Lost It All In Divorce - Found Happiness In Van-Life

[@JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up]

My father called me to his bedside as he was dying in 2003. Always a serious, successful hard working man that did all he could for his wife, widowed mother and his 3 sons. I knew,... his last words would be deep and philosophical. He looked into my eyes and said, " son, life is an institution, but ,....... who likes an institution ? " LOL That has brought me so much peace and laughter over the last two decades. Father had always followed the rules and expectations of the world and in the end I think he was giving me a gift in a joke. I think he was telling his spirited, rebellious sigma, son to go his own way and screw convention and in doing so put some wind in your hair. LESSON : Don't die regretting that you didn't ride that RV or motorcycle around the continents.

[@TheMadCamper]

Joshua - this almost brought me to tears. Sorry for your loss. Me too. Thing is, I'm fighting Pancreatic Cancer (getting toward the end of treatment). BUT - the plan IS: beat this bugger, retire in 3 years, then on the ROAD full-time in a big trailer. If I get ONE YEAR of that, I'll be OK with it. Right? (After I take off, my channel will get REALLY crazy and fun!) So, thanks for your comment. It confirms my plan. Yeah, go your own way my friend. 👍

[@efrainlariz490]

Thanks for the great story

[@uvgde7384]

Helly Yeah brother

[@AsparagusVideo]

Thanks for the PSA.

[@sd5899]

My dad on his death bed told me “not to believe everything THEY tell you “ sound advice

[@AmusedPineTrees-wh1ed]

I've lived in a van since August this year. I'm 68 n I've never been so effing stress free, and HAPPY 🎉

[@vanlifebayou]

It’s great huh?!? Love it❤

[@FeralGypsy8]

wow that's awesome!!!!

[@geriatricmotorcars9516]

Enjoy well done

[@66TripsLeft]

One of the nicest chaps, there for everyone whenever they need, always looking out for others. Proud to have parked next to Jay a couple of times.

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Cheers guys

[@tynitahaines4012]

This guy's van is is nice. And I love his outlook on life. Great van. I would definitely travel with him.

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

@@tynitahaines4012cheers 👍

[@deecarter147]

The separate bedroom and the philosophy behind it is simple genius. Well done!

[@barbwatkins3676]

Love the vibe Jay has created in his home. The pallet wood looks brilliant and the separate bedroom is inspired. Jay is a genuinely good guy. Hey from Australia. 🦋

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Hey thanks 🙏

[@joemeyers3127]

Wonderful portrait of a man living on his own terms. Thanks for sharing.

[@cawstongreenway]

Thanks for the vid - what an absolute gem of a guy. Giving more than he is taking. Someone who is actually living rather than just surviving. Thank you Jay for showing us what life should be like 💚

[@michaelwittmann2644]

One man and his mobile castle! All the best, dude!👍😎

[@utube4jc]

Just perfect! We don't need much to be happy. But we also don’t need to deprive ourselves either. He is definitely not lacking anything. Just great!

[@J5497]

I like the attitude of parking wherever you want. You're absolutely right, the vehicle can legally park where you want.

[@stephenbland7461]

Not strictly true and as he said, it’s getting more and more difficult to find free legal parkups (and wild camping spots) especially in England. I’ve had ‘the knock’ on several occasions, by farmers, the forestry commission, land owners and the police, on places that I thought were free to park on. I’ve also heard from friends who have received negativity from people who lump vanlifers in with travellers, and fear the mess that would be left behind. IMHO the government doesn’t want to encourage this lifestyle, probably because they lose control and as we all know, especially since covid, controlling the population is the number one aim of governments all the world over.

[@keepitreal1547]

Park 'yes' Sleep in unfortunately 'no'

[@Dutchy695]

If you don't know your rights then you don't have any rights.

[@austinbux]

@@keepitreal1547 Who's enforcing that rule?

[@keepitreal1547]

@@austinbux It's highly unlikely as most are indoors sat at a table, but those employed to enforce the law in the UK.

[@bethgorman3736]

All that gold,doesn't glitter. Not all those who wander are lost.! Amen!

[@simonbaker6962]

I love this style far more than the plush van builds. The wood makes it feel cosy and warm.

[@islandgirl5472]

Aloha - Thank you for this feature. Jay seems to be a great guy with a great outlook on life. Mentioning his kids and grandkids shows that despite the divorce, he’s still a dad and a grandad. Great perspective on the life he’s living…love that he’s living on his own terms.

[@SentiessenceAlbion]

I'm the same age as Jay. I have the greatest respect for him and I'm glad that his life post-divorce, has worked out well through this alternative, better lifestyle.

[@cedarcanoe]

You’re absolutely right to live the life you live. Stay safe, may Thor be with you. Greetz from Sweden

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

⚡️👌

[@stephenpoessl5464]

Love the art work on the van.

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Thank you

[@valeriebridge7305]

I admire people who let themselves be who they are and not worry about what others think. I am more conventional than this man but can admire him for following his dream and being happy with what he has.

[@valeriebridge7305]

Oh dear I didn't mean to sound so stuffy

[@Coco-mw8tz]

That bedroom at the back! Brilliant design

[@John-FourteenSix]

There’s a lesson for everyone here. Thank you, take care and good luck.

[@rench1984]

Yeah, don't get married. Just get a van and go travelling without the hassle.

[@John-FourteenSix]

@@rench1984 Coming up on 40years of marriage. It’s an honourable institution.

[@rench1984]

😂

[@sarahfox9180]

What a lovely guy with a fantastic build and outlook on life❤

[@TheLegenDacster]

Good on ya Jay, you've transformed adversity to benevolence for not just you but many others. All the best for many more years of safe adventuring.

[@guyrose2239]

I’m 66 and loving life …. Not knackered 😂💪 Enjoy your journey buddy … wish you well 👍🏻

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

🤦‍♂️🫶

[@Mark22WiDax]

What an amazing 🤩 van .. great life ❤️🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

[@travel-van-world6312]

Home is where you park it ! Its great to get some positive vibes from others that choose the freedom of living an alternative lifestyle . 🌞

[@glennbeadshaw727]

First time I've seen this fellow on the KZbin and what a treat actually just talking normally and being honest

[@susanlewis1875]

What a welcoming, comfortable space. I love it!

[@lindamarie6574]

You didn’t lose everything, you gained life and freedom!😊 great van!

[@RogueDriver]

What a decent fella, i wish him well. Another excellent video, keep up the good work. Godspeed.....

[@rpvvr451]

Morning bro. I live in a van too. love life but we need to start keeping schtum about it. The amount of haters is building fast mainly due to youtube etc , all decent parkups are heaving or full of gimps with cameras. 'they' will ban it .....but I will not be giving up! We fought them 30 years ago and we'll do it again...old as we are.

[@em6577]

I LOVE the interior. Rustic and cosey.

[@jeffreybail353]

best build i have ever seen

[@fyrish100]

Well done , decent van ,freedom ❤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@philcudworth8491]

Good luck fella. Been off grid 20 years myself now. Struggled with van life tbh so on the canal system now continuous cruising. Keep smiling 🙏💪😊

[@deniscudahy4549]

Jay is an amazing bloke it’s a pleasure for me and my wife to know him and see him ❤

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

🫶 love ya guys

[@gratefulagoraphobe]

Tiny houser. The freedom and peace of mind from not having to pay rent or mortgage is life changing

[@ChrisAlexander-d5h]

Love the cartoon paint job😊,bread bin storage,great easy way to form a cupboard , Top guy ❤

[@FeralGypsy8]

Love his home:) He did a really good job making it happen. I'd love love love to do it but I have no idea about mechanics. I'll do the tiny house thing with a mechanic nearby.

[@-M0LE]

This guy has is spot on

[@pmclellan123]

Probably the coolest paint job I’ve seen yet. Well done buddy!!

[@janeyoung4844]

Less is more Wishing you all the very best ❤

[@beed.8037]

@Jay Let go of the bitterness. This'll make you feel even better. Nice van! 🫶🏼 the paint job!

[@ekdaufin1485]

GORGEOUS kitchen counter!

[@colinturner4158]

It’s about attitude and respect well done my man good luck in your van life age is but a number

[@EggnogonthebogProductions]

Great van. And to me comes across as a polite gentleman.

[@dorkloser123]

Woooow great job Jay wish you many more adventures in your lovely home on wheels.

[@Timberbeartrail]

This was an extraordinary video and done as well

[@the-nomad]

Nice setup, great attitude. Great vid.

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

😮 love ya guy

[@mavisgetsabout]

👍🏻 another great video guys... Jay, down to earth, nice guy😊

[@christophertottle6022]

Thanks for creating & posting your very eye opening YT video.

[@jasonwinsley1229]

Bender the burner is a stroke of genius! Having a log burner is thee only thing I miss about living in my bungalow…I live in a vw T6.1 so space is limited…but my mission in life is to re-gig her guts and figure out how to get a burner in. All the best from one Jay in a van to another 👊

[@frankmckie2992]

Since a kid iv allways loved 5he idea of living as you do ..... good for you i ŵish you well mate 👍

[@manconthemove]

Loved it as per. Another well sourced find. Brilliantly done 👍🏻💚💚

[@liveration]

Thanks Alan! One step closer to yours haha 😎🙌🏼

[@manconthemove]

@liveration Yeah I know 😁,....ooooh exciting 😀💚💚

[@JuliePike820]

I have that exact same Tolkien quote tattooed on my arm! 🙌🏼

[@PamelaBewley]

I totally commend you on this! Its the neatest thing I've ever seen! Enjoy the journey! 🎉

[@LABTESTED]

jay really really enjoyed that thank you so much

[@nonlostsouls]

Another great video guys, interviewing and showing a great guy that we’re lucky enough to call a good friend, and yes AVG is the best🤘☯️

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

You guys are awesome and yes, bloody good friends ❤

[@Mackyoh22]

Well done Jay, terrific home you've made & great attitude to dive into life's wild waterfalls! Here's wishing you all the best & Keep on truckin'!🌏🛸

[@davidmackintosh8265]

I’ve been living in a van for 2 years plus now and Jay explained things so well ! Seems a nice bloke all the best on your travel adventures

[@Eiretraveller]

Thank you so much for your honesty

[@Campingwilder]

It's very important to focus on your health at the age over your 40's. Let's face it, if your British and been enjoying the last 4 decades, it will have taken its toil. Living in a van will humble then change you.

[@neilmurdoch6049]

Good luck to you Jay......love the van....inspiring....hope you get to Morocco soon.

[@geriatricmotorcars9516]

Im 67 and not knackered . Its a state of mind ❤️

[@andyt5116]

Im livin this lifestyle in New Zealand.. my ride is VW LT46.. big van... never looked back.

[@mattysmith220]

Love this. My small t5 has panel wood and i love it. This is next level. great van and a great bloke

[@TumblerJr]

His van looks badass, and I love all of the icelandic runes and symbols. Shows he is proud of his heritage

[@rvnut1133]

Good on you dude, I like the homie feel and rustic look of the van inside. Very cozy and inviting to me. Cheers

[@godiskungen27]

Awesome lovely bloke bless him❤❤

[@adamfulford6423]

Van looking great mate, inside and out! Well done!!

[@julieannesimms981]

Love your home 🏡 good for you 👍

[@gilesgraves2725]

Wonderful. Love the paint work. You NEED some decent Rogue Alloys and BF Goodrich tyres.

[@grahamcleverley1356]

Bf Goodrich tyres aren't that good To much road noise There are better

[@Jords_adventures1]

Ace video 🙌 and what a van ! Just subscribed ✌️

[@-Maeola-]

Love the paint job on that thing!

[@jamesgziegler4133]

Yep! Go to the mountain and climb it now! Don’t wait until you’re so old that all you can do is come back with a F’in Teeshirt that says that you’ve been there.

[@jaffaz87]

Another top video! Awesome work guys 👍 Such a cool van!

[@livingworkingoutsidebox]

Great paint job.😮👍awesome rig

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Thank you very much

[@chubs6298]

Lovely van. Good attitude in life too. All the best to u buddy

[@DebReed54]

I feel you. Semi retired since 2008. Live your rig!

[@matterhorn1975]

The government could never stop van life IMO. There is always somewhere to park, even if it's in a residential area

[@3000Bassman]

I think governments and councils in many places should be supportive of vanlife, considering many people who have jobs are still struggling to pay the high rent prices for below average accommodation; at least living in a van (even if if isn't long-term) is a better option than homelessness

[@jukerdanz]

60 year olds aren’t ‘knackered’ 😂

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Yeah, I know, but you get the idea😂

[@insidejob88]

60 yo truck drivers are knackered😂, yoga instructors keep going

[@jukerdanz]

@ fair call, the poor truck drivers, that is harsh

[@LoxleysEscapePlan]

Do a backflip

[@jukerdanz]

@@LoxleysEscapePlan why? Is that a magic test that proves if you are knackered or not? 😂

[@FreeBirdUKVanLife]

Hey Jay, great interview mate ❤ x

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Thanks 🙏

[@theabandonedhunter3604]

Wicked video guys as always!! Nice one Jay all the best, wicked van!! ….Smithy

[@michaelhall549]

Fair play to you!! enjoy your van life and be safe....

[@a.life.reimagined]

I love it, it’s totally a man cave. Masculine.just beautiful.❤

[@TheMadCamper]

JAY - I love everything about this. CONGRATS! Great story, amazing build, and the white GRAPHICS are super-cool. Wishing you the best of everything mate! I'm stuck in Minnesota for now (cancer / long story), but then full-time NOMAD in a big trailer. Do you have a KZbin channel?? DO IT! 👍(love your accent, BTW...) Cheers! 😊

[@leeinwis]

Dontcha know

[@TheMadCamper]

@@leeinwis 😅 Ohh... you becha! Good one, Lee. 👍

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

Thanks very much, but don’t let nothing stop you what you want. I am on KZbin but I’m not very good at it further photography side of stuff from my Instagram and obviously my Facebook group stay strong dude

[@kmb9144]

Beautiful home on wheels

[@chrisb4504]

Good on u mate I’m so angry still after divorce!

[@markr3140]

Real inspiration - thanks for sharing!!

[@philclark6250]

Brilliant van build,looks awesome

[@hollyvick181]

Love the look. Waterfalls, yeees! What a life. Though I'll say, if you're married to the right person, it can be good.❤

[@brianmonahan7990]

That’s exactly what I want to do is sell up and get a nice big van and make a home / do some travelling, unfortunately the Mrs is not so keen on it !🙄🙄

[@kodithebear]

Amazing setup and lifestyle. Paint job though.... :D

[@ColinSlocombe]

These van lifer's are very lucky

[@thenanlife1141]

Good on you , wish I could do this too xx

[@BoozyPirate]

Very enjoyable watch indeed.

[@Les_Grossman]

AWESOME Paint Job!!

[@asaandthemarchharepart2903]

Fabulous video and great Chap. AVG group is Awesome, Best one Going 👌

[@thewanderingwarrior1]

You know it bro 👊

[@skepticalhippo6376]

That wrap is really cool!

[@Backtoreality1873]

Good luck to you sir! Thanks for sharing your story 🙏😄

[@cliveburks]

Enjoyed the video down to earth intelligent switched on normal guy ie Jay. Thanks

[@Martin-d5t5j]

Class mate. Cracking van 🎉