How to set Boundaries as a High Caliber Woman that people will respect ? Keeping your Standards

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Lisa Glamour

Lisa Glamour

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@elenavalentina4608
@elenavalentina4608 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE how you focus on being a high value woman and not just on looking like one. Ladies remember, you can look like a million bucks but if you don't cultivate and elevate your mind as well being a high caliber woman will only be a facade.
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely !!! 👍
@nataliedube1665
@nataliedube1665 3 жыл бұрын
ughhh i hate when men ask for nudes! i once was talking to this guy and we weren't even dating and he was like soooo can I have a photo? and i was like *block*, don't do it ladies!
@lavieenrose_marie
@lavieenrose_marie 3 жыл бұрын
This was so necessary! Thank you for posting. I used to be the “nice” girl and let people get away with murder. The crazy thing is the nicer you are the meaner they act! Almost as if they resent you for it. They really want to get a reaction. I learned that lesson and put value on my time and inner peace! I am quick to remove myself from foolishness now!
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you and the fact that you value your time, inner peace and set boundaries ✨
@alexandraeverafter1015
@alexandraeverafter1015 3 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. It is easy for people to take advantage of “nice” as well as “pure and innocent” people. Even when I was at school, people were nasty to me for being the “nice” girl (even though I screamed a lot when people treated me like dirt). I also had that “pure and innocent” image at school after my classmates learned I was “smart” because I kept winning those geography games in class, getting high test scores(most of the time), and (almost) never cussed. It seems that there is tremendous pressure to maintain that image once you “earn” it. If you make even one mistake, no matter how petty, you are no longer that “perfect” girl. I was teased for making small mistakes at school (e.g., saying the wrong things) or performing actions out of character, and I was really bullied when I bombed a major test at school, and somehow, the whole class, if not, the whole school, found out, even if I never told anybody my score (which shall remain unnamed). I really thought the world was going to end! I learned this the hard way after an absolutely disastrous relationship. I am happy for you, classy lady!
@lilfairykiki122
@lilfairykiki122 3 жыл бұрын
I went through the exact same thing, i think it’s because an abusive human can sniff out someone who they can walk all over. I realized that you can be a kind person without being a doormat.
@alakane2183
@alakane2183 3 жыл бұрын
Saaame, absolutely 💯 if you don't set your boundaries, it just leaves you open to be used and abused, even by so called "friends".. so you have to show them how to treat you, by your own example it seems😌
@lavieenrose_marie
@lavieenrose_marie 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lisaglamour Thank you!! 💕
@popkultureentertainment324
@popkultureentertainment324 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I heard that half of the population is mentally ill so being 'nice' isn't realistic. I was a doormat growing up so I attracted lots of abusive people. It was terrible. I am proud that I've learned to assert myself but sometimes, because of my past , I can be a little aggressive.
@LaisCordiolli
@LaisCordiolli 3 жыл бұрын
Better agressive than a doormat. Good job.
@angelstarfire
@angelstarfire 3 жыл бұрын
Any advice for being more assertive? I realise I come off as defensive instead.
@charitymills442
@charitymills442 3 жыл бұрын
same. i always don’t do enough or take it too far.
@ametrineambrosia4929
@ametrineambrosia4929 7 ай бұрын
I'm mentally ill. Not all of us are horrible. Many of us have been targeted and victimized.
@_Char_M
@_Char_M 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's PMS emotions, but I cried watching this...I have a lot of work to do in this department. Thank you for this video
@saimamerrosy8223
@saimamerrosy8223 3 жыл бұрын
Girl SAME
@madelineasmr926
@madelineasmr926 3 жыл бұрын
I wish when I was younger I had a woman like you in my life. Yes, I had women who promoted modesty, hypergamy, and valuing yourself, but their entire worth and value was based in their relationship with God and not a single one ever told half the truths you did in this video. The WHY. Why all this is so important and necessary. Even though I cannot change the past, I still appreciate you so much. You and Karine are the best femininity channels out there. Thank you for everything you do 🙏🏻✨
@sumi4998
@sumi4998 3 жыл бұрын
By boyfriend didn't pay for the first half of our first date, (it was a museum ticket) he didn't know me that well yet, and wasn't sure he liked me in a romantic way yet. The second half of the date, he payed for my coffee. As soon as he realised he is interested in me, he started looking for ways to provide. I can only count 3 times-first date included, while I had to pay for my own things. And that were exceptions because we're both students, and sometimes just genuinely broke. However, this never happens of he has an option. He started getting a bigger income than in the beginning, and just recently he wouldn't even let me pay for my own clothes... he payed more than €260 worth of clothes for me, even if I wanted to buy it for myself.
@sumi4998
@sumi4998 3 жыл бұрын
@Die Kaprunin That's what I'm saying. Though, it shouldn't depend on you. I think you might have misunderstood. It should come from a place of self growth and development for him, the internal desire to be better must already be there before you meet. What I'm saying, is, similarly to how we are constantly growing and learning, and can potentially be a month away from who we want to be, so could he. There has to be an internal drive and ambition already in place, I'm saying, recognise that, instead of expecting the already finished picture.
@mysweetpepper
@mysweetpepper 3 жыл бұрын
@@sumi4998 he seems great but not all stories end this way. Too many women waste their time and energy on a man with just potential
@sumi4998
@sumi4998 3 жыл бұрын
@@mysweetpepper unfortunately that's true. I should have emphasised the fact that we met up as friends first. As soon as he wanted to pursue me, the way he treated me shifted. I am trying to say, it's about the character, not the "financial end product". Michelle Obama did not marry the president, she married a man she saw the character of before he became president. That is what I'm saying. He wanted to be able to pay for the other 2 times I mentioned, but did not have the money. He was a student then, and treating me to everything he wanted to was impossible. He couldn't even treat himself, but when given the opportunity, he still chose to treat me instead of himself. Now, he is in a more stable financial position, and his actions reflect that. What I'm trying to say is, if his character is high caliber, but his financial circumstances do not yet reflect that, usually it's only a matter of time before it does. Character is more important than money. With character, he can work your way up to become financially successful, and you know he's going to treat you with love when he makes it, because he treated you like a princess before he had money (there are ways to do that without money, and if he finds out how, that reflects his character). But if he only has money and no character, you might end up miserable.
@EvaMarise
@EvaMarise 2 жыл бұрын
@Die Kaprunin Agree. However, such cases are very rare. In 9 times out of 10, a cheap guy is only that: cheap. And he should be avoided like the plague.
@rainacherienne1010
@rainacherienne1010 Жыл бұрын
@@mysweetpepper 99.99% those potentials never rise higher.
@elenadarling4697
@elenadarling4697 3 жыл бұрын
The book “Why Men Love Bitches” is a best seller for a reason. Even though the title is a bit abrasive, it is actually teaching women boundaries and how your actions prime men for ill or good.
@AntonioRobertoFreitas
@AntonioRobertoFreitas 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Lisa Hart I really am very interested in your instructions on elegance and good choices. This opens my mind more to better understand the female soul. In this way I manage to dialogue more harmoniously about the fantastic importance of women. 💐🌹🌟
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you and I appreciate your support on all of my videos 🙏
@AntonioRobertoFreitas
@AntonioRobertoFreitas 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lisaglamour Thanks dear Lisa for your generous and loved words.🌹
@srishtishetty8578
@srishtishetty8578 2 жыл бұрын
This mistreating happened with me yesterday when I went on a date. My boyfriend didn't come with me when I ordered food from the counter, didn't offer to pay for it. I went on to finish my food ( only I had ordered) and later made a negative comment about how I look. This was the last straw, I walked away saying nothing. He tried to ask me what happened, trying to touch me, I took his hands off me and walked off. I felt deeply hurt and disrespected.
@pipermcpickles5283
@pipermcpickles5283 Жыл бұрын
Good for you for walking away from that nonsense, that takes strength! Love and healing to you. 💖🪷💖
@_ANDRA_01
@_ANDRA_01 3 жыл бұрын
Yes,as women we are raised to be nice,but when someone is being disrespectful we have to take action(polietly of course!).Unfortunately,people are not as nice we would like ,not in this days at least...but I am positive about the future.Me personally,I haven't experience this kind of behaviour,but I saw it..many times.And I think it's SO important to surround yourself with good quality people,that respect and appreciate you😊
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely agreed on everything you said ❤ I haven't experience such behavior either, but I feel like it is important to say to the lovely ladies of this community to be aware, and to set boundaries, even as elegant ladies 😊
@ametrineambrosia4929
@ametrineambrosia4929 7 ай бұрын
Many women are polite and still get murdered. I don't think vad men deserve politeness!!
@lowcountrygirl7779
@lowcountrygirl7779 3 жыл бұрын
Excellent video Miss Lisa. You are such a classy, beautiful, elegant, refined lady with standards to match. Unfortunately, society, social media, and culture push the absolute opposite message to which you strongly convey. We can remain beautiful, classy ladies with excellent boundaries without being brash or rude. Much love and blessings. You look exceptionally lovely today, as always.
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for such lovely words ❤️
@cc_chi123
@cc_chi123 3 жыл бұрын
I used to argue with my ex all the time... because he was outright disrespectful and I thought I could get him to change. He didn't, I ended up leaving and then he told everyone "we just didn't get along and argued too much". lol. Kills me. Meanwhile 3 yrs later he calls me to say "I didn't treat you right and I'm sorry about that". Like... I tried to tell you! BUT it was a lesson and now my energy is SO much different and men know from the get go because I will just remove myself quietly when I see or receive any disrespect. They don't even get in... and that was my lesson. I had let someone "have me" without any real commitment on his part and then I was mad about the non-commitment and lack of care. And that's on me for even letting a man have me enough to allow it :)
@filippat.5011
@filippat.5011 3 жыл бұрын
You truly are a high value woman. Really my feminine inspiration 😍💕
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@melissamelissa2603
@melissamelissa2603 3 жыл бұрын
I love how you said this! Not every man is like that and you shouldn’t put up with it! You are so feminine and your advice is so needed! Manipulative men are so effeminate but desperate to appear masculine, or whatever makes them feel powerful to make you miserable, and yes!, the number one thing you will notice about all of them is they will put you down, usually they have got a lot of practice doing this while others are not watching and then they gaslight you or try to make intimidate you to make you look and feel as miserable and crazy as possible.😂 Gaslight is a good movie for understanding this. There are immature mean boys and girls that do this to mess around with you, till a nice old man gets them and brings them out of bad company (bad company of both old and young people that are a bad influence) and the other kind of crazy making comes from the evil narcissists that know what they are doing to you, but both are a waste of your time. None of them fully understand how bad there behavior is though. They are both a waste of time.
@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew
@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew 3 жыл бұрын
I felt what you said about people and their mental health issues. I do alot of research about that too and I can smell unhealthy people from a mile away. Most people can't and I feel like I end up being the one looking crazy for not talking to so many people. But I just have more awareness about mental health than others do. Every time I am right about people. They always prove me right.
@a.j.1819
@a.j.1819 2 жыл бұрын
So true! When you educate yourself on the topic so many characteristics and behaviours just stick out to you.
@CashaTravels
@CashaTravels 3 жыл бұрын
I love you all the way from Kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 Great content
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you love you too ❤
@hightreestess
@hightreestess 5 ай бұрын
Big love to you for educating women who were raised to not see their value or raised with limiting beliefs & haven't been exposed to this way of thinking yet! ❤
@rokiroki3692
@rokiroki3692 Жыл бұрын
Lisa, Lisa... I take your advices....people I know react in a hard way when I set my boundaries by actions... I think my whole life is going to change...I take the risk, because the other way caused me so much problems and paines. Thank you, I hope you know how much you do for people and I hope you get the reward for that. God bless you. ❤
@arielajanes3741
@arielajanes3741 3 жыл бұрын
Thought 💭 - Word 💬 - Action 💥 That's all it takes.
@GunjanChavan
@GunjanChavan 3 жыл бұрын
YES RESPECT! Please make more videos on this. Respect > anything else. One can be an amazing human and be treated wrong bcz of certain things and it's so unfair. Would love to know what actions to take to have better boundaries around friends or just people around us too.Your channel is just great. Please make more videos on this thank you so much!!!!
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you !! 😊 I completely agree with you this subject is so important
@MarCariB
@MarCariB 3 жыл бұрын
LOVE u Lisa 🌹 and ur look ⭐️
@sabinekreuz
@sabinekreuz 3 жыл бұрын
this comparison with a credit card is excellent.
@bogif3668
@bogif3668 2 жыл бұрын
I feel feminine when and after i watch your video! Thank you! ❤️
@kristynasamotna8553
@kristynasamotna8553 3 жыл бұрын
This video is amazing. Setting boundaries is for me quite difficult but very important thing. Setting them thru actions is really clever advice. I went through bullying and when I look back at it I can see that I truly let them walk all over me. Your videos are helping me a lot to learn new ways in my life and communication. I love you so much. ❤️
@christabelmorganwright5830
@christabelmorganwright5830 3 жыл бұрын
When she said boundaries are more of actions than words 💞 so me 🤦‍♀️ doing vice versa all the time
@joanofarcxxi
@joanofarcxxi 3 жыл бұрын
You are young, beautiful, and so wise. I so appreciate it, thank you. Ladies, if you want to raise your game, listen carefully. There are many gems on this channel that will help you raise your game, improve your self esteem, stay safe, and add value to your life. We need this.
@melissamelissa2603
@melissamelissa2603 3 жыл бұрын
The video on horrible dates was very good for just understanding men whether you ever date them or not! Such a good one as is this one too!
@ericaa.2022
@ericaa.2022 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lisa! Nowadays I put boundaries in all my relationships. To keep respect, to learn to say no. As a woman is essential ✨❤️
@snee21
@snee21 3 жыл бұрын
Your channel is one of the best, not just for sensuality and femininity, but all the standards which we keep at bay just to validate ourselves, and ending up not respecting our beautiful selves. I am so happy to have found your channel, the “pick me vibe” of I am a “tomboy” and I am not like others is not attracting in my eyes any more. Just respecting our feminity is so beautiful, that I am so lucky to be such a beautiful woman.
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I'm so happy that you enjoy my content, and discovering more about your beautiful and powerful feminine energy ❤
@snee21
@snee21 3 жыл бұрын
@@Lisaglamour absolutely love you, thanks for replying Lisa, have a beautiful day ahead.
@maricelg777
@maricelg777 3 жыл бұрын
Protect your energy ladies. Thanks for sharing Lisa. You are awesome 🌸🤍
@Richgirlsweetness
@Richgirlsweetness 3 жыл бұрын
You look absolutely gorgeous in this video! Love your content and energy. ❤️ From Toronto
@mourdredmourning3865
@mourdredmourning3865 3 жыл бұрын
Just recently dealt with a narcissist who came like a colossal titan. I came here to rebuild wall maria and strengthen wall rose and sina even more. Thanks Edit: I didn't know it just took me two months in order to completely recover. In my mind it felt like forever.. I thank the doorslam ability 😅
@JaeElise
@JaeElise 3 жыл бұрын
LOL I love the attack on titan reference
@sal4538
@sal4538 3 жыл бұрын
YES AOT
@stephyworld8713
@stephyworld8713 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@Themoment888
@Themoment888 3 жыл бұрын
U BETTER BUILD UP UR WALL MARIA! 🤣😂
@patriciac.5251
@patriciac.5251 3 жыл бұрын
Hair tutorial please 😍 love your glamorous waves
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes good idea ❤️
@satania9768
@satania9768 Жыл бұрын
I really love your channel because you are the most rational and realistic one. There are a lot of youtubers who give out similar advice but their beliefs are obviously rooted in delusion and grand narcissism so it's really not as real. You make so much more sense because your philosophy is based on facts and psychology. Awesome, keep it up, you're literally saving so many women globally.
@alexandraeverafter1015
@alexandraeverafter1015 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this video. I learned how to set my boundaries the hard way after a disastrous relationship. I thought my bar was already high then. Boy was I wrong! Being the “nice” girl got me in trouble. He started as a “nice” guy who planned my birthday celebration a few days after he met. As time went by, he started disrespecting me. The last straw was when he called me a nasty name at a wedding just because I was not attentive to my daughter. (I was a bridesmaid after all, and people watched her when I had to be away from her.) Since then, I raised the bar for relationships way up, so only true gentlemen are allowed in my territory. Your video would have saved me from a horrible relationship, but it never hurts to be reminded over and over. By the way, I love your red dress. ♥️💐
@alakane2183
@alakane2183 3 жыл бұрын
Just when I needed some good advice on this subject😭🧡 Really love to hear about your views. Love your energy, your looks and style, the whole vibe of your channel, it's become my favorite on the topic of femininity🌼 Just by watching your videos I've learnt a lot🙏 And just listening to your content makes me feel very empowered and encouraged in exploring my femininity even more🌸 It's like listening to Aphrodite herself, thank you🥺😘
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much darling I'm so glad you love my channel and my videos help you 😍😍
@tannytanner28
@tannytanner28 3 жыл бұрын
Hi Lisa
@BD-ze3ys
@BD-ze3ys 3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same way!!
@maricelg777
@maricelg777 3 жыл бұрын
Control your emotions. 🌸🤍
@maricelg777
@maricelg777 3 жыл бұрын
@@FireSilver25 check out the book Attached: the new science of adult attachment .
@GURHER
@GURHER 3 жыл бұрын
I have yet to watch the video, but my gosh Lisa! I just had to mention how sweet you look with your hairstyle, and all the lovely details😘
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@isurrendertoyou7498
@isurrendertoyou7498 3 жыл бұрын
Plzz make a video on best gentleman woman met on a date!! Just like that horrible date story..that way we will have a bit of an insider of those gorgeous man & will have hope that we will be able to find someone like that for us❤❤
@isurrendertoyou7498
@isurrendertoyou7498 3 жыл бұрын
Babe you need to make a video on how to identify whether a person is ppl pleasure or narcissist
@Jiho333
@Jiho333 3 жыл бұрын
I never dated but when I started one year ago I regretted it, and it's all because I allowed him to use me in every single way except sexual because he knows in my culture we don't give the cookie easily so he never tried to ask for it, in fact, I don't think he even liked me he had a purpose which is coming to visit Egypt not me acting like he cares for me all the time. Anyway, I stopped talking to him very recently and I'm feeling better so now I'm working on myself to raise my vibration and my status in life to attract better and greater men who are masculine and gentle. No harm for the Feminine men I'm just looking for my type. 💌 Thanks Lisa💕
@julianeserr4667
@julianeserr4667 3 жыл бұрын
Could you please do videos on how to build/ strengthen my confidence especially in expressing and acting out my boundaries and how you do that because for me it doesn’t come that natural to be really confident in saying no, also a video about those signs that men are narcissistic, manipulative or just not that high of a caliber ? I learn so much from you Lisa, love you 🥰🙏🏻
@Iamloveandloveisme
@Iamloveandloveisme 3 жыл бұрын
This also goes for the people you work with! As an actress, I've experienced working with men you've described; on the unstable side. I wish I spoke up.. it's important to take some of these tips to work! Great video! Thank you for your fabulous work!
@mariellegrant6248
@mariellegrant6248 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this precious vidéo Lisa!
@Ines_Ella
@Ines_Ella 3 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much you helped me ❤️ Love from Algeria 🇩🇿
@Rania-vh7wg
@Rania-vh7wg 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa, I've been a subscriber for so long now and I have never requested a specific video because your videos are always helpful and interesting but I am now. I am a hijabi and my style has always been casual, so I wear long tops with jeans and sneakers and a complimentary color hijab but since I've found your channel I know what I should be wearing to be elegant but I don't want to lose my modesty and choice of longer clothing so it is hard to follow your tips entirely. Could you perhaps direct a video to your Muslim subscribers who have a specific clothing style and how to be elegant in more covered items?
@frankyavery
@frankyavery 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being a good influence to the wee things.
@InkBytes
@InkBytes 3 жыл бұрын
What an empowering message, thank you Lisa for addresses some really important points!
@brokentoblessed1695
@brokentoblessed1695 Жыл бұрын
Amazing! I love your videos. ❤️ May I know which movie is in reference?
@lunabyanne
@lunabyanne 2 жыл бұрын
you’re doing amazing work! 🌹
@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew
@VictoriaBiblicalHebrew 3 жыл бұрын
This is on a New Level for this channel Lisa
@juliam.5154
@juliam.5154 3 жыл бұрын
Ahh, loved it. You truly reflect that you are everything you teach us 💕
@bibianamendez9789
@bibianamendez9789 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video.. ❤
@hollywoodglamour7510
@hollywoodglamour7510 3 жыл бұрын
Love your channel! Another great video and an important life changing topic
@miranneazong2398
@miranneazong2398 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video Lisa. I can never get enough of your content. I always look forward to watching more of your videos. xx
@lindsaymack4102
@lindsaymack4102 2 жыл бұрын
Great video. Love your speaking voice & positive vibes
@МеруертК-у2н
@МеруертК-у2н 3 жыл бұрын
I'm amazed by your wisdom and knowledge! Everything is on point!
@elena-dh2im
@elena-dh2im 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa you are simply the best. I've been clapping for like 5 minutes 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
thank you ❤️❤️
@eliolina2262
@eliolina2262 2 жыл бұрын
Your Chanel is a treasure
@2822em
@2822em Жыл бұрын
Such a pretty aesthetic ❤❤
@jw5212
@jw5212 3 жыл бұрын
One of my favorite videos of yours ❤❤
@withlovefalseortrue9839
@withlovefalseortrue9839 3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos so much! Really needed this. 💜🌹
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you darling so happy you enjoy it ❤
@sophiekoerfer4316
@sophiekoerfer4316 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love your red dress ! ♥️
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@maricelg777
@maricelg777 3 жыл бұрын
Love your dress
@rubyfullglam
@rubyfullglam 2 жыл бұрын
youtube channel of my dreams lisa, thank you so much 🙂💝
@biancasantiago8822
@biancasantiago8822 3 жыл бұрын
You're soooo pretty~ Please, make a video about your makeup inspired in the fifties!!
@darkspice6339
@darkspice6339 21 күн бұрын
4:10 GOLDEN words 👑💕
@cassbellydance
@cassbellydance 3 жыл бұрын
Such good points! I never thought of the validation that way! I like these types of topics. Please make more like this
@Tanya-vz2ig
@Tanya-vz2ig 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. I wish I would have seen this years ago.
@Sakura-ek6vo
@Sakura-ek6vo 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa! You are a very important person fo me . Thank you.
@amyyy4
@amyyy4 3 жыл бұрын
Lisa you said that you can spot someone who has mental problems or is manipulative. Do you think you can please make a video on this? 😊💕
@chipomirandamukwaira451
@chipomirandamukwaira451 3 жыл бұрын
It's much easier when you have dealt with your own mental issues ...the healthier you are the more you can spot the sick and to be healthier self love is the center of it all.... The more you don't allow bad behaviour from yourself and from others the more you can spot narcs ...it really gets better with time
@blancamendez4490
@blancamendez4490 2 жыл бұрын
I love love love you. You gibe us great advise .. We are the prize ..for sure
@carolinarocapereyra6865
@carolinarocapereyra6865 3 жыл бұрын
You’re the best! I really love your content ❤️
@jessicathejedi35
@jessicathejedi35 Жыл бұрын
I had to cringe at the 2nd woman scenario. 🥴 I did this with my boyfriend who said something that made me angry and offended. He has never done that before but he knew I was upset. I didn’t communicate with him, he gave me space. And when he did reach out over the phone, I did the 2nd girl tactic of telling him it was unacceptable - asking “is this your true character? Is this how you speak to women?”Because if it was, then this is not the relationship for me.” He assured me it was not his character, but I will let his actions prove it. Still.
@shunai935
@shunai935 3 жыл бұрын
You are always on point my dear 😘
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you dear ❤️
@Ladybug_0912
@Ladybug_0912 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Lisa. You are so sweet and assertive. Big hug from Buenos Aires, Argentina. Love you 💖
@eboni730
@eboni730 3 жыл бұрын
I was just looking for a video about this yesterday and then I see you upload this it's definitely a sign also can you do another video on setting boundaries like examples or ideas on what boundaries to set? Also always makes my day when you upload
@Aru_demure
@Aru_demure 7 ай бұрын
wow i love your advice so much 🤗❤️❤️❤️
@outerspace7079
@outerspace7079 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this video so much!!💕💕💕
@dianaphvn
@dianaphvn 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for this video. 🧡 I definitely struggled with this in life. 🙃
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΛΛΗ-φ5ε
@ΜΑΡΙΑΠΑΛΛΗ-φ5ε 3 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous!!!
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@lenaleclaire1210
@lenaleclaire1210 Жыл бұрын
I simply love love the video!!! Could you please share the manipulation techniques that men do when they try to put us down? Thank you so much for your channel!
@heyyy1325
@heyyy1325 2 жыл бұрын
Omg, i had this one friend and weve been friends for like 6 years (i finally cut her off and can u believe it she literally left school because of me thats so funny 💀) and she would make me feel so bad about myself and then say its a joke and im being sensitive, and i didnt even know that having boundaries is a thing and that cutting people out was a thing so i just endured it until one day i realized damn i have no boundaries at all and i started calling her out on her disrespecting me but then she said she wouldnt do it again sorry blah blah blah and i gave her 2863926429639362 chances over and over again because i was afraid of cutting her out. I set boundaries, yet i didnt act on them. I was all bite and no bark. And i think thats the problem with many people out there, either they dont even know what boundaries are or they just dont act on boundaries bc of fear. I tried to change her, i tried to make her a better person but why? Why did i do it, why did i spend my effort and precious energy on someone i didnt even like being around just for their personality? Well of course, i felt bad and guilty. So i used the past as an excuse to stay friends just to not feel guilty or scared of being alone, i used our 6 years of friendship ad an excuse. I thought cutting people out was such a cruel horrible thing, being confident was arrogant, loving urself was a sin, having boundaries was rude and self-centered. But look at me now, i cut out 3 close friends out of my life who were extremely toxic and i feel so free. I dont feel anything towards them, i forgave them. But im happy without them and im not letting them back into my life ever again. And im not going back to my past self ever, ever again. Im proud of myself for doing all this bc it was really scary and uncomfortable. Everyone whos in a toxic relationship, just know that there are thousands, millions, quadrillions of people out there who want to be ur friend/partner and will actually treat you the way u want to be treated. And whatever u need to do to get out, do that because i promise you iy will pay off. It may not be easy but it will be worth it. Surround urself with amazing people who truly elevate u, make u a better person and who u feel happy around. Dont let random people into ur life who dont benefit u in any way and only suck up ur time and energy. Not everyone deserves to be in ur presence. Ur amazing, ur a precious gem and u deserve only the best of the best. Period.
@raquellennan1760
@raquellennan1760 4 ай бұрын
Loved this ❤
@simransingh6137
@simransingh6137 3 жыл бұрын
Every thing u said lisa is so true ❤️
@humaboutique2
@humaboutique2 3 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video, thank you ❤️
@ohsostylish60
@ohsostylish60 5 ай бұрын
God bless you Lisa ❤
@nenavernic4125
@nenavernic4125 3 жыл бұрын
Dear Lisa i love your channel❤❤❤ Thank you❤❤❤
@ioanafilipescu2327
@ioanafilipescu2327 3 жыл бұрын
This look of yours reminds me of Gina Lollobrigida in ‘Notre-Dame de Paris’ where she played Esmeralda♥️♥️ She had that gorgeous red outfit that suited her perfectly! You really should do a breakdown on Gina Lollobrigida. She’s an awesome feminine inspiration, especially concerning the femme fatale archetype.🔥
@gi_issina
@gi_issina 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for all of the tips ❤️❤️
@sashasatyadev3909
@sashasatyadev3909 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the video. 👍 Excellent content and advice❤️
@laurasanderson1372
@laurasanderson1372 3 жыл бұрын
Very well spoken 💕👠💄💍♥️
@kafbff
@kafbff 2 жыл бұрын
youre completely right
@AnneXProductions
@AnneXProductions 3 жыл бұрын
@5:40 this is exactly what I need to hear♥️
@ericaa.2022
@ericaa.2022 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful red roses 🌹❤️✨
@ruthbanon6049
@ruthbanon6049 3 жыл бұрын
You are spot on right.
@suchetadasgupta5299
@suchetadasgupta5299 3 жыл бұрын
In non-dating scenarios or even dating-wise perhaps, if things are organic, because I pay my way/pull my weight, I am certain. Because I am certain, I am confident. And because I am confident, I can say no effectively, show not tell. The earning of the right to do things one way or the other is actually real and critically important. It is part of the process of confidence, even to the self, and also to the world, if not to the specific other party in the moment. Though in the long term it is the thing that also works with them, especially when they apologise later, learn to respect you and you get to befriend them. The non-transactional sharing and generosity, and the blurring of lines of give-and-take will come only later. In the beginning, it is only fair to be scrupulous about equality of responsibility. And, at least theoretically, in the end, the give and take balances out in terms of difference in roles.
@resmisadasivan8530
@resmisadasivan8530 3 жыл бұрын
Wow .....You and everything you said. Thank you.
@Psicologíayfamosos
@Psicologíayfamosos 3 жыл бұрын
I adore your videos♥️
@Lisaglamour
@Lisaglamour 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you darling ❤️
@mimioftheworld
@mimioftheworld 3 жыл бұрын
I love all the information in this video and loved the clips of a film you put in here as well. What’s the name of the film?
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