Lone Wolf Empath | Breaking Generational Curses

[@dragonsage6909]

Lol.. great talk. I'm 54, separated with 2 adult children. Walked away from several careers and my toxic relationship about 8 years ago. I've taken up bowmaking and spend much of my time by myself.. art, music, and nature are my guides. True happiness. Thanks :)

[@WilliamKelly-ou2nm]

So happy to hear that you've found your happy place!

[@dragonsage6909]

@@WilliamKelly-ou2nm hi William gtsy. :)

[@WilliamKelly-ou2nm]

@dragonsage6909 Gtsyt!

[@srebrnimedved]

Wow... great path, hope it works for everyone

[@mrashley7777]

Society becomes toxic, we walk! Society crumbles, we build a new one! Others need us, but don't know it. We don't need others, but wan't them.

[@stevelichtwark4259]

Truth 💯, kaikoura New Zealand community of empaths it's going to be awesome ❤🎉

[@stevelichtwark4259]

77 7 angel wives Isaiah 4.1 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@jimicunningable]

This is a new favorite video of mine. But how does her vision square with the fact that every complex system humanity needs is deep into Overshoot & demonstrably collapsing in an astounding hurry?!? It seems to completely ignore our very real existential, kinetic *crisis*. We are hurrying towards a population "correction" bigger than any humanity has ever seen. We've literally destroyed almost all wild life, the oceans and soil. Will we Ubermensch & Aware live off of good vibes? ..cuz the food, water & air are all dying. Demonstrably & immutably..

[@steveelam2310]

Love this,its not being antisocial or disliking people,it just seems im more productive this way,the right people come my way in small spurts

[@frayamortensen]

@@steveelam2310 totally! 💯

[@moparchris3827]

Stay on your path, be self sufficient. Have no fear, doubts, worries or anxieties. Keep seeking the Truth.

[@Medura-ku6nx]

Thank you dear lady I'm 70 yo. and dealing with managing the fourth third of my life. I know, only recently, that I'm what's called differently wired, as I spent my first 3 years alone, as mother's neglect and father's absence, which had definitely defined my perceptions during my life, all along. I was always sure that I'm the one who is wrong, defect, disconnected, etc. Lately I realized how strong I've become, and how far away from all norms I've walked all my life. Now I find myself in an almost complete solitude, which I like and adore. Your words, the first time for me to listen, are the words I had to hear, exactly on spot in my journey. Thank you, lady. 🙏

[@frayamortensen]

@@Medura-ku6nx most welcome! Thank you for being here 🌸

[@foxlife9366]

62 years. I’m an empath healer shaman. Was a police officer for 23 years. A school resource officer and a rebel through and through. Keeping people out of jail instead of putting them in. Survived my childhood 💜

[@frayamortensen]

Well it sounds like we have something in common! Former Probation Officer of 20 years in Canada with the same goal of community corrections and rehabilitation. Rebel to the core! lol. Cheers to you fellow lone wolf empath!

[@foxlife9366]

@ Cheers my friend 💜🙏🏿

[@Michael-ol9zn]

MUCH,MUCH RESPECT AND LOVE! If only the other 99% of cops had your "HEART"!💓🙏

[@stevelichtwark4259]

​@frayamortensen kaikoura New Zealand community of empaths it's going to be awesome, once I sort out the corrupt cops that sell meth and cover up a grape ring ,they are controlled by the satanic church here, sounds crazy 🤪 but ALL true

[@anthonybailey2010]

Mad respect, I love the police, none of my peers get it but that's their discomfort and fear to bear. Respect my man, word up.

[@noslraclwehttam]

Yes. This is me. I’m 49-year-old male INFJ. I feel like life just started. Every day is brand new. Every day is more amazing than the day before. It’s a good place to be in life. I’m very happy. I’m very grateful for KZbin and videos like this and such. I don’t know what I would do without this stuff. This is really empowering. it’s not that I don’t need validation. I just don’t need people to lie to me and bullshit me. I need clean information. You guys get it. I’ve been like this all my life but only for a couple years now that I realize I wasn’t alone. You know what I mean. It’s nice to know that there’s others out there. Keep your heads up and eyes open guys. All the best.

[@frayamortensen]

It’s great to know you’re not alone ❤️

[@HopelessAutistic]

Special education professionals need to take a watch of this video!

[@zipzip2565]

Well said! You're a wise woman. I'm 67 years old and have struggled with my need for aloneness all my life. But in the past 6 or 7 years, especially since retirement, I've finally been able to fully embrace it. My life is now like a constant meditation in a way. I've been able to learn and perceive so much more about myself and others. And yes, I believe that true lone wolves are an integral part of the evolution of this world.

[@frayamortensen]

I love the term “constant meditation” - I’m with you on that 💯

[@emotionalalchemyyoga]

This is fantastic! From one lone wolf to another, thank you for this.

[@frayamortensen]

Right on!! Thank you for tuning in to watch.

[@WarnerElliott]

Thank you! I found out I was neurodivergent in 1977, and a wise psychologist introduced me to Krishnamurti. Not long after that, the journey began. I'm now sixty-four; aging doesn't stop the majesty of consciousness' from getting better and better. Every day is magic and full of synchronicity and manifestation. People don't understand. I've learned not to care.

[@milade92]

I'm 32 rn, but I'm the same .found him at 27 and couldn't be happier ever since.

[@chrishicks8347]

I found the lone wolf life when I turned 5 but I was lucky I learned about different humans in Elizabethtown children's hospital. And the only person I have ever followed is Martin Luther King Nikola Tesla and Jesus. Now I can't stand Catholic Christianity and I deplore the fact that they nailed his ass to a cross. But I follow a man that was just kind. We can all believe we're lone Wolf but if you understand the real truth you're never alone. Everything you see everything you feel everything you experience is life and is also living creatures, so you are never alone. Holy Spirit of Humanity

[@chrishicks8347]

You want to evolve here you go you're ready. The Milky Way galaxy is a living creature that we call God. Enjoy. Holy Spirit of Humanity and yes that means you are inside of God the Catholic Christians even told you that with the story about the whale.

[@chrishicks8347]

Just like Jesus did. He often used to walk away from the group just to be alone. But then again Jesus understood what he was dealing with. I'll give you another idea people are afraid of aliens correct or afraid what aliens would do. Was God born on Earth? Because of the limited mindset that these humans do they don't even understand that the dark matter looking for is actually just gravity. Humans still need love and even when you're alone wolf you still have tons of love for everyone else you know that. My goal is to explain that everything is alive. Everything. Holy Spirit of Humanity

[@frayamortensen]

Indeed my friend to be alone is to be all-one. 🙏

[@bierstadt77]

Thank you for this. Your words went straight into my soul. We are out here and we are listening.🙏

[@frayamortensen]

Thank you for being here 🌸

[@TheBatNick2024]

This is exactly what I longed to hear. I was told for such a long time I was antisocial yet extremely empathic

[@tchby1031]

I finally now feel like someone actually understands me. You definitely earned a loyal subscriber today. Literally I really don't have words to explain how to feel now. That was deeply interesting and hit right at home and close to my heart. Thanks and God bless

[@frayamortensen]

Thank you for being here ☺️✌️

[@earthgoddess4779]

Thank you for this, truly. They always assume, "you think you're better" WHY OH WHY is that the first thought?!

[@jaykaslo]

Yep! I think this stems from a deep insecurity that a lot of (most?) people have. Weird how most everybody seems to think that life is a zero sum game. Like if you're UP, that means by default someone else must be put DOWN. Not true! I strive to thrive in every aspect of my life, and I encourage others to thrive as well.

[@k.c.sunshine1934]

I'm a 54 y.o. INFJ lone-wolf male. Experiencing being judged by *other* *"sleep-walking"* (i.e. mostly sub-conscious) *people* as a "loner" tells more about the person judging rather than the judged! I just silently laugh it off and shrug my shoulders. They can call me what they want - I will just keep following my own path.

[@frayamortensen]

It sounds like what you experience is the insecurity of others which is a foreign state for you. Glad to have you here ✌️☺️

[@Liescomefromtheright]

Your perception of me is a reflection of you.

[@djkillachris]

50 year old lone wolf infj. May I join yalls pack?

[@djkillachris]

Thanks so much for this video. I'm doing the same, hopefully I'll be better off financially soon but I'm at peace with it more 5han ever

[@jaykaslo]

47 y.o. INTJ/INFJ here. Following your own path is totally the way! Funny how so many friends/fam I've had over the years are not really "supportive" of this. It's like you seeking your own happiness is somehow a "threat" to them, or it seriously disturbs/bothers them. But yeah, it really does say more about their small-mindedness than it does about you. You do you!

[@ottmarschafer5713]

Great listening. Very mindful and logical view on cognitive and social evolution. As an Asperger with very late diagnose, it now possible for me to accept my life, without feeling alone and lonely because I fit in no pack. I am no alfa, but I tale care of my self. I am alone responsible for my happiness…no blame games, no guilt and no excuses. God and prayers and thankfulness are my companions. The pack is often too loud and delusional. Daily exercise, independence and self love are a my connection to other wolfs. Neuro-normal persons are not able to survive, because of their ignorance, to much comfort and the braintrain-syndrome.

[@frayamortensen]

I'm with you!!

[@milade92]

Thank you for speaking about us. The key is in going back to Innocence (the ability not to be hurt) . I learned that from Krishnamurti 💖

[@frayamortensen]

@@milade92 that is it right there!!!

[@RazielApollyon]

I was getting ready to call you a NWO stooge when I clicked on this, but you did a solid job defining terms and making a good argument- well done. I'm already going full-out on what you're describing, and it worries people a bit, so I'm a little lonely. I don't need someone tied to my hip, but it'd be nice to have a pal to go out to dinner with once in a while or something- it was fine until my wife died, now I don't really know how to make new friends. I need a smaller house, though- One guy with a couple of dogs doesn't need four bedrooms. Yeah... I went to a three-day long concert festival alone this summer... the reality is that I care about the music more than I do companionship.

[@frayamortensen]

I totally get that! (About the music vs the company). Maybe you’ll sell your house and move into a walkable community where you can be a “regular” that runs into other regulars. If you know what I mean. Thank you for your candour regarding the assumption you made about me… and how you ended up resonating with what I said

[@yellowquantum4240]

I was a pro drummer in Miami in 1980s , my playing was so busy at times incomprehensible . Today I drum for me and the universe , now it is easy and fun. My mindfulness no one else.❤

[@jimicunningable]

I never heard the like from another musician! I am infinitely better guitarist since becoming welcome in my own head. Great observation.

[@ionageman]

We are highly sensitive people .. we observe the world .. our society changes with technology , humanity itself hasn’t changed in 1000’s of years .. respect , trust , love . Damn it was a hard journey to become myself .

[@robertholland7558]

Never alone, there is always me, myself, I, and all the voices in my head.

[@randybackgammon890]

Sounds like alone to me

[@robertholland7558]

@ sounds? I don’t need others to entertain me, like others do, and that is true loneliness!

[@randybackgammon890]

@@robertholland7558 fair enough.I only said it sounded alone to/for me.Everyome must have there own recipe for happiness✌️

[@stanfen]

Like the voices in my head, from life experiance it's the only voice you can trust.. when and if you can't trust the inner voices you are broken and need to fix yourself..

[@everythingisvibration]

Hey, thought the same as you and it was great for a long time. Whats Sucks is when your at the End and its still just you.

[@sailormike]

Excellent points Fraya!! I left the pack years ago and from time to time have to go back and get a JOB... hate it, only do it until the cash flow issues change and then leave the pack again. I would rather be independently poor thank you. It was a lovely day outside here getting the homestead ready for winter.

[@frayamortensen]

Same! I really don't want to go back to the 9-5, I don't even know what I would do out there!! The weather has been superb!! Can't wait for a cold snowy winter to visit next ☺✌

[@bshymko1]

Mike! My brother! If I didn't know better I'd think your words were typed from my own keyboard. Fraya, thanks for posting the vid. Helped crystallize some ideas that have been swirling within the ether of my soul..

[@Theowlhawk]

Beautiful ❤ When you are with yourself, your not alone. Being in nature, is amazing, magical, even spending time with a pet , observing, engaging with them, they are so in tune, so connected to their senses ❤

[@FlowWithRobin]

I want to cry watching this! 🥹🥹Thank you for making this video 💗🥹🙏🏼

[@frayamortensen]

Awww it’s my pleasure. Thank you so much for being here for it and sharing your response 🙏🏼

[@markferguson3745]

When I was still a young teen, I read Hermann Hesse's Steppenwolf, - and I instantly recognized my future. There is nothing desirable, or heroic, or anything a young self saw as romantic or tragic; I haven't always been necessarily comfortable with this realization, but after a half century walking the earth, everything has come full circle once again. Evolution is an interesting topic in light of current Western politics.In the absence of outside direction, I think many have embraced a ultimately hopeless Post Modern approach in the name of social advancement, - namely Progressivism.I could write a book here about all the problems that I clearly observe with such mindsets, but I'd suggest most obviously that in current context and practice that it's a slippery slope straight to a joyless dystopian nightmare.So I am thankful that it has most recently taken what will likely be a death blow, if not just a substantial set back. Be careful what you wish for, and even more circumspect in what you adopt as ideas that seem to suit your current state of alienation and confusion.Learn how to think before you take on mind sets or causes that you likely don't understand the broader ramifications of.

[@tomwicks8953]

Your energy,enthusiasm and presence is uplifting ❤ Thank you for posting!

[@frayamortensen]

Absolutely! Thank you for watching 🙏🏼

[@jaykaslo]

Absolutely loved this. Resonated with me on so many levels. I grew up as a 1st generation American (son of Indian immigrants), army brat, and preacher's kid... which meant, we were constantly moving around every 3 or so years so I had to continually adapt to new environments -- environments where I didn't naturally belong. I had to cling to the religion I was raised with, along with military culture, and my parents/sister (these were the only "consistencies" in my life no matter where we relocated to). I always felt like an alien observing these rotating environments, figuring out how others acted and what I needed to do to conform -- play along to get along. I managed decently, and I look back at it all now as a valuable "skill" I've developed, but in recent years it's like I've left ALL of this behind in order to seek and embrace my own path in life. The signs were always there, and the development/evolution process was always occurring, whether I consciously realized it or not. (Hindsight really is 20/20!) But yeah, the "lone wolf empath", that does in large part sum up who I am today and how I live my life. I could go on and on about all this, but just wanted to say thanks for making this video... great start to my day, and I'm going to save this to rewatch periodically as a good reminder to be on my merry way and not slip back into ways of conformity. By the way, I've started a new podcast that I'd love to have you on as a guest. Granted, it's centered around creativity and productivity, but I think a lot of what you said in this video would resonate with my audience, since I'm always trying to encourage people to think for themselves and embrace more creativity in their lives in whatever shape or form that may take. If you'd be interested in being on, lemme know! Cheers, Jay.

[@eternallyborn]

I feel so understood through watching your videos. Thank you! 🙏🏿 This found me at a good time.

[@frayamortensen]

I'm so happy it landed in your path! 🙏

[@TheGreatAwakening160]

I love you. Thank you. Practice telling your stories without telling people how hard or easy things are. These may be your observations, but they can program people to believe in the difficulty, or ease of things. Each individual will have their experience without the need for a judgement, or expectation. Wonderful job. Love you and thank you.

[@malinkywoos]

Super excited to come upon this. Integrates yet cuts through all the pathologising of personality disorders and attachment theories . I guess that's where the backlash comes in. Psychology of the pack. This, and viewers' comments, really nourishes a vision of what security in one self looks and feels like. Thank you x

[@frayamortensen]

100% I’m so glad this video found you and you’re so right about the comments. It’s absolutely refreshing to read 🙏🏼 Thank you for being here for it and offering your support.

[@nikht0]

“YOU’RE DOING IT WRONG!” If I had a dollar for every time I did something a new way, and somebody told me that, thinking there’s only one way! Thanks for the uplifting video.

[@frayamortensen]

It is my pleasure! Thank you for being here to watch it ✌️☺️

[@nikht0]

@@frayamortensen I just remembered the saying is actually "If I had a nickel.." Inflation eh.

[@Sofu1970]

Hi. Thanks for this. You’re describing me, perfectly. I really needed to hear this 30 years ago. Still, grateful to hear it now. I subscribed. Anxious to hear more. Cheering for your success! 😊👍🏼

[@frayamortensen]

oh i know! I'm excited for you to hear more too. You're definitely gonna wanna watch all the videos in this Tales of a Lone Wolf playlist!! 🙏☺️ Thank you for being here.

[@michaelmcdonald4021]

"The destination I seek has no arrival, no fortune or fame just friendly revival. My dreams of desire became a frustration, this struggle of life has found its cessation. I've come to the point that I see tee illusion, this , lacking, acquiring a constant confusion. I relax and watch this play called life, the desirous pleasures of quarrels and strife. I've found to seek, that to seek is lost, stay clear of this action whatever the cost. Be content with one's lot of this riddle is true, no more selfish desires and this is my cue. Possessions in life seem so trivial to me, no longer in bondage my soul is set free. So what is my purpose and do I have one? Enjoy life in the moment to love just for the fun 😊. "Personal poem written in prison many years ago. Have a blessed day lone wolves...

[@thetruther954]

I accept you. Don’t start falling out with yourself as my Grandpa would say. Don’t erase all the gain it took you to get here, just to lose again.

[@frayamortensen]

i love this comment. thank you for sharing the wisdom of your grandpa 🥰🥰🥰

[@ajhbrady]

Bravo! We need more people like you talking about this very important message. God Bless You! You are beautiful, well spoken, and I believe you make a great teacher. 🙏

[@frayamortensen]

Thank you so much!! I appreciate your feedback as I keep sharing these thoughts in hopes that others like you will be able to listen ✌️☺️

[@carlaplotner]

YES! Thank you for this! Very validating! I just used the word "evolution" today and this is confirmation!

[@frayamortensen]

Right on! 💯

[@AngelaLanders-r6o]

I am so thankful you made this videos. I thought I was the only one. Keep making videos. You are helping.me understand and inspiring me.

[@frayamortensen]

You are so welcome! You got this 🙌

[@INFP-Insights]

Refreshingly articulate and intelligent. Sovereign Lone Wolf Empaths, anyone? 🙂

[@frayamortensen]

@@INFP-Insights here here 🙌

[@antieau333]

Preach Sister Fraya, I loved this video, and I like all your videos. I am just like you and think and live in this world more happy and disconnected from what is considered the social norm. From one Lone Wolf Empath to another, I am sending positive energy and Love. Close your eyes, take a deep breath. Can you feel it? Thank you for the great content. Keep them coming!

[@Liescomefromtheright]

2:21 nails it. This is precisely how I came to learn far quicker than many of my fellow classmates in the earlier years. Observation, discernment, and integration.

[@King_of_Sofa]

That's totally me!! A lone wolf empath :)

[@frayamortensen]

@@King_of_Sofa yes! You got it 🙌

[@TheBatNick2024]

This! As a 50 year old lone wolf I feel seen and understood. Thank you!

[@reemsaif3105]

I love your video. It explains the importance of being a lone wolf and intergration with self and others. Respect ❤

[@randymccormack4259]

Totally alone for my whole life.

[@ezazkhan4233]

im empath whole life no boundaries

[@DamyanTenev]

Same.i am numb now.emotionaly neglected from birth

[@ezazkhan4233]

@@randymccormack4259 right bro

[@starmelodyelizabethb7380]

Im on the spectrum and aspies I've been used to being a lone Wolf for as long as i can remember. Im a proud Lone Wolf.

[@frayamortensen]

Here here 🙌

[@brianmeen2158]

I’m a lone wolf now out of necessity. I’m on the spectrum and my social battery is so small at this point. I just can’t do the small talk as much anymore . I need so much time away from people

[@GregSkalowski]

very good stuff!!! thank You Fraya!..... ps. this is just continues to get better as you keep on listening.

[@frayamortensen]

I have so many thoughts in this video and it's not until after the 8 minute mark does it go deeper. Thank you for sticking around long enough to listen to the whole thing ✌️

[@GregSkalowski]

@@frayamortensen Fraya.., this video is an entire book in itself...

[@poesiarica]

People love to say "We are a community beings... and them if you turn to isolation you are wrong" that stuff... that's a big lie! Community is great but if you don't follow your authenticity it's like the same old pattern. Thanks for this beautiful video! 🙏

[@frayamortensen]

most welcome 🙏

[@TheTektronik]

Most people are incapable of enduring the pain of change and transformation so they numb themselves by going to the default setting that their peers laid out for them because it is extremely risky.

[@crystalsofthemoonuk]

I've been subscribed for a while, but for some reason, this video resonated with me the most 💜 Thank you

[@frayamortensen]

Awesome! Any particular aspect of what I said, or just the whole thing in general ?

[@crystalsofthemoonuk]

@frayamortensen I always find multiple aspects that I relate to in your videos, but this time, it was the whole video! It's just wonderful feeling understood and seen. 💜

[@frayamortensen]

@ awww that’s so great to hear Crystal! I hope you’ll be able to check out Episode 1 of The Fraya Show on Sunday !! Theme is “aloneness” not loneliness ☺️✌️

[@crystalsofthemoonuk]

@frayamortensen Will do! Thank you 💜 😊

[@gt8588]

At age 48 I am now happy in the realisation of how this video describes how I know my self. Have had now about 10 years of progress on insight of being this social lone wolf person. But having focused on my kids, my self, work and creating the life I want, I still long for a lasting relationship. But need to meet someone who also is open for other drivers in life than normal matrix thinking and someone who can look at them self or the world in an updated view of things. This makes it a little harder to find the one who the lone wolf in me can run long term with.

[@brucehartnell1475]

VERY inspiring and informative video. It makes me think of the parallels between my son’s aspergers and my life, and when you said neurodivergence, it struck a bell in my head. I grew up in a time before my shyness was given that diagnosis. But I see a ton of parallels between myself and him. I grew to embrace it, and he’s still struggling. This video helps a LOT.

[@frayamortensen]

@@brucehartnell1475 and he will struggle because that’s part of the growth process the lone wolf has to endure. Normalize it and celebrate it, as hard as it is it’s also necessary. Your son doesn’t yet know he’s a lone wolf but you do. Ps. Autism is genetic so of course you’ve likely got a touch (or more) of the tism. 😉

[@brucehartnell1475]

@ He’s 23 now. Highly intelligent and a very gifted writer, but I worry that his shyness is crushing to him at times. Thank you for your insights. They are very valuable and helpful to me

[@brucehartnell1475]

@@frayamortensen I took your comment about the genetic aspect of “ism” to heart. I’d like to expand on my story to you if you’re interested. It spans generations. If this is an overreach in this platform , ok. But you hit the nail on the head

[@sonny1451]

Greetings from Sweden! Thank you Fraya! As a little kid when my friends came knocking on the door I said to my mother, tell them Im not home, and then I would go out on my own in the woods, looking at birds, squirrels and play by my self with my rich inner life and fantasy. I never found myself belonging to any pack. Today I live in a cottage in the woods, I don't have any friends except for those I have at work, but I don't see them outside work. Im happy living this way, I do what I want and I do it the way I want. I never liked when other people have told me how to be, how to act, how to think, so I love my lonely life, but not lonely because I have a rich life within myself 😊

[@frayamortensen]

Beautiful! Cheers to our rich inner worlds that we enjoy alone 🌼

[@bryanhuseboe539]

Aren't orangutans the most genetically similar primates to humans? They aren't very social either.

[@speciallion1135]

Eloquently projected, Fraya. As always. I get labelled as a ‘leader’ - I hate it & I am not. The trouble is; people follow me, because of the enigma. I was once described as a force of nature……interesting concept, I thought. Then, the other day, I watched a teaching by Elkhart Tolle & he described this ‘force of nature’ as a ‘Frequency keeper’ or something like that. Anyway, I don’t do labels, I know who I AM. Namaste 🙏

[@frayamortensen]

indeed!! the frequency keeper is a keeper of their own life force energy and knows the external forces that will deplete and diminish it. We must not be diminished or demeaned to be less than who we are! Once found, keep it as it sounds like you have. The light in me acknowledges the light in you. 🙏

[@dhansix]

Beautiful and very true🙏❣️ Thank You

[@lisapotter3052]

Good one, thank you 🌸💕 Entering the age of Aquarius amplifies individualism and innovation and will turn current ‘education’ systems upside down ❤️💕🌸

[@timheiler]

Powerful stuff, very clear. Thnaks so much. 🤝🙏

[@alaskansurvivalist4874]

I can relate I'm a Sigma INFJ who moved to Alaska a few years back. Then heard about it and realized that I was on the hero's journey as well. Sounds like you're describing me very accurately. I've been preaching for quite a while now that I love the diversity of the world it makes it fun and as long as someone is not a threat to me or interfering with the free will others then I have no problem with them. Obviously a parent is going to need to guide their child away from danger while encouraging their creativity and individuality. I've considered constructing a community. I'll let you know when I get it together in case you have suggestions. Thank you for making this video.

[@frayamortensen]

Alaska is an amazing place to be a hero’s journey. I wish you the best of luck with your community.

[@SiddityPrincess]

Omg we are definitely living the same life as someone with the same exact circumstances I promise I’m the happiest I’ve ever been! It’s such an incredible feeling! Mindful living is indeed where it’s at! Thank you for sharing.

[@frayamortensen]

That’s Amazing! I’d love to have you join me in my next Mindfulness group in January! Imagine hanging out with a bunch of lone wolves sharing their practice of mindfulness together. Epic 🤘

[@brewmaster-bq7gu]

These wolves you speak of know their in a blizzard and like all storms balance will be restored.

[@hollyandstelladoodle8748]

I like the overall message here. ❤ I disagree about not being social to challenge your sense of self. I have found it beneficial to be more social due to being raised poorly. There were some really horrific things I had to unlearn fast to understand how wrong my parents were and to grow into a healthier human. I raised my son to be an individual who grasps how to manage social situations for opportunities to better himself and those around him. He is developing into a wonderful lone wolf.

[@frayamortensen]

You’re absolutely right, it’s about finding the balance and not letting it consume you. 🙏🏼

[@remnantone3778]

Excellent presentation [SUBSCRIBED!] I AM in the exact same "state" as you are..........I Love to hear this. Keep doing exactly what You are doing and keep "Being" of who You are. A beautiful being with "Words" that I needed to hear. It's a confirmation for Me. GOD Bless You, My Sister!

[@frayamortensen]

Welcome! Sending warm wishes your way my friend.

[@scottmirly6628]

I've found the ability to be, joyfully alone allows me to truely interact with others much more humanely. Good video, thanks.

[@robertc801]

I'm a lone wolf :D I love this, I'm 37 and have been in corporate world since 20. Lately I've been having a STRONG urge to make some big changes, specifically relating to my 9-5. I'm all but checked out in that office, I can't take it any longer. I'm happiest hiking on a trail or surfing (lone wolf). Question, I assume this path is without romance? I have a girlfriend currently, and that, too, is under scrutiny for change.

[@Changeworld408]

Walk your walk, regrets from the dying are never. I wished i would have worked more!❤

[@frayamortensen]

The true romance is the one that unfolds within yourself. That is yours to discover my friend. ✌️☺️

[@DustinMontgomeryGoodwin-x6m]

The only answers when traveling this path orally found within... I'm learning and experiencing titanic responsibility of transmitting Creative Energy because of the consequences of misdirected / regressive type energy... Like Dust In The Wind ❤ Yes bringing back the relevance and importance of true self I love your channel and I love everything about your message and your energy. ❤

[@frayamortensen]

Thank you so much 🙏🏼 Dust in the wind…. Great tune , that’s the vibe

[@outlawphilosopher7494]

It's Saturday morning and the KZbin algorithm found this video for me. Hummm, what else was I studying that got me here? The condensed wisdom and mile high perspective caught me by surprise. So many false guru's but you Fraya have really got your mind to a place of helping others. Sounds like me if I was articulate enough to share on camera. Keep it up!!!

[@frayamortensen]

Ah hah!! Thank you 🙏🏼 by helping myself It’s a bonus if it also helps others. Glad the algorithm found this video for you and thank you for being here to receive it

[@123DizzyDj]

Omg yes, yes and yes ❤ I feel myself burning out. My whole life I've felt so out of place, feeling disconnected from others and alone when surrounded by people. Suffering from negative emotions. You have shed so much light on my situation with your wisdom fraya, I feel like my inner child has finally been recognised by like a real-life goddess or something (seriously) 😂. thank you so much again 😊❤❤❤

[@frayamortensen]

Absolutely! I'm so glad to hear that you've been heard and seen by what I've expressed in my video 🥰✌️. I'm sure you'll gain even more recognition from the other videos in the Tales of The Lone Wolf playlist! (I might even recommend a fairly recent upload "missing the red flags" for you as I think it might help to shed a little more light - you'll have to let me know what you think Dizzy D! (dj) 😎🙌

[@123DizzyDj]

Haha Dizzy D, I love it 😂 (handle name i forget to change from when i was young 😂), anyway I've seen some of your recommended videos, and they're so good fraya. It hurts me to know that we live in a world where heartfelt relationships are rare and people form connections through needs derived from their traumas rather than what they actually want. Which is hardly ever known 😅. I've learnt to turn inwards realising that other people are just aspects of myself that need integrating. Still searching for my authentic self and thinking there might be something wrong with me, but I'll just say that your videos give me so much clarity and support, words cannot even describe how grateful I am, super looking forward to watching more of your vids👍❤ 😊

[@anne.christine]

Thank you! I needed to hear this!!

[@thelostsoulwanderer]

Getting rid of all social media permanently FEELS wonderful!!

[@F1986R]

Hey, great video. The flow of info and the smooth presentation combined to make this, usually bland topic, into a more enjoyable explanation or exploration of the discovery journey of one's true unique self.

[@frayamortensen]

@@F1986R thank you Maxime. Didn’t know it was a bland topic otherwise thank you for watching and giving me your valuable feedback. Much respect 🙏🏼

[@F1986R]

@frayamortensen Hey there, well it is in general, at least that's how I understand the use of the word as I'm not a native English speaker. I think it means uninteresting or unexciting. Maybe it isn't meant to be used to describe ideas. I obviously don't think that the topic is actually boring. But in general, most people aren't interested in philosophical discussions. Or in any kind of deep thinking about any topic. People are more superficial because that's what society agrees to be a measure of one's value. Most people use money, external beauty, possessions, and other similarly superficial things as metrics to measure the value of others. This also explains why we don't like deep thinking or serious discussions. If you value others based on superficial metrics, then your values are superficial. I actually find it funny that people think it's even possible to have a society with virtuous morals while also having the most superficial traits in people as a measure of value. So, instead of integrity, bravery, and fairness, we have beauty, wealth, and popularity. A twisted way for how to value people. What further complicates this mattet is that they're not always incorrect measures. Sometimes, they do reflect the really important values that we should seek, but not always. They're important but not the most important things to value, and they're easy to measure and advertise. A very long and bland explanation for why the topic is bland : ) It's definitely not, but in general, most people view it this way. So you succeeded in making it a more enjoyable experience even to people who aren't interested in philosophical discussions. Just a guess, maybe I'm wrong, and I'm saying this because I myself like it, but you definitely presented it well.

[@frayamortensen]

@ thank you for the clarification! Yes I am a deeply philosophical person without even realizing that’s what I’m doing, it’s just who I am… so what I add to it makes it into a little art piece if you will and the visual that stems from what I’m saying from my own perspective I’m sure adds to the overall impact.

[@iAmNothingness]

Thank you for your explanation. I always felt like my way of expression emotions and love (especially) was the norm. I felt like everyone was capable of feeling this deeply. My awaking was a very hard lesson. I always refuse to let the world change me. Yes i did try to go back to the "pack." I thought something is wrong with me. I couldn't accept the act that i was so happy when being by myself. Going into nature, hiking, drawing and just be. I started to realize that i had to let go of that "something's wrong with me, i need others to be happy." Nothing is wrong me. A lot is wrong with the world. The world is splitting. One side is deeply feeling. The other side feels cold, like machines. They function but can't feel deeply. Their way of feeling, feels to me like an illusionary way of feeling. Just in the past couple years i questioned myself more often if i am neuro-divergent. When going for walks with others i noticed how they do not see small details in the world. Small bugs, beautiful butterflies and bird chirping. They don't look at trees and think they are beautiful. They are just mindlessly walking to get some "cardio." Which is baffling to me. The worst about this all is that the new wave of "spiritualism" is just a trend. People think they are spiritual but never truly just are. They think they are. While in reality you can't think you are. You just are. Trying to sort through a lot of people i realized it's wiser to stay alone than losing myself in their world ever again.

[@frayamortensen]

@@iAmNothingness so much truth here ✌️☺️

[@WakeUp-p6h]

Excellent video! You video/channel just came up in my feed and I'm glad that it did! Love your outlook on life and many of the points you made really resonated with me for the last 6 years!(Except I'm a man so societal pressures to "conform" are even more so sadly!) - I like your outlook and way of thinking! Just subscribed! 👍🏻

[@frayamortensen]

Awesome and Thank you. 🙏 You'd be surprised as a woman how strong societal pressures are to "conform" as well such as to getting married, having a child, looking pretty, being on your best behaviour, not making any mistakes, being perfect. Now it's not a gender thing, but something of general conformity that we've all been tricked into.

[@qwertyqwert2772]

HELL YES!!!!!!!!!!! I freaking love this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! this is exactly it!!!

[@frayamortensen]

Yaaaassss!!!!! 🙌

[@jmackb650]

Great vid., yeah, the difference between changing and evolving, I get that, that is me. You make so much sense about all of it. Thanks for the talk.

[@frayamortensen]

Most welcome and thank you for taking the time to listen ☺️✌️

[@joeimarie1215]

OK, so I finally meet somebody that thinks like me, but you filled in some gaps or apparently gave me the validation that I need because yes, I am working out of the old programming but great job. I will be following you and I will be donating.

[@frayamortensen]

@@joeimarie1215 thank you and thank you for being here. ☺️✌️

[@pezzysquad]

Amen keep going I’m fighting with you.

[@darrentobias2047]

A Path Well Known - A Way Of Life - 61 Years Old Loving Life Alone - I Do Socialize When Need Be - Own My Own Business And Work Alone - Retiring Soon Alone - Feeling Good.

[@archiehendricks6093]

Never seen self as lone, but felt alone , but at peace with it, and donot need a narcissist around period.

[@BobMinelli]

Interesting. Thank you. ✌ PS: a very beautiful, crisp voice.

[@Gary_J_Meade_55]

Competition and comparison in my opinion is a destructive force. There is nothing more frustrating to me than to see no value in the old ways of living while being endlessly stuck in living situations with people who do. I do not have the resources to live alone but if I did, what I would build would baffle people who are stuck in the past. God gave me great gifts and I pray that there will come a time and place where the things that bring me joy can become my life. I wish I had what has clearly begun to flourish within you. I don't know what neuro-divergent means but I have felt like Rain Man my whole life in this world. 54 years old and I feel like a 20 year old and an 80 year old at the same time. Feeling stuck for sure.

[@keen2461]

Excellent rant. Thanks for sharing those insightful thoughts.

[@PsychokoreUndergroundRap]

"Either you're with me, or against me" is the current populous mantra. Being neutral and understanding towards the duality is scoffed at. It is what it is.

[@mikejarrells431]

Don't settle. Break the cycle. Rebel. We got this. Let's go! 😉

[@frayamortensen]

@@mikejarrells431 absolutely 💯

[@Job.Well.Done_01]

What if you tried to break the cycle, but you chose people along the way who interfered with that?

[@mikejarrells431]

@Job.Well.Done_01 Don't settle (distance yourself).

[@walkurehauk9415]

I don't follow... been learning in secret for decades... I will help people, but really, for the most part, I dislike their company. I hate explaining everything again and again. Makes me tired. Thus, alone. I only have so much patience, and thus, will do my best to express myself better and better in art and culture.

[@frayamortensen]

that makes sense -- once you find yourself explaining things over and over you're only explaining it for yourself at that point. Might as well go out there and do something creative instead. 🙏

[@levisnotjeans]

I try to get everyone with the survival bias to think about and imagine a thrival version, Thrivalism

[@SHARPOETRY]

Thank you! Love you for this! 🤍

[@frayamortensen]

You are so welcome 🙏🏼

[@Yourlovebugboo]

This is incredible!

[@unknownfilmmaker777]

I'm nearly 54 and as I reflect on my life I realize how many people knew me better than I knew myself. So many conversations and things people said (I have a great memory) all the way back to elementary school indicated that others instinctively knew I was the lone wolf type before I ever had any clue that was even a thing. I had great struggles in life, not realizing I was not being true to myself, trying to fit in. I finally said to hell with it, I am going to be my own, uncompromising crazy self (I do music, art and film) instead of twisting myself into a pretzel to fit in and suddenly everything worked out and made sense.

[@frayamortensen]

@@unknownfilmmaker777 I’m so happy to hear that! When did you finally say “to hell with it” ?

[@unknownfilmmaker777]

@@frayamortensen I went back to school to finish my degree when I was about 40 and about halfway through I hit a wall. It was the first class where we were supposed to make a short film and they told us we were using a new story structure, essentially throwing out all we had learned thus far. I asked, "What is this? Some structure invented by Sydney Lumet or some other respected filmmaker?" They replied, "Oh, no, it's just something someone on the staff came up with last weekend." So I said, "No, I am not spending my time and money on something "someone on the staff came up with"." I went to the program director and he recommended I finish the degree in liberal arts, where I could do what I wanted. The only catch was, it was a ton more work. I had to devise my own curriculum, get it approved by the college as well as the department heads of each different college (Communication, Architecture, Digital Media etc) and then convince different faculty to take me on in a one-on-one situation for every single "class". I did all this. Then, I finished by completing an entire full-time semester in summer school, another thing for which I had to get approval, again from all the aforementioned. The work I did was the development, writing and partial preproduction and design of a feature-length film, which I did entirely by myself: writing, directing (myself), producing, preproduction, production design, wardrobe, cinematography, camera motion control, visual effects, sound design, editing, music composition and production, promotion/web design/distribution, all executed to completion and screened at a local theater. It's basically a zero-budget contemplative arthouse film, and it looks like it, but it is well-made for what it is and I learned enough to make something more accessible in the future. Since then I have also escaped from belonging to one music genre or another (from my industrial days in the 90s) and have found my voice there as well as in visual art. I tried working my way into the Hollywood system but that did not work, naturally, which is for the best; I am completely capable of doing my own thing my own way.

[@frayamortensen]

@@unknownfilmmaker777 quite the journey. Thank you for sharing 🙌

[@dennisoverholts8396]

You are so refreshing, ❤

[@frayamortensen]

Thanks for being here for it Dennis!

[@CircumlunarFeasibility]

good, because i am going to nonconform and not get up and start dancing. Also, be aware that change does not mean better, there are many paths to evolutionary dead ends; things are the way they are because it worked. When you are trying to evolve, i suggest you do it with an extremely heavy dose of humility.

[@frayamortensen]

Yes, change does not necessarily mean better. Change is not linear and can lead to dead ends but that’s all part of the journey.

[@Concepts_Space]

watched this vid at the perfect moment. you also uploaded it at the perfect moment. good stuff, Fraya

[@frayamortensen]

It was meant to be 🙏

[@Concepts_Space]

@@frayamortensen I think I'm where you are, and I bet you've got some really cool notes. I know I do. 😎

[@frayamortensen]

I sure do! Even wrote a whole book about it. “Diary of a lone Wolf” on Amazon ☺️✌️

[@Concepts_Space]

@@frayamortensen Does it mention emulating consciousness? Hehe.. Think all of us got different pieces, to an extent. I think that's what Jung learned to do; emulate archetypes to converse with.

[@frayamortensen]

@ I’m not sure 🤔

[@carmenlucaciu2617]

Thank you ❤Shine On Everyone!!! Best wishes to All!!!

[@PlaAwa]

i'm not even halfway thru yet but i had to say wow, this is so welcome!

[@frayamortensen]

Amazing!!! Thank you for dropping in to share ☺️✌️

[@Tom-yy9xj]

Very informative and well done !

[@frayamortensen]

Thanks! Glad you enjoyed it!

[@williamgranneman9403]

I have always accepted myself as an ever changing creator

[@Wizard_of_the_North]

Interesting Fraya...nice to meet you. Subscribed

[@frayamortensen]

Welcome Wizard of the North! A pleasure to have you here 😎✌️

[@hollyharte7831]

Spot on. Thank God for this video 🙏🏼🙌

[@frayamortensen]

Glad it was helpful!

[@NoahWolf-s9z]

This is incredibly accurate. I want to add that I learned recently that my condition is most likely created by satanic ritual abuse. I know it sounds dark because it is. They beat you within an inch of your life. I had heard of it through Jenna Forrest as it's part of her story. I didn't know it was part of mine. I think as sad as it is, we need to start looking at this potential connection. It's known that these rituals create someone who is easily controlled through triggers which my family was obviously aware of. Something I'm trying to come to terms with as I assimilate my story accordingly. I'm 58 and finally getting the real answers. I need your voice. You are saying things so clearly that I can only demonstrate. Thank Gog you showed up.

[@NoahWolf-s9z]

Just wanted to add that I've been isolated for 8 years and all I care about is breaking the cycles and getting closer to God. I was annointed in 2010.

[@dcktater7847]

"Humans are social creatures"

[@frayamortensen]

@@dcktater7847 isn’t it crazy!!!!

[@frankdelgado9360]

Now your talking my language. Oh your good well I'll be happy to compare notes, always looking for fresh path ideas. As for myself everything in this world doesn't work for me so I have be insanely creative. Welcome to the pack.

[@frayamortensen]

Creativity is the best part!!

[@spacespike6659]

Aren't current systems designed to prevent individuals from becoming fully self-reliant? If systems are transitioning engineered by their architects, will they allow it to bypass the foundational levels of Maslow's hierarchy of needs and shift upwards towards evolution if not self-actualization , wouldn't this threaten the current exchange of time and value in the participation and contribution economy? How does a lone individual, striving for a better path for themselves and others, navigate such a situation? It feels like being adrift at sea, a small fish in the vast ocean of existence. What are your thoughts on this? genuinely curious! A great video!!