why we broke up

[@lifelessscripted]

FYI, I never went to Japan. The thought of loosing Ruth was too much for me bear. Her breaking up with me made me realize it.. For all of you guys wondering in the comments -- PLEASE WATCH THE WHOLE VIDEO!!!

[@elizabethhenson9703]

Said you came to US at age 16...btw...where were you born...great ending...love it...love yall...❤❤❤💏✌

[@laurenphiri5813]

life less scripted most important thing is that you have her next to you❤️❤️❤️🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@laurenphiri5813]

Love love ❤️

[@katelynn2548]

Elizabeth Henson born in Ghana

[@kikikiki3216]

@@elizabethhenson9703 Am guessing Ghana, she's Ghanaian..

[@Goldan1]

This video was really sweet. I commend Derek for being honest, but especially Ruth for taking back her power and walking away. If more women take action like you did, we will have fewer broken hearts in the long run.

[@cindyfitzgerald4500]

Beautiful comment!

[@TheMsLady4Real]

Sorry to say, but any man who would leave me to go and see if the grass is greener on the other side can stay there! What if Ruth left him for the same reason! She is the prize and I hope she knows it!

[@BubbleLBT2018]

Well said sis

[@jonniehickson5599]

Like I told my ex husband, all grass is green. The problem isn't the grass it's the fertilizer hence you. 🙄

[@carolinenzau994]

Tha grass is greener where you water it

[@nicolelee5683]

More men should be honest, before committing to someone. It is the right way to do things instead of cheating on someone.

[@st.k6629]

Actually the grass wasn't as green as he expected

[@Djoanng]

So he never got this other person off of his mind until she married someone else then he came back to Ruth.

[@ericaaubie860]

Djoanng THIS GIRL MARRIED SOMEONE ELSE. SHE BROKE OFF WITH HIM. RUTH DID THE RIGHT THING BY WALKING AWAY, AND LETTING DEREK FIGURE IT OUT.

[@vanessabrown7736]

She is his second best..smh

[@maureen1483]

He didn’t want to lose both,, so he settled for Ruth 🙄

[@ericaaubie860]

@@maureen1483 maureen maybe your right.

[@ericaaubie860]

@@vanessabrown7736 maybe your right, but he could have just went his separate way. But, he chose Ruth. They have three beautiful kids, and Iam sure he loves her.

[@lishamarie2752]

I like how Ruth shared when you're with the right person it only gets better. But I keep wondering when that person is going to show up. Ugh I'm turning 47 in a few weeks. I did not envision my life without a partner

[@Kwantifye]

I got goosebumps during the breakup part of the video...sometimes it takes something like that though, to appreciate how much someone has....You two are awesome together.

[@zalozalo7659]

You are a First Class Lady. I hope before taking him back you made him suffer.

[@joshipp761]

@Zalo, wow, that's an interesting comment

[@sipvypkbj103]

Hehehehe

[@terryemoorer296]

I learned from a valuable friend that you pray to God to bless you with the husband He wants you to have.not the one you think you should have .And my father also told me when you have a man who loves you more, you have a real love.sometimes it may take one to catch up with the other.

[@jackiem9460]

Yes! I prayed for 13yrs for 'the one' God had for me while my (now husband) had prayed for 20yrs for his wife. (I am 9yrs younger). He treats me like a queen and our marriage keeps getting better and better. Trust God even if you have to wait a long time.

[@ladielox]

Both your friend and father were correct. My grandmother told me when a man wants to leave...LET HIM LEAVE!

[@nellymayavanga681]

Derek! how could you break my Ruth heart 🤣🤣🤣 ??? Ruth is a wife material, some girls are good just for hanging out but Ruth seems to be a decent girl to me and also she is a kind of girl you want to introduce to your family , just being your fan, I can say you two made a right decision to get back together again. May God Almighty continue to bless your marriage

[@vallenebelgrave2362]

Sometimes things fall apart to fall back together.... real love

[@rashimasimmons7583]

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

[@mariawinzler]

Man Ruth, you had me crying when you said you sat on the toilet crying. I so remember that happening to me once. Glad God answered your prayers. Derek looks, acts, loves and adores you. The perfect couple. I hope everything is going well for you and you guys are in my prayers.

[@betsyshider8507]

My mother use to say, you won’t miss your well until your water runs dry. Absolute truth.✝️❤️✝️

[@lovingmy4c_hair803]

You will never miss the water until the well runs dry.

[@christianpersad-maharaj7844]

She was on the brink of crying, then she said she was shaking at one point...man! This woman really loves him. I wish I had a black woman who would love me like that.

[@Goldan1]

I am right here!

[@christianpersad-maharaj7844]

@@Goldan1 Really?! I would love that! Stop playing.... Btw, you're very beautiful! 💛

[@Goldan1]

@@christianpersad-maharaj7844 I'm not playing. I have no idea what you look like though. How old are you?

[@humanbeingshaverightsgarne144]

@@christianpersad-maharaj7844 ok Christian, it's been a week! Answer Golden 1 already!!! I'm dying to see if you two can have a love connection🤗❤️❤️🌹❤️❤️

[@christianpersad-maharaj7844]

@@humanbeingshaverightsgarne144 Hey, just saw your comment. You're so nice! Really! I didn't even realise Golden 1 replied to me. I'm literally smiling reading this comment.

[@vickyd9584]

This made me tear up 😔 I know you two will be together forever in Jesus’s mighty name

[@janetpappert1986]

Amen

[@vickyd9584]

Janet Pappert Amen

[@themcdermottway6912]

Amen!

[@mianwi1387]

Amen

[@sharonowusu7168]

Amen

[@simonagonzalez3325]

I was in a similar situation with the father of my kids. I felt like I could not truly be with him knowing he had feelings for another woman. I didn't want the need to have to compete for him. I wanted to be his one and only..but I knew I wasn't. So I let him go. In the end, he didn't end up choosing me. 10 years later I'm still single and he's made a life (a 2nd family) with the other girl. Things turned out to be like they were supposed to be. Lesson learned: ALWAYS put yourself first! What's destined to be, will be!

[@jeezlouiz]

everything happens for a reason, God is good

[@themcdermottway6912]

For sure it really does

[@BubbleLBT2018]

Amen

[@owusudaniel2695]

GOD IS GREAT*

[@janicesanders9981]

I'm so glad you two got back together. Look at all the fun we would have missed....

[@SoApStOnEd-fl9se]

You are such a beautiful family. It's nice to see good people together enjoying life. This is what all marriages should strive for.

[@victoriacarter6467]

Hell no girl you don't come second to anyone. What the hell? No ma'am.

[@havanablue4813]

i think he settled.

[@iam1408]

@@havanablue4813 well whatever he did he's happy, loves his wife and has a beautiful family so it's a win win situation.

[@havanablue4813]

@@iam1408 - He SETTLED. It is so obvious.

[@iam1408]

@@havanablue4813 whatever 🙄

[@havanablue4813]

@@iam1408 kzbin.info/www/bejne/o17KXqOAoNCHn8k&lc=z23djxsqnpvnzhaj204t1aokgi2eo1ms0l3dwtmkzm5sbk0h00410.1583000904482445

[@kohjhart]

Ruth, If a guy would have told me that he needed to see another woman to decide. I would have been by Felicia. There would be no way to I would take him back. Done.

[@marybrant8039]

You got that right no way IAM a jealous women that is insane.

[@whatreallymatters571]

He didn't go and she said she was unsure about her feelings towards him as well at the end time.

[@lambonfrank7997]

The title deceived me and I was in tears

[@themcdermottway6912]

Same here phhhew!

[@vivadream2337]

Amazing story guys! I totally love how Ruth literally stood up for herself and what she believed in... 💖👏🎉

[@Melda242]

This title got my attention right away. May God bless you both.

[@rashimasimmons7583]

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

[@nellymayavanga681]

What's a lovely story, thank you for sharing your story with us. I know you two love each other very much but I will ask you to put God in centre of your marriage and it shall be Well in Jesus name Amen

[@meronmekonnen277]

Hats off sister . You are strong to take him back after the ex....situation. if he's going to Japan to see her?!! I will go to Africa 🌍 and make sure he will never see me again. Like i said you are strong KEEP it up❤

[@hyaha7319]

Awww ruth .. derek you are lucky to have this diamond 😘 I love you sister 🙌🏽

[@themcdermottway6912]

Hes very lucky shes amazing!

[@jahlyssablackwin8827]

@@themcdermottway6912 omg Ibwas just thinking about watching your channel after here.

[@themcdermottway6912]

@@jahlyssablackwin8827 🤣 that's too funny! ❤

[@maamealima7686]

I like your story, God bless your marriage.

[@sixgrands]

Some things are just meant to be 💕💕 Always remember that once you truly forgive something, you are never to bring it up again. The best is yet to come!💕💕

[@rashimasimmons7583]

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

[@roxieshaw0629]

You guys are my new favorite couple! Please keep God in the center of your marriage, and stay together forever! Beautiful Love story❤

[@llelok6393]

Ruth been starting at your eyes I just realized that you have the most beautiful eyes 👀 . love you guys ❤️ from SA ❤️lool that mini breakup made you realize how much you loved each other ❤

[@mylifeasdee]

Hey I'm from SA too please check out my channel

[@deebrown2456]

Ruth.... you are better woman than me, a man who chose to leave because he doesn’t know what he wants.Hell no is he’s getting chance. I’ll let him dream about for the rest of his life😂.

[@tkama2102]

You would have took him back though.

[@deebrown2456]

Tkama... in my life I have never let man play me, I’m married and my hubby was running after me a whole year,before I given him a chance. So No hun I would I promise you.

[@tkama2102]

@@deebrown2456 Girl you talk tough but we know better, just hush:-)

[@DorothyDavis-c9g]

You and me both. Let him dream for the rest of his life. That is the truth. I wouldn't take him back.

[@marshaymarshayy274]

Something similar happened to me but he didn’t let me know that he was leaving. He got into a relationship with a co worker & he left after I had our son but I held it down and I didn’t blow up his phone or bother him after he went ghost. I blocked him & went to my mom house for a week. I cried a lot especially at night but he started watching me and when he noticed that I was not bothered and I was still living life & loving myself, looking good & making things happen by myself he came back and at 1st I gave him a hard time. Then we eventually got back together & I told him if it happened again I’m gone. It’s been 2 yrs & We’re still together now & things are going great. 5yrs together & we’re like best friends. No relationship is perfect but never allow someone to mistreat you or put you 2nd is what I’ve learned 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@pearlwright5294]

A very sweet story! I respect you both for the honesty! We all know how relationships are challenging and very hard work but can be so rewarding, Glad to see you worked things out and I am looking forward to watching more of your videos!

[@linetatieno4594]

Ruth I want to know how u trusted him back again.

[@samiraa3671]

That's what I wanna know too. If that was me, I don't think my pride and ego would allow me to take him back.

[@carolynrog3rogers339]

@@samiraa3671 when love involved pride and who goes out the door .

[@havanablue4813]

@@samiraa3671 - i would never take him back. Absolutely not. He loved the woman in Japan. He wanted to go to Japan.

[@smcbeth7]

@@havanablue4813 Havana Blue is Derek and Ruth biggest fan..

[@Stephy_E]

@@samiraa3671 same here. Whenever you go.... Please I close the door

[@jcross6890]

I found this channel via Derrick’s “MEAN PRANK “ video I Love You guys... Derrick Love You bro... Keep treating this women like a Queen. She’s beautiful and She really Loves you. Keep putting up with what ever she throws at you... Because she Loves you and I can tell you Love her just as much Great video

[@theresamaske]

You both have the sweetest love story I've ever. I never I have never been as lucky in love. Thank you for sharing it's very inspiring. Keep loving each other.

[@diankekanoute9913]

I was scared of the tittle 😂

[@kennyperry3726]

Ikr.....Big sigh...😂😂😂

[@SimplyMe2025]

Me too

[@justyoutubing4285]

😂😂😂 ... I clicked already thinking "Good try guys and No way. Let's see what this joke is about now." 😂😂😂.

[@themcdermottway6912]

Same here!!

[@Shakinaofficiall]

Omg, same! 😂 I love them together. They're dope

[@lauraweiss8801]

What a wonderful love story. May you only grow more in love with each year. Wonderful story. ❤️

[@bolua5102]

😂 poor Derek you can tell everyone bashed him for not telling Ruth talk last time and now he all quiet 😂

[@daintyflygirl4va]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@shinchannoara9745]

LMAO💀💀

[@woogrrr5208]

😂😂😂

[@thedailyspice3008]

😂😊😂😊yh. Lesson learnt

[@danny55430]

🤣🤣😭

[@runettemccrea5392]

"Awww! Things always happen in it's own time! I'm so grateful things worked out for the both of you 💘 💘!"

[@LadyGraham]

This is a rebound relationship nothing good about this

[@ninanesbitt9621]

You two are just so adorable together! I too just started watching your videos and the title of this one scared me like it scared other commenters.

[@tinabrown6604]

Thank you for sharing your story of love lost and found again. Brought tears to my eyes when Ruth was describing how she felt when Derek was gone. But now your love for one another is stronger and better 💕💕

[@walliegoolsby5389]

There is no way in hell would I take him back. If he left for the other women in Japan then he never would be invited back into my life. There must have been a reason why the Women in Japan didn’t want him. She had moved on with her life which didn’t include him. Then he comes running back to you. How do you know if he really loves you or you are his backup woman.

[@whatreallymatters571]

He didn't go to Japan and she said she wasn't sure she in love with him at the time anyways so she broke it off and told him to do what he had to do but he didn't go to Japan when she broke up with him he knew he couldn't lose her.

[@walliegoolsby5389]

WhatReallyMatters just the fact that he needed space to determine if he still loved his x-girlfriend. So what if his old flame was getting married. This would not have been an issue if his heart was with the woman who he was with not his x. And yes I watched the whole video.

[@walliegoolsby5389]

WhatReallyMatters how do you know for a fact that he didn’t go see the x-girlfriend in Japan. Are you the x-girlfriend from Japan?

[@namusaok1479]

That's you

[@WILMA_]

AMEN.

[@megpruden20]

Wait so was he dating Ruth and the ex girlfriend at the same time? 🤔

[@yardleypierre]

I know right... not cool!!!

[@megpruden20]

@@yardleypierre Agreed. I don't know her and know her well. But I just see and know what I see here on KZbin (regarding their videos) and I am surprised and disappointed she agreed to something like that. She just doesn't come across as the person who would be ok with something like that.

[@megpruden20]

@TN B I like the both of them. They make a nice couple. Based on a few other videos I watched, Derrick doesn't seem to be a very loving person. He seems cold. Ruth seems to be a happy and lively person. But after watching this video and hearing this story. It makes me have mixed feelings about them.

[@shelb606]

True,I kinda now feel like the other woman might have turned him down and he just took what he had left,because he went to another country to see his ex who was getting married to see what could happen,yeaa not so cute ,but I think Ruth loves him.

[@Goldan1]

​@@megpruden20 Ruth actually did not agree to anything, which is why she called Derek and broke up with him after realizing her worth. I am under the impression Derek never made it to see the next woman. Did you hear what she said at the end? I do not think Ruth will tolerate any man treating her badly.

[@jayeandre6987]

So Derek basically pulled a Donell Jones on Ruth. 🧐 For some reason, she really wanted this man, so I’m not going to judge her for doing what she deemed right for her. I just know I couldn’t have done it. Second place has NO place in my love life.

[@kikikiki3216]

You guys just super❤️❤️😍😍did you see the smile on his face when Ruth said, "I don't want anything in this world, I just want Derrick".

[@susanlaurie7441]

You did the right thing, Derek, made sure where your heart really was before you jumped into marriage with either one. I am so happy it was Ruth because the love between you is so obvious !

[@twistedroots1311]

Sooooo.....I'm assuming you were SECOND choice since things didnt work out with his ex? He never said what happened when he went back to be with her. He only chose you because he was rejected by his ex?

[@serenity8901]

The other chick husband is second also. Things happen but second maybe God telling you what’s best for you, you never know. If the other woman selected him it could’ve been hell for both down the road.

[@angelathompsonmack3583]

He said he was devastated. Hmmmmmm how you think she felt???? 😑😕

[@rhondae8222]

You are a beautiful woman, Ruth, in and out 🙂 God bless you, your husband, and your family ❤️

[@oluwabunmi106]

How did you build trust again Ruth?

[@lovelyscorp79]

She never fully invested her trust to begin with sis, cause he was honest with her, allowing her to be honest with herself, and live in her truth. she did it right and so did I. There was an overlap in the beginning of my relationship with david. I hate they dont discuss that overlap period. But what you do during it is extremely important in building a healthy relationship. But letting go, and trusting if it's meant to be it will work out, and a partner with enough respect for you and him to be honest with you makes trusting so much easier. If any of those 3 go south, you will never fully trust them again. But she ain't lying. It's in his hugs. When those hugs feel like home, hes the one.

[@tessymay933]

does wow. It's like you understand then so well because you went through something similar. What do you mean by overlap period? Is that before he was honest with her about going to sort his feelings with his old girlfriend?

[@lovelyscorp79]

@@tessymay933 yes. Exactly. Its not cheating because they weren't officially a couple and neither was he and the other woman in japan.

[@iluvumichelleq]

Because they have a child.

[@annabellak4033]

Love is a chance you take, and Even if it hurts let go. to many women make it easy for guys. Oh I love him, no matter what, Plzzzzz 🙄 step back and Breathe ladies. And for some who feel you can breath without him, then I guess, You need to do what works for you. I personally like how Ruth handled her situation. ❤

[@cynthial5901]

I always enjoy your videos. You two are real people.

[@hattiecolley54]

How wonderful. Shows u what God loves, only for us to come to him and always trust him. He does not like, we need to remember his promise. Both of u r beautiful, and a beautiful couple. Keep up the good work.

[@suyaaj]

I enjoy looking at your videos. You are what real love is and I pray that God continues to bless you and your family. Derek is a great guy, I pray I find a husband as kindhearted as him. Ruth, the way he looks at you, is so amazing. You are a beautiful woman and keep being that great wife and mother that you are.

[@philomenalfred6737]

As long as you put GOD first you guys will be great ❤️

[@Carol-si8tf]

Absolutely 😊

[@tameekaharris6425]

Awwww this was so sweet thanks for sharing. Ruth that was very courageous of you to break it off with Derek but I admire that because you made sure you was chosen sincerely. I love y'all story 💞💕

[@themcdermottway6912]

Taking it slow is definitely a good idea. My fiance and I did the same and it worked out better than any other relationship. I thought it was funny the part where you mentioned your husband was wondering why you werent being affectionate. We kind of have a similar story in that aspect. Best of luck! ❤❤

[@lesiGayle]

Ruth, you were SO amazing in how you handled the situation. Wish I had been that strong. Maybe I would have stayed married to my husband.

[@lovelyscorp79]

My heart dropped when I saw this title...I just found you guys!! Haha. Whew💨..... I think you guys should elaborate on the overlap before you solidified. I think people think their character during that period doesnt count or should be forgiven, but I honestly believe the character of the person during the overlap is so important. Letting go, how ..why....when it's best too. Being transparent and respectful enough to be honest with them and letting them hear the facts to make a healthy informed decision. I think so many people screw that part up and it's so vital to a healthy relationship. Thanks guys for pranking David and I🙄.

[@Miss.Ese91]

Awww this brought tears to my eyes, much love from Ghana 🇬🇭

[@zureelscraftsltd]

This makes me soo emotional cos i’m currently going through the same thing right now. I gave him a chance after a while of not dating &he hurt me. I don’t know if he’ll come back to me but I’m getting stronger

[@veronahibbert8090]

Awww!!! ❤ He made the right choice! .Bless you all!🙏🏽💝

[@nneki1]

sometimes you might loose someone to actually know there worth in your life am glad it worked out for you both is meant to be

[@lisahawkins9187]

I love your How We Met video and Why You Broke up video; Ruth was the Gem from the beginning so glad Derek got his mind and vision clear. You TWO were meant for each other ❤️ Ebony and Ivory

[@debrawilliams2781]

Great story, you two were made for each other, I am convinced!

[@claudettembuya2237]

This video made me subscribe to your channel! Ruth, I love your advices, thank you. I will stay on waiting for your video on how you got here by yourself with no family. We may have a similar story. Can't wait! Thanks to both of you! God bless!

[@zkat9256]

I just ran across you guys. I love your family. Always remember what you have is precious. I'm 59, a have never been as lucky as you two. Married 21 years to find out you were never loved. Stay the way you are, wonderful!!

[@WILMA_]

OMG, that is really horrible. I hope you are happy now.

[@tonibrooks9719]

I love you all together. I feel your souls were destined for each other. I am new to your channel but I literally stayed up all night watching the videos you all made and the hilarious pranks. My favorite was the pregnancy prank that went wrong. May God continue to bless you both.

[@rochellegayden8442]

I think he did nothing wrong. Honesty is the measure of maturity. I am impressed he came to talk to you about what he was feeling. I dont think you should punish him by bringing it up years after you happily got what you wanted. Him. Be satisfied and allow for him to be human, like I'm sure you want him to do for you.

[@willyd7744]

I decided to watch your channel once again. After seeing one of your others, I thought that I would never watch your channel again. I think the video I had seen earlier was about a prank trying to make your wife mad, then joke about it saying only joking. But this video, I have been introduced to you in a much different mode. a much more POSITIVE Mode. Actually, I can relate to this story somewhat of how my then girlfriend and I split up only to reunite again, realize how much we really loved each other and then get married. So this one about you as a couple, I found much more enjoyable. Thank you and I just became a subscriber. Looking forward to seeing you more.

[@zakiyareignshinellc4299]

DI'd you choose to be with her because your ex moved on???

[@shpaige24]

Yes

[@fanmandeyoa5561]

We make me cry, am learning a lot from you guys thank you teachers,am learning from you to rebuilt my 14 years up and down marriage love sososo!! Much .💑💑💑💑🙏🙏🙏👍👍👍

[@pamelabutler3888]

So you guys did you, Derrick ever go to Japan or did u realize your love for Ruth was the answer you were seeking?

[@abackey1]

your happiness is all that matters❤continue to keep the Lord first!

[@rashimasimmons7583]

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

[@bessiewilliams9533]

I have watched Derrick for awhile now. I don’t like how he speak to his wife. I hate when you shush her , you treat her like she’s your child. I know you love her. However there are things you need to work on. Blessing to you both.

[@miggimax1197]

Exactly!

[@hubamarxx5538]

@@rachaelwanjirumaina7329 Thank you! I think Ruth deserves better.

[@havanablue4813]

@@hubamarxx5538 - so true. I will never be anyone's SECOND choice. But she does lack when it comes to good looks.

[@hellenchepy772]

@@havanablue4813 she's very young and beautiful, that is such a racist comment. If anything her husband is waay older and she settled for him

[@hiddengem4293]

@Bessie Williams - I would love it if they would watch *REDEFINED TV* channel together while eating popcorn!🍿

[@BABS889]

Wow this is real soul mates. The magnet that pulls you together is forever

[@sylviajones910]

Beautiful Story.Glad Yall got back Together.

[@justyoutubing4285]

Break up to Make up! 💕 Both needed to make a decision differently and in their own respective ways, actually. And it's very interesting that when Ruth put her foot down and did her little prayer -as opposed to keep being strong (I feel you on this one by the way) - it was what Derek needed (and possibly wasn't getting before because it wasn't there) to be properly fuelled. This is how The Universe challenges kindred-spirit lovers (soulmates) - both need to have their respective realisations and ask for it... and act on it. 🌠🌠🌠 Inspiring💕💕💕

[@lindawalker5144]

WOW! Such a beautiful love story obviously it was meant to be, I am so happy that both of you found your way back to each other.

[@idaida8096]

You two are perfect together because it is from God that is why it is so perfect and everything works together so well well done both.Enjoy the blessing Ruth.

[@juliapierre00]

😍😍😍😍 such a beautiful story. I wish you guys the best!

[@sarahalhassan8362]

Love your story!! Very nostalgic and affirming!

[@chenesaimatarutse3776]

You really got me scared Btw Derrick's the clingy and loving type 💖💖

[@chenesaimatarutse3776]

@Eye. stupid Benny Spy Nah......

[@babylr4841]

@Eye. stupid Benny Spy damn ur dead inside huh haha🤣

[@moucks566]

Mt network is soo poor, i got sooo teary eyed because of the heading...im literally downloading to listen later...i read some of the comments and am kind of delighted😊

[@TDS1281]

Ruth many blessings to you and your children. This man of yours idk about him but your women loves you be true.

[@evelynhernandez7193]

Maybe you need something better. You are a good man don't waste your time in something that not make you happy don't settle for less

[@gwendolynjefferson7100]

Your story is so touching, brought tears to my eyes, but it all worked out in the end.

[@anna-mayramnarine875]

Such a beautiful story I'm glad it all worked out for you guys💜💜💜

[@shalanegordon1742]

Beautiful story....beautiful couple....may God continue to bless and strengthen your union and protect your family.

[@JuliaG.M]

Derek you need to be whooped. How could you break Ruth's heart like that? 😢 Another reason for her to deserve a trip to Paris 😅. Ooh that was quite sad but I am happy that you both made it work ❤️

[@ellelively5693]

I agree.

[@TheKeyosha1diva]

She's so sweet. OMG

[@anniemitchell2436]

He's an a a**! Can't bear him. If your child dosen't proves to you it was meant to be???

[@cirukarago7251]

It's funny for me after my breakup i have never met a guy that i have prayed for 😂😂😂.. Like never been in love to that point or connected. Yours was meant to be cheers to many years and grow old together.

[@hiddengem4293]

@Ciru Karago - please watch REDEFINED TV channel, you won't regret it!

[@KUSZPREM]

Damn this story would be a great movie... like the notebook kinda story. Edit: set them free, if it’s meant to be they will always return. Awwwwwwww

[@IHAVEACHOICE7]

RUTH, STRONG WOMAN. NOT TO MANY STRONG WOMEN IN THE WORLD TODAY, MOST OF THEM ARE NEEDY.

[@chandrac3987]

Wow!!! So really if the other woman would have took you back ummmm their wouldn’t be no Ruth!!! But you see God works in mysterious ways!! Remember that what God puts together let no man tear it apart!! God bless you both.

[@owusudaniel2695]

❤️

[@rashimasimmons7583]

Hugs and kisses from above 🙏 KEEP ON SMILING 😊

[@WILMA_]

Chandra, speaking for myself, i would have never prayed for him, let alone taken him back after being told that he was going to go see someone else. In my heart of hearts, Derek loved - dare i say LOVES that woman more than he will ever love Ruth? I hope i am wrong, but all i know is he would have been history.

[@lia-Hsr]

The other woman would always be the one that got away to him That’s sad

[@justyoutubing4285]

Derek's facial expression when Ruth narrates the torments and sweet memories is just 😌😌 ... And Ruth's 8:42 - 8:47 ("God, I don't want anything else in this world. I just want Derek") is a nice little 😌😌-return. And then she said he's home and feels like home... and his face went more lovey-dovey. Argh...Love these two!💕😌 That's a "connection" (it's bigger than the two of them)... Beats "relationship" (which is just very mundane) anyday. ✌💕

[@kolawoleamaka9967]

Thanks for sharing your story, you guys are meant for each other.

[@bravebird1578]

You guys are beautiful...let nothing change what you've created.

[@traciluv2739]

I'm so happy you guy's got together.

[@franfran4743]

Ruth and Derek, I LOVE LOVE LOVE you. I love The fact that you love each other I don't know what other people are talking about when they say how could you take him back that is what love is. love is not superficial and it's not based on pride definitely not on pride . I'm so happy happy that you took him back everybody doesn't come in a nice neat little package We have things that we come with that you can't deny . the fact that he thought that doesn't make him any less of a person ! I love you both please stay and stand strong strong for ever! PS...just read of your Mom passing, my heart broke.Sorry that JUST discovered you both at this saddest time in your lives.

[@carolynevans2735]

A match made in heaven. You both were made for each other. Ruth I love you and Derek.