How to be an Unbothered Queen : Not Caring What People Think of You + Command Respect & Confidence

[@c.l.9344]

Be unapologetically you and unbothered. Keep your head high and your standards high. Know your worth and add value.

[@Lisaglamour]

Yes, yes and yes !!! 😘👑

[@EmilyRaskett]

Such good advice!

[@nubianqueen938]

Remember: You’ll never be criticized by anyone doing better than you! Namaste 🙏🏽

[@Lisaglamour]

Absolutely 😊👏

[@laundrybasket2689]

I’ve been criticized by MANY people who think they’re doing better than me.

[@minombre33]

@@laundrybasket2689 "who think"

[@heyyy1325]

@@laundrybasket2689 'think' being the keyword. If theyre criticizing u to pull u down instead of building you up to improve, theyre honestly not doing any better than u.

[@MarieCace]

@@laundrybasket2689 Maybe they were not really better!

[@dominikar4969]

Perfect evening routine - face mask, bathrobe, fresh bedsheets, tea and Lisa Hart's channel

[@Lisaglamour]

Oh thank you that is so sweet 😍

[@lclane5256]

*chef's kiss* Perfect.

[@mhopi9744]

Kkkkkk love it

[@pennypenny376]

Women who are self-assured seem to activate the insecurity in those who are not self assured.

[@siobhanrennie9542]

Yes

[@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou]

Not always. I’m pretty insecure (working on it) and self assured women are nothing but inspiration.

[@krystalricciardi7776]

@@IAmAwesomeSoAreYou as it should be prr 💅🏽

[@virginiayoussef]

This is part of the (The 4 agreements ) 2. Don't Take Anything Personally 3. Don't Make Assumptions.

[@gidzboxbox8839]

Everything you said is so right. Maybe this is why I never had a bf, I think I'm above every guy I met. I only dress well to prep for me and my future husband. Not for the boys around me

[@meee3891]

Same

[@Malin0908]

I work in a store, and The kind, polite costumers are always very good looking and attractive. While The rude costumers, who never say «hi» or complain are The opposite. So when someone puts you down, are rude or something, it probably is because they are not very happy in their lives or with themselves.

[@nabilaakhtar818]

"There's no you should. There is I do what I want and you do what you want." This was such a strong line. I apprreciate that.

[@teresa_brown]

This is such a great mentality! As an 18 year old there are a lot of jealous and fake people...but getting into an unbothered mindset really helps💕

[@nvaranavage]

And it continues into adulthood, too unfortunately.

[@byronchandler667]

What a beautiful red dress, Lisa. Your voice is just so beautiful, sweet, and soft. My favorite classic actresses would be: Marilyn Monroe Audrey Hepburn Grace Kelly Eva Marie Saint Rita Hayworth Susan Hayward Ava Gardner etc. Never stop being so glamorous, my beautiful friend.

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 💞 I absolutely adore the actresses that you mentioned, and I even did videos on many of them! Check out my "old hollywood glamour" playlist!

[@alexandraeverafter1015]

I wish I learned this in high school. I was depressed in high school because I was highly judged and bullied by catty classmates. They originally perceived me as smart girl who wore polo because I kept winning geography games at school and wore (Ralph Lauren) polo on most days. When I deviated from their perceptions, such as wearing a “lower” brand of clothing and bombing a major test, they bullied me like crazy, and bam! My “perfect” image was tarnished. I felt as if I were released from prison when I graduated from high school. I have also been controlled in horrible relationships. I felt I had to do this and not do that to be accepted; otherwise, I would be dumped. For example, I was to wear frumpy clothes that were totally not my style and not to go anywhere without him to keep my relationship with my daughter’s dad. Once I woke up and left him, again, I felt as if I were released from prison. I am your fan for life because you encourage us to be ourselves and be classy, confident, elegant and feminine while we establish boundaries so that we do not fall into traps of bad relationships. Yes, when I dress up, people treat us like royalty, and I did today at church and when I went shopping afterwards. I stood out among people who dressed like slobs at the stores, and people treated us with respect. ♥️💕💐

[@phoenixed2718]

Are u a 5/1 profile in human design? 5/1 tend to get a lot of projections and ppl who either love you or will crucify you

[@2fly2fresh]

Love this for youuu!!!!!!!

[@alicia.michelle]

Boundaries are key to your image!! The more established and closed your boundaries are, the more they will respect you even if they express their respect through resentment! And humor is a must!! It shows that you don’t feel the person’s opinion is important enough to hurt you, it will be a huge redirection for them! Why should they criticize you when they are just laughed at? They will stay within your boundaries after that. Anger shows them they don’t have to respect your boundaries because they can distract you by getting to your head.

[@milfinator8988]

I'm sixteen and your advice is really helpful. I'm a girl, not yet a woman. But I'm going to be the strongest woman I can be some day.

[@estrella4056]

This is a Very mature way of thinking. i have young nieces and older and 2 small children and i am a young mother.so my advice is to only listen to postive advice,And date for marriage.read the Bible and understand health,wealth,love,also read books from the library and book stores in person.its about being the best version of you.

[@kimberlyclements9984]

​@@estrella4056🙌🙌🙌

[@ioanafilipescu2327]

Rihanna is definetly an unbothered QUEEN🔥🔥🔥 Plus she is so hot and gorgeous and fashionable♥️♥️♥️ I loved that you introduced her in the video

[@Lisaglamour]

Oh yes Rihanna is such an unbothored queen ❤️

[@_SONIYAT]

Even selena gomez too❤️❤️

[@Bubbles-od2tv]

@@Lisaglamour Hi Lisa can you make a video on how to respond to criticism from strangers, and examples of comebacks

[@aiariego8124]

thank youuu now i can really say that i am literally living my life, by following your advices i am living so good. i am an unbothered queen and i am acting like the queen i am.

[@aiariego8124]

I AM AN UNBOTHERED QUEEN

[@aiariego8124]

AND I ACT LIKE THE QUEEN I AM.

[@catbaril9072]

I use stepping away from conversations as a replacement for pointless debates. I do bring things up, call out people of toxic mindset, etc. nicely. if they are disrespectful of on the defensive, I’m out, no point in debating, it’s a waste of energy if they don’t wanna listen and I don’t have to accept the things that go agains my values.

[@lisametallic7170]

Your dress is GORGEOUS.❤️

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you very much ❤

[@lahrechanine9460]

@@Lisaglamour where is it from ??

[@iknowwhatsup2880]

So true, they project their perception, but it is a two way street. I find I have perceptions that maybe I should keep to myself... I think the beginning of high value is keeping your thoughts about others to yourself.

[@ines.3582]

Again thank YOU so much...I am 25, have no friend and no woman around me like that so I didn't know about the feminine energy and I forget how to be one...watching your videos is like a friend talking to me ang giving me precious advices for life

[@_ANDRA_01]

This video was a good reminder.I don't really care about others opinions in 95% of the time..but when I slip,I do it with grace😅I mean that I explain what is needed more for myself,to remind me who I am..not to the others,they will believe what they want anyway. Life is amazing,I am amazing..and so are YOU...live free and know your worth.If you are confident in who you are...no other opinion would make you feel less❤ Send lovee to everyone 💞

[@waldoswife.4485]

You are extremely beautiful! 🤩😍

[@_ANDRA_01]

@@waldoswife.4485 omg thank you so much 🤗🙈made my day 🥺

[@pb2130]

"not everybody have to have access to your thoughts" --> that was mindblowing, especially for me, a PhD candidate lol

[@debilee6742]

In general-- it is great advice to ignore what others say or think. However, sometimes people take that as an excuse to not fix their own character flaws, which really need to be corrected. I feel like the balance is that we need to be confident enough to screen out what is what is not needed-- and humble enough to take in what will help us become better😁

[@miriammi8294]

Yeah! Positive criticism is still a thing

[@marliseisrael3017]

Appreciate you sharing wasting energy is like wasting 💰.

[@Hijabibti925]

I work at a fast food restaurant since I just got a divorce Im starting from scratch...but dont think for one second I don't come in fully ready clean and as far as rude customers I never let them unbalance my emotional control.. they get even more mad when they can't shake me and is till stay cutiouse.

[@sarakjeldsen769]

Good talk. ❤👏 It's true. I've heard women tell me guys don't open doors for them and I was confused, because I've had a lot open the door for me. I think its because I dress fancy (or used to). I love looking elegant. :)

[@NilgunYetis]

İ very lately learned that people opinion is not important if İ do nit give power to their thought.❤❤❤

[@JuzzMe-xu4mu]

I'm so happy I found your channel. I love being around women like yourself because you are inspiring and make me feel more comfortable being in my femininity. Yes, it is better to be unbothered. It's like that quote, "Never argue with a fool because people from a distance can't tell who is who."

[@theclassyconsultant.]

Successful people are too busy to be criticizing other successful people💯

[@kaylie8042]

She's so beautiful and amazing!!! I love her, she inspires me to become a better woman.

[@Lisaglamour]

Oh thank you ❤

[@christelcharles6999]

Her accent is so gorgeous

[@Scranton0]

You know your worth and value You do not need others approval You are happy and content with you You can move forward well in life You can dress beautifully in fashion Putting only your dress on this day It being your only clothing you wear And some heeled sandals on your feet Enjoying the free sprit you are and feel

[@Jaecinta]

One of the things I love most about you is that you’re legitimately (low-key) GENIUS.

[@Danceofthesugarplumfairy]

Girl you KNEW I needed this tea! 💅🏽💜

[@maythemysticmuse4071]

omg you are a vision, and thank you for what you do embodying your best self and embracing your best life that helps to empower others to do and live their own best version and vision. I have found so much peace and grace since i let go of inauthentic and unaligned connections and people and just mind my business (myself and my life more authentically and UNAPOLOGETICALLY). When i was younger and in a low state, i also felt at times jealousy and envy and then i would feel guilty and ashamed. Now that i am older and in a much better state, after doing my inner work, i catch and check my ego and shadow and just remind myself that i don't want to be anyone other than me and i don't need what's not mine. It comes down to compassion and confidence. Our value and integrity is ours and no one and nothing can undermine or destroy that.

[@waldoswife.4485]

I was just binge watching your videos. You are beautiful as always, I can’t wait to get to this level of class/elegance 😍☺️👸

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you dear ❤️

[@HerbanKateLifestyle]

Why is this exactly what I need for today 😫 Yess teach me how to be unbothered 🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@quantiadhana331]

It’s the “I didn’t even know this person was talking” for me. 😂😂 I love your content. Inspiring and making me better. ❤️

[@xxmidnightprincessxx]

I really see rihanna as the bohemian archetype. Early in her career from 2006 to 2009 she embodied the dark rebellious ingenue archetype but when 2010 came she became more rebellious and wild and even more desirable to the point men desperately want to be with her such as men like Chris brown and drake. She grew out of the ingenue archetype and became the bohemian. She is such a queen😍💯💞

[@szekelynora772]

It is a valuable content. Pure gold. I also experienced that being polished and elegant makes people behave respectfully, even those about whom you would not think (less sophisticated people).

[@sectoudie1820]

You are just describing the embodiment of the behavior of a True Goddess. Love what you say and its true. When you accept openly your mistakes imperfections people tend to stop pointing it out because its not interesting anymore for them to trigger you. Many blessings my dear GODDESS beautiful soul of the light

[@mollybryson7021]

This was really helpful for me, being in high school you get unnecessary comments from sooo many people and it’s 100x worse that I’m in an all girls school. Speaking of school, there are a lot of stairs and the boys from the boys school always joke about how awkward it is to walk behind a girl going up the stairs, if people are walking behind me when it is crowded it would be great to know how to at least walk up the stairs in a polished fashion 😂 is there any specific way? It would be really good to know because my school is strict and teachers are always telling other students to stand up straight

[@lucyna6269]

this is exactly what I have in my life. Other women try to put my down. I lernd in my life to stay over it because I understood that they are just jellous 'cause they just have problems with themselfs.

[@nomenenimipsumloquitur]

People try to control you. They have different experiences, thus they have only perception about you. They are not as successful as you. Successful people are concerned about their goals and family, they're not bitter. Don't listen to people who are doing less than you. Take everything with humor, stay calm, don't waste your energy on them. Accept that people have different opinions. You don't have to convince everybody. It's ok to ignore. Let go of the desire to control the perception that people have of you. Be okay with people not liking you. Being confident is about embracing who you are and not trying to please people. Looking your best can make you feel more confident.When you look your best,you feel your best. People going to try adjust their behavior to yours. Call the disrespect one time if they continue, leave the conversation. You aren't perfect, we all make mistakes. Embrace your imperfections and laugh about yourself."Yeah, and?" What really matters is what you think about yourself. Take the high road of positive mindset. People who get offended easily are the ones with the lowest self-esteem. This person doesn't matter anyway. Let the people be clowns 🤡.

[@pixietrixy6619]

this is helpful but we all deserve the same amount of respect no matter how we appear.

[@sarah.marco888]

I was feeling so meh today but this gave me a bit of a pick me up. New sub here. ☺️❤️

[@lovetheonly]

That perfect for your body silk dress is your color girl. Deep winter. You look naturally amazing in this video

[@LadyParisien]

sadly I've experienced people trying to control me MANY times when I'm just trying to live my life and it's always been very confusing and disheartening to me. Thank you for explaining this. It's very helpful. I've been learning about the importance of healthy boundaries - especially from two books by Drs Townsend and Cloud (Safe People and Boundaries) but knowing that I'm not alone and getting your encouragement and feedback helps so much too. xo from across the pond.

[@abeespalm]

I absolutely loved this advice and insight from such a feminine queen! I admire you! ✨💜✨💜✨

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you very much ❤️

[@sandraduwareski]

Freedom! That’s the gain!

[@ioanafilipescu2327]

To me it’s crazy how people try to controle content creators content😅😅 Just like you said: those people who tell you that you’re too dressed up or too seductive. Why is that a problem if that is how you like to be? Since when do we all have to be xerox copies: doing the same things, thinking the same about everything...How boring would that be?🙃 I lobed your video, Lisa. And yes: the ‘yeah, and?’ attitude is the best. But you have to really feel it.

[@Maria_Svetlana_5923]

When it comes to being dolled up and in a dress the confidence is really radiating compared to being stuck in a t shirt n jeans blending in love the video on body language and i keep repeating this one to be unbothered due to irritating temper here

[@kathyalex778]

This is probably my favorite video of yours! This is such great advice and I really needed to hear this today! ❤️💃

[@sevrinaanastasia]

I've listened and still listen to this video when I feel I need it. It's been really helpful on my journey to self-discovery and something that helps reset my mind, especially when working in a toxic environment.

[@estherisaiah3752]

I love your channel!! It’s really helped me upgrade my mindset and be brave and unapologetic for being me! 💕

[@rahozah]

Aww I love this video so much! thank you for these gems! What other people think about me is NONE of my business!!! Just subscribed 🙏

[@missn111]

Your videos are amazing! You are a gem! I'm so glad I found you. I recognize myself in you, so many things I have always liked, such as 50's movies, femme fatales, dressing well, being elegant... all those things, I kind of suppressed because everyone around me labeled them as superficial, but I know now that not everyone is meant for that kind of elevated lifestyle. Anyway, I am embracing all that I love now, glowing like the Goddess that I am, and living for myself.

[@sipsjuice6583]

I haven’t even watched this but I’m really glad you posted this. My own family is rude to me and I try to not care what they think but o try

[@diamonds8001]

Boundries!!!!!

[@kendraaraiza7039]

Perfectly timed, and much needed! Honestly, any time I watch your videos I shift into a happier mood. You radiate all things good and light. Thank you 🌺

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 😍

[@nvm893]

I'm so glad I found your channel Lisa. Its been so helpful these past few months. I'm on a level up journey and you're so right about the people who can't seem to understand your growth and only gossip. Just gives me all the more reason to remain unbothered and focus on my growth and journey. Love your sense of style btw!❤️

[@Xoxobabes09991]

WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE PLACES TO BUY DRESSES FROM? YOU ALWAYS HAVE THE MOST GORGEOUS CLOTHING😍😍😍😍

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 😍 The dress that I'm wearing is from Lilysilk, I put the link in the description box! Actually I love stores like Etsy (a lot of vintage clothes I love it), Nordstrom, Asos, Les Gallerie Lafayette (in Paris), Saks Fith Avenue (in New York), also vintage stores like Pinup girl clothing, Unique Vintage... There are so many ❤️

[@lovetheonly]

If you’re on Etsy and you’re interested in silk I go to Emily Silk. She uses measurements and had the most classy dresses

[@Xoxobabes09991]

@@Lisaglamour thank you!!💗💗💗💗

[@theresasundwall]

Just rewatched this video. I knew there'd be a day I would need all these reminders. Thank You, Thank You for Sharing & for caring! 💗

[@cassbellydance]

I like these kinds of videos. They’re very empowering

[@alakane2183]

I've seen some videos on this subject, even from proffesional psychologists, but for some reason you were the only one that has really made me see it in a different light, so thank you!❤️🌠 There are many quotes by you that I'm gonna write down, so that I can remember them when I need it😃 really liked the analogy with energy and money💯 P s all your videos have this relaxing yet educational vibe which I love😍 kind of like entering a garden of Eve🥺😌☺️ and I'm not even usually this poetic, it's just your energy that does it😘

[@AntonioRobertoFreitas]

Thanks dear Lisa Hart for sharing with us these interesting expertise and great talent. Your portfolio about these references is absolutely differentiated, brilliant.🌟

[@Gerkogrl24]

You are absolutely beautiful. I ❤ the confidence. Please, don't let those haters, like you said bring you down, because they are NOT on your level!!

[@ameliajohnstonslayrmedia7760]

Really enjoying your videos, a beauty mix of style and mindset. Id love to hear your perspective of how to use your femininity in a masculine work environment. I have gotten so lost running around being a mother, wife and working virtually in corporate - it’s as though I have forgotten to be a woman 🥴

[@babyplash]

Bonjour Lisa, this is my first comment ever on youtube: your video is sooo encouraging I have to comment. THANK YOU for your example on being free to become who you want and loving your life! I love your élégant femininity and your positivity 🌷💕

[@SUSU-iq5qx]

I just got out of this web with a horrible man if you can call him that. These videos help me. Thank-You beautiful lady!

[@makennapainter3200]

You are so wise and I’m so glad to receive your advise.

[@rachelmcclain5367]

I did not have a good day, but watching her gave it a great ending

[@LolaSilvers]

Thank you, beautiful Lisa. Your advice and vibe really remind me of the truth and what truly matters. Sending you lots of love and blessings! 🔥💕👑

[@florylege]

Loved the video. I experienced recently sexism directly towards me at work. The "clown" said something about my body in an open space and it made me feel both "unbothered" but also very disrespected. I told him it was wrong, after the moment. What do you think about rude sexism,?and mostly vulgar people who cannot stop talking being the clown making everyone laugh? Everyone told me why I did not say anything, but I was shocked and thought I am unbothered cuz I feel confident in my own skin!

[@mssharinabrown9958]

Aww hun you are the best-u r the perfect example of grace and femininity-luv u sis xx

[@ericaa.2022]

Lisa you are the best! You have been doing a good job in so many lives. Thank you honey! ❤ Hi from Brazil 🇧🇷🌻

[@itsselinbilgin]

Thank you Queen! This was SO good! ✨

[@h.o.pascal5415]

Thank you so much for taking the time to teach me these tools.

[@michelleboscaljon1414]

Tgat deep red dress is my new favorite on you! It's literally perfect ❤

[@rubyfullglam]

probably my favourite video because I watch it daily to get into my unbothered mindset 😊🎉

[@mihellereyes179]

OMG, that is some beautiful dress, Lisa ❤️️. You look gorgeous!

[@Ditatwilight]

Thank you for being a rol model. You make this journey much easier! ❤

[@Alwina578]

I think it's a certain type of people that would get jealous.. I wouldn't be jealous I would be happy for the other women.. but I don't feel there is something missing within my own life, maybe that's why. I really love your videos Lisa, thank you so much ❤️

[@dafnneperez9577]

Great message for all audience specially young girls. This will prepare them for life and to have a healthy self esteem.

[@diamonds8001]

Love this Lisa! So much truth expressed here!

[@putusita9052]

thank you so much for sharing this! your suggestions remind me a lot of my charming dad and mum who gave the similar advice when i was younger. thank you, please keep your elegant videos coming 😊🤍🤍

[@mamacocolilo105]

U are absolutely right, but some people are bullies. I see what u mean, and would otherwise not be offended, but think that sometimes these same people affecr ur bottom line (at work, or make others who might matter to u, question themselves about u) u need to do a video about putting them in their place. I can really care less if its not someone who affects me in any way financially or in the relationships that I treasure, but sometimes people know where the jugular vein is and they go for it.

[@brittanyK214]

Still one of my favorite videos of yours. Love it! Watched it many times over the years!

[@pumpkin3731]

🌹 Fabulous video Lisa! 🌹 Your dress is to die for. 😍

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much 😍

[@selinap9999]

This is such a great video! Also what you said about your friends connecting the term "masculinity" to some controling ex-partners is what happened to me at first, so it's really important to disassociate the two as someone who tries to control you is probably not confindent and at ease with themselves...so the type of positively masculine men is probably quite the opposite 🤗 your videos are also very empowering for women stepping into their strenght 🥰 btw...you're stunningly beautiful 😍

[@outerspace7079]

Amazing video once again!! Such an incredible topic🙌 about to watch the passive aggressive video you mentioned

[@everymomebt4846]

Hi Lisa, You inspire me so much

[@lyndsiixo]

Needed to hear this lately 🙏

[@shubhisingh9842]

I just looked at you in this beautiful silk red dress and just was awestruck for the next 10 mins ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

[@life.as.victoria]

I love your videos, I watch them many times because of the amazing advice!! Thanks for all the time you spend making them!

[@juwimoosa415]

Such perfect timing! Really needed this. Thank you Queen

[@MusicAnnaAmes]

Thank you so much for creating this channel. This is everything I did not know I needed

[@claudiatoddwebb]

I absolutely adore your dress and the cinching belt you paired it with- WOW. 🤩❤️

[@prettikitti3764]

Your channel is gold! Thank you for every video

[@Lisaglamour]

Thank you so much ❤

[@c.uni2370]

I got to start practicing more, starting at home with my mother. She always just knows has something to say about my looks causing me to reply. And it’s always negative. Next time I will try to be unbothered to see her reaction lol

[@vianguyen1588]

Sis you look absolutely gorgeous in this video! Love the hair

[@SUSU-iq5qx]

That dress is so beautiful!