. I feel so awkward interacting with others in social gatherings. Stay safe, blessed and beautiful.

[@PM-gx2bp]

I’m just now watching this advise. How wise. We really do not need enormous amounts of stuff and things to make us happy. Simplified life is beautiful.

[@totallyrandom1126]

We became a society of people bragging about no sleep and being super busy...I don’t get that mentality at all, I think people somehow feel important if they say how busy they are and how in demand their time is when in reality it’s a lot of stress and ridiculous to think we can be good at too many things at once. Hopefully this pandemic has taught some that it is not necessary to spread oneself so thin.

[@DT-su8cq]

Amen. I think this too. It’s like if I’m not as busy like you then I must be lazy. I say we all have 24 hours in a day and I may choose how I spend it differently than you and that’s ok!

[@tinafranco338]

You are a bright light in this crazy world. I love watching or listening to your videos while I paint. Your advice is for all. Everyone finds something in your videos. You are a woman all women should strive to be. Elegant, Polite, Kind, Wise, Humble...that is all I see in you. The best of Human Behavior. Thank you for all you do and Thank you for helping us to be BEST version of ourselves. Wishing you and your whole family all the BEST.

[@rdg5912]

I have been working all thru COViD but totally got into exercising at home. KZbin has a ton of content and I download to the tv. Yoga With Adrienne is the best!

[@vickycorey8195]

I actually did that 3 years ago. I really downsized. I purchased a small RV and moved it on my sister's land. I gave everything I wasn't wearing or using away. We have a store here that helps battered women and children get back on their feet. It went to them. My life has been so much happier. If I buy anything something has to leave so I'm not buying anything unless it's really needed or special. God has blessed me tremendously. My dad passed away in March and both parent's were here so my sister and I were able to take care of dad until the end. Now I'm here for mom. ❤ Thank you, Dominique, for sharing your heart with us. That's what makes you so special. You're real, open, and so supportive.

[@tonyasuttie3296]

I’ve done the same thing with makeup, clothes, and canceling my gym membership. I workout at home now and save an hour a day in driving to the gym.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

Great idea!!

[@marysalas8791]

Dominique thank you so much for all your great ideas on saving in this difficult times. Whenever I like something either online or at the store, I ask myself: is it a want or a need? 70% of the time it is a want and not a need

[@candydonnelly7543]

Thank you for sharing your personal growth with us. This year has been one for the record books. We all need to grow, become the best versions of ourselves exhibiting love and peace. Stay safe and well❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@christineoboyle1267]

I made a list recently which almost exactly matches yours with a few exceptions. Slowing down and simplifying has been good for the soul and clarifying for the mind. I find myself longing to be home with my sweet, handsome husband of 37 years. Exercising or relaxing, doing projects or reading, in spite of the chaos, we really can be at peace. Thank you for sharing.

[@moonmoon335]

2020 has taught me to declutter, I am trying to be minimalist. Definitely it made is happy and fulfilled. So, I totally feel you Dominique. Love you videos as always ❤️.

[@lauries2757]

I’m a minimalist by nature so I’ve been ‘cleaning out my closet’ for years and I totally agree that it just feels so good to have less, and know that what I didn’t need, someone else will. I’m also in the same train of thought when it comes to only buying quality clothes and shoes that are classic, staple pieces that will last a lifetime. My grandmother was a huge bargain shopper and passed her ‘skills’ on to me and I take great pride in it. Lastly, I saw a quote in FB that goes along with what you said about being constantly busy. It said, “ Whenever I am impatient, I try and step back and ask myself, Why am I in such a hurry to get through my life?” I loved it and had to share ♥️

[@loripugh7277]

Loved the video! It really spoke to me on so many fronts, especially being unemployed. Thank you for putting it all so succinctly.

[@kerryparker8925]

Thank you so much for this video. I’ve had a very unusual year with my 2 kids getting married within 2 months of each other in a pandemic. It was stressful with having one at our house and trying to keep everyone safe and cutting the numbers down on the other one. Just like that my husband and I are empty nesters! So, now I’m focusing on taking care of myself and reconnecting with my husband. It’s kind of a sad time but also an exciting time for me as I’m missing my kids but also embracing this new chapter in my life. Some practical steps I’m taking from your video is to purge my closet and garage. I’m also going through some auto deliveries I have and only keeping a few and canceling others. Thank you.☺️

[@diannewyss8969]

Enjoyed this post. Thank you Dominique. I’ve simplified my life the last few years and having less “stuff” really does bring a calmness to my busy life and more enjoyment to the things that really count. Blessings to you.

[@valerieboyer1927]

I have followed you for over a year.... i cant wait till Thursdays for your videos. Such wisdom you share makes me and others smile. You morph every so many months and each time its more loving then the last. Please don’t spare utube. We need you. ♥️ from Pa

[@bettydantzler5862]

I started these same processes and thoughts about 3 years ago. My epiphany came when we had to move my mother-in- law out of her home and into assisted living. I decided then that my years of accumulating “stuff” had to stop. I purged my entire home and I no longer go shopping for entertainment. I,too, have the rule of getting rid of 2 things if I want to buy 1 new item. The great thing is that this doesn’t feel in anyway like a sacrifice. For me, it really isn’t about the money...it’s the freedom to stop the rat race. I feel free. The consumerism train is no longer part of my life. I do enjoy watching some of the YT hauls but I find myself wondering if buying stuff has become a compulsion that provides emotional support for something that is missing in their lives.

[@candacefife6763]

Betty Dantzler I too am doing this now. I still have lots of items I had to have of my mom’s after she passed away. I am now at a point that I can turn loose of them. I am going through them remembering and if it really brings me joy and I still need to keep it I do if not I’m donating or selling.

[@sedonasolutions7662]

Betty, a neurotransmitter called dopamine is released whe we spend, win at gambling, eat the free sugar FRUCTOSE (not in fruit but when it is added as a cheap sweetner in ultra processed food) snort cocain and all kinds of other "excitatory" events. Serotoin is the neurotransmitter for "contentment". I beleive we are all insearch of ways to have more of Serotoin. Melatonin, the sleep hormone is converted to serotonin when our eyes see the sunlight!!! Dominque touched on "grounding" or earthing! Check it out! Love our community!

[@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger]

Sedona Solutions - sometimes we shop to cure the sadness. To pass the moments that are just dull & dry. To make something out of that moment we feel alone and create happiness for a few hours. 🧡

[@sedonasolutions7662]

@@CatsInHats-S.CrouchingTiger Absolute truth. I have worked on replacing that shoppong habit with healthier ones..like going for a walk, having an at home spa day, workouts...it helps, LOL!

[@betsyweaver9527]

Your words are truly inspirational! I started on the closet then drawers during my COVID furlow. Time to move on to the house. Also purged old make up and nail polishes. I look forward to Thursday’s with Dominique! I always find something to take away and apply to my life. Thank you for your kind ways .. Blessings to you as well,

[@kristiny4727]

Amen, Dominique! I’m right with you on everything you’ve said and this has been quite a year for epiphanies for myself and all of us! And Never Pay Retail! My mantra for life!

[@madams.5976]

I have learned that in my life I don’t need to be so busy so everything. It’s been since March since I’ve had a hair cut, color, keratin, pedi, etc., much less shopping and you know what? I lived! It’s okay. Nothing bad happened. We’re all in this together and I’ve learned to do certain things at home. Color my own roots, wax, do my own nails, and I don’t really need all the clothes. Where am I going? It no longer suits my current life style. And it’s all okay. I lived. Less is truly more. I love my husband and been spending lots of time with him, working, getting closer to my co-workers. I see my friends and my former life with a new appreciation. I really had a good life and I honestly don’t think I knew that. All you say is so true. The other thing is I’ve started reading the Bible and I hope to continue. Turning to a higher power has been major for me this year in trying to understand or at least getting through it. The thing I miss most is going to my gym with my girlfriend. But I’ve taken up walking and it’s been not only good physically but for the soul. ❤️ your videos. Thank you.

[@cherylsmith1027]

Love your way of thinking. Less is truly more!

[@jodiclements6123]

This was fantastic! Today I cancelled some monthly subscriptions thinking "I need more beauty products like a hole in my head!" I need to use up what I have. I only shop when I need something. You are a joy to listen to and such a wonderful speaker!

[@OSCAR130259]

So very true. I feel the same way. Reassessing my real needs and purchases. Finding other feel good activities which don’t involve shopping.

[@suzanstorm2982]

Oh lady - I truly believe we are all "struggling" in different ways. But as you said, those things that truly matter, those are what give us hope! Thank you for always being your kind, truthful self!

[@elyssaberger5901]

I just love you!! Thank you for your gifts you give us, the gift of you, and your honesty you share with us. I’m right there with you since this separation has started about simplifying life. Such great ideas! I’ve stopped coloring my hair and letting it go grey. Was surprised to find a whole community of us! Cut off all the long hair and most of my Brown hair with a cute short undercut. Love the length your hair is right now! Anyway I felt about coloring it the same way you describe feeling about the lash extensions. And it’s been very freeing not to be a slave to the coloring. Constantly clearing out my closet and giving things away-, it’s never ending for me. I think the idea of One in is Two out will work to help as well! So much good stuff in this video!! Thanks again !!

[@pamelairvin3164]

The last 5 months have certainly given our family pause for reflection. Right now we are on a renewed journey to health; physically, spiritually, mentally, and financially. The choices are sometimes tough. We are trusting in the process even when the results are out of reach. Thank you for sharing and reinforcing the need to focus on what truly matters.

[@maryoboyle7917]

I’ve backed away from Facebook recently. It was so distracting and time consuming. I feel like a weight has been lifted.

[@mariamakarski2246]

Mary O'Boyle I did as well. It was no longer a pleasure but just brought on more stress during an already stressful time.

[@homewithellieb]

Mary O'Boyle same!!! I deleted both my IG and FB accounts

[@bulada3]

Same here!

[@butterfly-girl6867]

Me too! It has been so nice to be consumed with social media!! I have to do it for work- but it’s helped my mental Health tremendously!!

[@susi18366]

Mary O'Boyle I agree. X

[@Kitties4321]

I have been feeling the same way about not needing so much stuff....in the process of purging my closet and toiletry products. You are a blessing to so many of us Dominique! Thanks for always sharing so much of yourself. You are very much appreciated.

[@beshflorida1048]

Love this!!! Thank you for this video. I love watching KZbin but had grown weary of all the massive hauls and extravagant spending that was shown on a lot of channels. It was overwhelming and almost depressing to watch. Thank you for speaking out, I can tell a lot of thought was put into this video.

[@dominiquesachsetv]

You are so welcome!

[@lizhusar8205]

I have worked with catas for the past 14 years, I used to be a legal secretary and never at home. Now I am at home and I will never work away again. I have not gone into shops since lockdown began, I used to shop like you described and always felt guilty. Now I only shop online, this gives you a chance to really think about what you need (not want) and I also try never to pay full price too!

[@TheYghani1]

I implement most of these things anyway covid or not. I dont have a gym membership I do at home workouts and go for walks in nature. I dont get any expensive beauty treatment, I do my own manicure & pedicure. I do treat myself every now and again for a facial etc..I don't eat out weekly, I may eat out maybe once a month. I don't buy myself new items of clothing regularly, unless I really need something. So I'd say I'm pretty much there 😅

[@howtoloseweightwithdietchanges]

TheYghani1 absolutely amazing 😉, from a Doctor’s heart ❤️

[@jeannejanssen2788]

Thanks Dominique for sharing your thoughts and faith.

[@deeordo9568]

Ditto! So glad I’m not the only saying, “Um yeah, I already do this!” Lol

[@purplemewonder578]

I totally agree with you. This has been the year to reflect and cleanse. Letting go of stuff, thoughts, and bad habits feels really great. I feel much better after cleaning my closet, pantry and makeup drawers. I have noticed that I’m not doing impulsive buying like I used to. I’m being more conscious about what I’m spending my money on and what I’m eating. My husband and I split dishes now and no more over eating or being wasteful.

[@faythemiller4837]

I’ve been rebounding on a mini trampoline in my home for almost a year and have lost at least 7 lbs. The best thing about rebounding is it helps our lymphatic system a lot, clears out toxins. I’ve always been an advocate for less busy and more purposeful but the last two years have been going through our stuff and purging. Probably started because we became empty nesters. Thanks for your idea on Rent the Runway for special events.

[@teresaramos1719]

Wow. You finally have reached the moment. That: Greed is not healthy....kudos to Dominique....greed for material .greed for recognition..greed for applause.greed for validity.greed for acceptance... You were just filling emptiness in your soul....with greed...and stuff...that has NEVER BEEN THE SPIRITUAL ROUTE" EVER! KUDOS FOR STARTING ON YOUR SPIRITUAL PATH!!!

[@tjparrot892011]

20-20 means perfect vision. God has used this year as a reset button for everyone to allow us to find out what is truly important to us. I love the realization of this.

[@lucyharris1973]

You are absolutely right with the decisions! Simplicity is so precious. I kicked out also all clothes I didn't wear anymore and I started to do sport everyday at home! I also figured out how important my husband is for me. We had a lockdown in our country for 12 weeks, meaning we had to stay at home all the time, working from home, no school for the kids and so on.... Anyway I was surprised how good my husband and I get along with each other. No arguments, no bitting comments, it felt like we life on an desert island, just we both and the kids. And it worked!! The hard time has given me the confirmation that I have choosen the right hausband :)

[@claudiacatoni8152]

I agree: we don't need so much stuff to be happy 👍. Sometimes less is more. Sometimes less let us more free

[@lillyhedges2180]

I loved this video, I love them all, but this one in particular really made me smile. We have recently moved countries for work related reasons, and I have gone through my clothes with no mercy, I got rid of so much stuff and felt really good about it, I'm also applying the rule of thumb one in one out, and in cases even two. I usually donate my clothes to charity, and that also makes me feel good, helping those who are not as fortunate makes me smile. Thank you Dominique, you are always inspirational

[@wagnerab1958]

Dominique you have such a wonderful way of speaking and teaching. What an amazing video, it spoke volumes to me. Thank you for sharing your experiences, your honesty and being so genuine. Love your channel. Blessings to you as well!!!

[@lauriemcguriman9227]

I couldn't have said it better. My family has been lucky enough to have been able to keep our jobs and work from home. We have realized one big thing during Covid and that is how much money we were spending on silly things that we really didn't need. We have always been great savers of money and never had any debt, but Covid put a whole new light on it. We have saved so much by just staying in and enjoying each other. We have communicated so much more and enjoyed each other's company. If there is one thing that I can say good about Covid, it is that it gave us all a chance to stop, reflect and appreciate what we already had and have. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Nice to know someone else got some good out of Covid too!!

[@jtkostick]

This is something I needed to hear. I love watching your videos. They are always filled with useful information. Keep up the great work.

[@sharenellis7190]

I loved hearing about your journey this year. So similar with cups overflowing with doings and activity. I have been working two part time jobs for 6 sometimes 7 days a week as I’d split the one for my husband around house, family and social activity. Following the need to set up and work both from my home office at the end of March I was suffering. Stress, not sleeping, no separation, expectations both from myself and the head surgeon to not make a mistake in anything I did. I took 3 weeks sick leave in July, the best thing I could have done. My GP sent me for tests, nothing showed up. The slowing down and time to reflect led me to quit that job (I had set the surgeons practice up, we took on 4 more surgeons and 2 other part timers, I love/d my working field; this year there was no connection with them, no phone calls only a daily computer running sheet and emails from the head surgeon which I found so stressful). I’m now working for my husband and taken on a typing job from home. The calmness I have has started the healing process. I’m planning on taking my time before I find myself a small role elsewhere for me to earn a few cents outside of my husband’s work. Feeling blessed that I took the time to stop before any malaise took hold and loving myself with a slower period of life to focus on house, garden and me and my beautiful family. Please keep sharing your journey. 😚🙏

[@twobirdys]

I no longer buy any costume jewelry or anything plated. It’s either solid gold / platinum or sterling silver. This way all my jewelry is special and nothing goes out of style and I can wear it forever.

[@pamfruh7605]

"Those who do not move do not notice their chains." Rosa Luxemburg (1871-1919) With reduced consumption, I have had more time to consider where I want to make my purchases and what types of businesses I want to support. I look for locally-grown produce and grocery items, and try to shop with sustainable and responsible retailers. I learned of a company in a nearby state that makes fantastic t-shirts and cami tops. A man in our town makes beautiful kitchen knives, and that is my new go-to wedding gift. Of course we still go to Costco, but now with more awareness. Thank you , Dominique, for creating meaningful content. Your work is a benefit to all of us!

[@bobbiel5674]

The wisest thing I've heard lately

[@jilltowery3559]

I love this! For the first time in my adult/Mom/wife/employee life, I got to stop. It felt weird. But what has been awesome is no guilt. I had desperately wanted balance in my life and Covid forced that. You are so spot on with your observations. Thank you for being a voice for so many of us.