4 Thrift Stores / I Found A Shocking Letter...Should I Read It?

4 thrift stores..see what I found! Of all my trips to the thirft store, this was the most shocking and dramatic. I found a letter from a mistress to a wife in a book and I want to share this experience with you. Is there somebody out there that needed to discuss this today? We ALSO will be decorating for fall in this video! We went to 4 thrift stores...I had no idea how the trip would end but I found some great books, decor and even a sassy pair of shoes!!!
I talk a lot about forgiveness in this video and I would love to hear your stories about what that means to you.
I do talk about " the letter" that is over 18 years old...and after researching the address found in the book, the wife who received the letter has passed away. She and her husband never divorced. And I better leave it at that.
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[@lynnegrant2216]

When I clicked on hi video, I had no idea how it would touch my heart. After 27 years of a faithful marriage, my husband had an affair. It ended our marriage and destroyed our beautiful family. It has been two years since I found out. I have often thought of going to visit this woman or write her a letter because I want her see what she helped destroy. She only used him and did not want a relationship once she saw the financial settlement. I hold him 100 % responsible because he broke a vow to me. I admire your decision not to read letter to your followers. I also agree with it. I pray daily to find it in my heart to forgive both of them.

[@LittlePoet]

This was beautiful Lynne....what a lovely woman you are...you taught me another great lesson...find peace...do the work...but find your peaceful place of forgiveness and never look back. Love to you, Susan & Desi

[@joannvannini548]

Same thing happened to me..we were married twenty years. It does break your heart..but try to live your best life..it does get better

[@donnapecoraro3126]

you don’t have to. you can find your own peace, live your best life, and realize that neither of them were worth your time.

[@lorrainem1870]

@@LittlePoet this is exactly my story, he started cheating after 27 years, 2012-2017, i found out in april 2020, not from my husband but from the affair partner, he was a good lier, he called it friends with benefits, he didnt love her or send flowers on her birthday, nothing like that, just a booty call, now its been 2 years and every day he is fighting for me, he's remorseful, regretful, and transparent, im still with him, but im still crying about what he's done, Im also on an antidresspant because of him, my adult children have not idea, or my siblings except for one, it seems like so many men cheat, and i was the faithful one, I cried so much when I heard about this letter, shame on all the women who cheat with married men, how can you tell im still so bitter

[@joannvannini2809]

@@joannvannini548 I meant 25 years..

[@marionopisso212]

We can buy many things, but we can't buy class. Congratulations classy lady!

[@doloresparker3582]

Absolutely right decision

[@shelleysquires7225]

That letter sounds to me like a deceitful, hurtful act that has NOTHING to do with forgiveness

[@LittlePoet]

I agree 100% with you Shelley....it was a dark reflection of a woman's suffering and anger aimed at an innocent wife.

[@antoinettechuffa4982]

I sooooo agree with your prospective on it......BRAVO, our friend Susan has a very intellectual following of strong brave women......XOXO 👏 to u all

[@GG-qy2wy]

My ❤️ aches for the ladies that have been cheated on. My Father cheated on my Mother, fathered other children. She stayed with him until the day he died--at 60 years old in 1988. I've never married because of that. She suffered so much because of him. I pray that you all find Peace.🕊

[@busybee1685]

I think that you made the right decision. It made me think of my own life...the time that I learned of my late husband's infidelity. It made me wonder about that woman. Was she ever sorry for the pain that she caused me? What if she would have written a similar letter. Would I want it read aloud? No, it would just cause more pain. I have moved on and I have let those feeling go. I have forgiven my late husband and her. She no longer has any power over me. I am free!

[@LittlePoet]

Beautiful! She has no power over you....in the letter here th eother women wanted forgivenss before she could forgive herself....but to me, we have the power...forgivenss is a private matter. Thank you so much for sharing BB xxoo

[@jackieo8693]

Forgiving does set us free!

[@barbaragoik7426]

I really like your video. You did the right thing with the letter. 😘Your friend from Michigan

[@lynnegrant2216]

This speaks to the power of forgiveness.

[@wyomingchickart]

I've been living by the 4 agreements for around 15 years. Life goes so much better now. About the letter, my ex's woman, he had an affair with, sent me all the love letters, cards, emails he sent to her while with me. It hurt me so deeply. I was in the process of forgiving him when I got the box of letters, he is out of my life now. I forgive them both and that is for me. Little Poet your channel has helped me many times. Thank you.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh you have lived with so much...and came out victorious! May I ask, did my video upset you in any way? I was concerned...and that book...I am reading it!!!

[@wyomingchickart]

@@LittlePoet no, it did not upset me in anyway.

[@wyomingchickart]

Let me know what you think of the book. I'm going to reread it this weekend.

[@wyomingchickart]

@Patti R thank you

[@laurievanzon2126]

What she did was just plain cruel! You did not deserve that on top of the hurt you already were living with. I hope you have a happier life now!

[@anthonyfalcone5605]

You did the right thing by NOT reading the letter. What would you gain from it? Now you can be proud of yourself for "holding back",think if you had written it,and decided not to send it. You would be glad that someone who found it had the courtesy NOT to share it with the world.

[@LittlePoet]

this wasn't about me...:)

[@anthonyfalcone5605]

@@LittlePoet I understand it's not you,I said if it WERE a letter that you wrote,you certainly wouldn't want it read to others.

[@LittlePoet]

@@anthonyfalcone5605 I want to be honest with you...if I wrote a letter and someone protected my name...and I thought by reading my letters or journals would help other women, I would love my words to be read. So I did not understand your statement to me.

[@theloveyourfacegal2773]

Agreed, they could have passed away & their child just fave all the books to the goodwill not knowing "this private" letter was there. Nice video 😊

[@Bailey_G]

@@LittlePoet I agree with you on that... As long as real actual names and other possible identifiers are not revealed, I would be fine if someone shared a letter that could be food for thought for others.

[@novarambo-martin7903]

Your decision was very honorable! We have to be the example we wish to see in the world! Thank you!

[@Novemberbaby333]

Glad you chose not to read the letter publicly. I have no desire to read something that would be so painful to someone. Thank you for being so caring!!

[@sheriswim9300]

Sometimes the reason for finding something is to discover another part of ourselves and know ourselves just a little bit better.

[@LittlePoet]

WOW.....isn't that the truth Sheri!!!

[@carolynratliff1380]

I am so proud of you for keeping the letter private…GOD BLESS YOU….YOU ARE ONE CLASSY GIRL…hugs from carolyn in Columbus Ga….I am so glad you got leapord shoes….all I wear is leapord pants and shirts. All of the time…my grandsons find me such pretty leapord accessories for my house…they tell their mom….GAGA WILL JUST LOVE IT….LEAPORD PILLOWS AND RUGS ARE NUETRALS THAT GO WITH EVERYTHING….GID BLESS YOU AND YOUR PRECIOUS HEART….How is the packing going to be with your grand babies …keep spreading the love. Hugs again from carolyn in Columbus ga

[@LittlePoet]

You are so sweet!!!

[@Adela4444]

I am 36 and I love watching your videos.I don’t know if you do it conciously or not but I feel your videos always have a very clear defined structure,with an introduction and ending that wear your signature,a storytelling way,an emotional culminant point and humour to blend them all together. I love watching them!

[@LittlePoet]

That is so wonderful you are here and I guess I never really thought about my videos being filmed that way...what you describe is really a short story...I love that!!!! Thus, I am living up to my name! I hope your day is a great one Adela!!! Thank you so much for being so kind! xo Susan

[@Adela4444]

@@LittlePoet Thank you,you are indeed living up to your name :) Your videos/short stories :) are artistic and very inspiring to watch! xo

[@sandimirandi9986]

@@LittlePoet Dear sweet lady. I love your channel so much. I look forward to every Saturday seeing you and Desi. I feel worried because i did not find your show this past Saturday. Did you take off the weekend for the holiday? I just hope you are okay. I will be watching for sure this coming Saturday and hopefully I will be able to find your video. I really missed you this past week! Blessings to you and Desi

[@janebirckbichler8626]

I absolutely agree Susan on your decision not to read the letter..That was someone's private pain and I applaud you on your sensitivity but especially on your respect ..love you!

[@lenetteshaw4833]

I'm glad you chose not to make the letter public. As you said. It was hurtful. Making it public would have only given it more power to hurt. I love your thrift store, it is filled with many wonderful finds.

[@tgawron2233]

I agree with you for not reading the letter. It was a hurtful act for the mistress to send to the wife. It would have been nice to see the letter burned at the end.

[@meritaholmes5085]

Forgiveness is powerful just like love. Thank you Susan 😊

[@LittlePoet]

I think so too Merita! I have to do more of it!

[@meritaholmes5085]

Me too Susan me too ✋

[@lucyloo7457]

It was am absolutely amazing video!!! You are a class act, Susan! Bravo and thanks for this.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Lucy!!!! Thank you so much!!!!! Happy weekend!!! xxoo Sues & Dez

[@ritaking8827]

Amen!

[@Sunflower-tu2rg]

Thoughtful video and class-act decision... you never disappoint...💖💕💖💕💖

[@cLyon-xi9os]

I read The four Agreements several years ago. Then I listened to the tapes daily and bought the little card set with quotes from the book on them. It changed me. Soon, my children found the cards pinned to their bulletin boards and the bathroom mirror. I think it is one of the wisest things ever written and I wish more people could practice it’s philosophy. So glad you brought it to the attention of your subscribers. That alone could change the world. Thanks Susan for all you and Desi do to make the world a better place. Love you guys!

[@sheilahall7588]

Thank you for keeping the letter private.

[@SuziP55]

You showed compassion for both those women. My mom's best friend had an affair with my dad and they married. I actually have relationship all these years and I'm 54, with my stepmom 1) because my mom who is 76 now chose to be the classiest woman I know and let me make my own choices without interjecting her hurt and pain as I was growing up and with so much grace 2) because Jesus is our Lord and Savior ,my mom forgave her privately but without having restored relationship but still forgiving her and being such a sweet example to me. Now, as a grown woman, who also loves Jesus, I want to demonstrate the same forgiveness that my mom modeled and represented of her trust and love in Jesus as opportunities arise. My stepmom and dad carry a heavy burden because of those choices. This story seems to have touched and been relatable and painful for many but you demonstrated grace and compassion to both these woman and I think it was a good decision! blessings!

[@elsaalicea9769]

You did right in not reading that letter because it only brings shame and pain to someone.I would burn it.

[@debmarrett212]

Love how you shared the overview of the letter without divulging specifics. As nosey as we can be, we have to protect the vulnerable. Walking in forgiveness isn't to be broadcast on social media. You've made a wise choice. Blessings to you and Desi from Midas and me!

[@LittlePoet]

I just love you Deb!!!

[@jacquimg2469]

The woman who wrote that letter was mean. Nothing was to be gained from contacting her lover’s wife, nothing was to be gained by returning her lover’s belongings to his wife. The plan was hatched from spite and revenge. There was nothing about the whole scenario that indicated this was a plea for forgiveness. You did the humane thing by not reading the letter.

[@mariabolt3881]

Maybe the letter was never sent, maybe the writer was just getting it out of her system.

[@carolynratliff1380]

You have the BEST goodwill….ours are just junk. Is there a St VIncent de Paul there….I think it is run by a church. They usually have AWESOME prices…you look so pretty and you have the most calming voice…I have been so depressed since my brother, Mike died on July 3..,he really fought his cancer for a long 7 years…..hugs from carolyn in Columbus ga

[@drandreaoconnor]

Was happy to log on and see a new video! Inspiring as always, this truly makes my weekend complete, its like shopping with my best friend! I vote to Throw the letter in the fireplace.

[@SUGAR-egg]

I love the book, The Four Agreements! Desi look so adorable sitting on your lap 😍

[@catmama54]

Wow that letter falling out of the book is like a Lifetime movie. This is quite fascinating but it was that woman clearing her conscience more than asking forgiveness, maybe I’m wrong but that would be so hurtful to the man’s wife.❤️

[@blakesleyk.7166]

You are a joy and inspiration. Desi is beyond adorable. Love is a 4 legger word and I’m always heartened you found each other!

[@cherieallen2539]

I love that" love is a 4 legger word " 😆hope you don't mind me using that expression for some paintings on wood for the doggie lovers out there? And God knows that should keep me in business for awhile 🌝🎨🖼️🖌️🐕

[@blakesleyk.7166]

Well, of course, enjoy being creative whilst promoting pups. It’s not mine to give. Aussie show “The Farm” is where I’d heard it. So many nuggets from there! Lil Poet & Desi as well!

[@julieanne2425]

Susan, you handled the issue of the letter in a very sensitive, caring way. I was very touched! This is such a deeply personal, private matter, and you were wise enough to respect this. Thank you for being the sweet, kind, caring person I always appreciate watching every week! ❤

[@elizabethhealey5609]

You find very nice peace , I love the dinner plate is beautiful , I like everything you find and thrift stores thank you to sharing🥰

[@lindabryant6333]

I wouldn't have expected anything less from you Susan...you're absolutely right about the humanity of this situation. Your finds at the thrift store today were AMAZING. Your florals are beautiful as always...Fall is such a wonderful time of the year...We want to nest, warm up our homes, settle in for the change of seasons, the cold temps coming etc...Thanks again for such a great video! P.S....the shoes are SASSY!

[@annmeeks9273]

I agree that you should not have read the letter to us. You are a good woman and that book is one of my favorites and I go back to it often. I love going shopping at the thrift store with you! Have a Blessed week.

[@karinwolfebridge9062]

You made the wise decision, Susan. Such a thoughtful video. If I were in your place, I'd have a little ceremony and burn the letter while sending out blessings to BOTH the women who were involved. Hopefully they are both in a better place. Thanks for this.

[@wildflowerwind6941]

That is what I thought.

[@KWwest]

Brava to you. If you read it, it would be gossiping. Someone else’s angst about their deliberate adulterous wrongs of 10 yrs is sickening. You discussed it beautifully and reduced it to it’s core - one either has integrity, or they don’t. You do, she & he don’t.

[@LittlePoet]

xxoo you touch my heart, :)

[@dianel1765]

Good Morning Susan, when I was listening about you making a decision to read or not read, thought about what I tell people. There used to be 2 words that were commonly used when I was growing up. Personal and confidential. Those words were valued. When someone told you something in confidence, that confidence wasn't broken. You kept their confidence while learning a valuable lesson. Kudos!! Was drooling over the fur coat. Would be perfect for Chicago winters. Until next week🤗

[@jeanniekirby596]

I love your Thrift Store! The leopard shoes and Moto are me! That letter though 😢 I think the adulteress has passed away and her family brought her belongings to the thrift store to donate without looking through them. It would serve no purpose to have shared that letter. Great humanity thing for you to do, keep it private. ❤

[@mbunstine]

I can't tell you how much I look forward to seeing you on Saturday night! And Desi too.

[@LittlePoet]

Hello there!!!! Thank you so much, I like seeign you too!!!!! Happy weekend!!! xxoo Sues & Dez

[@donnareed6559]

Me too, Melanie! Just love Susan and her videos….

[@debraascott3919]

I have not seen a posting from you and hope all is well will be praying for you and your sweet little dog 🐕🥰

[@kathleena1553]

Good for you, Susan. You certainly did the right thing regarding the letter. Loved your floral arrangements. You are very talented!

[@donnameyers9375]

Totally the right thing to do. Now sit back and enjoy your new decorations. Happy Fall I love you,,

[@ruthsnively7248]

Hello Susan, YOu did the right thing in not reading the letter!!!!! Because you felt it was private and would hurt your humanity. Thank you for being sensitive to your own inner voice that let you know what to do. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. If you do not feel comfortable doing something, then don't do it. Be true to yourself.

[@BlingyBea]

Susan you made the right decision not to read that letter but that’s you being such an eloquent loving person. Hugs to you and our little Desi.🥰

[@Karen-nq8du]

This is beautiful Susan. I read "The Four Agreements" last year and it changed my life. So much so, that I bought three copies to give as Christmas gifts. "Be impeccable with your Word" is the first agreement and there would be nothing impeccable about posting someone else's private words in a public forum. Kudos to you! Congratulations on all the fun stuff you found thrifting - the shoes are super sassy and it's gonna be a fun night when you walk out of the house with those on! ❤ xo karen

[@kathybruce100]

Susan, you are such a thoughtful person. When you opened the book and the letter tumbled out, I knew the choice you would make. You are such a respectful person who places the feelings of others before her,own need to yak. Your friendship has meant so much over the last two years. Maybe if you don't move too far away we can make contact😘

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much Kathy for your big beautiful heart! xxoo Susan & Desi - We will never be far away!

[@lindadainard7629]

Susan, what a wonderful presentation. Thank you for making the right and thoughtful decision. The pain it could have caused is too harsh to fathom. You are a wonderful person.

[@catherinedoherty9676]

I am glad you did not Read the Letter out Susan. You are very Wise and Full of Integrity. Just Loved All your Thrift Finds. The Bird Painting was Beautiful. Love, Cathy from Scotland 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 xxxx

[@bethbrown6155]

I wish I would find such amazing things in our Goodwill! I love the bird painting!! And I would have brought the horses home!

[@maureenkenney1005]

Amazing Video, Susan. You did the right thing not to read the letter. Throw it away or burn it so you'll not be tempted to read it another time. Forgiveness is a very hard thing, perhaps this writer of the letter wrote it to get what she had to say off her chest but never meant to mail it. I love what you did with your bigger vases, beautiful.

[@camirichardson7485]

Thank you for your noble decision not to exploit the letter. You have honor and class! I love the thrifting finds! Autumn is such a wonderful season and your decor is beautiful! Desi is adorable as always! You both are!

[@Reiki-44-1]

Sweet Desie 🥰 Love your flower arrangements.🌷 They look beautiful! I think you made a good decision not to read the letter. Your show isn't Payton Place. 😊

[@gumbogirls]

You made the right decision. Even though the author would most likely never know, it was a private matter. It seems so little is private these days, so glad you kept it that way.

[@sheliarossell3162]

Powerful video. You seen the answer that most will never find to share with us for insight into others life. Another day of wisdom with clarity you found from that book. Your video was beautiful. 😊🤗

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Shelia! Thank you so much for being so kind...you lift me up and touch my heart!!! Happy new week!

[@kathykinney7958]

You absolutely did the right thing by not reading the letter. I had no doubt that you would respect the people involved because you are that person. Thank you, I learn so much from you.

[@sandyambabo5952]

You are such a dear, sweet woman. I respect you so much. Please share with us where you store your out-of-season decor.

[@LittlePoet]

Hello there! You are so kind! I have a very large panty and I store my dried and silk flowers in vases on the bottom row. For Christmas trees and ornaments I have a cute spot in my front closet. If I run out of room I also have a large empty garage here but I have promised myself if it gets the point I need to store things isn't the garage I will give way to family and friends! I plan on moving someday!!!

[@annmarie3520]

I’m so glad you decided NOT to read the letter. You were meant to find it and you shared your thoughts on forgiveness. A lesson most of us need to understand. We all didn’t need to know what was in the letter but the lesson learned from it.❤😘🙏🏻

[@robinschulze934]

That dog has the sweetest face ever!!! I just want to hug and kiss him!!

[@LittlePoet]

DESI!!!!!

[@kateg7298]

I love that even though the letter doesn't respect the wife's feelings, her integrity and her humanity, you do. You've been betrayed, we all have and you refuse to add another betrayal to it. Even though you'll never meet them. Isn't that the best of what humanity has to offer? Kindness to a stranger? I think that you made the right choice. I'm always surprised by your depth and your vulnerability in sharing your thoughts and your feelings. That's really courageous. On a completely different note - I LOVE the bird painting. I was rooting for you to buy it. I hope that you have a wonderful week and I'll be praying that Paris happens soon for you! Come on, video. Go viral. Especially in this time where a lack of privacy and respect is so prevalent. Love to you and Desi xx

[@lindawitherspoon446]

You are such a joy to listen to. You speak beautifully. And, you are such a happy, upbeat person. You are lovely. Desi is adorable. I think you made the right decision.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much 😊

[@vonalaird1883]

I love how you transform all the treasures you bring home. And i glad that you didn't share letter. I find it sad how deception can be so hurtful. And kind of a waste of precious years.

[@jodiscozycottage9671]

Hi Susan , I love thrifting because all those items have a story out there somewhere. Also you can find different original things at a great price. That black vase is gorgeous and the tin pumpkin is perfect for fall. I always enjoy your videos . Have a wonderful week kind friend. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@LittlePoet]

Hello Jodi's Cozy Cottage ! Thank you so much for leaving me such a sweet comment...it means the world to me. Have a great new week! Stay safe and happy and I will see you soon!.... Susan and Desi

[@cindy_lou_loves_to_stitch]

Your fall decor arrangements are beautiful!! Love your hair!! SO cute!! Those pointy shoes are perfect for you!! I am glad you chose NOT to read the letter. I hope it was never sent and was only written to make the mistress work thru her guilt and anger.

[@maryellannroy2242]

Burn the letter and follow your beautiful cup quote - let it go. Enjoy the beautiful things you have brought home to lift all of our spirits with joy in your sharing. Great inspiration. Shoes are very cute.

[@jackie1rn]

That book The 4 Agreements by Don miguel Ruiz is a good book. My counselor recommended to me because I was dealing with alot of childhood issues and more current issues. The author Mr. Ruiz survived a fatal heart attack and had a heart transplant. Have a great weekend

[@kiwiang983]

How could he survive a fatal heart attack ?

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@@kiwiang983 Don Miguel Ruiz Don Miguel Ruiz , MD is the international bestselling author of The Four Agreements (a The New York Times bestseller for over 7 years , which recently topped Amazon’s #1 list after his appearance on Oprah’s Super Soul Sunday), The Mastery of Love, The Voice of Knowledge, and The Fifth Agreement (co-written with his son don Jose) . His simple yet profound teachings, based in truth, shared through his books, lectures, and journeys to sacred sites has helped millions of people worldwide transform their lives. Our exclusive interview with Don Miguel can be found here. Don Miguel Ruiz was born into a humble family with ancient traditions in rural Mexico, the youngest of 13 children. He considers himself very lucky, as this was where he learned from an early age that everything is possible, if we really want it. His parents, Don Jose and Dona Sarita, as well as his grandfather, Don Leonardo, all believed that Miguel would continue their legacy in the centuries old Toltec tradition. Instead Don Miguel attended medical school, and became a surgeon. For several years he practiced neurosurgery with his brothers, and he realized that what needed to be healed was not only the physical brain, but the human mind as well. A near fatal car accident changed the direction of Don Miguel’s life. He experienced himself as pure awareness outside of the constraints of his physical body. He realized that the Toltec wisdom of his family contained all of the tools needed to change the human mind. Don Miguel promptly returned to his mother to finish his training and he became a Shaman. Don Miguel moved to the United States to share his wisdom, and spent the next 15 years exploring ways to heal and change the human mind. He witnessed his students struggling to quiet their minds and sought to create tools to assist them. The result of this quest was The Four Agreements®. This book contains a specific series of practical steps, that when used by anyone, can result in consistent and long-term personal transformation. In February of 2002, Don Miguel suffered a near-fatal heart attack. The damage from the heart attack and subsequent coma left him with a heart functioning at only 16% of capacity and in constant pain. Don Miguel would not accept his doctor’s prognosis that he would be restricted to an inactive life of resting at home. He personally embodied the message he shares, by continuing to joyfully live his life, sharing his message through books, lectures and journeys. Though he was enjoying life he also knew that he was slowly dying and focused on preparing his sons to carry on his legacy. In 2009 Don Miguel’s body began to deteriorate much more rapidly and he applied for a heart transplant. In August 2010 he was put on the transplant waiting list. On October 9th 2010, Don Miguel successfully received a heart transplant. For Don Miguel this is a new beginning and with deep gratitude and generosity he is eager to share his message with all of humanity. In the tradition of the Toltec, a Nagual (shaman) guides an individual to personal freedom. After exploring the human mind from a Toltec as well as scientific perspective, Don Miguel has combined old wisdom with modern insights and created a new message for all mankind, based in truth and common sense. He has dedicated his life to sharing this new message through practical concepts that promote transformation. His message is simple and when implemented, even incrementally, changes lives. Don Miguel is highly respected throughout the world. He has received numerous recognitions, including a US Air Force challenge coin engraved with The Four Agreements, and he is referenced as a National Heirloom of Mexico. The Four Agreements®, published in 1997; was a New York Times bestseller for more than 7 years and the 36th bestselling book of the decade. Other books have followed; The Mastery of Love, The Voice of Knowledge, Prayers, Beyond Fear and The Fifth Agreement, a collaboration with his son Don Jose. All of his books are international bestsellers. For more information, visit: miguelruiz.com      

[@elisekuby2009]

When I saw the painted birds by J. Weins (in your words) I just about died. I love birds so much. Love this painting even more - as J. Weins is a British Columbia resident, as I am. What a lucky find for you.

[@teriannetime4444]

Loved your Goodwill finds! The bird painting is truly lovely! Yes, the letter should just remain the letter, but how fortunate it fell into your hands because you gained something meaningful by possessing it…even if for only a short time! Lovely video!!

[@LittlePoet]

Oh thank you so much! You're such a wonderful woman with such a great channel!!!

[@carolinel2079]

love love love!!! Desi said we have to wear brown.... ha ha ha, your videos go by so fast!!! I like the way you handled the letter, at first I wanted to hear it but I'm glad you kept it private.

[@LittlePoet]

You're the best!

[@christinat.7264]

Susan, you amaze me being able to go to a thrift store and pick out art and know the artist. I wouldn't have a clue. Lol. Loved what you bought and how you created displays. Glad you didn't read the letter. Didn't sound like real forgiveness to me. Sending you and Desi love. 💟💟💟💗💗💗💗💗

[@doraleenday5430]

You have such great things in your thrift stores. I go to ours regularly in Utah and not so much. I find things occasionally. Sure wish I could tour through yours. I would love to visit your beautiful town. I so enjoy your videos. Keep up the great work.

[@celestepaces8021]

I'm happy you took the high road. Much respect to you.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you Celeste Paces so much for being here! xo Susan

[@teresatillery7501]

I am torn about you not reading the letter, but only because my inquiring mind wanted to know what it said! LOL! Great treasures! I hope you and Desi have a fantastic week!

[@LittlePoet]

If it had been a beautiful letter and seeing it was 20 years old, I would have read portions...but it was such a cruel letter it would serve no purpose for us here...thank you so much Teresa for being here!

[@lucyfriesen1044]

So glad to know you helped the healing process of those 2 women by keeping the letter private. This video reminded me to finally decide to forgive someone privately.

[@wanda4573]

Just dont forget because you dont want to be sucked in to their bull shit again.

[@dianekennedy7086]

Thank you for not reading that letter, Susan. That shows you are a mature person with a good heart. You are right - i think your followers would have been disappointed in you if yo had done so. We always have so much fun when you take us on your thrift store excursions. Love the leopard print shoes and jacket and all your fall decor!

[@jennyhayes2883]

Susan, I have that 4 agreement book, I need to read it. I've had it for yrs & yrs. Glad you didnt read that book. You got some pretty pieces, & I love the jacket & hi heels! I cant wait for you to Model your fall outfits...plzzz

[@sonialynnstation9905]

Not sharing was kind and noble. Sharing to me would have been disrespectful and unkind. I respect you and I love listening to you on your channel each week.

[@karenmacneil3678]

I completely agree with your decision to not share the letter. I think those who said that it's public property are wrong. It's very private. To me, forgiveness is for ourselves, not for the other person. I think that most people don't even know, or will admit, that they even need to be forgiven. It took me years to understand that. And I am much better for it. I read the book "The Four Agreements" years ago but I wasn't ready for its message. I need to read it again, I think.

[@annickd3668]

Hello,Susan.congratulations for your decision about the letter. Of course,it was private and privacy must be respected. This way,we are comforted in your nice personality. Well done. I follow your adventures from France with a lot of interest because of your personality.

[@annetterogers5769]

I agree with you not reading it. Have a great weekend!

[@lindarobinson8374]

Love your 2 Staffordshire dinner plates, if you watch your video back, it looks like you missed one on the bottom shelf. Thanks for another fantastic video.

[@LittlePoet]

OH NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@belindahammock2367]

Love thrifting with you! You always do a great job decorating for fall.

[@cindiq4you751]

You did the right thing. It could be a "venting" letter. It most likely never was sent nor the box. The women just had to vent on paper. It would be great book subject though. Thank you for sharing and being a copassionate human

[@denisekarding1844]

I love watching your thrift store trips and finds. I needed to hear what you had to say about reading the letter. It encouraged and challenged me. I have information I'm tempted to share but i know down inside it would be wrong of me to do so. My motives aren't right and i wouldn't feel good about myself if i did.

[@jgator6694]

The Four Agreements is terrific. I read it years ago and loved it. Really resonated with me.

[@stephaniemyheartdiseasejourney]

Well as you know I was one of the people on Facebook that supported you reading the letter if you wanted to, but after hearing you talk about it tonight on your video I have to agree that you are completely right and handled it perfectly. There was more than one person involved that could be hurt and then even though it’s been a long time and it’s unlikely they would see it you still have to be able to sleep at night and I think you made the best decision you could regarding that letter . It was respectful and kind . I will definitely think differently about this sort of thing going forward. Wow another couple Cheri Blum pictures ! It makes me sad that her creativity was stolen from her with the commercialization of her art and I have to admit a few of the pieces I have are probably the commercialized versions. I really loved the first picture you showed of the birds so much I looked it up on eBay and found one and I’m watching it! It’s a fairly small print, but I’m considering it because I really like that picture! The frame on eBay is nowhere as beautiful though as the frame you got with yours, that is really the only reason I’m holding back, the frame is very plain on the one listed. Thank you for introducing us to this beautiful art by this new artist I had never heard of. I will definitely look into his work! I cannot get over all the beautiful things that you find in the thrift stores where you are. We just do not find those kind of things here in the Dallas Texas area. My husband and I dream of when he retires of getting a motorhome and traveling and actually going to other parts of the country to the thrift stores and seeing what we can find both for ourselves and to resell because there’s just not much good stuff where we are. I enjoy watching you shop so much, it is so fun to see all the beautiful things that you find!😁

[@rainn_island]

You are right, I almost always know if you are going home with an item, but sometimes you do surprise me. I agree with your decision of not reading the letter. What good would have come from it?? I so respect you for letting it remain private. Well done, Susan. Hugs to you and Desi🫶🏼

[@brendabrooks9699]

Susan I knew exactly what you would by lol we have same taste and I also wanted to say you have hands that look like a 20 year olds. I think out of everyone I watched your videos are so unique and so nicely done. I look forward every Saturday to your videos

[@mbunstine]

Hope you're ok Susan. Missed you Saturday night. Love you 💖

[@LittlePoet]

All good Melanie and I miss you!!! I have been a little under the weather the last few days but Desi and I are on the mend! I will see you with a new video on Saturday!!! I had a sinus infection and I think Desi did too!!!

[@mbunstine]

@@LittlePoet I'm sorry to hear you're not feeling well. Hope you get better soon! Lay around and watch some good old movies with Desi. One of my favorites is Now Voyager. 🙂

[@carlajoye6594]

Sassy Susan, still in sexy heals gives all of us over 60 hope! You go girl.

[@chrisoliva530]

I never could wear pointy heels, no matter the age. But a little block heel, or the little shaped granny heel (not as bad as it sounds I also call it mushroom heel), lowish wedges. I dont own a car, so I need to do long and or fast walks and sometimes a short sprints for buses, trains.

[@donnamunoz1613]

I am so proud of you for not reading that letter I wouldn't expect anything else from you . I loved your arrangements and you and Desi looked adorable in brown.

[@seattlegirl2077]

New hair cut? It looks cute!

[@LittlePoet]

No same haircut but in the humidity...I was just too tired to curl it!!! LOL

[@seattlegirl2077]

@@LittlePoet Wow!

[@joanmaxine1]

Your Goodwill has gorgeous things. It’s so interesting to see how various stores in different neighborhoods reflect the tastes of the people in that area.

[@anna2mac550]

You and Desi are so coordinated so adorable, Susan that was the best decision NOT to read that letter, you’re a classy women! Love all the treasures you found and those shoes Love them!!!!!!!!I love animal print anything anyway!!! Hugs and Love 🥰💕I think I used the word Love an awful lot🤪

[@LittlePoet]

You're the best!

[@sarahswan2182]

You are clearly a class act! Thank you for doing the right thing! It’s comforting to know authenticity and humanity can still be found in this new world we are now living in. So enjoy how you share the most meaningful life experiences of your daily life, and seeing that darling face of Desi. He’s the cherry on top!

[@LittlePoet]

Oh our Desi boy!!!!!

[@joeneves2842]

Even before you told us about reading or not reading the letter I knew you weren’t going to read it. Right choice Susan. ❤️

[@LittlePoet]

Alright......you know me!

[@annmariemarin5513]

Desi looks so dapper! You did the right thing.

[@nmp6338]

Their drama is not your drama to tell or critique. Wise choice to let their pain alone.

[@annerunyan2862]

Suzanne, you are amazing to me! You feel deeply and think deeply-no wonder you are a songwriter-you are extraordinary! You are a treasure! Yes, I will be back weekly. I am going to go back to your first videos so I can know you better. You are teaching me so much-especially how to be more authentic, more kind to myself, more willing to acknowledge and appreciate the beauty around me and the beauty I can create in my own world. You are bold and blessed, and a blessing to those who are lucky enough to be in your world.

[@tamaramitchell9601]

You do such wonderful things with your thrift store finds. I moved to Mexico and got rid of so many of my little treasures. Thrift stores in this area are not like they are in the U.S.! Almost everything is pretty much worn out by the time it makes it to the thrift store. I hadn't really realized that the consumer mentality in the US was so reflected in what is in the thrift stores. People buy stuff they neither want nor need and then give it away. That just doesn't seem to happen here. People don't buy much and they use it up and wear it out. Good lesson in how to value what we have, but I am so glad I brought some of the things that mean the most to me. And I'm going to be making some things rather than buying. About the letter, it really isn't about forgiveness, you are right...and I am glad you didn't read it. We don't know if the husband left the lover and this is her revenge on him. Or, it could be she broke it off and this is her way of assuaging her guilt. I hope it wasn't sent. No good comes from that. The wife probably knew, but lent a blind eye to the affair. It is a story that has gone on thousands of times throughout the ages. Best to just throw it out or burn it with a prayer for all of them. Too much pain, hurt, anger, and guilt.

[@LittlePoet]

I so agree with you....forgiveness is something humble....something that is about love...that letter was about anger...

[@Erika-Coach]

@@LittlePoet I wonder…letter is type written? Perhaps? This other woman had composed it for herself? Then never sent it? Just folded it up, and put it in the book? She may have composed it, for her own peace of mind? Because he ended it? After giving herself for ten years to this man and finally realizing…in ten years nothing changed… He would not leave his wife. That what they had? Was all that it would ever be. Nothing more…

[@karendegraaf1146]

The fabric horse picture made my mouth drop open. I had that exact picture in my bedroom as a kid! Wish it could have been in a Goodwill near me. My mom, now passed, bought it for me because I always loved horses.

[@annawhite2572]

You are a poet!❤️

[@LittlePoet]

:0........oh my!!! Thank you so much!!!!! Happy weekend!!! xxoo Sues & Dez

[@annawhite2572]

@@LittlePoet you have a way to put words to many emotions and feelings that explain me! ❤️ little poet!

[@juanniejones1294]

WoW , Susan, what an episode! Yes, the thrifting, but moreso - the bit about the letter. If this were a TV show, this should be nominated for an Emmy. I don’t know why, but it was just so profound and relevant for so many. Thank you for all you do. And OMG - that dog of yours! Desiiiiii!!!! 🤗❤️😊👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👍

[@yesitskitti]

The beautiful Susan. One of my favorites here on utube

[@cyberninja76a]

Oh Wow, love the 2 large vases good eye on your arrangements and truly loved the Mason jars I'm gonna try that idea....:)

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you Julian Hernandez so much for being here! xo Susan