I've had 3 abortions and I wish with everything I could have my children back. The father's encouraged me to abort, they didn't want the babies or to support me. That was probably the biggest factor in me making those decisions. I didn't think I could do it on my own and that that decision was merciful. They are biggest regrets of my life and I will always wonder what could have been. I love my children in heaven and wish my born son here on earth could have his siblings.
@smarterworkout2 жыл бұрын
Jesus loves you no matter what -always remember that.
@lzlz212132 жыл бұрын
I'm right there with you sister. The older I get the more I realize the weight of what I've done.
@GreyAsura-r2e2 жыл бұрын
Man or woman none of you deserves the child you have after your abortion
@larrykav Жыл бұрын
Peace with Jesus ❤️
@mymentorjane6705 Жыл бұрын
@@lzlz21213 Me too!
@meganthompson1751 Жыл бұрын
I had an abortion 5 years ago and that day will forever be burned into me. The light in my souls went out that day and I have cried and hurt every day since. I didn’t want to do it, I was a Christian and definitely didn’t believe in abortion, my ex at the time pushed for it and I panicked, it made me question my faith, who I even am and taken my happiness. I would give anything to go back and do things differently.
@emilyk.5664 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry. I know how isolating it can be. Please feel free to message me if you want to talk
@thebravebird9 ай бұрын
Jesus can and will rewrite your story, walk with Him and ask to receive His Holy Spirit! I pray that you do in Jesus’ name.
@chewbecca3830 Жыл бұрын
I've always hated the way that abortion is always painted as 100% the woman's choice. Do fathers not love their children? Do they not have rights to their children? It should require both parents consent and it shouldn't be rushed.
@aalliaandreadis5109 Жыл бұрын
Consent? The baby being murdered cannot consent. Since when does the murderer's opinion or reasoning matter ?
@og666 Жыл бұрын
@@aalliaandreadis5109babies can't consent to being born either
@aidenmalan415111 ай бұрын
I had no choice to look after my child as my selfish girlfriend at the time took this whole decision upon herself. I'm happy knowing my hands are clean on this matter and I don't have to live with the guilt at all even though I do still feel bad
@kickinitwithk-rack84928 ай бұрын
My girlfriend of 9 months aborted my child last May and it tore me to pieces. She told me that I had no say so whether my child lived or died. Almost a year later and I still think about it everyday! I tried to talk to her after it was done and explain how it felt for me and I lost my job for it. Then when I lost my temper and said something’s I regret to this day I was charged and arrested for harassment. My ex has had me arrested 5 times since the abortion on top of losing my job. She is trying desperately to play victim and act as if I’m crazy cause I wanted answers to why she would not have my child and all I got was heart ache and lots of legal fees and bonds to get out of jail. It’s as if she is trying her best into gaslighting me into doing some completely irrational which I would never hurt someone I was so much in love with. I have been suffering from severe depression for almost a year and having to continue going to court because of her doesn’t help whatsoever!! My chance to be a father was stolen from me!
@mirandarose74744 ай бұрын
That is terrible. I'm sorry you went through this..ask Jesus to help you get through this life. He is there to help. Use your story to spread awareness especially with men.
@Pawsforthought2222 жыл бұрын
It is touching to see this dear man's compassion....& repentance...,& Gods forgiveness The real tragedy of abortion is the way killing innocent babies is sanitized by these clinics,& pro choicers ....it's seen as contraception,or a woman's choice .....yet the brutal way it's done ends life& many women are left with deep guilt. I recommend the film "Unplanned"it revealed how precious every life is ,and how Amy,a courageous woman who was working in an abortion clinic saw for herself the evil,& left,& now speaks out against them,& the lies they tell.
@JosephineR2 жыл бұрын
Yes, that was a Powerful film! Praying for continued healing for this Brother in Christ. 🙏🏾
@zivadavid26122 жыл бұрын
Shame, shame, SHAME on KZbin for attaching a pro-abortion disclaimer on the bottom of this video. They’re evil.
@arukakirigiri50552 жыл бұрын
You know KZbin didn't post it themselves right? They are just the platform. KZbin cannot stop anti-abortion videos as much as pro abortion ones. My father always tells me if there is only one side for any cause, it means they already cut the tongue of the opposing ones.
@Season4Reason12 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. People need to hear this.
@ShowMeSomething12 жыл бұрын
The only people that want to hear this are people that would never consider abortion as an option. It’s a proven fact that majority of woman who seek abortions know that’s what they want for their individual life and have the association with the word relief afterwards. His guilt doesn’t dictate what other woman should do, especially when he’s in the minority.
@Season4Reason12 жыл бұрын
@@ShowMeSomething1 No one WANTS to hear about the killing of an innocent baby, but people NEED to hear it. And really?… it’s a “proven fact”? Other than a “Planned Parenthood” citing, prove it.
@MikeJ25252 жыл бұрын
Gods forgiven you! You’ve suffered long enough. Your son will be waiting for you and still loves you!
@thewrestlingshow2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! May peace come upon your soul
@coppersulphate002 Жыл бұрын
Men need to stand up for their unborn children!!!!
@kev1n714 Жыл бұрын
If we only can..
@rcworks9762 Жыл бұрын
men want to "hit it & quit it". unless you're "hot"
@aalliaandreadis5109 Жыл бұрын
@@kev1n714most women who've had abortions say the fathers prwssirwd them into it or simply didn't step up. In fewere cases it was their own families pressuring them.
@chiefcuningcoyote49063 ай бұрын
My ex had an abortion but I blame myself everyday for not forcing her to not do it. I told her it was her decision to make and I would fully support her but I should’ve done more to stop her from deciding to abort. Now I’m left with the what if question and I will go to my grave wondering
@hehe-x7zАй бұрын
MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS
@shadow50HD6 күн бұрын
ah my friend. I did the same. That girl died with our baby.
@Michelle-by9fp2 жыл бұрын
How can I be involved to share my testimony like this man did?
@focusonthefamily2 жыл бұрын
Hello, friend! Please write to help@focusonthefamily.com, and we'll be happy to forward your story to the appropriate department. Blessings!
@startaurus1311 ай бұрын
I regret mine so much I have to live with I terminated my pregnancy is was a hard decision and I regret it ever since I lost a part of me it brakes my heart
@lauralucero78462 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this wonderful message ❤
@aylalampang67322 жыл бұрын
I never heard a man's abortion regret story before.🤔
@smarterworkout2 жыл бұрын
All the negative comments are from people who have never chosen to end an innocent life.
@aalliaandreadis5109 Жыл бұрын
Truth. Most. Very few women who've had abortions say they don't regret it
@GaiaLore3 ай бұрын
😂
@katherineburrell1196Ай бұрын
I don't understand why pregnancy is so demonized my own mother demonized it to me and told me that she would throw me out of the house if I wouldn't go with her to the abortion clinic I didn't know who the father was I already had a little girl I cheated on my boyfriend I aborted for selfish reasons I am so sorry😢
@briannamclaurin86332 жыл бұрын
Where is this heartfelt sympathy for single mothers and fathers? You guys tell them they should've made better decisions on who they chose to procreate with. Why don't people tell these men the same thing? Find somebody who wants to have a child with you, this is emotional manipulation at it's finest.
@98west22 Жыл бұрын
I need help please
@tishaperry4701 Жыл бұрын
What kind of help do you need?
@GaiaLore3 ай бұрын
Oh no 😢😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Sakuha-rn7gk Жыл бұрын
He really said he could‘ve „hung out“ with his aborted embryo, if not aborted, and that‘s where the one of the many problems lie. You weren’t ready to raise a child, and the woman you got pregnant knew that deep down. You don‘t just hang out with your kids, YOU RAISE THEM. It‘s the hardest job a human could undertake, carrying full responsibility for another little human. Since societal pressure of child raising is globally put significantly MORE on mothers than fathers, the woman who DO abort, are the ones fully aware of the responsibility. Those fortunate enough to have a CHOICE to give birth or not, only do it if THEY are 100% in, knowing that they’ll have to mostly do it alone, the man could always leave, or neglect. You are caught in a delusion, which you need to get out of.
@mattewclubb58824 ай бұрын
Adoption, simple
@cjdacoolest43192 ай бұрын
@@mattewclubb5882not adoption simple. Abandoning someone is just as bad as murdering them. There is no guarantee that child will be safe, loved or happy. I had plenty of friends in foster care during my teen years and its taken a toll on every last one of them. So sickening how little thought is put into these little lives. I have also met women who have had abortions and every one of their stories were different but every reason given was valid. Most mothers who abort do it will the well being of the child in mind just like the mothers who choose adoption. There is too much misinformation being spread about either option and too much hate on the women who are just trying to look out for themselves. Either way its a hard choice and if its “simple” to you, you are sick.
@hehe-x7zАй бұрын
too bad for you, but dont force others to go through their pregnancy, mind your own business
@kat_42 жыл бұрын
that is not how that process works. check your facts people.
@ubself2 жыл бұрын
Katelyn you are wrong…… I know this first hand.
@juliesalazar94632 жыл бұрын
What process are you referring to?
@GreyAsura-r2e2 жыл бұрын
I hope you won't mother a child
@vickygraham24442 жыл бұрын
Rapturous religious hysteria drama propaganda, obey propaganda
@positiveblessingskarrie31942 жыл бұрын
Then why are you on a ministry channel get some help.
@doesnotFempute2 жыл бұрын
Propaganda wants you to think it's ok to ab_rt on demand to up until birth.
@chikabiche71924 ай бұрын
He is sharing his testimony, have some respect.
@goldensugarball97642 жыл бұрын
This more manipulative than the 700 club
@smokyquartz58172 жыл бұрын
Who can't see that Focus On The Family is evil.
@chelesecharm777 Жыл бұрын
I wanna understand your comment?? Can you pls elaborate, I’m not here to judge ??
@smokyquartz5817 Жыл бұрын
@@chelesecharm777 They spread hateful lies on many topics. On one hand they reinforce uninformed older people on positions they already want to believe, and plant falsehoods and prejudices in young people with no experience until they grow up and become the former. It's a vicious cycle that becomes generational pain. Orchestrated manipulation, and the men twisting facts for profit are laughing all the way to the bank.